Britney Spears and Charlier Ebersol split

Singer Britney Spears is Back On the Market. Spears and her boyfriend of 6 months, Charlie Ebersol, have called it quits. The reason this time is Ebersol didn't want to be pressured into marriage. Sound familiar?

“Britney had been pressuring Charlie for the last several months about getting married. She is at a point where she wants to have another child, and very much wants to be married again,” an insider told Radar Online. “Charlie had been very honest about not being ready to get married.”

This comes as no surprise, because Britney is a serial Love addict. A Love addict is someone (like Britney, Ciara, and Brittney Griner) who is in love with the idea of being in love. These women crave the highs they feel when they think they are in love. Like most drug addicts, they move on quickly to new men or women once the highs fade.

People who seek therapy for sex addiction are Dopamine addicts.

Dopamine is the principle neurotransmitter that controls the pleasure centers of our brains.

“The anticipation of reward — whether it’s a kiss, a piece of cake or a hot roll of the dice — produces the neurochemical dopamine in the brain’s limbic region, or ‘reward center,’” explains Ehlie Anne Vare in her book, Love Addict: Sex, Romance, and Other Dangerous Drugs.

Each new man (or woman) is like a hit on a bong pipe. But like most addictions, the highs never last and the addict runs off in search of someone new just to sustain the highs. This is why Love addicts who are married tend to cheat often.

Dopamine is a part of our brain chemistry, so we can't avoid it. We need Dopamine in our lives to remind us what is pleasurable and what isn't so we can avoid the unpleasurable things (food, people, etc.)

We can control Dopamine by understanding what triggers it. Romantic love is just a social construct. Love is not what we feel, it is what we DO for others.

If a man makes you feel good, giddy or excited, that is not love. A wise woman once said "Good d*ck is not love, it's just good d*ck."

Characteristics of Love Addiction

• Falling in love quickly and easily
• Obsessed with being in Love
• Gets involved with unavailable men who have trouble committing
• Ignores all warning signs that a man (or woman) may not be good for you
• Thinks Love and marriage validates her
• Fears being lonely
• Fantasizes about love 24/7
• Fears being abandoned
• Overly possessive and jealous of other women in his life
• Preoccupied with love and romantic fantasies
• Short attention span
• Feeling depressed with thoughts of suicide after a break up
• Pursues married men or women
• Addicted to cigarettes, alcohol, prescription drugs or narcotics

Over millennia of evolution, mating and reproduction were a survival priority requiring much effort, competition and fights; thus a reward from Mother Nature was essential for motivation. The "reward center" is the part of the brain dopamine activates when a goal is achieved. The propagation of genes required having many different partners; so an exhausted male who has just had sex with a female, will not mind mating again with any number of females, provided they are all new. A NEW "HARD-TO-GET" PARTNER IS ALWAYS SEXY, because it makes body dopamine surge high, going on that highs-and-lows roller-coaster again and again. First-sight love is a pure dopaminergic urge, that may/may not develop into mature love. Source

Is this you? Do you think you are a Love Addict? The key to breaking the cycle is to understand the science behind what you think is Love.

Click here for information on how to break the endless cycle of Dopamine relationships.

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    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Brittney needs some glue on her hands... men be slipping through them shyts like greased pigs...

    • SummerBaby

      Nope! I'm not a love addict.

    • Chitsngiggles

      I hate females like this. Scared to be alone. Always got to have a man. Bish you came in this world alone and you gonna leave alone. Go find yourself and sat down somewhere. Ugh.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Nah, I'm good on desperation.

    • Chitsngiggles

      We need a post on Shay and Mama Deb getting into a fight at Mama Dee's bridal shower. I'm so here for that!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I just read about that. Shay don't won't Deb on that azz.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Chile to be a fly on THAT wall. Deb probably keep a blade under her wig! Lol

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      WOOHOO @OLD ROSES. I got my first snooty reply lolol..A "Friend" of someone named Chellie or somechyt. asked.. (this bout to be funny) Do I...Wutt PhD.. have ANYTHIG else to talk about besides my sexcapades....... bwahahaha....BISH NO!...This is where I have fun and talk enough shyt to fill a toilet..you no likey my post..pass them bishes right on up! Yall better ask somebody! ROFL dis muddafukka dumb...my NAME IS WUTT P..H...D.. I have a doctorate in fukkery...its wutt I DOOO!!
      :tea: And now I am finna turn all way up old me style teehee...
      *Warning further post from Wut will contain graphic language concerning nudity and what people do when they are..if you are a prude, a stuck up censoring snob, a woman who may have never seen a dyck, a woman who nobody wants to dyck down ever and you jelly a little... pass my shyt!
      As Kdub would so eloquently put it.
      Your sister in Christ... Wutt. ROFL

    • SummerBaby

      I just read about that! Shay better back up & pay Deb her money.

