Are Frank Ocean and Model Willy Cartier Lovers?

Frank Ocean and Willy Cartier

My West coast connection sent in these pics of Frank Ocean and his rumored boyfriend, model Willy Carter. It figures that Ocean would prefer the LSLH pretty boy type.

She notes that Frank Ocean posted a photo on his instagram page of Willy’s delicate hands and rings. She believes the photo — taken while the men were at breakfast — reflects the fact that they are dating “or something to that effect.” I agree. What man Instagrams a photo of another man’s hands?

Willy Cartier

Obviously Frank posted the above photo to let the other queens know that HE was out at breakfast with Willy — and they weren’t.

My West coast connect poses the question: “Do you think they are they coming out as a couple? If so, do you think the gay black men will be in an uproar like gay black women are about celebs dating “exotics” instead of their own race?”

UPDATE: Edited to add video of Willy Carter waiting patiently while his date, Frank Ocean, is interviewed on the red carpet at the recent GQ Awards.

Willy Cartier and Frank Ocean

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    313 Responses to “Are Frank Ocean and Model Willy Cartier Lovers?”

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      SO

    3. 3
      KayCeiSoul says:

      :coffee: More people please. That doesn’t mean they’re dating.

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      Honycoatd says:

      The model guy Willy has soft features. They are both cuties. IF they are dating then they will let others know when they are ready.

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      Angiegirl says:

      I was talking to my homeboy about that “thinking bout u” song. And he said he hate that he likes it, cause he know its from one dude to another :lol:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      The Bigger Question is who/what are they Pledging to?

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      Bibi says:

      Hey…everybody can benefit from a good piping..now whether ur giving or receiving is another issue :shrugs:

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      VDot says:

      Get it Frank!

      :whistle:

      A tornado flew around my room before you came
      Excuse the mess it made, it usually doesn’t rain
      In Southern California, much like Arizona
      My eyes don’t shed tears, but, boy, they bawl

      When I’m thinkin’ ’bout you
      (Ooh, no, no, no)
      I’ve been thinkin’ ’bout you
      (You know, know, know)
      I’ve been thinkin’ ’bout you
      Do you think about me still?
      Do ya, do ya?

      Or do you not think so far ahead?
      ‘Cause I been thinkin’ ’bout forever

      :heart: that song.

      Tori Kelly has a cover of this song that I love too

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      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      Bibi says:

      Hey…everybody can benefit from a good piping..now whether ur giving or receiving is another issue
      ——–
      :dead:

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      GellySammich says:

      uuummm… they’d make pretty babies… no wait :thinking:

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      Ace says:

      butterflies be errwhere nowadays…

      :offtopic:

      Anyone heard much of “The Weeknd”? i caught two songs on the radio during lunch had me vibin.. niccas got an album? mixtape?

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      Bird says:

      How do we know who’s hands they are? You never explain that. Was it in the caption?

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      GellySammich says:
      uuummm… they’d make pretty babies… no wait
      ~ ~ ~ ~
      :wave: In due time Gelly due time

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      I am dying at LSLH pretty boy :rofl: bae-bee. No at GellySammich say they would make pretyt babies, ya’ll refuse to let me be great today :ghost:

    15. 15

      :rofl: Now I get it – Kanye is dating KIM cuz she reminds him of Willy

      That instagram is STUPID

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      GellySammich says:

      :hi: luvn

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      Miany says:

      @Ace yea.. the weekend an act from toronto, think they’re down with Drake. I think he/she/it (i dunnno if its a group or a duet or solo act) I’m sure they have a mixtape by now.

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      Honycoatd says:

      Ace,

      The Weekend has a few mixtape. He is underground.

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      NaijaGal says:

      I don’t care :yawn:

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      VDot says:

      Anyone heard much of “The Weeknd”? i caught two songs on the radio during lunch had me vibin.. niccas got an album? mixtape?

      _________________________________________

      Fugging LOVE LOVE LOVE The Weeknd. He’s just one guy.

      I just got The Trilogy last night, even though it’s just the 3 mixtapes he put out, with a few songs added.

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      Eazy says:

      Anyone heard much of “The Weeknd”?
      ________________________________
      The weeknd is good :blunt: music man! I love all of his mixtapes(i think theres 3)

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      Ace says:

      *runs to Datpiff-com*

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      @Ace he is a fav of mine, a Canuck. Im listening to The Trilogy, his latest offering. :thumbsup:

      Much music out there..the production, the themes, the arranging… yes, yes, yes, :yes:

      OVOXO <—Drake and Weeknd.

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      bubblicious says:

      I don’t care.

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      Eazy says:

      Damn the exotics are taking EVERYBODYS man I see :coffee:

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      Ace says:

      VDot says:

      Anyone heard much of “The Weeknd”? i caught two songs on the radio during lunch had me vibin.. niccas got an album? mixtape?

      _________________________________________

      Fugging LOVE LOVE LOVE The Weeknd. He’s just one guy.

      I just got The Trilogy last night, even though it’s just the 3 mixtapes he put out, with a few songs added.
      ———————————————————————-

      So trilogy shoudl have me covered…or do i need the other?

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      Donna del Gatto says:

      GellySammich says:

      uuummm… they’d make pretty babies… no wait :think:

      ____________

      :hahaha:

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      candibfly says:

      well he said he liked men right? :shrugs:

      i like dude’s hair. it’s about as long as mine *flips it* he could prob use a lil whipfinity on the ends tho :lol:

      but no i’ve never seen a dude just takin pics of his friend’s hands just because

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      VDot says:

      Sometimes on Fridays OTB changes her gravi to him….you know since it’s The Weeknd and all ;)

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      Honycoatd says:

      Miany :lol: The Weekend is just one guy. But he does have a band tho but they are not part of his name.

