Last night, VH1 premiered the music video for Monica Brown and Brandy's lackluster duet "It All Belongs To Me". Veteran director Chris Robinson doesn't stray far from the song's concept of 2 fabulously wealthy women who give their men everything they could ever want -- only to take it all back when they find out their men cheated on them.

"It All Belongs To Me" was written by Hip Hop producer of the moment, Rico Love. The song, with its socially conscious lyrics about Facebook and Twitter, is the wrong vehicle for Monica's powerhouse vocals. It's obvious that Monica toned down her vocals so she wouldn't overpower Brandy's.

And what kind of message does this video send to their young fans? In the video, the roles of women and men have been switched. And now women are the bread winners who lavish gifts on their men, including jewelry, clothing, and expensive cars -- all of which are used by their men to impress other women.

  • lovezoe

    Not a fan of the song. Waiting for the topic to change.

  • http://twitter.com/candyrayne215 spongebobfan

    as id be showering a nicca with gifts anyway(to that extent) :coffee: they look nice tho

  • Anna

    lovezoe says:

    Not a fan of the song. Waiting for the topic to change.

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    I want info on Paula Deen.

  • http://i35.tinypic.com/ei1sht.jpg Mother Jefferson

    Well, they look really good in the video. Is that Brandy's real hair? We aint seen that since The Boy Is Mine :coffee:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    They both look beautiful but the song has to grow on me :coffee: They look gorgeous in this video though

  • lovezoe

    @Anna- I saw that. I also heard hat her accent was fake as all get out.

  • ryand91

    The song is okay. Nice to see Brandy back on the scene.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    They look good. :shrugs:

  • https://twitter.com/Mizz_Dallas mizzdallas

    aint no way I’m buying dudes gift that’s a :nono: ... anyway doe, how the hail you figure Monica had toned down her voice for brandy, the song imo is wack but don’t get it twisted brandy runs are kill mo 1,2 gospel run!! They both look great!!

  • MRSJONESK

    And what kind of message does this video send to their young fans?
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    The same damn message Beyonce sent with her song "Irreplaceable"

  • Genia

    So is this anoter anthem to the low budget men BRandy attracts...now she want her stuff back and she bringing monica as back up? :coffee: I want them to go back to fighting..perhaps a song where monica is telling Brandy she a "Non-M'f*ing FACTOR BYTCH" and Brandy's come back could be "I'm rich REALLY REALLY Rich"

  • waterlily_76

    And what kind of message does this video send to their young fans? In the video, the roles of women and men have been switched. And now women are the bread winners who lavish gifts on their men, including jewelry, clothing, and expensive cars — all of which are used by their men to impress other women.

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    This is like Beyonce's "Irreplaceable" and LaToya's "Regret" - Opportunists will take and take as long as you are willing to give and accept a fall sense of security in your "purchase"..

  • lady_cn

    They both look gorgeous, but the song is just ok. I just can't dig a song about a woman buying all that chit for her man and singing about it. :shrugs:

  • NaijaGal

    @Anna just heard recently that Paul Deen carried on a 10 year affair with a married man...wtf is up with her lately...she's doing the most...if she don't sit her overly southern geriatric arse down somewhere

  • Shuga Honey

    speaking of wigs and what not.....did this bish Tammi have the audacity to talk about somebody's bad weave and bad clothes?? did that really happen on my tv that i paid good money for?? the nerve!

  • lady_cn

    Mother Jefferson says:

    Is that Brandy’s real hair?
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    :rofl:

    No ma'am. :nono:

  • prynsexxx

    LOL at the pic of them standing by the car and then it blowing up. I guess I should go watch the video to see what it's all about, huh? LOL

  • I Go There

    Oh damn... we finna get into woman buying dudes stuff
    This shait bout to get crazy.

  • lovezoe

    Shuga Honey says:

    speaking of wigs and what not…..did this bish Tammi have the audacity to talk about somebody’s bad weave and bad clothes?? did that really happen on my tv that i paid good money for?? the nerve!
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    VH1 has really upgraded Tami. You see that apartment they leased for her?

  • NaijaGal

    Brandy has always had a soothing voice...every true singer doesn't need to yell and belt out every note

  • NaijaGal

    @Shuga say it again...I was like when did Tami become an image consultant :huh: you just finally got a decent weave and decent clothes but now you wanna clown, Lawd

  • lovezoe

    Mother Jefferson says:

    Well, they look really good in the video. Is that Brandy’s real hair?
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    We haven't seen her real hair since Thea.

  • Flawless

    This song grew on me a little bit, but they can do better than this :coffee:

  • Shuga Honey

    the mere mention of paula deen makes me want some cheese grits

    :popcorn: <---really cheese grits

  • http://mistariesworld.blogspot.com mistarie

    Mother Jefferson Says:

    Is that Brandy’s real hair?
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    Nope. Brandy wears wigs. She doesn't have that much hair around her edges. Those braids pulled her shyt back like a receding hairline.

    Anywho, I loved the video. They both looked amazing. I didn't like Brandy's wide legged Quarterback stance at the end, but she looked fab nonetheless. And for the record, Brandy's vocals ain't nothing to sneeze at. That girl can hit high notes and runs with the best of them.

  • lady_cn

    Shuga Honey says:

    speaking of wigs and what not…..did this bish Tammi have the audacity to talk about somebody’s bad weave and bad clothes?? did that really happen on my tv that i paid good money for?? the nerve!
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    Girl! I've been trying to figure out what the hayul is going on with Tami's hair this season. Does she have microbraids? Extensions? It bothers me every time I see the top of her head.

  • https://twitter.com/Mizz_Dallas mizzdallas

    Shuga Honey says:

    speaking of wigs and what not…..did this bish Tammi have the audacity to talk about somebody’s bad weave and bad clothes?? did that really happen on my tv that i paid good money for?? the nerve!

    tammio dun got alittle bit of money but oh how fast did she forget when on season2 this bish was looking ratchet ...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOzfujTwDIA @NikkeMinxx

    This song sounds funny because we know aint neither one of them never kicked a ninja to the curb even when they should have... They won a grammy for the boy is mine because someone was smart enough to give them a song each girl could relate to and was a conversation either one of them could have started at any given time.

    But whatever.... and the song is just whack.

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @ShugaHoney/BBW/Yso/Yall

    I HAVE STUFF TO SUCK OUT!! MY thighs rub like their kindling trying to start a fire!! I just wannt fix that.

