Jovan Belcher’s last texts before killing girlfriend

Jovan Belcher last texts

A Sports Illustrated reporter tracked down a few of Jovan Belcher’s last text messages before he shot and killed his girlfriend and then turned the gun on himself.

On Thanksgiving night Belcher, 25, exchanged text messages with Reggie Paramoure, who played on the football team with Belcher at the University of Maine.

In the text messages, the Kansas City Chief’s linebacker called his newborn daughter a “blessing”, criticized his team’s offense and complained about relationship problems with his girlfriend, Kasandra Perkins, 22.

“I see yall boys aint doing too well. Whats goen on wit u besides ball,” Paramoure wrote.

“Yea man,” Belcher texted back. “our ‘O’ can’t even put 7 in the board for us, but everything good bro, baby momma crazy but I have a little girl almost 3 month man and she’s a blessing, she makes me smile on the worst day.”

Paramoure responded by advising Belcher to have a gun ready for when she grows up and starts dating boys.

“Yea man,” Belcher replied. “I got about 8 guns now, from hand Gunz to assault rifles for her little bf’s.”

Belcher used 2 of those guns to murder Perkins and commit suicide on Saturday.

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  • Photos: Instagram.com



     



    • Donna del Gatto

      :facepalm:

    • Sweet-tea

      Wow, this whole situation is so sad. My brain can’t handle it!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Need a Rhianna recap from last night :tea: please and thanks !
      Shine Bright like a diamond :whistle:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Fukc this cat! :cuss:
      ===========
      That baby is absolutely adorable :love: GOD bless her :pray:

    • lola

      He called her crazy yet he “snapped”.

    • Hax

      That “I’ve got 8 guns ready for her future bf” is just … nope. Not a fan of those types of statements.

    • lola

      :waves: Good day Roses! Rihanna was hot job on VS

    • Aspiring Model aka Sugar Foot

      Going back downstairs :kona:

    • spiceykay

      She crazy but you killed her and then yourself. I’m just tired of men that are quick to call women crazy. I have been called crazy because I refuse to let anyone take me out of my character.

    • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

      I’ve heard all I need to hear about this situation.

      Anyone else notice how there ain’t been a Morning Wood/Glory since Da-what’s her face?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      :lol: @Lola’s gravie because i’ve seen the one with all three women

      I can’t with these sad posts today… :nono:

      I want to see a MG or MW…summ’n por favor tia sandra!

    • Iheart

      :crying:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Bird 9, I will hold yew accountable if we get a Morning Rock up in here :rofl:

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Bird

      We straight RUINT that last MG…I think either folks just aren’t submitting anymore or Sandra doesn’t want to expose them to ridicule anymore! :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Oh, and I forgot her name too, but they were all calling Exotic! #fancy :D

    • Gigi26

      I mean what else is there to say Sandra? :shrugs:

      He’s dead, she’s dead.

      Notice he referred to her as his “baby momma” and not “girlfriend”

      :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      405

      I thought you were going to remember yesterday was my birthday. :waiting:

    • Diva

      And we need to know this because???????????? Some things just need to stay private. SMDH

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Hax says:

      That “I’ve got 8 guns ready for her future bf” is just … nope. Not a fan of those types of statements.

      Everyone has been Desensitized. It wouldn’t shock anyone of us to hear someone say something along these lines IMB :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      Donna del Gatto says:

      @Bird
      We straight RUINT that last MG…I think either folks just aren’t submitting anymore or Sandra doesn’t want to expose them to ridicule anymore! :kona:
      ____________________________________________
      But they knew better than to submit photos to Sandra for us to grade anyway. I don’t blame anyone but them. ESPECIALLY if they read this blog on a daily basis? They know better. :nono:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      spiceykay says:

      She crazy but you killed her and then yourself. I’m just tired of men that are quick to call women crazy. I have been called crazy because I refuse to let anyone take me out of my character.
      ———-
      Little boys will say anything to make it seem like they aren’t really who they are or what they are doing… just to keep a certain social status… if youre a fugg up youre a fugg up.. own up to it and move on simple as that.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      DIVA :kiss:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I hate to sound harsh :shrugs: but they are both dead, he killed her and that’s pretty much it. I have prayed for the family but to keep bringing up :thinking: unless someone asked Sandy for updates on this story

    • Iheart

      69 says:

      405

      I thought you were going to remember yesterday was my birthday.

