Female impersonator Laverne Cox continues to promote the 3rd season of Orange is the New Black Netflix web series.
In his latest interview, the 31-year-old actor, whose real name is Roderick Laverne Cox, sympathized with heterosexual men who sleep with cross-dressers.
Cox said straight men who date cross-dressing celebrities or athletes should come forward and publicly profess their love for cross-dressers to remove the stigma that tranny lovers feel.
“Most men who are attracted to and date transgender women are probably stigmatized more than trans women are,” he said in an interview with SiriusXM Progress. “I think a man who is dating trans women, who is a celebrity, or famous or is an athlete or something, needs to come forward –- or a musician –- and needs to say, ‘I love transgender women and [they] deserve to be loved and I’m going to declare that publicly.’ I think those men need some sort of inspiration and hope, so they can live more authentically.”
Cox said he dates men who are “straight-identified” — a newspeak term that means down low men who are probably married with children.
“Gender is policed in such a way that it does not just affect transgender people,” he said. “It affects gay-identified men, straight-identified men. And straight-identified men [who are] deeply policed. As I date a lot of straight-identified men, I’ve seen them so deeply internalize these ideas very rigidly about what it means to be a man -– to be a straight man.”
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*goes back to finish working*
Nope.
If you are dating men who dress like women then you are gay. you need to embrace that and be open with it for the good of everybody.
Lavante if u don’t shut theeee hell up and go get amother wig to wear
Hold your breath and stop trying to make fetch happen. It’s not going to happen. It’s tabu; they’ll never do that, so whoever’s jank ur pleasuring i the wee hours of the morning, continue. But do not expect him to come forward to say anything.
Bish, whet? ?
HEY YA’LL!!!
MILLY!!!! LIL MALLY still baking???
for u both
Exactly those dudes are not hetero to begin with smh, wth.
Cross dressing athletes? Besides Jenner and Rodman? Do tell…
VANNNA MONTANNA,, it’s so good to see old fonts…
WTF was it talking about???
I come back to the same “sissy-gender” mess???
So now we’re changing what straight means too. This new world order is something else
I thought you wasn’t feelin Laverne Sandy. You sure are giving her a lot of shine.
I’d rather get stories on the adorable little one if we gotta have OITNB stories. Why it always gotta be about Laverne?
*
Had to look her up right quick. Samira Wiley my boo. Can we get a little something something on her?
Bird is the word!!! hey gurl
Sup (Bruh Man nod)
nuttin’ , jus chillin’ (lmao)
Dear Media, please stop interviewing him. We have heard enough to last us until the 4 season of OITNB is released.
+10
Hehehe
‘I love transgender women”
Multiple posts show they aint alone.LOL but really..if you wanna be seen as women stop othering yourselves? If you want me to think of you as you think of you…halp.
Signed -ally.
Let me guess: you never look at look at car accidents when you drive by?
It is released already. I’ve only watched TWO episodes of the 3rd season, so no spoilers, please.
What adorable little one? I don’t watch the show.
…but if you’re a “hetero” dating a “trans” are you still hetero???? they makin my head hurt
DUUUUUUHHHHHHHHH
prynn, when I use to read SANDRAROSE u are one of the ones that use to have me hollering….luv your sense of humor
Reverse Agenda Bird. Also *hugs*
I meant 4 *facepalm*… I wont spoil it for you but it is goood!
Hellur. I am friend to you. Hope you are wellZ. xoxox
So basically this ho is out there screwing people’s husbands and telling them to come out – ho sit down but not on your tucked pen*s…..
JL Hold meh….. I don’t know ya’ll no mo”
you said burl bye! ROFL!
“Lavante” ROFL!!!!
*snatches your other piece of Burger* cause a bish missed lunch
:wave:
ZETA!!!!!!!!!!! *passes out underneath pew* ;HUG:!!!
Sure, but if I saw the same accident everyday for a month I like to think I’d be over it and would pass by after the 10th time. I just got this month’s issue of Essence with the ladies on it and I swear for goodness I skipped right over Laverne even though she was sitting in the middle/front. I’m tired of her.
‘I love transgender women and [they] deserve to be loved and I’m going to declare that publicly
___________________________
This sounds so stupid, when that last time you heard a famous/non-famous come out proclaiming they love born women???
that’s what I got out of it also…
Laverne
bruh…
Come here suga. Glad to see you . Muah
Cox said straight men who date cross-dressing celebrities or athletes should come forward and publicly profess their love for cross-dressers to remove the stigma that tranny lovers feel.
^^^^
Mister Cee HAS already said he appreciates the strong jaw of a shim than the jaw of his wife.
Nigga lost his job behind it.
What else do you damn WANT Roderick? Damn.
rofl!!!!
They said what they said Nann!!! *hug* And yeah bc Trans women *think* they are women. So why wouldnt the men think they are hetero. LOL nevermind that they hide these relationships SO HARDT just go with it.
My God I hope you’re not referring that kid Riley Curry.
