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After months of denying rumors that she and her cheating husband, ex-NBA star Shannon Brown, had separated, singer Monica filed for divorce after nearly 9 years of marriage.

Monica, who shares a daughter, Laiyah Brown, with the G-league player, filed the paperwork in Atlanta earlier this month, TMZ reports.

Monica, 38, also has two sons, Rocko and Romelo, by music producer Rocko Da Don.

Monica and Shannon wed secretly in 2010. They tied the knot again in a private ceremony for friends and family that year.

Sandarose.com was the first to report the news last year that Monica and Shannon were no longer living together.

Monica and Shannon remain on friendly terms, and he frequently visits his daughter at Monica's Atlanta area home.

Monica and Shannon will continue to share joint custody of Laiyah. She is not asking for child support from the former Laker, who earns less money than she does.

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  • Blue

    Say what

  • Coy little wink

    Where is the dopamine post?

  • Blue

    Right.

  • bemetoo

    What say it ain’t so?????????? Girl we been knew y’all been separated

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    38 is pretty old for a woman especially when she been letting everybody run up in her...high mileage

  • Dowoop

    I'm shocked it was completely left out.

  • bemetoo

    Finally we can get so good quality music from her

  • n1kk1a

    Wait, what?

  • candy

    It’s coming lol!

  • Topic Influencer

    G-league
    ^^^^^^^
    Out here in the Gatorade League.

    Is that fool still playing with the Delaware 87ers?

  • bemetoo

    Damn how many you know I bet I can name a few you don’t know

  • Mr.LeBrickJames
  • Rere

    Damn Sandra, you were right ???? I thought you was just being shady as usual???.

  • MNjumpoffacliff

    Lol

  • Bonita

    Took her long enough. Now bring that heat like you and Mary J. know how when y'all been hurt by a man!

  • iWasteTime

    LOG OUT MA'AM!!!
    ... and this is how Wasting Time got fired! !

  • MNjumpoffacliff

    Although not totally shocking she did seem to try to make it work past his alleged cheating.

  • bemetoo

    She not asking for child support because she expects the support and she’s a lil dumb

  • Topic Influencer

    That is the real name of the TEAM! And the G League is indeed sponsored as their main sponsor...by Gatorade. I canna make this up *snort*

  • Topic Influencer

    who earns less money than she does.
    ^^^^^^^^
    Not to be mean or nothing, but he would make more money as the garbage man that Biggie was aspiring to be in Notorious.

    "Players will now earn a base salary of $7,000 per month, or $35,000 for the five-month regular season. The previous salaries were $26,000 or $19,000"

    This is the point in your life you let your literal HOOP DREAMS go, and go find a real ass job.

  • Rere

    How you know who all been in her?

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Monica, who shares a daughter, Laiyah Brown, with the G-league player
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    BYE...

  • Yup, I said it

    I expected this when I saw that post about how close she was with Kevin Gates.

  • Topic Influencer

    :
    : ... : : :... : :::::
    :::: ...: :::: ... :::....: ::

  • Coy little wink

    He probably wants a meatier vet...call me Shannon...

  • Shanayeblanco38

    Life goes on she didn’t deny anything she just didn’t let y’all in her business

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • iWasteTime

    lolol! I guess you can't but all that together had me screaming! you hear me! Screaming!!

  • Topic Influencer

    I went back and read it. It sent me too. *cackles*

  • Rainbowbelow

    I had to Google to see for myself if their name was really the Gatorade league.. ??

  • Topic Influencer

    For once I aint make it up lmaoooo.

    "In the 2017–18 season, Gatorade became the title sponsor of the D-League, and it was renamed the NBA G League"

  • WinterIsComing

    Welp! It just seems like kids and marriage is a fawking headache. I want to be in relationships when I feel like it and move on when I feel like it without financial obligations and other burdens.

  • dblogged

    Dude made 14M from nba. Let’s hope he saved

  • EasyBreezy

    Monica, who shares a daughter, Laiyah Brown, with the G-league player,

    She is not asking for child support from the former Laker, who earns less money than she does.
    ********Shady, shady********.

  • TheWildChild

    Sad....but I'm sure they'll make great co-parents ?. Is she still in nursing school?

