16th Birthday Party for Jeezy’s Son Jadarius Jenkins

Thanks to celebrity photographer Thad McAdams for sending these pics of Jadarius Jenkins‘ 16th birthday bash. Jeezy hired Soulja Boy to rock the crowd at Lee Najjar‘s former mansion in an exclusive enclave of Buckhead. The party decor was designed by MusicBusinessPolitics.

Jadarius arrived in his black chauffeur driven Jeep, a birthday gift from dad!

If you recall, Lee Najjar was sucked dry by reality TV star Kim Zolciak‘s expensive tastes. He was forced to give up the West Paces Ferry Rd mansion which has been on the market for almost 2 years now. The list price is a whopping $19.9 million for the 9 bedroom 15 bathroom palatial estate.

Photos by ExclusiveAccess.net



 



  • Xena68

    Didn’t know he had a son that old.

  • dancerbee93

    :shrugs:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ Xena68: time flies. This is the same boy whose baby mama dragged him into court several times to increase her child support.

  • Xena68

    I would not want to live in a house that big.

  • Xena68

    @ Sandra it really does.

  • Ms.Fashion

    Why is Souja Boy trying to emulate the mark of the beast on his head???

    :blink:

  • NaijaGal

    nobody ever pays me in gum…

  • OutsidetheBox

    STILL mad at yew, Jay.. :eyeroll:

  • KDub

    If you recall, Lee Najjar was sucked dry by reality TV star Kim Zolciak‘s expensive tastes
    ——————————————
    Her “taste” sucked him dry huh? Just sucked the purity LIFE out of him???

  • shakura80

    I thought only Mcdonalds hired Soulja Boy these days

  • Gigi26

    Jeeezy why wasn’t I invited to the shindig? Muthabytch :rollseyes:

    Looks like a good time was had by all and that’s a NICE ASS HOUSE :shock:

    Soulja boy is on some heavy narcotics, he’s a lost cause.

    Auntie you need to tweet him words of encouragement instead of Rihanna, hell she has her life together compared to this one :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    Get it Jeezy! :offtopic: I came in here to ask y’all (AuntSan feel free to jump in here) who is Puffy’s ghost writer?

    Oh and Luda ain’t spit bars this hot in a long minute… who’s the 3 rappers?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    Jadarius is a Ummm… Interesting Name (I THINK…) :shrug:

    And Soulja Boy LQQKS LIKE a Complete Sickly Bum-Azz FOOL :coffee:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/a19fc5b0a5b0a826c0a201b8ac191b35.png mzwhang90210

    :waves: @ MsFashion
    ____________________
    Hope this child has a college fund set aside also!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    Howe come there aren’t any children at the party?

  • http://www.vibedeck.com/brandoncharles BCinKS

    I thought forehead tats was just an urban legend. Apparently, not? :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    Oh yeah Soulja and Fofty supposed to be doing an albumor mix tapeor something but my money is on a slow jam mixtape because bruh, I remember that VIBE cover…

  • Gigi26

    Jadarius. Sounds like we know what type of women Jeezy likes :no:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Wasn’t Lee Kim’s “Big Poppa” from RHOA?

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Nevermind, reading is fundamental, Cocoa.

  • Gigi26

    19.9 million huh? I don’t know if anyone would buy that in Atlanta :tea:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    Hey, what kind of shoes does Jeezy have on? I like them….

  • KDub

    who is Puffy’s ghost writer?
    ——————————-
    Biggie.

  • jealousCNenvy

    I LOVE JEEZY :)

  • laterthannever

    :lol: kdub

  • YSoSrs

    Sickening. :no:

    Sup. :waves:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    KDub says:

    who is Puffy’s ghost writer?
    ——————————-
    Biggie.

    I am :ghost: goodbye.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    Dub Stop…. :rotfl: Im serious… I thought his part on Waka’s O Lets Do it Remix was as good as it gets for him but then Same Damn Time came and I know he aint wrote that either..

    Luda went smooooooove off…..

  • Bibi

    That damn Kdub :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Sounds like we know what type of women Jeezy likes

    :hahaha: Yeah, he like “others” now like all hiphoppers when they “make” it… BM tho?? Caught slipping much.. :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Raised brow!

    Something aint right!