Nancy Drew aka Whig, bout time. Were you on strike? See it didn’t last long.
hey Z4L
Careful. That’s not resprctful. Saying Bruh *rolles eyes because that was said to be smeart from the coments yesterday* Hey Waste!
Nope.
I like how you reclaimed ya name.. <3 <3 <3
season 6
*goes to get a ursher to git u from off the damn flo, because I don’t want to get my dress dirty*
I MISS U ALSO BOO *blog thug tears*
You done watched the entire season. I decided to space it out.
Buried the lead didnt they..
Damn I thought the new season just started June 11
A dude who hunches ANYTHING with a penis is GAY! FOH with all these new names.
First everything is trans. Now shyt got to be whatever “Identified” too.
This can’t be life…..
“I think a man who is dating trans women, who is a celebrity, or famous or is an athlete or something, needs to come forward –- or a musician –- and needs to say, ‘I love transgender women and [they] deserve to be loved and I’m going to declare that publicly.’ I think those men need some sort of inspiration and hope, so they can live more authentically.”
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Girl bye! First of all, you ding dang transgender women are too confusing. Some of you got peens and some of you don’t. Why yall wearing the same label is beyond me. Any man that is dating peen slanging tranny women is NOT heterosexual. They gay. I for one ain’t stoppin em from coming out as gay.
IMO If you are a man, who likes to put on a dress and a beat face, your gay. If another man, likes to date men who wear dresses, that man is also gay. Period. If you are a married man, and sleeping with men, your gay and dirty.
I am trying to read this, but Eddie “longstroke” in that Glamour Shot is upsetting me and my blog spirit (lmbao)
Nope. Samira Wiley. I love me some her. She is so teeny tiny.
Yes, I’m a binge watcher… watched the whole new season by Saturday!!
I did… *kona*
Cox said straight men who date cross-dressing celebrities or athletes should come forward and publicly profess their love for cross-dressers to remove the stigma that tranny lovers feel.
^^^^^
Hank Baskett already said he likes dack in his face.
Foh. About your damn stigma.
This nigga told AMERICA he likes dack in his face. Don’t you think his stigma trumps yourn?
Selfish!
Damn so I have to out myself to get a nod? OLE SOMETIMEY ASS.
Serious question: why are they being called women? They are men. WHat makes them a woman?
*runs in stepping on folks footz, I don’t know*
WASTIN!!!!!!!!
I am so over this broad!
I love transfat
KEYA, how r u and JUJU,,, I got to search for ya’ll nah
HEY ZETA!!!!! He’s still baking, but I think he’ll come before the 22nd. How’s MrZ and the handsome Z20?
Dub
She trying to get that niggah getting that boosay to claim her in public!
I wonder who it is though ..lolol!
Nick Cannon
Hank Baskett
Eddie Murphy
LMAO. And his resting bitch face in that pic is priceless.
This grown man has grown man parts and still wants to be called a woman. Good day sir.
Hi. Tis BizzleFaShizzle. You used to be my nizzle. Then the platform changed and everythang seems pretty lame but you know… Hi.
Maybe he/she was coming for Eddie?
DAMN I MISSED U!!! *BIG HUG*
+100
Just basically said the same thing. FOH. All these names don’t mean shyt. It’s the same as it’s always been.
Ok…THIS again? I am tired of Rowdy Roddy Cox and his bs. He is a confused individual.
We are good. Miss thing is cutting teeth and standing up. Growing too fast for me!
Hmmm font some more, I’m friend of all. : )
She better sat down before Eddie wife Jahnee Gill sissy claw her azz!
“ROWDY RODDY COXX” that would make a cool porn name
Hey my luv!!!
I LOVE CRUSHED ICE
Jahnee already putting up with that white girl Eddie got who drink all the damn coffee.
Lost and turned out.
Exactly, lmbo!! He/she ain’t ready!!
Hey!
awww!!!!! she ain’t getting out the way for the next one is she?? *like them old folks say*
Hey Zeta! How are you?
You pregnint? Or got PICA?? Must be need Med Minutes. Sandra got chu.
Oh stfu already. He act like he is the face of the trans movement. Sat down. Btw your parents set your ass all the way up with that middle name.
Oh HELL NO!!! I made sure of that. no more from me. I am closed for business. lol
doing great, working hard, and hoping MR Z gift gets here today, how r u and the DRAGON FAM???
It’s OTB!
girl no! I tried to hang the first day, but couldn’t hang with the “it’s some comments up there” and “now it’s come comments down yonder” and “somebody talking to you in a balloon” LOL! I had to back away and lurk for a while. I did come in every now and again (and even spoke-ded to you a coupla times
) 
What kind of delusional shyt is this ….
Not pregnint #toofunny I just love crusheded ice
Iz been waiting for you!
Hey boo hey!
I’m glad you made it!
How them babies?
Big one out the HS now?
Is dis yew?
Lmao!!!