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      VDot says:

      @Ace – Just The Trilogy :thumbsup:

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      Ace says:

      Damn i forgot i had a damn Datpiff app on my phone …#stupid

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      kingstonn says:

      @ ace
      the weeknd is the dude whining on a couple of drake’s songs on his latest cd. he has a mix tape called “house of balloons” that i looooooove! :yahoo:

      no words on Frank tho.
      i still love him and his weird ass. :yes:

    34. 34

      My gf turned me onto to TheWeekend they do have a nice mixtape but I only heard a few of their songs

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      GellySammich says:

      uuummm… they’d make pretty babies… no wait
      ____________________

      :dead:

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      Honycoatd says:

      I have not heard the Trilogy yet. Is that a EP or LP because I know I have all his other mixtapes.

      Ace,

      All his mixtapes are good. House of Balloons was his first.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Damn the exotics are taking EVERYBODYS man I see
      _________________________________________________

      We all eXXXotic to somebody huh.

      Who are the Exotics anyway… a partna who doesnt look like you/share same background as you or something? :thinking:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      @VDot #29 :yes: I did it already too. Just taking for ever. :lol: I like that cause he so elusive..

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      kingstonn says:

      @ choco
      :hug:
      where were you earlier? i needed to send you a smoke signal.

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      Eazy says:

      Who are the Exotics anyway… a partna who doesnt look like you/share same background as you or something
      ___________________________________
      Ion know really but ppl real salty about them :lol:

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      Miany says:

      Honycoatd says:

      Miany The Weekend is just one guy. But he does have a band tho but they are not part of his name.

      ^^^ Ok, lol…I didn’t know. I used to know all about these things but, the music being put out nowadays annoys me. I’m gonna download the mixtape since everyone says it’s good.

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      kingstonn says:

      the trilogy is all three of his mix tapes and like 3 extra songs released as a packaged deal.

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      Ace says:

      I remember Al’s Stable of Exxotics… #memories

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      Sandra Rose says:

      GellySammich says:

      they’d make pretty babies… no wait :thinking:
      ________________

      Exactly. 2 gay men can’t make babies, which means being gay is out of balance with Nature which is only concerned with advancing the species. I’m just pointing out the obvious. :coffee:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Miany,

      Me too I don’t keep up with radio. I listen to alot of other music and international stuff so you get introduced to alot that way.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      THE TRILOGY = I just got The Trilogy last night, even though it’s just the 3 mixtapes he put out, with a few songs added.

      Hence the name…the trilogy :lol:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      :shank:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      Bird says:

      How do we know who’s hands they are?
      ______________

      Did you study Willy’s hands in the other pictures?

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      GellySammich says:

      good thing you’re here *head tilt*

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      iWhip says:

      Pretty Willy what they call him :tea:

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      kingstonn says:

      @ Sandra
      this is a joke right? aren’t you a lesbian? :blink:

      @ ace
      and weren’t they all fat? :lol:

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      candibfly says:

      is that the lovin the crew guy? if it ain’t 80s or 90s R&B i’m out of it :no:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Thats not the one I want.. :cuss:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Oh so Trilogy is not really new stuff then. He is still cool though.

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      NaijaGal says:

      GellySammich says:

      uuummm… they’d make pretty babies… no wait
      =========================
      *I hate that I luv your font* :hahaha:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      candibfly says:

      but no i’ve never seen a dude just takin pics of his friend’s hands just because
      _________________

      Believe me, Frank was being messy by posting that pic. :coffee:

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      Honycoatd says:

      So Sandra you don’t want to chip in on advancing the human race?

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      Eazy says:

      @ Sandra
      this is a joke right? aren’t you a lesbian?
      __________________________
      she know she off balance girl :coffee:

    59. 59
      Eazy says:

      @ Sandra
      this is a joke right? aren’t you a lesbian?
      __________________________
      she know she off balance girl :coffee:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Ion know really but ppl real salty about them

      ______________________________________________

      ^^^^ My new white friend’s ex. She be fb’ing me…sent me rude msgs :lol:

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      Ace says:

      kingstonn says:

      @ ace
      and weren’t they all fat? :lol:

      ———————————————————————–

      They were all very ….”Unique” and “Exotic” looking :kona:

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      GellySammich says:

      :D I dig u too Naija

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      VDot says:

      Hence the name…the trilogy
      ____________________________________________________

      :nana:

      That lil nucca better be glad I support his azz. I already had that chit, but to show love I went ahead and purchased that chit.

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      @Kingston
      Working :blink: Prey Tell the SMOKE SIGNAL

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      Honycoatd says:

      OTB that pic of him is cute.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Pretty Willy what they call him

      __________________________

      :hahaha: Hate chu.. :hug:

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      NaijaGal says:

      Sandra Rose says:

      Exactly. 2 gay men can’t make babies, which means being gay is out of balance with Nature which is only concerned with advancing the species. I’m just pointing out the obvious.
      ===========================
      so are you gonna help try to balance the world by getting **** in your life??? It starts with 1…be a leader Sandra

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      ^^^^ My new white friend’s ex. She be fb’ing me…sent me rude msgs
      ______________________
      :blink: FOR WHAT? Stuff like that doesn’t make sense to me

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      Sandra Rose says:

      iWhip says:

      Pretty Willy what they call him :tea:
      ________________

      :lol:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      @VeeDot dont be licking your tongue at me. I’ll take advantage #fairwarning
      ________________________________
      I already had that chit, but to show love I went ahead and purchased that chit

      ^^^^ Im a sucker too. :lol:

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      Who Dat says:

      What man Instagrams a photo of another man’s hands?
      ^^^One that wants to remma the way those hands felt when they was all over his bawdeeeeeeeeee.

