TK Responds To Angela Simmons
Terry “TK” Kennedy from FLY SOCIETY spouts off on Angela’s comment about their break up on her new reality show “Daddy’s Girl”.
As you know, Angela said she broke up with the virile stud because he wanted sex — which turns out to be the reason why Angela and Bow Wow also parted ways (she’s still a virgin).
But in this video, TK says it was more than just Angela holding out. “It didn’t come down to the sex part,” he reasons.
Well, I predict TK’s hawtness factor will shoot way up. Because, while Angela is still holding on to her virtue, there’s a lot of women out there who won’t.
The 2nd episode of “Daddy’s Girls” airs tonight on MTV.
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Good job Angela!!…What I don’t get is, how dudes will jump on a bytch like “Superhead”, someone who has been with any and everybody in the industry…yet they can’t wait for someone whose actually untouched and virtuous. Why is it dudes always chose hoes over good girls, does a man have it in him to settle down and do right by anybody?? Why is it men cheat when they know they have a good women (bow wow, Ciara) Whats the deal with that…E-love this question is for you dude.
*choose*
And the purpose of this was…..?
TK was hot before Angela. That mo’fo is fine as hail, to me!
^5 Divine … ^5
Booooooooo,got the white box. Can’t see what was said. Did I miss anything?!? E-love we are patiently waiting for you to drop some knowledge on that topic.
Ain’t he Kym?
When I found out they were together, I was like “damn, how’d she land THAT?”
They didn’t seem right together, IMO
yes he IS a cutie. dbrown.
and for angela i say…hold on to it girl.
Booo..what did he really say..It was about sex, he had to have it, had it before and he was not going to stay around with a good girl when Superhead(s) are on the prowl….that was 1 min of him say NOTHING….
Divine .. gurl YEAH … had my cougar claws out and ‘er’thang … lol
TK is not ugly but not cute to me. Doesn’t do anything for me.
I want to hear what bow wow has to say not TK BOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
If that is an issue for her, maybe she should choose men that have the same lifestyle that she does
Leave the Bow Wow’s and TK’s alone. Same goes for him…
i got nothing but BS from watching this video. he knows dang well it was about the sex.
divine that sounds nice , but it’s hard now and days to find someone like that . believe me i know. lol
@licia I co sign 100%!
@DB I am sure thats gonna be hard for her to do at her age cause its hard for me and im grown and men still aint trying to hear it. It can be done though. I wish her the best!
Glad he didn’t diss her.And I don’t think it had to do with sex because I’m pretty sure she told him there is always two sides to a story.
TK had a lame excuse. Im pretty sure the reason why HE felt they grew apart was because he couldn’t get any, and eventually he became impatient and lost interest. “You don’t have to like to kick it” TK, it is what it is. However, thats so lame of a dude to give up a great girl about something so special. He respects her morals, and her up-bringing…no you don’t dude. If you did, the 2 of you would still be together. I would rather see her with TK than Bow wow, not saying TK is a saint, but Bow wow ain no good at all. JD turned him out too early in life, of course he’s not going to wait on a virgin.
So licia…are you celibate for religious reasons?
or just because?
The only men that I know that aren’t having sex…the few there is, THEY ARE DEEPLY RELIGIOUS. So, if you are celibate just because you want to wait until you are married, with no religious motivation behind it…Good luck with that.
Maybe you should try the church. No one says it’s easy. That goes without saying.
At the end of the day (yes I said it) TK is trying to get his shine on and make a bigger name for himself IMO. Again BOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
@DB I am celibate for spiritual reasons. I am in the same boat as licia if she is celibate as well.
Morning LADIES !!!!!
You MEAN like WHY Young women go for the Bad-Boyz, Thug-Lovers and/or Street-HOOD Fellas INSTEAD of the Smart-n-Classy-n-Respectful GUY ??? LMAO
IT IS IRONIC Isn’t it !!!!!
Most Young MEN Like/Enjoy the challenge of Trying to Sexually-Satisfy A Sexually-Experienced woman… ESPECIALLY if they come with REFERENCES that you Respect-n-Admire. And I’m NOT just talking about Famous-OR-Celebrity type individuals either LOL LOL
JUST like Sports and Academics …
IF you are already better than everyone in your class HOW can you get better??? By testing YOUR merit against OTHERS that are better than you. The ELITE professional players played AGAINST much older-n-experienced players to become BETTER than them by the time they reached THEIR age…
THIS IS A FACT that has been proven for decades now ;-)
@DB some of the biggest man/women whores are in church..lol We are all sinners saved by grace. I am not judging or knocking anybody im just saying..lol
Daisy…There are men in the church that live by the word. I happen to know a few.
So, it’s possible to find someone that lives that life.
@DB I know a few as well but im not attracted to them..lol I can say for my case my Pastor is female so we have way more women than man, compared to a church with a male Pastor which also has more women than men, ours is triple the amt of women to men.
I am keeping the faith though!
Kudos to Angela for living by some sort of moral standard at such a young age.
@DB celibacy is possible without a man being deeply religious. I met my husband who was not Muslim when he was 23 and he was still a virgin…he just wanted to wait until marriage but he had no religious affiliation (though he did grow up catholic)
Hang in there Daisy!
dvb i am actually still a virgin and no it’s not for religious reasons. i am also not waiting for marriage. just waiting on someone with potential.
Good mornin everyone! Rev Run must be so proud of his girl. I’m wondering when we’re gonna hear about Vanessa gettin some. Now she is PRETTY!
LICIA….THAT IS BEAUTIFUL!!!
GOOD LUCK ON YOUR JOURNEY! That says alot about your character!
