Mother of Missing 5-Year-Old NC Girl Charged

A 5-year-old North Carolina girl is still missing 3 days after a man was arrested and charged with kidnapping her. Police suspect Shaniya Davis’s mother provided her to 29-year old Mario Andrette McNeil for sexual favors in exchange for drugs and/or cash.

Fayetteville, NC police arrested Shaniya’s mother, Antoinette Nicole Davis, and charged her with child abuse involving prostitution, human trafficking and filing a false police report.

According to arrest reports, Davis “knowingly provide(d) Shaniya Davis with the intent that she be held in sexual servitude” and she “permit(ted) an act of prostitution.”

Shaniya had only lived with her mother for one month before she went missing.

McNeil (pictured below) has been charged with kidnapping Shaniya after he was seen on a hotel surveillance camera on Thursday (11/12) carrying the child into a Sanford hotel room about 40 miles from Fayetteville.

Shaniya’s mother reported the girl missing Tuesday morning (11/10) from a mobile home community in Fayetteville, and authorities began searching nearby wooded areas. She said she last saw her around 5:30 a.m. Tuesday morning.

Police responded to the home around 6:50 a.m., and immediately suspected foul play was involved in the girl’s disappearance. “There is definitely something not right about the situation. Foul play is suspected,” Fayetteville police spokeswoman Theresa Chance said Tuesday evening. The mother’s live-in boyfriend and her sister, along with an infant and Shaniya’s 7-year-old brother were also in the home when the girl went missing.

On Thursday, police took the mother’s boyfriend, Clarence Coe, 30, into custody and charged him with kidnapping. But Coe was released the next day and all charges were dropped.

Investigators said they found a blanket that might have belonged to Shaniya in a garbage can outside a neighbor’s home, along with other items the little girl was wearing. Shaniya was last seen wearing a blue t-shirt and pink underwear.

Police sealed the home Tuesday and prevented family members from entering, citing extensive sewage leaks inside the mobile home.

Bradley Lockhart, center, father of missing 5-year-old Shaniya Davis, cries during a news conference at the police station, Thursday, Nov. 12, 2009 in Fayetteville, N.C.

Shaniya’s father, Bradley Lockhart, told The Associated Press he raised his daughter for several years but last month decided to let her stay with her mother. He said Shaniya’s mother struggled for years with alcohol and drug abuse as well as financial difficulties. He said she recently found a stable job and her own place so he decided to give her a chance to raise their daughter.

“I should’ve never let her go over there,” Lockhart said Saturday night.

Chance said the family has a history with the Department of Social Services.

“There have been major DSS issues with this family – who has custody, switching back and forth,” Chance said. This summer, officers served a search warrant at the home and found a variety of drugs inside.

Lockhart said police have not told him whether they are any closer to finding his daughter.
“I just want her to come back safe my friend,” he said. “I love her very much and I hope she is OK.”

He described his relationship with Davis as a “one-night stand” and said he and Davis never argued about him raising Shaniya.

“Shaniya is a precious young lady and she is special,” Lockhart said.

Fayetteville police say they interviewed three registered sex offenders in the area. The sex offenders are not considered suspects.

Police have not said whether they believe Shaniya is dead. “We’re treating this as a child in danger, with the information we have,” Chance said.

Sources: 1, 2, 3, 4



 


166 Responses to “Mother of Missing 5-Year-Old NC Girl Charged”

  1. 1
    flawless001 says:

    oh my god, that poor little girl!! i hope she makes it home safe and sound, my heart goes out to her family

  2. 2
    missy says:

    What a cute little girl ….. I hope they find her..but what makes me the most upset is that the father decided to be nice and let his daughter see her mother who was supposedly better and she turns around and does something so cruel to her own child…..I know the father will feel guilty for the rest of his life if he never sees his daughter again…I hope the little girl is safe and will be returned to her father…the mother should never see her again unless she truly truly truly changes …but I :pray: for this family and hope their sorrow turns into joy.

  3. 3
    flawless001 says:

    @missy
    you are right when you said:”I know the father will feel guilty for the rest of his life if he never sees his daughter again…I hope the little girl is safe and will be returned to her father…the mother should never see her again unless she truly truly truly changes ”
    this is so sad~smh

  4. 4
    cedramyers says:

    SAD. What a waste of a beautiful life. This woman should be female castrated if she let this happen to a beautiful girl.

  5. 5
    dorcely says:

    I pray that they find this girl. I wish the news would show this tragic story because this is the 1st I ever heard of it :(

  6. 6
    Smokie says:

    How incredibly sad. My prayers are with and for the little gir.

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    Thando says:

    :newbie: Maybe I am being too analytical but….why would the father give this woman who lives with a family with well documented issues, a child for a full month? A child this woman gave away too easily. A child who has no bond with the mother???

    A supervised day visit or a weekend I would understand but a whole month!!!
    Why did he do this?
    Who put the pressure on him?
    Was he inn a new relationship?
    How did his family feel about this black child?

    There is no way my mom as a grandma would hand over her son’s daughter to such a woman. Believe me, I have seen a custody battle in my fam based on a babymama of loose virtue wanting my niece or payment….no grandmother would bow to this.

    There are loads of questions for the dad to answer and I feel sorry for him. He never wanted this.

  8. 8
    starr says:

    stories like this make me ill. How could a mother….im not a parent…but i just can’t fathom how someone could put there own flesh n blood in danger like that. I hope and pray this lil gurl is returned safely. I can only imagine what her father is feeling

  9. 9
    flawless001 says:

    @ thando
    the father may have given her a chance because she was getting her life back on track :shrugs: but i know he will never forgive himself

  10. 10
    LovelyLady says:

    i just cant this is to much on this sunday morning. i pray 4 this beautiful girl

  11. 11
    mswarrior says:

    This is horrible. I know the father must feel incredibly guilty because he decided to give the mother a chance. I could NEVER imagine, as a mother, giving up my child for child prostitution. How could she do that? Ugh. That just sickens me.
    I pray to the bottom of my heart that this little girl is found unharmed. Lord, people these days.

