Pilar Sanders

A Texas judge threw the book at Pilar Sanders, the obstinate ex-wife of NFL legend Deion Sanders, for violating a child custody agreement by not returning his children to him on time. Pilar was booked into a Dallas jail on Tuesday where she will serve out a seven day sentence.

“Pilar hasn’t seen the children since August,” Sanders, 47, told Sandrarose.com via phone last month.

Deion said police were forced to kick in a door at Pilar’s residence when she refused to return the children to him after a visitation.

Deion sued Pilar last month after she took to Twitter.com to publicly disparage him via Tweets and audio links.

“My children are happy,” said Deion, who portrayed his ex as a desperate women who wants to derail his hit reality TV show on OWN Network, Deion’s Family Playbook, featuring his fiancée, producer Tracey Edmonds, and his extended family.

Pilar Sanders appeared in court in suburban Dallas without an attorney for a hearing requested by Deion Sanders’ attorney Rick Robertson who requested changes to the divorce decree and an injunction to stop her from disparaging her ex-husband.

As part of the ruling from Collin County District Judge Ray Wheless, Pilar Sanders’ visitation rights were suspended indefinitely and she was ordered to remove all statements that are damaging to her ex-husband, Robertson said.

“We won on all parts,” Robertson said.

Pilar Sanders was not immediately available for comment.

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    • Time to Waste

      Thanks Sandra!

    • A.J.

      :facepalm:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      :facepalm: This just terrible. Both of them need to get this mess straight for their kids.

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      featuring his fiancée, producer Tracey Edmonds
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      Deion done drove Pilar crazy and Tracey was the final straw. this, I do believe.

      I wouldnt even date a man that followed Tracey on social media. bish aint no good. :nono: NONE!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyR09SP9qdA&sns=em Afiya says FOH :chase:

      This is a :( story, I :pray: for all parties, mental illness is serious :crying:

    • The Pearl!

      :waves: Good morning, Sandra, A.J. :winky: , User, lovezoe, Time Waster, Blanche, Jenie, and all those I missed and who will come in later. Zoe, honey…what’s ailing you this fine :hump: day, sweetie? :waiting:

    • A.J.

      :hug: Pearl my love how you doing?

    • Time to Waste

      :hi: Pearl

    • The Pearl!

      A.J., I’m wonderful, hun. You? Pilar doesn’t look quite sane up there, God bless her. She doesn’t even look her usually stunning self — she could look fine as wine pumping gas, but not up top.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      I will gone ask. This girl (who’s known to fib) at the bus stop told another mom that kids were picking on my daughter (9) at school. She has never mentioned anything, has a small group of friends. She’s small for her age and VERY VERY soft spoken. Very. The girl said people talk about Her height. This girl sees me practically every day and said nothing. The mom (not her mom) said she forgot to tell me for two weeks. Two weeks. She got my number and I see her almost daily too. How do I approach mini me, if at all? ,

    • free

      deion, there must be another way.

      pilar, you need to find you somebody in the nfl to drill that puzz good and make you happy.

      deion, halle’s gabe, wade, and some of these other dudes ain’t fuggin with yall bitter broads. please think of your children and not yourselves.

    • San ah make ya dance

      San, what’s a pud? :bite: :lol:
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      @Vdot :hahaha: What Yandy calls her good friends. Reminds me of pug so yea she one of those since she pudgy :yes:

    • free

      lovezoe says: How do I approach mini me, if at all? ,

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      you have to ask but don’t do it in a way that will make her think you will go HAM on the bus and embarrass her.

    • pointhimout

      The difference a couple years make. I can’t be the only person who remembers how much of a bitch she was on that football wives reality show. “I’ll show you some of the rooms today and the next time you come back, I’ll show you some of the others.” She’s not fighting Deion, this heffa fighting getting a job. How the mighty have fallen.

    • San ah make ya dance

      How late was she? Did he really have to call the po-po?

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Deion done drove Pilar crazy and Tracey was the final straw. this, I do believe.

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      :cosign:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      Dis bytch here. :facepalm:
      Now she goin come out with her “Woe-is-me” bullchit. Shut her azz dine Prime Time like you did NFL receivers! :claps:

    • San ah make ya dance

      His reality show SUCKS too :tea:

    • San ah make ya dance

      Shut her azz dine Prime Time like you did NFL receivers! :claps:
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      :ghost:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      you have to ask but don’t do it in a way that will make her think you will go HAM on the bus and embarrass her.