*unless yo a$$ is 15 and tryna pull a fast on over on somebody*
@ Daisy, I know this is a touchy subject but have you considered or any of you considered for that matter going outside of your race?
kcicero…what are the odds? Most certainly not in the environment I live in. BOTTOM LINE!
dvb don’t worry i am of age. just turned 30 in nov. it has been a long and hard journey . lmao
Elove said:
You MEAN like WHY Young women go for the Bad-Boyz, Thug-Lovers and/or Street-HOOD Fellas INSTEAD of the Smart-n-Classy-n-Respectful GUY ??? LMAO
IT IS IRONIC Isn’t it !!!!!
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Same **** I was thinking…….
I personally want my woman to be a Classy Woman in the streets(public) and a freak between the sheets……
kcic… i have considered it .. and done it … no biggie .. if presented with opportunity and dude is on point .. i’ll do it again
@licia… TRUST ME when I say this (comment #28)
YOU will Definitely FIND your mate BECAUSE Your aspirations in doing so AREN’T fueled by nonsense-OR-rhetoric
INSTEAD it’s YOUR Passion-N-Mind-N-Heart-N-Common Sense…
BEING Practical and Sensible GOES A LONG WAY in this World ;-)
@DB I knowwww! I met him while in college and he’s also white, which I have no problem with Black men but the Black male Muslims in philly are THE WORST everyone is a gangsta, lol which is like a oxy-moron “Saaalaikum Sis I got a dime bag” Um no thanks.
Oh okay, it’s just interesting because most of my friends refuse to date outside of their race period, even if the prospect looks grim so I was just curious what others felt about that.
@KC I want beautiful black babies..lol My cousin just married a white man last yr and if she likes it I love it but its not for me.
@Yvonne thanks its been 8yrs and counting so im pretty darn close to being a virgin all over again..LOL
KCic … i grew up in NJ .. so crossing racial lines wasn’t that uncommon … NOW i’m in the Dirty South .. le sigh
Darn, the video won’t play for me.
thanks e-love and dvb for the encouraging words.
kcicero, i am not against dating outside of my race. my family may have issues with it , but i don’t . love is love no matter what .
licia…30? WOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWW!! That is inspiring! I’m curious to know what motiviated you.
*thinking to myself…when she finally does get a piece, her head is gonna pop off*
@Bird you said that like you were really missing something..lol
@goat… PRECISELY !!!
HER being a Freak-in-the-Bed IS A Definite Priority!!! LMAO
Because I’m a Freak-in-the-Bed So SHE must Comply…
THIS is a 50/50 Love (WE Both must do OUR part) LMAO LOL ;-)
@licia I have a gfriend thats 27/28 and still a virgin. So you are not alone although you may feel like it at times.
^And you KNOW this!!!
@ Kymystry, lol reaaaallllly?! Is it still socially taboo?
@ Daisy yeah I wanted my brown babies too but thanks to the the blackfoot and white running through my blood my son is paaleeeee. Paler than his father (like I mean pale like an albino pale) with blond hair and brown green eyes even though his father has brown eyes and Black hair. My daughter looks like an Italian Eskimo Indian with an olive complexion, I’m hoping if I have another it will have a bit more pigmentation.
*typos*
@KC I am glad you found love and have beautiful kids. I have never been in love at 32 and sometimes I think it may never happen, but I try not to give up hope on love…
@Kicero
I have dated outside my race awhile back, but at this time I just havent gotten into the dated game, I havent had a date in so long I dont know what to say!lol! But I have been celibate for over a year not because of religious purposes and it definitely wasnt intentionally it just I havent found that person that can make me just ummmm whats the word insert____________.
@licia & Daisy
Both of ya’ll will find that right person…
i can’t see the video at work…o well
but anyway, Angela honey hold onto that virginity as long as you can, there are many people who regret having sex at an early age or giving it up to the first person they met. when you meet the right person, TRUST you’ll know it. everybody is different and you have to do what makes you feel good.
@ Daisy, don’t give up, love found me when I was not looking for it! Hell I should have traveled the world twice over and be practicing law right now…instead a man (who’d seen me on campus numerous times *I’m still convinced he was stalking me* ) sent me an email and the rest was history! Keep up the faith and work on you and when the time is right GOD will BLESS you with a man worthy of you!
@Daisy Says:
@KC I am glad you found love and have beautiful kids. I have never been in love at 32 and sometimes I think it may never happen, but I try not to give up hope on love
I know I just told you would find the right person, but I too have never been in-love, so were gonna e-cry and give each other e-hugs….. luv u!!!
Im proud of Angela, Jessica Simpson did it, I hope she can too. Wish I had of at least waited until I was mature and responsible to handle what comes along with it, even if it wasnt until I got married.
Please believe the right man will snatch up this gorgeous, virtuous young woman. TK wasn’t the one for her, that’s all. It’s cool for her to date the duds before she meets her husband. At least she won’t be all ran through when the man who deserves her comes along. It’s the woman that give it away that have the most difficult time finding a life mate. Not women like Angela. How man of the women TK has screwed in the past are still with him? None. How many did he marry? None. Like I said, he wasn’t the man for her. Run and Angela’s mom and step parents did a bang up job with her.
@Mizz 1st the J Lo connection and now this..lol I could use an e hug today..:-) Thanks
I was in Angela’s shoes once, I was a virgin until I was 18, (27 now) and instead of continuing my journey I finally gave in…..to a later COLLEGE drop out, no good, BABY DADDY. Dudes don’t appreciate a good thing when they have it, they just walk away from it. Needless to say my 8 year old son was the result of that relationship and though I love my son very much, I regret the day I met his father. He turned out to be such a disappointment. So don’t go thinking good dudes stay good, I know the same goes for a woman, but dudes seem to be a little colder I think.
@ mizzdallas I admire celibacy having practiced it in the past. It is not easy but I think that it is well worth it when you find that man that makes your heart flutter whenever you’re near him.
and i personally have been holding out for 6 months now….and its not that i don’t have anyone to give it to, i just don’t feel like these lame clown dudes are worthy of what i got right now. when i feel like giving out the goods, i will do so when i’m ready.
