What can be more humiliating to a man, than to lose his woman to another chick? The rumors about former America's Next Top Model alumni Eva Pigford being a lesbian were finally confirmed on Sunday night when Eva escorted her gorgeous girlfriend to a BET Awards after-party. Eva must really hate her former boyfriend, actor Lance Gross, to disgrace him by insinuating that she dumped him because he failed to perform sexually. No wonder he tried to redeem himself by approaching LisaRaye, who, in turn, rejected his advances. But what did Eva expect? She knew he was a gay fish when she picked him up.
Puffy's baby mama, Sarah Chapman, center, abandoned her dreams of becoming a top fashion blogger after Puff dropped the hammer. She was seen partying with him and friends at Mr. Chow's in LA on Sunday night.
Yesterday, R&B Diva, Monica, lashed out at actress Vivica A. Fox's "nasty" critique of her BET Awards attire. Mo wrote a "tweet" calling Vivica an "old lady" and ridiculing her fashion sense. Mo apologized for her outburst in a series of tweets on her Twitter page today.
3 days ago, Monica took to her Twitter page to scold others for basically doing the same thing she did: she wrote "If it's illegal, mean, disrespectful or just plain stupid. Don't post. Grown talk."
Public forums, such as Twitter and Facebook, gives the public unprecedented access to their idols. At the same time, celebrities can bypass their publicists and handlers to instantly post their thoughts and opinions.
There was a time when celebrities posted to public forums anonymously to protect their image. But not anymore.
Twitter proves time and time again that celebrities -- most of whom are narcissists with poor impulse control, such as Chris Brown -- have a difficult time adhering to their own lofty standards, and (sometimes unrealistic) expectations of others.
Twitter removes that barrier of protection between a celebrity's fragile ego and the public. It opens celebrities up to harsh public criticism, which is something that narcissists simply can't tolerate.
So the question is: should celebrities delete their Twitter pages?
A late-night potty training session proved fatal for a 20-month-old Chicago boy, who was beaten to death by his mom's boyfriend.
According to CBN, Darnell Thomas, 21, of Chicago, is being held without bond in the death of Jamar Harris. Police say Jamar was beaten so severely that his lungs were bruised.
Thomas was also charged with one count of misdemeanor domestic battery for beating Jamar's 3-year-old brother.
Jamar's mother, Kemelle Howell, 22, told police she left her two boys in Thomas' care on Friday while she worked an evening shift at her job. Sometime after midnight, while riding home on the train, Howell received a call from Thomas who told her Jamar fell down some stairs. Thomas told her he had "whipped" Jamar after he had wet himself.
Thomas told the boys' mother he was going to call an ambulance. Howell briefly lost phone reception, but when she spoke to Thomas by phone again, he told her that he spanked Jamar with a backscratcher and punched the boy, Conklin said.
Paramedics arrived and took both Jamar, whose heart had stopped by the time they arrived, and the 3-year-old boy to Comer Children's Hospital. At the hospital, doctors found that the older boy had a blackened right eye, numerous bruises and scratches on his body and a recent break in his left arm. The boy told them Thomas "did it to me," Conklin said.
Jamar was pronounced dead at the hospital just after 2 a.m. Saturday. He suffered bruises to his chest, abdomen and left arm, and an autopsy showed he suffered massive internal injuries, including bruised lungs, authorities said.
Thomas was arrested at the hospital and charged with first-degree murder. He told police in a videotaped statement that he was potty-training Jamar when he hit the boy "seven or eight times." Thomas told police he was not the boys' father, though he felt like their father because they called him "Daddy."
Moral of the story:ladies, stop leaving your children with men who aren't their fathers.
Earlier today, BET aired footage of actress Vivica A. Fox critiquing the fashions displayed by celebrities on the red carpet at the 2010 BET Awards last night.
Vivica wasn't very flattering when it came to her assessment of Monica's avant garde gown. Mo responded to the perceived insult by taking to her Twitter page this evening, and ever so politely, slammed Vivica's age and fashion sense.
I reached out to Vivica for her response to Mo's diss, but she is on a flight to Atlanta at this moment. Vivica will be landing at Hartsfield airport shortly. As soon as she lands, I hope to bring you her response to Monica's diss exclusively!