      :shakebutt: << Francis Ocean

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      OOOhh it updated! <—- I LOVE this one @Hony

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      Bibi says:

      so are you gonna help try to balance the world by getting **** in your life??? It starts with 1…be a leader Sandra

      :dead:

    74. 74

      OMG my friend last night discussed same sex marriage and said that’s one of the things that is ruining man kind – I think differently but he was backing up his facts with the bible and then interpreting what the bible meant – I felt like a sponge

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      Who Dat says:

      Francis has been thanking about forrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrever…

      With a man named Sweet Dack Willy.

      I think its pretty romantical and shyt myself.

      :shakebutt: << Francis Ocean

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      Honycoatd says:

      OTB

      Black and white makes most things so beautiful even when its not in color.

      Who are you listening to now?

      Maybe I knoe them and maybe not but I like good music so do tell.

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      bubblicious says:

      @NAIJA

      I hate you.

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      VDot says:

      so are you gonna help try to balance the world by getting **** in your life??? It starts with 1…be a leader Sandra

      ____________________________________________________

      :hahaha:

      *turns up radio*

      :whistle:

      Hey ho! Here we go
      Hey ho! Come on now
      Can a nigga get some to go
      You need d!ck in your life (Uh come on)
      You need d!ck in your life (That’s what you need girl)
      D!ck in your life (Hey fellas what they need?)
      D!ck in your life (Uh break it dow)
      And you need some d!ck
      And you need some d!ck
      And you need some d!ck
      And you need some d!ck

      :buttshake:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      Honycoatd says:

      So Sandra you don’t want to chip in on advancing the human race?
      __________________

      By choosing to satisfy my sexual urges with women I forfeited my branch on the family tree. :coffee:

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      iWhip says:

      Bibi! :rules: check yo email bew!

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      FOR WHAT? Stuff like that doesn’t make sense to me
      ______________________________________________________
      :shrug: He’s pretty fly, and not just for a white guy. She just bitter<–his words.

      They was together a long time tho but, he a mess tho. A dog! They'll prolly be back together soon. Aint nobody gonna put up with him like her.

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      Bella Master says:

      :whistle:

      I left my girl back home,
      I don’t love her no more
      And she’ll never f*cking know that,
      these f*cking eyes that I’m staring at
      Let me see that ass,
      look at all this cash
      And I’ve emptied out my cards too
      Now I’m f*cking leaning on that
      :whistle:

      Listening to it as we speak!!!

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      Eazy says:

      OMG my friend last night discussed same sex marriage and said that’s one of the things that is ruining man kind – I think differently
      ___________________________
      you dont think the issues of same sex anything is ruining the tradional look at life? the blasting it to the kids..the way its “the norm now”

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      Honycoatd says:

      Choco,

      I like that too, people opening your mind to things you never thought of even if at first glance they seem worlds apart.

      Knowledge is always power. The bible is an old book but not the oldest.

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      Bella Master says:

      I have two gay friends creating a baby in Panama, some how some way, at this very moment

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Hey hoe?!!? Say what?! Hey Hoe! SAY WHAT??!?! Can a nigga get some to go?!?! :danban:

      D!ck in ya life! What chu need?!?! D!ck in ya life. :hahaha: :heart:

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      Donna del Gatto says:

      Sandra Rose says:

      Honycoatd says:

      So Sandra you don’t want to chip in on advancing the human race?
      __________________

      By choosing to satisfy my sexual urges with women I forfeited my branch on the family tree. :coffee:

      __________________

      :hunching: :hump:

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      his much aight :tea: I didn’t realize how purty he is. I thought he was someone said he was Ethiopian, he ain’t got that look though :thinking: – I know that was ignorant but yall know what I mean!

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      Eazy says:

      They was together a long time tho but, he a mess tho. A dog! They’ll prolly be back together soon. Aint nobody gonna put up with him like her.
      __________________________________
      so he staying in reach of her by keeping in touch with you? he aint bout to lose all contact with his bottom bish?

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Francis :lol:

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      oops meant to say “music”

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      Ace says:

      Bah can only find the trilogy Chopped and screwed…

      time to do my “research” :pc:

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      VDot says:

      @VeeDot dont be licking your tongue at me. I’ll take advantage #fairwarning

      ________________________________

      :rofl:

      You can’t threaten me with a good time :coffee:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Southern Charm,

      I think we got ya and plus you had your disclaimer in there.

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      He’s pretty fly, and not just for a white guy. She just bitter<–his words.

      They was together a long time tho but, he a mess tho. A dog! They'll prolly be back together soon. Aint nobody gonna put up with him like her.
      ________________________
      :shrugs: Like how is beefn with you helping them #LOSTWOMEN

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      :tea: Alicia Keys Calls Mashonda a Liar :gossip:

      Swizz Beatz ex-wife Masonda has long stood by her claims that Alicia Keys broke up her marriage to Swizz…In the latest issue of Jet magazine Alicia says that’s just not true…

      Alicia tells Jet,

      “…They were apart for some time before we ever got together…that doesn’t matter to those who take pleasure in trying to knock others down…there’s no need to fight what’s not true…”

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      Bella Master says
      I have two gay friends creating a baby in Panama, some how some way, at this very moment
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      See

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      Hershey says:

      this picture reminds me of a FBF of mine posting a pic of her and dinner date and tagging him in the pic. She titled the picture “where you wish you were”

      #messy

      :rofl:

      Gone Frankie!!! Stunt Queens are DABEST!!!