@ Daisy, awwww honey bunches of oat!!!! love will find you when you least expect it. in the meantime keep doing what makes you feel great.
What is the big deal with “dating” outside the race? Brothas been doing it for years…AND AIN’T STOPPING!
What is the point? When I hear women say…”I only date brothas”, it makes me laugh.
@KC funny you should mention traveling. I am an avid travler and my married friends always tell me at least you can pick up and travel and you have been all over the world and im like you think traveling is the same as being in love and having kids and a family. I think not!
@ dvb between the ages of 14-17 ( when most people give it up) i was scared out of my mind of my mama to do it. thought she would kill me if she found out. from 18 up until now i just never found that one special person who i thought deserved to be with me in that way. i have come close a couple times though.
and yes i do feel alone. when people find out they look at me like i’m an alien lmao
@DB Brothers can keep on doing it, good for them. I am not attracted to white men. I will date Dominican or a Rican cause I am attracted to them and they are ppl of color as well. I dont knock anybody who does it, but its NOT for me.
@licia I didnt have sex in high school either my mama was NOT having it..lol
@Mimi thanks. I try not to dwell and stress about it. I just tell ppl im open to a relationship but it just hasnt happened yet. I dont have time for BS and I guess men feel they have to come correct if they step my way or they can keep it moving.
@ DB I know! I just think that a lot of people stay single and miss the love of their life because they refuse to open their eyes to different things.
My dad told me I DO NOT WANT A BLOND HAIR BLUE EYED GRANDBABY I WANT AN DARK AFRICAN LOOKING GB WITH NAPPY HAIR, I ignored his 70 something year old butt and went with my heart…after I had my son my dad came to the hospital and was like I guess I should be careful what I ask GOD for because he gives you the exact opposite, lol.
@DB (61) I think they say that only for comfort, and plus some men outside brothers don’t want to do date the sisters, so it’s hard.I mean I had others except the Asian dudes, but but became friends with them.
LADIES, LADIES, LADIES… PLEASE Don’t be SAD or Depressed because you haven’t found true love yet…
BE GLAD that you haven’t WASTED YOUR LOVE on some FOOL that didn’t Deserve Your Love to begin with LIKE ALOT of US have… INCLUDING MYSELF !!!!! ;-)
My TWO Biggest Regrets were My Baby-Mama AND My ex-Wife…
So I’m Very Jaded about the whole ideal-n-institution surrounding marriage PERIOD (Real Talk)
Me and My Boyz have come to the conclusion THAT there ARE No Women out there that are deserving of OUR LOVE & DEVOTION and WE aren’t holding out ANY hope for it…
LIKE someone stated earlier THEY weren’t even looking and BAM it happened!!! SO If we’re fortunate enough to be in the Right-Place at the Right-Time THEN I’ll that THAT GIFT and Run-with-IT (Real Talk) ;-)
@E-LOVE: I heart you!
@ Elove
You better preach! LOL
Being a virgin is great but don’t let anybody tell you sex is over rated bc trust me, IT NOT!
@ELove I feel you and I always say I would rather be single vs settling for a no good knee grow just to say I have a man.
I actually recently met somebody but its in the very early stages so I shall see where it goes it anywhere. He seems like a good brotha but looks can be deciving.
Krysi J
It sounds like you let that man take a chunk out of your soul. Grab it back. He doesn’t represent all men. If he was the same age as you, then that is very young to be settling down in America. You have to take responsibility for the fact that you chose that man. It’s not all on him. You just have to learn from it and move on. A good man is hard to find, but the only way that you are going to meet that guy that is the right fit for you is if you are open too it. Sure you gotta risk your heart, but it’s worth it in the end. If you think they are all bad, your soul mate will come along and you won’t even know it because you are not giving any of them a chance based on what your teenaged ex did.
@Herm I know a few of my female friends who feel that way and they are getting it in on the reg.
@Bird you betta Preach Preacha!
@Daisy, I feel the same way…I look at it like women like us are exclusive, meaning I haven’t been ran through by different dudes several times like a bus station, I can walk around my hood and not feel ashamed or feel awkward because I let every dude in the neighborhood run through me.
Sex is not a bad thing, just not something that should be given away to any and everybody.
@Hermosa:
Keep it real sistah!
I”ve heard men (brothas) say they don’t date black women because we have attitude and we’re angry…blah blah blah blah
But, it’s usually someone I wouldn’t want in the first place. It just leads me to believe there’s some self-loathing going on there.
Inter-racial dating isn’t just dating “white” guys…Puerto ricans, Dominicans, Pacific Islanders, Blasian. A myriad of men to choose from other than white. Reagardless of what it is, I like to explore my options.
Why are yall cheering on ELove? That negro just said, “yall my peoples and all, but ain’t none of you worthy to be wifed.” I sit here day after day and watch yall hang on his every word because he is the only man in the room and I never say anything, but this takes the cake.
Sorry ELove, but these ladies give you way too much love for you to get away with what you just said AND have them cheering you on for it.
LOL @ Bird!!!
I was thinking the same thing!!!
@DB I said Dominicans and Ricans I believe they are our cousins. I need somebody I can relate to and thats not an Asian or white man or anybody else you named..lol
I’ll sit this topic out … i’ll share with folk on the other side … not here …
smooches
Bird … I heart YOU !!
@BIRD-was cheering at the “right place,right time” line.
@Bird I only commented on Elove saying dont be sad and depressed about not having found true love. The rest I disregarded..lol
it too early and cold to read 70 plus messages. lol
good morning…
im tell you what i told my cousin….
sex is overrated, wait till you find somebody who loves you as much as you love them and their is no other way to show thm how much you love them other than sex. no amount of flowers, poetry, or love songs could show them how much you love them than sex. because once a girl reputation is gone, its gone for life. just look at Monica Lewinsky.
wait…CLARIFY HERMOSA…
Bad or average sex…is over-rated!
