Music mogul Sean “Diddy” Combs was spotted leaving the Black Eyed Peas concert at the Paladium in LA last night. Puff was the fodder of many blog posts this week after his first baby mama, Misa Hylton, called him and his other baby mama Kim Porter out during a radio interview.

It’s interesting to note that Misa was aware of Sean’s other baby mama, Sarah Chapman, for almost 16 years. But the two women only recently became friends after Sarah’s adorable baby girl Chance was born. Before Chance was born, Sarah and Misa never once exchanged words or greetings. They weren’t friends at all. But now Sarah and Misa absolutely “adore” each other’s children, and they make their friendship work for the children.

That’s what mature, intelligent women do: they selflessly put their children first!

By the way, Misa is is putting out her own hair line, according to TaSh. The line is called Unconfined Coif, and uses only quality Yaki. Misa not only owns the line but she wears it too! Until now, it’s been difficult finding human hair weave that is manufactured and distributed by a sistah. Good for her!


Misa photo by: Derek Blanks/dblanks.com





  • Milan Millian

    I don’t know what it is but I can’t stand DumDiddy…..

  • gypsyeyes

    Diddy is his biggest cheerleader. I can’t say that he’s my favorite celeb but he knows how to keep his self relevant.

  • KaraZ

    What? no Biracial digs at Misa? Does she really manufacture the hair? Because several black women distribute hair and have their own lines via private/white labeling, but I’ve never heard of anyone but Asians actually manufacture weaves.

  • rjk8

    She has to do something those Diddy child support checks are going to stop in the next two years

  • Milan Millian

    Misa might have a straight connection with korea since she have asian….

  • missy

    Ummm… was she still sleeping with Shiddy knowing that he was messing with these other chicks….. Misa w/e

    Shiddy can’t commit because females sleep with him for free for years….. and making him his turkey sandwich when they finish……

    Kim is the worse though..she is is speed bump that he comes back to when he is lonely……poor girl…..

  • FloridaChick813

    But now Sarah and Misa absolutely “adore” each other’s children, and they make their friendship work for the children.

    That’s what mature, intelligent women do: they selflessly put their children first!
    ________________

    Thats very inspiring.. I know a few :chickenhead: round the way that needs to get a clue.. The children have nothing to do with it.. They’re just children.

  • Milan Millian

    half…damn thats bad spelling

  • ReadTheBlog

    She’s a stylist but she always looks a mess. She has a hairline but her head always looks uncombed. :shrug:

    As for the ladies never speaking, they didn’t have a reason to until there was another child born. They’re acting accordingly. I dont’ believe that ‘adore’ mess, they’re only tolerating one another.

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    Until now, it’s been difficult finding human hair weave that is manufactured and distributed by a sistah. Good for her!
    ____________________________
    :co-sign: with Sandra on this statement!
    TEAM MISA…(as I’ve said before) 🙂

  • mirsmommy

    :rolleyes: and :yawn: @ Diddy. I can’t stand his funny lookin a**. He’s such a man-whore.

    Anyway, good for Misa and Sarah for getting along.

  • Tasha

    That’s how my daughter and her sister mother is..no beef..we put all that to the side so our daughters can be raised together as true sisters..so nice!

  • Krysi J

    GET IT MISA!!!!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I guess Misa is the next blog stare. Do your thing, Girl!! I ain’t mad at you.

    zzzzzzzz @ Diddy. Take that. Take that.

  • LaTechGrad02

    Where can we find this hair? Hair City? The Korea Beauty Supply store next to the Outre and Milky Way?

  • OutsidetheBox

    But Misa’s weave is never fab…? :blink: *confused* I’m a weave connoisseur and uh, Misa’s going to need more people.

    But do your thang girl, and I do like the brand name!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    SSo, how much will this hair cost and where can we find it?

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I meant blog star.

  • missy

    I don’t understand the last pic. why does he have the brush in his hand like that…..is he going to brush her hair…his hair

    Or did she yank him whiles he was fixing someones hair and he is like “Hurry up and take my pic.”