      I would never do that. I just don’t want people talking bout her and she’s not standing up for herself or telling me.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      She’s not fighting Deion, this heffa fighting getting a job.
      ________________

      THIS! Got to big for her britches. Gots to know yo’ place, gots to know yo place.
      :coffee:

    • A.J.

      A.J., I’m wonderful, hun.
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      Never better babe, never better :tea:

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      How do I approach mini me, if at all? ,
      ________________

      I dont know but I have been known to approach kids while their mother is standing right there. gets the point across clear as day.

      BUT with that said, my son wont tell me anything anymore because he said “you know how you get” :ashamed: I still check in at school and wherever else he goes bc I think its important for everybody to know that THIS child is being looked after.

      he might not have liked it but it was effective :yes: it lets your child, the other child, and their parents know that you aint for the bullshyt.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      ovezoe says: How do I approach mini me, if at all? ,
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      you have to ask but don’t do it in a way that will make her think you will go HAM on the bus and embarrass her.
      ………………..

      :cosign: My daughter is soft spoken like that too. You have to tread lightly because they hate to be embarrassed but you gotta let them know to speak up when there is a problem. Maybe reiterate to her that she needs to tell you if she is having problems at school, then if it gets you nowhere just ask gently.

    • A.J.

      Pud reminds me of spud as in the potato. :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      I will gone ask. This girl (who’s known to fib) at the bus stop told another mom that kids were picking on my daughter (9) at school. She has never mentioned anything, has a small group of friends. She’s small for her age and VERY VERY soft spoken. Very. The girl said people talk about Her height. This girl sees me practically every day and said nothing. The mom (not her mom) said she forgot to tell me for two weeks. Two weeks. She got my number and I see her almost daily too. How do I approach mini me, if at all? ,
      _________________

      Ask her! Don’t press but make sure to ask! Then follow up… EVERYDAY!

      You:
      How was school today? :eek:
      How was the bus ride today? :eek:
      How is your friend _____ doing? :eek:

      But you can’t blow up if you find out they bullying her. At least don’t blow up in front of her. If you she might not wanna tell u nothing no more.

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      you have to ask but don’t do it in a way that will make her think you will go HAM on the bus and embarrass her.
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      oh :kona:

    • San ah make ya dance

      Pud reminds me of spud as in the potato. :shrug:
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      Shut up AJ :lol: How you doing?

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      She shoulda went to the Shaunie school of hiding money.

    • A.J.

      I dont know but I have been known to approach kids while their mother is standing right there. gets the point across clear as day.
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      :love: UF, this is exactly why I do not have chirren. If I would knock mine stone cold out and throw em down the stairs you know no fukks would be gave on someone else’s chirren. Be sitting up in jail, all I know is someone said something to my child.

    • A.J.

      Shut up AJ :lol: How you doing?
      ________
      Hey babe. I’m real good.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Man, I ask her everyday hiw was school, what happened at lunch, wtc. She’s such a sensitive bear. We will definitely talk when she gets home. I think she do feel I will go HAM, and thats not. necessarily true.

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      If I would knock mine stone cold out and throw em down the stairs you know no fukks would be gave on someone else’s chirren
      ________

      :shocked: no, AJ you might not need to have kids. you worse than San :rofl:

      oh, hey San :hi:

    • San ah make ya dance

      :love: UF, this is exactly why I do not have chirren. If I would knock mine stone cold out and throw em down the stairs you know no fukks would be gave on someone else’s chirren. Be sitting up in jail, all I know is someone said something to my child.
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      Yep and its hard to deal with someone messing with your children (family) I’ve ran to the play ground many of times ready to :karate: someone’s child :tea:

    • San ah make ya dance

      :hahaha: No she didn’t. I’m right underneath you on the scale of kids!

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      you have to ask but don’t do it in a way that will make her think you will go HAM on the bus and embarrass her.
      _________________
      oh :kona:

      ____________________

      :rofl:

      I’m with you UFO. I initially typed up to go up there and whoop all of their azzes :karate: but then I was like :facepalm: that’s not the correct way. Or maybe it is :eek:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Reminds me of pug so yea she one of those since she pudgy :yes:

      ______________

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • A.J.

