R.I.P. Ruby Dee

Ruby Dee

Legendary actress Ruby Dee has died at age 91, a family member confirmed Thursday.

The Grammy-winning actress is best known for her stage and screen work in films such as “A Raisin in the Sun” (1961), Spike Lee’s “Do the Right Thing” (1989), and the 1979 TV movie “Roots: The Next Generation”. Ruby Dee and her husband of 57 years, actor Ossie Davis, had an open marriage.

“It occurred to us, from observation and reasoning, that extramarital sex was not what really destroyed marriages, but rather the lies and deception that invariably accompanied it — that was the culprit,” Ossie, 97, wrote in their joint autobiography.

He wrote that they gave each other permission to sleep with other partners — as long as they were “honest as well as private, and that neither of us exposed the family to scandal or disease.”

“But looking back, I’d say no matter what did or did not happen, we freed each other. And in doing that, we also freed ourselves…Sex is fine, but love is better,” he wrote.

Ruby wrote:

“We both came to realize that we were very fortunate that, in all of the deep profound, fundamental ways, we really, really only wanted each other. It was like a rediscovery of something from the beginning. It’s not something that you’d recommend to everybody. But often Ossie has said – and I’ve though too – the best way to have somebody is to let it go. If it doesn’t come back you are free in another kind of sense – in that you find the strength to let go and wish somebody well. So, we thought an open marriage was appropriate for us but it turned out not to be. But then that’s what we’re all about, we are moving from one position to another in the process of trying to unravel this thing call life.”

Photo: Splash News Online



 



  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpImj7RI0Rc Man, I just don’t care™

    R.I.P.
    :sad:

  • buddapecan

    :cry:

  • San ah make ya dance

    She lived a long life :yes:

  • San ah make ya dance

    What her sex life got to do with her great accolades :huh:

  • WUT IZ REALLY GOING ON? :blink:

    RIP Ruby…

  • Bootcampgirl

    R.I.P., agree with @San :yes:

  • LaceJagger

    Ossie died in 2005, he would have been 97 this year…

  • MissHarlem

    :nun: RIP

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    A truly beautiful woman :cry: rest well… we lost another great :crying: she is with Ozzie now ……

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    What the hell does sex have to do with :facepalm:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Might I add was beautiful all the way to the end :nun:

  • Audacious2

    R.I.P. Ruby Dee! Now I didn’t know she and Ossie divorced. I do recall him being found dead in a Miami hotel room, no more info was released about his death whether he was alone or if he had a heart attack.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Thanks @ LaceJagger.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

    Dey got divorced? :cry: is nothing sacred?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Every newspaper has an obituary already written for every living star. All they have to do is plug in the dates.

  • MissHarlem

    JENIE I too was confused as to why sex was written in the post.

  • Afiya

    AWWW, Rest in Peace Lovely Lady…your man awaits you! :cry:

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    Legendary actress Ruby Dee has died at age 91, a family member confirmed Thursday.
    ——–
    We know it weren’t Missy J who told cause she just found out :kona:

  • Tea Is Finally Here

    Anybody see this headline on Yahoo?…..Kelly Rowland Pregnant with Future Personal Assistant to Blue Ivy

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    the best way to have somebody is to let it go.
    ============
    I understood what the old heads meant when they used to say this, but now I GET it.

    I’m happy that she lived a long life.

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    I’ve always loved Ruby Dee. Beautiful soul and lady. Rest in paradise Soror :pray:

  • http://www.pinterest.com/pin/347762402447491602/ User Friendly

    San ah make ya dance says:

    What her sex life got to do with her great accolades
    _______________

    I guess they saying that when J.Ho and Kimmy Cakes die they gonna be saints too. :nun: ppl cant wait til you die so they can say what they wouldnt have said if you were alive. nobody was talking about how Maya Angelou used to be a stripper until she passed. The media is weird that way.

  • luVn_liFe…

    BEAUTIFUL WOMAN! :nun: she lived a long life. :heart:

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    WAYMENT I am just getting to the write up and I saw open marriage :facepalm:
    We gone drag on her life exit? #weak :ghost:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

    R.I.P. :nun: …. Raisin in the Sun was on tv just last week. she was an awesome actress, activist, and advocate – hopefully she’ll be remembered as such, amongst other things :tea:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    The both of them I admired but for the record not for their marital things …. hell I have my parents for that …. but Ossie and Ruby were great activist…. my parents put me on as a younging… you can’t help but admire people that fought for a cause :sad: this is sad…. let me call my mamma :cell: BRB!