  • Miss K

    The whole damn tree

  • Trey

    damn...not D-League...but G-league...at least D-league is a real thing....oops look like G is also....damn

  • Guest

    First time I'm hearing about the G-league. Welp! moving on.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    She had two kids by Rocko so that’s who she should have married

  • MzKeriBabee

    This is sad though... families don't stay together anymore... sad when the norm for a child is that their parents aren't together... :(

  • Itzgoingdown2

    He played in the NBA for 10 years...

    NBA Retirement and Pension
    "NBA players have one of the most generous pension plans in all of professional sports. They are vested into their pension plans after playing at least three seasons in the league. The minimum benefit for a player that retired at the age of 62 is $56,988 per year - not a bad retirement for a three-year career.

    If a player with the minimum service time starts collecting at 45, they’ll receive a payment of about $19,000 annually. With a decade of playing time, that rises to $60,000. If they decide to be patient and are in no rush to receive payments until they’re 62, those numbers amount to $60,000 and $200,000 respectively."

  • Miss K

    I know someone playing in the G-League now. Lordt, y’all are killing me!!

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    Not surprised and I wish them the best of luck individually and as parents to their children.

  • disqus_TrCUDzOzuG

    D League was changed to G League. G for Gatorade. I guess they sponsor it or something like that.

  • deadellamore

    I saw this coming!

  • Marlika

    He better try out for Ice Cubs league.?????

  • Luv Pitties

    When I heard her new song Commitment and she kept singing she needs good sex and commitment I said yea it’s over.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. I read somewhere that the majority of NBA players are bankrupt within 5 years of playing their last game. It would be a shame for him to go from being a millionaire to being broke.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    LOL!

  • Shawty

    Wow..sorry to see them go their separate ways. Wish both of them luck. She must be trying to move on without all of the ridicule. Smart move cause the internet trolls gonna burn her up if they see her looking cozy another like they did her and Kevin Gates.

  • Rainbowbelow

    Its a documentary called Broke that talks about that.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    I thought she works at a funeral home..

  • KcoolMuziq

    They NEVER matched to me. Even though I do believe in opposites attract. I actually liked her better with C-Murder.

  • Tinytoon

    Lol, is this better than the Big 3 Leagues? Asking for a friend.

  • Coy little wink

    Just gimme the D and keep it movinggggg ?

  • Coy little wink

    Matched as in? He wasn't street?

  • xenaD

    Damn nobody on Instagram saw it coming. Meanwhile I’m like Sandy here has been saying this forever!! Sandra, u shady tho & u know it ??

  • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

    not the 87ers I just spit my soup!!!!

  • MyNameIs

    "who earns less money than she does" Yikes!!

  • Pamela

    Dopamine, Estrogen, Testosterone, the damn hormones list

  • Ni Ni

    Hollering ?. Monica need a ole thug in her life?.

  • Truth7981

    How old is that boy?

  • Michelle1953

    He was cheating too

  • WinterIsComing

    Right!

  • dblogged

    Crazy. Fast life will cause that

  • Desi

    That sucks. They seem happy together.

  • Bossy704

    I had forgot about this guy. I prefer chocolate.

  • Curtis

    You didn't lie about she once said she's the original queen of trap music.

  • leapyearpisces

    I remember a couple of us called THIS a few months back when she was all boo'ed up with Kevin Gates looking like a whole couple, and we also mentioned Shannon's absence on the show. We were told basically to SHUT UP. The number one cause of divorce is marriage. Monica will be alright. Everybody has to do what is RIGHT for THEIR situation.

  • leapyearpisces

    He aint been able to keep that peen in his pants pre or post marriage.

  • leapyearpisces

    C-Murder had Monica turned slammed out, and I can only imagine why.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    One thing I will give Sandra credit for, she knows some inside scoops. She doesn't always reveal them, but I get a feeling she knows all the dirt on Hollywood.

  • Rayscoty

    She couldn't stop running around Atlanta taking Fashion Nova selfies..

  • WinterIsComing

    *screaming!*

  • WinterIsComing

    You guys sure did!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO sorry to hear that .. Thought they made a great couple but now its my tun with him. I will take it from here !!!!

