A Georgia man who disfigured his then-girlfriend’s face with industrial strength drain cleaner was sentenced to 20 years in prison.
A Henry County jury found Andrew Fordham guilty of two counts of aggravated battery against Christy Sims of McDonough, AJC.com reports.
When Fordham completes his prison term, he will be on probation for an additional 20 years.
Sims suffered 3rd degree burns over 20% of her body during the heinous attack in April 2013. The acid burned her face, upper chest, arms, and back.
Sims told the court that Fordham intentionally threw the drain cleaner in her face because she was breaking up with him.
After interviewing Fordham, the Henry County police ruled the case an accident. But Sims was able to convince the police to reopen their investigation into the case.
In a 2013 interview with Channel 2 Action News, Sims said Fordham called her into the bathroom to bring him a towel.
When she arrived in the doorway, she said he was standing in a pool of water and holding a bowl. In the brief seconds that it took her brain to process the scene, he threw the fluid in her face.
“He didn’t actually fall, he just jerked forward and took the bowl and doused it in my face,” Sims recalled.
Screaming in pain, Sims ran to the sink to rinse off her face. “Please call 911, please call 911,” Sims yelled to him as he mumbled something about an accident.
“We were just putting it in the toilet and we slipped,” Fordham told the 911 operator.
The 911 operator repeatedly told Fordham to put Sims in the shower, but he ignored her advice.
Fordham lied and told Sims the operator wanted her to sit down and not to rinse her face with water.
“I don’t think he was trying to kill me, I think he was trying to make me unattractive because he doused it right in my face,” Sims said.
The drain cleaner contained 100% sulfuric acid, capable of melting flesh down to the bone.
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Should have just done the same to him and then throw his azz to jail.
Twenty years just don’t seem long enough to me. ? This poor woman. ??
And what should of happened, is that she was allowed to toss acid right back in his face. Sick mutha fugga. People are so damn hateful. Just go find someone else. Damn. Jerk.
Men are so got damn petty. So because she don’t want you, you don’t want anyone else to have her? But why? Because if she is not with anyone else, guess who she is not gonna wanna be with? YOU!
I have no words.
No, I changed my mind. She should of been allowed to dip his dyck in acid and then let him find a woman who will want him, after he gets out of jail. Bytch ass negro.
Have a good evening. Might BBL.
Fugg you sir!
the best revenge would be douse his dack with that same drain cleaner…. big meathead loser – you scar my face I mutilate your man parts….
yep.
a rotten summbish! I wonder if he had character witnesses?
and fugg that police ‘investigation’ because how was she covered in it but none got on him if “they” had an accident??????
that is so sad and I agree 20 years is just not long enough. And then to get probation afterwards, so sad.
My bad. No charges will be found. Prosecutor has stated. This is so so so fugging fugged up.
Cosign!
and she probably don’t want him cause he’s a cheater…. he looks like a passive aggressive phuck sitting there looking guilty az phuck…. uuuggghhh… she should be allowed to maim him right back….
this is a concept some of them can’t seem to grasp, smh
later, Slant!
that parting shot though, LOL!!!
going to read thanks
It just hit my phone…let me see whats going on
They couldn’t EVER let me dose out punishment. Because Im a eye for an eye chick. He would be sentenced to a splash in the face with acid. The kicker would be he would never know when it would be. Every day a Correction Officer would come by with a bucket and throw it on him.. it may have water or it may be your azz..who know when it will happen..today..two weeks..in your sleep.
ugh
yep…eeeeyeeee new it
Crimes like these, the perpetrator should suffer the same way the victims have.
This why I’m scared of relationships now. I been watching Fatal Attraction on TVOne too much. I’m scared of mens and thier side pieces. Lesbian lovers too. They all scary.
Well I just read it and it said there was no marks consistent with a violent struggle..I don’t know…
Yea …I don’t think him JUST going to jail wood have quited these voices that come alive in my head once I feel/have proof I have personally been shi-tted!!!!I gotta get that azz like I want it fo I pass you off to the laws that be….(drums fingers in deep thought)serious talk..
I HATE men like this ninja ret here with his hateful looking a** she wasn’t paying attention to his crazy, rapey eyes either! I want to go through the screen and choke the chit outta him, how dare him ruin her life because she didn’t want your sorry behind, witcho insecure a** rot in peace! Smh!
The bottom line is that had she not been illegally arrested she’d still be alive. This is sickening to me because I know so many people that went to PV…. I’m really at a lost for words.
ooh you have studied torture or something, I would have never imagined to do such a thing but thats a good one, yes hunty! lol
Chyle I read this got very upsot!!!!
This man is a POS. Justice should be an eye for an eye!!
I was just having a convo with a guy about how selfish some ppl can be when a relationship ends and they don’t want it to.
I was to late for the topic downstairs, but I will say- Just because a person has admitted to attempting suicide before doesn’t necessarily mean they are STILL in that mindset. I find this to be another reason why some do not seek professional help because they do not want the stigma of being depressed to follow them.
I wonder how many warning signs were ignored before this occurred. Anyone who is capable of throwing acid in your face, couldn’t possibly conceal their insanity for very long.
I went on three dates with a guy. By the third outing, I knew we weren’t a match. He had too many secrets and his friends were giving me weird vibes!
When I told him I didn’t want to see him again, he started ranting about how easy it would be for him to get pass my doorman and into my apartment!
I flipped out on his @$$! For legal reasons, I can’t repeat what I told him, but when I was done, he knew he had dialed the wrong number!
She is disfigured for life. Meanwhile, he’ll bide his time doing a female prison guard for free cigarettes and Little Debbies.
this is pretty bad, the other day watching snapped, a woman burned her husband while he was sleep, he woke up and said to the niece and nephew she did your auntie did it, as he cupped his “Johnson”…he later died.And the niece and nephew testified against their aunt too.
The burning bed, changed things…. LAWD
I respectfully disagree, that what crazy people do. That sit back and manipulate people. These people are very complex and can make you believe anything.
