Monica Brown opened up about her split from estranged husband Shannon Brown in an emotional scene from a recent episode of VH1's T.I. & Tiny: Friends & Family Hustle.

It was previously reported that Monica refused to discuss her marital problems on the reality show. But the 38-year-old mother-of-three changed her mind and shared her marital problems in a scene with her mom, Marilyn Best.

In March, Monica filed for divorce from Shannon after 9 years of marriage due to his rampant cheating.

The "So Gone" singer, who is notoriously private, admitted she has difficulty picking the right men to raise children with. She said she stayed in a relationship with ex-fiance Rocko Da Don, whom she called a hopeless case.

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Mo was head over heels in love with Rocko, but he was emotionally unavailable to a woman with her particular needs.

"I think a lot of my life changes have become so complex and difficult. I had two children. I stayed in that relationship a long time, and he was a loss on both levels," she said of her ex-fiancé Rodney 'Rocko' Hill. "Then I finally met my husband and then I had my daughter, and it was good that he was athletic like the boys, so they had their own bond, and then now that's a loss. It's been some rough weeks these last few weeks."

Monica kept a tight grip on husband Shannon during their marriage. The former NBA star was expected to be by her side at all times when he wasn't on the road with his team.

Shannon and Monica's breakup was first reported by Sandrarose.com. Monica denied the rumors and even posted family portraits on social media that showed her and Shannon still together.

Photos by Prince Williams/ATLPics.net, Thad McAdams/ExclusiveAccess.net

  • onelove

    this is the real world!!! monica it happens!!

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Best of luck to her & her kids...maybe she can crank out some hits?????

  • free

    she should have stayed quiet. monica, you can always go back to your first love c-murder. he can't cheat. or you can find yourself a non-rapper, non-baller, nice lil deacon to spend another 9 years with. or you can just raise your chillun and do you.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    She'll heal.

    I couldn't date anyone famous. I'm sure they don't all cheat, but I so think there is some truth to the saying: Men are only as faithful as their options. I also think that that the entertainment industry promotes infidelity...like everyone does it so its ok.

  • Luv R

    A breakup is hard in the private eye, can't imagine going through it with people on the outside smashing their faces up against the window to get a good look in. Sad part about it is she has to postpone her emotions so her children aren't a third loss. I pray she can keep it together...

  • Karen Brady

    He can cheat. With a man. That may hurt her more though. *shrugs*

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Or a female CO...

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    She should have stayed with Rocko having them kids grow up in a broken home is a lot worse than him cheating

  • YellowSauce

    Monica needs to leave those light skinneded boys alone
    and yes I said skinneded ............... lol !

  • Karen Brady

    OH damn I forgot that. Yeah that would happen before a dude for sure. These female CO's get it in. And he's a rapper too?? Shiiddd.

  • Luv R

    I was thinking she could be with that dude she eventually married on the movie The Preachers Kid...but that was Latoya Luckett #nvm lol OAN: explain "he can't cheat" (abt c-murder) ?

  • BaileyBlue17

    Body Language analysis please

  • Luv R

    I wouldn't consider Rocko light skinneded .. lol ?

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lies you tell. Marriage is beneficial when both parents are PRESENT (emotionally, physically and spiritually) and the relationship between the mother and father is healthy. Marriage doesn't make dysfunction functional.

  • Rayne

    Just my opinion. There are no right men to raise children with. He has to want to be there to take care of his family. I’m married but my isht can change too. These hoes are looking scrumptious to me too so I know my husband looking ?

  • Coy little wink

    Monogamy is tough for the average man let alone an NBA player...hello?

  • Christopher Gibson

    Please tell me what complexion has to do with anything.....

  • Coy little wink

    It's a joke hun ?

  • Sassie

    I notice that Shannon NEVER smiled on any pics of them together and he never really touched her on pics either...the body language was always off. I also notice in the pic above - the one where she's rocking the long red hair - that he's INTENTIONALLY covering up his ring. He didn't want to get married in the first place. Not sure why he even did. Just wasted that girl's time.

  • Kimocha
  • Guess Who

    No shade...but does ANYONE outside of ATL care about Monica?

    I'm for real being serious.

  • Sassie

    None of what u said makes sense, smh

  • Coy little wink

    They married after 6 months it was a rush to the altar by miss thang..if you ask me...

  • Coy little wink

    Ever

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Parents don’t have to let kids know what’s going on and if these women had some fortitude and let some transgressions slide for the greater good .. these black youth would be killing each other in the street and filling the prisons up and sellling themselves for 35$. you have to look at the bigger picture

  • Sassie

    C Murder is still in jail and he's a street nigga too...even if he was out he'd cheat on her ass too.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    The reality is that he probably exhibited the same problematic behaviors (cheating, lying, etc.) before they got married. Marrying someone won't change who they are. And just because some marriages fail it doesn't negate the benefits that come from marriage.

  • Sassie

    LOL....ikr

  • Coy little wink

    I don't...add Ciara to that as well ?

  • Parent

    ehh I don't really have much to say. We all make bad choices. Maybe 3 times a charm. Monica probably waiting for C Murda to get out or is banging Kevin Gates on the low.

