Tameka Harris

Talk show Guru Wendy Williams was very critical of Tameka "Tiny" Harris' new colored iris implants. Miss Wendy did not approve.

Both ladies are friends of the blog so we are not choosing sides. But Wendy did make a good point.

"The eyes are the window to the soul. And getting your eyes permanently done like this is, to me, as bad as people who bleach their skin," she said during Monday's Wendy Williams Show "Hot Topics" segment.

Others are concerned that Tameka might influence her young fans to risk their eyesight by getting eye implants from shady street practitioners in the U.S.

Tameka wrote up what amounts to an advertisement for the doctor who performed her surgery. She explains that the surgery is only approved for medical purposes. Iris implants are not approved by the government for cosmetic purposes.

Edit: If Tiny got her implants in the U.S. that means she got it done for medical reasons, not cosmetic.

Watch the video below.

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    • dandee

      <-blk mkt :)
      ALOT OF people have :shrug:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      This is a trap post all around.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

      Both ladies are friends of the blog so we are not choosing sides. But Wendy did make a good point.

      __________

      Sounds like TeamWendy to me :lol:

      But really they both have some 'steem issues going on. It's just a matter of which one is worst? :boobs: :buttshake: or :eek: . I'm going with the latter :tea:

    • pointhimout

      I just don't get why color contacts weren't/aren't enough. I guess I never will. I still wear regular contacts because I refuse to let anyone cut into my eyes for Lasik surgery. But what's working for me may be an inconvenience to the next person. Best of luck Tiny.

    • SOTHERNGRL

      Now even though I am not a fan of what Tiny did AT ALL. ION think Wendy big titted (by way of sur.) azz need to talk. I mean SHE looks like some sort of Big Titted Amazonian freak when she stands next to her audience Soooo.

    • Unshakable

      How can Wendy of all people talk? If this the case, what's her rationale for her procedures?

      Pot....meet kettle.
      Glass house....meet stone.
      Hypocrite....meet the beam that is in your own eye

      Just my opinion

    • flyqtnva

      What I don't understand is.. per her spouse she is soooooo far above average... Why did she do any of it???? Is it possible she felt she was indeed mediocre??? ija

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

      what amounts to an advertisement
      _____________

      :yes: Gave a discount code and errythang. :hahaha:

    • Unshakable

      @ZoeLove,

      Which is why one must tread ever so gently so they don't ruffle any feathers. :yes:

    • SummerBaby

      I'm personally not a fan of any cosmetic surgery. There are many medical procedures that I disagree with, but I guess these are the times we're living in. :shrug: I like Tiny!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      I dont know if this is a normal reaction to kindergarten, I might have to put her in counseling or something.

      ==========

      It might be the way the teacher reacts to her. Check out a montessori school, she will probably thrive there. Less rigid, easier transitions, she’d have more control over her learning

    • OutsidetheBox

      "Tameka wrote up..."

      :rofl: :rofl: :phew:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      I mean SHE looks like some sort of Big Titted Amazonian freak when she stands next to her audience Soooo.

      ==========

      See eyes is to the soul is to your life... Titties just titties :boobs:

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      Hypocrite….meet the beam that is in your own eye
      ____________________

      Eye see what you did there :wink:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Welp :tea:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      @UF what is wrong with baby girl I have never heard of this kind of reaction to Kinni-G before. Is the school, the teacher, the structure something is amiss here.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      :shade:

    • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

      Hey Fly :bye:

      I wonder how TI feels about this new look.

      I respect Tiny for her honesty about her surgeries.

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Come Through Nancy Drew :nun:

      Sandra, would YOU say that a person (ANY person) who would surgically alter their eye color for purely cosmetic purposes MIGHT suffer from body dysmorphic disorder? :kona:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      I wonder how TI feels about this new look.
      ********************
      He said and I quote "them her eyes".

    • Unshakable

      fly,

      I have always wondered that same thing......with the exception of medical necessity, why do these procedures? Not to judge, bit is poor self image or low self esteem driving people to do these types of things to their body? That people get them because they are not satisfied with how they look? And before any feathers are ruffled, I am just asking.... :rofl:

      @User,

      I presented another perspective......tell me what you think. Please be gentle.....I'm sensitive. I have no chill, but I'm sensitive :rofl:

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      the Montessori school here is 18k per year. :no: not gonna happen.