Great sex is life altering! I’m talking about that passionate and explosive session that all you can do afterwards is eat or sleep.
But, Everyone you get down with…it’s not gonna blow the doors, the odds just don’t stack up that way.
When ppl say on the other side do they mean email?
@ Hermosa…i don’t think its over rated. like i said sex is not bad thing, its just not something that should be given away to any and everybody. especially if you not ready for what can come with it.
TRUST when you do get some that’s good, you will have that “I just got some of that good good GLOW!!!” on your face all day long. LOL
Sex is not a bad thing, just not something that should be given away to any and everybody.
^^^ i agree with this. the sad thing is that i have people around me who try to make me feel bad because i’m not sleeping around. i don’t judge people who do , but don’t make me feel like crap because i feel like i am worth more than that.
@DB Exactly.
I know a lot of Black men who say that Black women aren’t marriage material and can’t take care of a home.
I too KNOW that most of these cases are self loathing, some of it is love though. Most of my Uncles are married to either LS sisters or other races…they didn’t have a good relationship with my grandmother so I think there in lies the point.
@ Bird I think his point is that if you’re not looking for it then that’s when it happens. I could care less if he deemed me worthy because I have a man, lol.
I would date outside my race but the pickings are slim down south. I plan on moving back to the middle. I’ve been here for 2 years and haven’t found anything too interesting, not to say their aren’t any interesting ones but too many “what can you do for me”‘s here
@Tee BWalters still defends Monica L. she feels really bad about what happened to her and said its still hard for her to find work. Bless her heart!
Bird…you been breakin **** down today!
@ teecee…i’m freezing at my desk too!!! i’m beginning to think the heat has been permanently disabled or somethin….
@Ilove where are you down south? I am in the A and the pickings of a single straight do right man is real slim but I keep hope alive..lol
and he’s not the only male on here … we have teecee .. Ielon … DocJam .. goat76 … dblaq … ________ if i’ve forgetten you …
If you with someone you got some passion for sex can be enjoyable, but I just find that casual sex isn’t for everybody.And the people in my circle aren’t the casual types either.
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TRUST when you do get some that’s good, you will have that “I just got some of that good good GLOW!!!” on your face all day long. LOL
^ Lol, feel all brand new!
@Bird
I REALLY don’t understand where this IS coming from AND I have co-signed things you have said (Go Figure)
My statement wasn’t a REFLECTION of ANY Woman on this board… I HAPPEN to Like-N-Respect MANY Women on this board AND I can only speak from my OWN experiences and GUESS WHAT???
NONE of the women on this board were a PART of my Personal Experience… So HOW are they a part of my Personal Frustration with THE WOMEN I CHOOSE to Marry OR have a Lengthy-Exclusive Relationship with…
I GUESS this is When Keeping-It-Real GOES WRONG LOL LOL ;-)
@ Daisy lol she should write a book if she haven’t already, that’s what all the other jump-offs do.
I thought Teecee was a female, my bad.
Im inthe A too. Plan on moving back to DC as soon as I can. IMPO i think that the A is too hyped up. All I have met are people who are in”Music”lol. I met one who wasn’t in music but he wanted to date the whole city of atlanta
i still love u E. does that make u feel better?
@KC Monica was young and got caught up I think jump off may be to harsh for her..lol I dont know maybe im to nice..lol
DivineBrown Says:
wait…CLARIFY HERMOSA…
Bad or average sex…is over-rated!
Great sex is life altering! I’m talking about that passionate and explosive session that all you can do afterwards is eat or sleep.
But, Everyone you get down with…it’s not gonna blow the doors, the odds just don’t stack up that way.
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…or when it is so good you don’t even get up to eat!!!…
@Ilove it takes my gfriend to talk about meeting men who are in the Industry or at the studio last night..lol Drives her batty. DC/MD area aint much betta I have gfriends up that way they are just as single and then you have the HIV rate to worry about as well up there.
@ Daisy, it might be a little harsh especially since I hear good ole Bill “puts you to sleep”. It’s hard to say no to a good….
I could care less if he deemed me worthy because I have a man
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cosign. as long as the mr. came to his senses and knew to wife me on up….
i hi 5 elove on some things. other things i skimm over. as with you all. and he has company these days in the “man in the room” department. used to be only him and goat…..now it is him, goat, doc jam, dbalq, ileon, eastpointvet…and charles….
(kwall QUICKLY exits this post before being hit with flying iraqi shoes for adding “charles” to the list of menses on srose.com)
Well My MOMMA didn’t raise NO FOOL…
So I’ll exclude my male opinion SINCE they are others Males WHO BTW I RESPECT their opinion Very MUCH!!!
But IT’S obvious that MINE aren’t (No biggie…)
PEACE TO EVERYONE !!! And IF I truly offended ANYONE
TRUST ME I didn’t mean to At ALL (Sincerely Speaking) ;-)
@ licia…exactly, keep feeling like you are worth something cuz if you believe it, a man will believe it too and he will treat you like you are worth something.
and i notice that some females who give it up all the time and sleep around are rarely in serious, long term relationships…for example Superhead. when have you ever seen a man claim her and actually say that he is in a relationship with her and that he loves her? probably never. it’s all good behind closed doors, but in public you’re nothin more than a used up whore.
True daisy but I was better off in DC/MD than in ATL. Since I want to stay working for the gov I plan on only settling down in two places, the A or DC. The pickings here are tooooo limited. And since Im willing to date outside my race I think I would do better in the middle
You guys either type to fast or Im just slow..
@ Bird,
Well actually I moved on a long time ago…LOL! Yes it was my first heartbreak, and it did hurt the most, but I haven’t had one since because of it. I’m in a totally different place now, I just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl in Nov, from my best friend. Shunda and I were discussing it last week on here. That is over and done with, but I still regret being involved with him, he just turned out to be no good, thats all, he doesn’t do right by my son and he promised me he would at least do that…?? O well, but Im good….shyt got a new story to tell now LOL!