  • leapyearpisces

    You say the most chauvinistic things, and always talking about somebody old. If 38 is old for a woman then its "old" for a man too, and it is well known that the majority of us women take better care of our sexual health than you men, so if there is anybody with high mileage, it's yall ole nasty tails...and don't nobody want no man with wrinkle balls dragging the ground starting forest fires all over the dang on place EITHER!!!! GTFOH talking about old and high mileage, and if you wanna dance sir we can dance later on tonight once my 43 year old FINE ASS get back from the gym. Tonight is chest and biceps.
    Edited: Actually, scratch that...I won't be going back and forth with you. Not putting my energy into this.

  • Applebum

    Who didn’t see this coming? He’s been checked out. I didn’t know that he cheated on his other baby mama with Monica. When they met on the set of her video, he was engaged to his baby momma and she was pregnant or just had a baby. WTH? You lose them how you get them.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Aight so meet me back here around 9ish

  • Wreckognize Game

    Well, Sandra said it but I didn’t want to believe it.

  • Curtis

    I had a crush on Monica immediately she started her career. She was gorgeous and slim( i like skinny women) I am a fan to this day but how on earth someone so talented and beautiful can't find happiness? Now she's a babymama of mutiple kids with different men.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Cheating should not matter when they have two kids together

  • smartchickfl

    That's terrible??. He's a cutie but not trustworthy at ALL.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    All the shade in this ONE post.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    She did. He messed it up with HIS poor judgement.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Really? Wow. I take my former statement back.

  • leapyearpisces

    Nah, I'm good. I aint een gonna fugg up my chi like that. The sun is out, weather is mild, gotta lot of things to be thankful for. No need to even mess up my energy like that. You have a good one.

  • Parent

    Not surprised.

  • Parent

    Shannon looks yellow school bus special.

  • Renee26

    Sad to hear of the split but bravo to both for having the strength to move on amicably

  • Curtis

    Allen Iverson the wonder kid is broke and can't find work in broadcasting because he can't articulate words and poor English.

  • Parent

    You a dub!

  • Renee26

    Ok! How is she to blame?? Typical man thinking

  • Renee26

    Me either

  • Renee26

    Interesting

  • Renee26

    Lol the number one cause...

  • Parent

    She likes thugs! She tried it with Shannon but I don't think he was really her speed.

  • Parent

    Cold blooded

  • Parent

    I honestly believes she like them thuggish!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Lol you too

  • ???TheRider???

    She liked herself better with C murder!

  • Parent

    I believe that was the case. She loved her some C Murder. And Im not sure about Rocko but he looks like a rough neck

  • Coy little wink

    My baby daddy favors C murder...

    FINE!!!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I know hes not trustworthy thats the difference between her and me I believe in open relationships so it wont be a problem for me !!!

  • jwoo250

    C-Murder was a married man while they were dating and had 3 daughters. He cheated on his wife with Monica and his wife still comes to see him with her girls. Monica also still keeps in contact with him and the whole damn Miller family.

    She just got something about her. I think the her seeing her boyfriend take his life messed her dating life up somehow.

  • Whirl

    Wow this seems like unusual split by two individuals behaving like mature adults. Refreshing.

  • http://realitytea.com Goddess

    $200,000 per annum? That will not be enough to live comfortably in 30-35 years.

  • abby500

    There you go!

  • Ms. EJ

    He came out and stated that they ( his ex) w never engaged, and that they had been broken up....but, yep! she recently had his baby when he started dating Monica.

  • Logan Roberts

    It must be getting close to C-Murder release ?

  • http://realitytea.com Goddess

    It doesn't mean a thing in the reality TV world. Tiny and TI were separated and divorcing now they honeymooning again.

  • NaeNae2015

    I think Monica may be one of those sisters who does not feel complete unless she has a man in her life......kinda like JLo.....she will soon have another to replace him.........

  • joel adams

    Watch who you let NUT n BUST inSIDE you..HEAUX!

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    And he will be gone too......

  • A D N

    Because there is more to a woman/female than her talent and beauty Curtis.

  • Shawty

    Now she need to call her friend Wendy Williams and they can do this together. Show Wendy how to be strong.

  • Chipswife

    He just never struck me as the settling down type . When he got exposed for creeping in women DM's I knew it was a matter of time. Monica seemed like she gave it her all and really tried. After every accusation she was steady posting subliminal messages trying to take up for him and her marriage

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Seems like the whole world knew that they were not together........EXCEPT her. You can TRY to trick the public......but at least keep it real with yourself. Better luck next time Mo....

