ESPN’s outspoken analyst Stephen A. Smith apologized profusely for telling battered women to stop provoking their abusers.
He went one step further during Monday’s segment of ESPN2’s “First Take,” calling his statements the “most egregious of my career.”
Smith made his controversial statements during ESPN’s “First Take” on Friday.
Smith was commenting on Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice who was suspended for 2 games for assaulting his wife in February.
During the segment, Smith said battered women should be mindful of provoking their men in the heat of the moment. Of course, Smith was referring to the family dynamic in the black community, where black men who are routinely belittled and emasculated by their single mothers grow up to abuse their wives.
But Smith forgot that he was holding this discussion in mixed company — in front of millions of sports fans who will never understand the black man’s experience. Smith’s message was lost because he was preaching to the wrong choir.
In his third, and most extensive apology yet, Smith said:
“On Friday, speaking right here on “First Take” on the subject of domestic violence, I made what can only amount to the most egregious error of my caree. While elaborating on thoughts concerning the NFL’s ruling versus Ray Rice following a domestic dispute with his then-fiancee, I ventured beyond the scope of our discussion by alluding to a woman’s role in such heinous matters, going so far as to use the word “provoke” in my diatribe. My words came across that it is somehow a woman’s fault. This was not my intent. It is not what I’m trying to say. Yet the failure to clearly articulate something different lies squarely on my shoulders. To say what I actually said was foolish is an understatement. To say I was wrong is obvious. To apologize to say I’m sorry, doesn’t do the matter it’s proper justice, to be quite honest. But I do sincerely apologize.”
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He was speaking the truth tho.
As far as not provoking men…I think everyone should keep their hands to themselves…words shouldn’t cause you to put your paws on anyone.
I’m with Whoopi if a woman puts her hands on a man, she should be ready to be treated like a man and get
Women should learn to keep their hands to themselves. Just because men are told not to hit women, doesn’t mean that a woman has the right to batter a man and don’t expect to get the same in return.
Shyt don’t provoke me cause I’ll fugg a nigga up in a heartbeat
I want to Batter him! Why did they even bring his screaming and spitting when he talk ass back?!?
He only wanted to change his wording. Specifically using the word “provoke.”
This wasnt his first time making such comments. I dont believe he is sorry. I dont hold it against him though. Its a mindset. He has it. Move on
I won’t touch you unless you hit me or attempt to
@Nancy
Milky says:
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
**might have to back hand Milky up in here…talkin to other niggas before me and chit. **
and you ignored me! but I’s a loyal hoe so… Hi baby you dont have to byke hand me licks you on yo neck and puts my hand down yo pants!
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Oh so that is how I have to get yo attention! You was tiyed yesterday and I tried to let you lay on these
Your words have consequences. Fair or not. Right or wrong. That’s reality.
If you point out that your boss made a crucial mistake in front of everyone in a really big meeting, there will be consequences. That’s how life works.
Beta says:
Shyt don’t provoke me cause I’ll fugg a nigga up in a heartbeat
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@DUBB
“This wasnt his first time making such comments. I dont believe he is sorry. I dont hold it against him though. Its a mindset. He has it. Move on”
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Yup. Read it carefully. He didn’t really change his stance. Only that he didn’t like how he stated it and how it was perceived.
He always saying some shyt though
and 
@Man 
#12
I’m with Whoopi if a woman puts her hands on a man, she should be ready to be treated like a man
Mid argument 
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I was taught this. My mom made me and my HS bf break up after she was scared i broke his nose. I had no chill. I would swing on anybody (except my momma)
Shyt don’t provoke me cause I’ll fugg a nigga up in a heartbeat
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Dude always been saying what come out and count the cost later. Maybe he should apologize for yelling all thee time.
He only wanted to change his wording. Specifically using the word “provoke.”
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I think its safe to say this nigga will be sticking to the HIGHLY RECOM’D script that is provided to him from now on. Dont go chasing waterfalls. Stick to the rivers, lakes and SCRIPTS thatcho azz is used to.
@MILKY
“**might have to back hand Milky up in here…talkin to other niggas before me and chit. **
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Oh so that is how I have to get yo attention! You was tiyed yesterday and I tried to let you lay on these and you ignored me! but I’s a loyal hoe so… Hi baby you dont have to byke hand me licks you on yo neck and puts my hand down yo pants!
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Sometimes I be busy so I ain’t see yo’ comment. But even if I don’t, no talkin to other niggas before me!
That’s that chit I don’t like!
