NFL Star Arian Foster’s Wife Files for Divorce

Sandra how are women being selfish if a dude is out having unprotected sex and could possibly bring you back something deadly, and we decide to leave? I would divorce him too! I don’t understand your logic sometimes lol. You can cheat and then father a child on me and practice unprotected sex too? Nawl, I don’t think so! Thats dangerous and my health is more important than some unfaithful guy! Smh!

Aunty Sandra as a long time lurker I have always believed you say such things to be provocative.
The New Testament, says one man for one wife. Meaning after the days of Isaac n them God looked down and said okay, the earth has been replensihed enough, time for some new rules.
The Lord also hates divorce and only allowed it because his children were hard-hearted.
Man must be faithful as Jesus is faithful to his bride, The Church.

My BFF going through the same thing. She finds out her hubby got a 3 month old on the side. Gave the baby the same initials as his other two kids by my bff. Dude mad at my bff cause she won’t take him back. Ninjas be having a lot of nerves and balls. Its not 1932. Wives don’t have to put up with side pieces and “break babies”

Meh, I wish I cared enough to take the bait.

He was doing too much and she was not a good detective, A full 9 month pregnancy and there were no text messages about the baby kicking or nothing? Or he was the type to punch her in the face if she touched his phone.

there’s only so much one can take aunty

Personally, once you done made outside baby(break or no).its nuthing else I personally want with you.cuz even if you never cheat again.this OTHER WOMAN is now in OUR bed.and her tie is still very much an emotional one cuz its YOUR baby.I mean competition between two women is hard enuff.but another woman AND a baby,ooooh no ma’am.its easier to let him go and gather either your thoghts, children or ALL both and keep yourself mentally healthy to do what you need to do as woman.I don’t like STRESS and for me to personally stay and maintain under such dire straits is infact asking entirely to much of my MENTAL VALUE….#knowyourownlimits

NAH!!! TAM…u know Sandra likes to keep hers readers on they toes….Love your blog also…and your fashions

If y’all don’t know how Sandra feels about man and his job as a man. Some of you will be on this blog hurt, mad, angry, thumb thuggin (s/o to Lurk). Arian was doing his job as a Man . . . .

I’ll take the latter for 200. Alex.

That’s how my buff hubby was. He was kicking her ass, cheating, and taking her money at the same time. She dealt with it until one ass whooping got to be too much. Finally she woke up. #wonthedoit

I don’t think she truly feels this way. She just takes a controversial stance because it gets the people going.

they don’t get it….I just laugh…
cuz…if MRZ come in here with a baby or a goat that didn’t come outta me….WHOO!!! girl let me go…glad I’m going to out the office…because its about to get REAL MTOISH in this bish….don’t believe me…JUST WASH
TTYL!!!

Either way the day I start caring….

(church hymm vc)YESSS LAWD!!!!!

Sometimes I have to read some of these posts remembering sage advice from my Mama Peaches. “Opinions are like a$$holes. Everyone has one, and yours stink”

A woman is selfish for having a child?? A woman is selfish for not letting a man cheat andbring her home oow babies or diseases?? Men are wired to cheat from birth but women who share the same genetic makeup as a man should always remain faithful?? Why would a man even get married if thisis the lifestyle he wants to lead??

Sandra Rose – you sound like a freaking insane idiot sometimes.. I don’t know how the Hell you’ve even had a blog this long.. I swear – you’re nothing but a warmonger just like Donald Trump.. You say dumb isht for the shock effect!! SMH!!

Especially when the person is talking about something they don’t have…why get mad?

<3 the Mama Peaches anecdotes.

AMEN!

Truuuuuue

The commission to “Be fruitful and fil the earth” was given to one Adam and one Eve. At that time there were no others. So it is ABSOLUTELY NOT ordained anywhere in the Bible

All day . .