  • Anonymouse

    Rough delivery but I understand the sentiment. 38, three kids, two fathers and a failed marriage. That's a lot going on. And to the poster who said the same thing goes for men isn't being realistic or doesn't know how things work. Men can be 38 with MULTIPLE baby mamas and STILL be attractive to a woman. Most men aren't checking for a woman with kids much less one whose had kids with multiple men. It's just reality. Robert Lee Bennett OG didn't make the rules lol...

  • http://realitytea.com Goddess

    Even if he was only earning $100 he needs to give her $25 for the child that he helped create. In my Judge Matthews voice: it is not for her, It is for the child.

    Some Black men drive me fruking crazy like you're committing a cardinal sin to get a child support order. No side deals, do it through the court so everyone has a full understanding of what their obligations are.

  • Chipswife

    Better have some fun and keep yo feelings to yourself. ????

  • Anonymouse

    Truth

  • Chipswife

    Now u know that was pretty little things

  • A D N

    Hmm...I have always made it a point to not date a man who has a child under the age of 5 years old. I especially would never date a man who made a child, the child recently born and is dating...again. It shows his character. Have you noticed a lot of females do not date seriously after a baby is born? She's focused on the child's needs first and then her personal needs.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Hold up? For real? C Murder wa's MARRIED? If that's the case...you reap what you sow.

  • Chipswife

    Yall know her true love is C.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Thugs played out tho. Thugs have no job, no future,.money comes and goes etc... That's why she keeps getting the SAME results. She needs to change her mentality.

  • JazzyBossyJen

    ?So gone over you, you you you
    Yeah, lil Monica...

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Exactly and you add on all the alcohol that effects women in a way more harsh way than it does men you have a recipe for disaster...

  • KcoolMuziq

    Monica LIKES & will ALWAYS like the bad boys.

  • Chipswife

    Slim thug need to snatch her up. But her and latoya friends so I dont know if that'll work

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Why I said that in my head ???

  • TheWildChild
  • Missy
  • Nik

    Wait, what happened that now there's a salary reduction?

  • Nik

    Long gone, honey. Loooong gone! These days the D will get you irreversible coodies and kilT!

  • Scromes1212

    Life without parole smh only way he leaving the penitentiary is in a body bag

  • Nik

    LMBO!

  • R Smith

    He's not broke! He signed an endorsement deal with Reebok. In addition to paying $800,000 a year for life, Reebok set aside $32 million in a trust fund that Allen will not be able to access until he turns 55 in the year 2030.

  • https://instagram.com/uptown2501 Uptown2501

    She never was over him

  • Wreckognize Game

    ??

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    And still cheating on his wife

  • Wreckognize Game

    I don’t see her doing that but Meek might work

  • A D N

    I guess that's what we other "type" of females never understood....how could anyone be interested in a man who has no money, no job, no home, no car, no educational goals, lots of kids? I could never, ever want a male in this situation because he is a burden, a child, an extra bill, an argument because my income depleted, drama waiting to explode. In addition, I couldn't date a man who had lots of kids because he cannot be there for mine because he's spread thin. My child deserves a father.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Good to hear. My sons had ever color Iverson that came out. You couldn’t tell them nothing

  • Wreckognize Game

    Yes, I know Sandra has that ATL inside scoop.

  • the guest

    Monica WANTED Shannon to be the one more than he was the one because it was obvious all along he WASN'T the one. I wish true and forever happiness for her next marriage. Monica and her children deserve a loyal and faithful husband to her.

  • Seldomseen

    Dead, she loved that NOLA thug

  • Seldomseen

    But every coupla years he will try it

  • Seldomseen

    He kinda favors Bart Simpson

  • smartchickfl

    I'm wayyy too emotional for all that lol...

  • smartchickfl

    Most men would love you lol...

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Right...."boy".

  • Seldomseen

    We always drop clues

  • Kimberly King

    Mhm. I remember when she was on IG shutting down all those rumors. Like girl...

  • Reina1718

    Didn’t u say this sandra???? Z???

  • Seldomseen

    You telling the truff dis time

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    And this is why she is "single again." She should hang with Trina.

  • 2gr8ful

    Sorry to hear this, but Sandra you said it first. Lala and Melo found their way back so maybe these two could...filing for divorce isn’t final until that paperwork is officially signed. However cheating is a no no for me and hard to come back from. I was surprised Lala took Melo back but hey Melo is no Shannon ($$).