But a nice hand job is the perfect way to say you’re sorry about something.
where black men who are routinely belittled and emasculated by their single mothers grow up to abuse their wives.
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Shyt I have never experienced or witnessed first hand
@wasting I want to batter you because you are provoking me with your gravi
Yup. Read it carefully. He didn’t really change his stance. Only that he didn’t like how he stated it and how it was perceived.
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Yeah, dude basically tryna keep his job (“most egregious of my career.”) he not ‘sorry’ for what he said/believes
Some people cant understand what this man is saying because he used “provoke”
what he should have said was, Women swang first a lot of times too
I can relate, I used to stay slapping the shyte outta my son’s father.
He pulled the worse outta me always
Provoke is a strong word. Keep your hands to yourself. The wrong man may yoke you up. Folks comparing Ray Rice to Jay. We don’t know what Jay did later. You see they drove separate cars, right?
Who Dat says:
He only wanted to change his wording. Specifically using the word “provoke.”
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I think its safe to say this nigga will be sticking to the HIGHLY RECOM’D script that is provided to him from now on. Dont go chasing waterfalls. Stick to the rivers, lakes and SCRIPTS thatcho azz is used to.
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As someone said earlier, I won’t touch you as long as you don’t touch me. My mama always told me to keep my hands to myself unless in self defense.
all I wanna know is who provoked his hairline to break up with his forehead like that
I would be ornery too if my hair only covered 3/4ths of my head. he must think if he keeps it nappy then we wont notice his lonely ass forehead.
lovezoe says: Maybe he should apologize for yelling all thee time.
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Nancy he shouldn’t be sorry for what he said. It’s true and he believes it
Is Smith still leaving ESPN?
I understand Stephan’s POV and truthfully he is correct.
Like Man said your words have consequences. Also if you hit someone expect the favor to be return immediately
I agree with everyone it was the way he said and you know folks know he says whatever so they be waiting for him to say something controversial or offensive
essenze says:
As someone said earlier, I won’t touch you as long as you don’t touch me. My mama always told me to keep my hands to myself unless in self defense.
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He is a middle aged neutral hued trailer park type
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Probably drove a Chevy Lumina at some point in his life then.
@MISTAKEN
“I have heard it all I try not to be too PACIFIC on here especially about work related stuff but this ish right here *mind blown hands* Why did I just have an impromptu hour long meeting with one of our 3rd party vendors because one of my departmental colleagues is insane and has been secretly sabotaging their work???? Everybody already knows he is a chauvinist, control freak and rubs EVERYONE the wrong way. The only person he even talks to and says he likes is me which everyone jokes about. Well back when we had the company changes I suddenly became over him in a few ways and he was been low key hating. I see but let it slide mainly expect for this one time he tried it on an email and I roasted him with the whole Exec board cc’d *blows nails* He never replied to THAT EMAIL But anyways… the only reason why I know about said sabotage was because he included the security guard on the deed and the told the owner of the company when they came in on the low. Who then told me. I can’t. Like really. DIS TEW MUCH. Now I have to find a strategic way to explain this BOOL SHAT to the EVP….. without looking crazy… deranged… But he is doing it to a black woman business owner so I feel some type of way. He is a middle aged neutral hued trailer park type ….. Only one like that in this company because of his skill set. He is the Bldg Eng.”
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You just gave the “profile” of every person that shoots up their job. Play this one very carefully.
I don’t even wanna talk about this
EVERYBODY keep their hands to themselves.
I ain’t going to lie, some people do bring out the worse in you. I had a ex who seemed like he was begging to throw some hot grits in his face smh. He would say shyt that he knew could push a person to snap
I can’t wait to hit my boss with the HEEEEEHeHEEEEEEEEE
Stephen A. likes to hear himself talk..end of story…and I don’t think he’s sorry…and yes, PEOPLE can escalate situations all the time, but there’s never an excuse for violence and provocation can only work on someone who has a violent nature in general…
Who Dat says:
He is a middle aged neutral hued trailer park type
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Probably drove a Chevy Lumina at some point in his life then.
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Sometimes I be busy so I ain’t see yo’ comment. But even if I don’t, no talkin to other niggas before me!
That’s that chit I don’t like!
But a nice hand job is the perfect way to say you’re sorry about something
The handjob was just the beginning…. let me give you some of this slowneck!! 