(fist bump)cuz I KNOW my worth and GOD IS NOT DEAD!if HE said in His word its a MAN out here FOR me and that is promised to LOVE me like he love humself. Then I know anything other than truth is an outright lie!!!!I’m too good as a WOMAN to dare accept less.if you for me and you refuse to be a good man then you can keep getting it!I’ll stay alone and doin me til it changes.

Sandra so if that’s the case do you think pologamy should be legalized?

GOOD MORNING YALL!!

Mawing boo.. That thing get knocked on yet?? ( TMI? too much if so I ain’t sawry) LOL

Butter.
We have a Great Wolf, there are actually 3 Lodges, on the same mountain and affiliated. Great Wolfe is great but we were looking at the Safari one and yes on Groupon too . I want to do Aug 14th and 15. come home on the 16th and have the 17th to rest

Morning Soon to be…

From da bottom of my heart to the depths of my sooouuullll.. Yes Lawd.

Ya’ll only been married for 4 years and you ALREADY got a baby on the side..BRUH..you been piece of Shyt…Romina is getting out while she is young and can start over with someone else. When a man has zero respect to the point he dives deep in something without a rift then its time to go…BYE MOLEY…you will never or could ever be cute enough for me to lose my self respect.

Nah kid. He brought me down last night so Im goodt! lol

The write up is hilarious! ? this sounds like some old school advice, but in all seriousness if I married a professional athlete I wouldn’t be shocked if he cheated #shrug. Before y’all wanna come for me NO I don’t think it’s alright. #thanksinadvance

I think she says stuff to ruffle my feathers but its too early lol

lol…yea…unless its Grant Hill. lol

OOOHHH YEAH! I ain’t knocked up..but got knocked on sew swellll last night! Nah bish is crampy and miserable…fuk the “RedLight”!!!

lol good

Tell it whitty! My dad cheated on my mom and produced a child. She stayed with him talking about he is the love of her life. GFOH I lost some respect for her and a lot for my father cause my mom went through hell with him.

Told my bff this yesterday. Her and hubby ain’t been married but 3 years. He was locked up one. And if he don’t have enough thought or respect to put a fugging condom on he dont care about you or your vagina for that matter. Just laying it low and spreading it wide. Being a ride or die is some bullshat. Fug that.

That sounds like a blast! If the one y’all would visit is anything like the one we visit, the whole family is going to have a ball. Sidenote: I’ve noticed that they are typically near lots of shopping and restaurants, so I used to steal away for a couple of hours and let the boys have “guy time.”

I had a boyfriend back in the day that did this to me too, we weren’t married just dating for years and he got a chic preggers, ofcourse I left after I couldn’t deal with it anymore but he got an attitude and harassed me afterwards, dude couldn’t take it when I started dating other people. Welp!

Let a wife get pregnant by a side nigga and watch how bad the husband act the fuk up. They be butt azz hurt but expect women to forgive and forget and move on. Cheating…once I can forgive…unless a baby and or disease is the outcome. That chit is reckless af.

YAY for you!!!!!! we can breathe now.

Life is too short..if you break vows and that contract is voided…

Too early for this type of post….

I agree. But nigga have some discretion. Don’t be bare backing these hoez

Just dumb and I ain’t even read it ?

What you aint fin to do is take MORE money out of this household for child support. I already told ya’ll I told MR. I came to him pure and disease free by way of mortgage. If I think I got an itch out of place that’s his azz featured on the next episode of Wives with Knives.

Yep and she took me to a divorce attorney with her after she found out and cried her eyes OUT and still stayed with him. Naw I ain’t built like that.

*sucks teeth* WHALE I just realize that I’m a few days late. I felt a little cramping last night, and I don’t feel a little pregnant (y’all remember THAT day?), so I’m good, right? Right?

I get that. Cheating comes with that particular territory. But damn at least use protection and have enough respect not to bring it back home. But females need to learn how to show men how they should be treated. Females be thinking they are better than the next broad, and that’s how they end up with their feelings hurt. I don’t think I’m immune to being cheated on, but I ain’t finna play with my husband if he does. Also, everyone’s bottom line is different. We tolerate what we want….