    • Unshakable

      @User,

      And eye left something in my previous post that warrants your attention. Eye hope you see where i am coming from. :rofl:

      Luv u User :kiss:

    • SummerBaby

      I wonder how TI feels about this new look.
      ********************
      He said and I quote “them her eyes”.
      -------------------
      :lol: I read this in his voice

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      the Montessori school here is 18k per year. :no: not gonna happen.

      ===============

      No scholarships, grants or nothing? :(

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      LOS ANGELES -- "They don't like each other, simple as that."

      That's how Los Angeles Lakers coach Byron Scott summarized Tuesday's fourth-quarter skirmish between Kobe Bryant and Dwight Howard during the Houston Rockets' 108-90 win at Staples Center.

      AP Photo/Mark J. Terrill
      Rockets center Dwight Howard gestured toward the Lakers' bench before tipoff. He and former teammate Kobe Bryant also pointed fingers at one another after a testy fourth-quarter exchange.
      The verbal altercation between the ex-Lakers teammates began when Howard grabbed a rebound and Bryant got in his face, trying to contest an outlet pass. Howard threw elbows to clear space, and one appeared to connect with Bryant's chin.

      The two, who clashed during their one season together on the Lakers in 2012-13, immediately began trash-talking each other and had to be separated.

      "He elbowed me in the face, and I'm gonna let him know, I don't like that," Bryant said after the game. "It's that simple."

      After a review, Bryant was assessed a personal foul and Howard a flagrant foul 1, and each player was tagged with a technical foul.

      "It's fantastic," Bryant said. "That's the game. That's all part of the game. Elbows are a part of the game. Trash-talking is part of the game. I don't know where the NBA became so sensitive. It's all part of it."

      A Lakers source said Bryant repeatedly called Howard "soft."

      Howard refused to go into specifics when asked about the incident by reporters.

      "What do y'all want me to say, because I'm not [going] to give y'all nothing," Howard said. "It's stupid. We won the game. It's over with. I mean, there's no need to go into it. We won the game. It's about basketball. I mean it's over with. It's nothing. I'm not even focused on it."

      But does Bryant dislike Howard, as Scott stated?

      "You can't help but like him," Bryant said, smiling. "He's a teddy bear. You can't help but like him. I really meant that. He's a really nice kid. But you know, when you're competing, you have a goal in mind. I know one way to get there. There's certain times when we didn't see eye to eye, but that wasn't one of those situations."

      Scott said Monday that he believed the reason Bryant and Howard clashed during their brief stint as teammates was because Bryant is "a real serious guy and wants to win championships. I don't know if Dwight is that serious about it."

      After leaving the Lakers, Howard signed with the Rockets as a free agent in 2013.

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      @UF what is wrong with baby girl I have never heard of this kind of reaction to Kinni-G before. Is the school, the teacher, the structure something is amiss here.
      _____________________________

      iono but someone is on their way to pick her up now & imma keep her out for the rest of this week. school is closed on tuesday next week for elections day and I'll meet with the staff to get a clearer understanding. I think I know what the problem is though. Im on it :cell: I'll keep yall posted.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      I never knew this was possible and it looks good on Tiny. Right now I looovveee that song Tiny got called "WHat the F you gone do" so I have nothing negative to say bout my gal. She went in on that song. Damn I want a whole CD of nothing but her voice and thoughts. Luv that damnnn song frfr

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      HEy OTB :hi: I miss you and where is Diva and Bad them??? Bird too

    • Unshakable

      @User,

      The Montessori peepa don't have scholarships or programs to help defray the cost? :think:

      Does your child's school have a tag program or equivalent? Sorry if you have already disseminated the answers to the aforementioned.

    • SummerBaby

      I never knew this was possible and it looks good on Tiny. Right now I looovveee that song Tiny got called “WHat the F you gone do” so I have nothing negative to say bout my gal. She went in on that song. Damn I want a whole CD of nothing but her voice and thoughts. Luv that damnnn song frfr
      -------------------------
      I like that song also!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      @User

      Can you use the government voucher program?

