LeToya Luckett’s Guide To Being A Boss Single Lady

Kshia Knight-Pulliam and LeToya Luckett

Former Destiny’s Child 3rd lead singer LeToya Luckett, right, is chronically single. At this point it’s obvious that LeToya can’t keep a man. Which makes her a perfect fit as a cast member on VH-1?s popular scripted drama Single Ladies. LeToya is proud to be a single lady and she wants you to be a boss single lady too!

Check out LeToya’s tips after the break!

1. Fix yourself before you get into a relationship.

You hear it all the time growing up: in order to love someone else you have to love yourself. That is the truest statement.You gotta clean house. It’s things that you see growing up that you think is right because you saw it that way, that you have to say, ‘Wait a minute, hold on, that might not fit me. I want to change that part, I want to break that generational curse. I want to not be afraid to love. I don’t want to be insecure, I want … like, you literally have to fall in love with yourself before you can give yourself, in a relationship.’ A lot of time we, as women, find ourselves cooking, cleaning, loving, being the therapist, the pastor, the everything. And by the end of the relationship you’re exhausted, left with nothing and you’ve made so many deposits, and there have been so many withdrawals that you have nothing left. And I refuse!

2. Pray — a great deal.

I literally, the other day, made a list and a prayer to God – I don’t want to call it a list, but my prayer – was that God brought me someone that he has been working on specifically for me, because I know no one comes on this earth perfect. And I’m definitely not perfect, but to prepare my mind for whoever he’s bringing into my life and to fix me first. I want to be healthy, I want to be right, I want to be strong, mentally, physically — all these different things — and open to love with a clean house. Don’t nobody want to move into a messy house. Who wants to come in there? And we try to cover it with a little bit of Lysol! You got to really get out there and clean all the things that you saw growing up, things that you went through past relationships, clean house before you let someone in.

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  • The Master Beta :D

    She looked good on Single Ladies I only watch to see the fashions

  • The Master Beta :D

    Former Destiny’s Child 3rd lead singer LeToya Luckett
    ___________________________________

    :hahaha:

  • Just Looking

    Ms. Luckett was the BADDDDEST BISH on Single Ladies Last night.

    Thinks the rest of the cast got their wardrobe from Dynasty. :tea:

  • Just Looking

    Ms. Luckett was the BADDDDEST BISH on Single Ladies Last night.

    Thinks the rest of the cast got their wardrobe from Dynasty. :tea:

  • sassyshe

    Letoya likes sluts ala Slim Thug and Tank

  • Gigi26

    Former Destiny’s Child 3rd lead singer LeToya Luckett
    ————————–
    :rofl: Sandra you ain’t right!

    But I feel her though..and why Rudy grinning like a damn Chester cat? :hahaha:

  • Gigi26

    Letoya should’ve never wasted her time with Slim Thugg bum ass :no: she went downhill from there.

    You can’t be top tier and fukkin with bottom feeders, your stock will drop.

    Example: Lauren London :tea: after Wayne, NO ONE will publicly claim her…smash yes, claim and ring on after looking at Wayne’s seed? Hard :tea:

  • rwilliams4782

    What is she tellin us we dont know

  • Trini

    I didn’t know that Single Ladies was still on. :shrugs:

  • Thando

    No-Man is better than Any-Man….

    Some women get societal pressure to settle for Any-man just to prove they are Good-wife-material. Loads of tears, anguish and heartbreak follow. Case in point…Gabby, Exocentric, Karate-train, Phedera, Porsha.

    Better be alone and if you need a child, IVF or sarrogacy is the in thing these days. No custody battles and baby daddy stress.

  • Trini

    Thando says:

    No-Man is better than Any-Man….

    Some women get societal pressure to settle for Any-man just to prove they are Good-wife-material. Loads of tears, anguish and heartbreak follow. Case in point…Gabby, Exocentric, Karate-train, Phedera, Porsha.

    Better be alone and if you need a child, IVF or sarrogacy is the in thing these days. No custody battles and baby daddy stress.
    ———————————

    I totally agree :claps:

  • Gigi26

    Exocentric, Karate-train
    ——
    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6tKJvWWDP4&feature=youtu.be JMO

    Who is that on the left with the Fire Marshall Bill smile?

  • Smonae

    Former Destiny’s Child 3rd lead singer :rofl:

  • SuthernBelle4

    Hey er’body, I hope everyone enjoyed the holidays :waves:
    Dying at Exocentric and Karate-train :rofl: I didn’t read the rest of them cause it ain’t nothing that I haven’t heard from my mommy, my deddy, or my grandparents. Chile these folks thanking they dropping “pearls of wisdom”

  • Who Dat

    I dont need love advice from someone who needs career advice.

    Thanks though.

