Black Women Looking To Gay & Bi Men for Love?
A recent study shows that black women are increasingly looking to gay and bisexual men for love.
This would explain the recent resurgence in the careers of men that were written off as gay in the past. Men such as struggling R&B singer Trey Song seen here in behind the scenes photos of his “One Love” video.
One industry chick told me that times are so desperate now for women who must compete with the booming gay population sector in Atlanta for their men. She says her friends have begun openly dating gay men for companionship.
“Often times these [gay] men know how to treat a woman because they see our hardships with straight men from a woman’s perspective,” said the record executive.
Some down low men aren’t even trying to hide their sexual preferences anymore. And it has become chic and a fad for teenage boys to wear tight jeans, high heel pumps and carry purses.
Recent marketing campaigns by Metrosexual singers like Chris Brown and Trey Song don’t help to draw the distinction between gay and heterosexual men for young, impressionable boys who may be confused about their sexuality.
The obvious bisexual undertones of Trey Song’s marketing campaign can not be denied — although his reps strongly deny it anyway. “You’re either gay, straight or lying,” as some gay men have put it. [link]
Photos courtesy of www.Treysongz.com
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OOOH Clawd…dat boy is fine
THANK YA!
Why he gotta be gay Sandra lol leave trey alone…o lord that boy CAN GET THE BUSINESS ANYDAY
Trey Songz is sexy. I refuse to believe he is gay!!
00711 is NOT
and neither is my boo Chris Breezy! thats atl gay capital of the world but that doesnt mean everybody is gay you just want them to be gay!
@missy
what do chris brown say…?
trey why do u have on tuxedo pants with the line down the side? looking like jackie wilson 1964 in pic 2? your pants and that girl church purse came from the same era huh bro?
point about to come up in here it let it be known us “fishes” cant handle! lol!
I likes my men with a thicker build. He’s too skinny for me but hey whatever floats your boat. I gotta get his cd though because I like the music he has released thusfar
Isn’t this slander Sandra?
I do not know “Trey Songz” personally BUT I do know people who are from Petersburg, VA (his hometown) and they DO know him personally. They say that he’s NOT GAY but is an undeniable lame. They say Trey is as wack and as fake as they come and when they showed him NO LOVE at a VSU homecoming concert (cuz so many people there knew the REAL “Trey Songz”) that he vowed never to perform there again…
And I agree with missmiami…he DOES remind me of Terence J (another lame azz dude).
I like trey swag I like his tuxedo pants he looks nice like he should dress very casual but very classy
Wow!!! Women just want gay men, so they can be in control and they see them as ” one of the girls”.. They fear a strong black man.. Most i hear these days is black women trying to dominate the relationship and plays the man’s roll.. So now I can why these women would want a gay man for love.. whats the world coming to???
Sandra, I wonder how NB feel about you calling her undercover lover
?
One of my closest friends are gay, and would not touch a woman with your strap on. Like he said gay men like the stick, and if he is willing
to a chick then is not truly gay. He’s a flip-flop, pancake, or a tri-sexual as they (gays) call them, basically the horny bastards will try and 
anything with a hole.
A recent study shows that black women are increasingly looking to gay and bisexual men for love.
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I won’t judge because you never know what people do and how they do.. All I can say is keep your eyes open ladies and don’t be a fool!
And I agree with missmiami…he DOES remind me of Terence J (another lame azz dude).
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and i know folks who know him from where HE is from (rocky mount, nc) and when he went to NC A & T in greensboro that say almost the exact same things you said about trey. that is too ironic….
Sandra’s trying to pull ever black woman to her side! You can’t force somebody to be a lesbun just because a lot of men in ATL are gay! Move to a new city
SANDRA NICE MORNING WOOD
YYYYYYYYUUUUUUUUUUMMMMMMMMMMMMMYYYYYYYYY
mirsmommy Says:
A recent study shows that black women are increasingly looking to gay and bisexual men for love.
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Where in the gay and bisexual creation are you getting this mess from????? Who is doing this study, and who in the hell are they testing????? And please don’t say they are only testing the gay and bisexual folk in the ATL…
Who would actually research some dumb ish like this?
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Criticism like is why is why we have all of theses studio gangsters. I guess Sandra would like all black male entertainers to act like TI. That’s a great role model for these young impressionable teenage boys. I’m confused I don’t recall seeing Trey or Chris Brown walking around in pumps with a purse.