  • Ni Ni

    you can always go back to your first love c-murder. he can't cheat.
    _______________
    You know what...?

    Monica needs to leave them street men alone. Her husband was probably at the church. She would've made a good first lady or choir lead.

  • Nina Ross

    Well Shannon was cute so I don’t blame her there

  • Kimocha

    It depends on how many times he cheated... I agree with you if it was just ONE time... Most women will forgive a single mistake... But not if they been caught cheating multiple times...

  • free

    bad skinneded, yes, but light skinneded, no.

  • Blak

    As if they are any better!

  • Nik

    It's not easy to leave someone we love but wasting time we can't get back, especially during our best years, is a whole tragedy. Got to learn how to cut losses.

  • Nina Ross

    When he got cut by the lakers it was a wrap

  • Yoni7

    The worst thing about a breakup/divorce, it's like mourning a person who is still alive.

  • Ni Ni

    Wow, never knew that.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Very few star athletes who get married in their 20's are going to be faithful to their wives 100%. Steph Curry and Russell Wilson are probably among the few exceptions, but it seems those dudes are few and far between.

  • the guest

    He has sweet talking A--hole written all over him. Never looked like the right man for her to begin with. We all could see it. But Monica deserved her chance at happiness and she gave it her best. But she can't change a weak sneaky man.

  • free

    exactly!

  • 11pink123

    Monica’s whole life has revolved around having a man, which is why she can’t keep one. Go do something productive in the world other than make a bunch of dumb crying azz love songs.

  • the guest

    He's cute in a cheater pretty boy kind of way. His eyes never looked married.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    I got nothing Mo but u owe me for that Code Red album? can we get some decent music? So over the antics and reality shows ?

  • the guest

    Harsh.

  • Gloria

    Stop dating these celebrities that got thirsty bad bishes’ Pucci being thrown at them at every turn. Get you a regular dude that is smedium ugly and at least has middle class income. It ain’t that hard, Mo.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    She was caught up with the fact that he was young and played for the Lakers and thought he was a catch? she’s too seasoned to be this damn gullible. I have no sympathy Chile. As a fan I’m pissed that her career was benched

  • Ni Ni

    That's exactly what it feels like.

  • ShelbyMoore

    He NEVER seemed as into Monica as she was into him and, when I said so, I was cursed out and told that I was jealous. There, I told you so.

    These GIFS are so, so very bad...just awful.

  • free

    a "walkable" dude lololol

  • luVn_liFe…

    :-(

  • Panther Charleston

    Rayne, you so funny and so honest.

  • T Willis

    Regular dudes ain’t loyal either lol. Like Chris Rock says, “a man is only as faithful as his options” lol and black men in particular have a lot of options. Which is why black chicks will always lose cause most black men have too many dayum options and act like kids in a candy store when they have access to tons of beautiful women. Lol.

  • oshh16

    Even reg smedium ugly dudes can and are often on bs too...so lowering your standards, thinking you'll be safe is no guarantee and how you lose twice.

  • free

    well, that's what they did in the old days but today's woman, including myself, i'on know if i'm built like that. it ain't all on the woman. take some fugging responsibility and don't cheat. and when you cheat and get left, take a 50% or more role in your child's life instead of leaving them to be raised by a woman and a possible ("step" parent, uncle, pastor, coach, whatever they calling themselves).

  • 11pink123

    She seems like a nag to me. She need to find another hobby. She has become a professional girlfriend/wife. That’s probably annoying to men who are out there getting they hustle on, they probably want her to find something better to do than chase after them all day.

    Like Blueface says “bytch dont chase me, chase your dream”????

  • ?Starring Ladii Jaye?

    Mo loves deep. I hope she finds someone who can lift her higher because all her choices have done was bring her down and make her a single parent once again. No woman deserves to be hurt by "love".

  • free

    all that praying she do, God prolly sent her like 3 or 4 and she overlooked them so he ain't fuggin with her no more.

  • oshh16

    You know what for me personally, LOL, if I am not attracted it ain't happening...not talking bout no pretty nigga per say, but I need to be attracted to the dude.

  • Dowoop

    He should have thought of that before he married/impregnated her.

  • ALLMINE?

    Monica is so corny to me. When I was a kid she was the coolest.

  • Kimocha
  • Kimberly King

    Steph probably tipping. He was married too young. I doubt Russ is tipping though. This is his 2nd marriage. He knows what to do.

  • justlooking

    THIS IS THE Quote of the day......

    Until you see that person and they remind you that want to throw grave yard dirt in their face. https://media0.giphy.com/media/v41dzwjXFHj8I/giphy.gif

  • Rayscoty

    She must need this next album to sell. Ms. Thang need a coin. So now she wanna share..

  • Dowoop

    Lmfao... ???

  • EasyBreezy

    You've nailed it. That is a fall few men can weather without seeking validation outside the marriage. He's a big dummy, though.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Yes the old days when the youth was not slaughtering each other.... I hope you get the strength to look over small things.. Hell the white folks doing it like the old days why can’t we

  • Gloria

    But I’m telling her to increase her standards. There is nothing wrong with dating a regular dude. So many people miss out on being with their soulmates because they aren’t in the same tax bracket as them. There are plenty of regular dudes that are good and faithful. Obviously dating celebrities is not working out for her.