  • luVn_liFe…

    :blink:
    WEIRD

    :kona:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

    So if they ended up divorced when they was both “old as hell” btw ( :waves: hey Jennie). What does that say about open marriages?

  • Tea Is Finally Here

    Oh the shade…..Congratulations to Kelly Rowland and Blue Ivy Carter! May the future Rowland-Witherspoon child be as fastidious at signing non-disclosure agreements as he/she will be at carrying out Starbucks orders.

  • http://www.pinterest.com/pin/347762402447491602/ User Friendly

    Buttercup says:

    the best way to have somebody is to let it go.
    ============
    I understood what the old heads meant when they used to say this, but now I GET it.

    I’m happy that she lived a long life.
    ____________________________

    “Im lettin her do her and in turn she’s doin me” one of my favorite Jay Z verses (among many) :yes:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Harlem :no: as many wonderful accomplishments this woman has done and husband …. we get the marital woes sex scandal story :no: that ain’t right :no:

  • Gigi26

    RIP Ruby, she was a phenomenal actress and she aged very well :yes:

    Class till the very end, 91? Shiiid she lived long n strong. She was very wise too :yes:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Dubya :kiss: <<<< on your forehead

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

    Sandra Rose says:

    Every newspaper has an obituary already written for every living star. All they have to do is plug in the dates.
    __________________________

    :yes:
    I remarked on that when they were reporting Tracy’s bus accident on CNN on saturday. i told Mister, the way they’re running down his resume and roles, you’d think they were reading his obit. :no:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    luVn_liFe… says:

    :blink:
    WEIRD
    ______________

    Why I just BOL :rofl: when I saw this :lol:

  • Afiya

    WOW, I’m surprised too many folks don’t know who Rudy Dee & Ozzie Davis were…they lookin’ at me like “WHO?” :(

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    Everyone on here in the single digits? As far as partners go?

    ==================

    Nah I’m around LTL if anyone speaks freight and logistics :lol: j/k

  • LaceJagger

    @sandra you’re welcome :-)

  • Str8tUpMenace

    R.I.P. We lost another great

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    that extramarital sex was not what really destroyed marriages, but rather the lies and deception that invariably accompanied it

    ==========

    Where @Man at? He need to read this right here!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

    Everyone on here in the single digits? As far as partners go?

    ==================

    Nah I’m around LTL if anyone speaks freight and logistics j/k

    by missyJ on Jun 12, 2014 at 1:40 pm
    —————————–

    I was just wonder cause folk is lettin jlo have it. In this day and age a woman in her 40 s prob has done a lot ijs

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    Everyone on here in the single digits? As far as partners go?
    ==================
    I replied downstairs :tea:

  • http://www.pinterest.com/pin/347762402447491602/ User Friendly

    I was just wonder cause folk is lettin jlo have it. In this day and age a woman in her 40 s prob has done a lot ijs
    _________________

    yes, but not usually back to back to back to back to back

    you are right tho, single ppl do get it in but the kitty cat needs a nap sometimes. let that monkey rest before it falls out the socket :phew:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

    We’ll one that looks like jlo anyway men been after datazz since she was 12 prolly

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    “Im lettin her do her and in turn she’s doin me” one of my favorite Jay Z verses (among many)
    ===========
    Knowing that someone could spend time and effort on anyone else, but they choose to spend it with you is one way we should determine if things are real.

    *blows non-existent bangs* I need to lay on the blog’s couch for a minute. Y’all feel like being shyt for a few minutes?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    In this day and age a woman in her 40 s prob has done a lot ijs

    =============

    :huh: What folks you know?? Yo people be goin to them “parties” getting the gift or something?

  • Just Looking

    RIP RUBY DEE

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    *blows non-existent bangs* I need to lay on the blog’s couch for a minute. Y’all feel like being shyt for a few minutes?

    ===================

    What you need Butters?