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      Honycoatd says:

      Are you on a private vpn @ Aceswild?

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      “girl on FIYah” ia a Liyah!
      that is what Mashonda said :tea:

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      NaijaGal says:

      yall remember P.W.A. from the 5th Ward Boys…girls used to get it in to this song but my body refused :nono:

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      I sooooooooooo hate Naija, KDub & Fay :rofl:

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      @Hony thanks boo, I just realized that ain’t the man I was talking about but the man I was talking about still ain’t got that look :rofl:
      OTB why is Alicia Fleas bringing this up, go sing like a cat in heat and keep it pushing

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      iWhip says:

      :smack: i always post b4 refreshing!

      OTB luv me right bew! :hug:

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      Who Dat says:

      By choosing to satisfy my sexual urges with women I forfeited my branch on the family tree.
      ^^^ As a nurse you know there were ways. I woulda love to have had a little cousin (since you are my Auntie in my head) who had a head fulla freeze curls.

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      you dont think the issues of same sex anything is ruining the tradional look at life? the blasting it to the kids..the way its “the norm now”
      ___________________________
      My belief is if you love someone truly then who are we to say you can’t get married – becuz My GOD is all loving GOD regardless of what the bible says and as far as normal – Nothing is normal anymore the human race is changing the norm at an alarming rate! We are doing the injustice to our planet – we are killing our Mother Earth – so who someone marries I don’t concern myself with – but in his opinion it is destroying the family GOD intended….

      @Honey
      :yes: We discussed everything from science, space and how Tsunami’s can be created. UFO and FEMA – Zombies and Demons he is historian so his knowledge was feeding me

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      so he staying in reach of her by keeping in touch with you? he aint bout to lose all contact with his bottom bish?
      __________________________________________

      :eek: Ive known both of them forever. We are all FB friends. We went out last week (me+him+5 other ppl)… I didnt see her, dont know how she knew but she sent me two messages asking what kind of friend I am. :blink:

      When i mentioned it to him, he said, and I quote, “She sent some chit to everybody. What you doing tonight?” Like it warnt nothing. Thats bottom b!tch territory if you ask me.

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      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      I agree with Alicia. Both could be wrong/ one right and the other wrong/ or there are both right within there own knowledge of the issues to some extent.

      It is time to let it go and if Alicia bit the hand that feed her then she will feel it someday.

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      Bibi says:

      @Iwhip

      I responded :biggrin:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      :rofl:
      :rofl:

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      Miany says:

      Outside the box…
      Tell dat bish behave and maybe you’ll return his dawg @$$ when ur done with him.

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      NaijaGal says:

      OTB – I saw that ish…they’re the words she tells herself to make herself feel better…when he does it to her ion wanna hear her mouth though

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      Who Dat says:

      “girl on FIYah” ia a Liyah!

      ^^ That bish is a LIYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYAH
      That hoe is a LIYAhHhYAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHaHHHHHHHHHHH

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      bubblicious says:

      @EAZY

      If one chooses “traditional” marriage, someone else choosing same sex marriage shouldn’t have anything to do with them.

      As for the kids, that’s just an excuse. Most children are open and accepting until some closed-minded adult gets to them.

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      candibfly says:

      PWA kinda jams :ashamed: what? i’m from houston. we gotta support our own :lol:

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      Hey Kuntry Cousin aka Retha picture, I tried to speak to you downstairs. :tea: Didnt realize you was frequenting these parts again

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      kingstonn says:

      :dead: @ kdub

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      You can’t threaten me with a good time
      _____________________________________

      Excellent. In the interest of full disclosure..Everytime you’re here, Im word fukking you anyway…these other ppl = voyeurs.. :eek:

      If I warnt such a fukkinladeee, I would insert a :lick: emote —> here <— .

      :tea:

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      who a bottom bish :popcorn:

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      NaijaGal says:

      The American bubble is real…as we speak there are tons of my people with multiple wives, it’s expected and respected…not how I was raised but I also u/s there are mutiple cultures with different values that works for them

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      scorpio says:

      Sandra Rose says:
      @Sandrarose

      GellySammich says:

      they’d make pretty babies… no wait
      ________________

      Exactly. 2 gay men can’t make babies, which means being gay is out of balance with Nature which is only concerned with advancing the species. I’m just pointing out the obvious.

      ————————————————————————

      I’m confused? So Sandra do you consider yourself to be out of balance as well. Two women need sperm to make a baby, and two men need an egg. So is it obvious that you don’t like being gay? Please explain?

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Like how is beefn with you helping them
      ______________________________________

      I think she run everybody off with that. Works with me for sure. I dont have the patience. I know where she live. :eek:

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      iWhip says:

      sa-weet baby Jesus on a 3-D sonagram!!!

      please lawd i knowed i had asked & BEGGED for KDUB to return, but she gone be the living DEF a meh! :dead: :ghost:

      caint nobody remix like DUB! :listen:

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      Who Dat says:

      Hey Suthern…yeah I am an EnVogue (Natalie Cole) remake…

      I juuuuuuuuuuuuust cannnnnnnnnnnnnnnt stayyyyyYyyy away…from yewwwww…

      :yahoo:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      COST OF SECEDEING FROM YOUR STATE : lONG I kNOW
      That’s because your state receives far more back from Uncle Sam in government spending than you pay in federal taxes. If you go it alone, you’ll have to make up the difference yourselves.