Trey looks nice, although I hate that chest tattoo. I hope he’s not a dookie digger
@ mirsmommy:
A recent study shows that black women are increasingly looking to gay and bisexual men for love.
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Where in the gay and bisexual creation are you getting this mess from????? Who is doing this study, and who in the hell are they testing????? And please don’t say they are only testing the gay and bisexual folk in the ATL…
hilarious
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See Sandra be sliding in stuff, cause this junk done flew right over me. WTF
Peachizz Says:
Isn’t this slander Sandra?
yea Sandra, isn’t it?
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He has a handsome smile on tha that 4th picture. I thought Trey Songs went Hard in the Paint – wasn’t he fighting at some concerts some time ago when he was wearing braids?
*grabbing da mic*
“I try HAAAAaaaarrRRd to fight IIT
no waaAAy can I dENY iIIIIEEEET
ya loves so SWEEEeeeeett
knocks me off my FEEEet
I
GEEEEeeet
SO-oh
Weak in the knees
I can hardly speak
I lose all control
and something takes OO-vEr me
in a daze
and its SO aH-mazing
its not a phase
I want you to STAAAaay
with me
by my side
I swallow my pride (never that)
your love is so sweet
it knocks me RIGHT off of MY FEEEEEeeeeeeeeeet
OOOooooooOOOOOoooooOOOOOOoooo I!
Can’t explain
why ya LUUUUUuuuuuV
it makes me weak….
I
GET
SO-OH
WEAK….
Blood starts RACIN…thru my VEEeeeeeIINs
I
GET
SO
WEAK….”
*passes the mic….*
I swallow my pride (never that)…..DEAD @ krysi j
I guess some of you missed the question mark at the end of the post title?
OH MY LORD…the gay atlanta thing is so tired and over rated. Fish knows what she wants out of a man, the minute she lays eyes on him. Whether its money or sex. If she can get it she’s gonna go for it. Women have preached for decades to obtain women’s rights to work and do what it is that men do. Now they are tired of it and want straight men to step up. Problem is they can’t stop popping off at the gums, which we all know that the average straight man is not going for that these days. So they turn to option number two: Gay men. They can basically get what they want from gay men, i.e (money, a lil sex if need be and all the beauty tips they can handle.) Its a win win situation especially if your on the DL. Do your girl right in the public eye and your boy right behind closed doors. Just my opinion. Response not required nor needed…
THANK YOU SANDRA for the pics of my baby Trey
I think both Trey and Terrance are cute but only Terrance comes off as corny to me.
I love me a thin and cut man yes sirrr
dont let him be bow legged as well good LAWD *fans self*
Those pictures look sweeter then sweet potato pie on Thanksgiving.
I’m just saying……..
bow legs = rickets = so not sexy…
A recent study shows that black women are increasingly looking to gay and bisexual men for love.
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Where in the gay and bisexual creation are you getting this mess from????? Who is doing this study, and who in the hell are they testing????? And please don’t say they are only testing the gay and bisexual folk in the ATL…
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@RTB I love me a sexy bow legged man yes I do so you can send them all my way
Whew chile that 00711 is something special
@ Sandra Rose Says:
I guess some of you missed the question mark at the end of the post title?
talk about cya! your attorney keeps you on point
So ? are they really screwing????????????????????????????
Sandra, did you do something to that 2nd pic? It’s looks so strange
I graduated from VSU and lived in Petersburg quite some time……when did they not show him love again?
Damn everybody is gay, DL, bisexual or something. Why do you like that’s black? not from ATL? and is a celebrity?
sandra you are so wrong for that second picture.
*****back to lurking*****
I Love me some TREY SONGZ!! HE can get it anytime!!
ATL_Reese Says:
Wow!!! Women just want gay men, so they can be in control and they see them as ” one of the girls”.. They fear a strong black man.. Most i hear these days is black women trying to dominate the relationship and plays the man’s roll.. So now I can why these women would want a gay man for love.. whats the world coming to???
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LOL WHAT???? Gay men can’t be strong black men?
Sandra you got major issues lol girl how you gone sit up here and call this boy gay. Aint an ounce of gayness in this man. (Fine as hell might I add) Clearly…and I mean CLEARLY!!!!! Nokio ass is seeping out the pours ooober gayness…from head to toe. That right there is obvious. Leave this man alone….lol still don’t know why you don’t like him…But girl I luv you like a play cousin but you gone have to miss me wit diss right hurr post….sometimes I be wondering about them screws being loose in your little head.
