By Sandra Rose  | 

Ciara and Russell Wilson

Seattle Seahawks quarterback Russell Wilson sat down for an in-depth interview with Miles at The Rock Church on Sunday,

Russell isn't corny, he's just a deeply religious man who doesn't believe in sex before marriage. No wonder he can't keep a woman.

Women today aren't checking for celibate men. They don't spent hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars on hair weave, butt and breast implants just to hold hands with men.

Besides that, Ciara is far from unsullied. It wouldn't be a stretch to say she has been run through by nearly half the men in the industry. If Russ is looking for a virginal woman, why in God's name did he hook up with her?

I'm chopping 6 months off my earlier prediction of 2 years for Ciara and Russell to be together. They will be history by this time next year.

From In Flex We Trust:

Wilson sat down for an Q&A session at The Rock church yesterday where he talked about his relationship with Ciara and dropped a holy bombshell about their sex life.

“I asked her what would you do if we took all that other stuff off the table and did it Jesus’ way, no sex?”

Russell says Ciara agreed … and since that time, their hot and heavy relationship has been filled with cold showers … and absolutely NO banging.

Wilson does admit staying celibate ain’t easy since Ciara is a “15 out of 10? … so he’s begging the churchgoers and Christians all around to help him in his journey.

“I need ya’ll to pray for us.”

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    • Chitsngiggles

      Meanwhile Ciara dry humping dudes on stage at her shows. Bye Lance.

    • Femme404

      Women aren't checking for celibate men? Lies. I've been celibate 5 years, and I think sex before marriage is illogical. We exist.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Smh this whole post

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      They don’t spent hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars on hair weave, butt and breast implants just to hold hands with men.

      ------------------------------------------------------

      She ain't describe women. She described hoes..

    • Chitsngiggles

      If Ciara done signed up to be Russell's beard I'm done with her fr fr.

    • Femme404

      You better SPEAK ON IT.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Ain't nothing wrong with that. And we don't have knowledge of Ciara being ran through. Russell ain't a virgin himself. Let's just hope he wife's her up quick. When you marraige minded like that ain't no need in waisting time.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      If I was to ever get single again by way of murder, divorce, death etc... I will sit on my cat until we've said I do's. These ninjas giving out Ebola of the dack cause they ain't washing good before the eating the next azz.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      I ain't never heard the man speak. Does he sound gay? Act gay? I don't know the brotha like dat.

    • Chitsngiggles

      That's true. The second time men know what they want. I can attest to that.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      When they saved and marriage minded they will wife you up in six months. It's better to marry than burn.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I respect it. Me and mine haven't done anything....granted he got delpoyed within a month of us meeting. Now it is on and popping when he gets back but if he wanted to wait I would.

    • Chitsngiggles

      He just too cookie cutter for my liking. I need some kind of edge.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Bloop!

    • rayne215

      im so sick of the groupie hopping, multiple baby mama having athlete. He is quite refreshing. I hope Ciara and him continue to work

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Well thanks for that. I feel better about my current state of not having got nan in many a month. Ok that passed real quick.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Ok?!?

    • Chitsngiggles

      She deserve!

    • Chitsngiggles

      #groceries

    • Femme404

      Look here's my philosophy. When I meet a man and I tell him I'm celibate and we get serious..he's going to ask himself two questions, 1) Do I want to get married? 2) Do I want to marry her? If the answer is yes to both of these questions why do I need to have sex with him? If the answer is no, obviously I need to move on. These are the questions we need answered as women. Sex complicates sh*t. Decisions are so much easier to make when there is no sex involved. How many people do you deal or have dealt with you wouldn't give the time of day if ya'll weren't screwing?

    • QueenyBean

      You damn well that knee-grow ain't waiting no longer than you make him

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      And also you act like Ciara is a hoe. Every guy she been with, she dated and they have never spoke bad about her from what I remember.

    • KDub

      Bow Wow said she has a urinary incontinence problem and pissed on his mama rug

    • rayne215

      True, wasnt her fault she tried to change a hoe into a husband with Future. we live and learn

    • KDub

      But I mean that was eons ago

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      ...those 7000 miles between us got him waiting, Sept CAINT get here quicker.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      please go away from me! ROFL!!!!! LMAO!!!! CRINE.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Lol Bow "Im too broke to pay for CS but I can upgrade Erica Mena" Wow...oh ok

    • KDub

      What?? Sweater God Shad said that about her.

    • Chitsngiggles

      The definition of what a hoe is varies by language, geographic location, circumstances, and if you love them or not lol. Is Ciara a whore by definition? It depends on who you ask. I say naw...but she protrays it on stage

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      ??? really?

    • Chitsngiggles

      ?????

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      I feel you. Estranged hubby cured me of that shat. Like all the way. Take your edge on somewhurr is what I tell em. Shoot I think I want a white man now.

    • Femme404

      Right. Men are not complicated. They know exactly what they want. Women hear what they want to hear.

    • AriesSun

      Ciara has had edge and look where that got her?Edge has left her dumped multiple times and with a trifling baby daddy.

      I think now she is with a man that can look deeper at her than some sex toy he uses up.She's with a man that loves God and in my view,that means their thing will have more substance as long as she can respect that.