Exactly! I wouldn’t want the stress of marrying a professional athlete or an entertainer.

In the olden days, men didn’t let women find out about their cheating. Side babies were shunned. Child support wasn’t tracking baby daddies down for side pieces. Some of these men acting less and less like men and not holding down their families properly. If a nigra want to be a bigamist he needs to let the woman make an informed choice not spring it on her in the form of a side baby.

I wish a ni$$a would expect me to accept him cheating. The devil is a lie.

If my momma taught me anything it was DONT TAKE NO SH!T off a negroe!

I was only 8, taking a bath minding my on business and she bust the bathroom door open and schooled me! I was like ? — but I never forgot it. First piece of game from momma! #RIP

Exactly lol

Absolutely! Don’t embarrass me & have me out in theses streets looking dumb.

“having a piece of man is better than having no man at all.do you get my drift.hang if you can hang.no pain no gain”.-BETTY WRIGHT

That’s some random stuff I do to my kids. ?

and I dont want to be either.

Oh lard he’s about to get blocked….indefinitely!!

she.tried.EYE.guess <_<

Shid. My grandfather had 2 side babies on my Madea and they already had 11 kids. Side whore used to speak and make her babies speak to my Madea, everytime they passed one another’s house. Bish had to let my granny know, who’s kids they was. But my Madea got the last laugh cause them kids didn’t get a Mexican peso when my grandfather died and was banned from his funeral. Karma is a bad bish.

??? ….I do the same with mine too…we got to school em early.?

No to sound all holier than thou, but I have this little thing called a conscience and believe in this bad bytch named karma. I have been tempted waaay too many times to count, but all I can think about is if the Mrs decided to do the same, my manhood couldn’t handle knowing some other dude done been all on her just pumping and sweating and making her moan.
That thought alone keeps my dyck in 3 places, inside her, in my pants, or in my hands.
And if you think this makes me “emasculated”……..

My dad recently found out his dad had outside kids & one of them are my age ?

Co-sign. I went to college that has a D-1 athletic program. I met a dude who was a former football player, had been on a couple of tours in the army, and was finishing up my degree so he was older. He told me that that a couple of years before I got there, one of his former teammates was handing out herpes like candy. It was then that I knew FOR SURE that I’m not about that life.

everybody ain’t able.

YES!!!!!!!!! Help somebody you hear!!

to do what? :muah: NAN

WHAT YOU JUST SAID, Granddaddy had a whole family on the other side of town but not an nan time did they ever cross paths or comingle and his wife and first family aint lack for a damn thing.

When I was in college there was a snow bunny spreading gonorrhea to football players ?

Who wrote this article? Seriously, who sat down and typed out this mess? I can’t figure out if we’re supposed to take it seriously or if it’s a sarcastic write-up.

And that’s the way it should be but men can be weak about the flesh and getting they dyck wet.

“just pumping and sweating”

?

I’m on the floor!

ummmm is a little butter cup on the horizon?

Off topic but some what on topic My ex husband cheated on me and divorced me to be with his ex co-worker(woman I befriended and used to babysit our daughter) only to cheat on her with another girl (who knew about the current girlfriend) and got her pregnant. He then left the co worker to be with the pregnant one and now they are married. If that’s not KARMA!!

Oh no….not the women respecting men convo

I don’t think you sound holier than though at all, Lurk. There are some guys who will stick their peens in any hole. There are some who are more like you and actually practice self control.

Folks just need to be real with themselves and their mates about their desires and like would be easier for so many.

Karma is a beast! I’m too old to be paying for some foolish mistakes.

Well look at God…The only side piece(s) you need is right and left. and the only one I have is thumber.