  • Nathan Hastings

    She's a bore. Good luck Shannon...

  • SpillyNillie

    You know what, I think umma start going for the smedium uglies.

  • Panther Charleston

    We act like loyalty and maturity and honesty should auto come w a relationship. Like, damn, I'm fine. Why can't you just do this for me? GTFOH. We may as well be looking for a pot of gold with a leprechaun on a unicorn and spendable fourleaf clovers hanging out both pockets! Mofos won't even commit to God and they kids half the time, committing to us is way down the list. That's just the way it is. A person's gotta willingly be in that space, no amount of hard loving can make them get there or keep them there, it's a personal choice. And when they not doing it, don't wait around to get hurt or beatup, just leave too, because it ain't a damn thing to stay for.

  • imright

    Monica seems dry boring and pretentious????? i can see why she hasnt had much luck with men. gorgeous girl tho??

  • justlooking

    Her lashes are nice.

  • Kimocha

    Right cuz my sons father was super size ugly and he still cheated... And multiple times too!

  • SpillyNillie

    But real talk, I feel like this! God shook his head and threw his hands up with me LONG ago!

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Ugly men cheat too. Broke men cheat too. Fat men cheat too. Might as well take your chances with a fine, fit, rich man.

  • Rayne

    In real life. I’m a realist about relationships. How could Monica not be all that? She is gorgeous, rich and seems to have a bomb personality. These men are never satisfied.

  • SpillyNillie

    I feel you on this as well. But I am starting to reevaluate my "standards." I don't think a slight modification will hurt...

  • CardiB’sAbs

    The beta males need their egos lifted especially when their partner is pretty and successful.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    If the home broken up the man might as well stay gone no such thing as no co parents in my book

  • SpillyNillie

    Ahh...you do have a point here...

  • SpillyNillie

    Not super size ugly!

  • imright

    i believe Steph cheats and Pie Face knows it which explains her recent outbursts ??

  • oshh16

    I understand, a none celeb who is employed with similar morals and values. Reg smedium ugly as if that was a guarantee for something besides a luke warm attraction and resentment, is what threw me.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Bish! My nigga aint allowed to this day to go to the DR by himself! $2 beautiful bishes. Nope! I know a broke ass nigga over here that complains about how ungrateful and ghetto black women are compared to women in the DR. Yet he has no high school diploma, has two Kids by two different women and is built like a rutebega.

  • therealashland

    You clearly know nothing about what you are talking about. I can tell you from PERSONAL experiences that is not the case. Monica is a genuinely caring and loving person.

  • Trace da Ace

    damn...I hollard at "smedium ugly"...lmao!!!

  • Gloria

    ??? not built like a rutebega

  • SpillyNillie

    Ladies, we have to love SELF first! When we love ourselves, that love or lack of, is reflected in the men we choose to date/bed/love. If you choose to stay with a man who obviously doesn't love you, then Sis, you don't love yourself. Loving yourself will prevent you from allowing others not to love you.

  • Sha

    Thanks for saying that, you are absolutely correct. She deserves happiness and too be loved. That is what everyone wants anyway.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    I called myself dating down because it was a “safe bet”. Nope! Nigga was fawking with someone more his speed-a hoodrat with a bunch of tattoos, a bunch of syllables in her name, burnt weed lips, hair like a brillo pad, a whole kid and a fat ass. I was disgusted. At least when I cheat it’s with a finer nigga, that makes plenty money, owns different businesses and has his degree.

  • Trace da Ace

    Oh well...Mo...pick yourself back up and move on.....you have your beautiful children....and good career...and you are independent. Your Prince will come....all in time....for now..focus on yourself and your kids. You wasted 9 years on a man who apparently can't keep his baby arm in his pants....so let him go on being community dick....you deserve better.

  • Guest

    It happens . New post!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Will definitely be incorporating that phrase into my lexicon.

  • JustMyThoughts

    I tell my daughter you don’t want a man no one wants, but you don’t want a man everyone wants either Smedium ugly ?? But even some of them think they’re all that because they have material things The struggle is real

  • Blaque Mahogany

    At least when I cheat it’s with a finer nigga, that makes plenty money, owns different businesses and has his degree.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    You know wha ....just log out.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Monica is a Scorpio so he probably got tired of jealousy, possessiveness and insecurities.
    She probably treated him like a little boy instead of her husband and wanted him to account for every minute he wasn't in her presence.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Don’t do us scorpios like that.

  • Soon2BWife

    They be the worse ones especially if you are attractive and out of they league. They start smelling themselves and become instant mac daddies because now they feel they have options. Heck they got you so they feel they can get anyone..... I had this little short 4 eyed mid to low salary tell me it was over because I expected him to help me move which he did but then I expected him to help me unpack and set up my electronics. I was like......https://media1.giphy.com/media/l3q2K5jinAlChoCLS/giphy.gif

  • GAPeach

    You remember that case about the inmate in Baltimore that had like 3 female CO's pregnant? Had them dummies up at that jail fighting over him.