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YES DADDY. I like it when your forceful with me like that, maybe I need to be bad so I can get a
what he should have said was, Women swang first a lot of times too
I can relate, I used to stay slapping the shyte outta my son’s father
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there’s never an excuse for violence and provocation can only work on someone who has a violent nature in general
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There isn’t, Im not violent by nature, but I DID fight my son’s father every time I thought he had me Fcuked up.
@matchsticks
That’s was one of the reasons why I broke up with my ex. I refuse to allow someone to turn me into something I’m not
If you throw them thangs be prepared for whatever
@MILKY
Submissiveness will get u wifed up.
You just gave the “profile” of every person that shoots up their job. Play this one very carefully.
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I agree with @Man!
@Taken, he sounds unstable. When you communicate your concerns, be sure to use buzz words like “security” “workplace safety”
You aint snitchin, you proactively tryna de-escalate a situation 
If a broad touch me, im calling the police, and pressing charges. Now if she got a weapon, i.e. frying pan, remote, grits, unopened pack of yakki, or whatever then I may have to use force to remove myself from the situation.
luVn_liFe… says:
there’s never an excuse for violence and provocation can only work on someone who has a violent nature in general
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There isn’t, Im not violent by nature, but I DID fight my son’s father every time I thought he had me Fcuked up.
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Taken, YOU report that redneck CRACKER TRASH to EVP immediately.
He’s hurting the number one thing and that’s $$ and threatening yours.
Report him. No one got the time for passive aggressive ass racists no more.
Fukk his cousin fukking self. Bytch
<<<Chris Brown-ing these hoes. And I let them know. That alone stops most of the bullchit! Oh, and I watch my words and tell them to watch theirs.
Everybody's happy!
essenze says:
@matchsticks
That’s was one of the reasons why I broke up with my ex. I refuse to allow someone to turn me into something I’m not
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If a broad touch me, im calling the police, and pressing charges.
Better that than goin to jail. Some trying to set you up anyway
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San ah make ya dance says:If you throw them thangs be prepared for whatever
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right, when I did it, that’s what I expected a fight. Sure it’s odd,maybe even a little uncivilized, however We were young and “in love”
Im Not like that NOW, that was 20+ years ago
But it was like that
Shyt don’t provoke me cause I’ll fugg a nigga up in a heartbeat
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+1. Told yall I touched a man once with a Steve Madden boot. I mean I REALLY REALLY touched the entire hell outta him. And we got the cops called on us. If he woulda just went in the BATHROOM to make his gutteral animal noises; NOBODY woulda got arrested. I took that first return punch he gave ME like a man (he claim it was reflex. That reflex had ALOT of weight behind it though.) Fcuk YOUR prollem is sir?
um, okay, what Gigi said
ohhhh ok now that I googled it I see that Ray Rice and his wife are black.
If he woulda just went in the BATHROOM to make his gutteral animal noises; NOBODY woulda got arrested
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You just gave the “profile” of every person that shoots up their job. Play this one very carefully.
He asked several times for them to move his office to the basement because he hates dealing with people and the “politics” of corporate America.
He just has a foul mouth period and it gets brushed off like that’s just how those types of boys are… I think they feel like they (Exec team) are getting cheap labor because he is the only one that can do anything building related here. But come on son… you could get anybody in here to do more and have a better attitude than him in here in these hard times! I bet if his name was Tyrone and he acted up like this he would have BEEN GONE.
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Exactly
He was accused of being a racist once by a city officer
Sun
Your list of weapons though!
right, when I did it, that’s what I expected a fight. Sure it’s odd,maybe even a little uncivilized, however We were young and “in love”
Im Not like that NOW, that was 20+ years ago
But it was like that
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Matchsticks says:
luVn_liFe… says:
there’s never an excuse for violence and provocation can only work on someone who has a violent nature in general
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There isn’t, Im not violent by nature, but I DID fight my son’s father every time I thought he had me Fcuked up.
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some folks just have it in them…I was never violent, my ex used to beg me to hit him because it would mean I cared…
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I did care. I wanted to fight him cause I thought I could make him what I wanted\needed him to be, *sigh* I digress.
dude looks like one of them Do Do birds that used to be in the cartoons back in the day
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Who Dat says:
Shyt don’t provoke me cause I’ll fugg a nigga up in a heartbeat
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+1. Told yall I touched a man once with a Steve Madden boot. I mean I REALLY REALLY touched the entire hell outta him. And we got the cops called on us. If he woulda just went in the BATHROOM to make his gutteral animal noises; NOBODY woulda got arrested. I took that first return punch he gave ME like a man (he claim it was reflex. That reflex had ALOT of weight behind it though.) Fcuk YOUR prollem is sir?