  • dontgetblocked

    It's hard to take crap from a broke nygga! She can do betta!

  • 2gr8ful

    My cousin is like that, every year a new fiancé, man of her dreams or soulmate. We have so many pictures of her with a new “boo” that I can’t keep up, then she gets mad at the family when we get their names wrong or don’t want to socialize with him at family gatherings. We know he won’t be around long so don’t want to get too close. I tell her to spend time with you and love you. I pray she finds someone but sometimes you have to let him find you.

  • MsPam

    Who’s surprised by this?! I guess that’s what you get when you spend more on Instagram modeling.

  • KcoolMuziq

    I doubt Monica is sexually fluid.

  • HaitianFlower

    They were engaged. The baby was freshly born?

  • jwoo250

    Yes he was married with children

  • Malificent

    Damn

  • Rere

    True, but I think this one is legit

  • Carla B

    This was supposed to happen last year I guess finally fed up

  • Rere

    Right

  • Malificent

    Wut????

  • Rere

    What's a G league player? ?

  • angelpat2812

    Your Cousin be like,"You get a Man, and you get a Man, everybody get a Man! Lol!!!

  • Luv R

    I believe she kept I really with herself. Monica is a loyal woman and she took her vows seriously. Yes, God does allow divorce when their is adultery but that is an option. Spouse do not have to divorce a cheating mate. They can choose to forgive (as many times as necessary) to salvage their marriage. That is what is called through the bad (or for worse) in the vows. I hate that it came to this for them but it's only so much disrespect you can take.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    G-league is the NBA's minor basketball league. Formerly the D league.

  • suganspice68

    Lol

  • exlurker

    Why do broke men cheat on their more successful wives??

  • more

    Because women allow it ....

  • more

    Damn you sure?? She seems like a Godly women

  • more

    You not playing! Lol

  • more

    Uge me to smh

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    He tried to holla at my homegirl and she straight up told him that if she wanted to spend monicas money she’ll fawk her straight up. He call her a B and moved on to another chick at the club. Why of why grown women allow these boys in their puccis ill never understand he been an ass.

  • Harley

    She’s an ex wife. She got married. And she had kids by two different men. Not like future out here..... she is not defined by who she has kids with

  • Harley

    For real her whole life is a damn photo shoot

  • Harley

    Iverson is far from broke he has a huge deal with Reebok

  • Harley

    So he had a whole basketball career he don’t have a McDonald’s franchise or nothing ?????

  • Harley

    Wow

  • Mia

    Wendy Next. Hopefully

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Is Cory on his way home,? She ain't slick!

  • Thanos of Titan

    When I'm wrong, I' m wrong.

    I owe you an apology, Ms. Sandra Rose. You reported a while ago that their relationship was on the rocks and I was highly skeptical of your reporting.

    You win this round.

  • ???TheRider???

    *loves

  • Frank Blunt

    ONLY for my current married ladies (even speaking hypothetically): Would you marry multiple times if infidelity was ALWAYS the underlying issue? Or just keep that "special friend" fo'life!

    P.S I's single so im not putting my 2 cents on murried folks business?

  • Frank Blunt

    Oh C's letters and commissary will increase? We may see less outfits if Shannon dont come through on that ballet/tap jazz class payment?

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    It was always like they weren't married. Monica 99% of the time only had photos with her kids. Aint no spouse that private. When he put up that thot video showing off his print, I knew they weren't together anymore.

    Luckily, Monica has a second job as an IG model, so she should be okay financially. There comes a time when the woman gets tired of supporting the man. I can almost guarantee this was the point of contention in their marriage. In the end, he started seeking attention from women with less than him most likely. That way, he can feel like 'the man' again.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Fear they can't live up to it. The bigger question is how long before you lose respect for your man when his income less than a 1/4 of what you make?

  • Juliaquan C Spain

    Awwww..noooooo.....I hate this happen to them but I did suspect something was going on because you never see her with him anymore.

  • currvalicious

    That was very hot..??

  • currvalicious

    No, that is called abuse...no one deserves to be, or put up w/any type of abuse just b/c of a piece of paper. Gtfoh...