  • Guest

    WHATEVER! NEXT!

  • Fire & Ice

    I hate to say it but I think Step is tipping out on her.

  • Bonita

    I've never dated a Scorpio but I'm compatible with them. Everyone I know that has been with a Scorpio speaks upon their jealousy issues.

  • T Willis

    ?

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ?????

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Yes! I got tired of him complaining about what Black American women aint doing when he has to pay for a bishe’s love, affection and respect.

  • Yoni7

    Mofos won't even commit to God and they kids
    A person's gotta willingly be in that space, no amount of hard loving can make them get there or keep them there, it's a personal choice.
    ____________________
    ^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^
    Only because I'm riding an asexual train right now, I agree.

  • MoniquetheGeek

    I think Doug Christie. But he is/was faithful by force and not by choice though cause Jackie was blocking all those groupies lol.

  • deidre martin

    nope we stuck in here!!!!!!!!

  • Coy little wink

    Doug Christie is an abused man hun....he don't count

  • Topic Influencer

    Jackie was following the team bus and Doug still to this day cant talk to a woman unless she is present or approves.

  • deidre martin

    lol!

  • Topic Influencer

    Always said he looked like Powder

    #FreePowder https://media2.giphy.com/media/9PrVuXKoFbomk/giphy.gif

  • deidre martin

    I think Mo is a strong woman and maybe a little to serious. Sometimes its overbearing.

  • Coy little wink

    Loloololol...he is certainly not my cup of tea

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ???? following the team bus?! ??????

  • Topic Influencer

    Yes. Its a real true life account

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Shannon has that slow look to him.

  • Yoni7

    It's those glasses. LOL

  • Kimberly King

    She left her kids with her grandma, so she could ensure Doug wasn't cheating. Hands down the most thirstiest shit ever.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Well Shannon I am here for you !!! Just let me know when and where !!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree with you 100%...Scorpios have that beautiful confident energy on the outside but when the door locks the jealousy will show its head...they love to keep up appearances to others that their relationship is fine when in reality the other person is dying on the inside...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I am compatible with them also...highly...other then sex all they can do for my Capricorn azz is drive me crazy...too flirtatious and they loved to be admired like their Gods...

  • Christopher Gibson

    LOL

  • Seldomseen

    Sis, show us a pic of someone who is smedium ugly

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Just wished she would concentrate on the music and her dwindling current fanbase...everything is not for making pretty pics on IG what other substance does she have at this point???...I think she got with Shannon cause of the right reasons and he was wayyyy different than Rocko and the other one she was with who died...music then love...so you wont have to peddle your issues on reality shows...

  • Marlika

    I wish she would go somewhere! Her music doesn’t sell and she boring as phawk. That reality show is not going to revive her career.?????

  • Heat2Hot

    I know! Kind of like my daughter-in-law!!!!

  • Let them eat cake

    I guess if we're gonna be getting cheated on be rich and cheated on lmbo!

  • Gloria

    ??? I was joking bout that smedium ugly part lmao gotta be attracted to the guy for sure!

  • Keyshia Ray

    Yea she was talking about the video would make the song a hit. I was thinking she is delusional her music has not been good in a long while.

  • T Willis

    Lmfao omg I nearly choked ?

  • Kellsonthe1sand2s

    I love Monica, but after watching her on the show; I take her as a very boring person, somewhat like a grandmother. She can wear all the colorful wigs in the world, but damn she's boring.

  • T Willis

    Hello ??

  • T Willis

    ???????

  • Let them eat cake

    yep my cousin and his friends went to the DR recently and his friends have gfs and they were cheating like crazy smh

  • Yup, I said it

    They are jealous and cannot be single. What a double edge sword.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Hell my mom is a Scorpio and she's jealous of me and any of my friends.

  • Yup, I said it

    You better say it again for those in the back.

  • Let them eat cake

    Pastors say its one of the most traumatic situations someone can go through. Marriage is no joke and a lot of ppl treat it like it is.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    You can blame my mom for my having such a negative view of Scorpios sorry.

  • Seldomseen

    How many syllables sis?

  • Renee26

    Mo you will be ok... Breakups are never easy. Continue to stay classy and remain true to yourself. In the end it's their loss... Sex can be found anywhere but a good and committed woman isn't easy to find. ?

  • T Willis

    Not since 98

  • CardiB’sAbs

    My frat brothers told me how they get down when they get there. Women are cheap down there and buying coochie is the norm.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Straight up! Cry in comfort.

  • Phillybruh

    Luv Mo can't wait til she comes to philly in august with tasia

  • Renee26

    What a loser!! Lazy bastard

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I always wonder why black singers can’t date non-entertainers.

    I know they can better understand their lifestyle, but it still doesn’t make them good mates!

    Maybe, Monica can learn to love herself, and end her ride or die crusade with unavailable men!

    I hope she realizes, it is her sense of unworthiness that keeps dictating her choices and negative gravitational pull!

    Peace and Blessings for her wounded heart!

