Video: DMX On Why Men Lie

Despite what you may think about you man or your rock solid marriage/relationship – your man lies to you. No man is an angel or God would have given him his wings. So be thankful (especially if you live in Atlanta) that you even have a man who walks through your door every night. The fact is there is one man for every 7 women in Atlanta and chances are your man is creeping with at least one of those women. Read on:

DMX explains the art of makin’ excuses in this video (as if you men didn’t already know all of these). Please listen to him ladies because he speaks the truth about lying. I spend a lot of time around men and I hear what they say about their other women and how they keep the wifey happy and clueless.

I was shocked when I attended Frank Ski‘s Wine Tasting party and all the men at the party approached me with warm hugs saying they loved my site! The MEN are all over my site. Apparently the word has gotten out that I’m revealing their secrets so they check the enemy out every morning to see what I’m saying! I feel so loved!

blackgyrl

Leave it up to you Sandra no one will be married…smh
shhhh

No one gives a damn about what DMX thinks or has to say. He’s so far down the pole of people worthy of listening too.
niastar

GIRL BYE!!!! Some man did you real wrong int he past huh? Your bitter azz.
SugaNSpice

Sandra-Honey we have all been hurt but babygirl you have got to get over it. Baggage isnt sexy on any woman. Find a way to let that mess out, build a bridge and get over it.
MZN

Sandra may have a point… I don’t doubt that at all. Most men, if not all, are like that. It’s always been like that especially in ancient times. Be happy he is coming through the door to you. It’s time for women to be more honest with themselves and know what’s going on. That is a hard and bitter pill to swallow. Just hope he is smutting off with these chicks and not really caring about what happens to these broads.
http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

Everyone lies all that time about a plethora of things. Not just relationships. Anyone who thinks they have a totally honest mate is fooling themselves.

Needless to say I won’t be taking tips from DMX and neither should anyone else. He is a crackhead for crying out loud.
kpakpando

is there any reason in particular you had to put Frank Ski’s name/event with this particular post?
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

@ kpak:

That was the event that I attended where men approached me and hugged me. What else was I supposed to say?

Some of you are so bitter is it any wonder that your men creeps with every available chick?
4evajulie

Yall need Jesus. If you lay down with dogs what do you expect.
J Gats Juice

“Be happy he’s coming home to me?” Uh maybe not…. Maybe he needs to be happy that I’m the one he’s coming home to…. I never doubt that a man lies, but I’m confident in myself to know that he has no reason to lie, creep or cheat on me
arsha

don’t get me wrong, i like your site, but honestly, no one cares about you, your family, your baggage or your biased opinion about irrelevant topics.

do us all a favor and grow up. thanks for listening.
ms.peaches

Well look who has arisen from the dead I honestly thought he was locked up again & is it me or do they not care about the fact that he is openly smokin & drankin in the damn studio!! WTF u can listen to X & tell he got issues & if that shit he said suppose to make us women feel better he needs to try again. I rather know the truth now then go around looking the fool like oh my man don’t cheat he good, etc, etc Hell no then when I catch his lying ass that makes it so much worse & harder for the next man!! A man is gonna do what they want regardless u can be freakin Halle Berry & u still get dogged!! NEXT
Lou_Brock

7 sistas for every brotha in ATL? Man… I don’t even need 7. Give me one good woman that can inspire me to even greater heights, and I’m on my way!
http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

I see you posted the video from the interview that he did with the Box here in Houston. DMX did an intersting interview and needless to say majority of the things that he said (the whole interview) was true. But it is a revoloving door…women lie to men as well as men lie to women. No relationship is perfect.

J Gats Juice…I co-sign your comment!!!
Ms.IT

I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me and I would have never thought he would. We have kids together that has never been without there dad which is why I choose to stay. But I let him know that I don’t trust him any farther than I can see him. I mean this is 10 years and I am very young (not even 25 yet), He is all I know. So what do you do stay or go. And he is still paying all the bills, I still get whatever I want. And the kids are always taken care of. HELP. My friends think that I should stay because he’s a great provider. But I can’t forgive. They say they are trying to get a man that do all the things he does. But I’m like Do you guys understand that he cheated on me.
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

Advice from a crack head with a messed up marriage and he beats the crap out of his wife…no thanks
Bsoul

Ms IT, that’s a decision that you and you alone are going to make. Either way, there will be consequences.

If you stay, you know the best thing you have out of him is a provider–no big deal considering he’ll still have to pay child support should you kick him to the curb. You’d also be worried about catching something from his nasty pee-pee. LoL

On the other hand, if he leaves, you won’t “get whatever you want” and somethings you don’t (disease[s], heartache and trap-door lying). He will still have to pay child support because those are his children too. If you decide to leave, hold your head up high and head back to school (if you don’t already have a degree) even if you have to do it part-time or at a vocational school. At least then, you’ll have some peace of mind.