      Take Alabama. (No jokes, please). It’s among the seven states whose secession petition has landed 30,000 signatures. Its legislature has also passed, and its governor signed a 10th Amendment Resolution. But at the last count, Alabama got back about $1.66 in federal spending for every dollar its citizens paid in federal taxes. The gap — the subsidy the rest of America paid to Alabama — totaled about $3,800 for every person in the state.

      Louisiana is also among the seven petitioning for secession. A 10th Amendment resolution has passed both houses of its legislature.

      At the last reckoning, Louisiana got back about $1.78 from Uncle Sam for every dollar its citizens pay in. That was about $4,200 per resident.

      These figures are admittedly long in the tooth. They date back to 2005. They used to be calculated every year by the Tax Foundation, a conservative-leaning, albeit independent, Washington think tank. Alas, the Foundation says funding dried up for the research. Conservative-leaning donors became reluctant to pony up. You can see why.

      While the foundation is no longer doing the math, the general trend has remained the same. The allegedly “low tax,” conservative red states of the South and West are heavily subsidized every year by the federal government. In other words, they are subsidized by the New Union: the states of the Northeast and the West Coast.

      The picture was astonishingly consistent year after year as the Tax Foundation did the study.

      Take the seven states which have gathered 30,000 or more signatures to secede: Alabama, Florida, Georgia, Louisiana, North Carolina, Tennessee and Texas.

      In the last year for which the Tax Foundation ran the numbers, their residents paid about $473 billion in federal taxes and received about $533 billion in federal spending. In other words the seven states which want to secede the most pocketed a $60 billion subsidy from Uncle Sam. That works out at about $700 for every household in the rest of the country.

      Meanwhile, most states in the Northeast, around the Great Lakes and on the West Coast paid in more than they got back. Californians paid $1,300 more in taxes than they got back in federal spending at last count, according to the Tax Foundation. New Yorkers paid $2,200. New Jerseyans: $3,200.

      The real mystery is why voters in these states continually vote for more federal programs. They’re turkeys voting for Thanksgiving.

      Some years ago, over lunch, I put this to a Massachusetts Congressman. He had no response.

      Bottom line?

      If you live in the New Confederacy, and the local secession movement really gathers momentum, you may want to make two smart financial moves.

      The first is to sell your home, and rent.

      The second is to withdraw your money from your local bank before it gets forcibly converted into Confederate dollars. Can I recommend Swiss francs

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      Honycoatd says:

      Choco-latte,

      One of my ex bff was a Historian and I will say this much. When he gets into teaching or posting questions to make you think or we are merely just discussing ideas… days will pass and I am in the same spot with him. Our energies develops a whole new world for us.

    129. 129
      Ace says:

      Honycoatd says:

      Are you on a private vpn @ Aceswild?
      ————————————————————————–

      much better sitting on a dedicated t3 at work and i’m the IS here.. but i do most my downloading remoted back to the house…

    130. 130
      OutsidetheBox says:

      Kita Bew :kiss:

    131. 131
      NaijaGal says:

      I won’t lie the beat jams but one day I listend to the lyrics :eek:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      I woulda love to have had a little cousin (since you are my Auntie in my head) who had a head fulla freeze curls.
      ___________________________________________

      Too soon. :ghost: You just got back already killing..

    133. 133
      kingstonn says:

      @ kita
      look my those twins! so adorable… :love:
      went to target with my mom yesterday and this lady refused to believe that was my mom. :wail:

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      Who Dat says:

      I’m confused? So Sandra do you consider yourself to be out of balance as well. Two women need sperm to make a baby, and two men need an egg. So is it obvious that you don’t like being gay? Please explain?

      ^^^ Somebody already tole her to find her nearest real life baloney pony and to report back afterwards.

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      iWhip says:

      OutsidetheBox says:

      You can’t threaten me with a good time
      _____________________________________

      Excellent. In the interest of full disclosure..Everytime you’re here, Im word fukking you anyway…these other ppl = voyeurs.. :eek:

      If I warnt such a fukkinladeee, I would insert a :lick: emote —> here <— .

      :tea:

      :dead: ship my :popcorn: to heabin!

      #voyercomment

    136. 136
      SuthernBelle4 says:

      @Kuntry Cuz I miss-ded you but I am glad you are back :rofl:
      Everytime I refresh I’m like damn ole boy is purty

    137. 137
      MissHarlem says:

      :yawn: Frank Ocean and his music never did nothing for me so :shrug: and that Thinking of You song makes me laugh uncontrolably and I dont know why so I rush to turn it off.

    138. 138
      OutsidetheBox says:

      OTB,

      I agree with Alicia.
      ______________________

      @Hony That Mashonda is lying? :thinking: She didnt say they were divorced…

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      @ Jay..You’re just now seeing gravis? :rofl:

      Nikki hates that too.

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      Honycoatd says:

      Luvin you,

      Alot of those red states do not even come as close to paying federal taxes to how much federal aid they receive so it is just ignorant on their part.

      :coffee: Then again it is just the story of ages becoming reality when each of us making the decision of what side we will be fighting on.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Outside the box…
      Tell dat bish behave and maybe you’ll return his dawg @$$ when ur done with him.

      ______________________________________________________

      :rofl: :rofl: I wish I knew you better…I’d tell you how I almost asked her to exchange his ass for hers..