  • heavn_sent

    I remember she said when she walked to him at the altar, he whispered, "Are you my forever?" I thought that was so beautiful at the time.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Why is Shannon’s hand hot dog red though? Caught, red-handed huh Shannon? LOL

  • Renee26

    Amen

  • Yup, I said it

    Say that. immature men love to play games to feed their ego. The better you treat them the worst they treat you.

  • Renee26

    Better ask Wendy and Mary how that turns out.... Fugg dating down. You'll end up paying him after he dogs you out.

  • YellowSauce

    It doesn't .... Was a joke
    Go get a life sir and a sense of humor too
    ........ Good Bye

  • taneka simmons

    ???? well said. Its always in the eyes.

  • taneka simmons

    Baaaabbbbyyyy!!!!

  • YellowSauce

    You ever heard the term "acting light skinned " ? lol
    has nothing to do with your actual complexion LOL !!!

  • Renee26

    Not free powder..... DEAD

  • Renee26

    Yes

  • YellowSauce

    lol !!!

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    Mo, go hire kellzs, he can use the money, and write you a hit album.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    What is going on?! I'm going to disagree with you here...I can admit my flaws but hiding my feelings for any reason is incorrect

  • 11pink123

    He should’ve, but who’s suffering and who not?

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Folks are being hard on her... She's getting a divorce and getting beat up on ? Ending relationships aren't easy. Maybe she really lived him and maybe HE was an ass. Damn

  • Trace da Ace

    lmao!!! you wrong!!! lmao!!!

  • Phillybruh

    This is what we do these days, kick folks when they are down.

  • Applebootay

    Its only overbearing to the wrong man. the right man will come along and it'll be all good.

  • Dawnice Simmons

    Thot lmaooooo

  • Rere

    It sucks being disrespected etc.. but to be disrespected lied, cheated on and embarrassed in the public eye ...that's a different kind of hurt! Check on your strong friends!

  • YellowSauce

    no woman should "just stay" with a cheating man .....
    are you serious ? nvmd ...please don't answer that ..... thanks
    if a person chooses to stay that is one thing but NOT because its better for everyone else' convenience ................ If a person is cheating its better that they leave the household ......... what are they staying for .... They should not have been there in the first place

  • YellowSauce

    NONE of it ...........

  • JustMyThoughts

    Scrolling back up to look ?

  • Chipswife

    She needs a more established OLDER man! Not Erectile dysfunction old but older and mature. A GROWN Man! And he dont necessarily have to be black! One with just enough swagger to keep her interest. These young NBA, rappers ain't it! Gotta leave these street dudes and lil boys pretending to be men right where they at!

  • Applebootay

    You live and you learn....its not always a lack of self love when relationships dont work out. My ex-husband was a wolf in sheep's clothing. Meaning, I think some men really do think they're ready to settle when they marry until then they find out or it is discovered that they don't have the emotional intelligence among other things to sustain one....that's when the "sheep's" wool start to shed and the wolf rears it's ugly head. So women ?don't be so hard on yourselves for loving a man like this, FORGIVE YOURSELF, and learn that HIS ISSUES are HIS ISSUES......QUEENS ?You is Kind, You is Smart, You is Important ?

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    Why is Monica's skirt photoshopped in the back??....i digress: Monica is a good woman..she will not be single long. She's talented...southern...beautiful and financially independent... not to mention that she comes across as one of the most genuine people in the industry. If she stays single it will be by choice.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Sorry I will never speak on someone else relationship..certainly a marriage. https://media3.giphy.com/media/1vZfYD1L2lwhLC7I9t/giphy.gif

  • Coy little wink

    It should have been a statement...not a question ?

  • 11pink123

    She needs to go find a 75 year old. Cause the niggaz she’s attracted to are hustlers and are attracted to hustler type females like Draya. She trying to turn hustlers into grandpas. They dating her thinking she gone evolve in singing and all she really trying to do is be a house wife. She need an older man for that.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Sorry that’s been your experience.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Sad.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Idk who these folks have been dealing with but it’s obvious they have been hurt badly by scorpios. I know I’ve caused a fair share of folks pain but these opinions on the scorpios I know, including myself are wrong. We don’t do well with weak people. We are kind and giving to those we care about. But if we don’t fawk with you, it’s as if you don’t exist. And we could care less about appearances-we are brutally honest with ourselves and others.

  • ?Starring Ladii Jaye?

    I wouldn't go that far to say that. But Mo comes off like the traditional type and she is trying to mix old school with new school and that is where she is having the problem. She needs to find a man who's been there and done that..not a 75 year old..LOL! But a man that's well-versed and has the same values as her...and not try to put a circle in a square hole.

  • Logan Roberts

    Monica maybe you need to try being alone for awhile and focus on your kids. Men don't know what they want nowadays anyway. You are still young & cute, real love will eventually find you.