      AJ you might not need to have kids
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      I don’t want any. I love kids tho. Other people kids.

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      Man, I ask her everyday hiw was school, what happened at lunch, wtc.
      ___________

      you gotta ask them trick questions like “what was the funniest thing that happened in school?” get em talking.

      I can get my son to tell me SOME things by baking cookies with him or pretending to be interested in his Nike Air online account. he gets so giddy that he lets his guard down. be done showed me his girlfriend’s IG page and everything.

      OR have somebody else ask. my son told my daughter’s babysitter a bunch of shyt that he would never tell me.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Hubby is the one we got to worry about. Our oldest boy was in daycare and the boy pushed him into the wall, hubby yanked that bit up so fast. Mama standing right there. :rofl: He like you handle it, because if I do :nono:

    • San ah make ya dance

      I don’t want any. I love kids tho. Other people kids
      —————
      Hmmm I don’t. This child comes into the office everyday now waiting for a ride. The lady that usually sits up front entertains him, give him snacks and all that bs. When I’m up there he come to the window looking and my head be turned. I ask him if he needs his ride then I’m done :|

    • The Pearl!

      @lovezoe, I suspect you have “how-was-your-day” conversations on the regular with lilzoe. But you could just be a bit more persistent on the topic of bullying and see if she opens up to you.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      If I would knock mine stone cold out and throw em down the stairs you know no fukks would be gave on someone else’s chirren.

      ___________________

      :tea:

      I volunteer to ride the school bus to drop off kids leaving tutoring. Let me tell you, this past Monday I had to seriously restrain myself from :box: a few of them musty azz kids. Bless their :heart: but :phew: They wore me the fugg out. I got off that bus, in my car and :steer: straight to the bar to get my mind right :blink:

    • Smonae

      Good Morning SR :waves:
      WT
      San
      Vdot
      LoveZoe
      AJ
      Pearl
      UF
      Afiya
      Man
      Blanche
      Free

    • San ah make ya dance

      :kiss: Smonae!

    • luVn_liFe…

      Sandra
      A.J. :kiss
      :
      User,
      lovezoe,
      Time Waster
      Blanche
      Jenie
      Pearl
      SAN :hug:
      Vdot
      MAN
      Free
      POINT
      :wave: Morning! POINT did U ever get that spray machine for ur SIS??

    • CaliYoruba

      Morning Ya’ll :wave:

      #26 MAN… I think that’s the first time I agreed with Man LOL

      Morning Sandra, Can we get Morning Wood on Dhani Jones?

    • San ah make ya dance

      A police officer in Richmond, California, took too much of his work home.

      Officer Joe Avila picked up four to five pounds of marijuana from a UPS store as part of an investigation in November of last year, The Contra Costa Times reports. But instead of filing a report and taking the evidence to the police station, as required, Avila just took the drugs home.

      After an internal investigation questioned him about his missing reports — 37 in all — Avila admitted to keeping the marijuana. “Avila told investigators that he used two pounds of the marijuana to train his police dog in February 2014, and when pressed, he acknowledged there may be more in the trunk of his K-9 patrol car or at his house,” The Times reports.
      Amazingly, officials at the Richmond Police Department said Avila probably won’t be charged with any crime, citing evidence too weak to produce a conviction.
      ———————
      :tea:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Gd mornING everyone

      :offtopic:

      Did anyone hear about Titi Branch Co owner of miss Jessie committing suicide? And apparantly this happened on Dec 4 and her family didn’t let the public know. So sad

    • A.J.

      I got off that bus, in my car and :steer: straight to the bar to get my mind right
      _____________
      :lol: :yes:

    • luVn_liFe…

      NAE :happy: WASTING ive been in PRIVATE Browsing :wink: doesn’t even show as a window :D

    • A.J.

      Smonae, Luvn, Vanna :hi: morning

    • San ah make ya dance

      NAE :happy: WASTING ive been in PRIVATE Browsing :wink: doesn’t even show as a window :D

      ================
      :waves: :thumbsup:

    • http://pinkcottonent.com JerseyMom

      Stay tuned…….