  • prynsexxx

    So ain’t nobody gone say nothing about that leopard print 2012 summer collection Snuggie Soulja Bum is rockin’? Nobody? Ok.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    So ain’t nobody gone say nothing about that leopard print 2012 summer collection Snuggie Soulja Bum is rockin’? Nobody? Ok.
    _________________________________________________________________
    My momma said don’t speak on nothing you don’t know about firsthand and since Im still tryna figure out if the hood is attached and stars ironed, appliqued or just stuck with fabric glue I was gonna stay out of it…

  • KDub

    who is Puffy’s ghost writer?
    —————————
    Okay then…since yall mad I said B.I.G…

    Its Lil Kim.

    One of them one hit wonder mufawkas from 1995 onward.

    Craig Mack is the ghostwriter.

    Loon.

    Black Rob writing them from jail.

    IDK.

  • lady_cn

    Ms.Fashion says:

    Why is Souja Boy trying to emulate the mark of the beast on his head???

    __________________________________

    More like skid mark of the beast. :coffee:

  • KDub

    who is Puffy’s ghost writer?
    —————————–
    Choppa from Making The Band?

    Dylan?

    WAIIIIIIIIIIIIT. Its one of Total.

    Biggie Junya?

  • lady_cn

    Wait, does that day over 16 year old have tattoos on his chest. :huh:

    People just let their kids do anything these days.

  • Ms.Fashion

    mzwhang90210 says:

    @ MsFashion

    _____________

    :waves: Hey Bew!!!

  • KDub

    So ain’t nobody gone say nothing about that leopard print 2012 summer collection Snuggie Soulja Bum is rockin’? Nobody? Ok.
    _________________________________________________________________
    My momma said don’t speak on nothing you don’t know about firsthand and since Im still tryna figure out if the hood is attached and stars ironed, appliqued or just stuck with fabric glue I was gonna stay out of it…
    —————————————–
    Tina Knowles made it. She sells denim/lep. print Snuggies through her Wal Mart collection.

  • FuturedocDonte

    Jeezy Tryna post these pics after that disastrous azz “father of the year” interview he did in vibe magazine when he said he don’t have to see or call his son because he working to give him a better life :coffee:

  • http://www.twitter.com/binkii52 Binki

    @ Ms. Fashion took a while but I answered you on the other post lol

  • Gigi26

    Fukk this, the US Womens Gymnastics team won GOLD!!

    :yahoo: :kneel:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    #40 :confused: That’s almost as bad as The Dream’s nanny and kinfolks comment… …

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

    GiGi :danban: yeah they did!

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    looks like a sweet 16 :coffee:

  • Iheart

    Da fluck yall tawkin bout :huh:

  • Ms.Fashion

    Binki says:

    @ Ms. Fashion took a while but I answered you on the other post lol

    _________

    Thanks Doll!! :hug:

  • Ms.Fashion

    Gigi26 says:

    Fukk this, the US Womens Gymnastics team won GOLD!!

    _____________

    HEYUHLLLLLLLLLL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :yahoo:

  • Bibi

    @Nikke

    U was talkin bout Luda on that remix??

  • Freda2you

    Nikkeminx,I was wondering the same thing, where are the age appropriate guest. I also was questioning all the tats on birthday boy. Jeezy will probably be asking the same questions in a couple of years when he makes his debut on Cops or Caught on tape. #startparentingplease.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Iheart u know u dead azz wrong for that gravie :rofl: :hahaha:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    this back to school sh1t aint cheap yo!

  • prynsexxx

    Futuredoc says:

    he don’t have to see or call his son because he working to give him a better life
    ____________________

    Chit deadbeat sperm leakers say. :rolleyes:

  • Iheart

    @Jenie, It’s my back to school look for my son :coffee:

  • prynsexxx

    Ms.Fashion says:

    Gigi26 says:

    Fukk this, the US Womens Gymnastics team won GOLD!!

    _____________

    HEYUHLLLLLLLLLL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    _____________________

    Heyul yeah
    Heyul yeah
    Fvkn right
    Damn right
    Alright

    :ashamed:

  • Gigi26

    he don’t have to see or call his son because he working to give him a better life
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    :blink: Say what?! Please tell me he didn’t say this chit right here cuz i’ll remove my downloaded (sorry but I ain’t paying chit DJM) TM 103 off my ipod swear tuh Gawd!

  • Iheart

    @Pryn, That’s my fuggin sawng yo :shakebutt:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    :ghost:

  • Ms.Fashion

    prynsexxx says:

    Ms.Fashion says:

    Gigi26 says:

    Fukk this, the US Womens Gymnastics team won GOLD!!