  • BoogieNites

    :rolleyes: nothing to see here.. no one needs tips on being single. boss single or non-boss single.

    in other news: i cannot watch single ladies anymore. was it any good lastnite ?? :popcorn:

  • Who Dat

    This heffa laid up with Slim Thug and them hurt azz foots of his.

    And then gonna try to come with some relationship advice to being a boss single lady?

    Miss me.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jlSRgp76Ivg Razz n Tazz n Such :kiss:

    3rd lead singer LeToya Luckett
    ——————
    :rofl:

    And what does that currently make Michelle since LeToya is no longer with them :rofl:

  • BoogieNites

    Who Dat says:

    I dont need love advice from someone who needs career advice.

    Thanks though.
    ======================

    :hahaha: :crying: :hahaha:

  • SuthernBelle4

    ya’ll are ruthless :rofl: Side note: I always thought Letoya was the prettiest.

  • BoogieNites

    JMO says:

    Who is that on the left with the Fire Marshall Bill smile?

    ==============================================
    Mrs. Rudy Huxtable-Tig

  • luVn_liFe…

    :bow: LaTOYa . . I mean seriously bow down woman
    How is she giving advice and HAD a BOSS Man, but didnt keep em :tea:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jlSRgp76Ivg Razz n Tazz n Such :kiss:

    I will NEVAH get over Tank beating that ass in that movie though :rofl:

  • Diva

    Is that lil Rudy? Well I like that other girls bag and boots.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jlSRgp76Ivg Razz n Tazz n Such :kiss:

    JMO says:

    Who is that on the left with the Fire Marshall Bill smile?
    ———–
    Fire Marshall Bill though? :rofl:

  • luVn_liFe…

    SUTHERNBEllE . . :bounce: How’s studies going? OR are U on the Eudoxie plan??

    lol

  • rwilliams4782

    Honey anyone that had sex with slim thug can’t give me any help

  • Diva

    Razz n Tazz n Such :kiss: says:

    I will NEVAH get over Tank beating that ass in that movie though :rofl:
    —————–
    he was wrong for that doe

  • BoogieNites

    thando the Rose Trufetella, huh ?? :nun: SAY THAT !!

  • Diva

    Slim Thug uh :rofl:

  • Smonae

    :hahaha:

  • Diva

    :wave: hey Monae

  • Smonae

    Divaaa :yahoo: Hey hun

  • Just Looking

    That is coke head Rudy Huxtable…She got her teef done… :shrug:

    Rudy should have worn Black boots…But she did give me idea on wearing my pink bracelet and pank purse.

  • sassyshe

    :newpost:

  • Matchsticks

    Slim Thug and one of them slow looking azz twins from JE…

  • GAGIRL87

    I enjoyed the article kudos Toya she’s a cute lil skinny mini :coffee:

  • GAGIRL87

    God brought me someone that he has been working on specifically for me
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :love:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enpFde5rgmw Orange Blossom

    i think they go together. i really do.

  • lovezoe

    No one should be waiting on a man. Live your life and be happy.

  • QueenSJ

    She’s gorgeous and has a beautiful voice.

  • GAGIRL87

    Rudy’s bag is cute but in black or cognac it’s gorgeous :love: :bowdown: That bag went with an outfit that she had on the night before and all her stuff was in there and she didn’t have time to change bags so it could match her current outfit. I’ve been there I see you Ru-dee

  • GAGIRL87

    i think they go together. i really do.
    _______________________________________________________________

    I almost spit out my water :lol: you meant that literally then you?

  • QueenSJ

    No one should be waiting on a man. Live your life and be happy.
    ___________________
    So true lovezoe. Everything has its time and place.

  • pointhimout

    I can’t watch single ladies either. after 5 minutes, next channel. Letoya does pretty good at acting though, and not just hood rat acting. So if she keeps at it, she’ll go far. Continue building your brand Letoya.

    Remember when Keshia was slim and you couldn’t tell her schit, bad attitude and all? I know people who work at the airport who said she was always a bitch. Funny a few extra 30 lbs calms u the eff down and makes you a people person. Hey Polow (xtra 70)

  • Jamie

    3rd lead singer LeToya Luckett
    ——————

    LMAO, I can’t. I have to get my daily dose of Sandra and her sly reads.

    :rofl:

  • Crickett

    She is a beautiful girl. But I bet she don’t put out at all, not for the first year anyways and by that time he has lost interest and she just don’t get why. Why don’t these celeb girls go for the smart guys like doctors, attorneys and heads of state. Its really depressing that the only choices are actors, music and sports.

  • http://mobile.twitter.com/iamwonderchick2 LesBinLuv

    I must say Ms. Luckett slayed on SL…she should replace Lisa Raye and still play her own part LOL