He looks good in these pics in a sweet kind of way.
But still he looks good. 
There is nothing wrong with that second picture, he is simple pulling out his best temptation moves.
I just can’t see no woman fightin her “man” over shoes, clothes, panties, and men.
@mirs
or fighting over lip gloss. the thought is very disturbing.
@Vneezy
I see you on that other site as well 
thaspinaltruth Says:
@mirs
or fighting over lip gloss. the thought is very disturbing.
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And don’t foget the eyelashes….
Very disturbing.
Woman to man, “Baby, don’t you think this shirt will look good on me?”
Man to woman, “Ex-squeeze me? No honey, it looks better on me.”
(Yes, I did borrow another SR member’s dialogue set-up, but it was cathcy,
)
*catchy*
mirsmommy Says
And don’t foget the eyelashes…
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Girl you need to quit. I am to through.
As much as can’t stand that R.Kelly Clone….sandra PLEASE STOP promoting hate and bias, where is the proof that this boy is gay…and if he was….so what? really what are your issues with gay men
Tooo thin for my taste but he’s a cute boy. I will break this boy in half
and I’m only 5’3 135lbs….I need a little more muscle, someone who can pick me up and walk me across the room… 
I am sorry but I love me some Trey, he could get it for sure if I was not married!
He’s a cutie and until I actually see proof of him in a sexual position with a man, he is straight. Everyone in ATL is not gay. SMDH!
@Daisy
Hi! I think I see u at the other site as well but I could b wrong. I like to think SR opened up just for me Friday, lol. I said I’m going to stop posting on these blogs but on slow days at work like this it keeps me woke and in my seat at the same time.
Sandra are you suggesting the women in ATL are openly dating gay men? GIRL I tell you what you just made me thankful for the man I have and I can be bitchy at time-GOD is GOOD I will go home tonight and act like he is my KING-cuz I be damn if I will eva date a gay man or woman!
@dcwife1622
Trey (and Chris Brown) are both too little for me. I truly don’t understand all the hoopla, Chris does have a cute face but the beating and that attitude has been a turn off. These guys are more like ‘lil boys’ to me and I’m not even 30 yet, lol.
and i know folks who know him from where HE is from (rocky mount, nc) and when he went to NC A & T in greensboro that say almost the exact same things you said about trey. that is too ironic….
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I, too, have people in the Rocky Mount area and that went to A&T…and yes they do say those saaamme things about Terence J
LORD help us!!!!
You’d be surprised what some women put up with. I know one who has a gay boyfriend. He claims he wants to marry her but she won’t marry him because she knows the deal. She has caught him in the bed on the phone whispering to guys, hacked his email accounts and saw him stating what he would do or have done to him by another guy, he fought her sister like a straight chick and etc. She kicks him out each time she comes across some gay stuff but lets him come right back. They even have a daughter now (feel sorry for her), but thank goodness they didn’t have a boy or else he would be confused and this guy has clearly been sweet since he was a kid. She had another guy that really liked her during one of their “breakups” and she was even pregnant then, but she went back to her bf anyway.
Never knew the Terrence J guy was from North Carolina.
Wasn’t 106 & Park on the chopping block at one point?
He has a big foot **daydreaming**
I have read groupie tales about Trey. Mmmmmm!!!
I just don’t know what man has pissed Sandra off to the poing that every man becomes gay in her alternate universe. I’m sorry that IT happened (whatever it was/is). I just don’t think that calling all these men gay is the answer. I suggesst for New Years you seek some counseling and get out all the issues.
*suggest*
I don’t know Trey. Don’t follow his music. Can’t comment on any of that. What I do know is that anyone can be gay. Anyone can be bisexual. Anyone can be DL. ATL has a large population of gay black men. It means nothing. A good majority of them are not even originally from ATL. To the naive black women on this board I’m going to do you a favor and tell you to open your mind. Let go of stereotypes. That way when you find out your big strong masculine boyfriend is smashing another dude you won’t be so shocked
Unless you have pics of celebs getting down w/ the same sex, it’s pointless to speculate about their sexuality. I’ve met Trey before and I didn’t get gay vibes. And as an Atlanta resident, I can say there are gay dudes down here. But there are straight men as well. I’ve traveled to other cities and the ATL isn’t more gay than other places.