  12. 12
    Anna says:

    I have been following this story. One man got arrested of taking the little precious baby girl. He was let go and another man confesed of taking the baby but still would not say where the little girl was. The mother being involved in the whole ordeal does not surprise me. I pray the dad does not beat himself up over this but question why he gave her a month of visitation. Was he going to jail, did he get married and wanted a break? So many questions.
    Nice pic mswarrior.

  13. 13
    Mahogany03 says:

    :newbie: This story is very upsetting. The first thought that popped in my head was, “I hope the father doesn’t do anything drastic” (i.e. suicide). I really hope and pray that this girl is found.

  14. 14
    Anna says:

    I need to update my comment. I did not see the pic of the family or read the post under the family. I really do think that the dad had every good intention of letting the mother have the liitle girl. Sad to say that we do really have to be selective with our sex partners. Sex can produce a child and not every parent is ready for parenthood.

  15. 15
    2thick4u says:

    Damn…I knew that the mother story was fishy :( !!!

    This baby deserved better and it seemed like she had that woth her father. I pray that this beautiful little girl is found safe and unharmed. Please don’t let her be dead!!

  16. 16
    Anna says:

    2thick4u, the authorites don’t think the baby is dead. A pic of her was shown while being carried by a black male on a hotel survaillance camera. Everyone who saw the pic said that the little girl did not appear scared and that makes them think that she knows the man (carrying her).

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    kwall says:

    i been following this too as this is my local news (i’m 45 min. from fayetteville) since day one. and i knew that momma was no good the first time i saw her on tv. and that poor father…yes he HAS to feel guilt. that poor man. prayers out to him and his lil lady who looks just like him btw. hope she comes home safe.

  18. 18
    kwall says:

    2thick4u, the authorites don’t think the baby is dead. A pic of her was shown while being carried by a black male on a hotel survaillance camera
    ———————————–
    that footage was taped the same day she came up missing (6 days ago). and the man in the footage is now in custody…so where is she? hope for the best but prepare for the worst…

  19. 19
    missy says:

    i agree with flawless001 comment #9

    Maybe he saw the good in her and felt she has changed but he has to deal with these consequences because im sure everyone he knew told him otherwise.

    @Thando i was wondering the same questions as you

  20. 20
    missy says:

    And the pic with the dude smirking is annoying the heck out of me…… >:(

  21. 21
    Anna says:

    Mahogany03 Says:

    This story is very upsetting. The first thought that popped in my head was, “I hope the father doesn’t do anything drastic” (i.e. suicide). I really hope and pray that this girl is found.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    Welcome. I don’t think our welcome wagon log on until work hours but I will stand in for them today.
    The dad does seem like a reasonable person and I hope and pray also that the little girl is found safe. I don’t think they he will commit suicide, I am more worried about revenge. If he has the chance I think he will beat a ninja down.

  22. 22
    CivilEngineer says:

    “newbie” if it turns out that she actually did have something to do with this, can they just throw her under the jail? She obviously had no relationship with her daughter outside of being her birth mother. I’ll keep the family in my prayers.

  23. 23
    Daisy says:

    :welcome: new ppl

    Lawd Jesus! My best friend lives in gotham city AKA fayetville, NC she has been keeping me updated on this very sad story.

    I :pray: for the lil girl and her father and family heartbreaking.

  24. 24
    Mahogany03 says:

    Thank you Anna! And you’re right about the father’s revenge. I didn’t even think about that, but it’s highly possible that he may do so.

    Hello Daisy!

  25. 25
    Thando says:

    @Daisy…. thanks for the welcome.

    I’m representing Birmingham UK *waving frantically*…

  26. 26
    pyt305 says:

    I first saw this story on Nancy Grace this past week. Its really sad that the father, out of his good heart, gave the mother a second chance at raising their daughter and she turns around and does this…just sick…the mother is sick and anyone who was a willing participant in this is sick as well

  27. 27
    pyt305 says:

    Thanks Daisy

  28. 28
    Daisy says:

    Hey mahgoany! Where you from, married/kids, who do u stan for in FUN if anybody? Same for you Thando!

    :party: with the new people :lol:

  29. 29
    Melani23 says:

    I’m new here too (THX SR!), and I must say, this child would have never gone thru this (I pray that she’s still alive and unharmed) if we Americans didn’t feel that biracial children would be better left with and identified with the minority-raced parent. Although unspoken in this case, I’m sure it played a part (ditto femalehood). Clearly, her Black mother was no good, and her father may just be ‘okay’, but ‘okay’ is better than dead!

  30. 30
    talldrink says:

    This little girl will never be the same. These creatures really make me ill. How fearful she must be. Lock them all up and swallow the key.

  31. 31
    kwall says:

    @daisy the fayetteville old timers call it “fayette-nam” as in vietnam…

    and since you are native too you prolly already know that fayeteville is kinda rough. it is a military town with alot of crime. it also sits halfway between ny and miami off of 1-95 so it is a real busy drug corridor.

  32. 32
    CivilEngineer says:

    @Daisy—>Thanks for the welcome!!

  33. 33
    Anna says:

    Hey daisy. You know I stan for Whit have kids, hubby and a new grandbaby on the way. (that was really directed at the new ppl)I want to know how they got in. Did the gates open(registration) and I slept through it? LOL.
    I recently woke up from my Sunday nap with my book on my lap. I was trying to read my book for tomorrows debate but got so full from my hash browns, eggs and sausage Mcmuffin. The book is a must read and seems like a quick read. Why am I already hating David?

  34. 34
    Mahogany03 says:

    @ Daisy

    I’m from Alabama. I’m not married and I don’t have kids (I’m 19 and school is my 9 to 5, so I don’t have time to start a family – lol). I stan for T.I., Diana Ross, Rhianna, and MJ :)

    Lol @ Anna. Thanks for the info!