    I want a "gap." :wail:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    *they're

  • lady_cn

    NaijaGal says:

    @Shuga say it again…I was like when did Tami become an image consultant you just finally got a decent weave and decent clothes but now you wanna clown, Lawd
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    You think her weave is decent? :blink: Maybe something's wrong with my tv then. :coffee:

  • NaijaGal

    @IGo what's the most expensive gift a luvah has purchased you

  • deedeegirl

    Just glad to hear something new from Brandy and Monica has been all over the board with her recent albums so this was a good move for her too. They look absolutely beautiful.

  • waterlily_76

    Brandy has always had a soothing voice…every true singer doesn’t need to yell and belt out every note

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    :cosign:

    I would rather listen to Brandy than Fantasia's hooping and hollering behind

  • https://twitter.com/Mizz_Dallas mizzdallas

    @lady_cn

    I think tammi has infusion tracks in her hair, I could be wrong tho?

  • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

    the only thing i'm buying my man is Boxers and "A shirts, and maybe some sock for sock man on Glenwood ,yall know the big yellow truck with 50 pair for 50 cents :lol:

  • NaijaGal

    @lady in comparison to the ish she was sporting her first two seasons it def is an upgrade...I'm not a weave connosseuir (sp?) so pardon my lack of knowledge

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @SASSY

    :karate:

  • Mamacita

    I prefer Brandy's voice over Monica's anyday. I like Monica but it's just something about her voice that I don't like.

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    <----- Brandy Norwood stan, So I'm not even going to comment (much). But if you think Monica Rocko can outsing Sonia's daughter....you got another thing coming.

    Did you hear how deep her register got on this song? And that ain't EVEN her lane. :nono: Don't clown on Brandy. You. Do. Not. Want. It.

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Whoever Asked

    Tammi has those infusion things that Britney Spears had after she went crazy and shaved her head and was trying to grow it back.

  • Genia

    Shuga Honey says:

    speaking of wigs and what not…..did this bish Tammi have the audacity to talk about somebody’s bad weave and bad clothes?? did that really happen on my tv that i paid good money for?? the nerve!
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    The F*ING NERVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~smh~ SHE HAD THE BALLS to talk about someone's doo!!!!!

  • MsOnederful

    Monica looks like a slimmer version of Lala in this video. Nice. Very nice.

  • lady_cn

    mizzdallas says:

    @lady_cn

    I think tammi has infusion tracks in her hair, I could be wrong tho?
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    Whatever it is, you can see where it's infused during certain takes. While it may be an upgrade from the 1st two seasons, it'a not cute to me that I can see it. :nono:

  • sexyphillygirl

    No comment on the song. But I did watch BB wives and what "people" do Tami have? lol a hot mess.

  • GeminEyez

    I still dont like the song esp the macbook and facebook references. it is so juvenile.

    Shuga Honey LOL!!!! I said the same exact thing! She had the audacity to talk about someones hair and clothes. but was the one being a advocate for food stamps and keeping it real. She is truly turning into a Evelyn and Jennifer. I guess thats what the BBW In Crowd will do to a person.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @MAMA

    I feel the same. :yes:

  • sexyphillygirl

    and why did they tell Keisha or whatever her name is her wig made her look like their aunts, heffas yall wigs aint that much better smh again a hot mess.

  • Shuga Honey

    the rest of yall please move out the way so i can hit sassy with my shake weight talmbout some lipo. :karate:

  • MsOnederful

    The video should be called Indian givers though. Since, everything was bought with the intent of taking the crap back anyway... jus saying...

  • http://mistariesworld.blogspot.com mistarie

    Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:

    <—– Brandy Norwood stan, So I'm not even going to comment (much). But if you think Monica Rocko can outsing Sonia's daughter….you got another thing coming.

    Did you hear how deep her register got on this song? And that ain't EVEN her lane. Don't clown on Brandy. You. Do. Not. Want. It.
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    :cosign:

  • Anna

    lovezoe says:

    @Anna- I saw that. I also heard hat her accent was fake as all get out.

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    NaijaGal says:

    @Anna just heard recently that Paul Deen carried on a 10 year affair with a married man…wtf is up with her lately…she’s doing the most…if she don’t sit her overly southern geriatric arse down somewhere

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    This is why ppl shouldn't have idols. Paula is going down hill fast.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    I GO (Comment #18)
    You GOTS Plenty of Mindless & Dyck-Deprived females out here BUYING Dudes ALL KINDS of Shyt THUS Treating These Dudes LIKE FEMALES Though... THEN They wonder WHY They Man is Soooo MF-ing SOFT-n-Emotional Though SMDH :coffee:

  • https://twitter.com/Mizz_Dallas mizzdallas

    Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:

    <—– Brandy Norwood stan, So I'm not even going to comment (much). But if you think Monica Rocko can outsing Sonia's daughter….you got another thing coming.

    Did you hear how deep her register got on this song? And that ain't EVEN her lane. Don't clown on Brandy. You. Do. Not. Want. It.

    You better say shyt again.... But down with brandy since thea!!! Monica vocals are limited put her on stage with acoustic guitar she wouldn’t stand a chance but Brandy take you high, low and all around..

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @SHUGA

    Get in line behind me. Me and Sassy gone be throwing hands if she keep talking bout her "huge" thighs and sht. :karate:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Brandy can sing.. Monica can too... Not as go :tape:

  • Mannie

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    :love: BRANDY! Sweetest woman I've meet!

  • https://twitter.com/Mizz_Dallas mizzdallas

    The video should be called Indian givers though. Since, everything was bought with the intent of taking the crap back anyway… jus saying…

    :rofl: this ish just made :lolol: Im always trying to take back something from my sisters!!

  • waterlily_76

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?

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    Nothing. It is something wrong with a lady buying her MAN.

  • lovezoe

    According to ZMT, Keshia and Tsmi get into in Tahiti and somehow Tami gets Keshia's purse and doesn't give it back. Keshia tells 5-0, gets purse back, gets on the first thing smoking to Us. Don't know what it is but even now you can tell Tani don't like Keshia. I wonder why?

  • NaijaGal

    @Mannie :kiss: what's the most expensive things a luvah has purchased for you

    @E-luvah same question

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Shuga
    :rofl: at Shake-Weight ...

  • iAmChan

    Whats up fam, top of the morning to yall.

  • NaijaGal

    I've heard that when you get lip the fat travels to other places...any truth to that???

  • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

    MsOnederful says:

    The video should be called Indian givers though. Since, everything was bought with the intent of taking the crap back anyway… jus saying…

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    Indians dont like the term Indian givers , that is some white man made up stuff, we was trick for our land by the white man, and when we didnt agree on the terms, they called us indian givers, and then they stole our land :crying1:

  • NaijaGal

    @lovezoe I think they think they can punk Keisha cause she's soft spoken but me thinks ole girl ain't as scary as they would like

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Naija :hug:

  • I Go There

    NaijaGal says:

    @IGo what’s the most expensive gift a luvah has purchased you
    ____________________________________________

    Damn I gotta think about that....

    I would have to say... It was a Purple Lable suit.
    Im not too comfortable with taking gifts from women but we were going to this wedding and I was looking at a few suits to wear. I had found a suit and I was getting it tailored so she got my measurments and got me a suit.

  • Shuga Honey

    Mannie says:

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?

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    its unnatural and a detriment to the foundation of society and sh*t

    :coffee: <-----really pom wonderful (bootleg version of lipo)

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Iamchan :coffee:

  • Mannie

    Well if you are looking at just 1 gift and not the total of gifts in a day then my 32gig 3g ipad2 would be right up there... thats like 8 or 900 bucks right?

  • lovezoe

    Naja you see the way Kenya talked to her?! No ma'am I would have adjusted that wig for her.

  • I Go There

    Mannie says:

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?
    _____________________________________________

    homie thats what Im saying but I guess women dont wanna feel like the "fool"...Which is BS if you ask me.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @NaijaGal
    Don't wanna say becuz It would come off as Bragging But I eventually gave ALL THOSE Gifts back to those Females Though... The BEST GIFT a Woman can give ME is Puzzy-By-The-POUND Though (Total ACCESS...) :coffee:

  • Mamacita

    @IAmChan :hi: Morning.

    @Mannie Nothing at all. :shrug: I don't see a problem with a nice gift for your s/o here and there. The problem comes in when you're just buying gifts to make them stay and keep them faithful.

    The most expensive thing I've bought for a s/o was something from Gucci. But it was a birthday and not just a random gift.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    I just Googled "Purple Label Suits"...Sht. She must have really liked you friend. :coffee:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Oil Sheen Jones (The artist formally kwn as Dawn Sheen)

    I can't take either of them seriously. Hannakuh got married by default... she didn't spend anytime alone before marrying ________. I think they knew each other 6 months isn't that still Dope a mean?

    Randy had that fake marriage, a slew of men in her Norwood and BOTH of them have tramp stamps covered with pictures of jesus or blooming flowers of mens names... had they done a silent language album I'd be all on board. I give them two funeral \_ \_ and a free :steer:

    to has been lane.

  • MsOnederful

    brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

    MsOnederful says:
    The video should be called Indian givers though. Since, everything was bought with the intent of taking the crap back anyway… jus saying…
    __________________________________________________________
    Indians dont like the term Indian givers , that is some white man made up stuff, we was trick for our land by the white man, and when we didnt agree on the terms, they called us indian givers, and then they stole our land

    Sorry :(

  • Mannie

    I Go There says:

    Mannie says:

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?
    _____________________________________________

    homie thats what Im saying but I guess women dont wanna feel like the “fool”…Which is BS if you ask me.
    _____________________________________________

    Right we supposed to be the ones that look like boo boo the fool after the relationship is over walking away with nothing more than the ish we came with... nah not me...

  • NaijaGal

    @lovezoe how old is Kenya cause she looks like she needs to be home taking care of her chirrens instead of trying to be some 'pop' star...ewwww

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    :waves: @CHANDLER

  • hotmess

    I like the both of them.... but that song was a hota$$ mess not a good song at all and they trying to hard......

  • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

    @Dawn Shut up :rofl: go to the :kona:

  • MsOnederful

    Mannie says:

    Well if you are looking at just 1 gift and not the total of gifts in a day then my 32gig 3g ipad2 would be right up there… thats like 8 or 900 bucks right? <---U must have some good Dang-a-ling!

  • https://twitter.com/Mizz_Dallas mizzdallas

    lovezoe says:

    According to ZMT, Keshia and Tsmi get into in Tahiti and somehow Tami gets Keshia’s purse and doesn’t give it back. Keshia tells 5-0, gets purse back, gets on the first thing smoking to Us. Don’t know what it is but even now you can tell Tani don’t like Keshia. I wonder why?

    Something tells me that Keisha aint no punk she just keeping her cool, but push that bish over the edge, she will go for the kill <----- the quiet ones are the craziest..

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Nothing wrong with giving a gift to YOUR MAN now dates :no:

  • Bootcampgirl

    @Dawn Sheen- :rofl:

  • luVn_liFe…

    NaijaGal says:

    I’ve heard that when you get lip the fat travels to other places…any truth to that???

    Yes Maam it does...tried it two years ago its the Worst thang icould have ever did!

  • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

    MsOnederful says:

    brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

    MsOnederful says:
    The video should be called Indian givers though. Since, everything was bought with the intent of taking the crap back anyway… jus saying…
    __________________________________________________________
    Indians dont like the term Indian givers , that is some white man made up stuff, we was trick for our land by the white man, and when we didnt agree on the terms, they called us indian givers, and then they stole our land

    Sorry
    ________________________________________________

    Ok :yahoo: and :kiss:

  • I Go There

    ELove says:

    I GO (Comment #18)
    You GOTS Plenty of Mindless & Dyck-Deprived females out here BUYING Dudes ALL KINDS of Shyt THUS Treating These Dudes LIKE FEMALES Though… THEN They wonder WHY They Man is Soooo MF-ing SOFT-n-Emotional Though SMDH
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    The way I look at it is Women pick these fellas.... Im sure its tons of women that do that but i cant call it.

  • Mannie

    I Go There says:

    NaijaGal says:

    @IGo what’s the most expensive gift a luvah has purchased you
    ____________________________________________

    Damn I gotta think about that….

    I would have to say… It was a Purple Lable suit.
    Im not too comfortable with taking gifts from women but we were going to this wedding and I was looking at a few suits to wear. I had found a suit and I was getting it tailored so she got my measurments and got me a suit.
    ______________________________________________

    Damn homie...them suits are YEAH...jeezus She got any sisters?

  • Mamacita

    "Dope a mean"

    :dead:

  • Bootcampgirl

    lovezoe says:

    According to ZMT, Keshia and Tsmi get into in Tahiti and somehow Tami gets Keshia’s purse and doesn’t give it back. Keshia tells 5-0, gets purse back, gets on the first thing smoking to Us. Don’t know what it is but even now you can tell Tani don’t like Keshia. I wonder why?

