After the break, friend of the blog Omar “Slim” White shares his unique perspective on relationships.
By Omar “Slim” White:
Why Do People Cheat?
As I study the planet I begin to understand many problems of this world. The people are losing their sensitivity. Many people can no longer feel anything which explains why they do what they do.
What’s happening? What’s taking place?
You see when we as people use expressions such as “not having a conscience” we’re describing that aspect of our being which deals with the processing of emotions.
Which is why those who process “information” at a greater degree can feel guilty about an action versus one who can do several horrific actions and not feel a thing. Chemicals in “commercial” food, water, cosmetics and other so called necessities are responsible as well.We must also factor in genetics. Which explains why some beings can see someone being tortured and not feel anything. Which is why some beings can see people being attacked and not do anything.
We must understand the psychological, biological and spiritual components.
So imagine a man cheating constantly on his wife, we must understand the malfunction taking place. When you’re “truly” bonded to a person you become ONE with that person. When you’re one with that person you feel what they feel. So for those who’re married and commit adultery you’re desensitized. How can you possibly have a true connection? This explains why certificates and rings don’t create the bond they are simply tools that serve as representers of the bond. So if you’re not able to establish a true connection with a partner then the paper and ring have no value.
When adultery and other heinous acts are committed we must understand that something is malfunctioning.
I remember one day I was waiting for this woman to back out a parking space. As she saw me waiting she began to take her time on purpose. This sister was broken. We’ve even seen broken people speed up as they see our turning signal. We see broken people abuse their power. We see broken people make fun of others.
We must not feed into that negativity. How can people do these things if something isn’t wrong?
Look at this world as a rehabilitation center. This is why The Creative Force responsible for ALL Life will send messengers and messages to touch the people. To teach the people. To show the people how to conduct them self as they inhabit the planet. This is why Prophets, Shamans, High priest, The Quran, Torah, Metu Neter, Holy Tablets, commandments, sacred scrolls and other resources came throughout time to teach man how to operate on a higher vibration.
Man has truly fallen from Grace so my brothers and sisters do not fall any lower than where you are. You want to transform yourself from a human being to that of a Divine being.
Peace & Blessings
and who made you dr. Phil Slim.
i don’t know why Sandra entertains this nobody.
i aint reading all that! MAWNING ROSES
http://vignette3.wikia.nocookie.net/adventuretimewithfinnandjake/images/a/a6/Meme-guy-staring-at-computer-screen-thinking.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20120718134503
He just needs to go ahead and open his own blog…. but wayment …don’t no body wontchew …..
good morning! every time i see his name there is an immediate eye roll.
Cheaters cheat because they lack self esteem, class, integrity and self love. Point blank and period.
…
no shade but #shade
Sandra better be getting a check from this nigga, forcing this non-factor self proclaimed something or other down our throat.
beats keyboard
http://tech2notify.in/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/create-own-memes.jpg
+ morals, values etc
Sandy can you post about Tina Knowles gatering up Beyonce haters. Please and Thanks.
So the chemicals in my makeup will make me cheat? Oh.
My silly azz is giggling already at “Shares his unique perspective on relationships” ? Let me go back & read now.
I think she gathered everybody, including fans and non-fans.
yes she did explaining but not explaining…
cheating is a choice… people CHOOSE to cheat…
Or because they don’t care and simply want to. There doesn’t have to be rhyme or reason to everything. Some people lack that “give a damn” factor when it comes to certain aspects of their relationships.
…sandra, if you don’t stop posting this man’s penitentiary logic.
I like the part when he said people do not feel and that is true. Many people have become hard in this life so they make decisions without thinking.
what happened?
lol
And my petty parking habits make me broken.? Okay.?
the negative chemicals in your makeup impact the physiological of the genealogical chemical makeup of your mondula oblongata cerebellum thus making you more likely to cheat, don’t ya know?
I remember one day I was waiting for this woman to back out a parking space. As she saw me waiting she began to take her time on purpose. This sister was broken
——
I got right here ??????
Y’all want to read my poems?
Exactly! He is suspect to me. Now that’s just me.
wtf. broken because she is driving careful? …. dis nigga.
People in general have become desensitized to a lot of things.
#thanksHollyweird
They’ve got to be better than this drivel. Let’s see em!
he needs to stick to one disciplinary field because lord almighty this is nothing but coagulated vapid jargon.
i seen it to. but it was a wyte woman and a black man waiting for the spot. what is her reason? i’ll wait.
Yes let’s add those to.
The Buffalo Bills still got fans? Why in the HELL you got THAT hat on bruh? Why
I read that 3 times like what the hell am I missing.
Two Slim posts all within a week’s time span. We must have lit his azz up good the last time ??
See this negro here. Why the “sister” got to be broken cause she took her time getting out the spot. Maybe she didn’t see you, maybe she was on the phone or maybe she just couldn’t drive. This guy is a control freak.
I don’t take relationship advice from chronically single people.
hell this beats an unclockable
lol he is the worst kind of annoying. the kind that is oblivious to the fact that no one takes him seriously.
Yeah LOL that stopped me too! Like negro please!
I think he doing this on purpose. He gotta know we don’t want to hear shat he got to say
So for those who’re married and commit adultery you’re desensitized.
Dam the speed your driving tells another your broken ?…??? I CAN’T an WON’T taday?
Chemicals in “commercial” food, water, cosmetics and other so called necessities are responsible as well.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
That MAC NC 50/42 foundation blend is the culprit on why I have zero fux allocated?