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    There are no winners here. A 5-year-old girl doesn't have her father living under the same roof.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I agree. She should reconsider the divorce until Laiyah is 8. Then he can bounce with his lady birds.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I sure did.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Everyone was in denial. Women are so desperate to believe in love and fairy tales. No one wants to believe the harsh reality of Dopamine.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    If I were to reveal everything I knew, this blog would get shut down. ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It was as clear as day that they weren't together.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Of course them boys a lot more damage see their mom sleep around with different men

  • Truth7981

    I remember when Lala and Anthony had their show together. Damn near every episode was about her spicing things up so he wouldn't cheat. She was so insecure

  • Thanos of Titan

    LOL Ugh, look, I'm just trying to acknowledge that I was wrong. That's it.

  • Truth7981

    Listen as women with 3 different baby fathers..your point? Men real quick to judge but they the main ones cheating. Hell, so what keep a broken home together because you want to keep the last name..please! Shit these dudes out here with all these different baby mamma's and there is little judgment there. F-that my son asked one time why he and his brothers had different last names? I spoke the truth. Mommy has had three great loves in her life and you and your brothers are the blessings that came from them.

  • Truth7981

    On point!

  • Truth7981

    A lot of people screwed if god only taking 144,000

  • Keekz

    Good lord! What in the world happen to him. How does a firms LA Laker end up on a G league?

  • Keekz

    Right! What a waste.
    I faintly remember her obtaining a nursing degree. Does anyone recall the post of her in scrubs?

  • Keekz

    Who is Cory?

  • Malificent

    What is it about a person that makes them always be a victim of infidelity in relationships? I know a male friend who said every woman he’s been with has cheated on him and he has a big ? . Look at J. Lo. What is it?

  • Malificent

    So how do you keep the music playing? How do you make it last?

  • Strappyheels

    About time!!

    I just never bought them as a couple.

  • Strappyheels

    He may not know how to use it. A lot of men do not take constructive criticism. Especially when it comes to sex.

  • Strappyheels

    MastA P brother

  • Keekz

    Oh ok.

  • Strappyheels

    I never felt he was into her!!

  • Strappyheels

    TRUTH!!

  • My Thoughts

    I thought she went to mortuary science school.

  • My Thoughts

    Why 8?

  • WokeBlackMan

    The same reason rich men do. We all cheat because there’s nothing in the world better than new pu$$y. And nothing WORSE than old pu$$y. PeriodT.

  • WokeBlackMan

    Once we decide to cheat there’s NOTHING y’all can do to stop it. When we tired of your wack ? there ain’t no spicing it up. It’s still the same ole same ole. Just let us cheat and go on with your day

  • WokeBlackMan

    ?Good luck with that...better move out of Atlanta...these side hoes outchea go hard in the paint?

  • Rhyme and Reason

    And, she probably unconsciously selects men who are “unavailable,” haven’t most of Us!

    But, then we friend zone the good ones because there’s no attraction or chemistry, and it becomes a vicious circle!

    I wish her the best!

  • WokeBlackMan

    Tell them the REAL truth. “Mama pu$$y is wack and that’s why all y’all daddies ??????????????????????

  • KneeSee

    I'm not surprised. They barely knew each other a couple of months before they got married.

  • Coy little wink

    Melo looks like he licks walls. Real walls not vaginal walls...

  • 1BlueStar

    No surprise here?

  • Wreckognize Game

    You keep trying to tell us. ?????

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Religious couples tend to stay together longer. In other words, your marriage will endure if you put God and family first. Here's an interesting stat: 43% of marriages where neither partner is religious will last 5 years. 65% of couples who practice a religion stay together longer than 20 years.

  • What???

    Because all men need sexual variety in women. That’s what testosterone does. Even if they don’t cheat it doesn’t change his natural desires to have variety or mean you’ve tamed all of his sexual desires. Money and power are turn-ons to women not masculine men. If she truly loves her man she would accept his nature not try and suppress it.

  • bemetoo

    Let’s play the name game ... name the guys who fawk Monica

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Child experts say boys and girls need their fathers during the crucial developmental ages of 2 to 8.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Yeah, I believe you. I think even sometimes on here, we figure stuff out for ourselves but you can't comment because it would expose some celebs. I like what you do on here. This is a nice close-nit family type of blog. I feel like I know half of these people. Thanks for your hard work.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    d list gossip

  • N’cole

    The ppl who attract cheaters: lonely with low self-esteem.
    The cheaters: also lonely in a different way and need to control anything.??