I was tempted 2 weeks ago. Childhood crush post on FB “I’m in yo city at the Hilton til 8 pm” Ninja STILL fine as he was in high school. I lied and told him I was at work. I’m not fugging up my fo show, fo some moe. I’ll see ya next lifetime bruh. Karma won’t get my ass.

He is a piece of work. ?

Nasty behind. Go to the clinic and clear that ish up.

We’ll see. I’ve had baby fever since the new year.

You SOUND Hideous! Cut the shyte aint nobody playing “Brady Bunch” around these parts.
IN OTHER News OchoStinko’s “NEW BM” is sangle and trying to get W I C
:sips:
yeah keep having babies for the sake of multiplying

passes down all the kid clothes that were offered to me yesterday… HOT POTATO! YOUR IT! LOL

But why lie though? If you were “truly” not interested. That’s what you should have said. Telling him you had to work only leads him to believe if he caught you at a better time, it would be on and popping. And he’s going to try again, and again. And one of those times, you ain’t gonna want to lie no more. And you’re going to find yourself twisted up in some sheets like a Rold Gold pretzel.
But hey, do what works for you….

WHATTTTTTTTTTTTT…BAY-BEE

Isn’t she also on section 8 also? No shade to anyone on it. My homegirl got a nice house in FL on section 8.

Ma’am understatement of the freaking year….I do my best with my emotions because I’m still livid

Then don’t get married.

Come through. Cause IF I was to ever cheat, it won’t be with no random. Trust.

I mean was SHE there…you know ocho lubs the kids..

They are still together. He just posted her and his kids going to concert last night. She’s been tweeting about blogs lying on her.

Ok! He was talking we can’t see her till her shoe game right with these CL’s he’s been looking for ?

“Arian Foster is a man who has fulfilled God’s commandment to multiply and replenish the earth with multiple women.”
^^^^
Sandra, can you point me to the scripture that instructs men to multiply with “MULTIPLE women”?????? I mean, multiplication can be accomplished with a pair. If he and his wife as a pair have already produced a child/children, then he’s already fulfilled the “commandment” to multiply. What he did beyond that with another female amounts to infidelity and disrespect for his wife/marriage/home (not to mention the total disregard he obviously had for his wife’s physical health as well as his own). He acted irresponsibly; God is not the author of confusion.

She posted the same ones he did. I’m not debating this. She made a joke about WIC on twitter and ppl running with it. I wish I didn’t even try to correct the wrong info.

My mom and dad too! This is why men need to be careful of how they treat their wives! You never know how it affects the children! Mainly daughters, I say the men in my family are like the Kennedy men, take care of home financially but emotionally and mentally doggish as hell!

Lmao! But even then, if he has money….

Well….I ain’t gone lie and say I didn’t think about it. I’m human. And he knows if I wasn’t married, I probably would have. It was just easier to say I’m working. Don’t judge me. Lol.

Child you are so tired, like who likes there own comments?..you are such a cornball and You don’t even know it…

Which is kinda sorta what, “until the wife left” means…

Receipts of what? They always tweet dumb chit. People take it serious.

Good but he always takes care of children..the BMs is who he leaves for dust.

I grew in a household with a cheating father and a loving and faithful mother. The pain and broken trust it caused my family can never be forgotten. You apparently have never been in that situation or you would not be so dismissive about it. Infidelity has to do with insecurity and narcissism. ..not some primal and manly rite of passage.

Bwaahhhhahaha ?

Stop!! I can’t take it. ?

Oh no its cool..I hope it’s not true.

So true!!!!

lol

I got a few fb and ig friends that do the same like WTH??

Sandra Mae – can we PLEASE go back to being selective about who gets to join our little community? There are some folk around here who make sounds I don’t like. With the “old” family – I just accepted that there were some drunks, ignorants, uppities, comedians, activists, and a$$holes… but you HAVE to deal with family.
I don’t know these other peepa and I want em out! #Petty Pendergrass

Romina Lombardo-Foster gyrl stop playing…you betta enroll in the Evelyn Lozada school of tricking. Stay with Arian get wat you can until ALL his bread is GONE. THEN leave because he was cheating. Then bounce back with a dude with MORE Bread and have some babies to secure a check. #IJS

I never understood liking your own picture….isn’t that kinda implied when you uploaded it? I hope you didnt upload a pic of yourself that YOU thought was ugly.