I just wanna leave work right now. I dont wanna force a smile or talk abut wedding and party bookings. I just want Justice. My heart is extremely heavy right now.
You are so kind, what about dipping the tip of dyck in acid. That would have been much better.
Syck heifter, love it.
This is going to be one sad ass vacation. I dont feel like relaxing and “chilling” while my sista is being treated worse than a dog.
Bird, that made me giggle, You can’t go either way, without getting kilt.
That is horrible, and yes, he should have gotten more time, that was a spiteful act he committed.
Hopefully he’ll be in general population where he’ll be subjected to pain worse than what he inflicted on her! Useless piece of sh*t!
Ladies FYI, there’s nothing wrong with breaking up with ya man via phone, better safe than sorry…. I did it bcz I knew I wasn’t safe! Insecure men are unstable, I’ve learned my lesson… This poor girl, I’m happy she’s still alive, this guy’s day will come!!!
Wait, how can someone be sentenced, then UN-sentenced? *tapping fingers, waiting on Ms. Sandra*
I gotta sign off. These stories are heartbreaking today. Why are black folks so evil to each other?
What is wrong hun? I hope things get better.
Just this Sandra Bland case. It got me in my feelings.
Sometimes I think it makes the broken person feel better, its senseless….
Peace and Love
Weeklt.rape should be enough for 20.years. he is disgusting
Lmaoooo!
Side babies and pieces scare me smh!
Damn! !
I agree, there are some smooth sociopaths out there, but some people aren’t easily manipulated. In my younger days, I was quite gullible… now I’m a pro at spotting bullsh)tters and crazies.
I have learned to self-protect by forcing myself to live by certain rules of engagement. I have learned to pay close attention to the way people treat others, because if I let them, that’s the way they’ll treat me.
A little jealousy can be cute, but if you’re not careful, a partner’s possessive nature can become a serious problem.
When someone tries to isolate, dominate or berate you… it’s time to go.
I would rather them pour some on his jewels then after about an hour, make him drink the rest.
lawd Bird, LOL!
You can say that again! If I get the slightest hint that you are attached to someone else, I’m gone. I have learned to trust my instincts!
say that, Taylor!
*laughs like the joker* you said you let him know in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS. loves it!
Christy Sims
Yeah, some people “women” and men are gullible, once they started getting dycked down. That penis is a power weapon, it carries a spirit, and sometimes its worst that any drug. Have you ever had a dream about having sex with someone that treated you worse than toilet plunger. I digress Horrible, nightmare….
preach! been there, done that!
Some men can’t stand when a woman want to leave a relationship,their egos are bruised.This fool wanted to take away her pride and beauty by harming her,smh!
Some men are big babies and can’t take rejection
Heck,I would had tried to do the “Lorena Bobbitt” on him with a dull blade.
you wonder if he was routinely abusive because he seems to have escalated to extremely serious bodily injury once she said it was over. this is why I left my phone on in my empty apartment for a full 30 days after I’d moved out. my crazy ex had moved into the bldg. next door and was sneaking in and out of my bldg. by just piggybacking behind someone else who saw that he had an entry pass in his hand (never mind it only worked for his bldg, not mine).
Don’t ignore your instincts, intuition, discernment, etc. If ‘something’ on the inside is telling you that something’s not right, pay attention.
Unfortunately, hurt people hurt people. but you be encouraged, it’s not all bad. blessings.
I agree. It’s not about being a coward,I see it’s about breaking up with a possible mentally deranged person safely over the phone than take chances of breaking up with that man in person;you never know if he could go off and seriously hurt or kill you
Yes, ma’am! Very little gets by me, these days.
I was talking to a guy online the other day. His profile screamed “man-wh@’re,” but he claimed he was looking for a serious relationship. The inconsistency between his words and his actions, raised a red flag.
Within five minutes of the conversation, he was feeding a sob story about needing a place to stay!
Maybe she should start a Go Fund Me. I’d contribute…
And maybe a good plastic surgeon could help her. She is blessed to be alive. It could have went down her throat or in her mouth. This was so unnecessary. For shame! Smh
Stay strong Christy Sims
LMAO! I’m gonna back away from this one! ?
Baby, I walked him through the funeral and everything!
It’s some good people, looks around blog… But it’s some good people. HUGS
Yep.. I’m sure he was abusive, they always give subtle hints to their crazy, then the unthinkable happens… Years ago I broke up with this guy, he called me to talk, this man came over beat my face so bad, I looked like the elephant man after he was done, I had to hide out from him for months,that was over 15yrs ago, by God’s grace I’m fine my face is fine… So when I ended my last relationship 2008, I saw some crazy in him, and I knew I had to end it over the phone… I’ve been single since then, letting my heavenly father do the match making (in his timing) I needed to have Him(God) clean me up bcz I’m attracting these fools for some reason!!! Lol.. But anyway, follow your instincts, heart, warning signs, and take heed when someone tells you something ain’t right about him, sometimes we can be so “in love” we become blind to the signs….
Takes credit ??#whereitsdue
Kona
Sometimes you got show them who’s really crazy.
Locks office door.
Yes, it can save your life…
!!
LMAO! ????
booga wooga, I think they did, this story is several years old. It happened in MD to…Chic was working at cell phone store, same thing..Ninja’s is crazy
It’s crazy heifers all of the world throwing acid, they need they skin peeled off..
Maybe the docs on Botched could help.
I’m so sorry you went through that! I had a similar experience with my ex when he found out that I really was spending time with someone else. he came over to “talk”, saw two glasses on the table, and jumped on me! I had to hide a black eye from my family because we gathered at my parents’ house every Friday, and this happened on a Monday. And all this went down AFTER I had busted him living w/another woman, and he was STILL with her when he did this …matter of fact, he drove her car over to my apt! You can’t reason with this depth of crazy.
However, don’t live in fear, and don’t hold against the next man what the last one did. There are still good men out there.