    • KDub

      I ain't never liked his pint sized self. Size negative smedium azz nigga

    • Femme404

      Nope don't need edge...just good martial sex. I was done with edge @ 25. I don't want a punk. I will always want an alpha...just an alpha in khakis.

    • KDub

      Yas.

    • KDub

      I'm happy for this chick. Go Ciara!

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      OK...don't know how I feel about Russell Wilson as a person...but I'm about to make a bold prediction. He's going to marry Ciara. Yeah...I believe this is it for them.

    • Femme404

      Cut it OUT!

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      He's such a Lil bytch.

    • QueenyBean

      Lol TRUU *in my 2 Chains voice*

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      It wouldn’t be a stretch to say she has been run through by nearly half the men in the industry. If Russ is looking for a virginal woman, why in God’s name did he hook up with her?

      ___________
      Havent you read anything that Redeemed has posted!?!?! Everyone can repent and start a new!! Right after you break free from the edomites lmao Who said Russy wanted the virgin type anyway!?!?

    • Chitsngiggles

      Edge don't have to be bad. I'm not talking about a thug. I'm talking about mannishness. Like will talk dirty. Catch in the bathroom. Russell doesn't come off that way. He has no sex appeal to me

    • Noirluv45

      I'd take a celibate man any day over some man who can't control his nether regions. He's a good, honest, Godly man who loves and obeys the Lord. He's doing the right thing contrary to what this society thinks. He understands what the Bibles says about sex sin, and I applaud him.

    • Femme404

      "....wish we could switch up the roles and I could be that
      Tell you I love you, but when you call, I never get back..."

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      Oh no...Russell has skills. I'd bet money on it.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      Me too :) I dont know where all the hate comes from but I still phucks with CiCi (just not that Jackie album).

      *hits play on Promise*

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      this sounds like somebody tryna train a puppy; not like a dude describing his girl/ex-girl, LOL!

    • Chitsngiggles

      Her first two albums knocked. Then she went Hollywood. Some folks should stick to the rivers and lakes that used to. She had a good sound going and abandoned it.

    • Femme404

      I can't STAND an undisciplined man who can't control his peen, with me or anyone else. That's so weak to me. I heard Jay-Z say in a song back in the day..."I keep both my heads where they suppose to be..." it might have been BS, but I thought that was the sexiest ish.

    • Chitsngiggles

      That's all true if this what he really believes. But the fact that Ciara is out here giving lap dances her concert makes me pause. If she wants to be a wife, you have to act like it. Bey wasn't extremely sexual on stage until AFTER she got the ring. #fakeittilyoumakeit

    • Noirluv45

      You know!!!! Me either because if he can control that, he can control anything.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      “I asked her what would you do if we took all that other stuff off the table and did it Jesus’ way, no sex?”

      ___________
      This might work in her favor. Nothing like someone opening your eyes to what you didnt realize you were lacking. One of my gf's said she didn't even know how lonely she was til she met her new boo. Without sex he can get to know her on a deeper level. Complete opposite of what she had going on with Future who bragged about smashing the first night. Grown men do grown things!!

    • Femme404

      Ooooh you talking about sex. Lol...why yes of course.darling...

    • Noirluv45

      Yeah, that gave me pause too. I wondered if they discussed being unequally yoked, if that's the case?

    • Femme404

      Yes ma'am. In life he will DOMINATE. These men are rare, and they can't be manipulated with sex. Not at home or in the street.

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      I bet she stops doing that shyt. Ciara is about to undergo an image overhaul. Watch.

    • Chitsngiggles

      #iBet

    • Noirluv45

      For sure!

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Speak on it.

    • Ms. YaYa

      I think I like Russell and Ciara together...

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      I started following him on Instagram when him and Ciara got together. He stay visiting sick chirren. I think he might be headed into politics.

    • Chitsngiggles

      He always at the White House too.

    • Femme404

      I'm out! C-ya'll later!

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      When he spoke about her...yeah. This isn't some fling for him and she's BEEN ready to be someone's wife. They're getting married.

    • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      The dopamine faded?

    • 88

      Isn't celibacy dangerous for a man's sperm count?

    • slim3542

      Preach!

    • let the truth be known

      smh she should have taken her time when looking for that good man a long time ago. She settled for Future......in two interviews she admitted to planning her pregnancy. She was desperate. Her dumb a** should have waited a little longer. Sorry but I feel he is just infatuated with her twerking. lol He is trying to turn her into a good woman......too late.

    • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Yes it is. Men need to empty their sacs at least daily to flush their system and prevent medial conditions like prostate cancer. Marriage has nothing to do with nature. It's purely a man-made social concept.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      yeah in danger of being backed up but thats better than multiple baby mommas, thousands in child support, and stds

    • KDub

      You misspelled jacking off.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      He'll be ok *sits vaseline on the blog and a hall pass for the bathroom*

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      She better be smart and keep those Kardashian hoes far away from Russell too. Far, far, far away.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      lmao get outta my head Dub *hollering*

    • KDub

      Girl yes. Fawk they tambout?