  • gypsyeyes

    @AM-you say “stare” so much you automatically type it.
    and don’t be giving me no”blank stare” either. :rofl:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    :offtopic: Who has sex in front of their dogs and/cats? They were discussing this on The View.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @gypsy, :rofl:

  • MsG

    Great. More weave peddling…..

  • LaTechGrad02

    @Attorneymom, don’t tell PETA, they’ll say you’ve scarred the dog/cat for life.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Humm pulls out check list of relavency.

    Was Sarah married to Diddy. Yes Or No (no)
    Was Sarah engaged to Diddy. Yes Or No (No)
    Did Diddy claim her in the public eye. Yes or No (No)

    Why in the world should she have befriended one of his jumpoffs again? 😐

    So funny how you know so much about Misa now when a few weeks ago you had a post named who is she?

    Didn’t Pepa also start a hair line (she sure aint got one) that failed. :shrug:

  • mirsmommy

    attorneymom Says:

    Who has sex in front of their dogs and/cats? They were discussing this on The View.
    __________________________________________________

    What???? I have 3 dogs, but we never noticed if they watched. 😆 What was said about it? :rofl: Now I feel like a pet perv. 😆

  • onlinefan

    I agree with trying to get along for the children’s sake. It’s not the kids fault and they should be allowed to know and love their siblings.

    I didn’t know my half siblings growing up, but after meeting we all became very close. I hate I missed out on our childhood years as we are all “stair steps”. It would have been so much fun to be with them instead of an only child. But I understand why we didn’t and it’s all good now.

    Good for Misa and Sarah. That’s why I don’t clown lil Wayne and his blended family. I don’t know how they all do it, but good for them.

  • mirsmommy

    LaTechGrad02 Says:

    @Attorneymom, don’t tell PETA, they’ll say you’ve scarred the dog/cat for life.
    ____________________________________________

    😆

  • gypsyeyes

    @Iscream-you are on a rolllll today.

  • nevesnanna

    :sorry: but for the life of me I will never understand the fascination with WEAVE. My daughter, who has a great head of hair, lives and dies by WEAVE. I cut my hair off 17 years ago and never looked back. Never had to wear weave because I had my own long hair, but couldn’t STAND it because it was too fine to do anything too….the same texture that my daughter buys for $100 a PACK. That’s great that MISA is “putting out her own hairline” which equals “putting her name on hair that is shipped in from another country”, but what about a SISTA opening up a BEAUTY SUPPLY STORE so when those who choose to purchase the HAIR don’t have to try and figure out what the HELL the KOREAN owners are talking about? They don’t know SMACK about WEAVE, but will say “tis one tis nice.” All that stuff feels the same to me. :wft: I’m going to sit my daughter down so she can watch Chris Rock’s movie because for real, that hair is just NASTY anyway.

  • EricaDenese

    :yawn:

    :newpost:

  • MUNCHOSGIRL

    SANDRA THAT IS A BUNCH OF BULL! I AM A REAL WOMAN WITH REAL FEELINGS, I FIND OUT MY MAN HAS A CHILD BY ANOTHER WOMAN I AM NOT JUST GOING TO IMMEDIATELY ACCEPT IT. I BET MISA DIDN’T IMMEDIATELY ACCEPT CHRISTIAN EITHER. THAT’S ONE THING I NOTICED ABOUT YOU, WHEN YOU PUT YOUR SKIRT AND POM POMS IN ACTION YOU ARE A REAL CHEERLEADER. ISSUES LIKE THAT TAKES TIME, WHO ARE ANY OF US INCLUDING MISA TO TELL KIM HOW SHE SHOULD FEEL OR REACT. MAYBE JUST MAYBE DIDY HAD HER FEELING LIKE SHE WAS HIS ONLY ONE, HELL HOW MANY PHOTOS CAN YOU PULL OUT THE PAST OF DIDDY & MISA, DIDDY & SARAH, AND DIDDY & KIM? NOT THE LAST 2 YEARS EITHER, BEFORE THEN? NO WOMAN WITH INVESTED FEELING AND TIME IN ANY MAN JUST ACCEPTS AN OUTSIDE CHILD!