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      Who Dat says:

      please lawd i knowed i had asked & BEGGED for KDUB to return, but she gone be the living DEF a meh!
      ^^^

      What I say :shrug:

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      iWhip says:

      that guhl is a LIYAH!!! :crying: i’m gone ALWAYS hear it like that nah! :listen:

      i aint like the song no way doe so, :tea:

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      scorpio says:

      Who Dat says:

      I’m confused? So Sandra do you consider yourself to be out of balance as well. Two women need sperm to make a baby, and two men need an egg. So is it obvious that you don’t like being gay? Please explain?

      ^^^ Somebody already tole her to find her nearest real life baloney pony and to report back afterwards.
      ———————————————————————–
      Okay. Thanks for the heads up.

    145. 145

      I think she run everybody off with that. Works with me for sure. I dont have the patience. I know where she live.
      ___________________________
      :yes: I would defriend her azz and let her know where you can take her childish azz antic

      @Honey
      He and I have always been there >>>><<<< – like I can read his mind and visualize what he is saying and I mean he gets so deep that most folks would think he's crazy but the thing is all of what he was telling me I suspected as much and yeah I get how you can be is someone's world – I actually love becuz it stratosphermic (sp?) He stimulated my mind so much that it's like I'm still processing all of our discussion but so intrigued

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      candibfly says:

      baloney pony :hahaha:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      who a bottom bish
      _________________

      Ms. Jackson…if you nasty.. :halo:

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      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      No not the lying part. I was not there but the part about not fighting what is not true.

      Things are not always so cut and dry straight done the middle. The only person with more information in this situation is Swizz since he was dealing with both.

    149. 149
      Who Dat says:

      That Mashonda is lying? She didnt say they were divorced…
      ^^ Right…that is why I said that Alicia…

      That bisshhhh is a LIYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYAR…that hoe is a LYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYARRRRRRRRRRR

      Sorry I aint specify…when I said that I meant AK was ly-nin

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      The American bubble is real
      __________________________

      +1 And damn near impenetrable..even with the world wide web. :eek: Folks will say this is my truth and we have been living it for centuries…and the American Internet will say hogwash.. :lol:

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      bubblicious says:

      Did I see something about baloney? Yeah. There’s a lot of that in this post.

    153. 153
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      Yep ironically he discussed the internet and true to OTB he said they were doing that 20 years and and initially it was to share information and files from the CIA and FBI -

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      :rofl: I hate @OTB
      I don’t care about Alicia Fleas and her love triangle, what I would like her to do is stop pretending she is a singer. All jokes aside I always though Alicia liked the womenz and in my mind I am waiting for her and her partner to reveal that Swiss was just needed to help them make a baby :tea:

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      GellySammich says:

      *scoots closer slowly* We can talk about Michael if you want

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      iWhip says:

      What I say :shrug:

      :blink:

      oh nothin, busceptin:

      exhibit A:
      girl on FIYah” ia a Liyah!

      ^^ That bish is a LIYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYAH
      That hoe is a LIYAhHhYAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHaHHHHHHHHHHH

      exhibit A.2:

      As a nurse you know there were ways. I woulda love to have had a little cousin (since you are my Auntie in my head) who had a head fulla freeze curls.

      exhibit A 3/4:
      Somebody already tole her to find her nearest real life baloney pony and to report back afterwards.

      just that :tea:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Choco-latte,

      That is how I felt with the oldest bff. But it is so dangerous for we are 1 in so many ways but I came to realize he was benefitting way more than I was and it would hurt me when he got enough of what I was giving but I never got what I wanted. I will not take away our mental connection for sure it was sick how intune we were but I was in love and he just loved. Now let me laugh at that situation now that I am thinking about it :rofl:

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      Ace says:

      Found it…thanks baby ….isohunt was the winner..

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      iWhip says:

      Alicia Fleas :ghost:

      :bye: Suthern!!!

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      Honycoatd says:

      Aceswild,

      That cool. Have you all been testing out win 8? Are you changing over?

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      @LuVn Secession jokes :haha:

      “I think the reason that Texas wants to secede is because most of the people who live there think that means “to attain success or accomplishment.” :thinking:

      “Let’s unite as a nation this Thanksgiving to relentlessly make fun of secessionists.” :2dance:

      “I hope sharing Thanksgiving dinner isn’t too socialist for your Republican relatives.”

    164. 164
      Honycoatd says:

      I hate isohunt. Alot of farts and their dead links.

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      Who Dat says:

      and in my mind I am waiting for her and her partner to reveal that Swiss was just needed to help them make a baby
      ———————————————
      I was riding with this until…I remma’d…just now… what that Gonzo nosed muthafawka looked like. If this is true… she took one HELLEVA genetic gamble. :no:

      R&B divas be gambling with they DNA…they eggs like hail these days…Patti LaBelle knew that her original face was hit like HAIL. So she married handsome. I mean he was GAY…but he was nice looking.

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      :lol:

    167. 167

      Hey Fay Hey! :hug:

      I’m so sleepy. :(

    168. 168

      @ Honi….It was the 3rd option he was given. :coffee:

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      Honycoatd says:

      OTb,

      But that is their truth tho. Often times we speak on our behalf but not for the other 6 billion and plus people especially when you are closed minded, have not travelled or even question what is out there besides in your town and such.