I don’t think 20 years is long enough. This was more than battery, she could have died. This was attempted murder in my opinion. He deserves a harsher punishment. I wonder if there is a way for surgeons to repair her face…
Weak ass men hurting a woman because they don’t want you anymore ! Hope he’s raped twice a day for 20 years
Read about this several years, that you need copious amounts of water starting off, as the acidc is still eating away at the skin and bone until you get to hospital,….It very hard to treat, because of the fatty tissue that has been destroyed. The syck and KNOW exactly what they are doing, unfortunately it’s cheap to get too.
hush???!! loose here! LOL!
Unfortunately there is no fixing that
women do it to each other…
Lawd the roses can be sadistic ! ???
I vaguely remember this story. senseless!
sad part, this is not new. I told yall about this doc (Crazy Love) on Netflix. I was speechless after I watched it.
OFF TOPIC:so ain’t nobody heard bout TERRANCE HOWARD fying B.GRAY up on the set of EMPIRE!!!!say they was doing a scene and shyt got too real for TV(apparently).
ROFL!!!!!!!! LMAO!!!
oh gosh! CRINE!!!!
I swear I hate you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TEARS. :snot:
He should’ve gotten life. If he did it before, he’ll do it again to someone else. He’s evil!
you said you don’t want NONE of the sides? LOL!
I wouldn’t be the woman of God I am today, had it not been for my past, I’ve forgiven them and wish nothing but the best for them, It was a lesson that I can now help others with..It does my heart no good to be bitter by that experience, I know to wait, be patient, he’ll come in good time.. I’m glad you’re fine as well, it’s sad that some women die in that mess…There are good ones out there, and you’re right, we should never make the next man pay for the last mans mistake, you’ll never get anywhere that way!
I don’t think he was trying to kill me–
Yes, on most days. HUGS
Just wrong man
Yeah, he got nerve driving to your house in her car, you can’t reason with that craziness…. Lol.. I always say, the only good thing that came out of those relationships was the lessons they taught!
who is b. gray?
Ohh Yazz. Apparently he tried it with Gabbie, but she had ran and got a snack.
Hugs, sorry you went through that. Glad you better now. Physical and Emotional
Hey lady I think it’s BAYSHERE GRAY?
I can’t deal….
come twirl with me… ‘Phenomenal Women’ …that’s us! lol,
Yes hunty Yes!!!!! Phenomenal women we are!!! Lol…
Yes and thank… I thank God, that didn’t make me bitter towards men, I’ll take those lessons and run with them, lol….
? I just shot a man down. In central station.
Amen!
Wow, I can’t even, Wow!!!
Right!
Men are the worst creatures God created sometimes. Just shaming God. You never hear stories like his where women do this to men. They may plot to take your riches. But you still are attractive to someone. This woman is still gorgeous. But physically she will always live with the phucking mistake of a man she met.
Hurt people Hurt people!
OMG I just said thee samething… Hurt people Hurt people!!! It’s so true.
I’m going to watch that tonight and give DF the stink eye.
This is too Sad. smh
Respectfully you are wrong. Some do it because of abuse, some do it for money….
But for the post, this man, he is a sorry son of a gun, and there is NO wrath greater than what God has in store for this man.
I’m glad she got justice.
As a cop how could ‘you’ possibly think this was an accident.
Glad he got jail time.
I hope Skillet & Puddy make him their favorite beeeech while he’s locked up.
She was soooo pretty too. Now for the rest of her life, she has to be gawked and stared at..all because of this paste eatin bastid. From shows that I’ve seen…damage THAT extensive can never be fully repaired. Her face will never look “normal” again. But thank God she lived, hopefully her story will help the next woman NOT become a victim.
God bless her.
It is luVn..I just want to cry for her.
Hi Shan.
Actually, women do some psychotic stuff like this to men also. Or they pay someone to do it.
True evil & psychosis knows no gender.
lol! leave him alone!
I agree.
And heyyy bew!!
When is the dance off rematch?
I’ve been practicing…
WHAT. A. PIECE. OF SHIT!!!
GIVE HIM THE CHAIR.
HE DOESN’T DESERVE TO LIVE!
I felt this and I heard it in a MAN’S vc which made it all the more sad:((((
WHAT. A. PIECE. OF SHET!!!
GIVE HIM THE CHAIR.
HE DOESN’T DESERVE TO LIVE!
Kill him!!
He should be murdered!
I no it ain’t meant to be funny.but I heard the song BANG BANG…HE SHOT ME DOWN:’)))
Girl one day we’re gonna have to chat about a crazy ex-hubby I had tried to kill me on more than 1 occasion.
I didn’t have as much sense (then), as you guys tho..I kept going back. Finally God said “Look…I’m not gonna keep saving you from this fool, you betta wake up!” And wake up I did.
I kissed dude as he went to work one day…by the time he got home I was 3 states away.
Won’t God do it?
Yes he will!
Stop readin my mind…you is da debil…sorceress!!! lol.
Nah but seriously, I just had that same thought. How’d they take HIS word over the victims??
And he lied and said the operator said NOT to douse her face with water. What an evil little water-head troll. I wish I could reach through the screen..mannn lemme stop. I am actually getting irate.
BOL,I caint with y’all and y’all DANCE OFFS!they too much and love the lil boy on this with his shoulder dancing!!!too cute
LOL…she don’t want none. She’s scurrred. Yup I said it!
She knows I be bustin them dope funky fresh moves….
A better question might be “Why are folks so evil to each other?”
This sort of viciousness is not limited to African Americans.
I dont know what punishment suffices for this. Jail time NOR death is enough to me.
Tragic.
People are so vicious and EVIL.
We must’ve been separated at birth cuz huntayyyyy….
They’d still be lookin for his lil greasy body if it was me.
God bless her tho for having the strength and self-control not to take that route.
Exactly.
She’s literally scarred for life..meanwhile this bloated roach is getting 3 meals a day & playin spades in the “yard.”
He’s ugly for life so he tried to make somebody else as unattractive as he is.
Didn’t work tho..even through her scars, her valiant & beautiful spirit shines through.
son…..
cthu! bloated roach. I needed that.
But yes exactly.
Maybe he’ll get what he deserves for the 18 yrs of his life in the penitentiary.