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      Only if he doesn't "relieve" himself.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Russell seems like a good guy from a good family :shrug: ...said he's had some heartaches, and Ciara's been through some heartaches too, and he says she's everything he could ever want :shrug: ...sounds like he knows what he wants (I just hope Ciara's in the same place mentally and spiritually and this lasts beyond the dopamine phase) I wish them the best.

    • Chitsngiggles

      I just typed that but it never went through. She gone mess around and catch Khloe giving him some "relief" in the bathroom. I wouldn't go near nan none of them bishes

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Them hoes ain't his type.

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      He said he always wanted to be with her too. I see them engaged February 2016 and married shortly after if all goes well.

    • Cricket404

      I'm so happy I made it out of my 20's with sanity. Ciara stop punishing yourself for making bad decisions with men. Next thing you know you'll be changing your name to Fatima, quit eating pork bacon and covering your whole body in clothe with one peephole - all to say "I got a man".

    • KDub

      We discussed this schat yet?

      PHILADELPHIA — Bill Cosby testified in 2005 that he got Quaaludes with the intent of giving them to young women he wanted to have sex with, and he admitted giving the sedative to at least one woman and "other people," according to documents obtained Monday by The Associated Press.

      The AP had gone to court to compel the release of the documents; Cosby's lawyers had objected on the grounds that it would embarrass their client.

      The 77-year-old comedian was testifying under oath in a lawsuit filed by a former Temple University employee. He testified he gave her three half-pills of Benadryl.

    • Chitsngiggles

      That wedding gone be nice too. I hope she goes on island some where. That's gonna be beautiful with lil Future as ring barer

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      And Ciara can't be any worse than that (alleged) whore of an ex-wife :tea:

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      They also aren't her real friends. Even if he doesn't go for it they'll try, so she needs to drop the Kartrashians.

    • Ms. YaYa

      DANGIT!

    • Chitsngiggles

      Oh Shyt? Is gonna go to jail. This is crazy. I don't wanna see Bill locked up.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      I know he settled with a few of them back in the day. I just dont believe Janice Dickinson's azz talking about when she was young *blank stare* Bytch ain't never been young with her concrete face azz

    • KDub

      I believe all of them. Her azz was onliest one who had receipts too. Was on YT from 2006 interview on Howard Stern...saying Harper and Collins wouldn't let her talk about it in her book. So 8 years before she came with same story

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      That spoke volumes! The way "Future" stuck his chest out and put their business out, just to make himself look 'good' ugh! That told me everything I needed to know about his as a prospective mate. Immature, self-centered, a real pr!ck!!!! summabish!!! I'm bout to get angry now... let me back away from the "future" discussion.

    • KDub

      I mean he admitted it. Back in 2005. Under oath. He in trouble

    • Taylor

      It's men like him I admire. People are too weak these days, and that's why we have knocked up sluts and diseases galore...prove me wrong about men being weak Russell

    • Taylor

      Another one up here I admire...

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      I believe it's all true as well.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      I'm hesitant to get caught up in yet another one of your 'scenarios' MOD :rolleyes: LOL! ...but I sorta agree with this - it's Cici's to win or lose.

    • KDub

      Publisher made her take it out of her book. Says alot. Without saying anything

    • Monday

      Ciara is (is she a friend of the blog?? I know the rules)... for some reason.. since Bow Wow back then seems to have men fall for her then run for her...

      Was she ever confirmed as a born female?

    • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Ciara just wants a ring. She wants a man to wife her. Russell hasn't even known her 6 months and he's already talking marriage? He is a female Ciara. Clearly he is more into her than she is into him. It will be interesting when the dopamine fades for him.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Huh? Well unless these 'transformers' out here giving birth, I'm gonna go ahead and let her be a natural born woman ...no birth cert required, LOL.

    • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Unlike Beyonce, Ciara gave birth.

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      That's commendable of him, that's a hard thing to do especially in hollywood surrounded by temptation ,putting God first is of the up most importance if you truly want a relationship with Him. Im 6yrs strong without a relationship (sex) (waiting on God's best for me) ...Go Russy, you made me love you more!

    • Taylor

      Any excuse for men to whore around.. .

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Shut thee front doe?! Camille been married to a prevert all these years!

    • <3 LoveDreamLive <3

      Welp, Blind Gossip just posted a blind about this-See "Opposite Cake Blind" on Blind Gossip...

      ...#Shame because I was really rocking with him and CiCi...I hate all the fakeness of celebrities...

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      Same here 6yrs....We do exist!

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      Preach!!!!!

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      Girlllll, say it again!!!

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      Take em to school sis!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Oh Sandra :facepalm: maybe she just wants a husband? (anyway, didn't she have a ring? ...and a wedding dress? *trails off*) :kona:

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      A man that loves God first, will know how to love his woman....That doesn't mean they won't have issues, I'm not saying that, I'm just sayin he'll know how to love her Gods way!

    • LordeAmbler

      Yall some hatin negroes. Ciara is far from a hoe. A woman is allowed to journey till she finds the person that's going to lead her. Splendid choice CiCi. Splendid.

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      Amen

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      Depends on the statute if limitations with regards to the 2005 incident and the desire to press criminal charges. He can't go to jail over the old stuff but does face civil suit for it.