    170. 170

      Choco-latte,

      That is how I felt with the oldest bff. But it is so dangerous for we are 1 in so many ways but I came to realize he was benefitting way more than I was and it would hurt me when he got enough of what I was giving but I never got what I wanted. I will not take away our mental connection for sure it was sick how intune we were but I was in love and he just loved. Now let me laugh at that situation now that I am thinking about it
      ______________________
      :lol:
      Nothing wrong with you being in love with your BFF I probably was in love with him at one time but I knew he was a womanizer so I just kept it real with myself but – yeah I can totally relate to where you are coming from – I don’t have any regrets its goin on 20 years later and the man I first met to the man I know now – keeps getting more AWESOME he is flawed but arent we all

    171. 171
      Ace says:

      Honycoatd says:

      Aceswild,

      That cool. Have you all been testing out win 8? Are you changing over?
      ————————————————————————–

      we got 233 machines to upgrade…24 are not hardware compliaint so will have to be replaced….

      we are getting quotes now…will probably be getting Windows 8 Volume license and downgrading them to 7 for more of a easy transition..plus some of our software providers arn’t ready to be on 8 until the first SP drops.

    172. 172
      VDot says:

      Excellent. In the interest of full disclosure..Everytime you’re here, Im word fukking you anyway…these other ppl = voyeurs..

      If I warnt such a fukkinladeee, I would insert a emote —> here <— .

      ________________________________________________________________________

      I like it when you talk like that ;)

      Turns me on :ashamed:

    173. 173
      NaijaGal says:

      These red necks down here in Texas ain’t doing ish…they better hope Mexico doesn’t decide to take back their country :tea:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      I was not there but the part about not fighting what is not true.
      __________________________________________________________________

      Thats just it…whether he was in love with Mashonda is irrelevant. Alicia Keys, America’s Sweetheart, got with a married man.

      Maybe we disagree on whats cheating. Swizz while married for me, equals not available to date. Whether they live together or not.

      The legality of the situation trumps his loins and feelings. IMO.

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      Ace says:

      @Babe..

      it has been moved to Dropbox…for sampling… *cough*

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      @Whip hey purty lady :waves:
      @Kuntry Cuz the only reason I said that was because the old folks say funny looking folks make purty babies. Alicia ain’t nothing to write home about and well Swiss, yeah!

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      GellySammich says:

      hhhmmm… that shoulda worked… lemme try this one… OTB… what Beyonce doing? *holds breath*

    178. 178
      Bad Influence says:

      oh herro! herro!! :woohoo:

      :newbie:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Cool Dimpz your a good helper.

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      I go to thew gym faithfully 3-4Xs a week for the last 12 weeks and still weight the same :popcorn: <– I wonder if these chocolate covered cookie dough bites could be a problem :think:

    181. 181
      OutsidetheBox says:

      when I said that I meant AK was ly-nin

      _____________________________________

      :yes: No. We here. Hony thinks Swizz’s “heart” matters, I think.

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      Iheart says:

      Who Dat says:

      “girl on FIYah” ia a Liyah!

      ^^ That bish is a LIYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYAH
      That hoe is a LIYAhHhYAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHaHHHHHHHHHHH

      ____________________

      :dead: :dead: :dead: whyyyyyyyyyy

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      Iheart says:

      @OTB, Is that the Weekend in your Gravi? :thinking:

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      bubblicious says:

      @SIS & VDOT

      You’re knocking Nature out of balance. Stop it.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Patti LaBelle knew that her original face was hit like HAIL

      See.. :ghost:

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      San says:

      He got mo’ rings on his hand then me and all the other women around me

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      @SandraRose why are you coming for @Toure so hard on twitter :lol:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Choco-latte,

      Darn it that is my ex bff to a T and we had been friendly for 15 yrs but a womanizer he is and it makes me sick when I pop my head out the bubble he gets me in.

    190. 190

      :lol: @ Luvin

      @ BewBear…..Good lookin out. :coffee:
      @ Honni…Thank you. :hug:

    191. 191
      luVn_liFe... says:

      The gulf Is never going to recover!

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      even question what is out there besides in your town and such.
      ______________________________________________________________

      :yes: ^^^^^ The lack of this might be the part that makes me saddest…everybody wont be able to travel, but God willing you can think outside of your box..

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      Dymond says:

      :boobs: heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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      1 more hour. :wail:

      *Hides behind Shaun and Ace*

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      Bad Influence says:

      so noneeeeeeeeeeeeeee of u ig’nant bishes saw me speak?

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      GellySammich says:

      :shrug:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      *scoots closer slowly* We can talk about Michael if you want
      ___________________________________
      @GellySammich This one ^^^ didnt work? :hahaha: Girl you crazy…keep it up.

      *whispers* She in the studio. Go check on your faves. :tea:

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      Angiegirl says:

      luVn_liFe… says:

      @SandraRose why are you coming for @Toure so hard on twitter

      ________________________

      ReCap please!!! This day is dragging :coffee:
      And my bowels aint moving right :ashamed:

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      GellySammich says:

      Bad Influence says:

      so noneeeeeeeeeeeeeee of u ig’nant bishes saw me speak?
      ____________
      I’ve been chattin myself up for the last 5 minutes… join the club

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      Angiegirl says:

      :thinking: where is DTTS today?

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      SuthernBelle4 says:

      @luvn I hate you boo, my eating habits are the death of me. I like exerising but when it comes to parting with my junk food, shoot, I gotta get better at I just don’t know what to do!

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      :wave: Dymond Long time. . .
      @Dimpz :chase: put Yo big gurl Drawls on and get it together.You stressing urself bout going to the Dentist is going to make the situation worse! :hug: Now goone

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      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      I can just looking at it from Alicia’s point of view. Not that I accept it but it is hers and why should I argue with that. Personally to me it was not right and I can see Mashonda’s point. But if you believe in somethng and someone elses does not it is not a easy battle to change eithers thought on the matter. In due time one will change. I don’t look at most things and think right or wrong but more like what influenced that idea or thought that they have.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      PAULETTE…are those Bugle Boy jeans youre wearing…with strategically placed cutouts? Come sit by me..