Say WORD.
Yeah he reminds me of Ayesha Curry. Just shut up sit down, look cute all while on mute.
…certificates and rings don’t create the bond they are
simply tools that serve as representers of the bond. So if you’re not
able to establish a true connection with a partner then the paper and
ring have no value.
—————
The only part I could agree with.
Nah, she was just petty! I wonder if she was a Rose.
We must also factor in genetics. Which explains why some beings can see someone being tortured and not feel anything. Which is why some beings can see people being attacked and not do anything.

^^^^^^^
Go to A REAL CLASS DUDE!
Nothing. You’re missing absolutely nothing from that logic.
HEY SLIM**
lmao not going to lie, i was riding with her until she went on twitter and was like ship is rigged. & then complained about people replying.
Probably ??
Nothing.
I posted almost the same thing ??
All this ?
He is. Like get your life.
We must also factor in genetics.
^^^^^^^^
well umm YEAH? this a given. My daddy NOR my mama have a single damn to give and never have. Its not magically like Imma show up to earth and start being compassionate. Its learned. But it also explains why I was fresh out the coot ready for a fukkless life.
We must also factor in genetics.
^^^^^^^^
well umm YEAH? this a given. My daddy NOR my mama have a single damn to give and never have. Its not magically like Imma show up to earth and start being compassionate. Its learned. But it also explains why I was fresh out the coot ready for a fukkless life.
This bama talk to hear himself talk
This bama talk to hear himself talk
Is this the guy that was giving head to every chick in Atlanta behind vivica back?
Is this the guy that was giving head to every chick in Atlanta behind vivica back?
This cat here is leaving out the other paht ????
This cat here is leaving out the other paht ????
lmbo.
lmbo.
? shatt let us know something! ?
? shatt let us know something! ?
Wait whet?!
Wait whet?!
Yeah he has know the roses are not here for him. Sandra come get your boy!
Yeah he has know the roses are not here for him. Sandra come get your boy!
Sandra does this to be funny,that’s the only explanation. She knows this irritates our souls!
Sandra does this to be funny,that’s the only explanation. She knows this irritates our souls!
I do ?
I do ?
Probably
Probably
You sure it was chicks?
You sure it was chicks?
We see broken people make fun of others.
^^^^^^^
Well I guess I must be broken then cause I damn sure enjoy laughing at your pseudo philosophical azz
We see broken people make fun of others.
^^^^^^^
Well I guess I must be broken then cause I damn sure enjoy laughing at your pseudo philosophical azz
At least he’on got the Pu$$y Monster up top now #positive
At least he’on got the Pu$$y Monster up top now #positive
Dazzleglass got me out here on my Tupac. “Giving a muthaFAWK”. Damn Sugar Rimmed. I been wearing it for eons. Its gots to GEAUX
Dazzleglass got me out here on my Tupac. “Giving a muthaFAWK”. Damn Sugar Rimmed. I been wearing it for eons. Its gots to GEAUX
This nigga about to start a cult and his own flavored kool-aid. He said nothing and blamed everything for cheating. This is so easy to do when you don’t really know what you are talking about; you begin to generalize everything as a cause for something and simply word it confidently to sound intelligent. I learned this is debate class. This is pimp talk…. blah
TL DR
This nigga about to start a cult and his own flavored kool-aid. He said nothing and blamed everything for cheating. This is so easy to do when you don’t really know what you are talking about; you begin to generalize everything as a cause for something and simply word it confidently to sound intelligent. I learned this is debate class. This is pimp talk…. blah
I’m not reading all’lat!!
Too busy looking at him! He could definitely be a pimp. I am wondering if he speaks as well as he writes…
No, but I did read this last week, and it is a very good piece, so I ask: Why are You single Mister Slim daddy sweet di(k Willie?
TL DR
I had on my favorite Mac Oh Baby on yesterday.
I’m not reading all’lat!!
Too busy looking at him! He could definitely be a pimp. I am wondering if he speaks as well as he writes…
No, but I did read this last week, and it is a very good piece, so I ask: Why are You single Mister Slim daddy sweet di(k Willie?
I’ve been broken all my life based on my driving.
I had on my favorite Mac Oh Baby on yesterday.
I’ve been broken all my life based on my driving.
Community service projects that Sandra is working on.
So me not being able to parallel park means what?
Community service projects that Sandra is working on.
So me not being able to parallel park means what?
but he is studying the planet… this is what he found…
but he is studying the planet… this is what he found…
You from the suburbs & never have to worry about parallel parking. ?
? tell me more tell more ??
Said the lady who was easing on out the parking space was broken? She coulda been elderly, fresh out of an accident and was nervous, you dont know. I hate generalizations. You just made her out to be bitter, single, and lonely over a parking space. Stupid ass
Keep going.
Are they about sex or some faux meaning and spirituality?
you including penis pics?
I’m so giddy I’m free & able to be up in this here post.
He got one more post of this bs before I deem him gay ???
Is there some type of monetary/sexual exchange for these posts? Clearly the masses are not amused but the posts keep coming. He got a nice body so gon head get you some Sandra.
Yup just because he has lips. Typing because he’s got fingers.
Zoe, it means that you have commitment issues and that you don’t wanna boxed in ????
?? Except when I go to the city ??
Bish. When I tell you BFF saw my current car had a back up camera? She was like Jesus KNOWS you cant park girl. He sent you this car.
?????
I FUKKIN hate YOU.
I like Oh Baby!