    Make yo font white toward User tho… She ain’t trying to comfort NTBAWDY tah-day :tea:

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    Talk to me Butter. I am outside for about 15 more minutes :lol:

  • http://www.pinterest.com/pin/347762402447491602/ User Friendly

    What folks you know?? Yo people be goin to them “parties” getting the gift or something?
    _________________

    :rofl: my friend went to one of them parties and her co-worker was there. :facepalm:

    mind you, they are both teachers :eek:

  • MissHarlem

    JENIE distasteful indeed :no:

  • luVn_liFe…

    :yawn:

    wHats doing, can we get a comical post or informative or sumthiN anything Sandrita?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

    In this day and age a woman in her 40 s prob has done a lot ijs

    =============

    What folks you know?? Yo people be goin to them “parties” getting the gift or something?

    by missyJ on Jun 12, 2014 at 1:

    Nope you don’t know the saying get the number of partners and multiply by 3?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    Okay, I’ll try ti keep it brief without leaving out pertinent information.

  • luVn_liFe…

    StankBUGG! :wave:

  • Beta

    :wail: RIP Ruby

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    my friend went to one of them parties and her co-worker was there

    =================

    Awkward …. :popcorn: did :hunching: tho?

  • luVn_liFe…

    :think: I wonder what happened with that posters 15 yr old nephew and 39 yr olD GF

  • luVn_liFe…

    :shock: Oh BETA! ummmh. :rofl: that gravie scared me! :hahaha:

  • http://www.pinterest.com/pin/347762402447491602/ User Friendly

    Awkward …. did tho?
    ___________________

    she said she saw him in the parking lot but they both acted like they didnt see each other.

    ….thts what she said :shrugs:

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    54
    Buttercup says:

    Okay, I’ll try ti keep it brief without leaving out pertinent information.
    June 12, 2014 at 1:50 pm
    —-
    Hurry up. You should have bean had this typed :waiting:
    Didn’t I say I got limited time? :spank:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

    IJS same folk judgin jlo prolly got around too… JLOs list doesn’t seem high to me based on her access to men power and money… :shrugs:

  • MissHarlem

    LUVN :waves: hey hun. I’m still waiting on my text :waiting:

  • luVn_liFe…

    I Really like Haley’s Cut up top. Its so much work to keep up

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

    for the record, iont care bout lopez’s count, her c0cks, her cooch, her c.u.next tuesday, her nothing :shrug: but, hey, everyone’s entitled to their opinion :shrug:
    seems odd though, that lopez is worth defending, but there was a whole list of ‘thou shalt nots’ that Beyonce shoulda been observing ‘because she’s a mother now’ all based on her attire (or lack thereof :lol: ), so, lopez can put it in a blender and serve her milkshake to ALL the boys and i’m still not interested. her mileage don’t put wear & tear on my vehicle. also, she’s a public figure, so folks gonna comment on nearly everything she does. :shrug:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi9ruVd5Vc8 VDot

    RIP Ruby Dee!!

  • essenze

    Rip Ruby Dee. Yeah I didn’t need to know all of THAT about her and Ossie but different strokes for BBB different folks. As far as partners that’s between me and the man upstairs but let’s just say Ms. Essenze has lived quite a life while she was in her 20’s :-)

  • Beta

    Why fo Luvn :lol:

  • aRoTh

    RIP Ruby.

    Wasn’t she was in American Gangsta as well?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    So Honey Dip and I have a mutual friend who is a male. He was Honey Dip’s friend first, and I met him later (before Honey Dip and I got together), so we each have our one relationship with him, and it just made the times the 3 of us would hang out that much easier.

    Just as I did with my girl freeeens, I let him know that I was in town and would like to catch up. We went to dinner and to a chill bar afterwards. He paid for dinner, and I paid forth drinks. During outing he would say things like he shouldnt have introduced Honey Dip and I, he likes women with my build, he wants to marry a woman who is a nurturing woman like myself, etc. Before Honey Dip and I got together, I knew dude had a crush on me, but I was never interested in being more than friends with him.

    Fast forward to a couple of nights ago, we had dinner and he took me to see the place he just bought. Then he asks me to pinky promise something :huh: I said okay, because I understaood where he was getting at. He then said that he’s really enjoyed my company the last 2 timed we hung out. He liked me before Honey Dip and I got together. He just felt that he should let me know because he feels he’s missed out on good women because he didn’t open his mouth. I basically said, “Oh, that’s nice.”