    _____________

    HEYUHLLLLLLLLLL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    _____________________

    Heyul yeah
    Heyul yeah
    Fvkn right
    Damn right
    Alright

    ____________

    Don’t be. I really wanted to type what you put!! :lol:

  • prynsexxx

    So er uhm that advertisement up top says African American Pride Gear. :think: Now does that mean African American PRIDE :yahoo: :cheer: gear? Or do they mean African American “PRIDE” :gay: :homo: gear? :huh:

    Please clarify. :waiting:

  • Iheart

    FASHION :yahoo:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    52

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    this back to school sh1t aint cheap yo!
    ________________
    You better say that shat again ugh :tea:

  • candibfly

    i been outta school for awhile but i be snappin up them back to school specials. anyone need a new microwave? :rofl:

  • Ty

    That house is still on the foreclosures list too…damn I thought they would’ve dropped the price by now :coffee:

  • Ms.Fashion

    Iheart says:

    FASHION

    ____________

    HEY HONEY!!!!!! :hug:

  • Ty

    @ Auntie…can u get pics of the house the Carters are renting in the Hamptons for $400k a month. Its supposed to have a kiddie center for Blue and a bunch of other expensive azz toys :coffee:

    Thanks in advance :thumbsup:

  • Fated4Greatness

    Love me some Jeezy….looks like fun but that brand new 16 yr old sho got a lotta tattoos

  • sassyshe

    :thinking: I’m thinking Jeezy may have some money problems if Souljahboy is the best he can afford.

    :bow: Yes Gigi my girls made me proud unlike those suckers – the men’s team

  • Ty

    @NikkeMinxx says:

    Get it Jeezy! I came in here to ask y’all (AuntSan feel free to jump in here) who is Puffy’s ghost writer?
    _____________
    Everybody that was signed to BadBoy past, present, and future :rofl:

  • prynsexxx

    sassyshe says:

    I’m thinking Jeezy may have some money problems if Souljahboy is the best he can afford.
    ____________________________

    He had a credit.

  • Ty

    KDub says:

    So ain’t nobody gone say nothing about that leopard print 2012 summer collection Snuggie Soulja Bum is rockin’? Nobody? Ok.
    _________________________________________________________________
    My momma said don’t speak on nothing you don’t know about firsthand and since Im still tryna figure out if the hood is attached and stars ironed, appliqued or just stuck with fabric glue I was gonna stay out of it…
    —————————————–
    Tina Knowles made it. She sells denim/lep. print Snuggies through her Wal Mart collection.
    _____________
    :rofl:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    jeni my lil man is going full time this year.. he gots to do uniforms.. and the supply list aint short neither :lol:

  • Bibi

    :dead: @had a credit :lol:

  • KDub

    the US Womens Gymnastics team won GOLD!!
    ——————————————
    Sangs the 1988 Seoul Olympics theme by Whitney…

    ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNE MO-MENT IN TTIMMMMMMMMMMMMMME…When I’m more than EYYYE thought EYE could beeeeeeee. When allllllll of my dreams…. are a heart-beat away :love:

  • prynsexxx

    Ty says:

    KDub says:

    So ain’t nobody gone say nothing about that leopard print 2012 summer collection Snuggie Soulja Bum is rockin’? Nobody? Ok.
    _________________________________________________________________
    My momma said don’t speak on nothing you don’t know about firsthand and since Im still tryna figure out if the hood is attached and stars ironed, appliqued or just stuck with fabric glue I was gonna stay out of it…
    —————————————–
    Tina Knowles made it. She sells denim/lep. print Snuggies through her Wal Mart collection.
    ___________

    :rofl:
    _____________

    Yall think she used Scribble’s paws as inspiration?

  • Gigi26

    :rofl: had a credit!! :lol:

  • KyCakes

    Hi ery’ones :wave:

  • Ty

    :crying: Yall know Tina will use that bedazzle glue gun or anything. I remember DC had shiney wrist cuffs even when the outfits didnt have sleeves :rofl:

  • Trendsetter

    Ty says:

    Yall know Tina will use that bedazzle glue gun or anything. I remember DC had shiney wrist cuffs even when the outfits didnt have sleeves
    __________________________

    :dead:

  • KDub

    Yall know Tina will use that bedazzle glue gun or anything. I remember DC had shiney wrist cuffs even when the outfits didnt have sleeves
    ———————————————
    Back when they was sanging Bills Bills Bills they were on…I forget…live tv…why they had on bedazzle hose? I NEVER forgave Tina for that ish. :no:

    So fuggin UNCALLED for.