Love ya more ????
Rright!!
and, because they can with the Ratio…women to men.
No body gives a damn anymore and everyone is a free agent. No one cares
about Pluto flying around the universe. Really?
And THAT is why I can’t take him seriously.
I am HOLLERING. You said that so daggone cool. Like Zoe my child. Dont you SEE?
I’m in tears over here ??
I damn smushed the hell out the parallel parking cone taking my test. Still got my license though.
So State of Georgia perpetuated my “brokeness.”
What’s for lunch? I need to run out early today. Any suggestions?
And that’s why I stop reading at “Guest Post: Om…”.
you study the planet too huh? lol.
I’m saying ma his logic is so simple and backwards we can get more from a cereal box ?
This is me. I just got comfortable backing up between two cars. Thanks to the backup camera.
Cuz she does it for ???
Yup. I skim for the funny stuff.
Chinese so you can get a fortune cookie … it will enlighten you more than this idiot we are reading.
Well, that was like 6 posts of his ago for me, but good for you giving him a shot.
lololol
You Mean:one fish two fish, red fish blue fish…knick knack patty whack-Penitentiary logic??
Oh my goodness…I can’t with yall to-DAY!!!
We got a food truck coming. The hospilah is paying for EVERYBODY!…..but before you get all happy for folks…..I heard they “ranned” out of food on the the truck at the other hospilah YESTERDAY!
Me too
“We see broken people make fun of others.”
___________________________________
Guess we all broke then. *shrugs*
I been called him that.
Bff didnt even HAVE a license! We were like 17/18. We would get to the party and the ONLY space would be a parallel park? She would make me get out my own mama car and park it *snot*. I been broken forever.
Yeah, I read his posts only for laughs.
I don’t indulge…..
I was thinking the same thing…his little manifestos are just awful but they keep appearing. Talk about someone treading off their looks, Jesus…
I ate one of those yesterday left over from some other chinese food trip. I think I’m good on that.
LOL, she asked I had to teller the deal in his way tho ???
See I can be nice ?
Well, scuse me! **pinches you**
Alot of people may cheat for these reason, but not every one. I think that some people find that we as humans can come to love more that one person. Now I do think that more than anything people who cheat are selfish. They are only really are thinking about their feelings in terms of not losing the person they are cheating on.
LMAO
I tried being nice
Yes I do would you like a reading ma’am ?
You better be in the parking lot waiting now!
You may want to arrive early then.
Another one !
Does he hold a degree from an accredited University not no community College no I c DC I’m talking about a real University that can be verified certified?
Oh lawd, here this corny guy come with his corny damn advice
DUDE, why YOU still single and where you get that corny PHD?
man if Sandra don’t stop force feeding us this Dr. Phil wanna be ninja. He probably sleeping with Jill Scott husband too
I did not get pass “As I study the world…” lol. This guy!
Its raining. How far are you from the various BBQ spots?
Dead
LOL I can’t stand you
I completely agree with his sentiments towards the growing malfunction of our society. It makes total sense. However, most people are already too far gone to realize this.
Sure… Leo, 1979, from the hood moved to the suburbs by way of Houston to California. Married, one kid.. one on the way and a bunch of pretend boyfriends I mentally fukk when hubby is tired.
What you got?
Good observation…
He could be yo Mother, your Father, anything yew nEEd BabbbYyyy ??
I dont even think he is gay. I think he just “fake” deep and annoyingly so.
He bean around his ATL bishes only for too tew to long ???
Lmao y’all crazy but slim the younger guy that auntie Viv was dating a few years ago for a while allegedly used to be notorious for his head game and was giving it out like candy while they were together “allegedly” but probably
I read all of that and only had one question: What strain is he on? I need that shyt in my life asapedly.
I think he’s the type that as soon as he “learns” something he can’t wait to share it & wants to talk about it constantly.
Yes! Mofo hallucinating his own words ??????
I hate when people use “‘s and they are not getting the information from other material. You don’t put “—-” around a word because you want to…you do it because you are pulling the information from another source. Why the heck does he have “” around information and truly!! Get on my last nerve man!
That don’t look like him? Anyway, I can’t wait to jump into a relationship and procreate?? Remember ladies, I’m available and currently accepting suitors??
This ish HERE. YES
It’s puretttty safe to say this cat knows not of APA etc ??????
I think Sandra likes clowning him and know he’s out of our league. #CornyazzSlim
He’s vegan when it comes to food but a carnivore when it comes to poosay?
ONE MOE POST. I say do it anyway lol. Just bc he a pain.
I was talking to someone about Jessie’s speech and they was like it wouldn’t be well received if someone else said those same things. And in this case, I wonder who would this man have to be for Sandra readers to not be so shady. But I think that this age of the social media has really taken away people’s moral. People are not kind and are always throwing shade for no reason. It is sad
You are? You tryna be naked with Bullsweet?
New post-Tip
Slim is not gay. You just blew your chance with him.
I bet he talks like this during sex. .. so annoying.
What I told you last week?!! Your ass don’t learn
Far enough. This rain has me feeling lazy. I think I want soup though.
I don’t think so either but he about to fit the bill off gp
You don’t have a chance. I’m waiting for the right time to introduce my niece to Slim. I want to make sure she understands her role as a submissive woman in a relationship with a real man.
Thank God! Sandra didn’t leave us in here for long.
Trust me, he is a very deep thinker.
Serious question: Slim what did u do to piss these women off so bad???