Chile but you tucking ya balls doe …. chile
Dang. I mean HOORAY. Its too hot to be pregnint.
if you “woman” got a ‘kickstand’ that’s a boy Damon!!!
And I know I’m viewed as disrespectful which idgaf but he is a boy Damon. Will not address you as she ah well
eat up hun, you been working too hard to be missing meals
I keep telling y’all these straight people keep having all these gay/trans babies. BUT YALL DONT HEAR ME.
Also hi, Miss NewYawka. *Kissy face*
LMBO, I figured, but I wanted you know I wanted her to tease me.
you is kind (and prissy) LOL!!!
LMAO !!!!
We are all well. About to go on vacation and I already want a vacation from this one ?
Leave Hank I bust when I feel a d!ck Baskett alone. Lmao
Hey bew <3
I sure do stigmatize men who date SHIMs. Why do I want to date that? IF he wants a TG/TS, fine. But don’t try to come back and date women who are genetically women. Stay over there, with them.
Very confused and inarticulate.
Jenie, hey sweetie, girl I can’t work and lurk like I use too, bout time I get hrough posting 50-11 more comments done popped up
Olivia. Lost and Turned Out???
I just don’t understand how any one would fix their mouth to call a man that dates trannies, down low individuals, or any man that fancies twigs and berries hetero or straight they are not..it’s just another lie they tell themselves
Hey Zeta!
lolol
Chile her and Aroth the same person.
The truth matters no more here
I’m sick of Laverne!
YESSS!!! I was going to type “RBF” (lmao)
Might I add that HE looks very masculine in that pic despite the breasts.
When I seen that I Sometimey I KNEEEEE it was you. Runs and jumps in your arms.
The anus (azz) is not a vagina, neither is a sliced penis tucked into the groin area. That is all I have for this post.
You should see his ankles. Bishes black as the damn night
Dont troll me Keya, imma attempt to answer your serious question tho..in their language. Ahem: They think in their heart?soul?mind? that they are women/girls or the less often discussed boys/men(no one gets mad at Transmen btw..)..usually they havent arrived to this late in life, just accepted and chose to live it later in life. But as we grow more tolerant as people and *allow */*encourage* people to “self identify” , this is what we will see as far as the gender identity. Its essentially the same as checking your race…not very arbitray if you ask me, but deeply, deeply personal. That is just my attempt to understand from how they define it.
It’s a boy pusscee. A bleached male anus.
Hello Zeta nice to see your font been lurking forever and have followed you and your story..hope all is well with you and btw I think you are hysterical
I saw…and I
I said around Father’s Day for u… everybody is fine…just getting tired of all these damn folks milling around down here… girl my PTSD, and OCD on one u here me, getting ready to go home in a few
They’re not straight Laverne. They’re downlow “gay”.
Tis meh.

Fugg a hug. ?
now hold on one cottenpickin minute! *eyes start to moisten* who dis “Tangled” is? *lip quiver* …is dis one of my fav sassy moufed chirrens? *gets ready to tear up face real bad like they used to do on the ‘move that bus’ here’s your new home show*
makidada!!!!
bawhahahahahahah rofl lol
thanxs lady… BUT I give God the Glory and your pic is “beautimus”, laughter is good for the soul
I can’t keep up, sorry. It tew murch. OUT DAMN ORDER
Thanks. No, I not trolling anyone. I was seriously asking. But my thing is that, what is the difference in a woman brain and a male brain? Or heart? So, they feel like a woman? And exactly what does “feeling like a woman” mean? Do you see what I am trying to say?
How is you and yourn?
girl, u giving me First Lady teas in that pic. (pretty)
Tangled….. Glad to see you made if from the Garden to Jungle.
Put this *kiss somewhere for me…
I am tired of this nasty big mouth (s)him. He is just a f**k boy that pretends to be a female.
a re-purposed starfish? ROFL!!!
First it says hetero men who dates “transgender” which is an oxymoron and then the article says hetero men who date cross dressers….which is more weird….you can’t use both these words interchangeably they have two very different meanings. …. Just stick with one
From Laverne imma just say THANKS for using a (somewhat deragotory) term normally reserved for women. She on her way nii!!! Progress.. unwittingly, but still.
He is 31? We went to school together, and I am 40. He was a grade or 2 ahead of me.
Please break down the difference for us
girl, nawl… I remember when she left the first time, I was about to shake the “puter” so glad its AROTH, because u two 2-gether….PRICELESS
Laverne looks manly ….. Like she would take that straight identified man and make him her bitch! ??? I can’t see Laverne with big man hands And feet ever being , dainty, submissive, or lady like …… He/she still looks like a man with boobs and that dresses like a woman……
alright now Lurk… you was just a couple weeks ago bout to go into witness protection ’cause a lurker sent you an ‘item for inspection’ ROFL!!!! don’t be tempting them now that you out here in general population HAHAHAHAHAA!!!
Soooo….if they still have man parts, do they still pee standing up or they sit down, and it touches the water?