  • Ms.Fashion

    :waves: @Kycakes!!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Yo. Its dead as fukk. I cant even watch anotha video :yawn: -_-

  • Bibi

    Man it’s like a ghost town :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    How do you know if you’re a “battered” woman?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Sandra don’t care for her blog – I have a prediction one day all will be obsolete

  • 69

    @Sandra

    You know this house was up for $25 million at first. It sits almost directly in front of the Governor’s Mansion. It also sits a few houses down from Anne Cox Chambers old azz mansion too. West Paces Ferry’s Road and all the arteries is where the REAL money is in Atlanta. :yes:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    KYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY :kiss: :hunch: :smoke: IN THAT ORDER
    CHOCO ITS DRY AF IN HERE :cry:

  • Bibi

    @Fefe

    Abuse…mental, verbal, physical……

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    FeFe says:

    How do you know if you’re a “battered” woman?

    if u look like this :deadhorse:

    69 we still divorced? :coffee:

    HBD lil Jeezy :party: <—better than the one he had

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Bibi

    Mmmmkay, but where is the line drawn on those three?

    like what’s considered “not a big deal” and then ” :hailnaw:

  • Bibi

    SR will be alright :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Fe
    Bruises

  • OutsidetheBox

    Battered? As in the defense? Or abuse itself?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Choco

    What if they are accidental bruises? Like a “oops, I didn’t mean to do that shyt…”?

  • Genevieve..

    I don’t see any tats on the birthday boy but uhh looks like it was a pretty lavish birthday party. I didn’t realize Jeezy’s son was so old, I remember he lyrically abused his baby momma a few years ago on a song.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Lakes
    I know and Im tired as chit today swear I wanna leave early

  • Bibi

    @Fefe

    Anything that’s a “big” deal to U…that’s where you draw the line….not where anyone else says. Never apologize for how you FEEL…if you FEEL it it’s real..imo…

    U ok?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @OTB

    I guess the abuse itself…

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    OTB my powders have shipped! :yahoo:

    :snort: <—not that kind tho :no:

    BRRRR!! #nobirds

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Bibi

    Yeah, I’m cool…just wanna get some other perspectives…

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    CHOCO IM READY TO CLOCKS OUT TOO! LOONG AS FUKN DAY.. SEEMS LIKE ITS GOING TO BE A LOONG WEEK TOO! :cry: SAY YO SO I HEAR/READ THAT U AND YOUNGIN GOT IT IN? OR JUU SAW HIM THIS WEEKND? WHAT HAPPEN?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Fe
    Accidental bruise in my opinion is when I bumped my leg into the corner of a desk – Coming from an abusive relationship I dont believe in accidents when the person is clearly a bish made nicca

  • Bibi

    @Fefe

    Ur scaring me….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @Fe
    Accidental bruise in my opinion is when I bumped my leg into the corner of a desk – Coming from an abusive relationship I dont believe in accidents when the person is clearly a bish made nicca

    ________

    Ok, gotcha.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Bibi

    I’m cool. Just got some shyt on my mind…

  • NaijaGal

    @FEFE if you have to question it, you already know the answer :hug:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Lakes
    Youngin is such a cutie my gawd I didn’t realize how cute he was – yeah I enjoyed him he was cool and kept having a smile on his face and was like everytime I look at you I be thinking about the chit I want to do to you – He put in good work a bish was sore….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Naija

    I know, but you know how some times folks tend to blame themselves for some shyt…yeah, I know… :lol:

  • OutsidetheBox

    I agree with Choco. Accidental bruising is me bumping into the bed leg talking chit or something…him pushing me into the bed leg while im talking chit or something.. is abuse.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    OutsidetheBox says:

    I agree with Choco. Accidental bruising is me bumping into the bed leg talking chit or something…him pushing me into the bed leg while im talking chit or something.. is abuse.

    ________

    Ok, thank you sweets!

  • NaijaGal

    FEFE – never venture into that territory…break whatever it is now before it starts…I feel ya…some things are NEVER worth fighting for though…and again when questions come into mind, it’s because you know something is not right

  • Bibi

    @Fefe

    :hugs: That’s one of those think long, think wrong…and I’m purely speculating but forgiveness isn’t always the best bet…

    Happiness first….you first….