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      Amen, sometimes it takes mistakes to learn... I wouldn't call her a hoe, I don't know her like that....

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      lucky for him, trouba don't lass all ways, LMAO!

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      He definitely wants to bang her back completely out too so...wedding bells ?

    • AQUEEN

      Good for them sex make stuff complicated

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      So she's been saying it for YEARS, no response from his camp, and people doubt it's true? He'd have hit her with a defamation suit complete with gag order if it wasn't.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Hey, all I 'know' of Ciara is her public humiliation by a dude I believe SHE believed was gonna marry her. Maybe when reality set in and she realized that her dream would never be any more than that with him, she looked at her son and decided that she wanted better for him and for herself. She's still young, and I don't think it's ever 'too late' to decide you want something better for yourself. (I mean, it's plenty 'regular' Sisters out here with good men now who love them AND 'that no-good knee-grow's chirren). I see no reason Ciara can't have that in her life. :shrug: PEACE!

    • Femme404

      Absurd.

    • GuestSTAR

      Yea, Ciara probably getting paid either in publicity or monies for this BEARDING job.

    • Letmecommentbeforeicant

      She's looking for a husband that could be a positive influence on her son.

      "She deserve, She deserve to be, She deserve, She deserve to be loved!"

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      I'm one of them. DF is an amazing father to all of our children even though he's only Dragon3's bio dad. Little Future will be better off having this college educated, intelligent, God fearing, family oriented, respectful man as a role model in his life to temper the influence of his sperm spreading, comma messing up daddy.

    • the guest

      Well said. I do believe they will marry and make it work. It's so good to see her desire better and he desire better for her. Blessed.

    • KB

      So are the rumors that Ciara is his "beard" false?

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      IM DONE WIT YOOOOOOU!:")))))

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Yep. That's why he's calling on the saints for praya. I bet they're over there like Rev. Leon Lonnie Love and Gina Waters.

    • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      I don't think that man is gay. Ciara just wants a ring and she will do whatever it takes to get one. Russell is not Ciara's type. But she needs that ring. And it doesn't hurt to be a football player's wife.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Whaaa? Oh. Shiiid. But why am I laughing? That's not right. Let me stop. This is like a wreck. I can't look away. OMG. You sure Shad was talking about Omarion...allegedly?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      I had read on another blog yrs ago that he admitted it and settled with several victims so I never doubted. And it always bugged me that ppl were trashing the victims for saying something so late. People weren't going that hard when the Catholics were outing the pedophile priests decades after the fact. Trauma is real and long lasting.

    • Rachel

      Sandra, you called Russell Wilson a deeply religious man. I'm calling him a cheapskate; no sex = no babies = no child support. He has not re-signed with the Seahawks plus he divorced his wife to keep her from getting her share.

    • CookieMobster

      I like it. If they truly conduct themselves the way Jesus intended then they will be blessed beyond what we can comprehend. Go Russell for being the man and taking the lead like a man should. Ladies when we get a REAL man we ARE supposed to let them lead us. We often forget that.

    • MensonFilm

      Thats beautiful if true but word on the street is he 'how you doin' and ciara is a high priced beard. But you aint heard that from me.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      He has that MILLI VANILLI vibe going. He may very well not be gay.but his manhood feels as weak as pond water just looking at these pics.this alone is a turn off if your looking for a man with just a bit more gruff.but if you just needing any ole man long as its a man.then I see how this BREATH and BRITCHES seems like a sure bet.

    • hottlanta

      With all of these people getting body parts from Home Depot we can't afford to wait until the wedding night anymore to have sex. I don't want to pull the covers back and get any surprises.

    • hottlanta

      Isn't that a press and curl poddle sitting in the middle of his head and he is trying to talk about our hair and being fake.

    • Prettyreddbone?

      I agree back in my parents day (they were/are devout Christians) no one had long engagements due to no premarital sex. I wish them the best and if its Gods will they will marry

    • Rene Edwards

      OMG! GIRL YOU MADE MY YEAR!!! THE BEST COMMENT I HAVE READ IN YEARS! Girl I have been sitting on mine for about 5 years now and I am GOOD!! I am sorry these men are NASTY. Half don't take showers daily. They don't clean themselves after they have sex with multiple partners. They don't wash their hands after they use the bathroom. I went to a cookout recently. The guy works with a friend of mine. Nice looking guy! Girl, I went into his guest bathroom and aahhh yeah I had to go to the nearest gas station. But all the women chasing him!!!!

    • Prettyreddbone?

      Wow you took me to church with that one, lol.

    • Perfectly Imperfect

      Lol, truth,speak on it!

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      That was my point she got a ring and returned it. Obviously she wants more. Growth is good for anyone

    • hottlanta

      Sex doesn't complicate relationships, unless you let it. A lot of time we women just want to get laid but we try hard to get into a relationship/get married just to have the sex because of generational sexual lies passed down from Big Momma and them. We play the waiting game for the anticipation of having sex because we have sat around and had all kinds of fantasies about it., Sometimes we wait and it ain't good and now you mad because you didn't try it before you buy it. Waiting to have sex for the wedding night has never stopped anyone from getting divorce.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Whoot. Oh shyt! It MAY be embarrassing for him or incriminating by showing a pattern? This should shut down a lot of the "trying to bring a good black man down" and "they're one night stand h0es trying to relive some shine" talk.