    I really didn’t think anything of it until the next morning- blame the merlot. Then I started to get pissed. I feel like he put me in a tough spot. Even though we’re technically together, I don’t want to keep things from Honey Dip. Honey Dip considers this guy to be a good friend- like groomsman type good friend. Then again, I told dude that I wouldn’t say anything. I’m torn :confused:

  • MrsL

    RIP Soror. :cry:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    Butter it has been 15 minutes nah! WHere is yew?

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    :offtopic; walking back to work and to avoid talking to someone I put my earphones and started moving my mouth like I was talking. The person got the hint. But I just realized I had no sound coming out I was just mouthing…. They probably was like :rolleyes: But I don’t even care.
    :hahaha: Stuff petty people do

  • Just Looking

    yes, but not usually back to back to back to back to back
    you are right tho, single ppl do get it in but the kitty cat needs a nap sometimes. let that monkey rest before it falls out the socket :phew:
    ___________
    I’ve know people mostly men, that have slept with multiple people in the same day.

    Now on to the 40 thang. :tea:

    Didn’t have sex until I was 20.

    Unfortunately; there were times, I felt like I should have experienced more DYCK, but now I’m glad I didn’t. Because, i’m thankful I know about VALTREX through commercials.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    Please excuse the typos. I am on my ipad and was rushing for MsT :winky:

  • aRoTh

    @Butter

    :huh: Sounds like a setup to see if YOU “loyal”.

    I hate men right now anyway, so. :karate:

  • luVn_liFe…

    Butter
    I wouldn’t mention it NOR would I continue to associate on that type of level with the male friend either :no:

  • Just Looking

    luVn_liFe… says:

    StankBUGG! :wave:
    _________________

    Hey Girl *giggles

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi9ruVd5Vc8 VDot

    Buttercup – I wouldn’t say anything. Just know that man is jacking off at thoughts of you and Mr. Buttercup :hump: :eek: He may even have pics of you and Mr. but he put a pic of his face over Mr’s :yes:

    :rofl: :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    *Honey Dip and I technically AREN’ T together

  • aRoTh

    luVn_liFe… says:

    Butter
    I wouldn’t mention it NOR would I continue to associate on that type of level with the male friend either

    _______________________

    …THEY on some “bros before hoes” type chit right now. I can feel it. :huh: LOL

  • Just Looking

    MisTaken is #unbothered :cool: says:

    :offtopic; walking back to work and to avoid talking to someone I put my earphones and started moving my mouth like I was talking. The person got the hint. But I just realized I had no sound coming out I was just mouthing…. They probably was like :rolleyes: But I don’t even care.
    :hahaha: Stuff petty people do
    _______________________
    This made me bust out laughing. I do this all the time…ONce I pretended I was on the phone and the phone rang…..

    :kona:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi9ruVd5Vc8 VDot

    But I just realized I had no sound coming out I was just mouthing….

    ________________

    :dead: You are contained :lol:

  • luVn_liFe…

    I just realized I had no sound coming out I was just mouthing…. They probably was like :rolleyes: But I don’t even care.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :facepalm:

  • http://www.pinterest.com/pin/347762402447491602/ User Friendly

    I’ve know people mostly men, that have slept with multiple people in the same day.
    ___________________

    I do too. just seems like a lot of work for my lazy ass :phew:

    also, fuxing and being in a public relationship when you have kids are two different things. I dont want my kids to have that many “uncles” but J. Lo cant live her life for me…..or her kids either for that matter. she gotta get in wherever she fits in and apparently she fits in some of everythang. she got that universal remote pussay.

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    Butter :( Even if you don’t tell your Honey you and dude can’t hang like that anymore :no: Ouy of respect to him. At least that’s how I operate. My husband might not ever ask me to cut ties bc he wouldn’t wanna seen jealous but best believe if I told him he would approach the dude. And to prevent somebody get they legs bent byke like paper clips and their ceiling end up missing :crying1: I’d rather tell dude toodles. And if he gets mad then he’s not a real friend nor the type of man you thought he was. If he was with you he wouldn’t want you hanging with a man who liked you and basically is pursuing you. After all you two are long distance right now… Things can get dicey real quick.. Temptation is real :yes:

  • SOTHERNGRL

    @Butter on one hand you did promise no to say anything and on the other hand ol dude did put you in a tough spot by proclaiming his feelings. I dont think you should say anything to Honey Dip it would be different if he had tried to kiss you or something. Now that you know how he feels I would just try to steer clear of him. This is just my opinion. I never been in this kind of predicament and would hate to tell you some wrong azz chit. But here :hug:

  • luVn_liFe…

    Just Looking says: Hey Girl *giggles
    ~~~
    :lol:

    This sunDAy IS DEDDY’s day, whatchu doing for Mister?