Look Noxzema Jackson…imma need u and ur new friend P**** Willow Jenner to understand that its more to being a female than dressing up and make-up. You and him need to spend some of those big bucks hollywood is paying youS and find a doctor that can make u fake bitches bleed for seven days…then we can talk. The nerve
She better GEAUX … literally
I’m good.
The Timez are good. That little one spending up all my damn money, if it ain’t shorts its sneakers,if it ain’t sneakers its drawz and always food
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
I’m only on the second episode of the third season dang lol. I gotta watch something til the real comes back on.
I had a neighbor who was a cross dresser. He’d go out on weekends at night with his pumps on and a bit of makeup. He wasn’t hard core. Just pumps, maybe a skirt and some lipstick. During the week he was a hard core man. He was not gay. Just a cross dresser.
Hey boo how u?
Hey nancy
Is it me or is this site on crack? A bunch of posts just disappeared on my screen. WTF is going on?
Girl I’m sick of this mess hey jenie
is you anemic girl? (no shade… been there, done that) save your teef and get you some iron… be well.
OTBEEE!!! iz it u fo’ real??? now I feel at home seeing more of u all now… still miss Taken’s recaps, and even MAN, DTS, and others I guess they said FOH 15 with this new-stuff
Exactly…..
See this right here. In my head, if your a man putting on makeup and skirts, your gay. How are you not gay? What straight man wants to put on make up and womens clothes?
Tell More, scoots up next to you.
He. The proper pronoun is he.
Lmfao good question. All I know is if they “feel/identify” as a bish they wanna be addressed as one. No siree man Jim Bob.
I am so confused, I am going back to work on something easier, my taxes…
GENDER IS NOT A CHOICE WE CAN MAKE RODERICK! You either are or you aren’t. PERIOD, no matter how you try and build a bear your body. Gender is a matter of BIOLOGY. I am not a woman because I FEEL like one, I’m a woman because of the ovaries, fallopian tubes, uterus, and vagina I was born with! When I get my period I FEEL like “Damn you uterus! Why are you punishing me for not being pregnant? Chill, damn it!” Until you’ve bled a week in a woman’s shoes all the feelings in the world don’t matter homie. YOU ARE A MAN RODERICK.
My buddy used to like it too. I been meaning to ask her if she still eats cups of ice. She was anemic too. I didn’t know it was related.
Lavante ???
Granny Dragon going??? I’m looking for a quick getaway for Labor Day weekend/my birthday weekend also
I used to have a transgender hairstylist & I used to wonder the same thing. ?
Your gravatar picture reminds me Shim from NC. He was the biggest lady man I ever seen this was back in…well before 90’s
Every last word of this.
Hey Key and JuJu
SUMMER, SUMMER, SUMMER TIME
HEY DARLING, How r u???
ION know but if I was a man..and I stuck my dangle in a hollowed out dyck hole…I would be confused too…
We like peas and carrots?
IKR we was in Honors Unit before. KONA
Yup, the whole squad. Joy <—– that is sarcasm. I hate going to Orlando.
My neighbor. Bruce Jenner. They straight. I don’t have a full grasp myself of what transgender is. I used to think it meant you got the peen cut off, but it seem to mean any and everything. I don’t get that one.
HarlemShake
Hey Babes!!!
Correct
No no im not saying you are trolling..read the comments for clue cause my font aint ebonic enough for you to know its meh *sigh* LOL
Umm there are some differences in the gender’s brains..its things like how we develop motor skills and language..until puberty girls beat boys. And etc. Really too many to list off top. But they are there..if we could just imagine ourselves different for a sec..I know thats hard for ppl tho.
What I think Trans ppl *feel* I think this cause they say…NO, I CANNOT POSSIBLY KNOW FOR SURE AS I AM WOMAN BY BRAIN HEAR ME ROAR..but I just take them at the word cause one all their stories develop similarily and two, if it were me I would want some support. People dont exist in vacuums. Feeling like a woman is as simple as it sounds for me…
*crying
Cause you said we may or may not have been lumped in with SpEds.
Does this mean we eat lunch early, too?
Straight man that date transgender/build-a-bitch “women” = gay.
WtF is this world coming to? I can accept homosexuality – do you, but men that are down low with a wife/girl and a whole family at home are disgusting. I don’t even like to think of the mutilation I WOULD do if I found out some sh!t like this. #phuckinYUCK
You dont have the answer sway! How does a straight man sleeps with a used to be man and still consider himself straight? Stop sirgirlmistermaam
Exactly. Because to me, if your a straight man, you would not want to dress up and put on make up and all of that. And “feeling like a woman” does not a woman make. ANd I did think Bruce was kind of straight until he got some boobs. How you go get boobs and still wanna date women?! Nooooo straight woman is gonna date you now fool.
Hey Z4L!!!
im’a say ‘yes’ (so maybe “we” won’t have to steal other folks desserts and such)
Hey Caramel – My brother met this girl and she she met dated a guy that usta to be gay, by brother said to her…You ARE SUPA bad, but my dyck can’t comprehend. paid the check and left the restaurant.