  35. 35
    dorcely says:

    Im a newbie!!! Thank You Sandra for opening registration.

  36. 36
    dorcely says:

    @ Daisy

    Thanks for the Welcome!
    Im 24, I live in Georgia, I have a daughter and Im getting married next Monday :)

  37. 37
    KrayZKat says:

    I’m a newbie 2. So happy SR finally opened registration. I thank Sandra as well!

  38. 38
    aries says:

    :newbie: This is so sad I hope they find her.

  39. 39
    GottaBigOne says:

    . . . and all this HeartBreak ALL because a Cheap “One-Night Stand”!
    Really!?!

  40. 40
    KrayZKat says:

    Thanks for the welcome, Daisy.

  41. 41
    Charlie214 says:

    :newbie: Hey whats up fam!!! This is really sad…
    Im from Fayetteville and its horrible that a mother would “pawn” her child off for drugs or cash.

  42. 42
    VIBABY says:

    :newbie: Testing..1…2..newbie here..hello all!

    This is heartbreaking. I pray that they find her alive. I can’t say anything else without verbally attacking both her parents, so that is all.

  43. 43
    flawless001 says:

    @ Anna and Daisy thanx for the Welcome…

    im a newbie too…i am 27,single, no kids, and live in toledo,ohio.. I like Beyonce,Monica,and Brandy etc; i have been a lurker forever, happy to be able to join and voice my opinion

    I actually thought it was a mistake last night when i was able to comment, so i got on this morning and registration was open..so im here!!

    p.s how do i change my pic

  44. 44
    Anna says:

    @ dorcely. Who the hell gets married on a Monday? LOL. I can say that I woke up one day and decided it was time to get married. I think it was in the middle of the week and my first born graduated from 6th grade. I did go to the Justice Of The Peace to get married but after a decade I am still married. I did also attend my childs 6th grade event and she is now 24 and will graduate with her Masters next month and get married in June. Yes I am a proud mama bear and have to say that it still takes a village to raise a child. Her dad, my hubby and me along with others helped raise this young woman. I will never ever think that a woman is a “single mother”. There are too many ppl in a childs life to “say I single handedly(sp) by myself raised my child”, yeah right and I got pregnant by myself. LOL. Sorry I am in a silly mood. One of my kids called me because she wants a Thanksgiving meal today. That does make me feel special as a mom. (there is no place like home). Congrats on your wedding day and I wish you the best.

  45. 45
    dorcely says:

    Oh I forgot to add I stan for no one :)

  46. 46
    whatdoesitmatter says:

    My heart cannot take this. That is just too much for me.

  47. 47
    RahrahRiah says:

    We are all on edge here in NC on this one, something was not right from the start. I hope they find her soon. The father’s actions are strange if you as me, I would never give my child to a “one night stand” if I was already raising her all these years. He was raising her for a reason. Her mother is just sick. :(

  48. 48
    dorcely says:

    @ Anna I am getting married on Monday because I will be on Thanksgiving Break from my job :) I know it sounds weird, but we were planning a big wedding and family ruined it so were eloping on the 23rd :)

  49. 49
    KrayZKat says:

    :newbie: It looks like the other newbies are giving a little history about themselves, so here it goes. I’m in my early 40′s, and have been a fan of SR for a long time, so I, like other newbies, was very happy when registration finally opened up. I stan for baseball player Matt Kemp (whew!), LeToya Luckett, Ledisi, MJ (RIP), and old skool music!

    Again, I’m glad to be here! :-)

  50. 50
    Inmyopinion says:

    :newbie: Hi, Sandra

    This is very sad. I hope that they find the little girl safe and unharmed. I am also new. Thanks for opening the site. I have been visting for a while.

  51. 51
    missy says:

    Okay it looks like I need to re-introduce myself this is for @Daisy and everyone else since I am like a newbie/veteran

    I am 18 /single/Aquarius …..Never been married don’t plan on it any time soon and I don’t have an kids(unless you include my annoyin lil bro……no)I stan for 50cent,CB,Lance Gross(but if they annoy me than I call them out on it) and myself…..

    Location-some where in a tropical island enjoying the cool breeze on the beach….

  52. 52
    talldrink says:

    :newbie: This was a setup from the get-go. How could a mother do this?

  53. 53
    Anna says:

    RahrahRiah Says:

    We are all on edge here in NC on this one, something was not right from the start. I hope they find her soon. The father’s actions are strange if you as me, I would never give my child to a “one night stand” if I was already raising her all these years. He was raising her for a reason. Her mother is just sick.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    Your comment gave me a chill. Did the dad really give the baby to a woman that is only the birth mother? Did he just want a break, did his “white” family not accept the baby? I have too many questions.

  54. 54
    shawnette00 says:

    :newbie: Im a newbie but have lurked forever, so with that said, I have paid attention to your devoted bloggers and monitored the fights about being in cliques, newbies having soft feelings etc etc….no worries, nothing but grown folk business from me LOL! I want to send a shout out to: Kwall, Iscream, Kymestry, attorneymom and the one who got banned…oh wow I forgot his name,help me out folks….Charles????

  55. 55
    Anna says:

    dorcely Says:

    @ Anna I am getting married on Monday because I will be on Thanksgiving Break from my job I know it sounds weird, but we were planning a big wedding and family ruined it so were eloping on the 23rd
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    Family can ruin a wedding and that is why I stay out of my daughters plans. I only have to pick out and pay for my dress. The two dresses I did pick out and emailed to her was not a great dress for her liking. Not ghetto, not too short but to upstaging. I was just tryng to stay covered and have a long dress on. My daughter and I are only 18 yrs. apart. I will go back to the drawing board and find my mommy’grandmommy dress just for her. I am only 42 and found the dresses I looked at to be for a “mature woman”. My daugher knows my age and thought what I picked out to be “grannyish”.

  56. 56

    :newbie: Clearly, some people need their ovaries snatched out and stomped on.