    • Smonae

      Luvn hey beautiful :kiss:

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      Hubby is the one we got to worry about. Our oldest boy was in daycare and the boy pushed him into the wall, hubby yanked that bit up so fast. Mama standing right there. He like you handle it, because if I do
      __________

      my son and his friend did “something” to a little girl. I told him that if that girl’s daddy/uncle/cousins had came by and whooped his ass they would have been justified.

      always remember that everybody belongs to somebody.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :wave: CALIY/VANNAH, yeah vannah we discussed it. it is tragic :no:

    • Gigi26

      Pilar done went insane :no: Poor thing

    • Smonae

      So Joe get to keep the goods :nono:

      He bout to flip them 5lbs :yes:

    • A.J.

      “Avila told investigators that he used two pounds of the marijuana to train his police dog in February 2014,
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      Nigga please :tea: won’t nothing happen tho. Avila sounds like he got the complexion for the protection.

    • San ah make ya dance

      Nigga please :tea: won’t nothing happen tho. Avila sounds like he got the complexion for the protection.
      ————-
      :ghost: Imma have to use that one day

    • Gigi26

      Did anyone hear about Titi Branch Co owner of miss Jessie committing suicide? And apparantly this happened on Dec 4 and her family didn’t let the public know. So sad
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      I think they didn’t let the public know cuz they was prolly shamed about it…you know some folk don’t take real good to that sort of thing. Its like a shame on some ppl family :yes: But dang what a horrible way to go :no:

    • Time to Waste

      Hey LuvN
      Hey Smonae

      :waves:

    • San ah make ya dance

      I always wanted to try Miss Jessie products. Too high for my taste tho :phew:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      I have no mental strength to deal with this day :facepalm:

      Yall pray for me because I’m just spent.

      Hey everybody :waves:

    • A.J.

      Nigga please :tea: won’t nothing happen tho. Avila sounds like he got the complexion for the protection.
      ————-
      :ghost: Imma have to use that one day
      _________
      a la Al Sharpton (the fat one) not dis slim no meat eating one!! Be clear.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      :waves: Luvn and Nae Nae!

      Ummm is it wrong that I wanna know how she managed to kill herself? I read asphyxiation and was like did she noose herself? :eek: I can be so morbid :facepalm:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I like their show (probably because I find Deion’s arrogance attractive :ashamed: ). He said he doesn’t speak negatively about her in front of the children, but every time they come back from being with her, they are resentful towards him. One episode showing the kids saying their names are Love El-Blaise Blaise. Deion asked the little girl if she knows she loves her. She just :shrug: It was heartbreaking since it was clear that their mom was filling their heads with untruths.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Did anyone hear about Titi Branch Co owner of miss Jessie committing suicide? And apparantly this happened on Dec 4 and her family didn’t let the public know. So sad
      ————————
      I think they didn’t let the public know cuz they was prolly shamed about it…you know some folk don’t take real good to that sort of thing. Its like a shame on some ppl family :yes: But dang what a horrible way to go :no:
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      I don’t agree. I think they wanted to grieve privately. None of her friends or family leaked the info. They could have simply said she died, I think they wanted privacy.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      :waves: hi aj how r u

      Luvin I missed everything yesterday I had tech difficulties on yesterday

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      Ummm is it wrong that I wanna know how she managed to kill herself? I read asphyxiation and was like did she noose herself? I can be so morbid
      ________________

      they say women usually kill themselves in a way thats clean (hanging, swallowing pills) so as not to burden anyone with cleaning up a mess. men, on the other hand, leave their brains and guts all over the fuggin place cuz they are nasty even in death.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Did anyone hear about Titi Branch Co owner of miss Jessie committing suicide? And apparantly this happened on Dec 4 and her family didn’t let the public know. So sad
      ————————
      I think they didn’t let the public know cuz they was prolly shamed about it…you know some folk don’t take real good to that sort of thing. Its like a shame on some ppl family :yes: But dang what a horrible way to go :no:
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      I don’t agree. I think they wanted to grieve privately. None of her friends or family leaked the info. They could have simply said she died, I think they wanted privacy.

      That goes to show u depression is real. She was beautiful, sucessfull and rich and she and her boyfriend was startin a biz. I wonder what happened

    • The Pearl!