Some one to bully and torment him everyday he opens his evil eyes.
Chyle,I ain’t SAYIN its the right way be either. but mz.whang I cud not live sanely knowing ALL he’s ONLY waiting for is to get his time.that’s nuthing next to the panic attacks I’d no doubt suffer every time I have to leave my house or at the very thought of it!Dear God,he say he won’t put no more on a soul than they care bare.(in my Forrest Gump vc)and that’s all I have to say about that.
I totally agree.
Of course it’d be wrong, that I whole-heartedly admit. But looking at my face everyday..having to endure the rude stares from strangers (and probably friends/relatives)..would push me over the edge.
I applaud her restraint and fortitude tho!!
Great minds think a like ?
But no seriously it blows my mind he almost got away like they really believed him over her. ?
She didn’t get justice. He should be murdered in a slow and painful way.
lol
yew silly Whang
Whew that tickled my spirit sew MURCH. Remember when they danced, they thought they was getting it. Just Like you. HUGS
whang U still luhh Kia and tky a s s ?
:muah:
chammone baby
Okayyyy!!!
Like exactly what did he say that had them convinced that it was an accident??
And she had to convince them to reopen the case? That would’ve seared my soul. Here I am dis-figured for life…and I’ve got to plead that something be done???? That’s when my evil “revenge gene” would’ve kicked in.
This woman is a saint!!!
Or we can take to aisles
Can you imagine her nightmares?
Not to mention the excruciating pain she has (& will have to) endure(d).
All the out-of-pocket expenses she had/has to pay for uncovered medical expenses, counseling, etc?
See, the way MY vindictiveness is set up…I’d put money on SOMEBODY’s book monthly…just to make sure that lil creature got “took care of” in jail—on the regular.
Or we can pretend we dancing
Oh but she did! He almost got away with it so either way you prefer to warrant his revenge “an eye for an eye” it’s still justice. That’s why she pursued the case to be reopen.
Justice is sweeter because realistically your not going to jeopardize you freedom by retaliating. So I respect how you “feel” because it inrages me too but when you commit a crime ( and you almost got away with it) and get charged and convicted that’s justice.
pick a category, I’ll brb. Give you some time,
Poor lady, what a vicious animal he is. I would try and hire someone in prison to get that a$$, LITERALLY!!
hahahahha, funnnnniee! How do u guys post those GIFs and where do u get em from?
LOL
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo…..came out of hiding huh?
The Men All Pause babyyyyy
This One wins! ^^^^ LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!
Yep ALL this had played on my mind.even if she’s blessed with babies…their mothers looks will always be sumthin they go from EXPLAINING to out right DEFENDING!that look on his face is enuff to do just as you say.keep a bih books where he can have ALL the hunny buns and cup o noddles thay lil stomach can hold…and all I ask in return is that this ni,,gga either in utter misery in gen. pop….or he talking bout killing hisself if he gotta go in solitary confinement… again.I’d be relentless and I put that on everythang! 0:)
Awww..u trynna get revved up aye?…
Sumbody call the fire dept cuz I am HOT!!!
LMAOOOOOOOOO…leeeb me alone luVn.
And ummm..yeah!
But can you multi-task like this?
H E double hockey stixs NO!!
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
lmbawwwf!
LMAOOO…chum moan….
She ain’t got NUTHIN on this bayyyy-beeee
Well alright.
LOL
Waits for JL’S moves to appear.
haha
Naw don’t run…
Random searches online luVn. Just save them on ya computer.
It’s not. I’m sure he’ll ask for early release or try for good behavior, write the judge, ask somebody to write some letters, yah, yah, yah.
Just the tip, huh?
20 years isn’t long enough…..
You know he did.
luVn..she’s out trynna recruit some back up she betta brang a SWAT team…
@mzwhang90210:disqus
Bless her heart…?
!!
That’s not enough time! Did the operator hear him tell her to sit down how the h$%& was it dismissed at 1st?
lawwwwddd EYE.Cannot!
Hrmp
That’s not how it works..that’s not how any of this works….
!!
Bastard. I hope he meets Bubba. Then again, he might like it.
yew tew go lay down!
lol
umm okay
Sho ya right
Yew Aint tired yet whang?? girl u been cut the damn rug!
good people!
LOL
let go
LOL nite luVn *hugs*
So um Kim K wants to kniw what happened to Sandra Bland…. sigh
Just getting started
But you can’t Uber dance tho….
You ain’t said nothing
take that
!!!
Wins what, worst prop?
….
Yeah, we may have to cut it short, luvie says there was a shooting in a movie theater. My hand to heavens I was going to catch a good flick….Even though I’m on call….
Louisiana Gov. Bobby Jindal said he was monitoring the situation.
Prayers for Lafayette at Grand Theater. Talking to state police colonel about shooting in Lafayette.— Gov. Bobby Jindal (@BobbyJindal) July 24, 2015
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo…they aint did nuthin!!
They are so cute, wait a minute it the baby pole twerkn. LOgs off and slams your computer to smithereens. DEAD
amen
She all but climbed out one of her own windows to get out the NIKKI/TAYLOR twittah beef when it appeared she was being drug in against TAYLOR.so now she wanna put on the WHOLE ARMOR OF GAWD and just walk into the fray….(smh)she ain’t prepared…but I guess you gotta start sumwhere(shrug shoulders)
Why this look like my 74 year father in law about the face, I never seen him in this order. THANK GOD
So powerful. I have a similar story, but I’ll leave it right there. I knew a young lady who routinely got her tail PUMMELED by her boyfriend, who also happened to be a boxer. She loved him. Loved him to her death. I told her he was going to kill her if she stayed. She said she loved him. Less than a week later she was dead and unrecognizable. Her last moments were detailed in court by neighbors who heard her beg for her life. I don’t know who these posts are for, but take heed. Don’t just read this and forget about it and believe you can change them or believe you love them or they love you. Get your ass (your kids) up and LEAVE!
11 minutes ago from the advertiser
Gov. Bobby Jindal confirmed on Twitter that he is speaking with state police to investigate the shooting.