  • OutsidetheBox

    I don’t see any tats on the birthday boy

    :wave: <—my glasses for yew… on his chest. Look at the shot of him climbing out of the hummer.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Bibi

    :hugs: :yes:

  • OutsidetheBox

    It can be verbal too :argue: Think of berating, telling us how chit would be without them, alla dat.

    Mental as well. Silent treatment? That too.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Intuition. One of the best gifts of God. To make up for the curse.. :lol: Boogity boogity boo.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @OTB

    So if I get called a “water head bitch” and I hear shyt like “I could punch you dead in your fukking forehead…” Is that abuse too? Because some folks look at that as heated argument type words and as folks saying shyt they don’t mean…. :shrugs:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    CHOCO AWWW A CUTE ESSMILE AND SESSY TOO :yes: OH SANP HE PUT IN WORK LIKES THAT!! :hunch:

  • candibfly

    chick at work heard a loud crack of thunder and rolled the hell out :hahaha:

    i’m not too far behind her tho :coffee:

  • YSoSrs

    What’s going on in here? :no:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Fe
    What happened boo pls don’t tell me you are experiencing being battered so not kool at all

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Choco

    I’m asking for ummmm, …..a friend…

  • candibfly

    “I could punch you dead in your fukking forehead…”
    —————-

    hmm i dunno, never had anyone that upset where they said something like that :no: sounds extreme

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @OTB

    So if I get called a “water head bitch” and I hear shyt like “I could punch you dead in your fukking forehead…” Is that abuse too? Because some folks look at that as heated argument type words and as folks saying shyt they don’t mean….
    _____________________
    By Law threats like that considers it to be battery

    @Lakes
    Yeah and he likes putting in that work – He was on my mind hard the next day

  • Bibi

    @Fefe

    Yes it is abuse…lack of self control is just that….today it’s words tomorrow it’s an action….imo

  • candibfly

    well i’m sensitive so it seems extreme to me, maybe that’s how some folks argue :shrugs:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    FeFe says:

    @OTB

    So if I get called a “water head bitch” and I hear shyt like “I could punch you dead in your fukking forehead…” Is that abuse too? Because some folks look at that as heated argument type words and as folks saying shyt they don’t mean….

    Aww hell naw Fe! THAT’S ABUSE! His hands will be next. TRUST!
    i know some folks “argue” like that, but i DONT. especially callin me out my name & chit. it’s a MYRIAD of things i could say when me & hubby get into it, but we fight fair. i’m the one that has to check myself most of the time.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Choco

    Yeah, but when my friend talked to an officer about it they said it could be just considered “something said in anger”…

  • Bibi

    candibfly says:

    well i’m sensitive so it seems extreme to me, maybe that’s how some folks argue
    ______________________________________
    How lots of folks do it…in unhealthy relationships….ask me how I know :tea:

  • OutsidetheBox

    That mutha****a done lost his rabbid ass mind :cuss:

    Slap that b!tch-made ass hypothetical with a printed pamphlet from the innernets!

    :rules:

    “I could punch you dead in your fukking forehead…”

    He will too!!! When ppl tell you who they are FUKKING BELIEVE THEM. Maybe not today but oh yeah :no:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Fe
    Well ummmm your friend is being battered

    A pattern of signs and symptoms, such as fear and a perceived inability to escape, appearing in women who are physically and mentally abused over an extended period by a husband or other dominant individual.

  • OutsidetheBox

    SIS speak up. That chit is abusive. Language hurts just as well!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @candi

    Yeah, I don’t argue like that because it’s unnecessary….but this person was told that their life would be made a living hell….that constitutes as a threat to me, but ehhhh…..

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    He will too!!! When ppl tell you who they are FUKKING BELIEVE THEM. Maybe not today but oh yeah
    ____________________
    Yep if he is angry enough to say it he will do it and then apologize and whine and cry and make you feel sorry for him HATES MY EX

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Choco

    :think: mmmkay….