      Dayum. The AP don't play. I still say Bill pissed someone off. He either hit someone's wife, daughter, or missed some payments somewhere.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      Lmao

    • hottlanta

      Have you checked the statistics from the CDC of how many married woman have AIDS and STD's. 1 is too many. STD's don't discriminate they don't care if you are married or single. None of us are safe.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      I missed that morsel. I'm going to see if I can find that interview.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      But I do remember Janice saying she stayed out there as a youngster and got it in.

    • hottlanta

      A lot of people from that generation had kids put up for adoption and lived their lives as if the child didn't exist. Couples had affairs and did everything that is going on today. There was no all virginal generation. Our parents will never admit to having sex because they have to appear as if they are perfect. We all have secrets.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      It does make me raise an eyebrow that he has always wanted to get with her. Didn't Boobie say something like that?

    • hottlanta

      Ciara is single. She has the right to date whomever she pleases. That is what being single is all about. If you break up with someone NEXT. You can't so that if you are married.

    • Rachel

      Every woman has a lil bit of hoe in her :) Her reputation is based on how much Hoe she show.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Lol but it's the truth.

    • Rene Edwards

      PREACH GIRL! You are so right! It is so sad! I used to work with this girl whose husband gave her Herpes. I felt so sorry for her.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      But is he a freak in the sheets?

    • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      I'm referring to masturbation.

    • Femme404

      There are a lot of moving parts in what you wrote, so I'll say this...some of it can be true in certain contexts, but your first statement is patently FALSE. Sex brings all kinds of complications and insecurities and propels you to make choices you wouldn't ordinarily make if you weren't intimate with the person.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      IJS. I told Mr listen when I mortgaged this ? to you it was diseased and drug free. I'm going to need for your azz to keep it that way. If I ain't doing shat to f up my ph balance I expect your azz to do the same. Effen I so much as get an uncontrollable itch that obgyn can't explain quickly and without drawing blood your azz will be featured on Snapped.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Whoot. Well alright.

    • Femme404

      That doesn't mean that what they were trying to do wasn't the right thing, even if sometimes they failed.

    • Tiffany Miller

      She likes them hood type figures with a lil cash in their pocket...and some women do. However, as you get older, you realize that it isn't what you NEED when you are trying to stay out of trouble and raise kids. Monica was the same way in my opinion. It was real cool dating the thugaboo's but after two kids, she chose UP.. went from a rapper in the streets with felons and gang banger to someone in the NBA. Doesn't mean you lose the attraction to that type of guy. Men do the same.. they marry the homely, docile woman but still sleep with the thots.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      The owner of my last company married chick after 6 mths people talked about him cause he was a millionaire plus. He told me I told Darla we wouldn't be having sex because of our faith. She agreed. He said the way I figure if we went 6 mths and the urges wasn't there we wasn't the right ppl for each other anyways. Been married almost 10 years now.

    • Femme404

      Lol...yes Keisha said that's how he got her. He use to call and wake her up in the morning with a scripture.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      He said you crazy for real huh!

    • Rene Edwards

      SPEAK GIRL!!!!! You need to write a book!

    • Femme404

      Beautiful.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      C error will be engaged by Christmas.

    • Femme404

      Speaking of books...girl, every time someone says something about Steve Harvey's book I want to pull my hair out.

    • Femme404

      I'd be happy for her...if Russell is really that guy.

    • Rene Edwards

      Don't do it. Steve just got the right PR people. Real women know not to pay him any attention!!!

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Say something like...

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Chyyyyyyle,you asking that MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION!!!! you know what wood be that HURT???? if a bih infact wait to marry him...and di-ck is pure de trash!!!!(shakes head,hands in face yelling....)

    • Femme404

      Anything in it is correct. That 90 day bullsh*t was so incredibly stupid...on its face..instinctively and empirically. I don't see how women ever bought into.

    • YouWearItWell

      Good for Russell. He gets a lot of respect out here in the Pacific Northwest and all the ladies adore him not just for his looks and physical prowess, but his humanitarian efforts and his humble nature. This is def an upgrade for Ciara and it seems they may end up being a great match overall.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      That's all right baby. Those church mothers with the big hats or doilies on their head with a kerchief in their lap will pull her together real quick at. Sunday service, bible study, or an impromptu visit at the house.

    • Shia

      What's wrong with her giving lap dances? It's part of an act, a performance. Ciara has already stated that Russell is secure and isn't jealous by that. She's performing just as an actress/any entertainer. Janet is now married to a Muslim man and I'm sure she'll still have sexy performances on her upcoming tour (although maybe not as sexy as her past stuff). These are established acts and the guy knows what they've done performance wise before he gets with them. If he doesn't like it he shouldn't date them.

    • Rene Edwards

      GIRL I CAN'T WITH YOU RIGHT NOW! I just got out of this Atlanta traffic. I LUV IT! You are toooo much!!! Not mortgaged!!! Fixed rate not variable rate!