I totally agree with his views on bonding between spouses and a person filled with so much negativity being broken.
He usually has really good chunks of information in his dissertation/advice/outlook/opinion.
Am I missing something?
Heyull nah no nakedness here. A doctor has to be involved and he has to have the $15,000 per month plus fees paid up front.
For me, and I cant speak for the other Roses, its as if he throws back handed compliments. He will say he thinks black women are queens, but in the same post will say but yall are ALL so broken. Well hell. Which one is it? I am looking for a queen, but none of yall are worthy of ME, bc you fukk too quick and got a tangled vortex. Or you holding on to the past and ya bitter. Its not shade from some of us. Its genuine confusion. Dont say my lifestyle or my parents are causing me or anyone else to cheat. He also tends to lump in “people”. ‘Women”. Generalizations. I hate those. I am not nor have I EVER, been typical. Dont lump ME in.
It’s the know it all when clearly he himself admits he lacks but cones off like he is the epitome of self awareness.
You don’t like your niece? Why would you introduce her to slim?
Can’t eat ery thing ?
LOL my comment got deleted….come on it was jokes “allegedly”
Right? I’m mean at least have him post some morning wood pics along with his novelas. I’d go to one of his hood seminars if he started helicopting the dangalang on stage. Bring some entertainment! But until he is a little more established(ie married for a long time, has a spouse that can vouch his words), he can keep the new age freeform advice.
LOL, all my daughter do for yall bitches, I made a mistake, geeze, have you ever heard of time zone? I lmao!!
Soup is a good rainy day meal. Or some good chili.
Yes this is true. It is a mess.
I got tears. I am screaming. Lord Jesus I am glad Im home today.
This is why I said DEW IT DEW IT.
This is why I said DEW IT DEW IT.
Like the person said up top, he makes good points. You extract what you need from any conversation and move …..on…..
Like the person said up top, he makes good points. You extract what you need from any conversation and move …..on…..
I do agree that there is a sociopathic element to society, but the rest is just hoe logic. Formalized education would do him wonders.
I do agree that there is a sociopathic element to society, but the rest is just hoe logic. Formalized education would do him wonders.
You know your feelings hurt. LOL!
You know your feelings hurt. LOL!
Your lucky number is 79? you will get the best mental sexx from Idris in 9 days… Your baby will be BEAUTIFUL and full of gas but no worries breast milk and a good burp will help ? come again real soon ?
Your lucky number is 79? you will get the best mental sexx from Idris in 9 days… Your baby will be BEAUTIFUL and full of gas but no worries breast milk and a good burp will help ? come again real soon ?
I found the article ?????? ““Slimm has been cheating on Vivica and she’s fed up. He f*cked so many strippers in Atlanta. Slim told my girl ‘he’s the best at eating p*ssy.’ Last time I saw Slimm he was trying to pick-up chics in the Compound club in Atlanta.”
I found the article ?????? ““Slimm has been cheating on Vivica and she’s fed up. He f*cked so many strippers in Atlanta. Slim told my girl ‘he’s the best at eating p*ssy.’ Last time I saw Slimm he was trying to pick-up chics in the Compound club in Atlanta.”
“As I study the planet “……Yeah, Okaaay scrolls down to the comments…I’m not here for his loooong winded shyt today.
She addressed people for saying that Beyonce lied about going straight from the BET awards to tour. Tina made a mistake on the stage when she mentioned the dates but she didn’t lie and she said any person with sense could see the dates for themselves and she was saying how Beyonce uses her own money for alot of things as far as the tour and she put money into her BET performance. Miss Tina do not play about her babies.
“As I study the planet “……Yeah, Okaaay scrolls down to the comments…I’m not here for his loooong winded shyt today.
She addressed people for saying that Beyonce lied about going straight from the BET awards to tour. Tina made a mistake on the stage when she mentioned the dates but she didn’t lie and she said any person with sense could see the dates for themselves and she was saying how Beyonce uses her own money for alot of things as far as the tour and she put money into her BET performance. Miss Tina do not play about her babies.
You better speak. Its for sure in the delivery
You better speak. Its for sure in the delivery
If that’s the case, I am shattered! Damn we all got jokes for ppl.
If that’s the case, I am shattered! Damn we all got jokes for ppl.
You came IN here like FOMF. I am so dead. Hey you.
You came IN here like FOMF. I am so dead. Hey you.
Sandra, why do you continue to post this single, unattached mans nonsense?
I don’t know who made him or Steve Harvey the authority figures on relationships. However, AT LEAST Mr. Harvey has actually been and is married.
He literally makes me sick! FOH!!!!!!
Sandra, why do you continue to post this single, unattached mans nonsense?
I don’t know who made him or Steve Harvey the authority figures on relationships. However, AT LEAST Mr. Harvey has actually been and is married.
He literally makes me sick! FOH!!!!!!
Do you think mama Tina did not explain it well?lol
Do you think mama Tina did not explain it well?lol
I like his perspective and enjoy reading his commentary. Although, I may not agree completely, at least there is logic behind his reasoning’s. Unlike that goat Steve Harvey.
I like his perspective and enjoy reading his commentary. Although, I may not agree completely, at least there is logic behind his reasoning’s. Unlike that goat Steve Harvey.
Amen to that!
Amen to that!
Ok, why that funny looking sprite coming for Kanye about that funny looking hoe TS? She mad her funny looking azz aint get included? #hahahaha
Ok, why that funny looking sprite coming for Kanye about that funny looking hoe TS? She mad her funny looking azz aint get included? #hahahaha
You must be new here?