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    WE ON ABUSE :cry:
    ANY TYPE OF CONTACT BE IT VERBAL OR PHYSICAL THAT CROSSES UR CONFORT/MAKES U SECOND GUESS THAT PERSON IS ABUSE.. IT MIGHT START WITH “HOLDING U OR SHAKING U” BUT IT WONT STOP THERE :no: ITS JUST THE START :cry: IF U MAKE EXCUSES IS BECAUSE JUU KNOW ITS WRONG AND HAVE TO JUSTIFY IT IN UR HEAD.. MY AUNT MAY SHE REST IN PEACE WENT THRU THIS.. TILL THE DAY GOD TOOK HER #FAWKTHATPUTO

  • OutsidetheBox

    “something said in anger”…

    Is STILL grounds for restraints in most states tho. Officers (especially male ones) down play cause they can relate to getting mad, but they also see the back and forth game a lot which I think causes them to be jaded..but long story, :no:

  • candibfly

    that’s what i thought when i first heard the comment, sounds like following up on the threat wouldn’t be too far of a stretch :no:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Choco

    Yeah, but when my friend talked to an officer about it they said it could be just considered “something said in anger”…
    _______________________
    She talked to the wrong officer or she in the wrong state of the effn officer is an abuser himself

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @OTB

    This officer was a female… :shrugs:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Fe
    Does your friend fit that definition of battered woman syndrome

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Officers are dumb at times in MOCO they do not play Domestic Violence at all!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @Choco

    Yeah… always trying to find a reason or excuse for why “she” may have made him that angry…

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Officers are dumb at times
    :cosign:

  • Bibi

    :no:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :no: Ugh. That curdles my stomach contents. You have to be the voice of reason then. I know a lot of ppl like to “mind they own business” but I dont play that chit. Every woman (except George Zimmerman’s wife) is my business.

  • OutsidetheBox

    :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    Every woman (except George Zimmerman’s wife) is my business.
    ____________
    :hahaha:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    DID YALL EVER SEE THE EPISODES ON MAURY WERE THE HUSBANDS WOULD BEAT AND TREAT THEY WIVES LIKE SH!t.. ERRTIME THAT CAME ON I GOT ALL FUKN PISSD! :cuss: THEN THEY WOULD STAR CRYING LIKE PUNK PUTOS WHEN THEY SAW THE WIFE IN A CASKET.. ESTUPIDOS!

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    Every woman (except George Zimmerman’s wife) is my business.

    :hahaha: i cant eber stop lubbin yew! :love:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    OTB I AGREE BUT SOMETIMES TRYING TO HELP CAN GET U KILLED.. I HEARD OF A GIRL WHO GOT SHOT IN THE HEAD BY HER COUSIN BF BECAUSE SHE TRIED TO STOP HIM FROM BEATING HER IN THE FUKN CAR DUDE PULLED OVER SHOT THE CUZIN AND LEFT WITH THE GF IN THE CAR :blink:

  • prynsexxx

    The words: bitch, punch and dead in the same sentence, damn near sound like divorce, break up, get out while you can, ranned for my life wit no shoes on words to me.

    I don’t play with folks and the threats. My brother told somebody he was gone “wear his wife out” after an argument they had. That fukka went home and killed her AND his self. #take heed

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Choco

    Yeah… always trying to find a reason or excuse for why “she” may have made him that angry…
    _____________________
    YEP I’ve never hated anyone but I truly can not stand my ex is whining bish made ways – I can’t even stand to think of him – and he knew he repulsed me which made him even angrier

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    prynsexxx says:

    The words: bitch, punch and dead in the same sentence, damn near sound like divorce, break up, get out while you can, ranned for my life wit no shoes on words to me.

    I don’t play with folks and the threats. My brother told somebody he was gone “wear his wife out” after an argument they had. That fukka went home and killed her AND his self. #take heed

    __________

    Ur right… :(

  • OutsidetheBox

    :lol:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    don’t play with folks and the threats. My brother told somebody he was gone “wear his wife out” after an argument they had. That fukka went home and killed her AND his self. #take heed
    WOW :cry:

  • Gigi26

    The words: bitch, punch and dead in the same sentence, damn near sound like divorce, break up, get out while you can, ranned for my life wit no shoes on words to me.

    :yes: Got to watch the language because most of the time there will some sort of action behind it at some point…

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    don’t play with folks and the threats. My brother told somebody he was gone “wear his wife out” after an argument they had. That fukka went home and killed her AND his self. #take heed
    ___________________________
    Damn what did he do shoot her and himself

  • prynsexxx

    O’an HE (my brother) would have started POLICE academy the following month. So yeah….

  • OutsidetheBox

    OTB I AGREE BUT SOMETIMES TRYING TO HELP CAN GET U KILLED..

    Uber sad story :( but Im willing to bet my latest pint of chunk monkey that there were a hunnid other oppportunites to stop dude before it went there. Somebody has to still be thinking in these matters. He didnt just pop up crazy. I wouldve never been in a car with them.