    • Renee Bee

      Y'all dropping some knowledge tuh day. "Some folks should stick to the rivers and lakes that they are used to." Yass!

    • Renee Bee

      Good point. I heard she up on stage grinding on men AND women. But you did not hear it from me 'cause I ain't one to gossip. Lol.

    • metrice7979

      A whore is a prositute. Just because you dating someone does not make you a whore. Sandra dont know if ciara screwing every guy she dates and how long she waited to give him the cookie.

    • metrice7979

      The kardashian curse,

    • TheRealLee

      I don't know why this is subject to ridicule. We would have less problems in this world if more men and women were like him.

    • Kita Williams

      ?? PREACH PREACHA!!

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Chile ....... Correct

    • hottlanta

      You can be emotionally involved with someone without having sex. We love our parents kids, friends, and animals so what make you think you won' become emotionally attached to someone you describe as a mate without having sex, The emotions gonna be strong for the anticipation of having sex one day and if you don't get it you freak out. Any woman that uses her vagina to define a relationship is no better than a prostitute. If you don't want to have all kind of complications, insecurities and drama as you say, don't have a relationship period and that has nothing to do with sex. Not having sex doesn't guarantee you no drama but not having a relationship will guarantee you no drama. Since when did getting married was a guarantee you won't get divorced.

    • hottlanta

      Exactly I hear married women say it all the time. I got married so I won't get a STD or AIDS. I said really if you don't want to gat a STD or AIDS don't have sex with your husband. As if a marriage license is a barrier against disease. I had one girlfriend going to take blood test every 6 months to see if her husband gave her AIDS and I told her if you find out what you gonna do. Her arm looked like a pin cushion.

    • Prettyreddbone?

      You are taking this to a "whole nother level". Im not ready, lol

    • hottlanta

      I would hate to be in the CVS aisle next to you and they are out of Monistat 7 to cure that itch.

    • Rene Edwards

      Wow....That is too much pressure. Marriage should not be that kind of pressure. Thank you God for patience.

    • hottlanta

      Did serial-marrier Steve Harvey wait 90 days before he married his 3rd wife? His own son didn't take his advice about bringing a girl home to meet the family before she becomes a wife. When they met her for the time she was wife/daughter-in-law and she popped that baby out real quick and got the title of mother.

    • hottlanta

      thank you. I rather see her keep moving on with her life than sitting at home with black drapes and listening to Phyllis Hyman all day. Go Ciara Go.

    • just being me

      I just wonder how many of his team mates and friends is he getting while while hes claiming hes holding out for marriage .. Religion the DL's man favorite standby ..

    • hottlanta

      Why is he got folks all up in their sexual business talking about pray for them. It's too much to do about nothing and who cares. Do I pray for them before I get my rocks off or after I get my rocks off.

    • Everclear1972

      Ha, ha,ha.
      This guy kicked his wife to the curb and is dating a babymama but he's 'religious'?
      More like selectively religious.

    • Traci404

      This is a God Fearing Man! I want one too! Does he have a Brother?
      Sleeping with all these men in not the way. ....look around who is it working for?

      Nobody.

      Sex is spiritual created by God, for your souls to intertwine.
      Sleeping around, passes demons from one person to the other...ask your Pastor.
      let God lead you, there is no better way, than for God to bring you together.
      No harm in waiting to see if it will work out. Whats the rush.
      Once you turn on the faucet, you cant stop. So wait. Pray.

    • Lenina Just Lenina

      DEAD at "far from unsullied." U so mean. ?

    • Jae

      Lol!!!! Why did I mentally picture that?!

    • Lenina Just Lenina

      In my best meek millie voice...hem hem....And I say chuuuuuch!!!

    • Jae

      Lol stop it!!! Now. Lol lol

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Amen

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Indeed

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Best wishes to them. I like them together.

    • Nia

      Good for them.

    • JerseyNikki

      That is the truest statement! I know I've stayed with men that I shouldn't have as well as made illogical decisions based on the sex...sex complicates EVERYTHING...it blinds you...I commend them on waiting

    • Lorenzo Chaps

      No sex before marriage (with each other). Good one Russ. He's either same sex oriented or got extra small jank. Ciara's a hot piece of tail that's gotta have it. She's not waiting like that. Future will get a couple bonus nights in there, IDC who she's dating.

    • Noirluv45

      "There is a way that seems right unto man, but the way therein is destruction." -- The Bible. Deception is why they are ridiculed. It seems unreasonable in this day and age when everyone's having sex on a regular basis outside of marriage, when before it was the norm.

    • Noize4u

      He sounds like a goofball

    • Noirluv45

      So, people complain when Black men are thugs, but when they are decent, they are called lame and other names. What a sick society we live in.

    • Shira Harding-James

      I find this very refreshing that this young man an athlete at that truly value morals. These are the type of men that we should be praying for ladies...a man who puts his faith before everything

    • booo

      Oh Sandra you're soooo full of crap, idk what to do with u!!! Smh

    • GuestSTAR

      He got his little tight black pants on, showing a little peekaboo leg, go on Russell.

    • Kinggg

      Y'all know Sandra has a way with words that's what keeps me coming back. She was low key tryna tell y'all something in that line lol

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Awwww cute. GOD bless them.