      __________

      Was you even here yesterday? :thinking:

      :happybirthday: anyway! :party: What we doing this weekend? Magic City? DOA?

    • Miany

      I agree with everyone who said we need to let this sad situation rest. It’s tragic, that poor baby is going to grow up without her biological parents for NO GOOD REASON. Now we need to stop talking about this.

    • Trendsetter

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Need a Rhianna recap from last night please and thanks !
      Shine Bright like a diamond
      ___________________________

      listening to that song right now

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      GG :yes:

      MsDiva, let’s change the subject :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Paramoure responded by advising Belcher to have a gun ready for when she grows up and starts dating boys.

      “Yea man,” Belcher replied. “I got about 8 guns now, from hand Gunz to assault rifles for her little bf’s.”
      ~ ~ ~
      WoW,Im sure ParaMoure is not well mentally behind this.
      69 :partyhat: HappyBlatedBday!

    • prynsexxx

      69 says:
      They know better.
      ______________________

      Confidence can gets folks feelings hurt sometimes. :facepalm:

    • WorkInProgress

      Kassandra was a beautiful woman. May she R.I.P. Don’t know why they keep digging at this story. It’s not he here to press charges or be held accountable. Justice is out of “our” hands and now rest in God’s hands.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      ahdidahdidahdidoop :whistle: I see ya walk dahdidaheeaye ! :whistle:
      I bet wanna know what I’m all about, you really wanna know how we get down :whistle:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Happy :cheer: Birthday Screw :kiss:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      WorkInProgress says:

      Kassandra was a beautiful woman. May she R.I.P. Don’t know why they keep digging at this story. It’s not he here to press charges or be held accountable. Justice is out of “our” hands and now rest in God’s hands.
      :applause: Well Said…

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Trend :dance: I am feeling her album :yes:

    • VDot

      I got about 8 guns now, from hand Gunz to assault rifles for her little bf’s.”

      ______________________________

      He meant for her mama. Ol’ piece of sh*t.

    • Diva

      @69 Hey boo :kiss:

    • spiceykay

      Happy Birthday

    • Iheart

      Am i the only one who felt like Rih was flirtin like hell with all the angels while she was performing? That bish is just so gangsta!

    • https://voteobama2012.bigcartel.com San

      Belcher used 2 of those guns
      _____________________
      O did he :tea:

    • Iheart

      Diva Diva :yahoo:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :kiss: Diva
      :wave: Smurfette

    • lovezoe

      People won’t let families have peace. Sick.

    • Donna del Gatto

      :happybirthday: belated @69 :hugs:

    • https://voteobama2012.bigcartel.com San

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      I hate to sound harsh but they are both dead, he killed her and that’s pretty much it. I have prayed for the family but to keep bringing up unless someone asked Sandy for updates on this story
      _____________
      Ppl want to know the why but the why doesn’t matter anymore

    • Aspiring Model aka Sugar Foot

      <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

      Bird 9, I will hold yew accountable if we get a Morning Rock up in here
      ___________
      Morning Rock :huh: More like Scattered Showers :cry:

      Auntie please stop posting on that bastard up top its giving me a case of the sads :cry:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Hey LuvLife :hug:

      This piece of shyt gots me feeling some kind of way right now!

      :cosign: V.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Iheart says:

      Am i the only one who felt like Rih was flirtin like hell with all the angels while she was performing? That bish is just so gangsta!
      ______________________

      The beesh put it damn down last night hands down :bow: great performance best one I’ve ever seen her do, :thinking: seems like she performs a lot better geeked

    • Donna del Gatto

      Iheart says:

      Am i the only one who felt like Rih was flirtin like hell with all the angels while she was performing? That bish is just so gangsta!

      ____________

      She was! At one point she looked like the madam on stage with all her hoes! :lol: Smackin’ ass and shyt…

    • Diva

      <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

      GG

      MsDiva, let’s change the subject
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Well it is HUMP DAY, shouldn't we be :hump: ing?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      405

      We going to Cat Walk on Veterans Parkway. :hahaha:

      Naw let me stop. I have to work this weekend. I actually just got a few friends together, we had a couple of drinks and then I went home and passed out early.