Im glad you can admit such things. I respect it.

hahaha at this post…but its true….we gonna do what we do

Why I loves the Lurks!

Sandra being a medical nurse wont respond to this….LMAO

IONo that factually however I have read that she is. BUTT I guess it’s COOL. the kids have a roof over their heads.

Ugh. It’s been a minute since the change. Y’all oldheads still ain’t over it? Ch….

Step Mama Butter either was a saint or too doped up on Xanax to care. He had AT LEAST 8 kids on her while they were married. I recall Mama Butter would call their house like, “Hey Step Mama Butter. How you doing? Is Papa Butter there? May I speak with him please?” Apparently, Step Mama Butter tried to nip things in the bud early in their marriage but he told her that Mama Butter can do what she wants and that includes calling their home. He told her to get right or get left. Well, y’all can tell how that story ended.

Thanks Summer!

Thanks Brownskin!

maybe he has more than one phone/plan *shrug*
#noTiger

I don’t get the correlation between the two. Men are all equipped to produce a seed that doesn’t mean a man is mentally and emotionally stable and ready for a relationship. He wouldn’t have all these babies if he didn’t have anyone to procreate with. If the first had raised her standards then the subsequent BM’s might not have happened. Just my two cents.

You’re not who he is referring to. Your font is not of the mto kind. More of the garden kind ?

Cause Grandpa and Grandma Butter did their fair share with 15 kids and no outside babies.

Right… DITTO. I’m just here for the foolery and gossip.

Gimme some of that ?

Hey there! ?

Well now that you elaborated…

There were others. Remember Cain killed Able and God placed a mark on him so he wouldn’t be hurt by others when he had to leave…….

Happy Birthday! ????

*weeps softly* my hort is full :sniffle:

Hey sista wife ?

Happy Birthday! Enjoy your day/week/month!

sorry for your loss

Thanks Nancy!

Ahh for sure NAN. It’s easy to say what we wouldn’t do if we are not in that situation/moment.
I’m sure I could NOT / would NOT accept it.
No
MaaM

I’m well sweetie! good to see your font!

Well … its not your website so be a man and not a shady QUEEN.
You’re a mean girl trying to make new people feel uncomfortable to voice their opinions. You’re not even cool enough to say you’re watching somebody’s comments to determine whether they can join your little corny circle.

I mean… who are you?

Who do you think you are?

Please quote the scripture in the Bible , where it says men are wired from the womb to cheat, I will bet dollars to donuts you are unable to do so. It’s painfully obvious you are not married ,and will never be with the ignorance you spew. Women of long ago put up with much more because they were much more dependent on their spouse in those days. Women today are much more capable of not depending on their spouses, and being able to leave once they, their children , and marital bed has been defiled, and disrespected. While adultery is a biblical ground for divorce, it is certainly up to the individuals in the marriage to decide whether to work it out , or divorce. Their choice certainly should have nothing to do with the ignorant opinions of a blogger.

I got hot tears. Damn. That sums it up tho. Rude aunt. In real life the aunt you just described is my aunt Bobbie. That bish will cuss a kid smooth out. And has been for about 45 years. And will tell your azz QUICK: “So! Tell yo mama or daddy. I will cuss them out too if they come back saying something.”

We been threatening kids at fam gatherings with her forever. Better sitchoass down before I go get Ant Bobbie!

Nothing, yall were just to late to be a cancer Hi Summer?Taylor

Donald Trump though? Sandra offers controversial points of view (duh, it’s a blog) …but I’d never compare her to a hate-filled, entitled, bigoted arse-wipe like Trump.