    My little cousin was getting beat (ive been there too but we aint tombout me..) and I made that nigga’s life pure HELL. No license? Cops behind you at every turn..warrants? Im turning him in.

    Eventually he was like fukk yo cousin.. :bye: <—me

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    aww damn Pryn :( that’s fukkd up. i’m sorry yall had to go thru that :(

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    Eventually he was like fukk yo cousin.. :hi: <—me

    _______________

    :lolol:

  • OutsidetheBox

    I will never forget that story about your brother, @Prynn. I always think about those funeral arrangements yall had.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    PRYN WOW!! IM SORRY TO HEAR THAT :cry:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    O’an HE (my brother) would have started POLICE academy the following month. So yeah….
    ______________________
    Police officers tend to think they can get away with murder

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    sorry y’all…. I didn’t mean to bring the mood of the thread down, just had to put my feelers out there for my “friend” :coffee:

  • prynsexxx

    @choco
    Yes

  • Bibi

    Too many folks trying to mind their own business like OTB said is what lets so many crimes occur… :no: Sometimes you should try and help wouldn’t you want someone to help you?? :shrugs:

  • Gigi26

    Damn :no: Pryn….

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    OTB :hug: lawd we need more like ya. i KNOW there are the women that are not done with the abuser, and that makes it hard for the women that ARE ready to leave the abuse bc ppl dont wanna help thinking she’ll go back. DV is just thee WORST.

    verbal abuse is the worst tho. i don’t recall most of the fights, but i damn shole recall words he spoke :(

  • OutsidetheBox

    Strong family units are a deterrent for an abuser. The real deep to the core jerk-offs, that is. They dont have time for that; they need submission and “families” are too much hassle.

  • Bibi

    @Fefe

    Iono bout anyone else…but you have nothing to apologize for…perhaps your friend will take what you say to heart and tomorrow the story will be positive versus negative…imo

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    OTB :yes: IM SURE THERE WERE SIGNS OF HIS CRAY.. IT WAS JUST SAD TO HEAR SHE LOST HER LIFE TO PROTECT HER CUZIN.. WHO DID NOT PROTECT HERSELF OR HER CUZIN.. :cry:
    OH I BEEN THERE ONCE WHEN MY COWORKER WAS GETTING HER AZZ HANDED TO HER.. INFRONT OF ME :blink: OVER HER FUKN PHONE BEING ON VIBRATE I GOT THE FAWK UP AND STARTED TO SWING THAT BROOM STICK.. **HE WAS IN MY WAY OF THE FUKN DOOR** I HIT HIM LIKE 5 TIMES AND RAN.. NEXT WEEK HE WAS AT THE JOB PICKING HER UP FOR LUNCH :coffee:

  • Gigi26

    Bibi I know what you’re saying but depending on the situation you could get your ass beat/killed so you have to thread lightly in certain situations…

    Call police yes but me go outside and attempt to break up a fight between a man and his wife/gf/baby momma……

    I’ll just call the police. He can turn his rage towards me and I can end up more hurt than her. I know its a fukked up thing to say yes but nowadays you hear of the innocent bystander/mediator getting killed more often than the victim or the perp.

  • Bibi

    oh man Prynn :no:

  • YSoSrs

    Might not need my .002 cents at this point in the convo (as if that’s ever stopped moi) but I agree if you have to ask the question regarding abuse you already know the answer.

    As both a victim and perpetrator till I learned better, I know the signs and I see them here. Get out before you talk yourself or let him talk you into staying till it’s too late. If you’re ready to run, don’t let ANYBODY stop you. Not family, not friends, not the cops. If you’re not ready to run and want to work it out, may your Lord be with you. You’re gonna need him.

  • Ms.Fashion

    FeFe says:

    @OTB

    So if I get called a “water head bitch” and I hear shyt like “I could punch you dead in your fukking forehead…” Is that abuse too? Because some folks look at that as heated argument type words and as folks saying shyt they don’t mean….

    _______

    Coming on the end of the convo. I know you didn’t ask me my FEFEEE.

    But this behavior leads to abuse.

    OUT OF ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART THE MOUTH SPEAKS. (remember this)

    :yes:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Call police yes but me go outside and attempt to break up a fight between a man and his wife/gf/baby momma……

    I’ll just call the police. He can turn his rage towards me and I can end up more hurt than her. I know its a fukked up thing to say yes but nowadays you hear of the innocent bystander/mediator getting killed more often than the victim or the perp.

