Tip TI Harris

Rap mogul Tip “T.I.” Harris sparked much needed dialogue on the current condition of black masculinity in America.

“Damn,” Harris wrote in the caption of a video he posted of psychiatrist Dr. Frances Cress Welsing calling for black men to pull their pants up.

Dr. Welsing suggested the pants sagging trend in prison culture was a signal to gay men.

With 2 weeks left in Barack Obama’s LGBT presidency, black men find themselves fighting a tough battle to reclaim their manhood as more and more men step out of their sagging pants and into dresses.

Watch the videos below.

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  • Irony

    Sagging is effeminate to me, but…

  • Chardonnai

    *Birdman Hand Rub*

  • Yoni

    88 take notes.

  • LibraGirlonly

    I agree with Frances Cress Welsing. This woman was phenomenal!!’

  • nucynu25

    Always say this ..

  • soflystann

    I hate sagging!….

  • nucynu25

    They talk abt this on Hidden Colors ..vol 1 , i beleive . It was said men would go from sagging to dresses..

  • nucynu25

    Yesss

  • Chardonnai

    She better preach!

  • LibraGirlonly

    Whatever she says yes umm huh!!!

  • Irony

    Oh well, they covered that.? But he should talk to his rap “buddies.” What’s their agenda with the attire these guys wear?

    Of course I’m a classic man myself, but not in those tight clothes. #Khakis

  • LibraGirlonly

    When my older son watched Hidden Colors it put an end to the sagging. Lol

  • Buttercup

    I wonder if she thinks the images of those painted in the walls were effeminate, because I didn’t see not one person wearing pants.

  • Irony

    She covered it in the video as well, thanks.

  • Chardonnai

    The Sprite man’s plan is working just as designed

  • Carolina Blue

    Why would men outside of prison sag their pants anyway???

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    Someone said, “TI is in the running for King of Hoteps.” lol

  • LibraGirlonly

    This is exactly what the elite wants.The extermination of melanated people.

  • 88

    We have a two fold problem our Men are sagging their pants stepping in dresses and our Women wearing Man Pants with a zipper in the font. We are all types of confused but ya’ll worried about the menu for Christman….smdh

  • Carolina Blue

    Look him…..his ass hanging out….smh…

  • Irony

    Used to the prison code.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Giggles,but at least he is waking up tho.

  • nucynu25

    Sorry, i didnt even click the video.

  • Carolina Blue

    Understood. It seems even when you tell them what it means, they still do it.

  • nucynu25

    Not necessarily ..

  • LibraGirlonly

    Here you go again. I think we are concerned about all of it.

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Omg that pic do I see a streak?

  • Irony

    I hadn’t either, before I posted. I made my comment solely off the title and that picture. Lol

  • nucynu25

    Bc it isnt that deep to them .. now its a fashion statement in a sense .swaggg

  • Chardonnai

    I dont understand it. If you KNOW that it means you are advertising your behind to other men and you STILL sagging, that must mean you like dack in real life.

  • Glenda Johnson

    Sandra, why that pic?? ?????

  • Yoni

    He sounds more concerned than most………with NO solution.

  • Carolina Blue

    Not the whole ass nu nu.

  • Carolina Blue

    Always!

  • 88

    I gave the solution you ignored it
    Deuteronomy 22:5
    “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.”

  • Glenda Johnson

    To let free males know that they’re available.

  • Carolina Blue

    Exscuse me for my ignorance, but where is the zipper supposed to be??

  • Yoni

    Had nothing to do with explaining the “Stairway to Heaven” for ME. I left you something downstairs. Now move around. School is out for the year.

  • nucynu25

    Every dude thats sagging aint gay… thats just like saying if you got a tongue ring ya gay ..

  • Carolina Blue

    Bam?

  • Irony

    Pun.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Just a finger shaking is all that he brings.

  • Butter

    No boo! TI does not have a streak, its a shadow ..

  • Incog-knee-gress

    as more and more men step out of their sagging pants and into dresses.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^

    You misspelt Young Thug.
    Just him.
    And he stepped out of some leggings into a dress. Stop being non-factual.

  • Yoni

    And a neck roll.

  • LibraGirlonly

    To a T but people are waking up to their ugly deeds.

  • 88

    Yes it does
    1 John 5:3
    “For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.”
    You not getting into the kingdom if you are a abomination sis. Take the pants off it’s not that hard.

  • MissHarlem

    Of course the message will be missed but the point is very well valid.

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao…mama nu got your ass together that day…no really I know that. Im not one who thinks evweybody is gay…hell ion.care. but your whole ass, i dont wanna see

  • Yoni

    In the front? :faints:

  • hi-liter

    Stop running ya mouf and set an example Tip. He would have to have a long talk with all his skinnty jeans wearing rap buddies.

  • nucynu25

    ALWAYS

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I am STILL worried about the menu for Christmas. My guy doesnt eat pork so there will be no bacon. You should come through.

  • 88

    on MAN PANTS for him to use the urinal if you got that on you cross dressing.

  • Carolina Blue

    ????

  • Irony

    ???

  • Incog-knee-gress

    As Nucy would say…Childish

  • nucynu25

    You childish.. i swearr i forgot abt that .. am dead asf . I agree tho .

  • 88

    Petty

  • gdukes

    ??

  • RationalThinkersUnite

    Please provide the scripture that defines the terms “mens clothing” and “womens clothing”. Thank You

  • iWasteTime

    siigh
    So the POTUS tells men and women how to dress?

  • Carolina Blue

    On “man pants”….ooooh

  • Yoni

    Sweetie, baby. You just posted a DIFFERENT scripture. How you gone say “yes it does” and post something from Deut. TWICE, THEN John. Boy BYE! You STILL trying. Baby, just stop. Quite frankly, YOU’RE LOSING RIGHT NOW……and the WHOLE blog can see it.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    That too. Invite is open. come on and get you some breakfast casserole with turkey sausage. You so damn uptight. I can call my hoe ass fren…bc I think you need to get laid.

  • Yoni

    RIIIIIIIIIIIGGGGGGGGGHHHHHTTTTT!!!!!!! I bet his ass still eating farm raised tilapia. And you can’t cook that, so his ass just gone starve.

  • Irony

    It doesn’t. Didn’t Adam and Eve wear leaves to cover their nakedness. Fashion was defined by Europeans.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout
  • Yoni

    #preemie

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    Nicca

  • MystyBlu

    LMFAO Carolinaaaaaaa! Saying so much with so little

  • Carolina Blue

    ???

  • MissHarlem

    Also if you fall for the pic being posted of him with his pants sagging then you’re the intended dummy. That was done so most of the comments will be on this and not the message. This site will always go against us when it’s about us and even when it’s disguised as rooting for us. Stop being dumb

  • Butter

    Aside or back zipper… that’s so old though

  • Irony

    If he comes, I’ll be therrrrrrrrrreeeee!?

  • Yoni

    In a major way. With his single, mad, Norvast poppin ass.