You must be new here?
Lol! Some mean really are for entertainment value only! Just meat!
Lol! Some mean really are for entertainment value only! Just meat!
That’s what some are saying but I am a Bey fan. Also I feel that when it comes to Bey people make nothing into something. All she wants to do is live and do he dream.
That’s what some are saying but I am a Bey fan. Also I feel that when it comes to Bey people make nothing into something. All she wants to do is live and do he dream.
*-*-*-*-* https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/1ca22145359a4a437b02886808532cd366b16325b81ceff59d113a1bc2b11ae7.gif
*-*-*-*-* https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/1ca22145359a4a437b02886808532cd366b16325b81ceff59d113a1bc2b11ae7.gif
That will never happen…lol? unless Beyoncé falls head first down I flight of stairs during a show…them you might get a post
That will never happen…lol? unless Beyoncé falls head first down I flight of stairs during a show…them you might get a post
Are you new around these parts?
Are you new around these parts?
But its the chemicals in MY MAC. FOH bruh
But its the chemicals in MY MAC. FOH bruh
Yes we know how Sandy is with Bey. She know deep down inside she loves Bey.
Yes we know how Sandy is with Bey. She know deep down inside she loves Bey.
I kinda dig what he’s saying this go round…
Hey Boo!
Lol
To your blog? No. Why do you ask ?
Sandra…please ask Slim…is he celibate?
I really wanna know!
Oohhkaaay – thanks!
So who is he, Sandra’s man crush?
Shit, I thought he was “somebody” with credentials judging by how a he gets weekly/biweekly post as of late….
Lmaoooo I got pure snot on my shirt from laughing so hard!
Hey doll!!!!
My co-worker is texting me FROM the truck like “This is a MESS! Utterly ridiculous.”
OMW……after I run these reports. LOL
He sends her these jewels on a regular. She posts them. We dont know yet if there is a crush lol
Heeey…
this nicca and his bullshyt as Philosophy
…Not today<– in my Mary J Blige voice! Ha
Just a nobody who’s single but has all the answers on how not to be single. Oh the irony
I don’t feel as though he actually addressed his question.
I’m gonna go on a limb and say there’s a crush ?
Slim,
You have truly grown since your first post. I am very impressed with the logical details up above and your observations are true and your are in tuned with our surroundings.
I was just thinking this today, how people immediately speed up or slow down when your trying to turn. And yes, thanks for reminding me that I must keep my focus in this world that people are broken and are desensitized. This was refreshing.
Much love!
so basically, is this his way of telling US why he and ummmmm um Vivica Fox broke up? just asking for a “friend”
Lmbao do you think that’s the sum up of what Tina said?
So I’m guessing this is how you all feel when I post my comments, huh? Good goobly goo! I’m going to print what he wrote out and read it when I get home and get in bed. That’s a novelette up there and then some. LMBO! Can somebody break what he said down in short for me, please. I just don’t feel like reading it, my eyes hurt. lmbo
lol-Yes God, he has the gift of gab to talk to those air headed ladies who will stand on a corner or work a stripper pole for him and bring him them dollas all night!
I see you Slim…
I’m thinking he holds a degree in smoking weed and looking out the window for deliverance.
I really really wish Sandra would stop posting this negros Dear Diary entries.
I remember one day I was waiting for this woman to back out a parking
space. As she saw me waiting she began to take her time on purpose. This
sister was broken.
****************************************************
that was actually me when i saw who you were…..
Go on ahead and post yo poems…baby!
lmaooo!
lmbo!!!!!!!!!
You missed the point!
“This explains why certificates and rings don’t create the bond they are simply tools that serve as representers of the bond. So if you’re not able to establish a true connection with a partner then the paper and ring have no value”
Birds wont understand the ring means nothing
ANYBODY CARE TO SUM UP WHAT HE SAID ABOUT THE PLANET AND PEOPLE
True. This reminds me of when Future says in Lowlife, “If she catches me cheating, I will never say I’m sorry.” I hate when he says that. There is no shame.
I guess I will take a 15 minute break and go up top and read it. Here goes…<<<<>>>>>>>>>
Judging by a quick scroll if his Instagram he LOVES black women, marriage and self awareness…. He gives off that “Terrance Howard and his baby-wipes” aura though.
Is he University Educated or “LaFranca Hollins” educated?
she did and i believe her but… she said she owes npoone an explanation. STOP EXPLAINING
Just how “deep”, Sandy?
Boy get off your pulpit and deal with it. That’s life
Stop letting this closeted gay man give us advice
AGREED WITH THIS PART
Mama, noooooooooo!!!
*sell a bit. Exhibit A.
Lol…I mean this post actually made some sense got me wondering when is the last time this ninja was in some pucci?
Does anybody on here actually want to hear from this mafucka? it’s pure torture to read his entire posts, I can’t …
The 12th of Nevuary.
Now, some bussy…
He spoke some real shit, pains me to admit it.
We as a society have become numb.
This was well written and a create thought process
He spoke some realness, hate to say it, but hey he did
I’m not taking somebody name “Slim” seriously. But he has an opinion like everyone else just don’t know who asked for his
Yo Aunty
Uuuh not this funny looking sexy negro again…he needs his own blog stop living off us roses
???
All I read was “as I study the planet” then came right to the comments. I just can’t.
I can’t believe you read it lol
Break Time…..LOL…I just got up and left my desk….they are going to think that I’m 3 screws short for all the busted out that I do. My neighbor across from me is always wandering what I’m laughing at….