      Simonae! :waves:

    • A.J.

      hi aj how r u
      __________
      Never better I hope you’re well.

    • inter_loop

      I used to like exotical women who commanded attention. Now I just want a nice looking gal with a great personally But even the uglies can act ugly.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Ummm is it wrong that I wanna know how she managed to kill herself? I read asphyxiation and was like did she noose herself? I can be so morbid
      ________________

      they say women usually kill themselves in a way thats clean (hanging, swallowing pills) so as not to burden anyone with cleaning up a mess. men, on the other hand, leave their brains and guts all over the fuggin place cuz they are nasty even in death.

      —-

      I’m noticing more blacks are starting to kill themselves.

    • sassyshe

      Morning all :waves:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      :yes: at UFO. Men are usually more successful at completing the act too. They say fugg trying to overdose on Flintstone vitamins (‘Tasia :eek: )

    • A.J.

      Morning Sassy :hi:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      hi aj how r u
      __________
      Never better I hope you’re well.

      That’s great I’m trying to get to “never better” status. Yesterday was not good for me. Thanks for asking…

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      I’m noticing more blacks are starting to kill themselves.
      _____________________

      yeah we do a lot of “white” stuff now. some good. some bad.

      Titi looked like some type of hawaiian or asian or something tho :think:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      I’m noticing more blacks are starting to kill themselves
      …………………..

      I think the conversation about mental health is starting to open up, so people are less ashamed to admit the cause of death.

    • A.J.

      They say fugg trying to overdose on Flintstone vitamins (‘Tasia :eek: )
      ____________
      :hahaha:

    • San ah make ya dance

      Titi looked like some type of hawaiian or asian or something tho :think:
      ————
      Believe she was AA and Jap

    • sassyshe

      Vanna is the root of all evil says:

      Ummm is it wrong that I wanna know how she managed to kill herself? I read asphyxiation and was like did she noose herself? I can be so morbid
      ________________

      they say women usually kill themselves in a way thats clean (hanging, swallowing pills) so as not to burden anyone with cleaning up a mess. men, on the other hand, leave their brains and guts all over the fuggin place cuz they are nasty even in death.

      —-

      I’m noticing more blacks are starting to kill themselves.

      ————————————————————————
      Cause there are so many of them with untreated bipolar and schizophrenia which is hereditary. Im not one to say medicate a person immediately but I do believe that people need to be encouraged more to go to counseling (any type) when it gets to the point where they can no longer cope with things occuring in their life. Also when you see people start to isolate themselves, become introverts when they were never like that before those are usually red flags and as relatives and friends we need to be involved in asking them if they are ok and trying to encourage them more to get out of those ‘moods”

    • San ah make ya dance

      Im not one to say medicate a person immediately but I do believe that people need to be encouraged more to go to counseling (any type) when it gets to the point where they can no longer cope with things occuring in their life
      ————–
      :cosign:

    • The Pearl!

      :waves: GiGi, LuvN, San, Jersey, Vanna, Buttercup, VDot, CaliYo, Man!! Hey, now!

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      I used to like exotical women who commanded attention. Now I just want a nice looking gal with a great personally But even the uglies can act ugly.

      All I want is a nice looking guy with a great personality. It’s funny u say that bc the the ppl who have absolutely nothing to offer u who not the most attractive are the ones that give u hell.

    • San ah make ya dance

      :hug: Pearlie

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Hey pearl :waves:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      but I do believe that people need to be encouraged more to go to counseling (any type) when it gets to the point where they can no longer cope with things occuring in their life
      ____________________________

      It’s not that easy :no: I’ve been watching my friend struggle with bipolarism (word? :shrug: ) over the past decade. It’s gotten REALLY bad over the past couple of years. You can’t make grown people do what they don’t want to do :no: It’s so hard to have a front row to seat to a breakdown and not be able to do anything. I sometimes have to take a step back for my own sanity. :yes:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Im not one to say medicate a person immediately but I do believe that people need to be encouraged more to go to counseling (any type) when it gets to the point where they can no longer cope with things occuring in their life
      ————–
      :cosign:

      Our faith is really strong. We really depend on GOD. Thats how we are raised. Especially Baptist faith. Give it to GOD