  • LoneWolf86

    Just more ignorance from SR

  • MystyBlu

    DEAD

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Bc Clifford has a whole lotta faults. But Cliff is WOKE af

  • nucynu25

    LMAO …PETTY & CHILDISH

  • Carolina Blue

    I dont have time blu. This shit gets mfks in an uproar and i dont understand it. If these niggas want dick then so be it. Whos fault is it?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I can fed cha. AND get you laid. Without bacon. What the hell is you waiting forrrrrrrrrrrrr (in my Encore voice)

  • 88

    The Men wore pants in the bible
    Exodus 28:42
    “And thou shalt make them linen breeches to cover their nakedness; from the loins even unto the thighs they shall reach.
    Women wore Dresses

  • MystyBlu

    Why I paid his pic no mind…none at all. The message is there if anyone cares to receive.

  • Carolina Blue

    Oh. Maybe im not old enough.

  • nucynu25

    Whos fault is it.. blame they single momma

  • LoneWolf86

    PREACH!!! Too many young black men are growing up without their fathers or positive male role models. And that is the root cause of all problems.

  • MystyBlu

    Me neither cuz…whet?!

  • Irony

    I admitted that’s what I fell for before watching the videos.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    You know every little thing is his fault….

  • Incog-knee-gress

    He probably bitter lonely and fat too.

  • Yoni

    STILL!

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Anything to stop their pants from almost being upon the ground that ish should be over by now but it’s not straight tacky….

  • Carolina Blue

    Lol

  • nucynu25

    bloop

  • 88

    Losing? I can tell you got that from the Christian church the bible must be read precept upon precept not like a novel sis.
    Isaiah 28:9-10
    “Whom shall he teach knowledge? and whom shall he make to understand doctrine? them that are weaned from the milk, and drawn from the breasts.“For precept must be upon precept, precept upon precept; line upon line, line upon line; here a little, and there a little:”

  • MystyBlu

    Yeah I can’t. I’m not about to argue back and forth over scriptures and men vs women and black vs white/Latino/Muslims all day every day. I’m happy..I come here for laughs and the occasional prayer session when folks are going through. It’s a lot of good in the Garden, so I ignore the weeds.

  • T Kenny

    straight gay feminime or other you cool with me but everybody needs to pull their damn pants up. looking like squnks. everywhere you go its ass fumes following you. stop it

  • nucynu25

    Well if he fat that explains why he be concerned abt clogged arteries ..cant call the main line like that .

  • MissHarlem

    Exactly. Trust I can rag and tag his ass with the rest of them but not when it’s in this topic

  • Carolina Blue

    Im sure thats the first person to blame….you as a proud card carrier of the bbd team, so you ever get the urge and say damm i want some pussy??

  • 88

    Even if I was you still would be an abomination for wearing pants….stop cross dressing.

  • MissHarlem

    That’s half the battle so all good

  • MystyBlu

    Done! You know he don’t wanna get laid. The Bible said…

  • Carolina Blue

    Neither do i. Eithier you gay or you aint, believe in the word or you dont….

  • MystyBlu

    Everything is the mama’s fault. Down to emasculating and pushing the daddies away smdh

  • Carolina Blue

    We good then nu lmao

  • nucynu25

    The same folks will quote a bible verse abt grace or redemption & throw stones at the messenger for being less than perfect ..

  • Butter

    Hmmm… I think it all started back in the day say 90″s.. everyone wore their pants big, like 2 sizes big .. women as well work baggy jeans. Its a sign of the times, the future always gets sleeker.
    The men wanted to wear their sizes but still be baggy.. I remember dudes would wear shorts that came down to they ankles, lol. The Guys in Jail.. gang bangers, whomever, they got out and younger boys wants to copy thinking its cool, and Wala

  • nucynu25

    Am in the front of the line …

  • MystyBlu

    Pretty much. Either way, as long as you have sense you’re cool with me!

  • Scromes1212

    Do I have the same invite :)?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I can wear a dress when you come get you a plate. No problem. *sniggles*

  • MystyBlu

    Might not have a working dyck either

  • nucynu25

    NOPE .. ive lived tho but nah i aint never JUST wanted no cat

  • Carolina Blue

    ???

  • nucynu25

    CHILDISH…

  • Carolina Blue
  • MystyBlu

    Clogged arteries will dead that thang…I’m just saying

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Nah Scromes. I think you secretly like me and I would hate for my bf to have to go to jail on Christmas Day. Stay your ass at your house.

  • Carolina Blue

    Lol

  • Incog-knee-gress

    He can get a check for that if its really bad

  • MystyBlu

    Not my fault! Impotence is real in these HBP streets!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    *check

  • MystyBlu

    Needs to get a check for it…every last one of them!

  • Carolina Blue
  • CaliVirgo

    Hidden colors is something all black people should watch??

  • MystyBlu

    Could be why he’s so mad all the time. Can’t even get that thang up to spank it. Shame on it

  • nucynu25

    Yeah, scromes crushin hard asf ..

  • MissHarlem

    Girrrrrrlllll girl

  • nucynu25

    agreeded

  • Scromes1212

    Lol

  • goat

    Love the Dr. Frances Cress-Welsing, RIP.

  • 88

    lmao look at all these cross dressing manly women trying to score.

  • Carolina Blue

    I cant believe anybody os that mad

  • Yoni

    Right and he quoting from the same bible (with different versions; King James, Holy, etc.) that everyone else most likely reads. LOL

  • Chardonnai

    Its so much I wanna say, i just cant find the words…

  • Yoni

    Load it UP TOO! He gets ALLLL the grease and a nice cold POP! ~Sweet Brown

  • Carolina Blue

    It is indeed informative

  • MystyBlu

    I’m team MBD but I’ve never had the urge for no kitty. Nothing in this world would change that for me so I don’t expect to change anyone else. They want dyck cuz they want it. Period.

  • Yoni

    and he’s FEROCIOUS about it.

  • nucynu25

    You know i be 100

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    With 2 weeks left in Barack Obama’s LGBT presidency, black men find themselves fighting a tough battle to reclaim their manhood as more and more men step out of their sagging pants and into dresses.
    —————–
    Can someone buy Sandra some clippers for Christmas, so she can cut the shit in 2017? Thanks. Because what does Obama have to do with this right here? Child Good damn bye

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    I think it was the President of the University.

    But hell, President Obama is blamed for everything so, maybe she was talking about him.

  • MystyBlu

    Justa cutting and a pasting away for dear life!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    CHILE…yes he ILL

  • Carolina Blue

    Exactly. Does effiminate mean gay, not really but ummm

  • Incog-knee-gress

    No shyt

  • Carolina Blue

    This i know but i caint…lmao

  • MystyBlu

    Oh I know some in real life. i put those bishes on mute. Stare them dead in the face and hear not a word of their misery

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    The person directly above this comment missed it. Prime example

  • Carolina Blue

    Crazy

  • Incog-knee-gress

    What lie I tell?

  • Chardonnai

    Its hard to have this discussion because people label you a homophobe if you start talking about men’s sexuality and effeminate black men.

    You want men to be who they really are, but you also want to preserve our race. Its tricky

  • ?Time2Shine?

    SAY THAT!!

  • Carolina Blue

    Nary…

  • Scromes1212

    I’m gonna let you have that one.

  • MystyBlu

    Effeminate means I couldn’t get with you. I’m not the most feminine acting woman so you can’t be spending more time than me grooming. Wearing satin bonnets to bed and whatnot. No sir

  • goat

    It will definitely put you in the right direction to find the REAL.