*waves*

Why he got to be a shady queen when he’s expressing HIS opinion? What if someone told you to stop being a petty azzhole when you font something?

I disagree 100%!

Yo that Future album is about to be number one.
I bet she wish …. never, ever mind!

It’s painfully obvious you are not married ,and will never be with the ignorance you spew.
^^^^^
Umm well Sandra…. she’s a lesbun.

Lmboooo

Lol,(stomps in place)Don’t do us like that!(twists shirttail) a little on the DEMANDING side but we cute!0:)

Thank you

Yes I’m gorgeous lol. Cancers are A1

Childhood crush? Did yall bang at one point? Old dude left the hotel room/check out time (rather late check out) like he was real familiar with them drawers. LOL

What are you the likes Police?

SandraRose! Tell me your site has been hacked! Yesterday you had the nerve to say the KKK a hateful organization was having a peaceful protest! Like what the hell is wrong with u! Nothing about a white supremacist hate group is peaceful and it is about time someone handed their asses to them! And today you say women are selfish because they leave with the children instead of being cheated on! WTF! She has every right to leave and you my dear are clueless and your opinions seem to come from a Cracker Jack box! Bloop!

Happy B-day, Slant!!!! ???

Thanks

Guest, calm down. Sandra olny says these things to be provocative. It’s not that serious. How about you state your views and opinions in an orderly fashion and we can have an interesting discussion about this? k hun?

You probably are. But some of your sistern. ? ugly to the bone.

He was in town for work related business. Only here for the day. Wanted me to come to the Taste of Chicago with him. No bueno dude. And yes we smashed in high school. That’s why I wasn’t going. I know a set up when I see one.

Carrington! are you working WITH Sandra to increase her hits? …’cause you ’bout to bring out ALL the trolls, lurkers, and banned SR complainers/haters. *takes cover*

lawd, LOL!!!

Summer *puts up hand* please stop right there w/any & all fb/ig references. last time you went there, you was talking bout folks lights was off, but they was still posting “dimly lit” pics …I cackled all day about that, even when I was outside of the office – it’s not a good look. ROFL!

Grow up and mind your business. You’re too old to be a minion of a mean girl. This is school yard behavior.
You people are not in highschool anymore. Grow up.

U stay reaching! U have no actual idea how hetero relationships work, other than reading on them! This is not the 1950’s! Women today can provide for their own kids, and don’t need a man unless they want one! Staying in a relationship with a cheater, where there’s also fighting hurts the kids more. Everyone deserves the right to be happy, and your stupid for staying in a relationship with someone that will repeatedly disrespect u! Plus, not all men cheat! Please join the 21st century soon!

“wives with knives” Lordt that tickled me something terrible! ROFL!!!

hand. clap. my nicca!!!
(now you know that’s just gonna make ’em want you more?) LOL!

Thank the Lord everyday that this fiendish devil is in your rear view mirror.

See, everyone who KNOWS me from this site knows that I like to joke – but you wouldn’t know that because clearly you’re not someone I would allow to take out my trash. Shady queen? See, a shady queen would call you a bunch of ignorant, tacky, unattractive b*tches hiding behind a doll because her face and the TERM doll won’t match… but the GENTLEMAN in me will simply turn the other cheek – right before I say, “B*tch f*ck you…”

gurl all of what you said. I said if I think I got a rash that ain’t from nairing or laundry detergent that’s your azz. I’m the owner and if I ain’t doing anything to depreciate the value, I’ll be damned if you do.

Well if that is you in your photo I would refrain from calling someone unattractive. Lol.
I really would. And usually I wouldn’t respond to a Mitch like yourself because in real life I would have a real man handle you but I just had to say something because I cant believe an uncool nerd like you is trying to dictate who Sandra should let in her site.
Usually I don’t even converse with catty gay men who can’t dress, because what else would we have in common beside knowing fashion? Fashion is why normal thinking women even accept you ( a catty gay man).
You can’t battle a real man because he would knock your effeminate butt out so every chance you get you like to come at a female as if you’re superior.
What makes you think you hold any authority on a woman’s site? And look in the mirror before calling anyone attractive. You’re fly and your face isnt popping like that either. If I were a gay male I wouldn’t look twice at you.