    • KDub

      I'm scared of Deb. Through the damn TV screen. Nope!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Get em

    • Femme404

      Dopamine and lust. What love got to do with it? I think when these women meet men they let their cooties be the decision makers. Decisions are so much easier to make and bullshit so much easier to see when you take sex out of the equation when dealing with men.

    • SummerBaby

      #popcorn ??? They stay coming for us. Get em girl!

    • Chitsngiggles

      Last reunion when Joselina was acting like an animal, even her ass thought twice about stepping to Deb. She was just like "sit down ole lady" She knew better than to step to Deb. Deb will fluck a bish up!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      good day! ...oh hail.... good night! :kona:

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Every one who knows me know when I come here...what I talk about? hmmm...just how long have you been lurking? Whyyy don't you know this by now..Everybody that's my friend on here knows what I deeewww...lol...nonsense shyt..
      anywho (HUUUGG) Hey nah!!

    • Chitsngiggles

      Bish better have her money!!???

    • Chitsngiggles

      Low self esteem is a powerful drug. ???

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Not meh not tuday! OOOOH and got a reply from an email I was waiting on too..bwahaaha look out for my next "Sexacapades" <---who still say this shyt anywho fukisthisoldshyt... lolol.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Me too. She's a thug!

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      No burgah get back in chere... *hugs*

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      I just peed a lil... ROFL

    • Tiffany Miller

      I hope she finds somebody that really cares about her. This is why her dad is in control of her money. She would be passing out gifts like Oprah!!! Then again, it sais a lot about a woman that has no self control.... lack of maturity.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      IMMA CALL THIS SHYT SEXCAPADES IN SALUTE TO YOU GIRRLLL!!

      CAMRON AND JAYDEN ARE BACK AT IT!!

      The
      air was thick and Jayden was in a funky azz mood. She banged the pots and pansaround the kitchen as she cooked periodically looking back a Camron funky azz..“This nigga fell asleep on me last night. Bought that fukkin lingerie for nothing!”she hissed under her breath as she slammed the skillet on the stove. Camronwatched his boo with a smirk. He loved to purposefully rile her up..sex ishotter when she is that's why he denied her last night. It was hard cuz he lovedher full curves in that royal blue see-through. His manhood agreed with a jump.As Jayden looked in the cabinet for the seasoning wishing it was poison, shefelt her man press himself against her bottom. Her first reaction was to bootypush him off her but he pressed her against the cabinet and softly kissed herneck. Jayden tried to turn around but he stopped her movement by placing hishands on counter blocking her between them. He slowly pressed against herbottom again with a steadily growing hardon and sucked her neck. Jayden kneesbuckled a little. “Stop.” She whispered. “Im mad at you.” He used his tongue totrace a light line from her neck to her earlobe and whispered. “I know.” He pressedharder still against her bottom this time with a familiar stroke that if he was inside her she would love. Hermoan let him know she understood the move. He reached between her legs andcaressed her yoni through her boyshorts.“Quit it!” She said mustering enough energy to push hard and break their connection. He grabbed her arms and swung them above her head, spread her legs with his foot and pressed his hardness against her. He bit her neck. “You play rough, so can I.” he growled. She struggled against both her will to give in and his strength. “No!” she whimpered and tried to tug away. He grabbed both her wrist in one
      hand and snatched her shorts down. “NO WHAT?!” he hissed. “I don’t want you to..” she began to whimper. “To touch this hmmm?’ He asked stroking her clyt with his fingers sliding them between the lips and inside her. Jayden bucked against his hands as he began to search for her weakness, she gasped when he found it and began messaging her spot until she flowed juices down her leg. He snatched her roughly to the kitchen stool and twirled her around and placed her facing the seat. He roughly spread her legs with his feet and trapped her arms behind her back pulling her bottom to his face and began eating her from the
      back. He licked and devoured the fight out of her. She melted into the chair and allowed the orgasm to take the rest of the anger away.He stood and released the string of his jogging pants and pressed his huge dyck deep inside her in one hard deep stroke. Jayden wailed his name as he deep stroked her from the back. “You still mad, hmm?!” He mocked . “I hate you!” She have moaned half giggled. “Oh yeah?” he pulled out and walked away just at the point of her orgasm. What the fuucc?!” Jayden yelled. He walked towards the living room with a smirk.. “You hate me so…” he chuckled as he pretended to pull his pants back up. Jayden grabbed him as he reached the couch and slammed
      him down and jumped on his lap pressing him deep into her. She threw her head back and moaned as he filled her. “Naw..get off me” He teased. Jayden began to ride him until the jokes stopped. Their eyes
      connected and they kissed and began their familiar dance. He pressed and she ground against him until every inch was inside. He raised her shirt and began sucking her breast. She wrapped her arms around his neck as he pounded her from beneath. “fuk it bae..fukk me!! She screamed as her orgasm took control. He pressed her hard against his dyck and stirred her insides deep and hard as his
      orgasm over took him as well. “Fukkk girl!!!” He growled as he spilled deep inside her. Jayden laid her head on her man… “I love the games we play Camron…”she moaned with a smile.