  • pinky2083

    I like Diddy 🙂

  • Milan Millian

    lol @ doing the do in front the pets!
    If you notice your dog is always humping your leg then yes you do it in front your puppies…
    (that snoop dog song…nuthing but the dog in me just popped into my head) :hump:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @LaTech, PETA members have sex with animals.

    @mirsmommy, you nasty. You know your pets be watching you. :lolol:

  • Krysi J

    And I agree…being cool with the rest of the victims is so much better, than giving them the satisfaction of thinking you’re bitter and upset with them for messing with the same niccah. When you really put some thought in it, you can trully be more comfortable with the other mother, than you are with the children’s father. I’m starting to feel that way, I feel like there should never be a reason for me and my son’s father to speak again…..unless GOD FORBID my son falls ill or something of that nature…its unecessary. As long as he see’s his son, despite his failure to take care of him…Im doing my part and getting along with the other mother is a bonus.

  • Quitta

    I’m all for someone getting their paper. Good for you Misa. I’m over the saga of Diddy and his jumps. NEXT!! :coffee: <<<< wishing it were white wine right about now. :ashamed:

  • missy

    I watched Chris Rock’s movie good hair…….and that ain’t stop me from wanting to weave my hair…..it did enlighten me about where the human hair comes from and how they rip the people off who help make the hair…….

  • LaTechGrad02

    @Attorneymom, say what….? On that note, I’m going to slide over to the Cafe’ for lunch.

  • Daisy

    @MUNCH Kim has had how many yrs to get over it and accept Chase? She is her twins sister regardless of how she feels about the situation.

    Team PUFFY :cheer:

  • pyt305

    ughh to Diddy…Misa looks nice

  • mirsmommy

    attorneymom Says:

    @LaTech, PETA members have sex with animals.

    @mirsmommy, you nasty. You know your pets be watching you.
    __________________________________________________________

    :rofl: That is so crazy. I never thought of it that way. I’ll have to try to pay attention next time. 😆

    Now I’m :ashamed:

  • missy

    @Quitta-Your a fellow white wine drinker YAAYY…… :koolaid:

  • gypsyeyes

    UH OH Sandy, you have stepped on some toes with this one.
    My children have other siblings and I could care less about the mothers but I respect them for being their mothers. I welcome my children growing up with their siblings. Whether any woman was dooped into thinking she was the only one or not, why should she take it out on the children?
    This pisses me off when the women take issue with the other woman and child. When does the man have to take blame for his infidelity? How come I have to get the phone calls when you suspect him of cheating? He is in a committed relationship with you but yet you wanna curse me and call my children out. Lets take this for what it is worth. He has more children, there is nothing you can do about it but your children are gonna resent the fact that they couldn’t have close contact with their siblings.

  • Daisy

    Oh and Misa WORK BISH :yes:

  • Milan Millian

    @missy…it was quite boring as well….I wanna get in touch with Jason though….he need to do my hair!

  • Lovely One

    @ MUNCHOSGIRL Says:

    SANDRA THAT IS A BUNCH OF BULL! I AM A REAL WOMAN WITH REAL FEELINGS, I FIND OUT MY MAN HAS A CHILD BY ANOTHER WOMAN I AM NOT JUST GOING TO IMMEDIATELY ACCEPT IT. I BET MISA DIDN’T IMMEDIATELY ACCEPT CHRISTIAN EITHER. THAT’S ONE THING I NOTICED ABOUT YOU, WHEN YOU PUT YOUR SKIRT AND POM POMS IN ACTION YOU ARE A REAL CHEERLEADER. ISSUES LIKE THAT TAKES TIME, WHO ARE ANY OF US INCLUDING MISA TO TELL KIM HOW SHE SHOULD FEEL OR REACT. MAYBE JUST MAYBE DIDY HAD HER FEELING LIKE SHE WAS HIS ONLY ONE, HELL HOW MANY PHOTOS CAN YOU PULL OUT THE PAST OF DIDDY & MISA, DIDDY & SARAH, AND DIDDY & KIM? NOT THE LAST 2 YEARS EITHER, BEFORE THEN? NO WOMAN WITH INVESTED FEELING AND TIME IN ANY MAN JUST ACCEPTS AN OUTSIDE CHILD!
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    I agree, especially if that other chick knew about your relationship with the father of the child.