  • aRoTh

    Buttercup says:

    *Honey Dip and I technically AREN’ T together
    ___________________

    SEE, TOTAL SET UP! THEY frens and they trying to test YOU out. Don’t fall for it. Next thing you know, Honey Dip gone come with a ring out the blue.

    THEY done talked about this amongst themselves. Dip done confided in him and then they hatched the plan. I promise this sound like some of that “nigg@” chit dudes be on. I PROMISE! Watch how this chit plays out. :popcorn:

  • bama_n_jersey

    Rest in Peace my beautiful Soror.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    Sounds like a setup to see if YOU “loyal”.
    ============
    :lol: I could buy that, but we’ve been together 6 years. Long gone are the days of playing those games.

    This dude always tries to one-up Honey Dip too. When Honey Dip was looking at purchasing his condo, dude asked if he could afford it. ” :huh: Just because I don’t talk about my money doesn’t mean I’m not getting it.” <—-Honey Dip's response.

  • bama_n_jersey

    Rest in Peace my beautiful Soror.

  • Beta

    Honey Dip and I technically AREN’ T together
    _______________

    Waymin how’d I miss ya’ll parting separate ways :huh: miss 1 day on the blog miss a lot

  • bama_n_jersey

    Ugh..stupid phone double posting

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    @Butter

    He didn’t TRY anything so I wouldn’t say anything. You do need to quit playing frens with this guy and say there will never be a you and I, regardless of my relationship with Honey Dip.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi9ruVd5Vc8 VDot

    SEE, TOTAL SET UP!

    _______________

    I hope not, because that would be the dumbest test ever. He’d be better off getting someone she didn’t know to try to holler. Not his boy, who she’s also friends with.

    Naw that nucca just feeling Butter. That’s why he’s out here panky promising and ish which is rather wack . :eyeroll:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi9ruVd5Vc8 VDot

    :newpost: Rich people and shyt :eyeroll:

  • aRoTh

    ….and b/c I been on the “fuvk nigg@s they ain’t chit” tip since Jan…what type of dude makes you “pinky” swear? Type of chit is THAT? Even if he and Dip ain’t trying to test you, he’s shady for even doing this behind his back. Should have kept his damn feelin’s to his damn self. I would have blew him off (like you sorta did) when he started talking that crap. Boi bye witcho ole shady messy boots ass. Ugh.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    Follow up question:

    Have you ever told HD about the things he has said previously?

  • luVn_liFe…

    :newpost:

  • aRoTh

    Vdot says:

    I hope not, because that would be the dumbest test ever. He’d be better off getting someone she didn’t know to try to holler. Not his boy, who she’s also friends with
    _______________________

    Nigg@ ARE DUMB! They do DUMB CHIT! Ask me how I know. LOL

  • Hearts~n~Kisses

    @Buttah, He ain’t try to kiss or feel on you so I’d keep it to myself. Honey Dip fukk around and turn it on you on some “well you shouldn’t have went to his place in the first place” ****. :no:

  • aRoTh

    Vdot says:

    That’s why he’s out here panky promising and ish which is rather wack
    ________________________

    See #98. LOL :tea:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi9ruVd5Vc8 VDot

    Ask me how I know.

    __________________

    How you know? :popcorn: I sense a lot of anger and hurt in your font. Let’s discuss. Something in regards to your “situation”?

  • Just Looking

    luVn_liFe… says:

    Just Looking says: Hey Girl *giggles
    ~~~
    :lol:
    This sunDAy IS DEDDY’s day, whatchu doing for Mister?
    ############
    Hey booga- Ummm we going to my daddy house tonight in NJ – Dropping one kid off
    Coming back on Saturday – Dropping another off at airport
    Sunday – We are going to witness the the I DO’s

    Cooking him some Lamb, Mashed Cauliflowers, and Kale (tossed with lemon juice) not cooked
    Got him a gift card at the running store….and :hump: in my new nightie

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    But if I put the shoe on the other foot, I would feel that Honey Dip lied through omission by not telling me. That could start to chip away at trust. Ultimately, my loyalty lies with Honey Dip. Then again I swore to secrecy.