100+ comments and i’m just rolling out a bed….dang
Ilovepink1981 Says:
Im inthe A too. Plan on moving back to DC as soon as I can. IMPO i think that the A is too hyped up. All I have met are people who are in”Music”lol. I met one who wasn’t in music but he wanted to date the whole city of atlanta
^ If you aren’t a rapper, you might be a model, if you not a model your a stylist LOL.
Aww Elove
E-love said-LADIES, LADIES, LADIES… PLEASE Don’t be SAD or Depressed because you haven’t found true love yet…
BE GLAD that you haven’t WASTED YOUR LOVE on some FOOL that didn’t Deserve Your Love to begin with LIKE ALOT of US have… INCLUDING MYSELF !!!!!
BRAVO young MAN i am so glad to hear a man say that too often men have the mentality that if one won’t do it the next one will because sadly that is what happens ANGELA THANK YOURSELF FOR not giving your gift to this fool…. now nessa the other sis she done did the nasty cuz she sneaky LOL!!! anyhoo only you know when the time is right and all my beautiful sista queens don’t give up on love as soon as you stop looking that is when it will find you…. TRUST ME it happened to me at a time when i vowed I would NEVER date again now look at me 12 years and 3 beautiful kids later we still here and SISTAS please don’t be afraid to date outside your race or culture there are too many “good” non african-american men out there… TOO MANY … who love us sometimes black women are so adament about being with a black man they will accept ANYTHING dont sell yourself short….
@ E Love..Peace to you to my brutha, lol! you didn’t offend me personally..i just thought what Bird said was funny. She gets it in w/her comments and sometimes says what I’m thinking before I get to type it, LOL.
Thanks for clarifying that. You heard that E? We are worthy to be wifed. You just gotta find the right one. Nowadays men are primarily concerned with how the woman looks or how much money she makes, but there is no way that formula is going to work for everyone. You know what you really like. Find a woman that compliments that. I like a man who puts me on a pedistal. There is no way I would be happy with a man who doesn’t think I am too good for him. That’s just fact so it would be a waste of time for me to even try to have a something with a guy who thinks I’m the lucky one in the situation. I like a manly man who although he worships me and is constantly breaking his kneck to keep me knows that he is the king of the castle and will put the the smack down (not literally) when needed. Most importantly, he needs to deserve that power. Those personality traits are not easy to find, particularly since I am not Halle Berry so men are not flocking to me solely based on my looks. I gotta weed through the ones that do approach me. It took years and years, but I finally found that one. But I ain’t mad at all the ones I was with voluntarily who were not the one, but I chose to settle for.
As for the post
As a fellow virgin, and someone who’s about angela’s age,….i applaud her decision. While i’m not necessarily waiting for marriage, I’m waiting for someone i can see myself with, beyond the moment. But i also know, that the number of guys who can and are willing to wait……are very very very very slim. Doesn’t phase me though. I know there are guys out there, but its like you just seem to keep running into wrong ones. At the end of day, I’m content and comfortable with my decision, so i never feel the pressure, and don’t take it personal when ya gotta keep it moving…..i think of it as dodging one….its not my lost. I’m not compromising myself for no one….so either a guy can understand, and respect my choice, and luv, or we chucks the deuce.
there’s like three convos going on……
^^^ I know, Starr, I was sayin the same thang! lol
Good for Angela for sticking to her guns! I was just having this convo with a friend of mine. I was a virgin till I was 20. By that age, I almost just wanted to get it over with cuz it seems that by 21, you are supposed to be completely sexually experienced and know how to throw down in bed! Which is sort of impossible if you didn’t slut your way through high school… And then you have the 19-year old MALE cougars checkin u up as well. I think I may become celibate again in the near future, but right now…I wanna experiment
@Bird I heard that!
@Ilove you are slow and we type fast..lol
@Sharonda girl yes you hear any and all prof. here in the A..lol Everybody is trying to front and be more than what they are I dont get caught up into all that. Cars, jewelry dont do anything for me and never have. If you dont know Jesus and cant be faithful then you cant do nothing for me but keep on walking.
I@ lovepink1981..I think that Atl is over rated too! Some black people think that Atlanta is the land of opportunity and thinks if they move there, their life will suddenly change, LOL. i had a friend move there and she ended up coming right back to VA cuz it wasnt what she thought it was gonna be.
Dang…I meant Starr’s comment at 115! ( I guess I type too slow!)
@Chok do you boo just make sure you are wrapping it up!
E-love we value your opinion alot. dont stop offering your opinion.
@Mimi I have been in the A for 8yrs so im over it. I had a ball esp. when I 1st moved here at 24. I am working on my masters and once I finish school I am open to relocating for a new career. I love the VA/MD area but its so pricey.
Hot topic going on up n here… Good Morning everyone!
If bust’n nuts is wrong I don’t wanna be right.
Did anyone speak on the Chance of Love Finale lastnight?
ELove Says:
@Bird
I REALLY don’t understand where this IS coming from AND I have co-signed things you have said (Go Figure)
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Now why you gotta get all traumatized because I’m disagreeing with you one time? I’m tempted to say you are spoiled.
It’s just a little healthy debate. I still love you even if you lookin at sistas as underserving right now. Like KCicero said, I got a man and in the throws of planning a wedding, so I didn’t take what you said personally, but it definately made the hairs stand up on the back of my neck like dudes calling woman b’s and hoes as a matter of course. We are worthy.
WHERE EVER YOU DECIDE TO MOVE DEPENDS ON THE PERSON IMO IF YOU WILL SUCCEED OR IF YOU WILL FAIL.
IF YOU’RE NOT MOTIVATED IN FLORIDA, WHAT THE HELL MAKE YOU THINK YOU GOING TO BE MOTIVATED IN GEORGIA?
YOU GOTTA GET UP, GET OUT, AND GET SOMETHING……….