    And I would also say that they just became bffs to talk smack about Kim, who just happens to be the only baby mama that was publically claimed & showed off/showered by Diddy.

  • Milan Millian

    @missy…it was quite boring as well….I wanna get in touch with Jason though….he need to do my hair!

  • EricaDenese

    My dad cheated the entire time that he was married with my mother, and had a child out of wedlock, but my mother was smart enough to NEVER take it out on the child.

    My Mom treats him as if he’s her own, and my little brother loves her dearly. I couldn’t imagine NOT getting to know my little brother.

    I :cogsign: with everyone here that agrees that it’s not fair to take out the fustrations of a man’s infidelity on the child.

  • mirsmommy

    Men and women need to realize that the world we live in is a small world. Can you imagine, resenting your children from having a relationship with their siblings due to feelings being hurt, and when the children grow up, they end up being involved in a sexual relationship because they didn’t know they were related? :shrugs:

    This type of sh*t happens all the time. Maury had a situation like this on his show where paternity of a child was in question. :yes:

  • chase

    Team Misa, team Sarah!!! I’d buy her hair if it was any good…

    I agree there is no need to get along or tolerate each other if there are no children involved. When the time comes and the man slut decides to plant his seeds all over the place its best for the ladies to be ladies and get along.. I know it is easier said than done but it is the best thing to do!

  • MUNCHOSGIRL

    DOES IT MATTER HOW OLD CHASE IS? IT STILL REMAINS THAT KIM ISN’T OVER IT. WOULD I LIKE THE IDEA OF THE CHILDREN KNOWING EACH OTHER, OF COURSE I WOULD. KIM GETTING OVER HOW IT FELT IS SOMETHING TOTALLY DIFFERENT. I HAVE A BEST FRIEND THAT IS GOING THROUGH SOMETHING SIMILAR, I WAS THE ONE LISTENING TO THE CRYING SO I CAN UNDERSTAND WHERE KIM IS COMING FROM. MY FRIEND HAS BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR 7YRS, THE CHILD IS 1. MY FRIEND TRIES TO ACCEPT THE CHILD, SHE HAS STARTED TO LET HER MAN BRING THE CHILD AROUND HER KIDS, BUT GUESS WHAT, MY GOD SON WHOM IS 6 DOESN’T ACCEPT THE CHILD AS HIS SISTER. HE SAYS SHE’S NOT FROM HIS MOTHER STOMACH AND SHE’S NOT HIS SISTER! WE TRY TO TELL HIM DIFFERENT BUT HE SAYS NO! I THINK UNTIL THIS HAPPENS TO YOU, YOU REALLY DON’T KNOW HOW YOU WILL REACT.

  • CivilEngineer

    Does Diddy look a little “cockeyed” :shrugs:

  • FloridaChick813

    Quitta Says:

    I’m all for someone getting their paper. Good for you Misa. I’m over the saga of Diddy and his jumps. NEXT!! <<<< wishing it were white wine right about now.
    ___________________________

    :cheers: I cant wait to get home and settle in with my bottle of wine 😀

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    attorneymom says:
    Who has sex in front of their dogs and/cats? They were discussing this on The View.
    ____________________________________________

    My dog don’t play that chit. When my husband even starts getting to close me, let known :hump: my dog snaps off and starts barking, jumping up and down, throwing a hissy fit!!! 😡
    We have to put him in is room first..and he will bark till we finish…no matter how long it takes! :lolol:

  • missy

    Milan Millian Says:

    @missy…it was quite boring as well….I wanna get in touch with Jason though….he need to do my hair!
    _______________________

    Yes I need to Find Jason…That boy knows how to fix hair.. and I want him to do my hair also … :yes:

  • SangriaSugar

    @ Milan

    Your gravi is so cute!!