According to my boy, comedian Alex Thomas, rapper T.I. has joined the Louis Stewart movement! T.I. took delivery of a Money Green backpack and duffle bag set with gold handles while in L.A. for the BET Awards. The custom set is fit for a King!
Pop singer John Legend felt some kinda way about his hairline trending on Twitter following his appearance on the BET Awards last night.
As Legend points out in a series of tweets on his Twitter page today: his hairline has always been crooked. Really? I never noticed :
No one in the industry attracts more hate for being human than former Xscape member Tameka "Tiny" Cottle. Tiny can't even change the color of her hair without people getting in her business. Never mind that her hair is growing out of her scalp and not from the back of a horse like most of her haters hair. It isn't easy being a superstar, but Tameka (as her close friends and family call her) handles the negativity very well.
I was going to do an entire post on fashion at the 2010 BET Awards last night, but then I saw the red carpet pics and I changed my mind. I've been trying all year to honor my commitment to be less negative in 2010 -- and so far, I think I've done a commendable job, given the circumstances.
How could LaLa Vazquez love her man and still let him leave the house looking like her 60-year-old uncle?
I was so happy to read on my Twitter timeline that legendary female emcee Queen Latifah finally came stumbling out of the closet in her own inimitable way! Too bad I missed that epic milestone moment in her life. And how precious was it that she referred to her longtime companion, Jeanette Jenkins, as "fine"?
Everyone and their grandmother complained about Nicki Minaj lip syncing during both of her performances last night. But those same people had nothing but good things to say about Chris Brown, who did the same thing!
Once again, I slept through the BET Awards -- or as my loyal readers call it: the EBT Awards.
I swear I had every intention of watching this year's show, especially since the good folks at BET always take such care to send me a credential request form every year, even though I never request one. One year they even filled out the form for me and sent me the credentials with a little note saying "your credential request has been approved," lol.
The BET Awards is the singular urban spectacle of the year that manages to bring together such diverse artists as Nicki Minaj (who has zero talent), El DeBarge, Kirk Franklin and Tyrese, and make it all work.
Judging from the tweets in my timeline from last night, the 2010 BET Awards was the best in years. Since I didn't get a chance to watch the show, the only Ugly moment for me was Chris Brown's fake tears. So I'm posting some of the highlights of the #BETAwards tweets from Twitter.com instead:
The BAD: I searched but I couldn't find a single tweet on my timeline about pseudo-singer Ciara's awful black and gold Balmain frock paired with ankle booties. Why did she even show up when BET dissed her azz by banning her "Ride" video?
This morning, I awoke to find all the urban blogs raving about convicted woman beater, Chris Brown's Michael Jackson tribute last night. Black folk are an oddly forgiving bunch when it comes to our criminals.
A grown man can urinate on a 13-year-old girl -- or use a young woman's face as a punching bag. But if he can sing or dance, he's redeemed in our eyes! It's a good thing black folks don't control the criminal justice system or our celebrities would never be charged with any crimes!
Chris Brown's performance was at once the most horrendous tribute I have ever seen on live television! Did he even practice his routine at all? He came out lip syncing to Michael Jackson's vocals. Didn't he have the time to re-record the lyrics?
And although Brown's choreography was noteworthy, the fact is, any Michael Jackson impersonator from the youngest to the oldest would have put Brown's dance routine to shame last night. I was not impressed.
Then, in what can only be described as one of the most shameless, calculated publicity stunts ever in BET's history, Brown begins to perform Jackson's classic, "Man in the Mirror," only to break down in tears as if on cue!
Only the #teambreezy d*ckriders fell for his crocodile tears. Though, to be honest, I've never seen a man that despondent over the loss of his career and livelihood (that's what he was really crying about). His Oscar winning performance begs the question: why didn't he do this last year? Maybe he canceled last year's MJ tribute because he couldn't cry on cue?
Ever since R&B Diva broke up with her baby daddy Rocko, her fans have been wondering who she's kicking it with now. Monica might say she's way too busy with her children and her career to find the time for a relationship. But Mo loves the idea of being in love. A little birdie told us that the new thug in her life is rapper Maino!
Mo's rumored new beau is cast as her love interest in the music video for "Love All Over Me." Mo tweeted this pic from the set today.