  • Yoni

    On some Vacation Bible School Arts and Craft hour. LMAO

  • Chardonnai

    I wonder who Sandra is gonna blame January 21, 2017. Aint no Obama no more then.

  • hi-liter

    What’s the missed message?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Obama some more bc he was in office for 8 years.

  • Carolina Blue

    ???satin bonnets

  • nucynu25

    Now i do completely agree in the feminization of our men. Even the food we eats impacts our hormones.. I am NOT saying being gay is a choice .. but i do believe that its no concidence so may of our men like men . Warfare is not soley physical.

  • MystyBlu

    he was in the slow class. they wouldn’t let him recite the scriptures, just paste the pictures onto construction paper. Boy Bye

  • CaliVirgo

    Chile some folks need to wake up

  • Chardonnai

    We as a whole are not ready. This goes back to what I was saying on here a few days ago about blacks getting their shyt together before we get our reparations. If we keep this homosexual stuff up we are going to be extinct.

    We cant be like Sprites. Until we get this in our heads we are doomed,

  • CaliVirgo

    Where you was at this morning??

  • Carolina Blue

    I agree nu…but that last line is powerful!!!!???

  • MystyBlu

    I can’t even deal with the glossy lips on dudes. Moisturize but I better not see a bit of glistening on them lips. And when I kiss you I will wipe mine off too.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Your mama aint wear pants? Your aunts? Your sisters? You got daughters?

    Asking for a fren.

  • nucynu25

    or quote MLK but Coretta was long suffering too..

  • Carolina Blue

    I was in and out. Took grandma to the doctor….

  • Carolina Blue

    ????

  • Sucker Free

    What if my pants don’t have a zipper? I don’t want to be an abomination ?

  • goat

    It’s definitely tricky.

  • MystyBlu

    I started to respond and deleted 5 times. Frankly I don’t give a damn what he thinks *shrug*

  • CaliVirgo

    I personally don’t want to be like them…that huge since of entitlement no survival skills and lack of seasonings in the cabinet no mam..

  • Chardonnai

    My ex beautician son came home from Juvie with boxers turned inside out. Meaning he was sagging and the split of the boxer was the BACK. You could literally see his ass. I was in awe that she let him walk around like that.

  • Zizzle

    If Obama never existed she would’ve created him.

  • 88

    Sis take those damn pants off ya’ll wonder why y’all be getting Yeast infections take the pants off. You need to AIR OUT down there.
    Let me let you know what TMH said he will do to you if you don’t
    Isaiah 3:24
    “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be STINK; and instead of a girdle (Flat Stomach) a rent (MUFFIN TOP); and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.”

  • CaliVirgo

    Umhum…

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao….well back in the 70s n 80s some of our male entertainers were effiminate….even in hip hop. Then they went gangsta…like they say “theres nothing new under the sun”

  • CaliVirgo

    Nucy??

  • goat

    And probably the main one hollering “There are no real black men”

  • Chardonnai

    and lack of seasonings in the cabinet no mam..
    ———————————————–
    THIS. Smelling like wet dogs, not having any rhythm, and lack of originality does it for me.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    She is going to blame everyone but her beloved President Donald Trump…oh that’s right. I forgot. He isn’t her President, because she isn’t a citizen. Tuh. I almost want to tell her to bind her own damn government, and tend to the stuff your old ass queen does. But I won’t. I’ll just sip my tea.

  • datATLboi

    How does a self hating Lesbian Black Blogger find the time to hate Obama smh??
    back to the matter at hand…this effeminate thing is really becoming a problem. Just because you’re a gay man doesn’t give you a pass to act like a woman (side eye at EJ)
    Why date a fem gay man if you’re gay….might as well date a woman

  • Carolina Blue

    Lord!

  • nucynu25

    You think they would drag Coretta like Tiny ? I could hear the bishes nah ” Girl Retta ova there at the Church like King aint just finished busting dwn Eartha walls yesterday.. talking bout cause he had a march to do .. nah he was marching to some puss. King bet not come up in here telling me shit bout hving no dreams ,, when he giving Retta nightmares & probably STD’S .”

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Your mama aint wear pants? Your aunts? Your sisters? You got daughters?

    Asking for a fren. Again

  • MystyBlu

    I couldn’t have dated in the 80s. Them mugs were straight wearing lipstick eyeliner eyeshadow mascara…you NAME it! Would’ve dried this fountain right up. Stayed celibate til at least the 90s. Add in the gheri curl and activator stained sheets?! Nope. God knew what he was doing. ?

  • MystyBlu

    I.Hate.You! Shut his ass down with a quickness

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Can I be honest with you? As soon as I read “My ex beautician son came home from Juvie with boxers turned inside out. Meaning he was sagging and the split of the boxer was the BACK” I shook my head. They done turned that boy OUT. Easy access. Was all that was about. And NOPE. You better not think your about to leave my house looking like that. Tuh

  • nucynu25

    bloop

  • Chardonnai

    They say the Queen is sick. So I dont know what Sandra gonna do. LMAO

  • nucynu25

    It starts at home .

  • datATLboi

    I would’ve been headed to the big house right after he got out for knocking him out if that were my son

  • CaliVirgo

    ????

  • CaliVirgo

    Stick and move keya??

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao

  • Chardonnai

    They done turned that boy OUT. Easy access. Was all that was about. And NOPE. You better not think your about to leave my house looking like that. Tuh
    __________________________________________
    You already know that was the first thing I was thinking. Like he done got turnt out in Juvie. Now he’s always in and out of jail. Got like 3 kids. And aint even 21.

    Young Thug said he got turnt out in jail too.

  • CaliVirgo

    Po chile?

  • IntroSpective

    Isn’t TIP tight with Young Thug? Since he’s the poster child for male feminization acceptance, he can start there ?.

  • iWasteTime

    he blamed for this in the write up!

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Listen, while I have zero issues with gay men…I do have issues with straight men and boys wearing skinny jeans. And wearing weaves. And saying stuff like all clothes are unisex. Uhh no. Boys, IMO, these days (not all of them) are not brought up to be men. And it’s sad.

  • 88

    Take them off pants pertain to men you shouldn’t ever been seen in a pair of pants again sis.

  • Sucker Free

    No flavor…poor things

  • nucynu25

    agreeded

  • CaliVirgo

    *chokes on my spit**…chile

  • CaliVirgo

    Lurnch is ova? be back later yall

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I agree. Very much so.

  • RespectSelf

    Obama wasn’t all of that. First half black president…. that’s it and that’s all. For every “good” thing he did… he also did bad. Just like most presidents

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    He said what now? And he thinks that’s cute? I mean….he said that, and the follow up sentence was what?

  • nucynu25

    like when & where ?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Alright. On the hunt for eggnog bc the likaa store and the grocery stores my way is out. Men pull your pants up. Ladies take your pants off. Peace

  • Chardonnai

    Then I got another friend who lets her son sag. She gets mad at me for posting stuff on FB how I hate seeing men/boys sagging. She say I’m judging. And I’m worried about the wrong thing.

    Guess what? Her son locked up now.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Wellllll I did just totally roll my eyes when I saw the third teen black boy of the day with his hair dyed blond….I guess that’s a thing now.