    • Milky

      :wave: Hello ALL. I really dont pay Willie Williams any attention when she talk about folks. She is badly built and that is with cosmetic surgery. Frigidaire shaped-azz :cuss: Sorry Sandra I do love my log in, but Willie makes my azz itch!!!

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      :listen: "Do wanna know what life is without me........ cause I'll show u wat it feel like" Sang Tiny.. YASSSS

    • luVn_liFe…

      :whistle:

    • Milky

      :wave: Hello Keesh, how have you been??? where have you been??? And stop asking about my wifey!!! :hug: My WIFEY done left me like my name is C-error!! :crying:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

      So I'm watching the clip Sandra posted. Wendy has a pic of Tiny up with her eyes before, in my opinion, her original eye color works the best with her face. :yes: FYI Tiny talk starts at 11:15 in the vid.

    • The Pearl!

      B-b-but, unless Wendy is all natural, how in the world can she take measure of someone else's level of "self-hate"? Like, as long as you don't "self-hate beyond a certain level, you're alright with her? FOH, Wendy. Then say it "makes me love her even more cuz she was honest." C'mon! If you're gonna go in on Tiny, then GO IN...don't try to clean it up at the very end.

    • flyqtnva

      Hey Iscream....I'm sure he loves them...
      Unshakable.....what we won't do for love.....is all I got....I'm not perfect but I love me...just the way I am.... I'd imagine it's hard seeing women who are prettier than you constantly going after your man...his lyrics even hold her to a standard that is impossible to meet.....however if she is happy and healthy... I wish her the best....

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Milky says:

      :wave: Hello ALL. I really dont pay Willie Williams any attention when she talk about folks. She is badly built and that is with cosmetic surgery. Frigidaire shaped-azz :cuss: Sorry Sandra I do love my log in, but Willie makes my azz itch!!!
      ______________________________________________

      :dead: :casket:

    • Time to Waste

      Why my girl text me " Husband about to call you; please listen to what he has to say before you go HAM"
      :sigh:
      This nigga calls me to tell me that Friday I was not texting with her but with him. He knew I was bad mouthing him to her and wanted to get proof. He learned the opposite and is truly sorry and he had to come clean because he has said disparaging things about me forever because I have the power to end his happiness!

      FOH bruh.
      I tried to be a christian about it but I couldn't. I didn't say anything personal about myself but that is not the point. I'm heated.
      I may dead her off this.
      She called me to say that he told her Sunday; they got into another argument and he encouraged her to talk to me and she was :blink: and pressed him about why and he told her what he did.

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      the answer in short is:

      :chickenhead:

      when she is old she will still be a bird. thats just who she is. Im not saying its good or bad but she clucks. I have friends/family who are birds, they are not bad ppl but I dont get surprised when they start chirping. its just what they do.

      I can almost guarantee they are in the kitchen right now melting down gray and silver crayolas trying to bedazzle their eyeballs for cheap. bishes gone be at the fabric store buying sequins stickers to place on their cornea. :facepalm:

    • flyqtnva

      I just died at Wendy making someone itch in the @ss......Lmao

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      She said dude looks so sweet she has a tooth ache :lol:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

      Wendy said Kris Jenner's new man is so sweet her tooth hurts :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      This nigga calls me to tell me that Friday I was not texting with her but with him
      ~~~~
      :blink: :huh: :wtf:

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      Wasting I didnt follow. your hubby or your friend's hubby? :popcorn:

    • flyqtnva

      Sequins stickers for their corneas.....????????????????????

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Sandra got that shout out :yes: :thumbsup:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Waste :blink: what in the what?!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      This nigga calls me to tell me that Friday I was not texting with her but with him. He knew I was bad mouthing him to her and wanted to get proof.

      ===============

      His 90210 fuk boi self :lol: He was ready to sissy claw you to the bones.

      Don't be too hard on a man. We all know girlfriends can mess up someones happy home real quick. Now he should have addressed his paranoia with his bish because no matter what you say, good or bad, she needs to stand on his own two feet.