  • MUNCHOSGIRL

    LOVELY ONE, I AGREE QITH WHAT YOU SAID COMPLETELY. NOW EVERYONE IS STRESSING THAT THE WOMEN SHOULD GET ALONG, WHY? DIDDY IS THE ONE THAT WAS OUT SLANGING DICK ACROSS TTH USA. HE SHOULD BE A MAN ABOUT HIS SITUATION AND GET ALL OF HIS KIDS TOGETHER. MY BEST FRIEND THAT I SPOKE OF EARLIER HAS 12 OTHER SIBLINGS BY HER FATHER, AND SHE TOLD ME HOW HER FATHER USED TO GET ALL OF HIS KIDS TOGETHER, THEY ALL KNEW EACH OTHER GROWING UP. HE WAS MARRIED WHILE ALL OF THEM WERE BORN TOO, ONLY ONE CHILD FROM HIS WIFE! HE MADE IT HIS BUSINESS FOR HIS CHILDREN TO KNOW EACH OTHER.

  • MUNCHOSGIRL

    ^WITH^

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @Munch (hey girl waving)

    Uhm I could ride with you had Kimbo not stayed with Puffy. If you are going to accept the sinner accept the sin.

    Her feelings weren’t that hurt because she sure laid down with his behind after the fact, went to mags talking smack, trying to act like she was the one… (HOW SHE THOUGHT THAT AFTER PUFFY PROFESSED HIS UNDYING LOVE FOR J LO ILL NEVER KNOW).

    @daisy

    You are correct it has been many years.. Out of the public eye at least. Cause I believe Puff is still :hump: & that’s why she hasn’t been able to move past the other child yet. She hasn’t moved past his arse yet. Cluck cluck

  • Milan Millian

    @SangriaSugar….thanks girl…

    @missy…I hear Jason is quite expensive but he is good…he can take the shabby-est hair and make it fabu-lous!

  • Lovely One

    I know of this woman (like 50 yrs old) who is still in love with her hubby who had 4 kids with his one mistress during thier entire marriage….meaning he has like 7-8 kids all around the same age!

    So the married woman doesnt treat the kids mean but she is never around those kids (and neither are her children)

    So everyone is grown now and they all meet. You can still see the hurt in her eyes looking at the children her husband made out of wedlock.

    Now she may be “stupid” but those kids are a constant reminder of her hubby’s infidelity. You have to feel kinda bad for her. I think people should consider both sides JMO :shrugs:

  • CivilEngineer

    I meant c*ckeyed…

    And is it me or is that brush really the same color as Misa’s hair?

  • Milan Millian

    CivilEngineer Says:

    Does Diddy look a little “****eyed
    ____________________________________________________

    :blink: Yea he is crossed!hmmmm I noticed that too! 😆

  • mirsmommy

    Lovely One Says:

    I know of this woman (like 50 yrs old) who is still in love with her hubby who had 4 kids with his one mistress during thier entire marriage….meaning he has like 7-8 kids all around the same age!

    So the married woman doesnt treat the kids mean but she is never around those kids (and neither are her children)

    So everyone is grown now and they all meet. You can still see the hurt in her eyes looking at the children her husband made out of wedlock.

    Now she may be “stupid” but those kids are a constant reminder of her hubby’s infidelity. You have to feel kinda bad for her. I think people should consider both sides JMO
    _________________________________________________________

    No Shade, but like someone mentioned above, why forgive the man if you can’t except the children? I understand that it is hurtful, but it seems like harbored ill feelings are being directed to the wrong individuals. :shrugs:

  • missy

    Milan Millian Says:

    @missy…I hear Jason is quite expensive but he is good…he can take the shabby-est hair and make it fabu-lous!
    __________________________

    He looks expensive……but he looks like he can make your hair fabu-lous like you said….