    • The Pearl!

      they say women usually kill themselves in a way thats clean (hanging, swallowing pills) so as not to burden anyone with cleaning up a mess. men, on the other hand, leave their brains and guts all over the fuggin place cuz they are nasty even in death.
      _____
      The other school of thought on this is that women are vain and want to be buried looking their “best” (dumb, I know, but, eh)

    • The Pearl!

      inter_loop says:

      I used to like exotical women who commanded attention. Now I just want a nice looking gal with a great personally But even the uglies can act ugly.
      ___________
      Hmmm :thinking: sounds similar to what we women say about short/ugly mens. :hahaha:

      :hi: sassy!

    • luVn_liFe…

      Blanche Devereaux says:

      I’m noticing more blacks are starting to kill themselves
      …………………..

      I think the conversation about mental health is starting to open up, so people are less ashamed to admit the cause of death.
      ~~~
      That’s a good point BLANCHE, I agree with you.
      and I thought maybe her fam didn’t speak on it BECAUSE they wanted privacy. they’re biz really isn’t everybody’s.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      It’s not that easy :no: I’ve been watching my friend struggle with bipolarism (word? :shrug: ) over the past decade. It’s gotten REALLY bad over the past couple of years. You can’t make grown people do what they don’t want to do :no: It’s so hard to have a front row to seat to a breakdown and not be able to do anything. I sometimes have to take a step back for my own sanity. :yes:
      ………………..

      I’m very open with my mental health struggles on here and I am telling you Bipolar is a BEAST. Its not just about being depressed its like an alternate version of reality when you are manic. I’m starting to get more in tune with myself and understanding what kind of phase I am in but it is hard work. VERY HARD. Wouldn’t wish it on soul.

    • Smonae

      Vanna, Gigi & Sassy :waves:

    • The Pearl!

      Believe she was AA and Jap
      __________
      a-knees! There. Completed that for ya, San! :winky: :rofl:

    • Gigi26

      Cause there are so many of them with untreated bipolar and schizophrenia which is hereditary. Im not one to say medicate a person immediately but I do believe that people need to be encouraged more to go to counseling (any type) when it gets to the point where they can no longer cope with things occuring in their life. Also when you see people start to isolate themselves, become introverts when they were never like that before those are usually red flags and as relatives and friends we need to be involved in asking them if they are ok and trying to encourage them more to get out of those ‘moods”
      ————————–
      :cosign: I went to counseling earlier this year through my EAP. Best thing I could’ve done for myself :yes: I found out that I have PCOS and depression is a major system because of the excess androgens (hormones def play a major role). I’m on meds not for depression but for something relating to my syndrome and I noticed i’ve def felt better.

      Ladies def go see an endocrinologist if you’re not feeling like yourself. Sometimes it can be more than just your mind…

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      The other school of thought on this is that women are vain and want to be buried looking their “best” (dumb, I know, but, eh)

      ________________

      No one looks good dead. NO ONE!! :no: Make up be ALL the wrong color. I mean it has to be hard matching skin color when there’s no blood flowing, but still…….Folks be the color of Kelly Rowland, in make up that looks like it belongs on Bey :blink: Hair in a style they prolly wouldn’t rock. Just :no: More and more I’m leaning towards cremation :yes: Less fuss.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      Our faith is really strong. We really depend on GOD. Thats how we are raised. Especially Baptist faith. Give it to GOD
      …………………….

      True. My gpa didn’t understand when I told him I can’t just pray my BPD away. It doesn’t work like that. Prayer plus action is needed.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      so i have to leave early today because my babysitter’s little cousin (9 years old!) died and the wake is today.

      the funerals for my aunt and cousin are also this week. I dont want to go :cry: isnt there some other way I can show my respect? my brother told me I HAVE TO GO but I do not want to. my kids go everywhere with me and I def dont want to take them.

      I feel surrounded by death. its sickening.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyR09SP9qdA&sns=em Afiya says FOH :chase:

      Where Taken :wait: I’m waiting to hear her take on ‘Soriety Sister’ :yes:
      :stop: Do you think she was on the show now she can’t look at them the same way no mo? :thinking: :lol:

      Where the Sorors at?