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Im gone!
I witnessed a situation between my cousin and her fiance almost get violent but it was broken up by me and his friends. I was uncomfortable like shyt lol. My cousin has one of those mouths that can read you for filth and her fiance always thinks he is right: not a good combination
San ah make ya dance says:
If you throw them thangs be prepared for whatever
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Yep
I’ve never had to fight a boyfriend. I got a smart mouth too and I’ve reflexed sometimes, but nah never had it happen to me. I ain’t doing it. You hit me its war and then I’m done (with you)
@MILKY
Submissiveness will get u wifed up.
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…and eventually locked in the house with aluminum foil on the windows, only visiting your fam when he takes you, and birthing all 12 of your babies at the house
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MILKY
Submissiveness will get u wifed up.
lubs me some Man!!!
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all shait now… I am very submissive I love for a man to take charge especially in the bedroom, car, shower (MimiRod) floor, kitchen, park, hell everywhere!!!
I aint bean No gem
I like watching fights tho
I DO NOT break them up. NOPE
shower (MimiRod) floor
lawd
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@Dub,
He may have even driven a Mazda Miata.
luVn_liFe… says:
Matchsticks says:
luVn_liFe… says:
there’s never an excuse for violence and provocation can only work on someone who has a violent nature in general
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There isn’t, Im not violent by nature, but I DID fight my son’s father every time I thought he had me Fcuked up.
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some folks just have it in them…I was never violent, my ex used to beg me to hit him because it would mean I cared…
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I did care. I wanted to fight him cause I thought I could make him what I wanted\needed him to be, *sigh* I digress.
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:hugs:
San ah make ya dance says:
I’ve never had to fight a boyfriend. I got a smart mouth too and I’ve reflexed sometimes, but nah never had it happen to me. I ain’t doing it. You hit me its war and then I’m done (with you)
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I hit a dude once and it was justified
But it is just not putting hands on a man to provoke him, some women do it best with words. It is just not black women but women in general. When you learn your man well enough and you know will bring him to his knees, in a fight a woman can get real dirty and say the things that drive him over the edge. Then many women make the mistake then when the dude says he leaving cause he needs space, they want to jump in his face and then cry 2 seconds later when he pops her in it. There is provoked and unprovoked abuse; yes it is not right for a man to put his hands on a woman and vice versa but sometimes you gotta understand where the abuser was coming from especially if ole girl pushed him there. Now the wants who just wanna haul off and beat the ish outta you for no reason gets no sympathy that’s a whole different realm
I hit a dude once and it was justified
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What happened next
@NANCY
“Submissiveness will get u wifed up.
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…and eventually locked in the house with aluminum foil on the windows, only visiting your fam when he takes you, and birthing all 12 of your babies at the house
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That sounds like real love to me.
We need a newpost this subject bore me
shat !
We need a newpost this subject bore me
shat !
my ex used to beg me to hit him because it would mean I cared…
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this is the thought process of a sick person. same goes for the reverse (if i didn’t care so much i wouldn’t hit you)… they can’t be saved
get the he!! way from ’round ’em! RUN BISH!!!!!!!!!!
Now the wants who just wanna haul off and beat the ish outta you for no reason gets no sympathy that’s a whole different realm
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THAT PART.
and eventually locked in the house with aluminum foil on the windows, only visiting your fam when he takes you, and birthing all 12 of your babies at the house
That is why they are always calling us lonely, bitter, ugly, muddacants! 
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I aint worried about all of this Man can have whateva he wants. I am ready to birth his babies and take care of him like the Kang he is… No stop hating and goin somewhere.
Lord my Co Worker just spotted a black snake climbing the walls of our buiding!!!!!!! I’m about to tell everyone
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GIRL YOU in DANGER. I wouldnt say shyt to NOBODY. My Lil black car be leaving the parking lot on 3 wheels.
I believe all partues should keep their hands and feet to themselves. Didn’t they teach this in pre-k and kinny garten?
Furthermore, if you are with someone who tests your reflexes or you want to test your reflexes on them, that is probably a good sign that you don’t need to be with them.
That sounds like real love to me.
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:fistbump:
parties*
I believe all partues should keep their hands and feet to themselves
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San ah make ya dance says:
I hit a dude once and it was justified
he tried to throw me off a balcony 
I saw red ….