    Something tells me that Keisha aint no punk she just keeping her cool, but push that bish over the edge, she will go for the kill <—– the quiet ones are the craziest..<--- yes we are :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    Nothing wrong with giving a gift to YOUR MAN now dates :no:
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    Your damn gravi :lol: I was about to agree and say good morning IGO :lol:

  • ZenChickAtl

    brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

    the only thing i’m buying my man is Boxers and “A shirts, and maybe some sock for sock man on Glenwood ,yall know the big yellow truck with 50 pair for 50 cents :lol:
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    The Sock Man!

  • NaijaGal

    @Sassy please see comment #89

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @luvn_life
    What happened?

    @Shuga/Yall
    I may be reconsidering. I'm looking at some pics & reviews and I am NOT impressed.

    My thighs would probably slim down if somebody wouldn't send me bag's of caramel and cheese popcorn that I eat in one sitting. :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    :waiting: on YGO to tell us what he had to do for that Purple Label suit. I bet it was something nasty. :coffee:

  • lovezoe

    Naja- I think 35? Maybe?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    MsOnederful says:

    Mannie says:

    Well if you are looking at just 1 gift and not the total of gifts in a day then my 32gig 3g ipad2 would be right up there… thats like 8 or 900 bucks right? <—U must have some good Dang-a-ling!
    _______________________________________________________

    :hahaha:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Naija
    I already saw it. :lol:

  • Mannie

    ELove says:

    I GO (Comment #18)
    You GOTS Plenty of Mindless & Dyck-Deprived females out here BUYING Dudes ALL KINDS of Shyt THUS Treating These Dudes LIKE FEMALES Though… THEN They wonder WHY They Man is Soooo MF-ing SOFT-n-Emotional Though SMDH
    ___________________________________

    Them type of dudes are ones that make it bad for a real man...Women walking around with baggage cause Pookie effed her credit up and walked away fly while she broke and stressed...I dont get it...women have the most powerful bargaining tool known to man Puzzy!!!!! Use it women damn...

  • I Go There

    YSoSrs says:

    I just Googled “Purple Label Suits”…Sht. She must have really liked you friend.
    ____________________________________________________________

    She was an Attorney... Family was well off.
    it was all for nothing though... She was a bit of a show off.
    You know the "I got paper so I dont need anybody type"
    Beautiful woman... fked up head though.

  • Bigbadwolf

    waterlily_76 says:

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?

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    Nothing. It is something wrong with a lady buying her MAN.
    ____________________
    :cosign:

    I don't mind buying a gift or two. Birthday and Christmas. During the year I will pay for dinner once in a while. U can't expect someone to go all out for you and you wouldn't do the same.

  • Mannie

    MsOnederful says:

    Mannie says:

    Well if you are looking at just 1 gift and not the total of gifts in a day then my 32gig 3g ipad2 would be right up there… thats like 8 or 900 bucks right? <—U must have some good Dang-a-ling!
    _________________________________

    LOL not gonna comment...

  • NaijaGal

    OMG there's nothing worse than watching Judge Judy, Mathis, Milian and chicks are suing dude they gave their whole check to while he's busy making babies and using your money to trick off on other women

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    I don't think it's anything wrong with buying your committed PARTNER gifts....if you feel like doing something special for them. If you're buying them as ways of "biding your time" with him...then THAT'S a :nono:

    I occasionally buy Mister gifts and treat him to nice things.....but that's because folks swear I'm selfish and only thing about myself (minor-league true) so I have to sometimes spend my money on others to prove them wrong.

    And every once in a while.... I just do it cause I like seeing how happy he gets when he realizes that sometimes (emphasis on "SOME"), I do pay attention to him. :coffee:

  • NaijaGal

    @lovezoe even more reason for her to :stop:

  • iAmChan

    @ !*LaKErCHiC@*! Okay, yall whupped our asses. There it is, I give in.

    I love me some Monica. Brandy, not so much.

  • deedeegirl

    That's funny how you tried to imply that Monica can out sing Brandy. I actually laughed. I like Monica and all, but she ain't got nothin' on BROCKA! I think the reverse is true, Brandy had to reign it in a bit in order not to put nobody to shame.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Jmo hey pyt.. You like my gravi... :hug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOzfujTwDIA @NikkeMinxx

    I sometimes buy men seemingly random gifts but they're really investments...

    I bought a man a bow and arrow becasue it was cute tot me (he was a hunter) and he bought me car a week later...

    Grabbed pair of kicks for a boo thang while we were outta town (he was in a meeting but we were going to a game later) and ended up with a 5 figure receipt from the Gucci store and didt even have my purse with me....

    It has been my experience that once guys figure out you ARENT a golddigger you gonna need a wheelbarrow to leave with all the stuff they gave you.

  • chubbswifey

    :offtopic:

    SAVANNAH, Ga. (AP) -- The former general manager of a restaurant co-owned by Paula Deen claims the celebrity chef and her brother created a hostile work environment that included sexual innuendo, physical intimidation and racial slurs.

    Lisa Jackson says in a lawsuit filed Monday she had panic attacks because of the environment at Uncle Bubba's Seafood and Oyster House. The restaurant in Savannah is owned by Deen and her brother Bubba Hiers.

    Jackson says Hiers routinely watched pornography and that he once violently shook a black employee.

    She says the restaurant required black workers to enter through a back door and barred them from using a restroom that white workers used.

    A Deen spokesman declined to comment on pending legal matters. Hiers didn't immediately return calls seeking comment.

    http://www.wltx.com/news/watercooler/article/177315/363/Lawsuit-Racial-Sexual-Harassment-at-Paula-Deen-Restaurant

    Not sure if Bubba and Paula got the memo, but this is a big :no:

  • I Go There

    YSoSrs says:

    on YGO to tell us what he had to do for that Purple Label suit. I bet it was something nasty.
    _______________________________________________

    I gave her the regular.... my regular just aint the usual.

    :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @I GO
    I have some Male cousins THAT are the LAMEST-n-WEAKEST MFers walking the Plant Becuz These Dyck-Deprived & Desperate FEMALES be Buying-n-Doing Everything for Them Though... They be getting their Nails (Fingers-n-Toes) DONE more often THAN The Females :coffee:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Mannie

    :nono:

    Buy a nice gift once in a while: :yes:

    Co-sign on ANY EFFIN THING that's not PRIMARILY for MY USE: HELL :no:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    I refuse to accept that my most valuable asset is between my legs and not my ears. That's the bullsht men want us women to believe for their own selfish purposes. :coffee:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Iamchan :hug: that's all I wanted :yes:

  • Shuga Honey

    umm hello. her name is Kisha. she crazy by default. :coffee:

    dont act like yall dont know.

