Why men will ALWAYS cheat (even if they love their partners)
A well-known author has written a book proving that men are pre-wired to cheat because they like sex — even though they love their wives or girlfriends.
Professor Eric Anderson’s book The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, and The Reality of Cheating, details a study that he conducted using 120 college students. Anderson found that cheating is the norm for men, not the exception.
In the study, Anderson found that 78% of the male participants cheated on their wives or girlfriends — even though they loved their partners and did not want to break up.
In an interview with The Huffington Post, Anderson states that “infidelity does not break marriages up; it is the unreasonable expectation that a marriage must restrict sex that breaks a marriage up.”
In other words, it’s not the cheating that breaks up marriages, it’s women’s unrealistic expectations that a man should have sex with only one woman.
In order to preserve human existence, man must be fruitful (highly productive) and sow the seeds of future generations. This can not be achieved if 90% of men are married monogamously to a single woman and each couple bears an average of 2.5 children.
If men were not more sexually productive, the human species would cease to exist due to the effects of disease, deaths, old age, etc. Not to mention the deformities from inbreeding (incest between blood relatives).
Jada Pinkett-Smith Retains Divorce Lawyer?
Powerhouse actors Will and Jada Smith are once again at the center of the divorce rumor mill.
According to the Huffington Post (via In Touch Weekly), Jada Pinkett-Smith has retained a divorce lawyer to handle her divorce.
The magazine reports that Jada Smith recently reached out to powerful celebrity divorce lawyer Laura Wasser, who has represented celebs such as Britney Spears, Kim Kardashian, and most recently, Vanessa Bryant (Kobe Bryant’s estranged wife).
A source tells In Touch that Smith has “finally begun to take steps to dissolve their marriage,” even reportedly turning down a role in Keanu Reeves directorial debut to spend time with her kids during this “difficult time.”
The magazine first reported that Will and Jada had separated in August after 13 years of marriage. The pair issued a statement in response to the allegations: “Although we are reluctant to respond to these types of press reports, the rumors circulating about our relationship are completely false. We are still together, and our marriage is intact.”
The star couple have two kids, Jaden and Willow — whose careers were reportedly at the root of the Smiths’ marital problems — and Will Smith has one son from a previous marriage. Source
I guess we won’t really know the truth until the divorce documents appear at the courthouse. Don’t hold your breath waiting.
Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union Cover Essence Magazine
Black Hollywood’s favorite couple Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union grace the cover of February 2012 issue of ESSENCE magazine. The NBA star met the sultry actress while he was still married to, Siohvaughn Funches. Gabby caught a lot of flack from NBA groupies and others who objected to her home wrecking. But the reality of the situation was that the love was gone in Funches and Wade’s marriage by the time Gabby worked her feminine wiles on him.
On the subject of marriage, Wade said:
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We’re not rushing it. Both of us have been married before, and we understand that if we choose to marry again, we want it to be right. We both took failing at marriage hard. The next time it’s gotta be forever…” — Dwyane Wade
Dwyane Wade’s 8 year marriage to his high school sweetheart Siohvaughn came to an end in 2010 and Gabrielle Union was married for 5 years to Jacksonville Jaguars running back, Chris Howard. Their marriage ended in April of 2006.
Read the full interview in next month’s Essence!
Cee Lo Green says ‘friend zone’ is a good thing because women need honesty from men
Silky singer Cee Lo Green, who fancies himself to be some sort of ladies man, says men shouldn’t be afraid to find themselves in the “friend zone” with women who they like.
In an interview with Q magazine, the 37-year-old “Lady Killer” said, “The friend zone. I’ve been there before, man. Well, being friends with a woman is as honest as you’ll ever be.”
Cee Lo, who divorced his wife in 2005, insisted that the “friend zone” is a good place to be, especially if you are trying to learn more about a woman.
“You can take advantage of that opportunity and get her to express herself about what her interests are, her do’s and don’ts and whether she’s involved with anyone else. That ought to really put things into perspective,” he explained.
He added that the “friend zone” is not the end of the road: “You can be completely candid as a friend so there are benefits to the friend zone and it’s not too late at all.”
Clearly, Cee Lo hasn’t a clue what the “friend zone” really means.
The honest truth is, the “friend zone” is where a woman quickly banishes a man whom she has no sexual interest in — not now or ever. If you find yourself in the friend zone, it means she thinks of you as a brother — not a lover. It is not a happy place to be, especially if you are really smitten by a cute female.
Sneak Peek: T.I. and Tiny: The Family Hustle, Episode 5 (video)
VH1 gives T.I. and Tiny fans a sneak peek into next week’s episode of their hit reality TV series, T.I. and Tiny: The Family Hustle.
T.I. and Tiny jet off to L.A. to promote T.I.’s new book, Power And Beauty. Tiny laments about their last trip to LA, which ended with their arrest. Her husband, T.I., replies, “Well, I mean it ended bad, but it started good.”
In addition to promoting his first book, T.I. drops by Big Boy’s neighborhood on Power 106 to give a radio interview. While there, Big Boy, who dropped 250 pounds after undergoing weight loss surgery years ago, collapses on the floor with seizure like activity.
Meanwhile, Tiny lunches with her girls and visits a plastic surgeon for a skin care consultation. Check out the video and don’t forget to tune into the episode on it’s special night and time, Sunday, January 1 at 7:30 p.m ET..
Beyonce Baby Bump Watch 2011
Just as we suspected: those pics of a bloated, baby whale Beyonce shopping at Bergdorf Goodman were not her. As you can see from the pics below of Bey shopping at Curve in NYC, her nose is not spread across her face, and she hasn’t picked up a pound anywhere other than her midsection.
In her shameless, never-ending campaign to stay relevant, Beyonce covers this month’s issue of Jones Magazine. Her baby bump is not visible in this cover shot, meaning she removed her prosthetic — or she knew she was going to be pregnant when these pics were taken. It’s interesting that she’s talking about motherhood when she isn’t even pregnant in these pics!
“I believe that parents prepare their kids for the moment that they’re on their own: at this point, I am taking everything my dad and my mother have taught me, and I’m able to do things my way,” she says.
The cover was shot on the terrace of the Maurice in Paris, France by photographer Greg Gex.
Editor of Magazine that called Rihanna a Ni**ab*tch Resigns
The editor-in-chief of Jackie magazine, which referred to troubled singer Rihanna as a “Niggabitch”, has stepped down.
Eva Hoeke cited the relentless attacks from Rihanna’s Stans on social media as the reason for her departure. She explained that she used the term “Niggabitch” to describe the ultra slutty personal style that was influenced by Rihanna herself. Hoeke points out that the term was imported from America where we in the black community routinely use “nigga” and “bitch” as terms of endearment.
But since when does a journalist (or blogger) let Stans influence what they write? The article obviously was not a personal attack on Rihanna. Oh, I forgot, Freedom of Speech is only upheld as a constitutional right here in America.
If Rihanna wants respect maybe she should start by respecting herself?
Eva writes:
Because of the enormous pressure from social media, I can promise improvement in terms of language used in future issues of Jackie.
Previously, I offered rectification. As I now come to the conclusion that rectification is not the right solution, I am departing.
“The term ‘nigga bitch” has come over from America and we have only this to describe this particular style of clothes that we can try to interpret.
“After eight years, with my heart and soul, I have worked for Jackie. I realize that these errors – although no malicious intent – is a reason to leave.”
Source: Snitch