@Black thats not what we were talking about but thanks for that breaking newsflash..lol
Good Morning all …
I just watched the video – damn you tube and peep being able to upload videos – its getting to wack and overboard. Was a response really needed from him??
I can scroll up now and read yall comments
@Bird when is the wedding and is it in Charlotte?
@licia
I DON’T know if you read the other responses to WHAT @bird said… YOU are in the MINORITY For Real LOL LOL
I don’t know if remember my comment about 2009 BEING about Harmony-N-Understanding (I TRULY Believe that!!!)
So if removing my input MAKES things better within the SR-Community… THEN I have no problem with it ;-)
It’s NOT Personal to me at all… I REALLY like people to ENJOY themselves and Being HAPPY… WHEN those things happen LIFE is so much more enjoyable (Real Talk) ;-)
DAMN, DID I STEP ON YOUR TOES??
WHO SAID..I WAS TALKING TO YOU??
I’M MAKING A COMMENT.
No you did not step on my toes and last I checked I could respond to any comment
@bird
am i not a male? lol
@ Daisy, yeah I was born and raised in VA. but my friend felt the same way u did. she went down there for school (Clark Atlanta to be exact) then after all the hype died down, i guess she was over it too and made her way back to VA.
GO SIT CHO ASS DOWN SOMEWHERE. ALWAYS BEGGING FOR SOME DAMN ATTENTION.
YOU WANTED IT, NOW YOU GOT IT.
HERE’S YOUR DAMN CHAIR!!!
WTFE…
Did anyone speak on the Chance of Love Finale lastnight?
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Yea Real is gay, and Chance is a sissy. Chance decided to remain a sissy and not choose a female to be with at all…his heart belongs to a fellow stallion im sure. Real is playing it safe with the soft aZZ white girl (beard) because he knows that once he breaks the news to her about being gay, he won’t get cut
Daisy Says:
@Tee BWalters still defends Monica L. she feels really bad about what happened to her and said its still hard for her to find work. Bless her heart!
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yea sh cant buy a job…i thought she was designing pocketbooks and living in england ? and no i is a grown man, pushing 40. lol
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Mimi Renee Says:
@ teecee…i’m freezing at my desk too!!! i’m beginning to think the heat has been permanently disabled or somethin….
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everybody is borrowing my swiss miss this am, im going to start charging. yea they heart has been disable. kids have no idea any more.
there’s a ton of virgins that post here. Fascinating.
Shots Fired!!!!!!!! Shots Fired!!!!!!! CODE 10!!!!!!! Shots Fired!!!!!!!
@Black I see you are amped and looking for a blog fight who does that NEXT!!!
@kym
pass that shyt
@goat no need to duck so you can get up now..lol
ELove
Oh come on man. It’s nothing like that. The ladies would hunt me down and kill me if you left on my account. Why you trying to get me in trouble?
Daisy Says:
@Bird when is the wedding and is it in Charlotte?
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Child we are all over the place with this wedding. We know we are getting married 6/26/10 (we po so we gotta save up), but at first I wanted to get married at my family church in Jerz with a little ghetto back yard reception. Then a friend told us how he and his wife got married in Vegas and how cheap their package deal was. Then we started thinking that since it’s really about us and we don’t care if our families aren’t there we could get married in any honeymoon spot with a cheap package deal. So right now we only have the date set in stone, unless we win the lottery. Then the date could change too. It’s fun planning it. I’ve never been married before.
:koolaide:
how did Auntie spell koolaide dammit !!
eastpointvet Says:
@bird
am i not a male? lol
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I sawwy. I didn’t acknowledge the other men. Even Charles.
that popcorn look sho look good!!
@BlackBarbie:
Whoo Lawd.
ckarinwhite
You are a mess with that dang popcorn. How do you do that?
@Bird yes you are all over the place but CONGRATS! I am sure you will figure it out. I have always wanted a small private ceremony on an Island somewhere.
colon, popcorn, colon
how do you add the smiley w/ popcorn???
THAT’S WHAT I THOUGHT. YOU ALWAYS GOT SOMETHING TO SAY BUT NEVER WANT TO FINISH SHYT.
BYTCHBEGONE………. (POOF)
@Bird
I’m going to address with you ONCE… So please READ my comment CAREFULLY
I DON’T date White Women AND I don’t go around berating Black Women on the regular… I HAVE a daughter I reared as a single-parent SO there is no way I WOULD EVER “lookin at sistas as underserving right now”
I DON’T EVEN have a CLUE where THAT came from…
SPOILED??? Everybody that know me WOULD LAUGH at that LOL ;-)
Then AGAIN… YOU DON’T KNOW ME
So YOUR opinion of ME are only VALID to you AND others who choose to BELIEVE what you say as Truth-N-Fact
And for the Record… I DON’T have a problem with YOU or ANYBODY ELSE on this board AT ALL but I WILL say that what you said and how you said it ISN’T remotely Healthy-Debating
TRUST ME I KNOW what Healthy-Debating is LOL LOL ;-)
I love popcorn eat me a bag every night watching my TV shows!
awwww shieeeeeeeeet…@ ckarinwhite
now we on the dance floor!!!!
ok so everyone needs to chill. it’s not that serious .
@Bird- I wish you and your boo much happiness. Congrats!
@licia I agree but I guess for others it is. Such is life. Oh well *sigh*
:koolade:
AUntie… how u spellin Koolaide ?
@Bird-..Are you engaged to your baby’s father?
Elove… Baby, I do think you’re spoiled. I luvs u anyway. Everyone ALWAYS agree with you (including myself) and value your opinion because we need that male’s perspective. We make that much known on the regular.
BUT… (to a certain extent) I read it like Bird and now you ready to stop commenting when you didn’t get applause. Now you know that aint right.
Now you and Bird kiss and makeup.