    • KDub

      I'm not a love addict. Thanks be to Jesus. Who wanna fall in love every damn 4-5 months? These days I just wanna fugg. Been pure walking a nig nog to his car afterwards like @Phro taught us. Tuh!?

    • iWasteTime

      ....

    • iWasteTime

      This!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      These new ppl. I @
      The heifa yesterday. Shid I ain't no punk. Scroll past my Shid if you don't like and disagree.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      zacky I waste

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Real talk! Come on kids grow up PLEASE!!! This may not be the forum for you boo boo if you are a uptight troglodyte no dyck getting prude...you have nothing but time on your hands so you spend your time commenting on others negatively. Eat ya farts and die...

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      ?? not reading this shid. You ain't gon have me pull out my bedroom Kandi lipstick bullet in these people office ?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      I enjoyed his font. He was hilarious! Wish he would font more now.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      PART TWO!!!

    • smartchickfl

      This will come in handy for psych rotations. Keep em coming lol. Britney needs to chill for a hot minute and let those drawls cool off.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      PART THREE!!!

    • smartchickfl

      So true....

    • KDub

      So they basically said this post on love addiction is about you? They should skip over the nasty stories then if they not in aggreance

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      WUT! You need to go write books!!!! Like today!! Right now!! ANd kindly finish this one because by the time i get off work it is supposed to be a very heavy thunderstorm and well....

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      ROFL... right. ROFL you gotta go Right Nah!

    • Buttercup

      Both of my closest friends are dopamine addicts. I thought they were just being boy crazy when we were teenagers and in our early twenties. Now that we're knocking on 30, I've had to distance myself from them.

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      LMAO. I stopped reading at "Bish NO" It kills me how people have lurked for years and get in and then say stuff like that. Like damn yall don't know her by now?

    • smartchickfl

      Lol at "just wanna fugg"!

    • KDub

      Before Dub10 wake up. Nigga bye!

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      lol .

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Its done Nakeya! I have all three parts up for your enjoyment! HUGGS Thanks for your support I need that!!

    • Buttercup

      She sounds like she snacks on Camels, so I KNOW she'd snap me in two. Some people you just have to call the law on. Deb is one.

    • KDub

      This right here.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Same here listen I can't splain shyt to Wutt 16 right now she gone be like..but you said I can't so why you can...I don't want to kill my kid on some dumb question like that so I avoid the trap! ROFL

    • KDub

      Yeah I'm enjoying my single life. Niggas be in their feelings. That's they problem. Chit.

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      ANd Deb was waiting too....and really so was I. I was watching and thinking, Deb is gonna black Jose eye.

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      DId I miss part two? Ugh

    • Femme404

      What does that mean exactly?