Me, im far from unattractive and have never had a problem getting a handsome + successful man.
I’m not hiding behind anything I purposely chose this Doll because she’s beautiful and reminds me of myself. I love dolls and I love fashion.

NOW back to you!

If you were SO cool THAT I WOULD HAVE to KNOW YOU TO SEE HOW YOU “PLAY” You’d have your own forum where you can dictate who’s who and who can comment.
I KNOW HOW SANDRA PLAYS BECAUSE SHE IS COOL and she is known. I would never be here commenting if she was still tweeting on twitter. I would just read her post and then keep it moving. You- I never heard of and by the looks of what you have on… I probably never will.

I AGREE!

I just got one question….WOMEN,DO YOU THINK YOU CAN WALTZ BACK UP IN YER HAPPY HOME PREGNANT FROM ANOTHER MAN.AND YOUR HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND/MAN STILL BE TRYING TO KEEP THE FAMILY TOGETHER???DO YOU THINK HE GONE BE AS FORGIVING AND UNDERSTANDING AS SOCIETY SEEMS TO FEEL WE SHUD BE?(money Mike vc)I’ll hold…..

Exactly!

I’m not in his bed and neither am I in his or the others head. But what I stand strong on is he wouldn’t be able to create broken homes if the women raised their standards and required marriage before children. He wouldn’t be able to dive deep in every chick if those chicks kept their legs closed. I was fuqin for years before I got married never claimed to be a virgin. My child wasn’t created until we were married for 3!!

Girl…I thought about it lol but God. And besides I wasn’t messing up my lucrative career over that sorry situation and leaving my kids motherless. He’s a great father despite the marriage so at this point I’m grateful for that and working on forgiveness

Typical. You want to CHALLENGE a man, unprovoked. Call him out of his name. Attempt to disparage his character. And then the MINUTE you get called out of YOUR name. The second you get addressed in the very same disrespectful manner in which you ADDRESS – you want to revert back to being a woman and want to be handled as such. You’re that foolish person who thinks she can hit all over a man and then claim “woman” right before he responds. I got you. Welcome to the community, ignorant. I try to a lot 15 minutes per day to entertain fools. Your time is up.

I agree with you there! We settle for mediocre constantly when we can have so much more

say that ish!!!

Sandra Rose sounds like an idiot and the last bish to be discussing anything biblical. FOH

I wouldn’t expect him to be forgiving and understanding.
Relationships are hard work and if I ever got to the point where I’m coming home pregnant by another man than that means I had already given up on the relationship. Not only that, but there is no way in the hell I would subject my kid to growing up around a man as a constant reminder of my indiscretions. Some couples are able to work through it and I applaud them, but I couldn’t stay in
the relationship… but that’s just me.

Not reading your response. ?

It should be..men shouldn’t be selfish marrying a woman because he doesn’t want anyone else to have her, knowing he still wants to sow his royal oats. I mean, women who marry athletes or any man with power and money should expect their man to cheat. I say if you can’t deal with it then live by your own means…then again who marries for love nowadays anyway. If Cookie stayed with Magic and this dude caught the monster then these wives shouldn’t have a problem with outside babies. They just wanted to live that lifestyle but now they will live that lifestyle off his money the way they want to.

Nope. She was with this dude for money. She had the two kids like others do..that way she will get a good payout. She didn’t care what he did as long as she got what she wanted. Now she will get her own (of his money) and not have to wait or ask him for money. These women don’t care if you cheat as long as they don’t bring an outside baby into the mix. When that happens…they act as if they are trying to work it out..then they divorce…the judge will look at her with sympathy because it looked as if she took her vowels seriously but with her being Caucasian she’s going to get a great deal out of this anyway.