  • MystyBlu

    I honestly didn’t even see that line ?

  • CaliVirgo

    I can’t with you..?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    And I’m worried about the wrong thing.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    She is probably ironically related to 88

  • Chardonnai

    I wanna say I read some where, were he was saying all kinds of things go down in Juvie and that’s where a lot of boys get turned out. I was assuming he was speaking for himself. Since well its so obvious he been turned out.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    *not. Cant type. But he aint got nothing to do with nothing

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Sandy fulla mess.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I have been trying to upload a damn video of a reading forever chile …. this shyt ….. trying to compress this shyt now and my Gawd

  • MystyBlu

    ??????????????????????

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    My bad, I hadn’t even read the write up. I was referring to what the lady in the video stated.

    BUT of course in Sandra eyes, Obama is to blame for all kinds of shyt…

    – No Hatchimals in nary store
    – Weed Man going up $5 on an 8th
    – The hole in the toe of my left sock
    – Lurk19 burning the Mac & Cheese last night
    – The duck that wouldn’t get from in front of my car this morning
    – It being damn near 70 degrees here a couple days ago and freezing this morning

    All this shyt is Obamas fault.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    lol bye!

  • datATLboi

    Did I say he was all of that? However you can’t deny he’s cleaned up a LOT of mess that was caused by the prior campaign. My point is the HATE and BLAME towards this man, as Sandra and people like you, like to convey is completely ridiculous.

  • CookieMobster

    TI or any man for that matter should not have half their ass hanging out their pants. It is gross.

  • Carolina Blue

    I want to see it.

  • MystyBlu

    And judo know?!

  • Chardonnai

    She say the sprite man aint gonna respect him whether he sags or not. I’m trying to get her to see its not about the sprite man, but having dignity and respect for himself. Looking decent and shyt.

  • Incog-knee-gress
  • RespectSelf

    I get that people would like to believe that there is no such thing as a “Gay agenda” or that the push for acceptance of the gay lifestyle isn’t bothering anyone… But look around people!!! It is on so many level.

    And acknowledging this doesn’t mean you dislike gay people

  • nucynu25

    Sorry…but she sound stupid asf .

  • RationalThinkersUnite

    It doesn’t say mens clothes are defined as “breeches”. It just says thou made them breeches. I dont know who made them or who they were made for. Also, the word Breeches can be used to describe both under and outer garments. However, none of this matters because the origin and etymology of the word “breeches” post dates the text, so breeches today could mean something entirely different back then. We can’t regulate ourselves to a literal meaning if we are not reading the text in its original language. Many bible quotes have been translated incorrectly for this very reason.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I’m trying to get it up …. a reading on my energies …. lawd … technology is something else today…… trying something new ya know lawd …..

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    What you spike your eggnog with?

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Glad the video is out so it can circulate and wake up young and old black men. We gotta stop approving this foolishness. If you are gay, cool, no problem do you. But what the video is talking about is making it trendy for our brothers to dress in a feminine way and then say they are straight. You got young thug wearing dresses and I have no idea how many baby mamas. If you look at the white celebs wearing dresses, its basically Bruce Jenner. But I bet you won’t see Justin Beiber or Justin Timberlake in a dress like Tyrese was wearing yesterday. They would claim those white boys had a nervous breakdown due to touring and they would come out with jeans on. You notice how Justin Bieber used those 2 black guys to build his masculinity and coolness. I think it was Lil Twist and some other black kid. Once JB was considered cool and no longer a teeny bopper, solidified with tattoos and few weeks in the weight room the mission was accomplished. And now he’s still on tour and one of the black kids is on his way to jail for assault. Hell that Lil’ Twist kid was supposed to be a rapper from cash money, now he’s in need of some cash money.

  • MystyBlu

    Everything is wrong about that article. Every. Thing. ?

  • CaliVirgo

    Receipts??

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    in a dress like Tyrese was wearing yesterday.
    ————
    Tyrese did not have a dress on.

  • nucynu25

    kisses

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I’m not sorry and yup. Very stupid.

  • MystyBlu

    Hope you find your nog! Maybe Trader Joe’s?
    I say everybody get nekkid but it’s that kinda day ??

  • nucynu25

    Me neitheir ..it just sounded nice.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    No. SHE is worried about the wrong thing. But good luck to her and putting money on her sons books, sending him picts, and throwing him a party when he gets out. God Bless.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    You still get my point. Somewhere along the lines, black men have made it cool to be feminine. There is a possible race war coming on, and men are not afraid of men that wear dresses. Basically, white men will not be afraid of our men because they are now seen weaker over the years.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Dubb? Can you please come give the folks the education on what Tyreese had on yesterday. Or anyone else who wants to chime in. Thanks. People are confused, and think he had a dress on.

  • RespectSelf

    Acknowledging one faults does not make you a hater AT ALL. As I stated for what good he has done… he also has done bad. He’s actually has taken away some of our rights

  • Carolina Blue

    I feel you

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    But you can’t say that and include what that man had on yesterday, when in fact, it was not a dress, nor was it feminine. That does not help you make your point. Nothing about what Tyreese had on yesterday was feminine. It was a very bad example.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    If I gotta make it and not get the Evan Williams already mixed kind from the likka store then Southern Comfort

  • MystyBlu

    And is. I don’t agree with anyone 100% but some days I just look at my screen like https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/89f59d86bf55f455e0b0debe954aa656d4d0f1cee34c82e68f364086918b089f.gif

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Tyrese had on what is called a thawb I do believe. I have also seen it called a thobe. Traditional RELIGIOUS garment of an Islamic nature and orgin for MEN.

  • Lenina Just Lenina
  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Okay, just for the sake of discussion, we will excuse Tyrese’s wardrobe from yesterday. Now with that out, can you understand the rest of the commentary?

  • puppylove

    I am a pants wearer an yeast is not an issue.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Bless you love.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    they dont wanna be saved

  • Incog-knee-gress

    probally not. you dont know if this woman is a muslim or not. and if she is… now you have offended her.

  • nucynu25

    CHILDISH

  • Elevated Soul

    The mere fact that 0bama is no where in his discussion renders his view useless. Homosexuality and the tolerance of said sin exploded because 0bama promoted that lifestyle. The discussion need to begin with 0bama and how he vilified any leader that didn’t support said sin. He even dogged African leaders and threaten them with no aid,if they didn’t support that nonsense.

  • MystyBlu

    Thanks. You can clearly tell what he was wearing wasn’t a fashion statement but had a purpose. I admit I cracked a single joke about it and left it alone cuz Tyrese irks my nerves most days. And I stay joking about nonsense. But “him downstairs” is going to far with it ?

  • VeyoncèSupreme

    I do not care what other ppl wear and black men are not the only ones wearing skirts and dresses and tunics…in many cultures in this world that is considered masculine….show me a picture wear Jesus is in a suit or pants!? only in America do we care about such vain issues. Now the pants sagging I get that but everything else BLAH!

  • RespectSelf

    Doesn’t take away from your point but rather exposes the general ignorance towards the Islamic community that happens to be the second biggest religious group in the world.

  • MystyBlu

    Y’all better than me cuz I don’t read long posts from strangers. Sorry not sorry ?

  • MissHarlem

    Facepalm

  • Buttercup

    You ain’t ax me, but I like Captain Morgan’s spiced rum in mine.