  • Bree

    You can not treat your man as your child. When he gets tired, he will leave the house. Men are to lead the house, not leave. And if my husband leaves our house, he's going to work. The woman was made to elevate the man to father and husband meaning add value to his life. Not control everything he says and do. The man presents his seed to our egg and together something beautiful is created through the grace of God. Marriage is work, teamwork! If you're hardly working, things eventually fall apart and there is no reward.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    And exactly it’s better for the convinces of the children that man or woman suck it up and think about the future. And to the folks who can we got the youth killling each other and the young girls on a stripper pole

  • 11pink123

    Well yeah. I guess you said it better. Lol

  • ?Starring Ladii Jaye?

    LOL!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    It is what is is...too me yall are still the more desirable sign in my Capricorn eyes....I cannot resist a Scorpio to save my life its like Im drawn to them...

  • Alextra Ballard

    I hate the demise of anybidy's relationship or marriage. I think we've all been through it at one point in our lives. It ain always easy but sometimes necessary,and yew don't owe anybidy an explanation. One thing I dew know,and that is,Shannon did not get married and just woke up one morning and decided he wanted to cheat on Mo. He prolly had been sampling Coota throughout their relationship.

  • Bree

    I don't think folks are being hard on her. People don't talk about certain situations because they do not want to reveal truth or their role in that situation, so they keep the image up for the world. If I'm not happy, I'm not staying. People say marriage is hard. Marriage is not hard, it's hard work. Being in a loveless marriage is hard. It's simply not worth it. Shannon deserves happiness too.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Goofy but I admit you did sound poetic. I’m over this pathetic patriarchal lie. For the last time, men don’t have seeds. They have sex cells just like women do. Tired of negroes not reading up on science.

  • Neva RuthLess

    “He don’t need to be black.” Say it again for the women in the back in the cheap seats.

  • The Real Anonymouse

    With 3 kids from two different men? No, I don’t think a lot of men are lining up for this. I don’t care how cute she is.

  • Bree

    Real love will find Monica, once Monica finds Monica.

  • Bonita

    Haaa! I'm a Cap too!

  • Bonita

    Wow!

  • Bree

    Some people are good people they just aren't good for you. You've got to find your tribe, there is where you'll thrive. Birds of a feather flock together.

  • The Real Anonymouse

    Who raised Monica?

  • Dowoop

    I wouldn't say either of them is suffering.

  • Bree

    So true. We don't prioritize. I pay attention to that alot. That's how I've made ae to make adjustments in my life. Some people are flaky. You meet them, marry them, and you realize the night you married the person you made a mistake. For some it is too late to walk away. I'm not drowning in any situation that is not conducive for me. My husband told me he admires that. Shannon deserves to be happy and although I don't know their situation, he deserves happiness. We always see one side because of the view. Flip it over.

  • Gowns. Beautiful Gowns

    her parents...

  • davine puddin

    Moe need a pastor or gospel singer. Who is fun and out going. But straight and not a thug. She also need to focus on gospel music. Peoplea taste in peoples singing voices change. At one time I liked Fiona Apple now when i hear her music she cant sing.

  • Bree

    I agree. Although Monica showed no emotion talking to Toya, she did show emotion in front of her mom and a complete stranger. Either their scene together was scripted or it speaks volumes about their "friendship".

  • Bree

    Her mother for the most part. She has a father and a step father.

  • Bonita

    Your affinity for Scorpios sounds like the problem I have with Libras. They are drawn to me like a damn magnet. And unfortunately, I have had amazing sexual chemistry with Libras like no other, and I can't stand it. I call 'em Libra the Liars. They lie about everything.

  • Bree

    Her step father is a pastor. She lives in Atlanta where there are many prominent leaders of the cloth.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Its like the best compatibility physically but emotionally long term a mess...Chile...I think our most compatible sign is Pisces...but they dont set that fire in us like a damn Scorpio smh...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    My brother is a Libra...hes a wanderer and has this "grass is greener" complex...they can cast a person or love aside like its nothing...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Pipe down...yes bad experiences but be happy that yall are the flirty, sexual, intoxicating beings yall are!!! Yall sexy MFs!!! LOL

  • Bree

    Fantasia married outside of the industry. Apart of me believes her marriage will stand the test of time. Any woman in the industry or not, really needs a man that will cover her. These people marry just because it's popular. That's why divorce is an epidemic.

  • Bree

    That's because she puts on a good show and nobody calls her out for it. Some people focus on being "politically correct", that's boring. I follow rules, not trends.

  • heavn_sent

    Makes sense.

  • Bree

    But Monica hasn't been anywhere. She gave up far too soon. Look at her career. She's been so focused on following the leader and people pleasing that she missed the mark. Her and Brandy both. And mind you, I'm a fan of both legends.

  • Bree

    That's a crazy question for him to ask. And I wonder if he spoke from a pure place. Once you ask a woman to marry you, and she says yes, why ask her is she your forever? First red flag. He should have walked away then. Any man that decides to marry needs confirmation from God, no one else. And if a woman isn't sure, she needs to run like hell.

  • heavn_sent

    LOL!!!!!! You just ruined that for me..Thanks!