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    The worst part about this whole thing is that people sat around the studio and exchanged pounds and told the ladies how hot this was. I know they did. This song SUCKS! Brandy and Monica are equally yoked vocally and they could have really delivered the right song. I wish they would go back to the drawing board one more time and get it right. Rico Love deserves no shine for this.

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    PS gets the game. *dap*

    Buy a dude a pair of $90 kicks.
    He pays your rent for a year.

    All is well.

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    *@PSP

  • Mannie

    I Go There says:

    YSoSrs says:

    I just Googled “Purple Label Suits”…Sht. She must have really liked you friend.
    ____________________________________________________________

    She was an Attorney… Family was well off.
    it was all for nothing though… She was a bit of a show off.
    You know the “I got paper so I dont need anybody type”
    Beautiful woman… fked up head though.
    ___________________________________-

    Yo that ish kills me she sound like the woman who say "I don't need you!! I got X,Y and Z and i can buy X,Y and Z for myself"

    I always say to these women "I would never try and buy a woman's affection so you pushing that in my face means nothing so since you can do for yourself and feel the need to constantly remind me I will catch you another lifetime"

    Its like some women see gifts as a dude trying to assert dominance... thats not my style just take the damn gift for what it is "i thought you might like this so here you go"

    ***steps down off soapbox***

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    lady_cn says:

    I just can’t dig a song about a woman buying all that chit for her man and singing about it.
    _________________

    And let's not forget blowing up the expensive car, rather than selling it and recouping some of her money. :shrug:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Yso

    Somebody told me years ago that as long as I got a split and not a dikk.... I should never be broke or without.

    I thought that was ludicrous and crass.

    I hate apologizing for being wrong.

  • I Go There

    @ELOVE

    Yeah I got a few homies that dont work and sit around and smoke and play xbox ALL Day and their lady is out working. Them dudes stay having money in thier pockets. One homie had his girl stand in line all morning to get him the 4 Jordans that came out in Feb. You know what he was doing? Fking some other chic... muthafker got an IPAD... Im like "Muthafker what you need an ipad for?"

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    I Go There says:

    Oh damn… we finna get into woman buying dudes stuff
    This shait bout to get crazy.
    __________________

    It's a very competitive market for men right now. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    Lakes :yes: :lol:

    IGO ... silly for that comment :lol:

    YSO ... I think women believe that more so than men (comment 118)

  • Mannie

    Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:

    PS gets the game. *dap*

    Buy a dude a pair of $90 kicks.
    He pays your rent for a year.

    All is well.
    _________________________________

    YEAH MF'IN right!!!!!!!!

    You better be making me speak in tongues while you riding the dyck...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Mannie (Comment #103) :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
    The VAST MAJORITY of These FEMALES Nowadayz are CLUELESS To Real-SHYT Though :yes:

    @I GO (Comment #104)
    HAD My Share of THOSE Types (They just DISGUSTS ME Though...) And MOST of the TIME The Puzzy was WHACK :coffee:

  • Bigbadwolf

    Shuga Honey says:

    umm hello. her name is Kisha. she crazy by default.

    dont act like yall dont know.
    ______________________

    :yes: Like a wise man once said, i ain't no killa but don't push me.

  • NaijaGal

    :newpost: is up

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Bird says:

    The worst part about this whole thing is that people sat around the studio and exchanged pounds and told the ladies how hot this was. I know they did. This song SUCKS!
    ________________

    You know they were. And poor Mo' believed them. :no:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Mannie

    Speak tongues, Arabic, heiroglyphics...all that. :wink:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    DOPE!!!

    this was the 1st time hearing this song. i love the song AND the vid

    these ladies look amazing! :applause:

  • Destinee

    I liked the song and the video..If i need a message I will go to church not to VH1. Videos are for entertainment. Stop putting so much responsibility on celebrities. Vidoes are like movies..IMAGINATION!!

  • Mannie

    ELove says:

    @Mannie (Comment #103)
    The VAST MAJORITY of These FEMALES Nowadayz are CLUELESS To Real-SHYT Though
    ____________________________

    Man i just dont get it...some of these chicks dont give them soelves enough credit...and some entirely to much...but its like we only gonna do to you what you let us do...I aint gonna lie i have dogged some women out in my day but only because they didnt demand respect and was STILL giving up the booty...

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @SASSY

    I haven't needed to resort to that thus far and just hope that I will never need to. I will not get by on my back or my knees. I've seen too much of that sht to ever allow myself to do it. Eventually one will lose something one can never get back.

  • luVn_liFe…

    @ Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    is That you in ur Gravie???

    what happened:

    1.They didnt make me aware of how much bruising i was TRULY gonna have.it lasted damn near nine months. (i started to get into a depression and questioning my own state of mind)..what the Hayle is wrong witchu...

    2.after about 18months even though i was running and excercising i was gradually gaining weight..

    3.two years im still atruggling with these same damn 15 pounds i gotta lipo for!

    4.NOT WORTH IT

  • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

    YSoSrs says:

    I refuse to accept that my most valuable asset is between my legs and not my ears. That’s the bullsht men want us women to believe for their own selfish purposes.
    ______________________________________________________________

    :bow: to that statement :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    Destinee says:

    I liked the song and the video..If i need a message I will go to church not to VH1. Videos are for entertainment. Stop putting so much responsibility on celebrities. Vidoes are like movies..IMAGINATION!!
    _____________________________________________________________

    :cosign:

  • Mannie

    We moving to the :newpost: ?

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @JMO

    But...Where did we get it from? And who benefits the most from that belief? I'd have to answer men on both accounts.