  57. 57
    mzloud says:

    :newbie: This entire situation is just sad….. I really hope they find this child….*** Waving at all the SR Family*** HEEEYYY!!!! I’m new here!!!!

  58. 58

    I first heard about this on Nancy Grace. She is the bizness!!! I love her. Anyway, they were showing the first guy in court and he was rolling his eyes at the job and just acting real ignorant. I wanted to bust him in his face. I hope they find this little girl. I swear there are some people out here that do NOT need kids. :mad:

  59. 59
    MrzzSmitty says:

    :newbie: God Bless that sweet little angel. She will be in my prayers.

  60. 60
    MrzzSmitty says:

    :newbie: Hello All, I’m Eva, I’m a married mother of 2 I stan for USHER! Thank goodness Sandra finally open up the gates and let me up in here. lol

  61. 61
    Redeemed777 says:

    :newbie: FINALLY!!!! Thankyou for opening up registration. I’ve waited patiently and now I’m finally here!

  62. 62
    LLani says:

    :newbie: Like someone else has said, the guy that is smirking makes me want to slap him. I will never understand why some parents can’t and won’t protect their children. It’s their job to do so. I hope they find her unharmed.

  63. 63
    mswarrior says:

    RahrahRiah Says:

    We are all on edge here in NC on this one, something was not right from the start. I hope they find her soon. The father’s actions are strange if you as me, I would never give my child to a “one night stand” if I was already raising her all these years. He was raising her for a reason. Her mother is just sick.

    —————

    The mother was a one night stand? See now, that just makes no sense to me. If the father KNEW that the woman never raised the child, and had issues how could you even give her a chance. I understand having faith that someone has changed and giving them another chance. But, sometimes common sense just needs to come into play. Nothing fits together in this whole situation.

    The only thing I am sure of is that I hope the little girl comes back ALIVE and OKAY.

    & BTW, I’m a newbie. :) I was SO excited when I saw registration was open earrrllyyy this morning and clicked right away to make sure I made it in before the gates closed. LOL. (Been a lurker for awhhiilllee)
    Anyway, I’m 19, live in San Antonio, TX, and have a handsome 5 month old son named Jaden.
    (Don’t let the age & son fool you though, I AM getting my education and raising him on my own. :) )

  64. 64
    cedramyers says:

    That is a shame. Black people need to set an example. Not trying to be harsh, but if this a black father in distress and looking for his child, this would not be on the news. I pray for the return of that child.

  65. 65
    starr says:

    More newbies!!!

    :welcome: to the family

    Nice to see newbies in the 18-24 demographics btw :smile:

  66. 66
    monieluv says:

    Im a newbie also. Just registered. Hi everyone!!!* This is such a sad case to me. I hope they find baby girl safe.

  67. 67
    monieluv says:

    oops. and I am 25, no kids, not married/never been married and Im graduating with my BSW in Dec. And I live in Fla.

  68. 68
    monieluv says:

    :newbie: and..lol.. I stan for no one.

  69. 69
    missy says:

    Oh yea I forgot to say :welcome: to the newbies (it’s to many new people coming at once I can’t keep up with the welcome)

  70. 70
    Daisy says:

    @Kwall oh yeah fay nam as well I know all about it lol

    @dor congrats on the wedding :cheer:

    To all the new ppl welcome to the jungle if yall been lurking then yall already know how we roll :hug:

  71. 71
    Daisy says:

    @dor what part of GA I am in the A!

  72. 72
    dorcely says:

    @ Daisy Thank You
    I live in Conley, GA for now, but I am trying to move.
    It’s so nice to be on Sandra Rose now. I have been lurking for 2 years. Hope I can stay :)

  73. 73
    Precious says:

    :newbie: HOW SAD!!!!

  74. 74
    sneakerk says:

    :newbie: That’s a beautiful little girl.

  75. 75
    GottaBigOne says:

    :newbie: Our New York family Heart goes out to the Little Girl and her family in North Carolina.
    (We have family down in the College Town of Chapel Hill, NC.)

  76. 76
    Nina says:

    This is my first time hearing this story and its so heartbreaking…a 5 year old molested like that?? I hope Shaniya is found safely and quickly.

    Welcome to the newbies ;)

  77. 77
    MzJuicy says:

    :newbie: ~newbie also~Howdy : )

    My heart goes out to this man & his family…I’m not sure what he was thinking allowing her to spend time with his “one night stand” if if she was the mother.

  78. 78
    SugarPieHoneybunn says:

    :newbie: Hey people!!! This woman needs Jesus!! How you gone sell off ur child to be raped and tortured for the rest of her life with terrible memories?? Hopefully they find this child alive so she can be returned to her Daddy. A month a Mommy’s house has tramatized the child for life. So why hasn’t the dude they have in custody told where she is at? Did he resale her??

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    KrayZKat says:

    :newbie: Thank you, Missy!

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    kenyab says:

    :newbie: This is very sad!

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    VIBABY says:

    :newbie: Just had to test out my newbie status. My first post has been awaiting moderation for hours, so here I go again…. testing 1…2….

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    kwall says:

    yes yall it has been said by the dad himself that the mom was a one night stand. sorry i thought sandra had said that and since i am here in nc, i am already familiar with this tragic case. it is so so SAD. as RahrahRiah said…the entire state is on EDGE. and now parts of the nation since yes nancy grace profiled this.

    please keep this baby in your prayers.

    welcome to the newbies.

    um daisy you know me as do all the old time srose fam do too…but here goes… i stan for nobody but my ownself, from the n-c, been a srose poster from waaaay back (almost 3 years? i lost track) i currently hold the record for the most bannings (lost track of that too…5?) since me and sandra sometimes do not see eye to eye…and i am married with two girls. oh and i am 32 going on 30 for the 3rd time…lol.

  83. 83
    Silhouette says:

    :mad: See ish like this make me wish that it was mandatory for addicts to be sterilize. I pray that this little girl is found safe and unharmed. Why didn’t she sell herself, sorry good for nothing… I can’t you guys this is too much.