Prayers for Lafayette at Grand Theater. Talking to state police colonel about shooting in Lafayette.— Gov. Bobby Jindal (@BobbyJindal) July 24, 2015
City Marshal Brian Pope has confirmed for The Daily Advertiser that six people were injured in a shooting Thursday night at the Grand Theatre.
The shooter then turned the gun on himself, Pope said, and is dead.
Katie Domingue of Carencro was at the 7 p.m. showing of “Train Wreck” with her fiance’, Joshua Doggett. About 20 minutes into the movie, Domingue said, she heard a loud noise.
“We heard a loud pop we thought was a firecracker,” she said.
She saw “an older white man” standing up and shooting down, not in her direction.
“He wasn’t saying anything. I didn’t hear anybody screaming either,” Domingue said.
She heard about six shots, then she and Doggett ran to the nearest exit, leaving behind her shoes and purse.
Original story:
A shooting has been reported at the Grand Theatre on Johnston.
Acadian Ambulance is responding to reports of a shooting with multiple injuries at the theater.
We’ll have more information here as we get it.
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Sorry Whang, it was fun, people are so gotdamn syck…
Louisiana?
What happened bew??
(whispers..I won again tho..lol)
Good. He did a number on her. Folks, stop acting like your life will come to an end if someone breaks up with you or if you get fired from a job, etc. Life is about change. I may love the hell outta you today, but in five years, I may hate the sight of you and ya cross eyed mama. It’s no ill feelings, it’s life. People change and we change our minds. That’s ok.
haaaaaaaaaaa..you wish https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b8e7b890e882f93afce8c15630a7f8fb7ca35ca3ed3d8c4140e3475877b0e521.gif
Lmaooooooooooo..
I remember that. He came in to her job, doused her, and lit her on fire. Is that the same one or a different incident?
Let’s call it a tie bew.
good job!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/faa73abd93b42d3fd273d74428782843b4f3cb4cb1e7ac08b88a3f2d7147b178.gif
Yes it was fun.
I just heard about the shooting you’re right….people are sick.
But God sits high and looks low.
*hugs* thanks for the prior laffs tho hun!
What. The.
yeap
Girl, I got chills reading this, Wow…. There’s is a message to someone that needs to hear these stories, the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy, but God came to give you life abundantly.. John 10:10 ..Whoever this is message is speaking to, this is your warning!!!! Thank you Lucy for sharing that ..
Whoot
Looks like they’re fighting to get out of that flowered bedsheet.
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Another shooting. Pray for Louisiana
What is wrong with Don Lemon? He said it’s hot out you don’t wont to burn your air conditioner? That a damn first for me. I go to the movies for entertainment and popcorn, not for heat/ac source. SIGGGGHHHHHH
well damn, backs out the door slowu, clicks remote on car and hauls arse out of town…
Green sticky bologna, dimpled oranges, and misplaced commissary.
She can’t either…
Da hayle threw Marion Ross from Happy Days up there?
Won’t He though!!!! My mom says, God saves fools…. Lol.. Glad He does, bcz some of us would be gone…
LOL.
You know what? She had to ask the gram or Twitter?
Um, looking at what Khaki just posted. Does that say HIM Kardashian-West?
Vengeance is mine says the Lord, and I will repay….
Ain’t no stoppin him…
I feel the same. He destroyed her life! He should have life in prison.
Why the song, real love, I’m searching for a real love,pop in my head?!?! Lol
Winner Winner chicken dinner… Hahahaha, I couldn’t help it..
I’m out!!!!!!! You tried it and im out!!!!!!
Hahahaha, I know right!!!
New Edition, I’m login off!!!!!
20 years? That’s all?
2 dead, 9 injured as of now. Shooter dead.
Sandra Bland
BG finally put it out there. She is alleging Glory Johnson was texting and banging a man during their relationship. She also cited Glory saying in January in an interview that she isn’t gay as proof she was deceitful and didn’t give up real dyck. I called this…I knew my scenarios were close to the truth. I’m psychic ?
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On a >different topic< don't this guy look like David Mann? (Meet The Browns)
All of the fine beautiful black women to get with in Atlanta, and you couldn’t just walk away. Dude, you deserve everything you get in the pen.
This still does nor explain her death.
NBC5 Investigates has found that – at the time of her death last Friday — she still owed a total of $7,579.00 in court fines resulting from five traffic stops in various Chicago suburbs (including a DUI), and she had been cited several times for her failure to pay those
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Morning Khaki- I woke up to that alert on my phone…going to research….smh
Womens please when you are ready to exit out of a relationship have plans intact. If you are aware of his behavior make sure you cover all bases top to end. They can cheat and can not accept it when you tell them it”s over.
Im a eye for an eye chick.He would be sentenced to a splash in the face with acid.
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Don’t forget to splash the p e n i s , too.
*waiting at the blog doe’ for BRING THE PAIN azz…don’t thank I seen her dranking dem darn Mella Yella’s…TUH*
GOOD MORNING SANDRA & ROSAYS!!!!
“IT’S FRI-DAY!!!
“I”M READY TO PARTY!!!
“AND GET MY GROOVE ON!!!
ya’ll don’t know NATHAN bout dat dere!!!! #playwitit!!!
i hope that was the maximum allowed by law….
Most definitely! He would be in the cell naked..Im dashing errthang face peen balls…errrrrthang! ROFL
LOL..Morning Sexi
horrible just horrible
Good Morning Roses and lurkers! It’s Friday!!! And I am in here all damn day…till 5 lol.
Can we please not repeat chit said on BawSip or MTO… you gotta be smarter than the average bear Boo Boo
oh and can someone recap for me what happened on the Braxtons. I forgot to watch….ok I did not forget, I did not feel like turning it on. I was watching Martin. lol
Morning boo!!! This is becoming daily news.
Good Morining… I’m with you until 8 lol
Nothing really. Trina divorce was final. They all went out to dinner with her and the new dude. The all went to the studio and listened to Tamar album and Toni had critiques. Traci went to a therapist to help her with her anger with her sister. That’s about all I remember. Everybody was cool. Towanda through a little shade in her confessional.