Sandra thinks that any man that doesn’t fit her criteria of what a “real man” is, is gay. All of these accusations thrown at Trey Songz and Chris Brown I just ignore… Thanks for the pictures though, Auntie! I usually don’t do red boys, or dudes from Virginia (ALL DUDES FROM VA ARE LAME!) but he’s very good looking…
Aww…. Trey Songz is so handsome though!!
trey songz, trey songz, trey songz. God I have to ask you the age old question, yet again.
My dearest Trey,
Why do you insist on wasting all that sexiness on FISH? I’ve accepted we will never be, but hook me up with the brother, cousin, uncle, step brother, 3rd cousin remove who looks just like you, head to toe.
Regards,
PHO.
oh
Sandra, THANK YOU for posting those pics of Trey! That man know he is sexy…
I guess I’ll go wipe the drool off while reading other posts
You are too funny Sandra. Thanks, for letting us finally register!
pointhimout Says:
trey songz, trey songz, trey songz. God I have to ask you the age old question, yet again.
My dearest Trey,
Why do you insist on wasting all that sexiness on FISH? I’ve accepted we will never be, but hook me up with the brother, cousin, uncle, step brother, 3rd cousin remove who looks just like you, head to toe.
Regards,
PHO.
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sandra rose is gay
VA has some cuties
@Vneezy I am over 30 n CBreezy has always been a cutie pie to me I will admit he is corny but I don’t see anything wrong w/his tude a person can only take so much he is human and has emotions like you n I.
Dang all the NC folks know or have folks n rocky mount
@point I knew it was coming
krbinc Says:
sandra rose is gay
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Did you figure that out all on your own? :rollseye:
sandra trey songz is not gay or down low. i understand you don’t like him but to make up terrible lies about him is not cool. you are the only person i’ve ever heard question his sexuality. with that being said, he sho is fine. sexy @ss self!
I’ve never really been to ATL, I drove through it once. It didn’t really look gay to me but who knows.
Anyway,if there are no straight men there why not just go somewhere else like VA? Plenty of men there, they got all types: thugs, college kids, middle class, upper class, blue collar, yellow collar, white collar, green collar you get my point.
@ Sandra Rose, I would like to share my diary entry today.
Dear Diary,
So, I’ve been visiting this blog. I really like it, the people are funny the topics are great, its a really cool place. After much time lurking I decided to register and place a comment. Much to my dismay registrations was closed, for weeks! After two weeks of annoying emails sent to the blogs owner registration was finally opened for 5 minutes. YEAH!!! Now here I am leaving my comments and the only issue I have now is the VERY WHITE, very crying baby posted up next to my name. I can’t stand that kid, he’s not cute and frankly he’s starting to stomp all over my last good nerve!
I’ve tried changing my gravatar at least 5 times and it never works. Oh well. 
Until next time diary.
I can’t speak on Trey because i don’t personally know his deal (he’s kinda cute, but his voice tends to sound toni braxtonish at times..lol) I just know for a fact that a lot of ATL men are on the gay, dl and bisexual tip. I think a few of my female friends that live there have gotten caught up. Its sad when there is a shortage of men already and they’re turning to other men. BTW this is my first post. Hey SR family and thanks Sandra for opening registration for a minute. Now somebody please school me on using Emoticons and uploading a gravatar. Thanks!!!
I agree with Cinderella @ 69. When I catch up with friends and tell them I live in Atlanta, I get tired of all the comments/commentws about the large gay/DL population. I have lived here 6 years and travel all the time. I have not been personally affected by the supposed gay male over abundance. I have, however, been affected by the lying, cheating, it doesn’t matter if I am married, population. Now that is what Atlanta’s black male population needs to be known for.
people say the men in atlanta are this/that, but what they forget is these bruthas come from every other state. so technically, you should be checking on ya own backyard in cali, fl, il, definitely NY (not enough time) and philly, pa and every other state.
i’m thinking 1/5 (and im being generous) are either gay, bi, and tranny approved. sorry, but it’s true. it probably should be 3/5, but it’s tuesday and i wanna play nice.
1/5=one out of five blk men, not 1/5th of the men. i dont know about the others since the dl phenom has to do with our race primarily.
No comment on this post.
But umph umph umph Trey is one sexy man.
So is Beyonce being a sweet dream or a beautiful nightmare in that tat on his back?