+1
Okay!
chicken and rice
*damn now I want some baked chicken/rice*
If nothing else, this “trans” movement has made me have some rather uncomfortable conversations with my youngest.
Try explaining to a 9 year old why the “lady” behind the register has a voice deeper, more stubble and taller and more muscular than her daddy.
We talked about that shyt for 3 WHOLE DAYS. And she still ain’t got all the answers cause I ain’t got ’em!
Now every time she hears my keys, she wants to know if I’m going to the Circle K and can she go!
He needs to contact Janet J asap. Her her is beautiful!
Question for the born ladies on the blog: If your man told you he liked to wear your clothes, strech out your shoes and put on your mac lip stick, would you still date him? Marry him?
Nope! I’m out
I’ve been meaning to ask you, was it YOU who posted a long long time ago that some girl tried to ‘offer’ her special needs sister to your brother, and your brother was like ‘I may be a ho’ but yall goin to hell for this and I don’t want no parts of it’ …was that you? that was one of thee funniest things I ever read, anywhere.
Hey JustLookin!! Rotflmao – that was Very PC of your brother. It would’ve eff’d me up lol.
I don’t get how women don’t see that. ..heck no
I swear yall don’t forget shyt!!! HAHAHAHA!
Nobody told him to leave all that goodness unattended in the community fridge!
LOL! Luckily for Bruce, he got money. You know that he will be getting dates.
WUT!!!! I been reading and if u and “donkey kong” don’t get somewhere and sat down.. LMBAO
Why? Because you would feel like he is gay?
MY MARINE JUST TEXT ME AND STATED THAT HE WILL BE GRADUATING 2ND IN HIS BATALLION!! WOOHOO!!
Now to get the full gist of this you have to see his battalion.. basically he and about 4 other looks like a few chocolate chips in a vanilla cookie. AND he was Squad Leader of which there were no Blecks…He came out 2nd close race too other guy beat him out by a few points.
Only because of the coins. Let him been a broke man doing this. It would be over for him.
Congrats to your son.
Ruby Rose says she’s TRANSFLUID ..I’m done.
WHy?
I usually do a split screen while I am working. That is the only way I was able to get through it as quickly as I did.
See….. WTF this mean?
But she a cutie though. Glad they added her to OITNB!
LOL BLOOP!!!!!!
ROFL! Gurl Im exhausted from this man…smh.. How yo boo?
Oooooohhhhh Sh!t I burst out a real loud country laugh when I read this!!???
Me and that “it” would have to fight if he tricked me like that….. Damn – gay by default! Men, yall have a lot to swerve nowadays
I like manly men & that would make me view him different. He could be my buddy but not man.
ok Roses, trolls, imps, and thorns…. have a great evening, hell I can’t keep up at work with these comments (lol) will try when I get home to read what I missed
Thanks summer! I am very proud!
congrats Son (and proud Mom)!!!
Wear my clothes, stretch out my shoes, use my products? Nah, he would have to go. I’ve explained how I feel about my closet and the things in it, NO ONE CAN WEAR MY STUFF ?
That nigga need to replace my damn shoes, my damn MAC lip glass and get the fugg out.
Mutha f’in dead. And WTF is used to be gay?! Man please.
Niece asked me on Monday night why is Bruce a she. I prayed for two seconds before I answered. Well hun some people are not happy with themselves so they change. She says but you always taught me to love me for what GOD has given me. Does he not love GOD? I just said you are smarter than most hun. Rolled up a fat one after that convo. She was straight up perplexed.
Thanks Nancy! He is such a strong young man!
YOU SAID FOLKS BORN FEMALE. It’s some shims here?
…
Me too lol. Now it isn’t male or female genders. It is gay identified, or straight identified? Oh, I forgot, gender is different than sexual attraction…This is toooo much.
*giggles… real hard* …sorry Lurk… you say she already a handful and now you got to try to explain THAT to HER, of all people! ROFL,
It’s not a turn on. If I wanted a women I’d be a lesbian. I’d get a big butch women. It’s not for me ..
<—This is his battalion. and the whole left side was his section where he was Squad Leader…okay I realize its a small pic but you can't miss the only brown boy on that side LOL
*Dead*
Go home
Lol. I’m gonna definitely watch some this weekend. I hope its not really as bad as yall say.
Hell to the NO! Me and his ass would fight for tricking me and stretching out my stuff. The harder question for me is, Lord forbid, what if one of my four boys were gay???? I would still love my child but ain’t no punk shit in my house or face…
I don’t know. But to be sure everyone knew who I was speaking to, I said that.
YOOOOOO. I’m done.
It’s not quite 5
Real talk I mean they are just trying to blur the lines for these fools who are cheating and those who have issues with identifying as gay. Smh
When Bey came into wasteland!