  • I Go There

    Mannie says:

    I Go There says:

    YSoSrs says:

    I just Googled “Purple Label Suits”…Sht. She must have really liked you friend.
    ____________________________________________________________

    She was an Attorney… Family was well off.
    it was all for nothing though… She was a bit of a show off.
    You know the “I got paper so I dont need anybody type”
    Beautiful woman… fked up head though.
    ___________________________________-

    Yo that ish kills me she sound like the woman who say “I don’t need you!! I got X,Y and Z and i can buy X,Y and Z for myself”

    I always say to these women “I would never try and buy a woman’s affection so you pushing that in my face means nothing so since you can do for yourself and feel the need to constantly remind me I will catch you another lifetime”

    Its like some women see gifts as a dude trying to assert dominance… thats not my style just take the damn gift for what it is “i thought you might like this so here you go”

    ***steps down off soapbox***
    ____________________________________________________________________
    Exactly...

    I was in a relationship with this women and me being a bit of a romantic.... I hit her with the 14 Days of Valentine. Every day from the 1st to the damn 14th of February I got her a gift... Ended it with a Nice pair of Gucci boots she was eyeing. Set me back a grip... Now I wasnt trying to run her cause that wasnt my style didnt want to get in her pants cause I was already there. Dont you know that a fking friend of hers told her I was gonna now try to run her since I did the shait. Chic ran with it we broke up like 8 months later...

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Luvn_life

    1. Yes.

    2. Ohhhh.

    3. Did you have regular lipo or smart lipo? I'm just wondering if there's a difference? what kinda lipo do these celebs be getting?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    waterlily_76 says:

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?
    ——————
    waterlily_76 says:

    Nothing. It is something wrong with a lady buying her MAN.
    ___________________

    Or using gifts to keep a man in line (like that ever works). :rolleyes: Desperate women do desperate things. And no man respects a desperate woman -- but he will take your money. :yes:

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    Brandyyyyyyy yessir and Monica are my favs... Sandra Brany and Monica's fans have grown with them from i wanna be down and dont take it personal days... soo these young bucks dont know real music and theres no wrong impression to send... you betta look at those other wack gimmicks thats sending the wrong message on our children...
    We are in our 30's now some pushing 40... Team Brandy and Monica all day! #RealMusic

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    YSO ... very true :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Creamy @YSO
    Knowing how to USE Affection (Regardless of the LEVEL) Properly is USING YOUR MIND as well as Your Intellect-n-Insight (If ONE has ANY Though...) WE are Sexual-Beings and if the ONLY THING you're offering is MENTAL (NOT Physical...) then expect to come up SHORT Quite Often (Word)

    NOT Trying to change ANYONE'S opinion but Slighting THOSE that do utilize Affection to Their Benefit is WEAK-SAUCE Though :coffee:

  • I Go There

    Sandra Rose says:

    I Go There says:

    Oh damn… we finna get into woman buying dudes stuff
    This shait bout to get crazy.
    __________________

    It’s a very competitive market for men right now.
    _________________________

    Please dont tell them they gotta compete for dudes... they might lose thier minds.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    Sandra Rose says:

    waterlily_76 says:

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?
    ——————
    waterlily_76 says:

    Nothing. It is something wrong with a lady buying her MAN.
    ___________________

    Or using gifts to keep a man in line (like that ever works). :rolleyes: Desperate women do desperate things. And no man respects a desperate woman — but he will take your money. :yes:
    _____________________________________________________________________

    You know men do this too right?? Not as often as women but it happens :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Mannie @I GO
    Whenever there is a WOMAN ENJOYING a Wonderful relationship... BEST BELIEVE There is a BITTER BYTCH Trying to RUIN IT (For HER Though...) :coffee:

  • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

    @Elove that is true #153 sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo true , Im dealing with that no :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @ELOVE

    Giving affection and fcking for the finer (and sometimes not so fine) things in life are not at all the same thing. Weak sauce is confusing sex with love. :coffee:

  • Mannie

    I Go There says:

    Exactly…

    I was in a relationship with this women and me being a bit of a romantic…. I hit her with the 14 Days of Valentine. Every day from the 1st to the damn 14th of February I got her a gift… Ended it with a Nice pair of Gucci boots she was eyeing. Set me back a grip… Now I wasnt trying to run her cause that wasnt my style didnt want to get in her pants cause I was already there. Dont you know that a fking friend of hers told her I was gonna now try to run her since I did the shait. Chic ran with it we broke up like 8 months later…
    _________________________________________

    I tell my female friends all the time keep your friends out of your relationship them spitefull a$$ women will have you single and bitter...
    I tell them to keep it to them selves unless homeboy is being abusive then use your friends a suport system to get out but besides that the need to know little to nothing about what happens in your relationship...and if they tell they girls how a nigg@ b dyckin her down dont be surprised when your girl press up on your man...thats why he dont like her cause he know she aint shyt

    **drops mic**

    lol

  • Shuga Honey

    Please dont tell them they gotta compete for dudes… they might lose thier minds.
    _________________________

    was under the impression that she meant lesbians had to compete with men. i might be wrong.....i might not :coffee:

    from what ive seen, lesbians do be tricking. guess its to make up for not having a penis and all. :shrug:

  • luVn_liFe…

    Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:

    Thats you in your Gravie??? ((o_O)) you look GreaT,:wtf:
    i DID THE SMART (DUMB) lIPO.

    I wouldnt recommend it AT ALL!

    I dont know what the Celebrities get...other than :snort:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

    @Elove that is true #153 sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo true , Im dealing with that no :coffee:
    ______________________________________________________________________

    I bet Chad and Evelyn going through that chit too. Feel free to agree or disagree :coffee:

  • Mannie

    I Go There says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    I Go There says:

    Oh damn… we finna get into woman buying dudes stuff
    This shait bout to get crazy.
    __________________

    It’s a very competitive market for men right now.
    _________________________

    Please dont tell them they gotta compete for dudes… they might lose thier minds.
    __________________

    Not gonna lie i told that to 2 women and was like i know im a good man if you want me show me they acted like they were to good guess who is STILL single and who has a relationship???

  • MzTisch

    *giving Igo's ex the finga*

    Youse a dumb bish......listening to your friend. Tsk tsk tsk.

  • KDub

    The song, with its socially conscious lyrics about Facebook and Twitter, is the wrong vehicle for Monica’s powerhouse vocals.
    ---------------------------------------
    Tardy to the party...but wasn't it on this very site when I seen folks tambout how she STAYED on Twitter all the time...and didn't she have a Twit beef witha former poster.. (Charles)???

    In other words this song is perfect for her. She sanging about what she know.

    Toodles.