    I’m getting :mad: all over again. Why put someone in that situation? I kinda feel like Honey Dip should know that he isn’t loyal. Even if we had been broken up for years, it still wouldn’t be okay to date your dude’s ex. I probably should tell y’all that one of Honey Dip’s friendships has ended for this very thing. Dude and ole girl just got married. Honey Dip felt it was super grimey that his friend didn’t tell him he was dating his ex.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

    Wow, Butter. you can’t know what this guy’s ‘game’ might be. but you CAN keep it real with all parties involved. tell dude that although you ‘promised’ not to say anything, he needs to back-off and respect whatever you & honey dip got going on right now (you say yall not together technically :brokenheart: but dude don’t need that level of detail. use this time to decide where YOU want your ‘situationship’ to go). and if you do suspect that he’s testing you, tell him that in the event you decide to marry HD, that lil pinky promise is gon be arse out, cause you aint finna rent no tux for him w/out HD knowing the deal. :lol: :hug:

  • Hearts~n~Kisses

    @Buttah, Do what you feel is best for y’all. Only you know the ins and outs and full dynamics of your relationship. You know how Honey Dip operates. I feel you on him needing to know that niggah ain’t loyal too. Loyalty is EVERYTHING! Now I’m mad at his ass for putting you in that situation. :mad:

  • aRoTh

    VDot says:

    Ask me how I know.

    __________________

    How you know? I sense a lot of anger and hurt in your font. Let’s discuss. Something in regards to your “situation”?
    ________________________

    Not hurting……anymore. LOL There is no longer a “situation”. It’s all taken care of. Let’s just say…

    When you nignore a nig after it’s “over”, they tend to do stupid chit like:

    A.) slash your tire
    B.) put a nail in your tire after you didn’t respond to the slashed tire
    C.) leave TWO tips of a knife in your tire after you get the nail tire fixed AND still don’t respond or react to the nail in your tire
    D.) when THAT doesn’t work, they spend all day riding by your house……in broad daylight
    E.) when you don’t respond to THAT they run up on your porch and yell HAPPY MOTHERS DAY in your window and go and get back in their car like that’s normal
    F.) when you tell them that normal ppl don’t do that and they need to get some bizness bout theyself they
    G.) send you a text msg a week later asking for a make-up date/truce
    H.) then leaves a $100 bill in your mailbox

    :facepalm:

    No problems here. LOL :nun:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi9ruVd5Vc8 VDot

    :wtf: :wtf:

    Ummmmm that chit sounds CRAZY!!! :wtf:

  • Hearts~n~Kisses

    E.) when you don’t respond to THAT they run up on your porch and yell HAPPY MOTHERS DAY in your window and go and get back in their car like that’s normal
    __________________

    This is HILARIOUS!! :rofl: You had a straight lunatic!

  • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

    *hope I made sense earlier I am phone posting*
    Let me go back and read what I wrote lol

  • free

    “So, we thought an open marriage was appropriate for us but it turned out not to be.” doesn’t it always…. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

    MsT, your message was crystal clear :hug: Thank you, sugar.

  • free

    MisTaken is #unbothered :cool: says: And to prevent somebody get they legs bent byke like paper clips and their ceiling end up missing

    *****************************

    :rofl:

  • free

    Buttercup says: Just as I did with my girl freeeens, I let him know that I was in town and would like to catch up.

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    Bill Duke —> “You done ****ed up, you know that don’t you?”

  • OpinionHated

    I don’t get open marriages – why be married if you want to phuck other people just be single – the very term open marriage is an oxymoron – open marriage is what sex crazed people use as an excuse to double dip – if you with me be with me if you want to phuck an occassional random puzzy then leave me alone…. if it works for you great but I don’t share dyck or pannies…

  • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    Butter, tell honey dip the truth. Fuggin his friend. The pastor just told us these how’s ain’t loyal!! Tell him. He loves you and your kid. Do right.

  • http://www.swedishsoul.com lovebites

    they did not divorce he died……

  • SoNastyandSoRude

    how can someone be 97 and they are deceased…ozzie died like almost 10 yrs ago