  • more

    Sorry but i don't agree. Its sounds old school. Men don't lead women do. This is 2019 and men are falling behind us financially and education. I am not following behind a man unless he is makeing boss moves

  • more

    But women are lining up for men with multiple children how ironic

  • more

    I completely agree. My advice to her is to leave emotions at the door with men. A women's emotions are her downfull

  • more

    Did it ever occue to you that she might not be mature enough to seek a matured man out? She was with him for years and so i doubt Monica ss any brighter than he is

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Do me a favor. I've seen your font before...feel free to move beyond my words. From who you present yourself to be online. I don't care for the way you interact. So I don't wish to have a verbal sparring with you over my opinion. Thank You!

  • MNjumpoffacliff

    She tried even after being embarrassed.

  • free

    #dead. no, i'm serious. i'm really dead!

  • Elevated Soul

    I wish Monica well...She seems like a good woman but her choices in men are questionable....

    Shannon has been cheating on Monica for years.

  • https://play.nylaxy.com/twitch twitch.tv/Nylaxy

    Lol you ain't have to go in like that

  • Bree

    Lead meaning the husband is the head of the household. I let my husband lead our family, while I do what I do, and he is okay with that. We have a great partnership and it works for our family. I don't care too much for this old school, new school thing. I Iive my life off biblical principle and my personal relationship with God. My husband also has a personal relationship with God. Alot of people make boss moves. I make bosses!!

  • Bree

    ie... Future!

  • heavn_sent

    EXACTLY!!!!!!

  • Bree

    My apologies. I wasn't trying to. I always tell my husband to make sure you know what you're doing. If you have to question it, it's not God. There's nothing wrong with a second opinion, but first make sure you asked the right person. I have faith that we make better decisions when we've had time to not only explore options, but make sure to count the cost. Is it worth it? I've made several mistakes in my life but I've learned to seek God's guidance.

  • Bonita

    They sure can! They definitely have a wandering eye. I think they love the idea of being in love.

  • Bonita

    I know we're compatible with Pisces, but I have yet to be with one. They just seem very unstable to me. They're dreamers, and that doesn't work well with my planning nature.

  • Bree

    The team bus! That was really extreme. Oh my!

  • Bree

    If a man has everything going for himself, a great career with one of the best teams in the league, shooting with some greats, making a living, and taking care of his family, suddenly loses it all. What or who knocked him off his game?! Same with Bobbie Gibson. Neither of them are even benchwarmers.

  • T Young

    Gwen Stefani, Reese Witherspoon, kimora Lee Simmons, Heidi Klum, just a few women with multiple kids that found love again. It's not a lost cause or difficult at all.

  • Bree

    I love what you said. I pray for healthy marriages and families all the time. I've been telling my mom, you win some, you lose some, but you live to see another day.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    So right i dated a pisces back in the day...he always talked big but spent all day smoking weed...had to let that go got tired of trying to motivate him...

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    So destroy the whole family because someone had sex

  • Around the world

    Her song is currently #10 on the Billboard R&B charts. And for an independent Artist..that is huge. That being said, she doing what she loves, and the people that love her, are loving it.

  • Around the world

    She's not delusional at all. As
    Her song is currently #10 on the Billboard R&B charts. And for an independent Artist..that is huge. That being said, she doing what she loves, and the people that love her, are loving it.

  • Around the world

    She is focusing on her music. Her song is currently #10 on the Billboard R&B charts. And for an independent Artist..that is huge. And she just released her second single, (Me + you.)

  • Around the world

    Judging from your pic, you look unhappy ? So your response makes sense lol.

  • Around the world

    She has two songs out. Commitment that's at #10 on Billboard R&B, and (Me + You) that she just released.

  • Around the world

    Yes. Which is why she has a huge social media following. Her song Commitment being at #10 on the Billboard R&B charts (And for an independent artist, that is huge) sold out shows etc.

  • Around the world

    Only to you. Which is why she has a huge social media following. Her song Commitment being at #10 on the Billboard R&B charts (And for an independent artist, that is huge) sold out shows etc...

  • Around the world

    Her song Commitment is at #10 on the Billboard R&B charts (And for an independent artist, that is huge) and she just released another single called (Me + You)

  • Around the world

    Monica hasn't given up. Her song Commitment is at #10 on the Billboard R&B charts (And for an independent artist, that is huge.) And she just released a new song called (Me + You) And she's gathering up to release her new album and going out on tour.

  • Rayne

    You’re right hunny! And keep that attitude!

  • Around the world

    Exactly.

  • Keyshia Ray

    Yea ok lol

  • Around the world

    You're obviously not a fan, because if you were, you would know that she has a plethora of other things going on.
    And btw her current love song (Commitment) is at #10 on the Billboard R&B charts. And that is huge for an independent artist. That being said, she just released another song called (Me + You) check it out ?

  • Thanos of Titan

    Lmao You betta go awf!

  • Around the world

    Lol I mean, you're on the internet. A quick Google search will tell you that. And when your done with that, she released another song called (Me + You). Check it out ?

  • Keyshia Ray

    What are you related to her you taking this real personal girl kick rocks it is not that deep. I have my opinion you have yours whats your beef?