Agreed, Thats life or death when you start dibbing and dabbing elsewhere. You put my life at risk. I would divorce him as well and do just as the video above

Hell 2 Da Naw!!!!

OMG. I love it.

That’s what comes with cheating. People quick to let a man be a man but once the topic on STDS come into play u hear nothing

Now Auntie I’m a little disappointed in you. You give us great blogs on how we need to be careful about these DL men giving black women aids well what about these men that cheat and have unprotected sex? Back in the day women didn’t have to worry about catching HIV, but we do. Cheating and putting my health at risk is a no go. I would leave his azz to and take that MF to the cleaners!!

Usually when women cheat we are tired and had enough but we usually have a game plan and its to benefit our kids/family. I wouldn’t cheat with no bum dude! If I am going to do it, he would have to have more than what I have at home and that treats me better than what I got or whats the point.

Women are smarter to me and we know what we’re doing when we do decide to step out. Men usually cheat to get off and thats, that. Women, not so much, were are more emotional and thats why dudes can’t take it when a we cheat because they know it was more emotional with feelings involved.

My granny told me, you and your kids should never go hungry if you know how to play “it” right. I knew what she meant by the “it” too and I was young! My granny was an ol g! Wink! LOL!

That’s a good take.

Might as well get some $$, and some new dyk. cha ching.

Do u hear yourself? Men still have to parent their children whether they are with the mother or not! If more women stood up for themselves they won’t be walked all over! Good for this chick, hopefully others will start following suit!

He nasty!

I never did like a dude with a bunch of damn kids anyway! Too damn stressful and I’m selfish as far as that lol.

Womanizing men created religion, therefore creating all the religious literature that pollutes this earth…..The bible and koran as well as many other “good books.” All bu l lsh it. JS

Seriously !?!?, I couldn’t believe you actually wrote this post. Women being selfish… ? Listen I’m a 27 year old divorcee mother.. and for the same reason men want to be treated as men but don’t want to play the role..I dealt with it for a long time after a while you can’t stay for the children.. you stay with a man because you love him. His kids will always be his kids..He wasn’t thinking about them kids when he laid up raw with another woman. I wish I would allow my daughter to be disrespected by any man, that’s why I had to lead by example..smh SANDRA smh.

You better say that. Somebody needs to bring me my shawl!

She did right to put his a$$ out,I would had done the same thing too.

That’s so right,lots of them don’t have no emotional connection or love for a woman yet can dip their stick into any female .

Exactly!

You speak the truth!

That’s right.

It’s a shame,your mom deserved better than to be disrespected like that.

Sorry for your loss,I hope that your mom found peace

He laid the groundwork. If no one read his first chapter to see how the rest would be…shame on them.

Ain’t that the truth. Thank him for it ALL.

He has another one? My, oh, my.

I’ve seen some physically abuse the significant other/spouse and the kids.

They just stood there and took it.

??? I swear I was going to say that part…girl I was looking for a cigarette after he desribed it like that!!!!!! And I don’t smoke!!! Omg!

Sandra – Just to make sure I understand you. You ARE trying to stir up emotional responses with your latter comments about being selfish, not respecting men etc. etc, right?

Not even close, do better please? ?Not falling down that rabbit hole of nonsense. ?

Well said

Me too & cheat too!

Dubb I’ve come to the conclusion that you are insane in the membrane lmao @you all the time!

Oh no they read it but they were to busy trying to be the editor and rewrite the story lol

I don’t think it’s ADD lol but I do think it’s genetic both his father and grandfather same thing only difference is they stayed in thier marriages

Girl working my ass off and been busy with the hubby and kids.. How are you love?

Man or woman, if u’re not ready 2
Marry & committ. Stay Single. ?

Life’s simple,
We choose 2 complicate it?

Sandra are you drunk posting ish.

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Arian just came out as an atheist. God’s laws don’t apply to him.