    • Buttercup

      Sure do. This weekend I told Honey Dip to finesse his puzzay and he immediately had a lazy eye moment. I think I've found a way to get him to finish up and not ride me to death for 2 hours :hahaha:

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      KDub.. I don't eben give two lost turds from last night what they think. I love my life, my experiences and my vivid imagination. I am young enough to enjoy dyck often and old enough to do it with style and class..so nah... carry on bitterbishes carry on...

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Yes. you may have. its in the stream Ill hit you with it..

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      @Nakeya_j

    • smartchickfl

      Me too lol.....it's hilarious when a woman is in that mode and then all of a sudden they want to fall in love. Boy bye ?.

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      Oh I am here for that!!! Bet money Deb beat her up!!!

    • Chitsngiggles

      I ain't never been like that either. Even before I got married. It was never that serious to me. People who are always looking for love are NEVER happy. I just wanted to live my life fat fancy and free. The way to keep/snag a man is to act like you don't want him. These females don't understand the game. Smh.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      I think six months is more than enough time to know if you want to marry someone, now that doesn't mean get married the next day, but you will know by six months. IMO.

    • Di Ana

      That expression that there is someone for everyone is a straight up lie.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Just HYPOTHETICALLY hooked my fire stick up. Bout to HYPOTHETICALLY get them free movies, dawg. Hypothetically

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      Where is the story hun? :popcorn:

    • KDub

      I have one close hg. Man listen. She been like this. Since our 20's. My ex husband and I fixed her up with one of his homeboys years ago. These fuggas went to PF Changs first date...and her son PTA meeting the next date. Less than week after that, he moved in??? I kid you not. ??

      Ex hubby was like wtf they order at Changs? Fugg they TALK about? ?? Musta been an epic ass first date.?. Yo fren a hoe. ?

      I was like but cho boy...you know what? Nvmd.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Nakeya I put it all together. I realize with the new format parts will get lost. Here is the whole thing.

    • Futuredocdonte

      Ima love addict

      "I love God. Yoon love God? What's wrong witchu?"

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      I am addicted to Brownies. All kinds: big, small, with walnuts, pecans WATTever.
      ?

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Its up! Scroll and youll see it.

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      #DEAD

    • iWasteTime

      bwhahahahahahahaha
      I'm in tears

    • Chitsngiggles

      I feel like if a person cant be alone by themselves for at least 6 months, they dont even know who they are. How can you commit to someone when you cant even commit to yourself? Being alone for periods of time is good for the soul. IMO.

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      WATT?!?! *hug*
      Who these folks think they are?! EYE am thee onliest one who can say "Oh boy... Here goes WUT again"
      Rofl

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      That's when I stopped reading too. *snickers*

    • Bootcampgirl

      hypothetically you might find a whole new world out there and just maybe you may decide to cut that cord...hypothetically of course...

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Style and class though? ?????

    • jusstlooking

      Do you notice the issue here that Ad dic ted...

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Tell me how it does..hypothetically wise so I can hypogetone...

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Where you get that pop? from though? Lol

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      I luh em I luh em!!!

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      COOKING ?

    • jusstlooking

      I agree, I think you can really need to be by yourself a min of 1 year. After a break up, no dyk, no kises, no phone sess. Just you and Jesus or whatever you higher being is...and cheesecake. KONA

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Or brownies
      Kona

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      wwwDOThackmyappletvDOTcom/how-to-hack-your-amazon-firetv-install-kodi-xbmc-for-free-movies-ppv-tv/

      Hypothetically of course. It takes a minute, but trust me it is worth it. Hypothetically. If I can do it, anyone can.

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Lmao

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      I am impressed. Seriously.

    • jusstlooking

      @wutizaphd:disqus - TUH old Roses, I'm always Fresh and in Bloom. SHAKES BUTT

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      I agree. Unless God says otherwise. Even though it may not be totally your fault reflection is needed.

    • jusstlooking

      Got new schedule..... CRIES

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Hey LOL I had to add that for fun lol! Imma Laaayyyyddeee!!!!

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      You bout DEE onliest one! and I know where you come from when you say it. You and all that KNOW me can talk ish...other ones get stopped at the doe!!!

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Roll Call

      SR
      Shuga
      Zoe
      KDub
      Nakeya
      SummerBaby
      WastingTime
      COOKING
      Doc
      WUT
      Buttercup
      Thing
      OTB
      Fat Gal
      Heyyyy ?????

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Don Lemon is such a coon. No lie. They got him cooning for ratings.