      Thank You Luvn DTTS Spicey

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Morning Rock
      Shattered Showers
      Freezing Ice
      Warm Clouds

      Hell anything is better than this IMB :huh:

    • Diva

      @Iheart & Luvn :kiss: hey my loves!!!!!

    • Iheart

      @Fe, Ok!! When she smacked ole girls ass and smirked, I was like she tryna take one of these hoes home tonight :lol:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      Thank You Feline Feminine :kiss:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      :shakebutt: MsDiva

      I’m ready… I got my bday suit on :D

    • VDot

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Need a Rhianna recap from last night please and thanks !
      Shine Bright like a diamond

      ____________________________________

      That bish rocked the runway like everyone knew she was.

      FeFe is claiming she helped her get dressed backstage :eyeroll: Knowing she has never had the chance to even sniff the puss.

      After Rih rocked the runway we smoked a couple of blunts, popped a few bottles and then scissored all night.

      Another day another dolla, ya know :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      :lol:

    • Diva

      *pours belated birthday drink for 69* :partyhat:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :rofl: @VDOT!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      Diva says:

      <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

      GG

      MsDiva, let’s change the subject
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Well it is HUMP DAY, shouldn't we be :hump: ing?
      —————-
      :wail: WUT!!! Hook us up! :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      BBL when I see sub stance :pigsfly:

    • Anna

      Iheart says:

      Am i the only one who felt like Rih was flirtin like hell with all the angels while she was performing? That bish is just so gangsta!

      ~~~~~~~~~~
      Some ppl are just sexy/flirtaish by nature. Rih does not discriminate

    • luVn_liFe…

      This piece of shyt gots me feeling some kind of way right now!
      ~ ~ ~ `
      Yes,I Believe everyone on this board feels tht way, :ido:
      I especially think it has alot to do with looking at that Beuatiful babygirl,that will have to get thru this when she gets Older.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :ghost:

    • Iheart

      @Screw, No the hell we aint :nono: Notice I did NOT name any place in Columbus. I can go to Fox lady any time :lol:

      Good for you! Aint nothing wrong with a nice drank

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      sexy/flirtaish by nature GUILTY :ashamed:

      :rofl: bbl!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      :rofl: @VDOT!! you mashed all night huh? what a visual!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Anna totally agree :cosign:

    • Donna del Gatto

      @69

      Who???????????????? :lol: :D

      @VDot

      Oh you talkin’ shyt now???? :karate: let’s go!!!

      :dead: @ “scissored all night”

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      :rofl: @VDOT!! you mashed all night huh? what a visual!
      _______________

      Exactly :hahaha: had to read vdot font again lol

    • Iheart

      I now hate Vdot :ghost:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :|

    • Iheart

      @Anna, IM a flirt by nature :ashamed: It’s the Scorpio in me

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Scissored :rofl: :rofl:

    • Donna del Gatto

      My secretary has a Christmas sweater on with lil bells jingling around the office and shyt… :lame:

    • robin

      This story is just soooo sad. I agree, I have nothing left to comment.

      However a Rihanna post would be nice. She has so much personality. Luv’d watching her performance last night. Her cat walk at the end was pro style.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      Iheart says:

      @Screw, No the hell we aint :nono: Notice I did NOT name any place in Columbus. :lol:
      ___________________________________
      Cause my cousin said that Cat Walk smell like a combination of Catfish and Tuna fish with a hint of ass. :ghost:

      I never had the desire to step foot in a 706 strip club.

    • Iheart

      @Donna, Please tell me that she is over 50?

    • Donna del Gatto

      Iheart says:

      @Donna, Please tell me that she is over 50?

      ________

      Yeah she is…I think she’s going to be retiring soon….she’s such a cornball!

    • luVn_liFe…

      :hurl:
      Cause my cousin said that Cat Walk smell like a combination of Catfish and Tuna fish with a hint of ass.
      ~ ~ ~ ~
      So the Skrip clubs are Funky?? I always imagined they wer,And MoFos be in some of em having dinner :vomit: Fugging NasTee!

    • VDot

      @VDOT!! you mashed all night huh? what a visual!