ZETA!!!!! Missed you bew!!!!
My thoughts exactly.
Morning Queeny
Good Morning Roses
TGIF!
GM boo!! Yes get it Barney
That’s all Towanda know how to do. Who was the sade for this time, or do I even need to guess? How Trina already have a new man?! I don’t like that. You were all in love bout 12 months ago. but whatever. So, Traci still mad about what though?! Bye Traci. Find something to do. And what did Toni say about Tamar’s album?
Was watching some of MotherFunders, they are such an embarrassment.
Mawning Whit!!
Morning Time. Oh shoot, I have a story for yall.
Morning!
Good Morning Love!!!
Hey bew! ny plans for the weekend?
Well alright!!! Hey now! Morning!
Morning Auntie
Story for today: I did tell the roses before, but my momma and my brother now take care of my brothers daughter because the momma sent her to live with them. As a recap, she came with nothing. Just the clothes on her back. Momma went to be a stripper. SO that little bytch (the mother) said her damn daughter can’t come over, after my brother already brought the baby there, because “it’s not kid friendly” Ok then why did you say she can come see you. So they get into a argument, so she pushes him, rips his shirt trying to grab him, and left marks. All in front of the baby. SO that stupid ass gal called DHS on my brother, and lied and told them my momma don’t feed the baby. First off, my momma would NEVER do no shyt like that. SO of course DHS came out and talked to my neice, and she said she eats but she dont really ever see her momma. I told my brother to go file for emergency custody adn then call welfare and tell them the momma still getting food stamps for a child who has not lived with her since last damn year. FOH. And she better be glad I don’t wanna lose my job, or I’d a been at her door last damn night beating her damn head in. stanking bytch. (sorry its long and has typos)
Hey Key and JuJu!
Yes, so I heard about that show. T.I. baby momma on the show right? How was it? Is it worth watching?
Hey Waste!!!!
Morning Peanut Butter Color
Morning Mrs. Graham
you better then me because I would have paid a crack head to go over there and do whatever crack heads do
If ever there was a case of getting caught up in the dopamine! Getting married after a short time is risky regardless if it’s to a man or woman. I’m just mad there are now kids involved.
That’s absolutely what he needs to do. TODAY. He shouldn’t wait any longer. I’d also suggest a lawyer, custody cases can get ugly and its good to have representation. If he has proof of her actions, texts, dr records showing he takes her, school registration showing she goes to a school in his district if it’s public school or proof of who enrolled and who paid the tuition and shows up for P/T conferences if private, daycare records, any and every thing that proves he is the custodial parent and does the majority of the child rearing, he needs to start gathering it together. I can’t stand a bullshyt deadbeat parent. I wish him luck.
FDB!
Have your brother get that custody and write her momma off.
No violence, DHS know that baby is taken care of and I’m sure they saw it too!
MOD I told that boy LAST DAMN YEAR to go file. Did he listen. No. Now look. Child please, he is the only one who shows up to the school for anything. The momma dont even know where the school is. My mom is breaking her neck to take care of her. I help out when I can with clothes and stuff. The momma done had this girl all over the place. We have worked so hard to get the baby to read and talk good, because she was 6 when we got her and was way behind. Clearly the momma was not doing shyt with her. She used to come to my house and cry because she thought no one was gonna come back for her. No child should feel like that. I can’t stand the momma or her momma. Just triflent. Will tell the little girl, she is coming to see her and never show up or answer the damn phone. Stuff like that makes me real angry.
He needs to go to court TODAY! Poor baby. To know your parent don’t wavt to see you. As a child who experienced that, it hurts. For a long time.
I second @iWasteTime, FDB!!!!
How old is your niece? I’m glad she’s old enough to talk to the DHS worker. I hope your brother getting emergency custody is successful.
Yep Domanu and Messiah mama. No. It’s really embarassing. This is coming from someone who watched LHHH and RHOA. That’s ratchet. This is embarrassing.
just to lay around nekkid…. You?
They did see that! The lady who came out, said she can see it was a lie and told my brother he needed to run to the court house. Mind you this was the same bytch who took my brother to child support court for 2 kids just to find out one of them was NOT his. And she knew it.
I know. I did not meet ym father until I was 16 and he lived not even 10 minutes. It’s a sad thing. Even to this day he has seen my son 5 or 6 times and never has he seen my daughter.
She is seven now. And I am so glad the worker talked to her directly. The worker was asking my brother the questions, and he told her, everything you need to know, she can tell you. I have nothing to hide.
Towanda throwing shade about if them getting along will last. Trina messing with the dude that’s building the bar. The black one. He impressed Mama Evelyn last night and the girls. Traci mad cause Tamar said she was mad she couldn’t be a doo wop girl, Towanda through up the allegation about the possible outside baby and just everything else that is wrong in life. Toni wanted to change lyrics or something on the If I don’t have you song. Seeing Tamar in the booth all insecure about them liking the song was a refreshing break from her over the top. As soon as Toni said I like it she said can I make a suggestion…
She on the show acting like a fool too?! shm. Welp, I can skip it then. She has any other kids?
Hey I got an IG request from one of yall… I don’t accept unless I know who it is….
Towanda don’t wanna get along. Trina is with the guy building the bar because he is building the bar. I wish she would find a business or something. smh. Traci need to have several. You are man you can’t do wop pop pop. And Towanda put all your business in the street, but I guess because it’s Towanda, you don’t wanna be mad. I am over them. SO what did Toni want the song to say?
Your brother should have called the police on her. She would have got locked up for family violence for fighting in front of the child…..whispers where she live I have some hood cuzins that will fight for a blunt.
I have two in my box right damn now, and have no idea who it is. smh.
prosideeyer? I was going to DM you last night.
Listen. Don’t even get me started. I’m at a better place now. He’s only seen one of my four children twice. Almost ten years ago.