      He will never live this down, every Superbowl party, Hollereen party I'd clown him so hard

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Nooooo Milky!!! I been doing good, my uncle came home from prison after 33 years for something he didn't do (he was mentally ill and diagnosed prior too going to prison but they put him in regular jail and population until we fought to get him where there is mental help 28 years later) Now he keep telling us that he wanna go home cause he don't know us or this place... but its getting better by the day. Hes been back about a month now.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

      This nigga calls me to tell me that Friday I was not texting with her but with him

      _______________

      Wait? This nigga had her phone and was texting with you, and you were texting back thinking it was her? :hailnaw:

      :wtf: kind of fukk pussy boi sh!t is that?! Ewwwww *stankface*

    • Time to Waste

      Wasting I didnt follow. your hubby or your friend’s hubby?
      -----------------
      Friends Hubby!

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      flyqtnva says:

      Sequins stickers for their corneas…..????????????????????
      ____________________

      stranger things have happened in the hood. ie. the recipes for crack, meth, and ass injections.

      you know when a chicken gets its head cut off and it continues to run around aimlessly without a brain? :tea: hence the term, chickenhead. bishes be mindless.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

      90210 fuk boi self

      ________

      :rofl: Luke Perry looking :lol:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Milky you know its National Cat Day right?? Happy National Cat Day yall!!!

    • SOTHERNGRL

      @UF did you ask if her school offers a Monte.program? It may be a tad cheaper. Something is going on cause lil Momma is not a happy camper and I feel like (and this is just MY OPINION) if shes not happy or at least content she will not learn.

    • Unshakable

      @User...while you at it......gone ahead and add rhinestones and swarovski crystals to the list......it's always one that has to outdo erryone else....next thing you know, people will have their eyes matching the color of their birth month. :rofl:

      @WastingTime,

      Why didn't he just talk to you like a normal human being?

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      oh thats weird Wasting. :phew:

      this must be crazy fool week cuz everybody losing it. :scared:

    • Time to Waste

      We all know girlfriends can mess up someones happy home real quick.
      ----------------------
      Ok Missy true but what if I started to have real GF talk with him?

      _____________________

      Wait? This nigga had her phone and was texting with you, and you were texting back thinking it was her?
      --------------------
      Yes. She text if we could meet up on Friday.
      I said NO Times Movie Night but I would text her in a few.
      I text back and he was replying to me. She said she went for a run; took her iPod and left her phone.

    • Milky

      @almostjetter what real man sits and acts like he is his woman whilst texting her girlfriend.. He seems batch-made to me. but you didnt hear that from me... I would steer clear of the both of them MItches!!!

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      luVn_liFe... says:

      This nigga calls me to tell me that Friday I was not texting with her but with him
      ~~~~
      What tha Catfish!!!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I can not believe Kendra is airing her marriage out like this :facepalm: how embarrassing jeez :eek: I didn't know her show was like that lawd :facepalm:

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      @UF did you ask if her school offers a Monte.program? It may be a tad cheaper. Something is going on cause lil Momma is not a happy camper and I feel like (and this is just MY OPINION) if shes not happy or at least content she will not learn.
      __________________________

      Im gonna meet with them and see. my son was bad as fukk in kindergarten too now that I think back on it. :think:

      strangely enough, my daughter can read and write now. she's learned so much since school started.

    • Unshakable

      @Keesh,

      All the ladies in the garden have kitties! :rofl:

      Happy Kitty Cat Day to all the ladies! Make sure to give your kitty lots of love, mkay?

      If your kitty hasnt purred in a while, take it to the doc and see what's wrong.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      @Time

      :popcorn: So what was he axin you?

      90210: So gurl, my husband a loser right?

      Time: Nah he cool :tea:

      90210: But he got wide hips right?

      Time: Nah, he look fine in his jeans :tea:

      90210: But he prolly cheating on me right?

      Time: Nah he seem loyal :tea:

      90210: Oh... :blink: Kay bye

    • Milky

      Keesh says:

      Nooooo Milky!!! I been doing good, my uncle came home from prison after 33 years for something he didn’t do (he was mentally ill and diagnosed prior too going to prison but they put him in regular jail and population until we fought to get him where there is mental help 28 years later) Now he keep telling us that he wanna go home cause he don’t know us or this place… but its getting better by the day. Hes been back about a month now.