  • nucynu25

    Why every time I check my notifications i see these random ass ppl following me .. am telling yall now.. do not be in my notifications wks or days later bc i said some disrespectful shit ..I was disrespecful when you first decided to follow me & will continue.

  • MyNameIs

    This obsession with my president though….?

  • Carolina Blue

    I was told to go private to keep them from following you

  • MystyBlu

    Bloop! I’m private now so they can’t follow but the same people who followed before be upvoting ALLLLLLLL my posts weeks later. I only show up sporadically so idk what they do it for. And I’ve NEVER posted to them sooooo

  • klwbaby

    I know a few gay men and they actually appreciate and like when men sag their pants… just saying :)

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I read that too when Young Thug said he got turned out and he was having seex in juvie

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Chase aint no stranger. Been here a long time.

  • Carolina Blue

    And what they wanna follow you for??? Like for what??

  • MystyBlu

    Oh I’ve seen them before. Just never communicated with them. So they’re still a stranger to me. I skimmed and didn’t like what I saw so I moved on ?

  • MyNameIs

    it’s still F*ck Tyrese all day. ? just kidding….maybe.

  • nucynu25

    idk …as long as they know am childish, petty & disrespecful on the regular .. they should be fine .

  • Carolina Blue

    ??? dont forget a whole fool too

  • MyNameIs

    Who is him downstairs…I’m nosy but I’m too lazy to research.

  • MystyBlu

    Exactly! This was when I would pop in for 2-3 posts and be gone. Then middle of the night 50-11 ghosts come out the wood works following and upvoting ? I wouldn’t even see it til days later and be like wtf?! Now the same people stay upvoting. Whatever floats their boat

  • nucynu25

    Shidd ..i thought it was a dress but i didnt get feminine from him

  • Carolina Blue

    Too much for me. I dont like a lot of attention.

  • MystyBlu

    Chaseboogie lol I didn’t read the whole post but it’s a long one

  • MystyBlu

    Has me side eyeing like are you stalking me or what? And they never respond to posts…just upvote ?

  • SpiceGirl

    we all know what that is a sign of…..started in jail…

  • SpiceGirl

    I kinda can not wait for our prez to exit so SR can stop throwing shade at him.

  • Mister Fantastic

    Who died and made this crater faced SNITCH, a representative of the black movement.

    MAYNE, get your own house together bruh. It’s dirty as HELL!

    #StopIT and stop fornicating!

  • Elevated Soul

    Wow….You need to get out more and do some research. Tyrese actually had on something pertaining to religion.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    It will be up on youtube soon … so stay tuned ….

  • MystyBlu

    Please don’t come for Keya. She was defending Tyrese and knows he was wearing religious garb. Reading is fundamental ?

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    My understanding of what you said was never in question. I just wanted you to be aware that your example was false. So if you wanted to go with someone who would further your speaking point, then you would feel free to correct your error and find someone that fit. So when someone, who is looking to learn more, or do better, could actually take what you said and do so, and have the correct example of what not to do. But since you want to be smart, God Bless and have a blessed night.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Sure don’t.

  • Carolina Blue

    Right!!!

  • Sexy CJ

    Dr. Welsing suggested the pants sagging trend in prison culture was a signal to gay men……….

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3480b90f3611125a2fc8d2ee8511b91819bc64ddbdd95ec4be56d0af8d392170.gif

  • nucynu25

    So eloquent…

  • MyNameIs

    She won’t stop though. He will be constantly compared to…? someone who will NEVER be my president.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Can we get a post about brexit, the Parliament something? Since you are a British citizen Sandra , you should be concerned about British politics. America’s going through its on brexit with The garbage pale geezer set to take office in January.

  • MystyBlu

    Creepy ass peeping Toms. Makes me pay more attention to what I say here cuz smdh I won’t ever add a pic ?

  • imright

    Tips new album ?????????

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Yes, I know that. I was trying to have Dubb explain that to someone else. But thanks. I will point that person who thought he had on a dress in your direction.

  • Annaunki

    no one has seen Jesus…so I doubt they can do that

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    :hugs: Chile…

  • MystyBlu

    Every time I see that italics I know it’s bout to be some nonsense. Not tahday Satan. *hugs*

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I clean up nice sometimes. :kiss:

  • Carolina Blue

    Thats why i post and delete

  • MissHarlem

    Bih bye ???

  • iWasteTime

    I luh your whole list.
    Weedman hawking them pens and oils, #FOH I

  • nucynu25

    CHILDISH

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    I wasn’t trying to be smart, but I see that you’re upset. So I’ll leave the conversation here. Enjoy the rest of your day.

  • MystyBlu

    Better that way. Don’t need no fools running up on me in the streets for a hug talking bout I luh you MystyBlu ???????

  • 88

    Exodus 28:41
    “And thou shalt put them upon Aaron thy brother, and his sons with him
    TMH commanded Aaron and the Sons of Israel to put on pants NOT the women so that means they pertain to MEN only and Breeches are pants not underwear. This is common sense just look at the scripture it said a man should not put on a woman’s garment. What’s a woman’s garment? A Dress
    It says a Woman shall not put on a man’s garment. What’s a mans garment? Pants sister PANTS. This is very simple 1 Timothy 2:9
    In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, Me being able to see the shape of your virgina and the shape of you body is NOT modest that’s why he didn’t command pants for you. And yes being a woman in pants will stop you from getting into the kingdom for that is an abomination
    Revelation 21:27
    And there shall in no wise enter into it anything that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh abomination.
    So sis I hope you repent anf take those pants off because the kingdom is at hand.
    I hope you repent sister, come out of the customs of the heathen, take those pants off and find you some pretty dresses.

  • nucynu25

    LMAO

  • AG

    I don’t agree with much of this, but I do want to point out Tip’s hypocrisy. He works with young thug, a self-proclaimed “sissy” that degrades black women. You cant have it both ways, Tip!

  • LibraGirlonly

    I tried to tell them it was a cultural thing but you know kneegroes some of us only look to the oppresser for information. Lol

  • MystyBlu

    Im so serious. I’m thick but a cutie. Can’t have strangers lurking and thinking they bout to steal me from my man. Ain’t never posted a day on here but think they know you from your comments.

  • MissHarlem

    Love you though ?

  • nucynu25

    KISSES

  • 88

    You not dead yet

  • 88

    Isaiah 3:24
    “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.”

    This is your future.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    People be commenting on my post like a month later. You bored or nah.

  • Junkanoo

    Maybe more guys are just more comfortable with their sexuality because society is more open about it . Can TI focus on his lack of respect for his marriage , why get married to be in an open relationship or sleep around with low self esteem groupies

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    You need to tag me in.

  • RationalThinkersUnite

    Your quotes are incorrect and taken out of context:

    Exodus 28:41

    “And thou shalt put them
    upon Aaron thy brother, and his sons with him; and shalt anoint them,
    and consecrate the them, and sanctify them, that they may minister unto me
    in the priest’s office.” – this says nothing about men’s clothing. In fact Exodus 28:40 states that ”
    And for Aaron’s sons thou
    shalt make coats, and thou shalt make for them girdles, and bonnets
    shalt thou make for them, for glory and for beauty” – traditionally bonnets/girdles are women’s attire… right?