Heterosexual men do not date men of any form and by that I mean:Men that look like men or men that dress and think they’re women…Too many times gays try to re-write the rules and that is indeed where they need to be checked….
As a young woman myself,I can’t begin to understand women that see a gay man as a close friend….While I don’t hate them by any means,I would never allow one to be in my close circle of friends.
No damn boys dressed as girls need to answer! STFU Holiday Heart. She won’t talking to you! ?
Laverne was calling out some folks who are dating transgenders lol. Come forth out of the shadows and announce yourselves…lol.
Get your popcorn ready! Lol! No it isn’t that bad, I don’t want to say too much because I promised no spoilers.
Shamefully yeah, I don’t know where he meets these chics. He be all all the place…He travels often, single. He attracts all kinds of freaks.
yep, it’s been mannie mannie years now, so I won’t attempt to explain the craving/connection, but once my gyn put me on iron, I have NOT craved the crush.
I think Joc is pretty in that pic.
My husband and daughters were having the trans conversation and they were all “you have to accept people for what they are.” He said “I do, I accept people as God made them and God did not make Bruce Jenner a woman.” They went back and forth, my husband is NOT with it and refuses to say being transgender is normal. He said he won’t disrespect anyone regardless but he’s not cosigning that.
Hey Vanna!

Lauren let me join you on the way to the Pearlie Gates KDub slaughtered me too?
She stood there for a minute then went back to the car with her sister. When I saw the look on her face, I told the MistHer to give me another 3pack of Vanilla Dutches. I knew I was going to need all of em.
This is awesome!!!!
Hey boo. I can’t keep up either. If a lurker replies to me in shade I will never see it because I’m not doing all this scroll up scroll down chit. I barely reply back in the post I’m in lmao
Lo siento?
*logs back in real quick*
GO WUT 20!!! Z20 getting ready for the soldier of the month board for August #PROUDMOMS, so proud of our boys who both have been gone just 1 yr, and when u go to see him later when he get to Japan and your azz run across some “GODZILLA DYKE” ova there… ROFL
Bye Boi! Only SHe knows what SHe is talking about!!!!
I want to hear from the women that found out their dude like the Bussy – what were the signs and symptoms? Sharing is caring
You so a great auntie, these poor children of ours. HUGS
Or reverse shims? Wait…what do you call the women that go Chaz Bono?
Sup zeta baby!! ?????
I can not. Get out. Isnt it time for you to leave work?
GET OUT!!!!!!!
*bats lashes*
Ha!
yes girl! you are truly blessed and favored to have reared up such a good kid/young man. *gets teary* Lord we thank ya!
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I wonder if this topic will become a subject in schools. Idk..
*give u one of my extra lace handkerchiefs, that smell like peppermint/juicyfruit gum*
It is truly a blessing to raise strong, black, men in this day and time
and THAT’S what we don’t wanna have to tell YOU bout tempting these ‘lurkers with access’ with your tantalizing e-talk… Capisce? LOL!!!
That is the real chick with a dyck MVP.?
Chick with A Dyck
That’s great your husband has this kind of dialog with them at a young age..I miss that with mines they are a grown man and woman now but back in the day we certainly would have had a sit down pow WOW about this…
That is the real chick with a dyck MVP.?
Chick with A Dyck
Smh….
Lol….
I read closeT space, LOL!
*gets misty all over again*
well now don’t YOU start Zeta! *blows nose real loud and unladylike in your hanky and hands it back*
I can’t get past “born ladies” …Keya, it might be time for you to logout! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAAAAA!!!!
Vanna vanna bo banna!!! ???
HAHAHAHAHHAAA!!!! CRINE.
yeen gotta single out holiday hort though :fuss: ROFL!!
hahahahahahahahahhaaaa!!!!!!
I’m tired of this shyt. God or whatever science you believe in made male and female, egg and sperm. Ain’t no trans nothing. That’s that manmade bullshyt cuz mentally ill folks don’t want to deal with their issues, don’t want to take meds to balance their brain chemicals…and in the case of children they are eating unhealthy foods filled with chemicals and toxins that affect them at the cellular level thus impacting brain function and hormones, living in toxic environments/family situations, etc.
Roderick needs to get on meds, go to therapy and stfu. Damn, enough already! ?
Nope. And there are men who try to tell you they are straight. No sir, you are not!
it’s probably inevitable… I mean, we didn’t initially think that the ‘heather has two mommies’ discussion would ever be discussed in schools, but it’s out there. and now school boards in this area are being required to provide bathrooms that can be used by transgendered students, so, yeah, maybe making it a ‘subject’ will alleviate some of the awkwardness that parents feel having to try to explain something they themselves don’t fully understand. (of course if making it a ‘subject’ becomes/is viewed as an opportunity to force an agenda, then some hell is gonna break loose, but even that will force some discussion) I don’t know… my head hurts
I shall use the acronym C-WAD then.