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      I am glad to see that you and your family were able to get him out of there, I hate to see that it took all these years. It is just an adjustment, just like he had to adjust to jail, he has to adjust to being out of jail. I pray for you, uncle, and family :kiss: Happy National Puscee Day to you too!!! :rofl:

    • Time to Waste

      @WastingTime,

      Why didn’t he just talk to you like a normal human being?
      -----------------------
      He told her he wanted "proof" that I was bad mouthing him to her :no:
      That ain't me though, I actually encourage her to work it out; not to hop up and leave and that is what I did Friday in the text.
      I said good things about their union and him, I knew he didn't like me I even know the reason why but that was messed up

    • OutsidetheBox

      Hi Keeesshhhh :hug: How is your Unk fairing? :heart: I saw two Black men get released (again) after 15yrs wrongly served...I think about yall everytime. :heart:

      Bird will be thru here. :yes: B too. Divurrr logged in late last wekk one night. Miss her much. :brokenheart:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      I even know the reason why but that was messed up

      ===========

      So there is some dirt?? Whatchu done did? hired a stripper to try and seduce him night before they got hitched?

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Come Through Nancy Drew :nun:

      @Time :think: sounds like either your fren or her hubby (or both) have, unbeknownst to you, been using you as some sort of scapegoat for what's wrong in their marriage :no:
      I call b.s. 'cause obviously you ain't lettin' HER call no shots in your marriage (and I pity the fool that would try it with Mr. Time :lol: )
      Your fren don't sound mature and her marriage doesn't sound stable :no:

    • OutsidetheBox

      in my opinion, her original eye color works the best with her face. _______________

      I saw a throwback on her youngins IG last night. Her mama was the chit. I stand by that.

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      Time did she know he was texting you or did she just find out too?

      sorry if you already said. :ashamed:

      I hate when my friends put me in a bind but it will be a funny story later on. she owe you :yes:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      My son struggled in Kindergarten and I was always called to the school. By the time he go to the 4th grade, I realized that they focused so much on his behavior that they forgot to teach him and it was the same school and Teachers...... so they talk about students and tag them as trouble before the first day of school as they pass from one grade to another. They use to suggest that I get him checked out cause maybe he need medicine but his Doctor would never refer me because he said he was fine... he is just being a kid and that's what kids do at that age. He was right and I pulled him out of that school.. bused him out to better school and got him tutoring as well and taught him at home before and after school. Proud to say that he is 15 know back in schools in our neighborhood and in the Honors Society.

    • SummerBaby

      in my opinion, her original eye color works the best with her face.
      _______________
      I saw a throwback on her youngins IG last night. Her mama was the chit. I stand by that.
      ------------------------
      :cosign:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      I can not believe Kendra is airing her marriage out like this how embarrassing jeez I didn’t know her show was like that lawd
      ********************
      Chit try watching True Tori that chit is beyond redic.

    • The Pearl!

      Time to Waste says:

      Why my girl text me ” Husband about to call you; please listen to what he has to say before you go HAM”
      :sigh:
      This nigga calls me to tell me that Friday I was not texting with her but with him. He knew I was bad mouthing him to her and wanted to get proof. He learned the opposite and is truly sorry and he had to come clean because he has said disparaging things about me forever because I have the power to end his happiness!
      FOH bruh.
      I tried to be a christian about it but I couldn’t. I didn’t say anything personal about myself but that is not the point. I’m heated.
      I may dead her off this.
      She called me to say that he told her Sunday; they got into another argument and he encouraged her to talk to me and she was :blink: and pressed him about why and he told her what he did.
      ___
      Wait a minute, Waste. So, he snuck her phone and used it to catfish you? That is a bitch-ass nigga move right there!

    • SOTHERNGRL

      @UF sounds like it may be something as simple as she's bored.

    • Time to Waste

      I would steer clear of the both of them MItches!!!
      --------------------
      Yeah I may need to leave her alone too :lol:

      ____________________________

      :popcorn: So what was he axin you?
      --------------------
      :lol: at your convo.