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What happened next
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his mother came in yelling
But for the mos t I’m not putting my hands on no dude ….. but I will hit yo azz back though …. if you hit me….
sassyshe says:
But it is just not putting hands on a man to provoke him, some women do it best with words.
that’s when you pull out the pic of you having sex with her best friend.
jeniefrumdabloc says:
We need a newpost this subject bore me shat !
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Oh you sleep too?!!!
Unshakable says: I believe all partues should keep their hands and feet to themselves. Didn’t they teach this in pre-k and kinny garten?
Furthermore, if you are with someone who tests your reflexes or you want to test your reflexes on them, that is probably a good sign that you don’t need to be with them.
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YUP. learned the long hard way.
Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection
says:
my ex used to beg me to hit him because it would mean I cared…
get the he!! way from ’round ‘em! RUN BISH!!!!!!!!!!
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this is the thought process of a sick person. same goes for the reverse (if i didn’t care so much i wouldn’t hit you)… they can’t be saved
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I know a chick like this….. found out this bytch is super crazy
can’t be around folks like that
his mother came in yelling
he tried to throw me off a balcony 
I saw red ….
Did you see red from being tipped over or what, you can’t leave the story like that 
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I mean I REALLY REALLY touched the entire hell outta him.
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i’m sorry Dubb
SunRise
chile I’m tired of this subject though 
jeniefrumdabloc says:SunRise
chile I’m tired of this subject though
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ME THREE
Gigi :fistbump: BRUH. I am so with you. I KNOW I am going to say something. I just got to play it right. Several complaints have been waged against this man to no avail. He sat right in front of an Exec and told her assistant “you are just a secretary you don’t even need to talk to me” and outside of him being told she is not just a sec nothing happened. Their boss told them that they needed to learn to get along
And the boss was a lady!!!!! She the main one letting this go on 
Oh and HR 
Chile please. We are just under 100 people and got one HR person who really don’t have no power. She looking for jobs but think I don’t know 
The streets told me. So I am going to bring what I know forward and package it as a HR/Safety/Government violation ….It’s his word against hers so I don’t know how it will turn out. I know I believe her. I think my boss is out the rest of the day. I gotta try and get on his calendar for tomorrow. I am going to have his assistant schedule it tho with no details so he can’t see it. I think dude might be able to see his calendar.
Who Dat says:
Shyt don’t provoke me cause I’ll fugg a nigga up in a heartbeat
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+1. Told yall I touched a man once with a Steve Madden boot. I mean I REALLY REALLY touched the entire hell outta him. And we got the cops called on us.
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+1 Secretly wanted to touch up and _ury my ex…had planned to shave a spoon to make sharp enough, but still be dull and somehow make it rusty. But since he is 6’2 weighs 210, and could run 1 mile in less than 5 to 6 minutes. I knew my chances were slim. Packed my bags and left. This was the only way to truly hurt him. Spousal and child support. This was my best rep of TOUCHED.
JUDGE IF YOU MUST
Lord my Co Worker just spotted a black snake climbing the walls of our buiding!!!!!!!
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*regains consciousness for a coupla seconds* …RUN BISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection
says:
my ex used to beg me to hit him because it would mean I cared…
get the he!! way from ’round ‘em! RUN BISH!!!!!!!!!!
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this is the thought process of a sick person. same goes for the reverse (if i didn’t care so much i wouldn’t hit you)… they can’t be saved
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He had plans to beat your arse….
Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection
says: Lord my Co Worker just spotted a black snake climbing the walls of our buiding!!!!!!!
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*FAINTS!*>>>
*regains consciousness for a coupla seconds* …RUN BISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Just move your waste basket and jump out your office window!
But it is just not putting hands on a man to provoke him, some women do it best with words.
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that’s when you pull out the pic of you having sex with her best friend.
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Her:
“You ain’t no REAL man! Look at my bills! Yo broke azz can’t ever help me on this phucking rent!”
You: :stop: “Chill with all that. I gave helped you out the month before last. You know I had some chit come up.”
Her:
“Naw, nigga. You just ain’t chit and broke. I don’t know why I phuck with yo’ small dyck azz!” 
You:
“You know what… ” 
Her:
“Who the phuck you callin nigga?”
You:
“Your best friend LaTricka begs to differ about my dyck being small…”
San ah make ya dance says:
his mother came in yelling
he tried to throw me off a balcony 
I saw red ….