I did the same thing…Now I’m going through the comments to see what exactly what he was talking about…I ain’t got time for all that….Gees….I got these contracts to go over….LOL
She does it because she knows how things are going to pop off… he will read the comments and find out the truth about himself..something Sandra can’t bare to tell her friend.
I actually agree with him this time what he basically said to summarize this is we don’t have compassion anymore…and that’s too bad
Me three! Da hell??
I guess I’m a cheater then because I wear the hell outta some makeup!!!lol
He gives me impression that if you meet him he would either put you to sleep or make you angry with his Im so deep self like omg enough already
Man, some of you are rough. He argued his points well. I thought it was cool.
Omg he is really annoying especially the fact that he is so self centered is what gets me …he really talks one thing but do another after dealing with him you would become a alcoholic just to cope lol
I still can’t park or drive straight reverse….oh well I got a license tho lol…
right, his basic philosophy centers on him being right all day every day and the problem being other people. you can’t grow or learn at all if you never recognize that you have your own issues and everyone that doesn’t abide by the standards you’ve set is not ‘broken.’ he seems like he’d be emotionally abusive.
OK!!!!!! He needs a life or a woman/man. Somebody somewhere broke his heart. Sandra please please stop posting his mess!
I was thinking the same dam thang! LOL Or post this BS on his FB page or something..don’t NOBODY GIVA Dam
Sooo she was broken because she moved out of the parking space SLOWLY….OOOOK!!!!….BOOOOY BYEEEEE!!!!
Emotionally abusive and more he is very insensitive to other peoples feeling he acts like he is too perfect for women and like he is the perfect person on earth …I guess he is the most whole person in the world he just gets on my nerves…
I read poop off… lol
Lo siento. Lol
Why is Slim up there looking like Matt Jordan? Ole beady eyed fool.*reaches for glasses
So now “as I study the planet” Slim is an astrologer?? And why is it that a woman who was too slow to vacate a parking space is somehow ‘broken’??? I can agree with Slim about prophets and old souls inhabiting this planet to bring wisdom and knowledge to mankind but I just can’t with Slim. Mumbo-Jumbo at its finest…
People who do things that will hurt others are disconnected, broken and hurt themselves… I know what he is saying..
and to me, he comes across as a pseudo-intellectual. in this post, he pieced together a lot of popular opinions on various semi unrelated topics and strung them together haphazardly while tip-toeing to a very rudimentary conclusion using a thin example which has nothing to do with his topic at hand. all the while, he was still able to lowkey lament about black women being ‘broken’ simply because one did not move out of a parking space quickly enough to his liking. of all the current events that have happened, he chose something as minuscule as a parking space debacle to support his claim. he’s just ridiculous to me. and i get the feeling, he is very comfortable talking to the very same type of women he condemns because any respectable, intelligent woman would likely poke holes in all of his commentary, and he’d be super upset and butt hurt.
oh, it wasn’t just me…
So all that baking I’ve been doing geesh! LOL!
i think slim would be taken more seriously if he was able to formulate his thoughts better. to me, he comes off as a pseduo-intellectual. if i turned a paper like this in my undergrad, i would have received an F. his argument is that people in the world are desensitized and therefore not empathetic. but the evidence he used is completely unrelated, or at the very least, he didn’t provide enough information to make a compelling argument. he mentioned genetics as a reason why individuals are not able to react a certain way. genetics is biological. only biological. it is responsible for why we look the way we do and why we are prone to certain health conditions. even sociopaths – those individuals who lack empathy in the brain – are born to parents who are not sociopaths so therefore, lack of empathy is not hereditary. behavior is learned and based on our environments. he then went off on a wild and crazy tangent citing the food we eat and cosmetics somehow aid us in our descent into moral depravity. for that, i’m just left scratching my head because wtf? he talked about spiritual, physiological, and biological defects and highlighted none of the above in his assessment. instead, he chose to use a ridiculous example of a parking space to conclude why people lack empathy and managed to call a person ‘broken’ simply for not vacating a space in a manner to his liking. he comes across as self-centered, vain, narcissistic, and dumb. and i bet the females that he so vehemently wants to ‘govern’ and simultaneously insults for their inability to ‘know their worth,’ are the only kind he associates with [which in itself is contradictory. certainly wanting to aid black women in finding their self-esteem, i would think he would focus on positives versus negatives]. any other female with a brain would likely dismantle his whole dissertation quite quickly. something that would cause him to recoil and lash out because he doesn’t seem the type that’s equipped with healthy intelligent debate. that’s my issue with him.
to summarize: pseudo-intellectual [he’s fake and doesn’t really know any one topic in detail enough to speak on it]; unwilling to learn [based on his numerous quips in his posts that postulate him as the correct, wholesome one and any person who has likely wronged him as morally inept], and that he is just a bad writer all around.
Good read and advice. …..
Exactly….he really needs to grow up and mature a real man nutures and cares for his woman not tear her down I would hate to be with someone who critiques every move I make everything I do I wish people would just let people be themselves and love them anyway
I agree with just about everything he said, but he still really didn’t explain why people cheat other than saying, “they are broken,” which is kinda obvious. But aside from that, he is trying to tell people something that is important and true. We *are* broken vessels and need to be open to learning whatever lessons we need to learn in this life. Maybe it’s just too deep and random for a gossip blog.
Not my Aunty lol
Who’re is a word!?! I learned something new today…WHY is that a word!?!