Thats Taken.
ok let me delete the name
I hollered @ “hood cuzins that fight for a blunt” And yup! I said that yesterday too. I told him to still go to the police station and report it, so its on paper. He is better than me, because I would ask the courts to take all her rights away period. You don’t want her? Cool. Then stay away and dont bother us. Period.
KIC!!!!! HEY LOVEY-DOVEY!!!!
I am werking hardt!!!!
I seen where yo azz was laughing at me staring at that lake the other night…Lmao
Are we gone be left in this post all morning?
WASTINNOTADAMNTHANG!!!!!
HEY SWEETIE!!!!
Men be so slow (not stupid slow, turtle slow well yeah a little stupid slow too lol) about these things. My ex had his son dropped off to him 5 years ago and mama never looked back. I told him go put it in writing… get your life straight. He pussyfooted around like it’s no big deal I can take him to the dr and enroll him in school so no worries…
3 months ago BM waltz into school in the middle of the day and took the boy out. She said it was her bday and she wanted to eat with her son *facepalm*.. scared his self so badly that shge could do that (not like I ain’t told him she could) he FINALLY went and filed for custody.
*runs from the byke of the blog room…screaming!!!!!
LOVEZZZZZ!!!!!!!
No No! Its Taken from here. Thats her name on IG!
Hiya boo!!
Sad. I grew up with my deddy til 10ish. Then he was hit or miss. He didn’t even meet lilmissy til she was 18 months, then he pass…. surly bastid!!
Side note.. for the long time Roses, my mama dropped her husband off at my house AGAIN!
Girl I am over it. I’m loved by family who want to be in my life. One monkey don’t stop no show. *hug*
Good morning my Kings and Queens. Happy damn Friday.
GYRL I was dranking and that gave me life…. It be like that sometimes. This has been my werk week too with AR calls. But today I’m free until 2:30
I sent you a request after we did real gravi Friday a few weeks ago, but you didn’t accept me. ? Don’t leave me hanging!
OH!!!! I missed choo so merch!!!! how are u and the Lil Zoe’s???
See…this is exactly what I am trying to tell my brother. Make it so she can’t do anything. All it does is hurt the kid. This in and out shyt is a mess.
I will do it right now! Sorry!!!
KE-KE!!!!!
Hey nah…. so proud of you going back to school..
:hugs:
Great advice. He needs to file for custody..SOLE….no joint…I have joint but only b/c my ex is very active. He needs to get the assistance for the baby he can like medicaid ( if she has MC then make sure he is in charge of it) and other things. make sure he has all her doctors DO NOT have her down so she can’t call for information. If she don’t wanna be a mother put her azz on CHILD SUPPORT…Draya’s lil azz is trifling. Next like peanut said…PRESS charges; Orlando did, your brother needs to do the same…make a paper trail and take picture so when court comes he can present that to the judge. Make sure all communication is in writing…she doesn’t call only text and email…screenshot those messages, save emails.
LMAO! That is your momma summer thing!!! lol. She left already? Did she call you first?
See,,they don’t be listening….we be knowing..
Morning Luv!!!
Thank you Lawd….it’s Friday!
Goody Morn-ting!
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I agree.
He is getting off easy. He should have to go thru the excruciating process of skin grafts and etc and be FULLY DISFIGURED like this poor young lady has suffered.
Can’t stand ninjas like that. ugh
Hope he gets the “treatment” daily for that bish move he did.
I mean they don’t even want a whole sack just be asking for a reason to slap the shyt out of somebody. They ain’t allowed at our house for holidays though cause they steal.
MUVA!!!! Hell-ur!!! how r u???
He chose St. Barths!!!
I was clinching my teeth so hard when I was reading this that I’ve given myself a toothache. If you’re going to be a deadbeat, just do that. Don’t lie to the child and have her feel unwanted an abandoned. Definitely don’t bother those who care for the child and doing their best to make sure all of her needs are supplied. My friend has been known to pull a caper on the behalf of another friend.
Good morning Folks
Morning
Morning Dubb, this man in his purple leotard gets me everytime…LMAO
My Pandora has me feeling all mushy. I text my soon to be all this cute mushy stuff….watch him text me back a two word responce. ugh lmao.
Hey u!!!!!
Guess who I had the pleasure of talking with on yesterday…but made me think of u…cause he was a sports figure
***looks down, plays with feet*** I got an IG….
OMG shut up!!!!! Like the cousin from Martin who thought he was Eddie Murphy. I can’t with you miss!!!!
LMBO. Where is MamaJ this year? Beach vacation? Casino? Quiet cabin in the woods? Hahaha, she drops him off at your house like he’s your grandchild visiting for the summer
Slit it up a little bit the. Salt it up alcohol it up THEN acid then the him to some crows or bugs or something ??
So you just going to run through and say Hey to everyone but not me?…OK
3-dubya ( I like that)
I can KNAT take u and WH at the same time…crine…
ZEATA!!! Thank you!!!! :hugs: I’m trying to get my life together!!!! How are you and the family?!
I’m good, and you? Ok, fabulous, where are you thinking about staying? Need any suggestions?
The whole thing pisses me off. I’m still mad they brought her to my momma house with nothing. No toothbrush, no panties, NOTHING. Who in the fugg does that!!!!!
HEY!!….I was petty above, so just ignore tha…LMAO
????
So who takes care of the other child? Is that poor baby lost in the world too?
Lost in the damn world. Bounching from house to damn house. So sad.
MORNING ROSES!!!!!
Welp I am officially an empty nester…I don’t know how I feel about it. Wutt 16 has been with her dad all summer. He approached me and ask if he could keep her because he see that he really needs to be around her right now that boys are checking for her heavy and to do right since he has been fawking off lately. At first I was like…NO! then I thought he stay in a really good neighborhood the school system is awesome and she wont be alone at home from the time she get out of school until I get home (Yall know those the time teens get in the most trouble.) So I agreed.
That’s sad…
*leaves for now…and let chall talk amonst yourselves…BBL!!!
She probably didn’t have anything Keya. I sounds like her mother had been dragging her around from pillar to post. Ugh, I hope she got her tubes tied.