    • MS PEACHES

      Screaming laughter LOL!!

    • MS PEACHES

      His punk as-s probably wouldn't know the difference from cumming or pissing. Bitch as-s nikka.

    • Bobbie12

      You got a good point there. Truth. I told my friend this...guys may oogle the girl with the breasts out, tight clothes, weave and all that.. but then when he settles down, its a plain girl with a future.

    • holmesa925

      LOL!!!!

    • MS PEACHES

      That ugly one will be after her man quick. Ok I couldn't spell her name.

    • Hugga Bunch

      Does celibate mean you don't kiss anyone either? Curious.

    • Femme404

      No, but you do exercise discipline.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      I actually watched the interview last night. It was really good. He's like how Carlton Banks would be if he were a jock and a devout Christian. I like him a lot, but he really doesn't seem like Ciara's type if her past is any indication. Hopefully she has changed her taste. He's a keeper.

    • MS PEACHES

      I am just glad he went for a SISTA. That stringy Becky just knew she had him wrap up. LOL

    • Carmen Harrison Johnson

      Morning, Celibacy was not a problem for me before I got married, I did it for 3 years until I met my Hubby. It's a 'mind over matter' situation and not hard to do at all. And it was well worth the wait, I WISH CIARA & RUSSY THE BEST, have a great day everyone

    • Jessica

      Good for Russell and Ciara. I wish them well. Putting it out there sure will add pressure though. Gotta be careful of even the "appearance" of breaking that vow because people will hate you for what you're standing for! Love their decision!!

    • Jessica

      Nope. It just means no kind of sex. They are not the Duggars! LOL!

    • Tbone Right

      Real Talk!

    • Meme81

      Kudos to him, if it's true. Ciara is obviously not a virgin, so I hope he's not expecting as much.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Every single drop.

    • Ariel

      I'd rather leave him if I had to do all of that. Seems like she committed to the clinic as much as her marriage.

    • PrettyBrown28

      Well, I see that you don't care much for Ciara. But in this day, controversy sells. So I just added to your bottom line.

    • Li

      They've been in the press a lot lately which leads me to believe this is a fake arrangement. They showed up as the answer at blindgossip dot com, seems that they are not as real as they want people to believe.

    • SouljaSociety

      Whats the point of being celibate for 5 years if a nigga already f*cked you? I mean I guess it's good to keep your body count low.... But do virgins exist anymore.... Are all men destined to marry a woman who's already got f*cked?

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      "Ohh ohh I can't stand this living all alone."

    • Loyal Lifestyle

      Celibate for 7 years now and the clarity that it brings is almost magical. Less drama, easier to decipher sincere from an act and no worries about catching something i can't get rid of or need antibiotics for. My husband will know exactly what he's getting into (literally) and so will I.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      I didn't get any gay vibes from him either. It's interesting that you say he is not her type. I thought the exact same thing after I watched the interview. But us black women have to teach ourselves to like men like Russell because he is a good man. It was time for Ciara to make a type change.

    • jusbecsuse

      Kudos Russell. Continue to listen to God regarding your life and relationships. Him and Ciara are doing this the right way and I congratulate him on his journey.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      You should watch the interview. He's all man. Kinda boyish, but masculine none the less.

    • Lagoschic

      Very True !!!

    • tintin

      lmao. Sandra sure knows how to get the "how u doin" stills

    • Crazy tee

      Something about him seem suspect. I'll keep my eye on him for now...

    • JerseyMom

      Oh, how you doin? #beardalert

    • Keyshia Ray

      Dude look gay to me.

    • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

      There is nothing weak, goofball, or gay about this man. He's smart and articulate and God Fearing and unfortunately in our messed up world, that's not acceptable or the norm so something has got to wrong with him.and what's up with all the people saying he isn't her type? Damn! whatever happen to living and learning. My current guy is nothing like any of the men I dated in my 20s and 30s either, he is different because I'm different....more mature, wiser, confident, stable...etc...So I met a better man for the better place I'm in life right now. Congratulations to them!

    • chappedlippz

      I love how he shades Future by saying he knew he was gonna be with her before he met her. Same thing Future fed us.

    • Lagoschic

      LMAO !!!

    • OSHH

      God's way is the best way and the longer I live the truer that gets.

    • Sleepy One

      Sex does cause soul ties, so they better listen to you.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Charles Barkley voice

      Turrble I tell you. Just turrble.

    • A D N

      lol. I can stay celibate around RW. He isn't attractive to me lol. Should be a breeze for Ciara.

    • NSYDEOUT

      I don't get gay from him. He's just not "rough" like I think women are looking for. At this time, Cierra needs this and intimacy, not what Future gave her and left her to deal with. You have a much clearer mind when you wait a while. A you grow, u learn and dealing with the flukked up relationships I've been in, I grew up, worked on me, grew with the man I have now and things are good. You couldn't pay me to go thru the BS I went thru in my younger days. THIS is what Cierra needs. Shyt, u not gonna see Future going to the White House NO TIME SOON......

    • stanley

      If they dating for 4 months without sex, they going for the longhaul lol.. They be engaged by the end of the year and married by 2016.