Lol yes the comments just confirmed its a whole paragraph from the mind of a narcissist. Sandra needs to do a medical minute on him.
Sandra, you post a lot of this person’s opinions about relationships. Explain to me the process. Does he pay you for “blog time” because I am not understanding how a man who is perpetually single can give advice to ANYONE? Will someone PLEASE tell this nicca to STFU? For some reason he thinks the words coming out of his pompous mouth are profound and enlightening..but in reality their tired and cliche’. I love how he tries to throw in cellular level/biological reasons – that he probably googled – as motives for cheating. Ok, we get it. You read some books about relationships, googled information, threw in some of your experiences and summed it all up in a nice, transparent package. Is that all you got?
Naw while he is writing a booklet on love I will be cheating because I will have a lot of time on my hands. Men who are long winded like him to sound deep are horrible in bed. It’s been proven time and time again.
..does he have a wife yet. dude anti-black woman that FAKES like he on our side. passive-aggressive woman hater.
I probably wouldn’t want to find out about his bedroom performance and who is going to take love advice from him????I really can’t stand too deep long winded men they are so full of junk all the while doing the opposite of what they preach!!!
THANK YOU.
I’m WEAK!!! LMMFAO.
#GTFOH #BAN #DOWNLOW
he aint saying nothin.
he does post this mess on there too….lol…lol…gives me headaches
Interesting….
with his chronic procreating ass…..(rolls eyes)
LMBOOOOO!
LMAOOOO at ICDC….Master P University….lol
Okay, I am bored…..Let me go read…..attempt to digest and make sense of this…and then commence to rolling my eyes, because somewhere in this he will become the “savior”. Be back!!
Okay, I am back…….and although I managed to agree with some of the things he said (or read and then typed), and of course he did not fail me in inserting himself into this theory………Imma still need him to STHU. Can he find a wonderfully, unbroken woman to occupy his face….I mean hands….I mean time.
Oh and Slim Slickery- In regards to: Which is why those who process “information” at a greater degree can feel guilty about an action versus one who can do several horrific actions and not feel a thing.
There are and have been some highly intelligent people, who process information at the speed of lightening, who have not one sensitive bone in their entire body and never even possessed (much less used) a moral compass, so they NEVER feel/felt guilty about shee-ooot!!
Slim….go and eat a ole’ fat greasy burger and have 4 huge seats!!
Slim….go and eat a ole’ fat greasy burger and have 4 huge seats!!
?Cosign. ?
At this point I think it’s therapy for himself. He needs Jesus.
?Cosign. ?
At this point I think it’s therapy for himself. He needs Jesus.
Ok. (-__-)
lmao
“As I study the planet”…..
Riiiiight.
Who’re you Talmbout? ???
https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/612c330bc48d6e9b95c12f3fbf277a2b5c09a4830e44217612d1393b672fbd92.gif
I think he made total and complete sense and agree with everything he just said. What a bunch of hateful, judgmental, bitter, miserable, mean comments in this post. A man can no longer be confident and give his opinion without being called a dummy pretty much. How sad.
My belief is that 98% of the people cheat, and 2% are reforms cheaters. Women and men need to stop believing cheating is based on looks and money in some relationships, it’s more of an emotional connection to me. If you are going to cheat, just stay single, or be damn good at it!
Is this guy serious? What a long winded rant to simply state the obvious.
Ommmmgggggg!!?????HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!
I also agree, but it’s life. He’s got to learn to deal with just like the rest of us. Are we suppose to feel sorry for him!?!?!
Thx babe ?
People cheat mostly because they never want to be in a relationship in the first place .. IF the person is cheating on you and they are not rich and taking care of you why would you stay let alone be faithful to the person cheating on you .. I say if you know they are cheating but you still stay with them then you have every right to get you some on the side also ..
LOL!! I did the EXACT same thing!!
He is sounding realll Jim Jonesy right now…I waiting on the invite to gather, move into some woods, and drink koolaid…
I read study the planet I think …. Can’t retain what he says without ? And giggling ….?. Plus it was sooooo long . I went to the Peace and blessings and the comments.
Give me a synopsis please…
He is so wise.
Sheen broken. She took a line out of the petty AH handbook.
LMAO ? ???????
I thought they same thing! It was like wait for it ..,,,,,,… Ummm I’m waiting. I think he got off course from the real subject of cheating.
Urhmmmm…..
Is she on papers? Probation? What da hayle happened down at the BMV?
Well, they can show and tell you what NOT to do. LOL HAHAHAHA
MAN! Who knew?!
Yes, Georgia is to blame. That is an AUTOMATIC fail here.
FUGGEDABOUTIT!
LOVES IT!
You cain’t TELL me these lips aren’t purty and succulent.
I SAID this last week!
101
Oh God, this guy. Can he pen specific post related to his own dating life in stead of this according to Slim stuff?
People cheat because they don’t want a relationship. Folks date now looking for benefactors and ish. And that’s why every person is always lookign for the next best thing. Folks want to be supported financially. Nope, aint doing it. I’ll die alone first.
My best advice is if you’re an 8, date an 8 or better. Do not date down or you will regret it. You date a 5, they will cheat because you gassed them up by giving them a chance.
Honestly? He hasn’t come to the realization that it IS him. He knows everything, yet knows nothing. It’s sad to watch. It’s hard to tell someone something when they can’t see it. The first step is admittance. Heen ready yet.
I truly believe you. He’s so far away I don’t think ANYONE would be on his level, especially for a mate. They would never measure up.