Not all men/WOMEN cheat, but all of them have the POTENTIAL too. I will never say what a man (or woman) will or won’t do. But each person should be dealt with on their own merit (or lack thereof) and not by the last “dog” that did us wrong.
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

In my lifetime I have never seen the level of desperation among women that I see here in Atlanta. This is no lie: I have a friend who is an otherwise very intelligent woman. This friend married a man who is STILL living with his baby mama. Let me repeat, my friend married a man who still lives with his baby mama. She would rather marry this fool and believe his lies that he will eventually leave the baby mama, than to have no man at all.

The reason men tell lies is because women are so desperate to believe that he is not cheating that she will accept anything that sounds remotely true. And men know that.
Lou_Brock

@ Ms.IT:

I agree with Bsoul. You need to put yourself in a position to be self-sufficient. Because coming from a man…

Once he realizes that you are dependent on his money and you can’t or won’t leave… He could step it up to the next level, and disrespect you to your face. Come home with lipstick on the collar, smelling like perfume, etc. Why not? He’ll be thinking, ‘Where is she gonna find another nuh like me?’

So to counteract this possibility, you need to get in school like Bsoul said. If you need advice on financial aid or picking the right degree program, you can email me at: louchatman@inbox.com
blackgyrl

Now I do agree with u on your last comment Sandra women do seem to be desperate regarding these men i have several friends involved with men that cheat and mind u its no secret to none of them now,, that part I just dont get how can anyone put up with that KNOWINGLY????
aqtpie

If DMX don’t sit his high, extramarital affair having, outside of wife baby making a$$ down somewhere. Everyone knows that men and women have the potential to cheat but, we all don’t give into temptation.

I’m with J Gats Juice and I live in the A. My man better be thankful that his a$$ has me to come home too. If I found out he is cheating *which I seriously doubt, it’d be dumb why would he downgrade* but, if he was, “his a$$ would be out of the door so damn fast, he’d think I was tryna bust a cap in his a$$”. I’m talking one time and I’m done, the same way I’d be if a man hit me. Who knows maybe his a$$ is lying and it’s not that I am so desperate to believe what he is saying, it’s because he has NEVER given me a reason not to believe him. The minute I feel the need to snoop and check up on him, then I will more than likely end it. (sp)
Ms.IT

I am in school part time as well as I have a full time job.That’s why my kids are daddy’s kids because I see them only on weekends and in the morning. He gets them from daycare and feed them, and get them ready for bed. I am not depending on him money , because I do have my own. Also by me making more money than him I wouldn’t get that much child support.
truthhurts717

What’s crazy is there was a time that I honestly did think that all men were lying, trifling dogs but I’ve matured and I’ve left the thugs behind and nice, sweet and kind kind of man. Sorry but I would be absolutely shocked if I found out my man was cheating on me or even thinking of cheating on me. He is my best friend, I can honestly say that I trust him. I’m not a fool so I’m not saying that it’s impossible I’m just saying that there are still men out there that DON’T cheat and DON’T lie.

The same way it’s said that men lie and cheat is the same thing that could be said for women too.
ms.peaches

t amazes me that his wife is still with him I remember seeing her on an episode of Gotti’s way trying to tell Irv Gotti’s wife about relationships when she’s going through the same damn thing the only difference is Irv & deb are still married but seperated he lives elsewhere I mean why come home to your wife after you have layed up with groupies all day!! (yuck) & to MS.IT be stong girlfriend I have been down that road & when a man knows you are depending on him for this & that he will throw it in your face every chance he get. Start doing for self thats the only way you will know you don’t need him for anything!!! He can be a good father all day long that doesn’t mean you have to deal with the disrespect & dishonesty!!
Lou_Brock

@ Ms. IT:
I didn’t mean to mischaracterize your situation. But when I hear a woman talk about staying with a man because he is a great provider, I assumed he was providing the money. So you’re not unable to leave, you’re just not sure if you want to???

Well if you stay, then try this: (Again, this is coming from a man that has been the cheater and the cheated on)

Have a real conversation with him about his reason for cheating. But you have to try to be as non-judgemental as possible. Find out what was he searching for? Validation, excitement, satisfaction… what? If he is willing to open up and expose the reason for the cheating, then you have a reasonable shot to prevent a future mistake.
http://www.youtube.com/queencee1 babyny87

arsha Says:

don’t get me wrong, i like your site, but honestly, no one cares about you, your family, your baggage or your biased opinion about irrelevant topics.

do us all a favor and grow up. thanks for listening
Co-sign…I am wondering what man would date Sandra anyway…

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