  84. 84
    bballmom says:

    :newbie: I live in North Carolina and have been following this story also. I feel so bad for the children in the world today whose parents are so trifling.

    I am a newbie also! Can someone tell me how to add the avatar please?

  85. 85
    KiKiWest says:

    :newbie: Hello everyone, I’m a newbie as well… This situation is terrible. I can’t understand it AT ALL. I want to literally beat her behind into the ground for doing this to a child. I don’t think it is the father’s fault though, he was trying to give her mother another chance. So sad…

  86. 86

    I’ve lurked for years every day at work… Back when SR was mostly photos and a blog spot. I live in Atlanta, no kids, in a relationship, I stans for no celebs. (It’s their own fault. They’re so overexposed these days.) Well maybe, Idris Elba. ;->

    Is anyone else watching Klymaxx’s Unsung?

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    Daisy says:

    @Kwall that was for the new ppl stop playing :lol:

    I cant stand nancy grace :coffee:

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    Angel says:

    This story is absolutely devastating. That mother (and I use that term loosely) should be thrown under the jail.

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    bigtyme says:

    :newbie: I am asking myself the same questions as #7. This just does not add up! Forget being nice. This lady showed no effort to be a mother. Oh yeah…I’m new to the comments. Been a Sandra Rose lurker for years :)

  90. 90
    KrayZKat says:

    My heart is so heavy for this baby. You wonder why some people are allowed to have children and then mistreat them, and others can’t for the life of them get pregnant. Life just isn’t fair sometimes. I pray for this baby’s safe return.

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    starr says:

    whats the main newspaper paper in nc…so i keep up with this story

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    missy says:

    Now that I sit back here and realize that she was a one night stand I have way more questions than answers because I thought they were in a relationship…. Something in the milk ain’t clean…. because who would give their child to a one night stand?…..was this even his child?……did she have a secret on him that he had to give the child up or she would expose him?…… why would someone give their child to a person they barely know?…Unless she wasn’t a one night stand and he is lying about it because he is ashamed to have ever had a relationship with someone like her…….either way this situation makes me mad. >:(

    I hope he is telling the truth because there are many cases where the parents were crying on TV and they knew what happened to their kid….

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    texarican mamacita says:

    :newbie: Hi everyone, I’ve been reading for over a year now and love the convos that take place in here. You all have been like friends in my head (shout out to Wendy! :lol: )Thank you Sandra for opening registration.

    This story is the reason why I dread the day that my daughter starts attending school when she gets older and why I am such a mama bear with my son. I would definitely be on the other side of the bars for a change if my kids were ever to be harmed by some sicko, much less by someone who is around our family (which isn’t much of anyone these days).

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    beenaroundtheworld says:

    :newbie: I live right here in Fayetteville and it’s hard to imagine something like this happening in your community until it actually happens. My heart and prayers are with the father and his family and I really hope and pray they find this girl safe and unharmed. I really have to commend the dad for stepping up to raise his daughter despite how she was conceived.

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    beenaroundtheworld says:

    @starr…The Fayetteville Observer and here’s the link: http://www.fayobserver.com

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    onlinefan says:

    :newbie: i am in NC and have followed this story since the amber alert early the other morning. once they said on WRAL news that the mother was changing her story that sent a flag up to me. they said they weren’t going to let the family go back in the house because there was sewage everywhere in the trailer. they found a feces covered blanket in the neighbors trash after having seen feces all over the little girls porch!

    they arrested one dude the other day and all he said in court was he was innocent. another neighbor said they felt shocked that it could have been that guy because he was walking around distraught when she first went missing.

    finally they catch someone on camera with the little girl and let the first guy go. once they catch up with the second dude (mr smiley above) he confesses that it was him with her on camera, but won’t say anything else. i think he had to have either passed her off to someone at the hotel or – god forbid – hurt her and hid her somewhere in or around the hotel because they said he wasn’t there long and was gone before the police could get there. there was a search for her today but nothing found so they will go again Monday.

    i know i’m new here and i don’t mean to sound evil…but what they ought to do with these two dread heads is torture his grinning self until they tell where this little girl is. test out a new batch of tasers on him or maybe see if waterboarding is effective. i can’t tolerate people who hurt kids.

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    texarican mamacita says:

    Oh, where are my manners, ya’ll? I am an adopted Texan by way of the army, from Puerto Rico but born in New Jersey…..basically I’m a mutt that was adopted by a Southern Gentleman/Country boy from TX. I have a boy (10) and a diva (3), I am a student (GO PIONNEERS!) and I stan for my papi chulo (my hubby).

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    Anna says:

    missy Says:

    Now that I sit back here and realize that she was a one night stand I have way more questions than answers because I thought they were in a relationship…. Something in the milk ain’t clean…. because who would give their child to a one night stand?…..was this even his child?……did she have a secret on him that he had to give the child up or she would expose him?…… why would someone give their child to a person they barely know?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    There are men who have one night stands and get legal righs to the child. I know a few who have just that. Taking care of their own kids because the mom is a crack head. I said it before and I will say it again. We do really have to be selective of who we have sex with.
    Welcome to all the new ppl of the Sandrarose family.

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    florida_girl says:

    Hi, I’m a newbie….but this chick should never see the light of day…sad story I will be praying for the family and the safe return of God’s little angel….

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    texarican mamacita says:

    Thank you Anna!

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    KayCeiSoul says:

    :welcome:

    To all the newbies – this makes me smile. I don’t feel so “new” anymore. One things for sure…you all came through like a breeze and I look forward to reading your posts. No more lurking – that’s what’s up!

    One more time…

    :welcome:

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    KrayZKat says:

    Thank you for the welcome, Anna :-)

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    mzloud says:

    Can someone help me with the Smilies?? Im a newbie here…!!! Thanks!!!!

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    KrayZKat says:

    KayCeiSoul Says:

    To all the newbies – this makes me smile. I don’t feel so “new” anymore. One things for sure…you all came through like a breeze and I look forward to reading your posts. No more lurking – that’s what’s up!