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      WATT
      ?

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      :coffee:

    • iWasteTime

      Hey Bew

    • Bootcampgirl

      kodi-xbmc<---best thing since sliced bread..hypothetically..

      Seriously though why we keep saying hypothetically?? *scratcheshead*

    • jusstlooking

      Cheddup Already Damn • a few seconds ago

      Roll Call

      KDub
      Nakeya
      SummerBaby
      WastingTime
      COOKING
      Doc
      WUT
      Buttercup
      Thing
      OTB
      Taken (TAKE TAKE)

      Heyyyy ?????

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      Im so trying to eat right and Im starving *cries out loud* Had a boiled egg, turkey bacon, and yogurt. It just 12 and it feels like I havent ate in three days *holds self and downs green tea* Smurfette give me a Snicker brownie, or cheeseburger :cry:

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Yeeesss Buttah I told you it gets them EEEEEVERY TIME! You say it in the right moment and KAAAAAPYYYYOOOWW!!! :THUMBSUP!

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      The feds lol. Sandra be hating on the good stuff.

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Go getcho eyes checked out
      Snorts
      Kona

    • jusstlooking

      Yes, peace be still. Wait on on your Boaz or Sarah. There I go...being preachy. KONA

    • iWasteTime

      I hypothetically did it with ShowBox!
      I love it!

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      That's I did. Then I did IceFilms, Istream, 1Channel

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Ok & you know it's love with me IF I give up a SnickZnack! ?

    • Bootcampgirl

      Dont forget Genesis

    • Bootcampgirl

      Got it

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      I am gone download that too. Any good one's for shows like the Jeffersons or sports packages?

    • jusstlooking

      Who else could hold up the sign up and not be fired. What was his point? Not disagreeing, but it was not issue when Jay Z told Oprah he took the power back.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      You have a point, it's just I don't like Don. At all.

    • iWasteTime

      lmaoooooooooooooo!!
      The phuck!
      My neighbor across the complex was like that.
      Easter she was at my door crying and talking about how beautiful my family was and she lonely and by May 1st there was a dude living there. I said HUH ?!?!

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      WHALE
      I sure am hungry! *sighs*

    • iWasteTime

      SR Smiley page still up.
      I right clicked and saved a few I like
      #helpful

    • Hugga Bunch

      If a man makes you feel good, giddy or excited, that is not love. A wise woman once said “Good d*ck is not love, it’s just good d*ck.”

      Well damm, I don't have access to good D or love right now. About to be 32 and I'm getting a little nervous. Must I leave ATL to find at least a "friend" every now and then?

      It's really sad around these parts

    • Hugga Bunch

      Deb looks like she should have a couple tear drops tatted under BOTH eyes.

    • Hugga Bunch

      One has to know their limit and NO, Deb is not the one to play with.
      Her voice alone will get the majority together real quick.

    • Hugga Bunch

      Damn not the PTA meeting lol

    • NakeyaJ Valued Rose since 2011

      What up girl!

    • KDub

      ??

    • KDub

      Damn. Oh well. Too late now. I been hunching terrible.

    • jusstlooking

      BYE! It ain't for everybody. YOU KNOW I NEED some time. I'm special.

    • Nanny

      Wait wut? Pressuring him to propose for several months and you've been dating for 6 months?
      I've been with my bf for 4 years and at 6 months it wasn't that deep on my end.

    • Youngblood

      Lol! Funny ****!

    • Enoughsaid2020

      I love these medical minutes, because I learn so much!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      :HUG:

    • Sassy24

      CTFU!!!!!!! You told her

    • TerealistGA2015

      Yaaassssss? that story was everything! I always enjoy your post !

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Thank you soooo much! Huugs

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Lol gone learn tuday!

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Lol hope you read it later ;-)

    • Lolalao

      She's looking a little old ...

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I wrote that as soon as you posted it. It was in moderation.... shady shady shady lol

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      I emailed Sandy and asked for permission she said that it may catch some of the words I write but she would catch it and send it through so I can now write when i want to! wooohooo!!!

    • chappedlippz

      She has no luck....maybe she should try being alone and get to know herself.

    • Genia W-m

      Brittany is 'thirsty' for a husband. She needs to mention it on the first date.

    • cheechee1x1

      Can you say bipolar? Run man Run!