  • Harley

    You are a reflection of the people you have relationships with. At some point people have to understand that they are attracting people with issues because they have some type of issue themself. Every relationship we have is a mirror of ourselves. What we don’t like in others says something about us as well. So if you continue to have issues with infidelity, trust, or anything else there needs to be some self work before entering another relationship. Having a special friend won’t help if your broken it will make it worst

  • Harley

    Maybe to his wife and 3 kids that he had when he was with Monica too ?????

  • KenHay

    He's 33 and Monica is 38

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Her having three kids by two different guys is enough for me

  • the guest

    Marriage is not a piece of paper.

    But no one deserves nor has to withstand abuse.

  • Truth7981

    Really! He looks super young

  • Tamara Artis-Dawkins

    She knew he was a cheater from the word go..but she is always chasing bad boys. She did not want to eat crow or hear people say I told you so!!!!!! Ms Thang needs to grow up and find a stable man not a boy posing as a man. Everything that looks good ain't good for you.

  • Tamara Artis-Dawkins
  • reddfoxxy16

    A'men...??????????

  • T Willis

    Oh wow

  • T Willis

    But future was engaged to Ciara doesn’t that count lol

  • T Willis

    I don’t trust light skin men ? lol
    Monica can do better.

  • sunni_daze

    I think we all saw this coming. They haven't been seen together in awhile.

  • Sha

    You said that right, there aren't any winners. No one wins in a divorce.

  • Yoni7

    I wish them both the best. Wonder what happened? Did he not want it or what is her? Monica is a beautiful woman. I'm always curious as to why men just can't love the one they're with.

  • Sha

    Cheating is about the person doing the cheating. It is never about the person you are with but a lot of insecure females feel this way.

  • Yoni7

    I hear you on this....however, the "relationships" I've been in they were either liars, cheaters, drinkers, smokers, mama's boy's, coins low, excuse makers, and/or "slow-slow" just to name a few. All of which I am not! I always wondered WHY they were "placed in my life". Then I chalked it up to just having to serve my purpose in life and that is to teach people and show them a different way of thinking. Which I have and I will say, one of the last things my ex said to me was....."Thank you for teaching and showing me new things." #purposeserved #next(victim) LOL

  • garrisonville

    I just said this the other day. You can tell how a person really feel about themselves based on the company they keep & the person they're in relationship with. Women be walking around talmbout i'm this & that, i'm a Queen blah blah blah. Umm, not based on that loser you holding down sis.

  • EasyBreezy

    Yes. Yes. Yes!

  • EasyBreezy

    THIS is real talk. Carry-on , my brother. #someSistahsListen

  • EasyBreezy

    Well, thank God she's photogenic!

  • EasyBreezy

    Chile....

  • EasyBreezy

    Interesting. It felt like he was into the notoriety he got being married TO her, but the marriage thing never seemed to be HIS thing. There are men lined up to talk to Monica. It won't be long before the next wedding announcement or long-term, permanent relationship.

  • EasyBreezy

    Exactly. And he only had one other kid before they married, correct? So, what's the excuse?

  • EasyBreezy

    Agree. Monica appears to NOT take the back-and-forth other women will tolerate.

  • EasyBreezy

    What? I did not know that. That a la Tristan Thompson stuff is for the birds. And Monica, damn! She is quite self righteous, so this surprises me. But, alas, ain't got nothing to do with me. Thanks, Auntie, for the outlet to post my opinion.

  • Sha

    No one can make you happy, but you.

  • Sha

    Yes, I believe in honesty. Kudo's to you.

  • Let them eat cake

    what about moochers?

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly! He was a fading ball player. She had some coins and clot. So he jumped on that bandwagon.

  • Lindac

    Amen

  • Lindac

    Spoken like a true trooper.

  • Ant Hill

    Shannon learned the lesson many of us men have had to, can't turn a h* into a housewife.

  • Ant Hill

    you probably are an old h*like her, no surprise you feel like that.

  • Lorna

    Sad to hear, I hope their family is ok.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    No problem.

  • onelove

    yeah i could tell that when he was on the reality show. he acted like he didn't want to be there.

  • 2gr8ful

    Girl she be doing too much lol.

  • T Willis

    You mean like ya mammy?

  • Nicol B

    what an ignorant statement.