    Timothy 2:9

    In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
    -Modesty is subjective and relative to time. Also, what is considered costly? However, I guess we should forgoe broided hair, and all jewelry.

    Revelation 21:27

    ” And there shall in no wise enter into it any thing that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh abomination, or maketh a lie: but they which are written in the Lamb’s book of life. – I have no idea why you included this passage.

  • Sexy CJ

    At Some Point In Our Society……..The Whole Realm Of Men’s Apparel Has Converted 2 Reflect The Effeminating Of The Traditional Male As We Know It……….

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/890872310e5d36b88b1ecc6e93d5ecb1ec835617908a7a426fdc23f4b91ab632.jpg

  • Elevated Soul

    Oh I thought you were being your usual dumb,so I pulled one of your numbers and I didn’t read the entire comment,my bad..

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Ooh must try. How much you add?

  • Elevated Soul

    Mind your business and move on because I have.

    So ? at that and look at my italics because clearly I got you shook……LMAO!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    What’s your beef?

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Whayle,all this fine talk gone go out the window once HE get caught with a PRE-OP transgender????

  • MystyBlu

    Obviously you haven’t moved on. Take your bullshyt elsewhere because I don’t get shook over internet trolls. Buhbye!

  • Peter Piper ATL

    No way in hell was I gonna sit and watch THREE videos of this nappy head old lady rambling on and on. That said, T.I. has spent a considerable number of years recording music that denigrated not only black women but certainly other black men as well. I know this man: he’s self-centered, extremely egotistical, and obnoxiously ignorant. He’s addressing this issue years after the fact, and he’s doing it to try and gain some credibility on an issue he cares nothing about. He’s a hypocrite who has the blood of other brothers on his hands so I’ll ignore any input this fool has to offer.

    That also said, I would think that poverty, high crime, alarming incarceration rates and drug addiction are issues that are more important than the clothes somebody is wearing, and these are the real problems facing black men. Improve economic opportunity for black men and you will see drastic changes in the culture.

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Men dressed sexy ass hell back in those days. Very manly!

  • Carolina Blue

    Ok….

  • stanley

    lmao.. There is not a problem with masculinity in the black community. Yall crazy

  • stanley

    lmao.. There is not a problem with masculinity in the black community. Yall crazy

  • 88

    You dont have any understanding because you not keeping the commandments
    Deuteronomy 22:5
    “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are ABOMINATION unto the LORD thy God.”
    Revelation 21:27
    ” And there shall in no wise enter into it anything that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh ABOMINATION.
    If you can’t see the clear and concise weaving of these two scriptures there is no hope for you.
    Come out of those PANTS.

  • 88

    You dont have any understanding because you not keeping the commandments
    Deuteronomy 22:5
    “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are ABOMINATION unto the LORD thy God.”
    Revelation 21:27
    ” And there shall in no wise enter into it anything that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh ABOMINATION.
    If you can’t see the clear and concise weaving of these two scriptures there is no hope for you.
    Come out of those PANTS.

  • Annaunki

    “he’s self-centered, extremely egotistical, and obnoxiously ignorant”.

    I see we know the same man huh

  • Annaunki

    “he’s self-centered, extremely egotistical, and obnoxiously ignorant”.

    I see we know the same man huh

  • RichieRich88

    I never respond to comments, but your comment really bothered me. I’m going to keep it short–but bruh, have some class! Your response exemplifies an issue that’s more crippling to the black community than any of the issues you mentioned–close mindedness and hatred. Improve your attitude, and you will see drastic changes in the culture.

  • stanley

    You know the Author of Hidden Colors is gay right? lol.. I fought with him on twitter before, He a total queen

  • MookieFly

    I dont think femininity is the issue. More like hyper masculinity causes black men to act out in aggressive homoerotic ways. This concept of the black alpha male has been crafted by SLAVE OWNERS to create the best “breed” of slave to work the fields. This mentality of being “built tough” is still effecting the community today.

  • Kilroy

    Alpha black man? To hell! How are you going to view yourself in a strong masculine manner when massah hangs, castrates, and rapes you or your woman and you have no power to stop it?

    With all the brother’s being shot down it is a clear signal that, like the Public Enemy logo, black men have a bullseye on their backs.
    FIGHT THE POWERS THAT BE!!!!

  • RationalThinkersUnite

    The only thing clear and concise is that you have no understanding off the English language. Good day sir

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ????

  • CapricornIce

    Sagging is such a turnoff to me personally. I had to check my ex one time about that. Like who are you advertising your ass to? He was 38 hot & ain’t sagg since.

  • CapricornIce

    All this….no apologies.

  • mark

    But he always sagging. I think the threat to black culture is when our so called leaders lead double lives lie and backstab. Who cares gay or straight buy stop preaching against something but yet practice it in secret

  • mark

    I think it’s black males [some) inability to express a softer side. Guys think they have to be hyper masculine or portray that for respect but have not had positive relationships with males to teach them how to express themselves. Look at the studs how some dress. They think they are portraying men but they are not. Years rap culture has been degrading females yet you all still shake and drop it like it’s hot but the gag is they gay.

  • violet_skyz

    Glad he love u enough to listen.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Im not sure how anything changed because of Pres Obama. Gay bi trans etc have been in human culture in the dawn of time. Its even in the bible so that means its been going on for at least 2 thousand years. There was no tv Pres Obama or any other things going on then. What really has changed because gays can get married ? The world didnt end nothing unusual happened when the law was passed and gay marriage has been legal in so many parts of the world some going back as 70 plus years. Just because you dont like it or have your opinion dont make it wrong you just dont do it and leave everybody else alone !!

  • Queen B

    See maybe u shudve watched her bc she was addressing black niqqa queens like u having a bîtch fit lol

  • Queen B

    Most of these are gày anyway

  • EnduretiltheEnd

    Thank you for posting this. I agree with her analysis of the problem, but I definitely don’t agree with assumption of the cause. This is a spiritual problem, not a racial one. If it were a racial one, then we would find absolutely no White Men doing this exact thing. Whites were “queening out” before black men ever did. Think of Historical Greece and Rome. If you assume the wrong thing as the cause, you will never find the proper solution…..On a side note: Lawd, I love a man in a suit!!!

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Hey Andrew…hey gurrl.

  • LibraGirlonly

    He’s married to a woman.

  • LibraGirlonly

    This woman was an asset to our community how dare you degrade her in that way. Sorry but I have to check you on this one. This so called nappy head old lady can’t be matched with the knowledge and information she brought to the melanated community. Pick up one of her books a read it. You should be ashamed of yourself speaking of this Queen in that manner. Ole disrespectful self. SMDH

  • Yup, I said it

    Sagging is just dumb. Why even wear pants if your gonna let them slide off you azz? No body wants to see the skid marks on a mans boxers.

  • Yup, I said it

    Thats what a real man does. He listens to the his womans concerns and respects himself enough to respect the opinion of his partner.

  • rodt

    Stanley why you trying to lie to kick it

  • Lisa daniels

    Say that

  • Lisa daniels

    Chile, i thought I was the only one.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Well keep shaking your head dear. Its my opinion, I’m not apologizing for it, and that’s that. I had no idea I was insulting your Grandma the Queen.