  • CD FENTY

    :coffee:

  • yallcrazy

    I buy nice gifts because I receive nice gifts :coffee:

    #drivebyposting

    I say hi to all in new post...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    Mannie says:

    I Go There says:

    Exactly…

    I was in a relationship with this women and me being a bit of a romantic…. I hit her with the 14 Days of Valentine. Every day from the 1st to the damn 14th of February I got her a gift… Ended it with a Nice pair of Gucci boots she was eyeing. Set me back a grip… Now I wasnt trying to run her cause that wasnt my style didnt want to get in her pants cause I was already there. Dont you know that a fking friend of hers told her I was gonna now try to run her since I did the shait. Chic ran with it we broke up like 8 months later…
    _________________________________________

    I tell my female friends all the time keep your friends out of your relationship them spitefull a$$ women will have you single and bitter…
    I tell them to keep it to them selves unless homeboy is being abusive then use your friends a suport system to get out but besides that the need to know little to nothing about what happens in your relationship…and if they tell they girls how a nigg@ b dyckin her down dont be surprised when your girl press up on your man…thats why he dont like her cause he know she aint shyt

    **drops mic**

    lol
    ______________________________________________________________________

    **picks up the mic and taps it**

    Thats some truee chit right there!!!

  • I Go There

    JMO says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    waterlily_76 says:

    Whats wrong with a lady buy her man gifts?
    ——————
    waterlily_76 says:

    Nothing. It is something wrong with a lady buying her MAN.
    ___________________

    Or using gifts to keep a man in line (like that ever works). Desperate women do desperate things. And no man respects a desperate woman — but he will take your money.
    _____________________________________________________________________

    You know men do this too right?? Not as often as women but it happens
    _________________________________________

    Because its easy... I always use to wonder how shait like that goes down but its always the obvious... people make it easy to do so.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @YSO "fcking for the finer (and sometimes not so fine) things in life"

    I NEVER mentioned Prostituting or WHORING Ms. Lady... And THIS Though "confusing sex with love." WOMEN Do THIS ALL of The TIME !!!

    Along With The VAST MAJORITY of LAME-AZZ Males :coffee:

  • I Go There

    MzTisch says:

    *giving Igo’s ex the finga*

    Youse a dumb bish……listening to your friend. Tsk tsk tsk.
    ________________________________________________

    Every February I get a email talking about how that was the best Valetines ever... I just say thanks and keep it moving.

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Mannie
    So true. Keep your friends out of your business. Honestly, I ONLY tell my homegirls about when he pisses me off. I don't tell them sh*t about what he buys, pays for, none of that (then again, I'm not big on giving a fukk what other folks think of me or what I'm doing cause I'ma do it anyway).

    Shidd...if anyone asks, my man has a 4-inch penis and a mean azzhole. You don't want him. :coffee:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    *and is a mean azzhole

  • KDub

    And I think its hella funny that you are mononymous since you were 14...but you get married and now you want to use a last name. Cause I thought this was some SR stuff..but I went and looked and this song is REALLY credited as Monica Brown. Whatevs. Whatever floats folks boats. Not sure WHY this post is irking me but it ill.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    IGO & Sassy :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Y'all :kiss:
    START Doing some Drive-By Humping (And WE ALL GOOD Baby...) :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOzfujTwDIA @NikkeMinxx

    <-- wants IGO to forward the email next February because I have some choice words for that one.

    *walks off mumbling "dumb heffa"*

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @ELOVE

    That's what I was talking about though. In my eyes, the idea that a woman's power is all between her legs reduces her to nothing more than a whore that has to fck to get somewhere. Use what you got to get what you want and all that. And I called bullsht on it. It can be dressed up in several ways but it is what it is as far as I'm concerned.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Sassy
    The BIGGEST NO-NO is telling your Girlz about Your Man's Dyck-Game Though... I kept telling My BM (Before she was My Baby-Mama) QUIT TELLING Your Girlz about MY DYCK-GAME becuz THEY KEEP trying to give me Some Puzzy :lol:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    I got into a damn ivy league college on a SCHOLARSHIP and yet everytime Kdub brings her azz in here, I learn a new word.

    Got me over here googling "mononymous" and surprised as a bish that she aint make that word up. SMH.

  • KDub

    I tell my female friends all the time keep your friends out of your relationship them spitefull a$$ women will have you single and bitter…
    ------------------------------------------------

    "Tell them freaks to find a man of their own"
    Signed,
    Jigga

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    ELove says:

    And THIS Though “confusing sex with love.” WOMEN Do THIS ALL of The TIME !!!
    ___________________

    :applause:

  • Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy!

    @Elove

    I know. Trust me, whenever we have convos about sex, I prouldly exclaim that my man is small so I be faking all the time.

    :shrug:

    Ain't NONE of them hoes interested.

    Meanwhile, earlier at the ranch.... I was getting my back banged out so hard, I done broke my damn nightstand lamp.

    Let them hoes talk. I don't give a damn.

  • KDub

    Got me over here googling “mononymous” and surprised as a bish that she aint make that word up. SMH.
    -----------------------------------
    I am linguistically gifted!

    :wave: <<< dictionary.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @YSO SAID: It can be dressed up in several ways but it is what it is as far as I’m concerned.

    THAT Tunnel-Vizion is going to EAT YO AZZ UP Baby... WE weren't speaking towards a Woman's Puzzy being THAT Though :nono: But a Females using her Power of Persuasion Properly would be FAR MORE BENEFICIAL than just MISUSING IT Though :coffee:

  • SassySandra

    I SOOOO love Brandy's voice!!! :pray: PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Brandy come out with another album! I'm still jammin to that Full Moon album. Absolute Classic!! They both look absolutely beautiful! Don't know too much about the song though.. Somebody could have written something better than that for those two powerhouses...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOzfujTwDIA @NikkeMinxx

    @IGo She is probably more upset that she hasn't liked anyone as much as you since then.

    I stay getting cussed out by family and friends because of the guys I have left. Sure, they were good dudes "on paper" but I didn't like them like that and there was no chemistry. IMO, all the gifts, long dikk and socioeconomic status in the world won't keep me there if my heart isnt in it. We can date as long as that person understands I'm biding time... Is that good, bad or ugly?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Sassy :rofl:
    "Earlier at The Ranch" Though (Yous So F-ing FOOLISH !!!) :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @ELOVE

    But Mannie did say that and that is what I was addressing. I still call bullsht and if I'm wrong I can live with it. I know I couldn't live with myself if I did believe it. :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Nikke SAID: Is that good, bad or ugly?