      ________________________________________________

      :yes:

      And when I saw ALL night, I mean ALL NIGHT!

      We pulled a Hony and :hump: all night until almost noon the next day. No :shotsfired: :rofl:

    • Iheart

      @Screw, I’ve never been in catwalk, but foxy lady was ratchet enough for me to not Anna go to any other 706 strip club :no:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Yes I agree, this story need to rest. That baby looks just like her Dad and I can only imagine the heart ache she will have for parents she never knew. I dated a Football player for 2 1/2 yrs (me and the hubbys longest seperation) and he was obssessed with guns. He had two duffle bags full of all types of guns. We went to the gun range a lot and he was so fascinated with guns.

    • Donna del Gatto

      @luVn

      Ayyyyeeee….. real talk, one of the strip clubs ’round here has some of the absolute BEST fried catfish filets! Do not ask me how I know this! :kona:

    • VDot

      Oh you talkin’ shyt now???? let’s go!!!

      _________________________________________

      Naw Boo! Just stating facts :hug:

    • VDot

      *saw = say :eyeroll: myself

    • Iheart

      @Luvn, Magic City wasn’t fonky and ther chicken wings were quite tasty :yes:

    • luVn_liFe…

      @Donna . .
      one of the strip clubs ’round here has some of the absolute BEST fried catfish filets!
      ^ ^ ^ ^
      Of course they do! :D

    • Iheart

      :fistbump: @Donna

    • Donna del Gatto

      @VDot

      Yeah…uh huh…and then you WOKE UP! :coffee:

    • Donna del Gatto

      @luVn

      :lol: I guess the play on words says it all!

      @Iheart

      SEE! All strip clubs ain’t fonky…and they be back in that kitchen doing what they gotta do to keep folks there making it rain! :yes:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :lol:

    • NaijaGal

      Donna del Gatto says:

      My secretary has a Christmas sweater on with lil bells jingling around the office and shyt…
      =========================
      you gone let granny’s chrimus sweater be great…hmpf

    • Gigi26

      :yawn:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      LUVN

      My experience with Atlanta’s strip joints have been positive experiences. But Atlanta is well known for having great strip clubs.

      Ratchet Columbus though? :nono:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      NaijaGal says:

      Donna del Gatto says:

      My secretary has a Christmas sweater on with lil bells jingling around the office and shyt…
      =========================
      you gone let granny’s chrimus sweater be great…hmpf

      Giggles, I can imagine how that damn sweater look

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      Iheart says:

      @Screw, I’ve never been in catwalk, but foxy lady was ratchet enough for me to not Anna go to any other 706 strip club :no:
      _______________________________________
      That’s that one down on Victory Drive, isn’t it? And you and I both know I don’t do anything blow Macon Rd in that city. :nono:

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Naija

      Yeah and next thing I know she’ll be in my office telling me about her diarrhea issues… :rollseyes:

    • Iheart

      69 says:

      Iheart says:

      @Screw, I’ve never been in catwalk, but foxy lady was ratchet enough for me to not Anna go to any other 706 strip club
      _______________________________________
      That’s that one down on Victory Drive, isn’t it? And you and I both know I don’t do anything blow Macon Rd in that city.

      _____________

      :yes: It didn’t stink though :lol:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Yeah, Ive never been to any funky strip clubs and I was damn near a member at Strokers in the A

    • NaijaGal

      Donna del Gatto says:

      @Naija

      Yeah and next thing I know she’ll be in my office telling me about her diarrhea issues…
      ======================
      consider it your charity work…I know I consider it tithing when I tip waiters and give a dollar or 2 to the homeless :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHOU06sZ2_c 69

      Donna del Gatto says:

      @Naija
      Yeah and next thing I know she’ll be in my office telling me about her diarrhea issues… :rolleyes:
      __________________________________
      Idk who you’re talking about but since we’re on the subject of diarrhea, let me tell you how I had a half gallon of Publix Ice Cream last night and it blew my asshole out not even 30 minutes after I had it. I knew it was coming too because I had just eaten and Ice Cream always sets my stomach off. I was in the bathroom focused like I was taking the SAT all over again trying my hardest to get let it all fly out.