    That’s the problem with black people: deifying anyone with an opinion that purports to have some spiritual substance.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Look here you cheap weave wearing THOT, you don’t know a thing about me other than what you see on a web page. You’re unfunny and from the looks of that pic, you need to be watching videos on how to properly trim those manly eyebrows along with ways to cover that Ostrich forehead of yours.

    And she probably was talking to you–a consummate leg spreader who spends the day web surfing while popping out babies like Skittles, then expecting the state to cover the cost, all while waiting on one useless Negro after another to drop by for a roll in the hay.

  • JayCee087

    It could be the fact that a large amount of black children (72% if you believe in stats) are raised by single mothers, mentally absorbing their feminine ways (good an bad) and have it manifest when they become adults.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I’m far from closed-minded, and I certainly am not gonna be lectured by you, someone who knows nothing about me other than some preconceived notion you’ve developed in the comments section. My attitude has nothing to do with anything, and I think you should recognize that only stupid people confuse the issue. The issue was the so-called feminizing of bIack men and this old woman’s perspective on that.

    How any adjustment in my response would revolutionize black America is a matter I’d like for you to expound upon. In the meantime, please recognize that the “drastic changes” you spoke of are not achieved in the comments section on a blog; they are achieved by communities of color actually working together in the greater interest of the people–not the politicians, not the people running the church, not the rappers, not the reality TV stars.

    Digest that.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    You’re onto something…

  • Peter Piper ATL

    And you’ve probably slept with half of them.

    Or want to anyway.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Its sort of ridiculous how femininity in black men inspires such hysteria. Let’s have some truth here. Lots of black women seek out the laziest, sorriest man you can find and then lay up and have kids with him, and once he bounces, you blame Republicans, you blame the state, you blame it on the alcohol, and you blame it on gays. LOL, please be realistic. The fact of the matter is, black women need to be more discerning when it comes to who they have babies with.

    And a mother is not a father. A woman cannot be a father, no matter how hard you try. And your male child is not your man. Stop treating your sons like your boyfriends! You put a burden on male children when you do that. Its not his fault mommy is a THOT.

    Suddenly sagging pants is the cause of black men becoming homosexual en masse. LOL. Ridiculous. The same thing was said about bell bottoms, Afros, processed hair and so on and so on. No matter what anybody says, gay is a reality of life, nothing can increase or decrease it. Live with it, and accept that the only thing you can do for young black males is try and raise them so they don’t end up in prison or on drugs, which is a much bigger dilemma than being gay could ever be.

  • RichieRich88

    I see arguing with people on the internet is your thing, so I’ll just pray for you. I hope you don’t act like this in real life and this is just what you do in your free-time. This energy could be used in a much better way though. Peace.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Actually, you addressed me. I had no idea who you were and really don’t care but since you called me out, I thought the courteous thing would be to respond.

    And obviously, you’re the one with the issue because remember, you said what I wrote “bothered” you. LOL, really? You’re bothered by the opinion of someone you’ll never meet and I’m the one with the problem? LOL, perhaps your clear inability to maintain perspective is what’s truly hindering you in life.

    Don’t need your prayers, because I don’t know what God you might be praying to. Why don’t you channel those positive vibes into something tangible? How many hours have you devoted to mentoring at-risk youth? When’s the last time you gave up a Saturday and took some neighborhood kids to the baseball park?

  • RichieRich88

    Because you didn’t watch the video, you missed the point. Entirely. You look and sound stupid. The point isn’t about sagging. The point is: white supremacy, and the systematic results of it.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Welcome to the block list dick head.

  • Wayup!

    You called her a ” nappy headed …..” So don’t play stupid you know that’s what got people riled up….TROLL…back to BOSSIP YOU GO…????.
    PS… BLOCKED

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Look who’s calling who stupid. LOL. I’m not sure how a faceless, pic-less profile is supposed to “look”. Or “sound” for that matter. And I don’t recall Sandra mentioning anything about white supremacy and I think I was clear that I did not and would not watch any of those videos because she could not possibly offer any new perspective on a non-issue that is over-discussed and will nevertheless ultimately do nothing to stop or modify anybody’s apparel choices, opinions, or the status quo.

    And what is your ass gonna do about systematic racism? Are you in a position to affect legislation? Reform the judicial and prison system? You probably voted for Hillary, so you’ve already shown you support losing arguments. In any case, you’re just another ignorant dude or whatever with an opinion that means nothing.

    You’re way out of your intellectual weight class, believe me. Save the bloviation for Eddie Long Sundays.

  • RichieRich88

    But, sir… lol, this post is about the videos that T.I. posted. Please, by all means… stay on topic.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I got a little bit distracted from the REAL point of Sandra’s post: the unmistakable, and deliciously undercover shade being thrown by choosing this pic. I love it! T.I. is such a butch queen and he doesn’t even know it.

    Everything else is subjective. Neither this woman’s opinion, nor anybody pulling pants up is gonna solve any problems. Its all smoke and mirrors. Our problems have a historic foundation and are right now generational as well.

  • Evillene

    Such a waste of intellect. As long as black people can be encouraged, and continue, to believe that homosexuality is an unnatural or abnormal consequence of white supremacy we will remain disoriented and disenfranchised. Not just in the U.S. but worldwide. Don’t focus on violence, gangs, drugs, the epidemic of incarceration, fatherless households, and the cycle of poverty — just look at those damn f@ggots bringing ruin to our race.

  • stanley

    Alot of gay men marry women lol.. Look at Kanye West and Kim Kardashian

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Are you always this buffoonish? My response, which “bothered’ you so much, was inspired by Sandra’s comments and T.I.’s reaction. You, on the other hand, decided to spend your afternoon watching this old lady rant about white supremacy, something I certainly wasn’t gonna do. I have too much stuff to do to waste time listening to yet another degreed talking head pontificate about the woes of black men in America without actually coming up with a meaningful resolution.

    So we’re not even having the same discussion, and that’s your fault. Walgreens is open 24-7, dear. The pharmacy called and your psyche meds are ready for pick-up.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Well said. And Donald Trump is President so that in itself shows how much the black community’s opinion matters in America. Has hating gays stopped police violence? Has it reduced the crime rate, prohibited racial profiling, reformed the justice system?

    Has it prevented black-on-black crime? Black homophobia is only effective inside the confines of a dwindling church community. Its becoming as socially unacceptable as talking about root ladies.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Hatred has been the defining sentiment that has kept black folks down throughout the history of America.

    That same hatred continues to do so. Its hatred for each other, and hatred for white people too. I read comments here and on other sites and am often amazed. Don’t you realize it took the votes of millions of whites to make your precious Obama a President? MLK didn’t walk alone–white folks risked–and lost– their lives too.

    Gay is what it is, so stop the hate. Won’t change a thing. It is not the reason you can’t find a job or a man. It is not the reason Donald Trump is President. it is not the reason black neighborhoods are overrun with crime and blight. Blaming gay, or weeding out the gay, will not result in anything but what it currently is: a witch hunt confined to comments sections and small pulpits that will go nowhere.

    Call it what you want, but being openly homophobic is no longer acceptable and it should not be. Your pastor can say what he wants but 200 members in a Holiness congregation don’t get to set public policy.