  • intensemocha

    I :cogsign: with everyone here that agrees that it’s not fair to take out the fustrations of a man’s infidelity on the child.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    SO DO I BUT MAJORITY OF WOMEN WHO STAY WITH THE MAN AND FORGIVE HIM FOR HIS CHEATING WAYS-STILL HAVE A DIFFICULT TIME OR JUST FLAT OUT REFUSE TO DEAL WITH THE CHILD THE MAN CREATED AND THEY ALSO WILL TRY TO PREVENT THE MAN FROM HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE CHILD JUST TO GET BACK AT THE OTHER WOMAN

    IF YOU LOVE THE MAN-YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO LOVE HIS CHILD-WHY?? SIMPLY BECAUSE IT’S HIS CHILD. YOU DON’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE MOTHER AT ALL IF HE HAS COURT ORDERED VISITS YOU COULD HAVE A NEAUTRAL THIRD PARTY LIKE A FAMILY MEMBER BRING THE CHILD TO AND FROM

    I’VE SEEN WOMEN ACT THIS WAY EVEN IF THE CHILD WAS CONCEIVED WELL BEFORE THE MAN EVEN GOT WITH THEM

    MOST WOMEN ONLY CARE ABOUT THEIR CHILDREN AND ONLY WANT THEIR MAN TO “ONLY” BE A FATHER TO THEIR CHILDREN ONLY

  • Quitta

    @ Florida, Heeeeyyyyy Chicia!!!! Oh hun, I can’t wait either. :cheers: The day is passing by quickly (to me anyways). I was doing work and when I looked up it was twelve. Yeah!! :cheer:

  • intensemocha

    I understand that it is hurtful, but it seems like harbored ill feelings are being directed to the wrong individuals.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    EXACTLY! HER HUSBAND’S INFIDELITY IS NOT THOSE CHILDREN FAULT IT’S HIS AND IF SHE WOULD HAVE LEFT HIM AFTER THE FIRST CHILD HE MADE OUT OF WEDLOCK SHE WOULDN’T HAVE TO BE HURT ABOUT THE OTHER ONES

    HE DID AND GOT AWAY WITH IT-CAUSE HE KNEW SHE WOULD STAY & TOLERATE IT AND THE ONLY CONTROL SHE CAN EXERCISE IN THE SITUATION IS “ACTIVELY” REJECTING THE CHILDREN-WOW I GUESS THAT MAKES HER “FEEL” BETTER

  • SangriaSugar

    I’m not sure what they were trying to go for in the last pic…but :nono: I mean why is he holding the brush? And why does his head look all displaced & weird?? Like he was telling them to hold up while he got comfortable & wasn’t ready for the pic to be taken yet.

  • gypsyeyes

    When I say that I couldn’t stand the ex-husbands new wife…but I’m in love with her children. As far as children are concerned, they have nothing to do with it.It had nothing to do with infidelity on his part with their relationship but he told her things about me that weren’t true. This caused her to have negative feelings about me without knowing me. I called her one day to clear the air. The problem was him talking to make her see me in a negative light because he didn’t want us talking. I can’t blame her for listening because that is her man. But, I had to let her know that I wasn’t that person that he described but that we had to be in each others lives.I don’t ‘adore’ her but I’m very cordial for the sake of the kids.They share a child now and we see her often.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Am I the only one who’s not really feeling these promo shots? Happy Friday SR Peeps : )

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @Lovely One

    “So the married woman doesn’t treat the kids mean but she is never around them (and neither are her children)

    *************
    Isn’t that an oxymoron?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gyspy
    I think that says alot about your character KUDOS MUCHO!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Quitta
    Ditto on the day passing but girl we have to be sure the afternoon does not creep by I hate days like that : )

  • SangriaSugar

    @ CE

    :rofl: It does match her hair…I didn’t even notice that!!

    Pops Voice: You got to coordinate

  • Mspeng

    I can look at it from the child’s perspective and say, my husband’s parents were married and had 2 sons. His father had 2 outside children with 2 different women. My husband is 29…his brother from his mother is 33. His outside sister is 36 and his outside brother is 32. My husband will tell you that his ONLY sibling is his brother by his mother. He doesn’t believe his brother and sister are really that and to him, he wishes he never met them. His mom is passed away now and he doesn’t know if she knew about the other kids or not but he said his dad would secretly go to visit them and take him or his brother every now and then. He’s close to his brother and sister on a friendship level but he still doesn’t consider them siblings.