Some of these old/vintage weeds sure are territorial.. and bitter. Smh
I’m so confused with this lingo…. I’m married with 2 kids… Help what am I?! Lol
I’m soooo confused!! I’m a 32 year old black woman married to a black man with two kids…help what am I?!
They need to “declare”? Trans are guilty pleasures to men.. and it will be this way for a long time until they just start outing people.
Exactly, they are gay, no straight man will do that!
Sandra, can you make this a post…how folks is tired of Roderick and his musty ass balls
O to dah Bizzle?!? That’s you?!? ???
Man please…a man knowingly and willingly sleeps with a transgender (man turned woman) is GAY!! FOH
It’s funny to me that the same people who didn’t want to be forced to come out are trying to force others now to come out. I see death in some of these people’s future ijs..they doing too much. They had better be more concerned with the Republican taking office cause I see some reverse in some of these “freedoms”.
I got it too. Guess where it is now? Talk about overkill.
U talkin bout Gucci?
Oh ok my bad I forgot this dude’s first name..truth is I never remembered it sooo..
SOUND THINKING!!!!
LEVANTE. Ooo Lawd. Ppl in this restaurant looking at me like at who the batsh– crazy woman.
So we are redefining everything I see. Let’s see where this goes…..straight to that fiery pit, smh.
Listen Rodney, ain’t no man gone present YOU to his parents,friends,ex’s,or his CHILLUN no matter what he tells you
And if he does I’ll show you a MAN that has so much turmoil in his life in ALL those relationships.I can assure you whatever hes getting from yalls mess ain’t worth the tragedies and loses he’s enduring no doubt seen and unseen.FOH!
Wait..,i can comment on sandrarose??? Finally?
Yes ma’am,this is NOT a drill,lol!
All you third hating on this shi’m because he doing him and broke and lonely in helpless marriages. And don’t get me wrong I don’t **** with gran
Is 31 Shim’s Hollywood age? ??
How in the world are you a heterosexual man when you sleep with a man who had his thing removed? Isn’t that gay?
Can we get a medical minute on gender reassignment surgery Sandra? I have questions… Do they get the same feeling that we do when a penis is inserted? How do they pee? Do they get “moist”? Do they still ejaculate sperm? Sooooo many questions
LOL @ twigs and berries.
Mr. Cox is clearly confused. A heterosexual male would never date a man in a dress.
My sentiments exactly! Then he said he dates lots of “straight identified men”. My thing is why be with someone who can be all over you behind closed doors but would denounce you to the depths of hell publicly? I’d be embarrassed to even publicize some crap like that!
Billy goat gruff looking sommabitch…..
You on that Eddie King Jr BS huh. Everyone knows that you’re one of the OG members of the group.. and don’t know how to act.
Excuse me?
That’s not called a date if we never seen any of your so called straight men company with you . That’s a sneek and fawk lol
Listen gatdamnit! If you like dic, you gay. If you like anyone who has or has had a dic attached to them, you gay.
Funny you don’t hear Black women groups griping about vocalizing straight issues. .. or hep c.. or daycareitis..
Kiss. Hey boo hey
In other words he’s a male whore.
She looks like a crack baby.
BS
Nothing makes them women. I don’t know any lesbians who are attracted to a Shim.
He’s not taking Estrogen.
I didnt think he was 31. He looks older.
Hey whitty how r u
I’m good…too much work, not enough play! Come upstairs.
In those days everybody knew what a drag queen was. Drag queens were MEN. Now all drag queens are referred to as transgenders. If Holiday Heart was made today, he would be a transgender and they would call him a woman.
Is the confusion coming from those on the outside looking in or within the LGBTQ community? It seems that there is no clear distinction these days.
This person is trying so hard to equate gay men to straight men. That if a straight man dates another man who is dressed as a woman, or is a transgender woman, or is a transsexual woman, that somehow he is straight or the new normal for straight men. And calling him gay is bullying or policing sexuality.
I know where this is going. Cox will be advocating for legislation that would allow people like Cox to not have to disclose who they really are. That they would be entitled to the same rights as born women when it comes to dating / marriage.
If you are a straight man and go out on a date, do you ask your date are you a woman. Yes I am. No, I mean an XX woman. Well, No. This is when he exits and deprives his date of the possiblities. People like Cox do not want that availability of choice. Choice means discrimination. Cox is well known now, but I wonder if Cox was a regular Joe, would pre-disclosure be considered bullying from her partner.
I wish she got better wigs…and her skin bleaching is scary boots…
I’ll consider it.
The confusion is coming from a few radical loudmouths within the LGBT community who will never be happy until all men are gay. Many of us within the LGBT community are observing the madness and shaking our heads.
This is Sandra’s site, out of respect I kept it clean. I still don’t associate him as a woman.
So this gentleman is proud of sleeping with men on the DL? He couldn’t be more confused of an individual.
I’ve noticed the not so subtle/blatant shift in the agenda by way of over-saturating social and mainstream media with things that people should be able to seek out or inquire about on their own terms if interested. Now everyone is expected to conform as if we don’t have a right to claim or justify our own thoughts and beliefs or genetic/biological identities. Smh.. we’re living in a different world.