  • CardiB’sAbs

    It was four or five. I believe there was a LaQu in the name

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Yup

  • Bea Mack,Aka Steel Vagina

    Leading has nothing to do with finances but strength of character, vision, and the ability to give guidance to his spouse and kids.....We should be guided less by the carnal mind of the flesh and more by the spiritual eye of our spirit when it comes to marriage and child rearing, and by WE I mean YOU??

  • Around the world

    Lol Why are you being so defensive? I didn't damn or blast you. Did anything I say come off to harsh for you? And why do I have to be related to her to debunk your opinion on her being "delusional" about her music. I mean her single is sitting at #10 (independent and all),..so her hard work of "delusion" is paying off. ?

  • 100milesperhour

    lol

  • mona q

    I thought the same thing about the skirt! Panty lines maybe?

  • mona q

    Wow. You just said a mouthful??????

  • more

    DMX,Lil Wayne, 50 cent,

  • Blunted25

    I was just telling my homegirl this last night when she was whining and complaining about not being able to find "the one" in her choice of men i.e. rough necks. I told her its insanity to keep trying the same thing and expecting different results. Ball players and rappers have been notorious cheaters since like forever. She needs to find a square. It may not be what shes 100% attracted too but damn if he won't treat her like a queen.

  • WokeBlackMan

    Monica comes across as a cool auntie that you can trust with your Kids but don’t look forward to spending a wild weekend at the beach....in other words she comes across as a dead fish in the bed....real niqqas get bored with her. Fckk that! give me a Cardi B all day over Monica...a real slut in the bedroom that’s gon keep it spicy and interesting and keep me so satisfied I won’t have to chase other hoes

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Nobody checking for her outside of her area hon...IDC what the charts say...

  • Guess Who

    ......are you serious? Sold out shows? Where and how big are the venues?

    I have nothing against Monica but I just never read or hear anything about her unless it's tied to ATL.

  • Soon2BWife

    Ikr....I'm like dang. I am a minimalist so it wasn't even a lot. Bought everything new so the heavy things were delivered and set up already. I just wanted him to set up my two TVs most men love that anyway. Well, that's why 7 years later he us still at the same low to mid salary paying job. Little twerp!! ?

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    There's nothing questionable about black women choices in men. It's very clear. They love thugs, convicted felons, real niggas, and fucbois. All of thee above have a long history of not being good fathers and husbands. The statistics proves it. Black women are over 60% single parents with an average of two kids with little to no child support from the fathers. Courtesy of the men I just mentioned. Black women are over 80% unwed courtesy of the men I just mentioned. You see, it's very clear.

  • Soon2BWife

    ?? Come back, Free! I just got my CPR cert...omw!!!

  • Nakia Brown

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't Shannon leave his first baby mama to get with Monica?

  • jwoo250

    She took C-Murder from his baby mama and wrote a song about him. She also, still spends a lot of time with C-Murders children. She also, took on Rocko's oldest son like he was her own. She has a lot of soul ties with her ex's. I think she's still in love with C-Murder otherwise why would she be spending so much time with his 3 daughters all the time?

    Ain't no spouse going for no woman keeping in contact with all her ex's children. Not at all. You got to get rid of them soul ties Monica. I understand Rocko's son b/c he's the boys brother/ But all that other stuff. No Ma'am. C-Murder fixing to get out and she going right back how mcuh ya'll want to bet. Also, her brother is very close with C-Murder and apart of his label. Again that's another soul tie.

    Lets not forget she watched he ex commit suicide I think that messed her up a lot. I can't imagine witnessing that.

  • Around the world

    ????? Lol Yet you just said she should focus on her music, (Her song that's charting because people are requesting it) and then when I gave you facts on her doing so, your reply is "No one is checking for her." Learn how to balance your hate and contradiction sweetheart lol. A mess.

  • Around the world

    That's because you're not a fan. I follow her on social media, and she documents her shows, concerts, ect. So just because you don't hear about her, doesn't mean she isn't doing big things.
    Nonetheless, enjoy your day.

  • Guess Who

    I'm not a fan of many folks however I hear, read and see things about them often. *shrugs shoulders*

    You enjoy your day as well.

  • Renee26

    His loss

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    As I said before no one is checking for her music because her life has been a media circus...thats what happens when you become a fulltime IG model to support your expensive habits instead of focusing on music...no one thinks of her as a musician in the 30 + under crowd... Now about you the only thing messy is your ability to get blocked so fast...Bye Bye...

  • Around the world

    ????? lol I don't know what's more embarrassing. That rebuttal of contradiction, or your transparency of hate. Bless your heart lol.

  • No Love Lost

    ? Damn, you sound dumb as f/k. Just say you don't like her, and keep it moving.

  • Jesse

    Monica's good. Considering she came on the music scene in 95, and is still charting independently in 2019 at the age of 38, that's huge. And, considering today's climate regarding our R&B artist. All in all, Monica is doing her thing.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    But your on my comment... insulting me.... so how does that work??? You must be super mad and miserable to followup and call someone dumb...I guarantee Im smarter than you and ya kinfolk...but yet again you on my comment (like a fan)...

  • Let them eat cake

    infested vag

  • No Love Lost

    ? Save that tired rebuttal dumb dumb.