Did you ever get your meal? Did the clinicians start a coop to overturn the foodtruck? Did the chef make it out of the lot on wheels or did y’all strip that mugg in the lot where it sat?
oh my…
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Annie, are you ok? Are you ok, Annie?
Ok Penny! LOL
Shut up Omar
At the time I didn’t care, I lived in Atlanta. But then I moved to NYC and good grief, I had to learn to parallel park quick! I still hate doing it though.
Lol!!! I forgot about Penny. I typed that in the spirit of Kim Parker. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b184679d5df8a0f5188c663c93103357050fc5af4f4eafc8edd34417365356e7.jpg
I remember in college I was driving one of my girlfriends car. She had gotten a new Jag. Everyone was a few sheets to the wind and I was the designated driver. I knew had to park, but I had my eyes dilated earlier. Why when I went to park I hit the car in behind me? I then put it in drive and hit the car in front of me. Both car alarms were going off. I then put it in reverse and hit the car behind me again. I did this process about 3 times before she sobered up fast and put me out. It wasn’t until I got out that the occupant of the car behind us got out of her car and started laughing. She said she was glad someone decided to drive because if I had hit HER new car again, she was gonna whoop my azz. I never knew she was in the car.
Yo whatever he smoking is some POWERFUL shit .. He need to puff puff pass my that blunt .. Dude all philosophical and shit that ain’t nothing but that sticky icky that OOOWWEE FOH B .. So Kesha didn’t let u on her parking space nah son miss me with those Umar quotes kid
Look like TRADE to me … Ass probably whistle when he walks by
Hmm let me guess which planet…..URANUS…
You know some busted chick giving him her dry sand box
Right! What he say (short sentences) ion haf time to read all of his gibberish tuday?
Ion wanna read the whole durn thang. Tuh ?
I can’t believe ppl actually read all that too !! I read one of his essays once & I said never again !
So good !! High 5! Make it high 10
????
LMAO @ essay.. I read one too before. Too much emotional talk for a man. I’m not use to that.
I always thought she looked like Shirley Murdock DeGroat.
I can’t deal with it…my ex was super emotional & constantly needed to talk about his feelings, I felt like a man…or a butch rather since I’m a female lol
Not a busted chick. Lol. He may be pulling bad ones. He seems vapid, so he would likely seek someone with a certain physical aesthetic. But once he tries to kick his Apollo Nida prison logic to a woman who actually uses the good brain God gave her, he is going to lose her.
He wants so desperately to craft a woman into his ideal mate, when he needs to check himself. He is introspective about the wrong things.
*sings* It’s moooorrrrrnnniiiiinnnng… ?
So for those “who’re” married
________________________
The moment I stopped reading this dumb note
So for those “who’re” married
________________________
The moment I stopped reading this dumb note
Actually who are can be written as who’re
I read the headline and said O Lord…
I just rolled my eyes so hard, they almost got stuck….no time for all his hot air.
I wish this oversized Negro would hush. Didn’t even read the post. I literally logged on to say that. .
Lawd
OMG, WHAT?!?!?! Girl. I can’t believe you tore up 3 cars like that!????
LMAO!!!!
I be petty too. I guess his logic is… Petty = Broken mmmmmmK! Makes sense!
I hope he’s reading the feedback he’s getting and and hopefully he’s receiving it and I actually think Sandra posts his malarkey because she knows he’ll get his head cyber busted to the white meat.
His Dr. Phil act is stale and see-thru and most women on here KNOW THAT..and will call him out on it. I am not for sure if women in his life have fallen for the tripe he’s spewing but there are some sharp chicks that post on here…with a razor tongue, lol.
We ain’t buying what you selling, homeboy. Keep that shyt for the obtuse broads who turn groupie on you at the club.
Virtually hugging you boo!
LMMFAO
Yall are going to get me fired! LMAO!!
Gross
Don’t get fired boo ? but laughter is what keeps us young and vibrant ?
Virtual kisses to you boo????
Yes I got my meal. I hate how YT folks and ppl in general look to complain about SOMETHIN’! Drives me mad. They were saying the lines were too long. Whale, bitches it’s HOSPITAL WIDE! You think you just gone walk up at the very open of business JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE and get yours FIRST? No! Folks had the same thoughts that you did. It’s like going to a fair or concert or a sporting event! There WILL BE a line. There WILL BE a wait. STFU somewhere! Pissed me off. No I didn’t do no savage shit like strip the truck. I’m patient. LOL
?One owner was too drunk to care…at first. The other owner was in disbelief and THEN started laughing.
What the heck is he talking about???
You have some good stories, let me tell you!?
Chile…I have LIVED…and am STILL living.
God is good! Because SURELY…?
i am so blessed to have known Osaze you are God sent.i really appreciate working with you after you helped me discover my husband was cheating on me and all he asked for was his email spirituallove @ hotmail . com .
Thanks to the great spell caster Prophet Osaze,My husband of 10 year seek for divorce wanting to leave me and my kids,But a friend could not stand that and introduced my to this great man who is my helper today.After contacting Prophet Osaze and spell been casted immediately after 24hours,my husband came back home pleading for my forgiveness and promise not to ever leave me and the kids for ever.Save your marriage today instead of seeking Divorce,contact him via email:spirituallove @ hotmail . com
THANK YOU!!! Who the hell is he. And didn’t this fool cheat on Vivica Fox and the woman he was with before that. TOM FOOLERY