Awwww shucks @ CKarin … lol
kym
lol
koolaid
lol
*praying it worked*
goat76 Says:
Shots Fired!!!!!!!! Shots Fired!!!!!!! CODE 10!!!!!!! Shots Fired!!!!!!!
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you kill me wit dis shyt LMAO!! Didn’t I tell you about those so called shots from the keyboard gangster.Cut it out boy LOL!
@Kym: Need some lime with mines paleez!
ELove Says:
Me and My Boyz have come to the conclusion THAT there ARE No Women out there that are deserving of OUR LOVE & DEVOTION and WE aren’t holding out ANY hope for it…
LIKE
January 13th, 2009 at 9:58 am
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That was what I was responding to. Still it is not that serious, so I will end this debate as it is getting more adversarial than I’m comfortable with. I don’t like to go to the point of no return with my Sandra Rose peoples.
We need DocJam to show his face…everyday. LMAO
yvonne79 Says:
@Bird- I wish you and your boo much happiness. Congrats!
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Thanks! I’m really giddy these days. I’m a 40 year old teenager right now.
we were having decent conversations earlier. good grief .
ok .. i’m done playing … lol
ckarinwhite Says:
@Bird-..Are you engaged to your baby’s father?
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Child boo. Heck no. Did you hear about the fling? Anyway, that’s all it was.
kym u got a whole party going on . lmao
I don’t get offended when black men get dogged out on here ……I know that it don’t apply to me…so why get offended…….
yes Much Congrats on your Marriage Bird … sending you Many Many Blessings …
“I could care less if he deemed me worthy because I have a man, lol.”
SAME here — no offense to E-Love but this is a comment on a BLOG board, can’t take much of anythign said here to SERIOUS or OFFENSE – its all in good fun.
Speaking of FUN — CHARLES where you @ boo?
lol@ licia … gurl yeah …lol
@Goat:
Just as everyone else should ignore erroneous statements that werent addressed to them.
@ Bird:
Congrats sistah, love is a wonderful thang!
@Bird..I remember you asking for advice about him, and when I heard you were engaged…I was like is she engaged to the cheater?!?…Congrats on the engagement!!!
DAYUMMMM CAPTAIN!
everyone is feeling froggy today!!
Miss…16…
I GUESS you got WHAT @bird as uh…
I DON’T comment for Hoorays-n-Applause (My EGO is Fine!!!)
I try to share Real info for Insight towards building wisdom FOR THOSE that are still learning about life in general
IF I’m NOT Mistaken the MAIN REASON for @bird response REVOLVED around others giving my comment Co-sign-N-Applause
I’ll END by saying:
If I’m SPOILED then The World NEEDS ALOT More SPOILED MEN ;-)
^5 KEELY.
Oh & Congrats Bird!
YOu work on your vows yet?
Aw what happened to the the intellectual conversation we were having, lol.
Kumbaya Kumbaya
ckarinwhite Says:
@Bird..I remember you asking for advice about him, and when I heard you were engaged…I was like is she engaged to the cheater?!?…Congrats on the engagement!!!
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lol. Yall snapped me out of that mercilessly. I kid you not, I never messed with him again after that day and met my fiance shortly after. Thank goodness I wasn’t in a messy relationship with baby daddy who is moving back with his ex this very weekend.
@ Keely… we fam and got the right to tell ELOVE to go sit down somewhere when he start talking about leaving. He betta not go nowhere.
Bird disagreed now get over it.
@kc
Why was I just thinking the same thing….
Nomyohoranggaykeyooooooooo
The operative word being erroneous…
@kcicero — I see you Salaams!
@Coar:
I just need some juicy celeb gossip. LOL.
E love… go sit down!!!
You aint going no where. Bird disagreed and that’s okay.
iyonah Says:
Oh & Congrats Bird!
YOu work on your vows yet?
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I thought about that for about a hot second. My fiance and I are both too shy for that. Maybe I shouldn’t speak for him. I know I am too shy for it. Let’s not talk about this anymore. I didn’t mean to hijack the blog.
@Miss:
Missed my mark.
What’s up fam…….Kym and Ckarin is buggin out….LOL!
lol Salaams Iyonah!!!
hey hey Shayyyy … want some
?
well you all have a great day . hopefully by the time i get off from work tomorrow everyone and everything will be back to normal in the SR family.
laters
@Bird I thought about the vow aspect as well I think I want to do both when my day comes but I am on the shy/quiet tip as well I dont like the attn being on me so that would mean I would have to step up at least for that day..lol
Hey Kymy…….Can I smoke at your party…….not really a drinker…
@ kcicero, lol….
ckarin and those darned smiley faces eating popcorn and drankin!! LOL
YEP @ goat … i don’t think we have a
icon .. or :weed: .. or :purple: or :georgebush:
WOWWWWW … colon blunt colon .. is
…. ain’t THAT something
@ Krysi # 144.. Lmao okay. I just thought Chance got an offer to do his own show but I guess what u said can b the case.
@ blackbarbie404 or anyone. Who is she going off on? I’m lost but lmao.
@ topic BEING A VIRGIN to me (no I’m not one) has always been OVERRATED. Sex usually (not always) comes with emotional baggage that I would not want to go thru as too old of a woman. Once I get a certain age I want to be past that part of my life. I would’ve want to be able to spot bs from the real by the time I was in my 20′s. Being a virgin in your 20′s can cause you to see most men as bs..
I thought about that for about a hot second. My fiance and I are both too shy for that. Maybe I shouldn’t speak for him. I know I am too shy for it. Let’s not talk about this anymore. I didn’t mean to hijack the blog.
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We are FAMOUS for GOING off topic on SR post — if you choose not to discuss totally UNDER/OVERstandable. (Yeah I know overstand isn’t in Websters Kym — lol)
I have only seen peep on TV do the vow thing – its why I asked. Havne’t been to many wedding though either.