Did you see red from being tipped over or what, you can’t leave the story like that
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We was smoking weed on his patio balcony and having a conversation…. and that fool didn’t like how I was responding , I got a smart mouth ya know …. so he started walking up on me so I backed up and then he started pushing me and I was leaning backwards on the balcony telling him to back up… I looked over my shoulder and it was a big drop off that balcony…. I saw red and hit the shyt out of his azz …. I thought that fool was trying to kill me ….
Just move your waste basket and jump out your office window!
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Don’t forget to turn off office lights.
Anybody bought anything off of urban og before? How fast do they ship
I never had a dude hit me. I had an ex threaten to though. I’m like 5 “10” and my exes were all short dudes so maybe they was hesitant lol
What happened next
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Hush San!
@Luvn,
Babe…the good thing is that you are safe and surrounded by the roses in the garden. And unlike Alice in Wonderland, we won’t throw you out.
@San,
One of the times when I paid attention. I was a self-proclaimed Rhodes Scholar way back in them days.
man i just don’t care
exactly!
That sounds like real love to me.
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survey saaaaaaaaaaaays?
bull- 
chit! FOH!
essenze says:
I never had a dude hit me. I had an ex threaten to though. I’m like 5 “10? and my exes were all short dudes so maybe they was hesitant lol
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Like MAN huh
jeniefrumdabloc says:
SunRise chile I’m tired of this subject though
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luVn_liFe… says:
jeniefrumdabloc says:SunRise chile I’m tired of this subject though
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ME THREE
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Guinea Hen Slinga *Kah* Got That!! says:
As far as not provoking men…I think everyone should keep their hands to themselves…words shouldn’t cause you to put your paws on anyone.
I’m with Whoopi if a woman puts her hands on a man, she should be ready to be treated like a man and get Women should learn to keep their hands to themselves. Just because men are told not to hit women, doesn’t mean that a woman has the right to batter a man and don’t expect to get the same in return.
GIRL YOU in DANGER. I wouldnt say shyt to NOBODY. My Lil black car be leaving the parking lot on 3 wheels.
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shame on it
Milky gone be like Felicia in Philly married to that crazy guy w/the face tatoos. 
blinking at tbe police while telling them she aint the one KEEP calling them to her house. ‘it warnt me, we fine’ but really saying:
‘help’ 
‘me’ 
‘dont’ 
‘leave’ 
‘us’ 
‘here’ 
‘he’ 
‘CRAZY’ 
!!!
that’s when you pull out the pic of you having sex with her best friend.
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GIT!!!!
@NANCY
COME Up stairs
This was my best rep of TOUCHED.
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well done!
Just move your waste basket and jump out your office window!
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*HOLLERS!*
Lawd! 
“LaTricka” …
@Man, gone somewhere w/that scenario, sir! :crying1: 
I saw red and hit the shyt out of his azz
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:crying1:
oh, Jenie…
This morning on Tom Joyner, there was a black man on there who supposedly works with an organization that supports women who are “abused” – When Sybil asked, “If women are in relationships and should run from the first sign that a man will hit them, then should men also run from relationships where a woman hits him?”
He stammered and stammered and then finally said, “Well, no… I’m not saying that.”
GTFOH
See, THIS is why women who get two-pieced AFTER they’ve hit a dude gets the idea that she’s a victim. You PROVOKE someone when you hit them. He didn’t “attack” your a$$, he RESPONDED to your a$$ – different animals.
Men should not hit women. Women should not hit men. What Steven was talking about is the fact that this dudes wife ADMITTED that he knocked her off her feet after she attacked him.
You are NOT in an abusive relationship when you hit someone and they hit your a$$ back – you were in a FIGHT and lost.
Keep your effin’ hands to yourselves.
this was so funny when i first heard it because every man, gay str8 or whatever has a story about a woman provoking or trying to provoke. using solange as the example, folks laughed and clowned jay, but had he whooped her ass in that elevator, now he’s the sucker.
ladies, and i tell you this in all sincerity, stop thinking men will walk away from you hitting him, slapping him, or talking crazy. every man is different, but all have a limit. please do not find out the wrong way what that limit is. in addition, you will never whoop a man’s ass, so for this reason, most guys will give you a warning before he lays into your ass with one good slap. bucking up and “what u gone do mf” is not the way out of the situation.
I’m so tired of this “she will get treated like a man ish” period point blank yall want Holla that yall grown and grab ya balls keep your hands off of women period… You chillin with a crazy low class but “dime piece” and she goes ballistic on you… Why stay with her… What does it accomplish to put hands on her unless it’s to restrain her… The same ones talking mess must not be parents