I LOVE how you keep referring to shim as a he. Because if it still has man parts you are a man period. I don’t care how much makeup, wigs and dresses you wear you are a Man sweetie please sit down!!
….and natural born black women ,not Rachels or Lavernes are stigmatized even more so what’s your point dude ?
I think Mr. Transgender Cox was making a veiled outing threat at some DL industry men. See trannies with money and power won’t tolerate being swept under the rug for too much longer. They gonna want their men to stand with them on the red carpet. Maybe Mr. Transgender Cox shouldn’t date closeted Gay men in committed relationships with women. See how trannies use real women for validation. Cox don’t want an out gay man. Cox want a so called “straight identified” man so he can feel like a real woman in the straight world. Crazy indeed.
GM ROSES!!!!!
He’s crying cuz the man he wants WONT be seen with him publicly.he wants said man to flaunt him about his ppl as he wood if he was born a woman.I think ole Rodney up top figured fame wood insulate his lover enuff for him to come out with him.I believe rod got a love but he also wants to be able to say,BRUCE CAME OUT SAME AS ME.BUT I STILL HAVE CAITLIN BEAT BECAUSE I GO HOME A VERY HETEROSEXUAL MALE EVERY NIGHT!HE TREATS ME AS HE WOOD A FLESH AND BLOOD WOMAN!…
Aww thanks.
Thanks for the heads up. Now HUSH! LOL
Xactly!
Iz FREE! LOL
I love MEEEENNNZZZZ! Menz. Menz. Menz. MEEEENNNNZZZZZZ! lmao
Lol thanks not surprisingly I’ve heard that before..I’m certainly a child of the king but no first lady…again nice to talk to you..be blessed
Thank you Girl (HUUG)
Yesss!!! Z20! Yes we are proud proud proud!!! Umm the Godzilla dyck I have won’t have that! rofl. He all on me right nah!
If a hetero man sleeps with a cross dressing man……guess what?! Neither are hetero.
Sounds like she either want her celebrity boo to publicly claim her, or she trynna get chose… Either way, someone should school her on that tragic ass wig. Hair technology is so much more advanced now. That lace hairline/part is the worst!
Wow!! So he admits that he dates down low men…
I don’t understand what he doesn’t understand about men who date men. Just because you dress like a woman you are still a man therefore the man you date is gay. What am I missing? No matter what you “feel” the facts remain the same You ARE a Man and he is gay.
Sounds plausible, whatever is going on in this person’s life. If you are a straight man and are attracted to people of are the same sex, you are no longer a straight man no matter how you dress up the outside skin. But it’s interesting what the mind does, for Cox to think and beleive the person at home is a heterosexual man.
There’s a tranny at my job who looks A-mazing & she’s married to very successful white man. I think he should come forward, I’m going to mention it to her/him/them whatever.
The problem with Mr. Cox’s statement is that no true heterosexual man would date another man that has turned himself into a false woman. Said men were already gay to begin with. There is nothing straight about a man being attracted to another man that has mutilated his body and is taking chemicals to confuse his natural body chemistry to appear as a woman.
All men who dress like women are not gay… and many of them who were married stay married to their wives. They just identify as women…
I was once tole,ONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR ON OPINIONS NOT TO THEIR OWN REALITY!I think rod needs to understand he can’t just drag others into HIS world.
So true.
THANK YOU!!!!!!
Laverne Cox is still in her feelings from Sunday before last episode of Penny Dreadful, Dorian Grays’ ball…Angelique.
Sandra is such a self hating lesbian my God. she does more to set the LGBT community back daily than most….
I’m not trying to be mean, but “she” still looks very manly.
If a straight man dates a transgender women, he is gay, so no shame in admitting it.
Went to the doctor found out yes I am. Now I’m taking iron pills, thanks for your advice it was on point ??
he is trying to widen their dating circles. I think that they have to tell that they were born a man. If they don’t then child snatching are going to rise.
the only trans I call women are the ones that are struggling. I work with one. as soon as has rx runs out his voice drops and his hair thins out. also its like he gets wider. I know that he is almost suicidal. so I engage in the fantasy. other than that, no.
its not removed. to be vulgar its cut and flipped inside.
i was thinking 40’s. cause he was on law and order a few years ago looking 40’s as well.
they want us to think a unicorn.
Deliver me from L.L. BEAN!!!!I died for 5 minuets upon TWIGS AND BERRIES!
Be blessed Sis. I’m happy you’re on the mend. *church hug*
I swear in the future when ask if the sky is blue we’re going to be told no, or when a woman has baby the gender on the BC will be left out. The world is changing I can’t get with this change honestly.
The men who date you are not heterosexual, they are gay……maybe they just don’t know it yet
Is he serious. That man is not hetero just like he is not a woman. You can twist it and flip it all you want to. But the results remain the same…2 men having sex.