    IT'S Actually REAL-SHYT Though BABY :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @YSO
    Mannie said: I dont get it…women have the most powerful bargaining tool known to man Puzzy!!!!! Use it women damn…

    THIS doesn't mean (At Least to a REAL MAN) Being a SLUT, Whore or HOOKER Though BABY... We were focusing on the ASPECTS of Clueless-n-Mindless FEMALES that unnecessarily put THEMSELVES in a Trick-Bag (NO WIN Situation w/ LAMES...) :coffee:

  • candibfly

    yep i buy my own, if he deserve it buy his shyt too :whistle:

    i don't mind buying gifts, it shows u thought of the person, but i will not be supporting u and paying for everything :nono:

  • I Go There

    @NikkeMinxx says:

    @IGo She is probably more upset that she hasn’t liked anyone as much as you since then.
    ________________________________

    Perhaps

    :coffee:

    I just chalk it up to lessoned learned...

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @ELOVE

    If you say so. How "bargaining" with your pussy isn't considered whoring yourself (getting something in exchange for sex) is obviously beyond me. :coffee:

  • Mannie

    ELove says:

    @YSO
    Mannie said: I dont get it…women have the most powerful bargaining tool known to man Puzzy!!!!! Use it women damn…

    THIS doesn’t mean (At Least to a REAL MAN) Being a SLUT, Whore or HOOKER Though BABY… We were focusing on the ASPECTS of Clueless-n-Mindless FEMALES that unnecessarily put THEMSELVES in a Trick-Bag (NO WIN Situation w/ LAMES…)
    ______________________________

    And to further clarify

    I meant that you as a woman have the power we as men most of us want what you have be it puzzy or inteligence or a combination of any characteristics... Or putting it another way do give any of you to anyone that isn't worthy...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    Igo ... I hope that doesnt mean you wouldnt do it again. Don't let that triflin chick ruin it for the next woman :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @MANNIE

    That sounds better at least.

    I suggest that men stop putting pussy on a pedestal. That would solve a lot. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @JMO
    To MEN (And MOST Men are Competitive...) FAILURE is a hard pill to Shallow Though... ESPECIALLY in Regards to OUR Luv-n-Affection which in turn means OUR HEART Though :yes:

    In REALITY Though... The NEXT WOMAN was Actually the ONE much earlier THAT You should've got with BUT is NOW with someone else :lol:

  • Mannie

    YSoSrs says:

    @MANNIE

    That sounds better at least.

    I suggest that men stop putting pussy on a pedestal. That would solve a lot.
    _____________________________

    But think about it like this Yso if women simply stopped fluckin or never gave their body up to a lame in the first place then we as men would have to striaghten up or ship out...I mean why would a woman who know dude aint ish still let him hit? You know eventually most women wind up caught up so stop fluckin and you dont even have to deal with the nonsense...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    Elove :lol: I agree with that

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @YSO SIAD: "I suggest that men stop putting pussy on a pedestal. That would solve a lot."

    Ahhhhhh YOU talking about 100% Heterosexual MEN (YEAH Right...) :lol:

    Y'all ALREADY have GAY Men & DL Dudes that HATE Females/Women... Soooo NOW Y'all want The ONLY SEGMENT of MEN that ADORE Females to say/treat Puzzy Like Blah Blah Blah THOUGH (Ohhh OK Then...) :shrug:

  • Mannie

    ELove says:

    @YSO SIAD: “I suggest that men stop putting pussy on a pedestal. That would solve a lot.”

    Ahhhhhh YOU talking about 100% Heterosexual MEN (YEAH Right…)

    Y’all ALREADY have GAY Men & DL Dudes that HATE Females/Women… Soooo NOW Y’all want The ONLY SEGMENT of MEN that ADORE Females to say/treat Puzzy Like Blah Blah Blah THOUGH (Ohhh OK Then…)
    ____________________________________________

    100% :cosign:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Mannie
    TELL IT Though...

  • GAGIRL87

    I LOVE Monica but I can't vibe with this song PERIOD :no:

    Sandra it seems like your turning on all your fav peoples lately :think:

  • I Go There

    JMO says:

    Igo … I hope that doesnt mean you wouldnt do it again. Don’t let that triflin chick ruin it for the next woman
    _____________________________________________

    Nah I wouldnt do that... She just couldnt handle it.

  • GAGIRL87

    I like Brandy as a person BUT her raspy azz voice gets MAD annoying after a while I can't listen to a WHOLE brandy album @ all. #random I love Moesha :shrugs:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    IS THIS WERE THE NASTY SESS TALK IS?? :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @ELOVE & MANNIE

    There has to be middle ground somewhere between putting it on a pedestal and putting it in a grave.

    And I'm not advocating that women just give it away. I'm saying that is not the best thing we have to offer to get what we want. That's it.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    And I’m not advocating that women just give it away. I’m saying that is not the best thing we have to offer to get what we want. That’s it.

    ^^ TRUE A GOOD PUZZY CANT HOLD A CONVO OR GET U THAT CHEMESTRY BETWEEN U AND THE GUY.. :hug: UR SOO DANG ESSSMART :yes: LETS GET RATCHET THO YSO WHY U BEEN ALL GOOD AND SHAIT FUK THAT!!

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @LAKER

    I'm not feeling these topics today. Mannie, ELove and I were discussing this:

    Mannie said: "I dont get it…women have the most powerful bargaining tool known to man Puzzy!!!!! Use it women damn…"

    I called bullsht on it and we are not agreeing right now.

    Sooo...Who you want to start some random sht with it? :waiting:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    YSO :think: LETS LET IGO HAVE IT SINCE ALL THIS SHAIT IS ALWAYS HIS FAULT!! :yes: OR JUST RANDOM BISH THAT POPS UP :rofl: #TEAMFABULOSOPUZZYBISHES!!

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @LAKER

    I'm in the newest post now...I could run through it capping HOE and see what happens. :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/EyiYdrc2e9Y tierraboo618

    This song should have a totally different title... But since I want to keep posting here, I digress. :kona: I think both ladies look beautiful and the song is still growing on me. Not the best by both ladies. Rodney Jerkins or Dallas Austin should've written this since they both have worked with the ladies on classic songs of theirs. Monica's voice has changed over the years, but the case can be made that every last one of Brandy's albums were classics, vocally. I mean the woman took "singing up in the my (bath)room" to another level! :bow:

  • Danielle

    I love both of their music but this song here :no: I tried to like it, even gave it a few listens but it isn't growing on me! #Sorry

  • miamore1973

    Young Fans????

    Their fans are over 30. My son 13 walked by the tv last night and was like who's that I think I've seen one of them before.

    He saw Brandy on The Game recently.