    One more time…
    ************************************
    Thank you, KayCeiSoul!

    FINALLY!!! I really didn’t think Sandra was going to open registration for a long time, so much to my utter shock, I saw it. I blinked a few times, and then, BAM! I registered with the quickness. Yay!

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    Hey KayCe! Thanks for the welcome! I feel like I know all of y’all (Anna, Divine, Krysi, Bird, Starr, Kara, Kwall, East-who’s probably hanging out with Jay -aka Illuminati, etc…) I even miss Charles too. ;-) I’m 33yo btw. Ok, goodnight. Watching Snapped then turning in…

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    missy says:

    @Anna

    I know there are men who get full custody of kids from one night stands….and my questions were more or so directed at how this man could be reasoning and mainly towards him (questions I would like him to answer)…….I think that there is way more to this story and I hope we find out……..and I hope the little girl is found safe….

    but I am still :mad:

    And again Hola new newbies :welcome: (for the ones that are just arriving)

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    Anna says:

    KrayZKat Says:

    KayCeiSoul Says:

    To all the newbies – this makes me smile. I don’t feel so “new” anymore. One things for sure…you all came through like a breeze and I look forward to reading your posts. No more lurking – that’s what’s up!

    One more time…

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Once again welcome to the neighorhood. I was at the right place at the right time. I did not know that you had to be a accepeted member to join. I logged on one day and registered and did not know I was going to be a family member. I found this site one day and put my name and email address in and I have been commenting since. I did not know that it was a privey site/secluded site at the time. I love me some Sandra Rose and I hate going to other sites that have 500 comments. We here are a family, and many here because of this site are friends and have met in person.

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    Silhouette says:

    :welcome: I am still kinda new but I been reading SR for years as well I have always wonder people sound anything like the voices that I have for them in my head. (hope that makes sense)
    On topic:
    @Missy and Anna
    You always hear about people having one night stands and getting preggers, I would wonder wheredeydodat? I am with you b/c who has sex with a crackhead, I’ll tell you who other crackheads maybe he’s cleaned up his life now and want to distance himself from the egg donor. :shrugs:
    People playing with their life like it a game.

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    missy says:

    @Silhouette Says:I have always wonder people sound anything like the voices that I have for them in my head. (hope that makes sense)….I am with you b/c who has sex with a crackhead, I’ll tell you who other crackheads maybe he’s cleaned up his life now and want to distance himself from the egg donor.
    ————

    That makes sense to me….I put a voice to people’s name even if there gravatar has a pic of them or not…..

    And maybe he was a “crackhead” and cleaned himself up….good point.. *ponders*

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    talldrink says:

    Thanks for the welcomes. I live in L.A., self employed. Have been reading the site for awhile. I would be so frustrated when I couldn’t post. Now I can. Yippee.

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    Daisy says:

    @Tex I have a cousin who is OBSESSED with betty boop even has a tat and everything lol

    @talldrink :welcome:

    Dang the comments in each post are going to be so much longer now with all these new folks its about to be off the chain up in here 2morrow and the rest of the week. I cant wait to see who clashes with who cause if yall been lurking then I know some folks (could be me) get on yall last nerve already :lol:

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    caribbeangator says:

    :newbie: Hi all I am a newbie as well…been lurking for a while….finally got to register…this story is so sad, whatever the circumstances I hope this little girl is returned safely…

    ..originally from the Caribbean, resides in FL now..going to grad. school….24 years young…no kids….stan a little for Percy Harvin (GO GATORS)…don’t really stan for anyone else..but liking Melanie Fiona right now and has a soft spot for Rihanna and other caribbean artists

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    Daisy says:

    @Mz loud sandra gave a link with the smileys I dont have it anymore though or you can put your cursor over the icon and it will show you the code or it should!

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    Dang…. I missed shouting out to Daisy. And I can think of LadyJustice, right now…… Anyone else I’m missing…. it’s not on purpose :-)

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    SugarPieHoneybunn says:

    Hi Miss Sandra Rose!!!!
    Can someone tell me how to do the smiley faces? I’m new!!! Off topic… Did Attorneymom get banned?? I saw her on another blog going at it with sum chick but I haven’t seen her on here lately.

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    talldrink says:

    @Daisy, I LOVE a good debate. lol

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    SugarPieHoneybunn says:

    Daisy Says:
    I cant wait to see who clashes with who cause if yall been lurking then I know some folks (could be me) get on yall last nerve already

    LOL!! Yes Ma’am!! Some of these folks do work my nerves although they are very comical!! You seem pretty cool though.

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    mekaj says:

    :newbie: wow this is a truly sad story and i pray the little girl is found soon

    ps im a long time lurker and decided to come on in when i saw registration open…32 yo mom of three from texas

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    mswarrior says:

    & Thanks to all the SR family giving such a warm welcome to all of us newbies. LOL. I feel like I’m already a part of it since I’ve been lurking for so long. Y’all always have some good conversations. *hopes not to sound like a creeper.* :)

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    RINOLA says:

    :newbie: My continued prayers go out to Shaniya. What a horrible life that precious child is living at the hands of the animal “mother” who gave birth to her. BTW, :newbie:

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    SootheSayer says:

    :newbie: Wow. I was simply amazed that registration was open, lol. Hi everyone!

    But like the rest of the comments, I sincerely hope and pray that this child is found safe. The father is surely torn to pieces right now and I hope he just has the right people around him. I did initially think, “why let her go to the mom?”, but I gotta put that to the side and give my energy to optimism for Shaniya coming home.

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    Daisy says:

    @Karmel I am n the A as well! Yes you left me and LJ and a few others off but its all good n the hood

    Attymom did not get banned she left on her own.

    I did watch Klymaxx unsung. I need to catch Tina Maries I missed hers.

    Nite all

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    caribbeangator says:

    …cute pic @mswarrior

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    GottaBigOne says:

    Yes. I am also a Newbie (like mswarrior) who looks SO Classy!