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Naija

      You and I … we think alike. :yes:

    • Donna del Gatto

      @69

      You and your poo poo stories have got to :stop: :dead:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Donna del Gatto says:

      @Naija

      Yeah and next thing I know she’ll be in my office telling me about her diarrhea issues…

      Reminds me of one of my patients who told me she had a yeast infection uner her :boobs:
      You would not believe some of the sick shiat I hear from patients…Most are just excuses though

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      @69…..you aint right. I was going to say you were full of shiat but never mind

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Keesh

      :hurl: how the fukk do you get a yeast infection under your tits????? ummmm, was she just not WASHING under there? As a fellow large chested woman I can attest to the fact that you have to wash and lift and rinse and then life and dry under there!

    • Donna del Gatto

      *lift

      in essence, there’s alot of lifting that has to be done!

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @DONNA
      You will need to post a video demonstration of your washing procedure!

    • Diva

      Donna del Gatto says:

      @Keesh

      how the fukk do you get a yeast infection under your tits????? ummmm, was she just not WASHING under there? As a fellow large chested woman I can attest to the fact that you have to wash and lift and rinse and then life and dry under there!

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      sour milk under the :boobs: :hurl:

    • NaijaGal

      Rob Kardashian is so predictable. A day after he fired off a series of tweets claiming that his girlfriend had slept with 20 guys during the year that they were together, he blamed the media for assuming that he was talking about Rita Ora.

      Just so we [are] clear I never once mentioned ‘Rita Ora’ in any of my tweets or even used the word ‘whore’ and I never would. I Respect Women.

      Sad that the media created negativity for a young artist new to the game that is working so hard to make it. Never mentioned any names.
      ===============================
      nigguh ish

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      This a sad story and all but let’s move on. We know dude was crazy an chit.

    • Donna del Gatto

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @DONNA
      You will need to post a video demonstration of your washing procedure!

      ________

      :grill: I’m sure it will be ummm, ahem, “stimulating” :rofl:

    • AlluringlySweet

      At what point is it enough? Still praying for this family.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Diva says:

      Donna del Gatto says:

      @Keesh

      how the fukk do you get a yeast infection under your tits????? ummmm, was she just not WASHING under there? As a fellow large chested woman I can attest to the fact that you have to wash and lift and rinse and then life and dry under there!

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      sour milk under the

      Her breast are beyond Hughe! Her Bras cant even hold them thangs up!

    • luVn_liFe…

      :rolleyes:

    • NaijaGal

      :newpost: is up

    • LadieLeo

      Again I’m over this knee-gro! Ol P A N, F A N and a whole bunch of other initials.

    • elmo97

      I agree that its time to let this tragedy rest. This precious child is going to grow up not really knowing her mom or dad. I also want to caution people from passing judgement on either party involved. Be thankful that it isnt your name and your significant other we are reading about. All of us are a finger snap away from losing our minds. I say that because neither of us know from one day to the next what frame of mind we will be in. You can go to sleep fine and wake up out of it. You do not know what the next sec, min, hour, day, week, month or year will hold for you so be careful who you call crazy or who you judge. Sometimes there arent signs and if you consider yourself to be in a relationship with someone you felt you did a thorough check on or that seems like a pretty solid person, please know that even the most solid, loving, caring person can snap, that includes you. So be thankful.

    • Lady_L

      Hax says:

      That “I’ve got 8 guns ready for her future bf” is just … nope. Not a fan of those types of statements.

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      elmo97 says:

      I agree that its time to let this tragedy rest. This precious child is going to grow up not really knowing her mom or dad. I also want to caution people from passing judgement on either party involved. Be thankful that it isnt your name and your significant other we are reading about. All of us are a finger snap away from losing our minds. I say that because neither of us know from one day to the next what frame of mind we will be in. You can go to sleep fine and wake up out of it. You do not know what the next sec, min, hour, day, week, month or year will hold for you so be careful who you call crazy or who you judge. Sometimes there arent signs and if you consider yourself to be in a relationship with someone you felt you did a thorough check on or that seems like a pretty solid person, please know that even the most solid, loving, caring person can snap, that includes you. So be thankful.

    • iyonah

      I’ve heard all I need to hear about this situation.

      ^^

      :cosign: Its really sad, such a beautiful baby.