      Basically it started like "we fighting again" and a break down of the fight.
      I was very "girl calm down and :smoke: something.
      He (smh) said I really think I'm going to leave this time
      I was like I'll support whatever you do but I think you are overreacting and you have a good man blah blah blah relationships are work blah blah blah

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      :clap: Keesh. Im confident that we will get there. just gotta get over this hurdle right now.

      gotta call in the big dogs. grandma is getting called tonight. she may have to show up with her luggage like Iyanla.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Unk doing ok OTB.. read the one I made up top talking about him. One day at a time, he is trying.

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      I may dead her off this
      ---------
      Better you than me, because I would of told them both to peace out and that would of been after I read them both.

    • The Pearl!

      I have friends/family who are birds, they are not bad ppl but I dont get surprised when they start chirping. its just what they do.
      _____________
      OMG! You could NOT have said this any more eloquently!!! I'm :rofl:

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      @UF sounds like it may be something as simple as she’s bored.
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      she misses her father.

    • OutsidetheBox

      Oh I saw your update @Keesh. I hope all goes well. :|

    • Time to Waste

      Time did she know he was texting you or did she just find out too?
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      He came clean to her about it.
      They got in to a argument; he encouraged her to talk to me.
      She looking at him like he crazy cause she know he don't like me
      She said she pressed him on why she should talk to me and he told it.
      Said she told him, he had to tell me.

    • SOTHERNGRL

      she misses her father.
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      AWWWWWWWWWWWWW :crying: :crying1: give her a :hug: from me. Now you have gave me the sads. Chit

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      Time Waster its very high school but shyt happens. all is fair in love and in war.

    • Time to Waste

      So there is some dirt??
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      Yeah back when they were dating he cheated.
      I once asked her if she wanted to know what I knew and she told me that she has already forgiven him and that what I have to add won't change it.
      In 15 years she has not asked and I have not brought it up

    • OutsidetheBox

      @UF sounds like it may be something as simple as she’s bored.
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      My vote.

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      AWWWWWWWWWWWWW give her a from me. Now you have gave me the sads. Chit
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      there there little bear. it will be ok. we'll get thru this. :yes:

    • Milky

      she misses her father.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      May I ask what happened to her dad????

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Come Through Nancy Drew :nun:

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      she misses her father.
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      AWWWWWWWWWWWWW :crying: :crying1: give her a :hug: from me. Now you have gave me the sads. Chit
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      *joins in on the huggin' & CRINE* :broken heart:

    • The Pearl!

      Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

      I may dead her off this
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      Better you than me, because I would of told them both to peace out and that would of been after I read them both.
      October 29, 2014 at 12:34 pm
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      Yeah. I don't like all that extra b.s. in my life. Imagine if Wasting had said what ole boy wanted to hear? All the extra drama that would have ensued? I've been known to drop a person on a dime, too. Consider it, Waste. Depends on how you value her friendship. Does Mr. Time have an opinion on them as people (or fools)?

    • OutsidetheBox

      Yeah back when they were dating he cheated.
      I once asked her if she wanted to know what I knew and she told me that she has already forgiven him and that what I have to add won’t change it.
      In 15 years she has not asked and I have not brought it up
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      Youre good. I prolly wouldve said something. A mutual friend told me that my friend knew something about me but wont tell me cause "who would it be hurting". I assume she mean it will hurt me so she wont tell me. I dont like it.

      Would you have wanted her to tell you anything about MrTime? :think:

    • Unshakable

      @Keesh,

      Won't God do it? Your baby had the hand of God upon him. I may be outta line for saying this, but I hope your uncle is fairly (and i use that term loosely) compensated for what he had to endure.

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      Milky says:

      May I ask what happened to her dad????
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      aint nothing happen to him. he picked her up on columbus day when school was out. they spent the day together he said i'll call you tomorrow and we havnt heard from him since. 2-3 weeks for a 5 year old is a long time. so now she's mad but she already hadnt liked school anyway. this just made her disposition worse.

      I overheard her and her other 5 year old friend talking about it. her friend's father is in prison and they were talking about how they miss their dads.

    • OutsidetheBox

      I overheard her and her other 5 year old friend talking about it. her friend’s father is in prison and they were talking about how they miss their dads.
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      Aww. :brokenheart: How you feel about relaying the msg?

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      How you feel about relaying the msg?
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      to him? he knows. if you didnt see or speak to your child in weeks, wouldnt you know?