    Y’all Don’t know how Thankful I am to be here!

    Ms. Rose You are an inspiration for others and me to set up our own little place in Cyber-Space.

    I thought you were a Professional Photographer when I first saw your site some years ago as you had all of these large rich-looking pictures posted.

    Anyway, I am glad to be a part of “The Family” to give an intelligent view of things with a unique Brooklyn, New York USA perspective!

    Question: How does one put up an avatar on here?

    Thanks For Your Help.

    GBO

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    caribbeangator says:

    …see below for avatar help (from an old posting):

    INSTRUCTIONS:
    Registered members, please click here to sign up with the Gravatar.com service. You will be asked to provide an email. That email should be the same one you used when you registered with Sandrarose.com.

    Next, upload a pic by clicking on the Add a new image button and choosing either a photo on the Internet or a photo from your computer. Then click NEXT.

    You can crop the photo by clicking and dragging the tiny squares over your pic. Click Crop and Finish when you are done cropping the pic.

    Choose a rating for your Gravatar pic (most people choose G)

    This next part is important: you will be prompted to choose an email addy for the pic. You must choose the addy that corresponds with the one you used to register on Sandrarose.com.

    Click Use For Selected Address, and you’re done! It may take anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour or more before you see your pic show up on Sandrarose.com.

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    caribbeangator says:

    oops…the link is not there….see below for the link:

    http://en.gravatar.com/site/login

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    SootheSayer says:

    Oh–

    and I am 22, female, live in GA but not from here, no kids, in a relationship, and have been lurking for about, eh, 2 years. and no, I am not wearing She by Sheree. lol

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    MrzzSmitty says:

    Thanks for the warm welcomes everyone! I’m so happy to finally be able to post my thoughts and opinions. I’ve been lurking for 2 years now. I love this site!!

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    onlinefan says:

    the Smiley’s info is here along with rules for posting them

    :rules: http://sandrarose.com/sr-smileys/

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    mzau2u says:

    :newbie: This is sad. I hope they find her alive and well.

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    anika242000 says:

    :newbie: I am new here….live in the Atl,32 recently divorced with 2 kids, from the Caribbean, Trinidad and Tobago….

    I am so disgusted with this story…that smiling fool needs to be tortured and closure is needed, either one the mother or the dude knows where that little girl is….I wish they would say…Damn the mom is so desperate she sold her child??? She needs to sell herself to feed her habit…SO DAMN SAD…

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    mswarrior1 says:

    *sigh. So I think because I jumped inside the gate so quickly and jumped to register before Sandra made the no free e-mail rule, my original account was disabled. But that’s alright. Still happy to be here nonetheless.

    @caribbeangator & @GottaBigOne Thanks so much! :)

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    pyt305 says:

    <>

    Everyone is joining today lol well like most of the new ppl I have been lurking for almost a year now and I can honestly say I love this site!!

    Im 22,a capricorn and currently a senior a college :) I have no kids and just got out of a relationship…and of course Im from MIAMI!!!

    I stan for MONICA!!!I love me some Keyshia Cole, Tamia and alot of 80s and 90s music.

    Thanks for the welcomes and THANK YOU Sandra for opening up registration!!!!

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    wrightsag says:

    Hello SR Fam. Ive been lurkin for over a year, feel like I know you guys since I read most of the comments. Thanks for lettin me in Sandra!!!

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    MzSharon says:

    :newbie: “I am new here”! I am praying for the safe return of this little girl. May God be her shield where ever she may be!!

    And I am 30 yrs. old & live in Florida by way of Alabama (Roll Tide!!). I am engaged & have one daughter! My fave artists are (this is a hard one-don’t stan for anyone)..any old R&B artist I guess, LOL!!

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    wrightsag says:

    :newbie: @Daisy,Kwall,Missy,Anna and Starr
    Hiiiii, thank’s for the :welcome:

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    Inmyopinion says:

    Have there been any information on the guy that was arrested?
    Do he have any previous convictions?

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    pointhimout says:

    Lord have mercy. 29 years old and got a kid for sexual favors? are you kidding me dude? I can’t even point fingers cuz what’s done is done. mom should go down, as should the idiot dude with dreds. wtf is the world coming to?

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    Bird says:

    Believe it or not I actually have a friend who was acquired by her adoptive parents by mysterious means. The adoptive father would take her with him at a ridiculously young age to see his side dishes and have her waiting in the living room while he smashed. He died when she was 6 and within 2 years the mother was sending her off with men who had sex with her. For some reason she never put 2 and 2 together, but me and another friend finally confessed to her that we were both pretty certain her “mother” was prosituting her from age 8. It’s really sad. She has serious emotional issues today as you can imagine.

    I hope this mother does life in prison and get stabbed in the vajayjay with a broom stick every single day for the rest of her life. And sodomized too. There is something funny about the father as well. He’s talking about the mom was stable when she wasn’t. She was living with someone else. He’s no angel. By his own admission he had an unprotected one night stand with a dope fiend. I guess he was a john his damn self.

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    aniyvwiya says:

    :newbie: Hi all…I’m a long time lurker, first time commenter :)

    I think I finally worked out all the kinks with my profile/registration [read: I'm an idiot and tried registering with yahoo]

    Anyways…I hate to say it but his disposal of her blanket just does not bode well.

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    hey new people :hug:

    my heart hurts for this little girl. what kind of mother gives her child to a man in exchange for drugs/cash?
    she never really loved this child, if she did she wouldnt have done that. I pray that this child is returned safely to her father. i will hug my kids a litte tighter when i pick them up from daycare :(

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    Daisy says:

    Anika I am 33 n the A we need to hang out lol my gfriends from MD are from Trini their parents anyway :lol:

    Hey Bird I heard they showed Rae Carruth on the news last nite n Charlotte.

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    Bella says:

    This is really sad. Will keep her in my prayers.

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    SoBlessed says:

    :newbie: Hello all I am new here been lurking for years. Very sad story hope the little girl is ok.