I like that word .. imma use it to … Overstand … lol
Haven’t****
please excuse all of my TYPOS
Kymy got tha party Jumpin…….
Kym – LOL…..yep pass the popcorn……
Ok now yaw having to much fun…its gone be a man down situation……with all this puff puff given and drankin..lol
We going to 300 today I see!
Come on guys its over 200 comments on here. Who is Blackbarbie talking about. I can guess but I don’t want to call any colors one out.
my friend loves that freaking word, she used is so much in text that I started to USE it to …. I do OVERSTAND at times though ….
ISCREAM….she was addressing Daisy
my govt computer acted up so i missed out on everything. Where are we in the covo?
this a long thread lol
Morning Fam!
I got a promotion and I really have to work but wanted to throw in my 2 cents. I have had a few partners but I seriously believe my current boyfriend is the one. My mom told me God would send me someone when he felt I was ready and boy was she right.
234 post WTF been going on in here?!?!?!
Thankyou DivineB I will have to read all this @ home. Not even 12 and over 200 hits… Sandra Merry X Mas!
Ok, since people keep asking and I never get tired of talking about it…..
I really wish I could do the vows. I am so crazy about him and he is so good to me that I would love to say something special. But I could just see us having jitters because we are saying these personal things to each other in front of an audience. But there is something stale about just responding to the preacher with, I will and what have you.
damn yall 238 comments??!!
shunda Says:
Morning Fam!
I got a promotion and I really have to work but wanted to throw in my 2 cents. I have had a few partners but I seriously believe my current boyfriend is the one. My mom told me God would send me someone when he felt I was ready and boy was she right.
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Yes! I so believe that. I had actually prayed on it about a year ago. At that point I was ready to admit that I was tired of being single. I just broke down and said, “Lord, please send me a husband (not a man, a husband). The one that You know is right for me.” He hooked me up big time. Even gave me vanity things that I was willing to do without. Like the fact that my fiance is tall and good looking. What a bonus!
Shunda,
I forgot to say CONGRATS on the promotion!
Congrats Shunda!
Again .. Congrats @ Bird …
@Bird
Thanks! It was a big surprise since we are dealing with budget cuts but hard work does payoff.
Here’s to Bird and Shunda ….
a sistah go to DMV and come back and there is popcorn, fights, news flashes….shots fired… what da hail?
again what da hail?
kwallace577 Says:
a sistah go to DMV and come back and there is popcorn, fights, news flashes….shots fired… what da hail?
again what da hail?
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The fights didn’t really jump off. More like disappointing shoving matches. Don’t you hate those? Show me blood!
Bird you have too much to be thankful for to be worried about hatin hoes and seeing blood
Hey Caramel ((waving))…..
Lawd…what ch’all up in here talking about? Too much on the eyes to read…
Chicaaaaaaaaaa Suave !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
heyyyyyyyyyy girl!!!!
I am just happy to hear the word “virgin”. Not too many left out here.
Okay, I see the party is here on this post. Has anyone done any work at all today? This darn thread is loooooong. Looks like we’re gonna hit 300 today!!
Most of the people who save their virginity are ugly. So that’s really one of the only things they have to hold on to. So who would blame them…
LOL
Its ok you might get some one day.
JMO
wow @ vip … just dayum WOW ….
ok. I just read all 256 comments..wow..
This is one of those topics that only makes me think aboout my pre-teen daughter. I am hoping my daughter has the sense enough to wait until she finds the right one, but at the same time, I think about my teen years and what was going on in my head, and how many right ones I thought I found. So, I am surprised that she is a virgin, and kind a glad that she decided to wait. She is also a multi-millionare which kinda “help” her need of waiting. She will probably have more than her virginity to lose based on decisions she make when it comes to dating.
And to add my two cents regarding myself. I met the man of my dreams and married him in 2008. I changed my environment and I stop looking for a man, and just concentrated on my life, my goals, and just like magic, we met each other.
For those who are trying to find the right one..quit looking, and focus on yourself. Contrary to belief, there are still good men, black men out there..very slim..but they are there.
Thank you Ursmyle4me……………..Some of us are still left…….
I stopped looking too like 3yrs ago…….I hope I meet her soon…….
vipatlstyle Says: Most of the people who save their virginity are ugly. So that’s really one of the only things they have to hold on to. So who would blame them…
LOL
Its ok you might get some one day.
JMO
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WOW! the words that come out of some peoples mouth are so telling of the type of person they are. I know a lot of abstinent, celibate, and or virgin girls/women and majority of them are very popular and pretty. I was abstinent before I got married and I am in no way ugly.
LMAO @ VIP
(WOW IS RIGHT, KYM)
I always thought TK was hot anyway…be back later to read comments…gotta go.
he is FINE!!! not sure what he does for a living besides skateboarding! they grew apart, what about the story of him cheating on her with an ex and both angela and the ex blew up his spot? i believe i saw that story on this site!
I finally got to see the TK video and that’s cool. They are young people and they will likely have more relationships before they settle down. Their breakup is not the end of the world regardless of the reason or how painful it was.
vipatlstyle Says:
Most of the people who save their virginity are ugly. So that’s really one of the only things they have to hold on to. So who would blame them…
LOL
Its ok you might get some one day.
JMO
^^ Wooooow
sandra when did u let this slow boogie in ?
THats Bs!! Angela is one of my role models!Im 20 yrs.old and a vigin like her and Its nice to find someone in the industry with morals..I thought Tk was fine but he seemed Dumb and shallow! I mean he goes “I gave her the ring i was there for her” Right cuz nothing says I care like jewelery! (rolls my eyes) Oh well he wasnt worth it but i damn sure woulda pawned that shi! lol and i seemed like it was just his ring that he already had and he gave it to her!
oh and vipatlstyle you must’ve never seen me I’ll leave my myspace if ur interested cuz i am Most def Far from being ugly, I was offered a modeling contract but i turned it down to stay in school! so your theory is WRONG!