    The courts have spoken. Big Business, the real ruler of American society, has spoken. Gay is here to stay so embrace it!

  • 88

    In other words instead of taking off what pertains to men (PANTS) and stop showing off my camel toe and shape of my body for every man to see I rather remain an ABOMINATION well good luck with sis.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Well, you have to admit, Obama’s overreaching LGBT agenda is part of the reason Trump was elected president.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I don’t think people hate gays. If that was the case they wouldn’t be reading a lesbian’s blog.

  • Jussjess25

    Your right! Please dont entertain that peron, writing long ass paragraphs that no one is gonna read ? Annoying af

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I agree! I grew-up with one of my best friends being gay, and learned and observed. Most say they knew they were gay before they were 5 years old! How can anyone blame white supremacy for black men wearing sagging pants when we are the trendsetters, and simply liked it, and saw nothing wrong with it! I do believe that MEN IN GENERAL often struggle with being a man or male, not gay men as much as self-identified heterosexuals!

    I think men have always enjoyed being feminine, when you look back at history, homosexuality or being fluid or metro-sexual is nothing new, not in the least bit! Black women decided to become liberated, when she was always liberated, and then lowered her standards, stop demanding a family, found no problem in taking care of a man in staggering numbers, and allowing the man to be the girl! But, the same is happening with white women and men, role reversals (stay-at-home dads)! They just get married, and allow the man to live out his other side or true self like the Jenners!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    I just think ppl hate the lifestyle of gays but, it shouldn’t be anyone business who is banging who…

  • TJ

    Shout to TI for posting it and shoutout to the makers of Hidden Colors. The black community has always been falsely accused for being the homophobic poster child. We’re the most loving accepting community out there. The gay community could care less about us. Black people who ride for the gay community the white gay community could give 2 shots about you. Whenever truth is spoken you’re bound to be pursecuted. Oh and shout to Dr. France Cress Welsing for hurting a whole bunch of sensitive people’s feelings lol.

  • ?Scorpio Mama?

    You’re a Lesbian? But why? What scarred you so much so as a Black woman that you decided to be gay?

  • Judi Lauren

    Aren’t you LGBT?

  • SpiceGirl

    it’s annoying…..

  • Yoni

    And non-angry. LOL

  • sheila

    what that is the dumbest thing i have ever heard,,,sandra why do blame president obama for EVERYTHING that is wrong with this country on him when it was fucked up when he got …people kill me especially forgetting what george bush did for and to this country b4 he handed it over…just stop it

  • Evillene

    Black people are relentlessly encouraged to hate gays — by black clergy, by false science, by bigotry masquerading as sociology and even by black lesbian lifestyle bloggers. It is a choice to be a drug dealer, a violent criminal or an absentee father, it is not a choice to be effeminate or gay.

  • Queen B

    If they cutting that check i will lol ? Fawk u mean

  • Queen B

    Im not reading all that fàqqot so stop having a bîtch fit and acting like a drama queen u fags stay doing the most ?

  • Alexis Carson

    If men only know the origin of wearing saggy pants. They would stop wearing them like that. LOL Everytime I see a guy with their pants sagging it makes me cringe but laugh at the same time. Check your history young black men.

  • #TeamMCLambily

    She is.

  • OkWhatevah

    IMO, sagging pants is not the problem. It’s the manifestation of the problem: a base mentality and very disturbing self worth/image issues. You change a man’s mind, he’ll change his life on his own.
    As far as the feminization of black males – yeah, it’s a problem. What this empty, ever changing society deems as acceptable/unacceptable holds no weight with me.

  • BRuhman_Vista

    And to make matters worse, you got bruthas walking around saggin’ with “skid marks”. Effeminate. Retarded. Nasty. ???

    At least have one of your home boys take a moment to look at your butt and ..

    Oh wait….?

  • Hmmm~?

    “The black community has always been falsely accused for being the homophobic poster child. We’re the most loving accepting community out there.” No, we are not. Blacks are and have always been vehemently homophobic. If we were so accepting, DL and trade culture wouldn’t be so prevalent. If we were so accepting, there wouldn’t be tons of homophobic comments on every post that’s even slightly LGBT related. On this site and others. Just because you’re accepting of others doesn’t mean all or most of the black community is as well.

  • Ant Hill

    Correct Auntie

  • Ant Hill

    Boom Bye Bye in a batty bwoy head

  • MCraw

    I get the feeling Sandra is a reluctant bisexual. Many Black men are so disappointing in every major city, and she refuses to settle for the aforementioned effeminate black man. Which is understandable, Sandy, cuz you’re in ATL and it seems like every man there is that way. So maybe you’ll play with a girl, to keep you from settling with these weak men you’re surrounded by. But, maybe if you kept your obvious anger and disappointment in them at a healthy distance, your king would reveal himself. If he ever cheats, you’ll be understanding with that, so you’re perfect marriage material for many more men. In the meantime, bump uglies with any cootie cat you like. Hey, you may even find a guy into 3somes with you and your girl. We won’t judge :)

  • Buttercup

    I don’t add it to the whole batch, since Lil Butter loves egg nog. I add 2 shots per mug. I get lit wrapping presents and playing board games.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Thanks boo. I need me some now. Got to go out tomorrow for some things.

  • Traci404

    If the only peopke raising kids are women,
    With NO MALE Influence except a trip to Chucky Cheese.

    Used to be one child out of wedlock was taboo.
    THESE DAYS it has become a way of life.

    Children are expensive. But these men think, producing a baby is okay, cause tgey dont really have to do anything, except give the mother of the child some money..”when she needs something”

    A Child needs 2 parents. Male and female.

    We see this now…when all the vibe, energy and essence is female..why are you surprised that all our male children are effeminate.

  • WackaBlocka

    dating is enough to scar any woman … these men WILL traumatize you … the games … the lies OH BOI i could go on for days ..I myself almost considered leaving men ALONE and after this last idiot I consider MYSELF scarred lol

  • Brazen Beauty

    For those black men that refuse to wear dresses and sagging pants the majority are literally gunned down like common criminals. It does not take a man who can see and read to decifer the consipiracy against their rights to live and provide for their families. It’s an insult and a disgrace to our ancestors who paved the way for us to excel. Now we have those brothers who have resorted to demeaning their existance and heritage by comforming to the white mans agenda to EXTERMINATE, DEHUMANIZE, CLASSIFY and demoralize their mere existance. The baby boomers, I believe get the message, but somewhere along the way, this new generation of black men are not aware or concerned who they are; so,so sad but true, This whole lifestyle is not a fad, its a disgrace. People wakeup and Pray, stop and see the real writing on the wall.

  • Emily post

    Yes I heard that the sagging was the call of prison homosexuals.
    prison used to separate inmates depending on sexuality and health reasons why don’t they do that anymore? Everything is happening by design.

  • Emily post

    The oversexualization of black women also caused this. The public dragging of the black womans image the stereotypical strong woman????. Strength came out of the weakening of the male.

  • Traci404

    Problem is we allowed it. And still participate.
    Nicki Minaj, Rhianah, Amber Rose, Kim K
    These young girls have no sense of who they are.
    Then these skinny jeans wearing boys come through making it worse.

  • Traci404

    I say this all the time. You are right!

    One problem caused a domino effect.