    • The Pearl!

      Our faith is really strong. We really depend on GOD. Thats how we are raised. Especially Baptist faith. Give it to GOD
      _____________
      Agreed, but God also provides us with other types of help to get us through tough times. Lots of folks self-medicate, too, possibly as a way of avoiding the taboo of seeking psychological help. It’s complicated, for sure.

    • San ah make ya dance

      :lol:

    • Gigi26

      and I thought maybe her fam didn’t speak on it BECAUSE they wanted privacy.
      ———————–
      Could be but look how she died. Some cultures, suicide is dying without dignity. Its a huge shame on the family. It could be privacy coupled with other things but one of her friends did a video montage to Frankie Beverly n Maze’s “Before I let go” and it was so damn nice, at the end it showed the cover of the funeral program. Damn :sad:

      I’m weary of those folk who smile all the time, cuz there’s def a frown somewhere in there :no:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Its not just about being depressed its like an alternate version of reality when you are manic.

      ___________________

      The manic part is the part that scares me the most with her :( And throw a lil paranoia in there too?! :bite:

      I appreciate you being open and honest with your struggle :yes: Can I ask what your treatment methods are? Counseling? Medication daily? Or just when you’re cycling?

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      so i have to leave early today because my babysitter’s little cousin (9 years old!) died and the wake is today.
      the funerals for my aunt and cousin are also this week.

      ________________

      :( :hug:

      I hate funerals. You don’t HAVE to do anything. If there’s a repast, just show up for that to show respect.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Our faith is really strong. We really depend on GOD. Thats how we are raised. Especially Baptist faith. Give it to GOD
      _______________

      plus ppl think they will go to hell if they commit suicide.

      in response to other suicides there have been plenty of posts right here on this blog that said “oh well I dont feel sympathy…..the bible says you going to hell if you take your own life….blah blah blah”

    • luVn_liFe…

      VDot says:

      The other school of thought on this is that women are vain and want to be buried looking their “best” (dumb, I know, but, eh)

      ________________

      No one looks good dead. NO ONE!! :no: Make up be ALL the wrong color. I mean it has to be hard matching skin color when there’s no blood flowing, but still…….Folks be the color of Kelly Rowland, in make up that looks like it belongs on Bey :blink: Hair in a style they prolly wouldn’t rock. Just :no: More and more I’m leaning towards cremation
      ~~~
      WELL THAT’S VAIN V :lol: I am going to be cremated V. My mommy was cremated as well :confused:
      let me tell you, I love having that Vase with her ashes in it every time I walk in my front door! :heart:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      ______________
      Deion done drove Pilar crazy and Tracey was the final straw. this, I do believe.
      I wouldnt even date a man that followed Tracey on social media. bish aint no good. NONE!
      *********************
      Tracey makes me wonder just how old she is cause I think Betty Wright was talking about her azz. She is the ORIGINAL clean up woman.

    • The Pearl!

      More and more I’m leaning towards cremation :yes: Less fuss.
      ____
      VDot, you’s a fewl with your perspective. Not incorrect, but a fewl, nonetheless. :hug:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      :newpost:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      I hate funerals. You don’t HAVE to do anything. If there’s a repast, just show up for that to show respect.
      ________________

      its 3 hours away. either Im in or Im out.

    • SOTHERNGRL

      @UF about the funerals/wakes. Can your kids father watch them while you go. I know you like to take them with you;but are their dads an option?

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      :newpost: NYPD pigs looking for who :box: ’em

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Vanna, Gigi & Sassy :waves:


      :waves:

    • The Pearl!

      :hug: bring it in, User. That’s a lot of funes in one week. If your children are under 9 or 10, I would not take them, unless they’re quite mature for their ages. Can someone watch them? Can you use no sitter as an excuse without being igged by the fam for the next 5 years? Be strong. :kiss:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Its a huge shame on the family. It could be privacy coupled with other things
      ~~~
      No doubt there is SHAME :yes:

      I don’t like funerals Ive only been to maybe three in my life.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      let me tell you, I love having that Vase with her ashes in it every time I walk in my front door! :heart:
      _______________________________

      :heart:

      Don’t go UFO :tea: Facetime/Tango them and keep it moving :shrug:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      @UF about the funerals/wakes. Can your kids father watch them while you go. I know you like to take them with you;but are their dads an option?
      ___________________

      they have two different fathers and no.

      they are both blocked on my phone anyway. I would just as soon cut my fingers off before dialing their numbers.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Our faith is really strong. We really depend on GOD. Thats how we are raised. Especially Baptist faith. Give it to GOD
      …………………….

