Jennifer Hudson was so stressed out after the murder trial of her brother-in-law William Balfour that she called off her wedding to fiance David Otunga, again.

Balfour was convicted of murdering Hudson’s mother, brother and son by a Chicago jury in May.

According to an insider, “Jennifer started feeling like it just wasn’t right. So many bad things have happened since they got engaged in 2008 that have prevented them from finally getting married, and she was worried that she was just trying too hard to make something happen that wasn’t meant to be.”

Clearly Jen is past the Dopamine stage with Otunga. It seems that Jennifer is over the excitement and giddiness that often results in making very bad decisions.

Hopefully you young ladies will take note of the good decision making that occurs when you wait until the Dopamine highs fade away and your head clears.

Remember, LOVE is not a feeling! So don’t trust your feelings when it comes to planning weddings or other life changing events.


More from Sandrarose.com:

  • Jennifer Hudson Calls Off Engagement
  • Love vs. Dopamine (Lust for Love)
  • Medical Minute: Addictive Personalities
  • Jennifer Hudson Hospitalized for Lap-Band Complications?