    As for me…if my husband had an outside child then yes…I would NOT accept the child immediately. I’m sure I would eventually but I have 2 friends in the situation now and see the tormment it causes an otherwise loving and loyal wife who has to be reminded of her husband’s transgressions every time she looks at the product of it. Now, if I and the man are broken up (Toya and Wayne, Misa and Diddy etc) or if I was just a baby mama to begin with (Sarah Chapman) then fine, I’ll accept anything. But to be in a deeply committed relationship with a man and that happens, I respect all the women who say they would accept it and their kids would be best friends and sleepovers and what not…I’m not promising anybody it would be that easy for me.

    Sorry for the rant…back to the scheduled programming © M Speng

  • gypsyeyes

    Thanks Choco-I can say that in the beginning she didn’t like her son being so close to me. He once asked if he could spend the night with me and was very upset when she said no. After that things changed with me and her. She left him home once alone when he was 11 to go to her daughter’s recital. After 3 hours he called me crying that he was scared to pick him up. Now I know that some people will think that it wasn’t my place but I went to their house and sat in the driveway with him. I didn’t take him but I kept him company. I don’t agree with her parenting skills but after talking to her and the ex husband they learned that they shouldn’t punish the kids. He could’ve come to my house if they didn’t want him there at the recital.

  • intensemocha

    WOW YOUR HUSBAND DOESN’T CONSIDER THEM HIS SIBLINGS

    WELL THEY ARE AND HOPEFULLY FOR HEALTH REASONS HE DOESN’T NEED TO CONTACT THEM AND ASK FOR A TRANSPLANT OR NEED ANYTHING

    BUT IT’S HIS CHOICE TO MAKE-AND I’M CURIOUS BUT I’M CERTAIN i KNOW THE ANSWER BUT HOW MUCH DID HIS RELATIONSHIP CHANGE WITH HIS FATHER

    MY GUESS NOT MUCH-AGAIN SOMEONE ELSE MISDIRECTING THEIR ANGER

    BUT HIS RED WAGON TO PULL-NONE OF MY BUSINESS HOW HE DOES IT

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    I’m so confused on how you can forgive the person who caused you the pain. And any six year old who says that’s not my sibling because it didn’t come from my mommy has clearly been listening to too many of mommy crying calls to her friends.

    Not accepting a child is not going to change the fact that your man cheated on you. And its not going to make the pain go away.
    If you were smart you’d be cordial to all. Friends close enemies closer. Cause its a good chance that your man is still knocking the walls out of his baby momma.

  • Quitta

    Choco Says:

    @Quitta
    Ditto on the day passing but girl we have to be sure the afternoon does not creep by I hate days like that : )
    _____
    Me too. 🙁

  • CivilEngineer

    😆 @Sangria…I LOVE the Wayans Bros!! That show was stupid funny!!

  • intensemocha

    Friends close enemies closer

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    I SWEAR I WAS GOING TO POST THIS

    HONEY CHILE PUHLEEZE-I WOULD BE THE GO BETWEEN IN THIS SITUATION,FAKE BEFRIEND HER SO I CAN FEEL HER OUT AND HER INTENTIONS, I WOULD NEVER MIS-TREAT A CHILD NOT IN MY BLOOD BUT I WOULD WANT TO BE ABREAST OF ALL THE HAPPENINGS, DESPITE BEING HURT I WOULD FAKE IT TO MAKE IT-DAYUM THAT LET’S GET ALL THIS SHIAT OUT IN THE OPEN CAUSE TRUST AND BELIEVE MEN DON’T TELL YOU EVERYTHING-AND SEEING THE INTERACTION BETWEEN THE TWO OF THEM FOR YOURSELF WOULD LET YOU KNOW WHAT’S UP-IF HE’S STILL HITTING IT OR IF IT’S JUST ABOUT THE CHILD

    NICCAS LIE AND THAT’S EXACTLY HOW HE GOT IN THIS MESS TO BEGIN WITH-WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE WON’T CONTINUE LYING

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @CorporateHoodB-tch, I don’t have dogs or cats. I only have parkeets and they don’t fly down to the first floor. They stay on the second and go back in their cage when they are tired. 😆

