According to, a spurned request to join him in group sex led to NFL player Shawne Merriman choking and battering tiny reality TV personality Tila Tequila. Yea, he's mixed.

According to, the fight that lead to Merriman’s arrest last weekend after Tequila walked into his bedroom she found him with two other women. After the NFL asked her to join them, Tequila stormed out and threatened to have sex with one of his friends, that’s when Merriman allegedly tossed the 4-foot-11-inch star to the ground and began violently choking her.

Merriman denies attacking his girlfriend of two months and insists he was simply trying to keep a very intoxicated Tila from driving under the influence.

Bruised and battered reality TV personality Tila Tequila made her first public appearance yesterday since being choked and beaten by her boyfriend Shawne Merriman last week (yea, I thought she was supposed to be a lesbun too).

As TMZ first reported, Tequila met with investigators from the San Diego District Attorney yesterday to discuss the altercation, where she alleges the Chargers star "choked and physically restrained" her last weekend.

I'm not a fan of Tila Tequila (or reality TV) but bitch made men who beat up on women need to be exposed and dealt with. Hopefully, we'll see Shawne picking up trash by the side of the highway like the felon Chris Brown will soon be doing.