    • Time to Waste

      Funny. I was just telling Mr. Time.
      He said phuck 'em both.
      They are friends I had before I met Mr. Time.
      They moved away for about 8 years and have been back for 3.
      No real couple bonding though.

    • KyCakes

      Hey ery'body :biggrin:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      How you feel about relaying the msg?
      ___________________________________

      to him? he knows. if you didnt see or speak to your child in weeks, wouldnt you know?
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      This made me sad and mad all at the same time. WTF would you not at least call!? Why do that to her!? She is five!!! :mad: my niece momma does this to her all the damn time and it burns me up. Either you in a kids life or not. Period. You can't be on foot in and one dirty foot out.

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      Funny. I was just telling Mr. Time.
      He said phuck ‘em both.
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      Mr.Time said these how's ain't loyal Lol.

    • Time to Waste

      Would you have wanted her to tell you anything about MrTime? :think:
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      I would have.
      That is why I asked her if she wanted to know what I knew about the cheating. She told me flat out NO. She was over it and they were going to move on. I valued the friendship and respected her wishes.

    • OutsidetheBox

      to him? he knows. if you didnt see or speak to your child in weeks, wouldnt you know?
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      I'm wired differently. I pushed some of my chirren out a small hole. And got cut behind the others. I think you should tell him.

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      That is why I asked her if she wanted to know what I knew about the cheating. She told me flat out NO. She was over it and they were going to move on. I valued the friendship and respected her wishes.
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      Bless your heart. My friends had better tell me about mine. Make sure you have solid evidence though. Don't let me walk around looking like boo boo the fool.

    • SOTHERNGRL

      to him? he knows. if you didnt see or speak to your child in weeks, wouldnt you know?
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      @UF the petty in me says Yep he shole do but the bleeding heart in me is like call him for her and tell him You know your doorter miss yo stoopid stank azz right. But thats just my ignant azz.

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      Would you have wanted her to tell you anything about MrTime?
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      had a friend tell me about my high school boyfriend when I was in college and we had been broken up. I was like wtf! you let me walk around looking all stupid. for that just take it to the grave!

    • OutsidetheBox

      I would have.
      That is why I asked her if she wanted to know what I knew about the cheating. She told me flat out NO. She was over it and they were going to move on. I valued the friendship and respected her wishes
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      Sounds like she needed to know about him..imo. Too bad she wanted to play flamingo.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      User Friendly says:

      :clap: Keesh. Im confident that we will get there. just gotta get over this hurdle right now.

      gotta call in the big dogs. grandma is getting called tonight. she may have to show up with her luggage like Iyanla
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      YASSSSSSS! Im bout to call Iyanla cause she thank she be getting folks right on together.

    • Time to Waste

      I'm going to lunch.
      Thank Y'all so much for listening.
      Mr. Time said I should send a text; telling what I know and tell 'em both the eat 100 dacks :rofl:

    • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

      Mr. Time said I should send a text; telling what I know and tell ‘em both the eat 100 dacks
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      ooooooooooooh :shocked: thats a good one :lol:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      Mr. Time said I should send a text; telling what I know and tell ‘em both the eat 100 dacks :rofl:
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      I agree

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Unshakable says:

      @Keesh,

      Won’t God do it? Your baby had the hand of God upon him. I may be outta line for saying this, but I hope your uncle is fairly (and i use that term loosely) compensated for what he had to endure.
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      Compensation is over due but when you live in a town like mine... Info, DNA and all on the case just up and disappear..... :sad:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgpRw9tiuM bnatural

      Did anyone watch the Prison wives show last night on lifetime? OR did I miss that conversation?

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Yaassss happy puce cat day..... purrrrrrrr

    • Bootcampgirl

      Both ladies are friends of the blog so we are not choosing sides.<---Thanks for that warning Sandra... :rofl:
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      Hey Fam :waves:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

      :newpost:

    • MissArtist

      Says the lady who would die without her blonde wigs and has freak show tatas...

    • http://twitter.com/SayItaIntSoJoe8 Atypical

      I doubt she got done in the US. Iris implants aren't FDA approved here because it has crazy side effects.Like getting cataracts and going blind but I digress... How is Tiny changing her eye color different than Wendy getting her boobs done? An alteration is an alteration.