    ^^ THIS YEEZZ! I WILL CALL THE COPS ON HIS AZZ OR HER AZZ WHOEVER IS DOING THE BEATING UNLESS ITS A CHILD

  • Bibi

    @Gigi

    I get you…it’s help if you just call the police…had that incident recently some girl pounding on my door talkin bout he trying to kill me…I wouldn’t open, I have kids but I called the cops…he wasn’t nowhere to be seen but still….

    It’s the ones who really just ignore that irk me…I might not jump in but Imma yell, call someone, something :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    @YSo and Ms.Fashion

    You guys are right….

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Pryn
    Did he show signs of a potential abuser previously – did she cheat on him or soemthing – damn that so unbelievable that it happened to someone so close to you

  • OutsidetheBox

    verbal abuse is the worst tho.

    This chit…give it enough years and thats how they get new victims and suspects…women be staying home taking that chit, children just soaking it in… :no:

    Whatchu thank they gone grow up to do? :( I got a friend never had an ass whooping a day in her life but that b!tch keep a piece of down grading ass man next to her side!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Fe
    Your friend should leave him – he has moments when he hates her and that just as dangerous

  • prynsexxx

    @fe
    You cool. Two main things that make my blood boil more than ANYTHING are drunk driving and ABUSE. I HATE SH!T. Matter of fact you making me post AND I’m off work. I don’t do da Rose after business hrs or frm my phn. Now I’m doing both. But hopefully something shared here today can help out your “friend”.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    And abusers are sociopaths

    7 Symptons below and my ex meets each one of them
    Failure to conform to social norms
    Deceitfulness, manipulativeness;
    Impulsivity, failure to plan ahead;
    Irritability, aggressiveness;
    Reckless disregard for the safety of self or others
    Consistent irresponsibility;
    Lack of remorse after having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another person

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

    prynsexxx says:

    @fe
    You cool. Two main things that make my blood boil more than ANYTHING are drunk driving and ABUSE. I HATE SH!T. Matter of fact you making me post AND I’m off work. I don’t do da Rose after business hrs or frm my phn. Now I’m doing both. But hopefully something shared here today can help out your “friend”.

    __________

    :hugs:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    OTB sooo many dont even consider words abuse. when i tell u it IS. GLO-RAY pls know that’s a damb LIE! u actually start believing the chit after so long..

    Fefe don’t nobody GAF about no mood being pulled down. this is a serious issue. there’s a time & place for everything nahmean? this was needed :hug:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :) Love this damn blog.

  • prynsexxx

    @choco
    Long story (not that I don’t want to share) and phn posting makes it impossible to tell it. But yes she AND he were cheating…….SHE just got caught.

    Almighty bless.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Pryn
    Gosh that is so sad…

  • YSoSrs

    Also, if someone is in an abusive relationship but wants to stay and work through it, you CANNOT do it alone. Get help from someone you trust but that is trained in this sort of thing. Pastor, counselor, therapist, doesn’t matter.

    But the two people deep in the abuse WILL NOT be able to get themselves out of it. If I know nothing, I know this.

  • Bibi

    But the two people deep in the abuse WILL NOT be able to get themselves out of it. If I know nothing, I know this.

    1000% true

  • Ms.Fashion

    FeFe says:

    @YSo and Ms.Fashion

    You guys are right….

    ____________

    Sweetie I am a porduct out of that environment. Believe me when I tell you I know. Spermdonor threw my mother in a wwall head first. Then told her he loved her.

    I have had visions/desires of murdering this fool since young. Still do.I would if I cdidn’t have to serve time for it.

    It does so much damage to a child’s mind that its beyond explanation.

    #Will-MERCK-You
    #EvilBastard

    :coffee:

  • Ms.Fashion

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    And abusers are sociopaths

    7 Symptons below and my ex meets each one of them
    Failure to conform to social norms
    Deceitfulness, manipulativeness;
    Impulsivity, failure to plan ahead;
    Irritability, aggressiveness;
    Reckless disregard for the safety of self or others
    Consistent irresponsibility;
    Lack of remorse after having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another person

    __________

    ON THE MONEY @CHOCO!!! :yes:

    #TakeHeed

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    It does so much damage to a child’s mind that its beyond explanation.
    _________________________
    :hugs: sorry to hear that – it must be painful

  • OutsidetheBox

    Failure to conform to social norms

    This one screams so loud. :no: Be talking about what they “just dont like…” and chit. :no: Extreme social awkardness is a red flag.