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    SugarPieHoneybunn Says:

    Hi Miss Sandra Rose!!!!
    Can someone tell me how to do the smiley faces? I’m new!!! Off topic… Did Attorneymom get banned?? I saw her on another blog going at it with sum chick but I haven’t seen her on here lately.

    ———————————————————

    No, she bowed out of commenting gracefully. Welcome!

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    missy says:

    Bird Says:I hope this mother does life in prison and get stabbed in the vajayjay with a broom stick every single day for the rest of her life. And sodomized too. There is something funny about the father as well. He’s talking about the mom was stable when she wasn’t. She was living with someone else. He’s no angel. By his own admission he had an unprotected one night stand with a dope fiend. I guess he was a john his damn self.
    ———————-

    I agree with what you said but it was a little graphic :eek:

    And I hope your friend gets the strength to overcome what happened to her.

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    beenaroundtheworld says:

    Thanks to all that has welcomed us newbies!

    I was thinking this morning that the dad said this was a one night stand…the “mom” is a prostitute so maybe that was how he got with her. I am going to continue to pray they find this girl safe and sound. I wish the guy will just talk…his azz is up sh!t creek anyway.

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    renegadesince1985 says:

    :newbie: Hi all! Thanks to everyone for welcoming the new guys!

    This is so sad. What a beautiful little girl. I pray they find her safe and unharmed. People are just crazy!

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    Bird says:

    Daisy Says:

    Hey Bird I heard they showed Rae Carruth on the news last nite n Charlotte.
    *********************

    I didn’t see it, but I did read a couple of articles on him and his son in the newspaper.

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    Bird says:

    missy Says:

    Bird

    I agree with what you said but it was a little graphic
    *****************************

    Chile I wasn’t graphic enough. I forgot to mention that I want the broom stick to be splintered up so that it can rip her apart. Every time I think about what happened to that child before whatever else happened to make her disappear I want to scream. 5 years old. Yeah I could get way more graphic with that one.

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    missy says:

    @Bird i know you can be alot more graphic but when i read what you said about the broomstick I remembered a movie based on a true story where these boys raped this mentally challenged girl with a broom stick and she kept saying they’re my friends…… but what ever happens to her in prison is well deserved.

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    Shauny says:

    DAYUM!!!!! :welcome: all the newbies!!!

    This was a Sunday post with over 100 comments…alrighty then.

    This story just hurts my heart. I pray this girl is found alive and well. I don’t fault the father at all. I honestly think he was trying to do the right thing and let her mom in her life and he’ll probably regret that now. I don’t think it has anything to do with her being biracial but him wanting to do the right thing. Poor baby.

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    mekaj says:

    thanks for all the welcomes for us newbies!

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    mekaj says:

    :newbie: how many posts do you have to post or do they all go in moderation for a while?

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    omina-homina says:

    Anna Says:

    Your comment gave me a chill. Did the dad really give the baby to a woman that is only the birth mother? Did he just want a break, did his “white” family not accept the baby? I have too many questions.

    ~~~~~~~~~

    I honestly think this ‘white’ family accepted the child and the father only wanted his daughter to know her mother, and he had faith in the woman. Also, even though they look white, the last name Lockhart in Fayetteville, Lumberton County indicates some connection with the Lumbee people who are tri-racial and looke white, black and native american… I’m sure the ‘white’ family has relatives who like like both the missing child and the birth mother.

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    shawnette00 says:

    Oh Bird I forgot to give you a shout out in my greeting! Didnt know attnymom left???? dayumm who else?

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    ANK says:

    I agree with Omina! He was trying to do the right thing. The same way it’s hard for a woman to raise a man, it’s hard for a man to raise a woman. Yes he has family there from the pictures, but IN MOST CASES can’t no one love their child like they do. Maybe it’s just me, but no woman, not even my mother, will love my daughter like I do. Nobody, I shut it down on the love that I give her so she’ll know when she grows up to not accept nothing less.

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    aniyvwiya says:

    Hmm…I made my gravatar hours ago and I wonder when it will be up and running, or if I did something wrong.
    I’d just like to say hi again to everyone and give a little intro…my name is Angel, been reading this site for a while now and the comments section is my favorite part because a lot of the time real interesting debates arise and due to Sandra’s strict registration policies it’s not a bunch of pointless trolling and anonymous ALL CAPS profanity. I am a forensic psychology major, born and raised in Key West FL but now in the Orlando area. I’d say when it comes to those people discussed on this site I stan for Rihanna but not too ferociously. If anything I stan for common sense and fairness :) I am Anglo/Scandinavian/Native American [Cherokee and Choctaw]. Anyone else here with Native heritage?

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    aniyvwiya says:

    I cleared my cache…that’s supposed to help right?

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    bballmom says:

    The news is reporting they found her. Pray for the children of the world people!

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    miss_meka says:

    this story broke my heart when i first read it how can a mother do something like that to her own child. i’m at work and there is breaking news on foxnews that the child’s body has been found. i feel so bad for the father

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    aniyvwiya says:

    :newbie: I hate to say it but the minute I heard he disposed of her blanket I knew there was little chance this pretty little girl would be found alive.
    Cases like these are the reason I chose to go into my field of study. I can’t stand seeing innocent kids reduced to corpses in shallow graves as if they are just disposable toys made to satisfy some creep’s unnatural urges. And the mother…don’t even get me started on her. Her drug problem was the least of her faults. Clearly she has antisocial personality disorder. I can’t wait to see the psych eval for her.
    RIP little one. Forget this twisted world. You deserved better.

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    Musiqal1 says:

    I don’t even know what to say about this. The father should have followed his instincts and kept his daughter instead of letting her live with the mother. This is just sick.

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    ANK says:

    The News reported this morning that this trifling mother is being segregated from the other prisoners not because they know she is going to catch a heck of a beatdown but she’s pregnant again. WTF!! Snatch this woman’s ovaries out of her when she gives birth without anesthetics!

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