  • Harley

    And living a facade

  • Harley

    ????

  • Harley

    Engaged isn’t married and he has like 10 kids with no commitment to any of the mothers

  • ShWa

    Or a boy into a man.....

  • Parent

    I mean I heard rumors about when she was younger like when she was a teenager but I wouldn't call her a hoe. Most of us made bad choices when we were younger. I don't think she was hoeing as an adult. Cut her some slack.

  • datjerk

    He was cheating? Well damn

  • Parent

    Oh damn.

  • Parent

    Please say it louder for the women in denial in the back!

  • Trace da Ace

    oh well....heard he was packing a baby arm in dem jeans.....soo..he will make out just fine.....she cute too..sooo....ere'body will be fine....moving on-->

  • Sassie

    Me either.

  • Sassie

    LOL

  • Sassie

    I actually agree with this.

  • Sassie

    Some cheaters are moochers too....that's all I got, LOL

  • Sassie

    Ikr....LOL

  • Sassie

    Yes it was mortuary science school, not nursing.

  • Sassie

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I accept that ;-]

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    C-Murder

  • Mona Lisa

    O really??? Hey Boo. Lol

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    She didn't keep it real with herself. When you're steady posting pictures of you and your husband together....."like y'all are still together"...you as a woman are in denial. Every time that someone or a website insinuated that her husband was cheating she felt like she had to post an old picture of them together. She also kept denying the fact that they were no longer together. I am not saying that you have to put all of your business out in public...but why keep posting old pictures of you and your man together when you all are OBVIOULSY not....that's all I am saying. I do agree what you are saying about the disrespect. However, she needs to change her mental because she keeps getting the same results with the men that she chooses....and steady having babies...only to be back single...and be a single mother.

  • MythCalledLove

    Go now go walk out the door...I will survive for as long as I know how love I know ill stay around....You think Id crumble think i lay down and die Oh no not I I will survive
    Of course I didnt get the song right but damnit help me out here..lol

  • Jack Blakk

    Ciara's next trust me all the bikini pictures are saying you can have this too!

  • Junkanoo
  • N’cole

    Generally, people who attract moochers tend to be empathetic, AKA a natural giver. You know what it is to be in need and you don't want others to suffer.
    If you find yourself supporting a whole adult or their kid, they do a have problem; just not as big as the one you willingly adopted by financial support.

  • Moon Lee

    Why do we rejoice when a family is torn apart? Sending nothing but love to this beautiful brown family! Half of the ignorant people posting negative comments can't even keep a girlfriend/boyfriend .( Still caught up in the BABY DADDY/BABY MOMMA SYNDROME) LET THAT SIZZLE...?????

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    I don't think he cheated, they probably got bored with each other and fell out of love.

  • SpiceGirl

    I really thought they would make it!

  • Let them eat cake

    Thanks for your response!

  • http://meetup-date.website/yzrCPAJERds Emma
  • Lady” Youngblood

    I’m wondering the same thing, was she to skinny for him? Do she really want a woman? Because he never seemed all in

  • more

    I hope that you are not a female. You sound like the type to say " all men cheat" but than get upset when it happens. Lol

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  • Keekz

    ok, I remember a pic of her in scrubs.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks hun.

  • http://meetup-date.website/Cai3Fn5Egxlvds Susan
  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    Nope, They don't! They take it as us being bitches when all we're trying to do is get pleased like we please them. We're just trying to tell y'all what we like and dislike when it comes to the love making, Stop flipping the script on us and Taking it in a bad way! What's the point in being with someone if you aren't going to learn them and love them properly!?

  • http://meetup-date.website/TkjWz67Mds Margaret
  • What???

    Cheating is breaking a promise of monogamy. I didn’t write that. I wrote that men naturally desire to have sex with multiple partners. That’s a man’s nature. Period. If you don’t like it, change their DNA. Women are naturally hypergamous just as men are naturally polygynous.

  • more

    You answered my question thank you

  • Dana Cristy

    I never thought he was interested in her.

  • What???

    You’re welcome, enjoy it.

  • Michelle

    Oh he definitely has cheated. I remember when he had to deactivate his social media because he stayed in the females DMs

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  • Yoni7

    OR both.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    True

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  • Shanayeblanco38

    The lies all in this post that man was single when he hooked up with Monica