So she came to bring lilmissy back from Vegas and stayed for a week. Then my stepdad came to meet her so they could go on a cruise. I get a text like oh we’ll be back in town on Sunday.. Um whet?!? I thought y’all was going home (I thought to myself). So they come back for 3 days. On my mama last day she drop in oh he’s staying, he’s gonna see if he can stay at his brother’s cause we didn’t know if…………………
Then my stepdad ask me can he put a king sized bed in the guest room cause he don’t like the bed that’s in there and tell lilmissy she gotta get her toys out…. Mind you I didn’t want a bed in there AT ALL?!?!
The problem is the courts won’t force the issue unless she’s a true threat to the child’s safety. They will push the child having both parents in their life agenda even when you know it’s not in the child’s best interest. Would she be willing to sign over her rights?
Mama J carried herself on back to Vegas to relax with her dog.
Ain’t nothing sad sr to post about?! Hmmmmm I know she looking for just the right wrong ??
He puts me in the mind of the Revenge of the Needs cat ???
Morning Awww, well she’ll be back…trust…we always come back lol….I see that name changed…Is that bc Sandra Shatted on your font yesterday….I was like Well Damn….**whispers** you still in lubbbbsssss
Wait hold up….I know that is your daddy butterum….how you just doing all this at my house adn did not ask me no questions!!! Why the babies toys have to get the boot. I might of had to tell my momma, i love yall but no. Yall came together so leave together. lol. No diss.
Get it Murr!
Morning
my name is the same stop after color
I know your pain. I’m always shocked when I get an actual response…I’ll be all happy and like “Awww, he loves me. He thinks I’m pretty. He looooooves me” in my head ???
Morning love!
And I got my two word responce lol. smh. Good greif.
Finally a NEW POST
nope. Because she is an ass. Mind you someone else always has her when she is with the momma. (the two or three times she has seen her.) Just crazy.
Got it…
New Post
I’m not mad about the toys tho.. LilMissy doesn’t really play with most of them anymore so if he take the initiative to get rid of them I don’t mind lololol
I’m letting him stay this week cause lilmissy is home and he can stay there at night when she sleep and I go hang out… next week when she goes to her deddy house.. Imma send her Poppy and his suitcase with her rofl
Sometimes we have to make sacrifices for our littles. Best wishes to you guys!
so what’s your name so we can request you!
Yes I knew Sandra was gone say sumthing ROFL! But this whole week has been so goodt! I cant stand it! Every night. EEEVERY NIGHT he wraps himself around me (old tall long self) and we sleep. If I move away he moves with me.. kisses on the neck in the night for no reason. I am trippin!
lol. Poppy might like that. Have some guy time!!
HEY WUT!!!!
Hey boo!!
No we made an agreement. See its not her choice where she lives until she 18. So he and I are going to write an agreement out. I am stopping support. He is keeping her for a minimum of til 18. If he breaks the agreement. It back on support fukk it.
Once for a long while I started texting him and doing all that stuff exactly the way he does it. It took almost 3 months before this clown mentioned that I don’t text him all the I love you’s and I appreciate you’s and nice things anymore. Asked if there was a problem. I told him no, I just decided to carry it like he does… He’s much better now. Still doesn’t initiate the lovey dovey texts as much as I do but surprises me every once in a while with a nice one out of nowhere or a great response. I got a text about how much he loves his life and his family and how we’ve made his life better than he ever thought it would be yesterday after he decided to come on our shopping trip. He loves us, he thinks we’re everything ????
Hey boothang! I miss you https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6e31bf0894884cd9fdcd251d43815aebbc0417d6166a363d1c8631551174bcc1.gif
Thanks DTS.. its hard cuz that’s my baby but its whats best for her.
This gif. I always did like this kid. She aways stole the show.
Awwwww!!!! I love that!!! *sidebar* what’s your email?
Wonderful!! How about you and yours?
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She’s pretty mellow. She has a daughter I believe. It’s two moms who act like donkeys. Watch one episode.
Good morning
How are you fewling? That must have been a tough decision. ????
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Yes!
Yeah this is tough… I had to make a decision that would better her. She had too much empty time on her hands and there is no outlet for her here. So she is there with kids that act like kids and her age. In a better school. So its a good choice. a hard but good one.
Yea DTS It is very hard to do this. but it is necessary to help her get to where I know she will grow. I was afraid for her being at the house alone until I got home eventhough she 16. Now she will be where there is someone home with her she can grow and do as a kid not like these fast wild kids on my side. These little girls over here act more grown than I do!
Got it! ?
No I don’t mean now, I mean eventually,….even after 18 HAHAHAHAHA
DAYMN…..KEYSHIA COLE..”LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE, NEVER KNEW WHAT I WAS MISSING…”
I don’t want no side baby or aide piece in my life that’s why I’m scared t get into a relationship. Men bring ro.much drama
Congratulations. You did the right thing, although it doesn’t feel that way right now. Best to you and yours.
ihope a dude in jail make his face looks just like hers sick azz dude he needs to be someones bytch
Being GROWN I do believe I have the right to ASK.answer or don’t or simply let it stand unanswered.’precinate it tho:)
So sad….Rejection makes people do the craziest things.
Thanks Easy
And I have the right to ask you not to ask, do I not? See how this is circular? GROWN folks rarely have to shout they are grown, it is easily visible to everyone (like in their spelling).. food for thought.
Bored????
You made the right decision. Idk u but u seem like a mature, loving mother. Some of the best decisions are the most painful. It will pay off
Thanks Napz…I pray it is..
Let me do this to his whole body plus the 20 years and then I would feel like justice was served….
I hope they disfigure his booty hole in prison…
This bustard snapped inappropriately, like he the 1st human 2 b dumped
well he sure will enjoy getting raped in jail “accidentally” just like how he “accidentally” threw acid on a girl who dumped his ass.
I dont think he was trying to kill me? Ummm ok ma’am.
lawd, I am waaaaaaaaaaaay behind @whang! charge it to the head and not the heart though…
no problemo
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