  • SangriaSugar

    My dad did that to my mom. He and my mom got married after she got pregnant with my brother and sister (twins); I was 3; and she didnt find out til after that he had 4 other kids by 2 other women. My mom was tolerent of his shyt cause she let him move his 4 other kids into her house…thats 7 damn kids and my mom was a trooper cause she let them all call her Mommy and treated them like her own. They divorced when I was 9. He remarried again when I was 15. He and his wife had 2 kids plus her 3 before their marriage. His step-kids had the nerve to tell my brother and sister not to call him dad anymore cause he was with their mom now…I told them that they may have him by marriage but my bro & sis are his blood. Then back in 1999 by brother asked him if he could come live with him, that man straight had the nerve to tell him he had a new family now…since then I have not talked to him and I only refer to him as “the sperm donor” cause I don’t see him as a real man.

  • Karamelkisses76

    Hello folks. Misa looks too cte!!

  • Karamelkisses76

    cute that is!!

  • Lovely One

    @ iscream Says:

    @Lovely One

    “So the married woman doesn’t treat the kids mean but she is never around them (and neither are her children)

    *************
    Isn’t that an oxymoron?
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    Not really IMO. I can see if the woman :rolleyes: or started cussing ppl out when she saw the kids, but she did none of that. She’s a really nice lady (too nice) and even the illegitimate kids see that. She is just stuck in her own misery.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gyspy GOD has you right where he wants you and that is in those kids lives…

  • Lovely One

    @ iscream Says:

    I’m so confused on how you can forgive the person who caused you the pain.
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    All I can say is that love is strange. I’ve witnessed women get dogged out verbally in front of their friends and STILL stay with the guy. Sometimes you have to wait until they snap out of it. And if they dont, they may be so in love (or low self esteem/or both) that they would rather “1/2 of him” opposed to “none of him”

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Sangria
    Wow that’s pretty hurtful but GOD won’t give you anything you can not handle : )

  • MUNCHOSGIRL

    iscream Says:

    I’m so confused on how you can forgive the person who caused you the pain. And any six year old who says that’s not my sibling because it didn’t come from my mommy has clearly been listening to too many of mommy crying calls to her friends.

    Not accepting a child is not going to change the fact that your man cheated on you. And its not going to make the pain go away.
    If you were smart you’d be cordial to all. Friends close enemies closer. Cause its a good chance that your man is still knocking the walls out of his baby momma.
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    AS FAR AS MY GOD SON IS CONCERNED(THE SIX YR OLD) HIS MOTHER AND MYSELF HAVE CONTRIBUTED HIS FEELINGS OF WATCHING HER CRY ABOUT THE SITUATION. I THINK DIDDY HAD KIM THINKING THEY WERE IN AN EXCLUSIVE REALTIONSHIP, HER FEELINGS WERE CRUSHED, I FEEL HER. DIFFERENT FOLKS DIFFERENT RESULTS! I DO HOPE DIDDY GET A SPINE AND GET ALL OF HIS CHILDREN TOGETHER, BY THE WAY HAS SARAH EVER SAID SHE WOULD LET HER DAUGHTER BE AROUND KIM? DIDDY IS TTHE FATHER TO ALL OF THEM, HE SHOULD BE THE ONE MAKING SURE THEY KNOW EACH OTHER…..WONDER IF JUSTIN THINK OF QUINCEY AS HIS BROTHER?……

  • Prissydiva71

    I respect Sarah and Misa being mature about the situation. On the other hand, Kim is and should be bitter. Karma is something else! How can she not think she would get hers in the end? I mean, really? She stole Puffy from Misa, so she is just getting it all back from J-Lo to Cassie and yes, Sarah getting pregnant-before her! On the flip side, I know it must sting and I could only imagine how I would feel if it happened to me. In due time I am sure she might except Chance, but if I were Sarah, would I really trust Kim around my child? Kim pretty much put them on blast in Essence, so really if I were Sarah, I would focus on Chance having a relationship with Justin and leave the rest in the Lords hands!

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