      True. My gpa didn’t understand when I told him I can’t just pray my BPD away. It doesn’t work like that. Prayer plus action is needed.

      I’ve some experiences with it and u are right

    • SOTHERNGRL

      @Zoe does your son go to the same school? Has he said anything about someone bothering his sis?

    • Blanche Devereaux

      The manic part is the part that scares me the most with her :( And throw a lil paranoia in there too?! :bite:
      I appreciate you being open and honest with your struggle :yes: Can I ask what your treatment methods are? Counseling? Medication daily? Or just when you’re cycling?
      ……………………………

      I’m just cycling right now. I have kids to take care of and meds make it hard to function. I don’t like the dull feeling. I also have an anxiety disorder thats really bad so right now I’m not even driving because I just can’t handle it. I’m going back to counseling soon though. My mom worries about me a lot. I really don’t feel like I am a danger to myself but I also feel like that might be a different story if I didn’t have kids. I’ve only been hospitalized once but it was bad. I threatened to walk into traffic during a manic phase, that was like 4 years ago though.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Sothern- No. And if he heard something he would say something. Definitely. He snitches :rofl:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      :hugs: User if you don’t want to go, don’t go. There are other ways to pay respects. If you can’t handle it don’t force yourself.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Can you use no sitter as an excuse without being igged by the fam for the next 5 years? Be strong.
      ________________

      girl, I dont know. you know how ppl get. they will disregard all the other hundred ppl that showed up and notice that YOU didnt come.

      Facetime/Tango them and keep it moving :shocked: :rofl: girl you crazy.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      I have kids to take care of and meds make it hard to function. I don’t like the dull feeling.

      ____________________

      This was her biggest complaint about the meds. They made her dull and tired like she didn’t want to do anything.

      I took her to the hospital back in March when it got REALLY bad. Super paranoia :( It was right after she lost custody of her son so things just got to be too much.

      :hug: for you!! :pray: that you get through it. AND GO TO COUNSELING!! I truly believe talking to people outside of loved ones can truly make a difference and help you focus. :hug:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      I’m just cycling right now. I have kids to take care of and meds make it hard to function. I don’t like the dull feeling. I also have an anxiety disorder thats really bad so right now I’m not even driving because I just can’t handle it. I’m going back to counseling soon though. My mom worries about me a lot. I really don’t feel like I am a danger to myself but I also feel like that might be a different story if I didn’t have kids. I’ve only been hospitalized once but it was bad. I threatened to walk into traffic during a manic phase, that was like 4 years ago though.


      I’m sorry to hear this. If u don’t mind me asking, what triggered this? For me it was mostly my dad…

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      I have kids to take care of and meds make it hard to function. I don’t like the dull feeling.

      ____________________

      This was her biggest complaint about the meds. They made her dull and tired like she didn’t want to do anything.

      I took her to the hospital back in March when it got REALLY bad. Super paranoia :( It was right after she lost custody of her son so things just got to be too much.

      :hug: for you!! :pray: that you get through it. AND GO TO COUNSELING!! I truly believe talking to people outside of loved ones can truly make a difference and help you focus. :hug:

      The meds were not helping me at all so now I’m clean from them

    • Yardgirl

      Buttercup says:
      I like their show (probably because I find Deion’s arrogance attractive ). He said he doesn’t speak negatively about her in front of the children, but every time they come back from being with her, they are resentful towards him. One episode showing the kids saying their names are Love El-Blaise Blaise. Deion asked the little girl if she knows she loves her. She just It was heartbreaking since it was clear that their mom was filling their heads with untruths.

      *******************

      I like the show too and I never watch these types of shows (I think OWN does a decent job on this and Kim Whytley’s) That woman does not have the childrens’s best interest at heart. After she kept them for over 2 months late, they came back like they were zombies with new El-whatever names :no: She lives close to him , no wonder he’s moving to the other side of town.