    • ?Sugar&Spice?

      Oh. LOL Well then, no marriage in 3 months means she's a beard.

    • toni walker

      Black women are number one when it comes to AIDS and HIV!

    • toni walker

      She is being responsible by getting tested and should always use protection married or not.

    • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      You'll know what signs to look for next time.

    • Olga Grey

      Love and sex are two different things; women and some men confuse the two; by far women are the ones that this phenomena occur the most; and it is because sex is a physical, spiritual, and soulish act; and it is a counterfeit to the real need mankind has which it tries to satisfy many times and that is for love, which is why lust is the counterfeit of true love and many women find after the association with a sex partner is over and they are no longer sexually involved they wonder why they ever gave their former partner the time of day, it is because of the affects of the physical, emotional, and spiritual bond that forms through the sex act. Women and men unite in physical union which has the man becoming part of the women's body and the woman is the receiver; which even in an alternative lifestyle men become effeminate because sex affects more than the physical, but the emotional, the spiritual, the whole being.

    • shawny

      No sex helps you see the other side of the person. Develop real feelings and attachments instead sharing spirits and lustful feelings. Let us see where this goes. Viagra will get a chance to see just how much she is really worth.

    • NSYDEOUT

      Ohhhh!!! THIS!!! Real talk!

    • NSYDEOUT

      How come?

    • NSYDEOUT

      Yeah, they actually tell u to get tested every 6 months. When I have blood work done, every so often I ask to add that too but my office now automatically adds it.

    • hottlanta

      Being celibate for 6 months to a year is cute and you talk about it all the time. 2-5 years you still trying to convince yourself it's gonna happen soon, When it get to be 10 years and you are old and can't get nobody you mad about all the pricks you passed up because you can't even give it away if you tried.

    • hottlanta

      If you are with a man and if he kisses you on the check from a first date and you go bananas as to think we are in a serious relationship and you get all territorial as if he mine's no you don't need to have sex. You don't need to date. You need to stay by yourself. Some women freak out just because a man spoke to them and be talking bout that's my husband.

    • JENNYJONES1

      THE DEFINITION OF INSANITY IS REPEATING THE SAME OLE THING OVER & OVER AGAIN EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS. MAYBE CIARA FIGURED THIS OUT FROM HER PAST FAIL RELATIONSHIPS AND THOUGHT HEY WHY NOT GIVE THIS CELIBACY THING A TRY; WHAT DO I HAVE TO LOSE AT THIS POINT? SOMETIMES LESS IS MORE & GETS YOU MORE LIKE MAYBE A HUSBAND. GOOD LUCK TO THEM.........JENNY JONES!!!

    • kekeb

      Omg, 5 years? Me too!!!!! Wow! That's whatssup. Congratulations

    • kekeb

      This just blessed me so good! Wow, I love this. What an inspiration for young Christian couples!!!!! Jesus is proud of you two!

    • kekeb

      5 years celibate, me too!!! Yay to you! !!!! You ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT (some) MEN NOT WASHING THEIR HANDS after they use the bathroom girl. I can't! Like at all

    • kekeb

      ??

    • kekeb

      Well, to obey God. so you Won't get STDs. So you can have peace of mind. So you won't get pregnant by a man who does a disappearing act. So you won't get further emotionally damaged. So you won't keep making the same poor decisions.
      There a still virgins, but I'd say many men will marry a woman who isn't. Many women will marry a man who has had multiple sex partners. If you love someone, you accept their baggage. . .

    • kekeb

      I agree! Gone are the days of our parents and grandparents where you wait til Marriage or only sleep with one or two people your whole life. Man if I could turn back the hands of time, I'd definitely be a virgin. Smh.
      I was so happy for Ciara and Future, but they chose each other. If a marriage is to really really work, God has to choose your spouse. I'm even MORE happy for Ciara this go around. I'm proud of them. Even if they aren't meant to be, I think he's taught her something that she didn't know before

    • kekeb

      True, but generally speaking, their generation was more in tune with their moral compass. But you're absolutely correct, there are a lot of things to which they won't admit. This is one of the best conversations I've seen on this blog!!

    • kekeb

      Well, safety first.
      #protection
      I saw on a crime show a dude in the military was getting it IN and intentionally passing around HIV even to the lady he'd been with for 6 years.

    • kekeb

      Yeeeeesssss! I mean they KNOW these girls be gold digging, self absorbed THOTS, but as long as she got a fat ass and face like Shantel Jackson, they'll wife her

    • kekeb

      Bow Wow engaged to the queen of Thotland, so his credibility is ruined

    • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

      I remember the last man I dated telling me that women considered him 'defective' for being 39 and childless. When dysfunction is the new 'standard,' self-restraint seems freaky I guess.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Oh yes! I value my pocket. WE won't be engaging in activities without that paper and a - first.

    • Femme404

      Felicitations to you too babe!

    • hottlanta

      Sounds like married life when men walk out on their wives and kids. SO getting pregnant disappearing act and getting a STD is not exclusive to having sex while single.

    • Shira Harding-James

      In my momma dee voice.... I deserve!!

    • Alisa

      I guess noone notices how he looks in the first pic? We just gonna overlook that?? OK