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      bubblicious says:

      @BAD & GELLY

      Hello cause I’m the only one that cares about your fonts.

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      MissHarlem says:

      Her nose was hit not her face :rofl:

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      A.J. says:

      :karate:I cant deal with punks that wear kung-fu scarves as ready-wear.

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      Dymond says:

      heyyyyyyyyyy Dimpz :hug:

      His :coffee:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Is that the Weekend in your Gravi?
      _________________________________

      :yes: Hey @ :heart: . :hug:

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      Ty says:

      We definitely need a windmill emote for this one hunty :hahaha:

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      @ Luv…I’m not stressin…ION think. I had a couple ppl tell me to stop being a punk yesterday. I had two kids with NO drugs, this shouldn’t be shyt. Nobody feels my pain. :(

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      NaijaGal says:

      DYMONDs are a girl’s best friend :yahoo: how’s the new gig?

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      @ Southern >>>>weRhere!<<<<<<
      I am Really going to get dedicated about my eating habits after March :tea:

      @HIS :spank: girl i showed You love and tole you about how impotent :D you was when U wasa getting Dressed fo work

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      GellySammich says:

      bubblicious says:

      @BAD & GELLY

      Hello cause I’m the only one that cares about your fonts.
      ____________________
      Lies!! You just igged the shyt outta me :lol: see #156

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      Bad Influence says:

      oh Gelly :waves:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      @SIS & VDOT

      You’re knocking Nature out of balance. Stop it.

      _________________________________________________

      *throws soda can…in the trash, not recycle*
      :eek:

      *dumps oil down the drain*
      :eek:

      Fukk natureeee. Rawrrr. :lol:

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      Iheart says:

      Hey Hissy :boobs:

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      Bad Influence says:

      @LuVn, and thats why ur my bew :hug:

      @Bubb, mhm hello ma’am :hi:

      DYSHAUN, i will not sit next to my OLD bish :nono: u just want that old thing back..

      oh hello Dymond :coffee:

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      Dymond says:

      Sandra, Frank also took Willy as his +1 for that GQ party they had for RhiRhi :coffee: you don’t have a pick of that?

      I like Frank but I can’t help but think of gay sex when he says “I remember my first time….a new feel” I try not to but I can’t help it

      :waves: heyyyyy luv’n

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      Ty says:

      Anyone heard much of “The Weeknd”? i caught two songs on the radio during lunch had me vibin.. niccas got an album? mixtape?
      ___________
      yes…love them. I thought folks would’ve jumped on them when they did the collabo with Drake :shrug: Glad they are getting radio play :thumbsup:

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      NaijaGal says:

      BAD ‘FLU *I’d follow you to the moon in the sky above* :love:

    223. 223
      GellySammich says:

      hey there SugaMama@ HisBad

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      Iheart says:

      @Otb, I saw him in concert in ATL last month and he was BANGING! :listen:

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      Bad Influence says:

      Iheart :yahoo: lil selena still going strong huh? :hahaha:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Aceswild,

      I think company’s are making a big mistake with upgrading so soon. Windows 8 got so many faults alrdy and is like a Hybrid OS like Window ME and Vista was. I told our Company we should wait until the next OS release to upgrade and by then we will have more compatibility. It is also not wise especially if you work for a large corporation like I do. Windows 8 is nothing like Windows 7 and training a mass production team is not cheap.

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      @SandraRose
      Your heart pumps Maple syrup @toure. Everyone knows that except you.. and your long-suffering wife.

    228. 228

      I’mma miss yall next week. :wail: :hug: All around

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      Ty says:

      Fugging LOVE LOVE LOVE The Weeknd. He’s just one guy.
      ____________
      I thought it was two :rofl:

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      Dymond says:

      heyyyyyyy Naija :kiss: I love it! Thank God for the blessing and thanks for asking. :hug:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Baddie Flu,

      Hi babycakes your late!

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      Dymond says:

      @HIS girl i showed You love and tole you about how impotent :D you was when U wasa getting Dressed fo work

      :gossip:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Ty nah its one but he has a band but it is not part of his name hehehehe

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      Ni ni says:

      Frank Ocean and his music never did nothing for me so and that Thinking of You song makes me laugh uncontrolably and I dont know why so I rush to turn it off. by MissHarlem …lol me too. It came on the oth day on ricky smiley and itried but couldnt listen to that song. I started getting visuals of two dudes and had to flip to tom joyner

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      MissHarlem says:

      Can we get a new post for the love of Hesus, The Bible, The Koran and any other thing holy

    237. 237

      :think: I don’t think i’ve listened to my Take Care CD one. :no:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      “I can just looking at it from Alicia’s point of view. Not that I accept it but it is hers and why should I argue with that. Personally to me it was not right and I can see Mashonda’s point. In due time one will change. I don’t look at most things and think right or wrong but more like what influenced that idea or thought that they have.”
      ________________________________

      Who’s arguing with her…I can choose to support or not based on her actions if you will. Not me, per se, but the public.

      I try to be openminded as much as possible, sometimes to a fault. But some chit is right vs. wrong and nothing more or less.

      A woman on a girl power platform..needs to respect the morality and sanctity of a marriage, imo. Or risk the public backlash since she is a public figure.

      “But if you believe in somethng and someone elses does not it is not a easy battle to change eithers thought on the matter.”
      ___________________________________________________
      So when the next one does it to her, you saying she should not react like Mashonda right? I agree. :yes: She hasnt earned that.

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      Iheart says:

      @His, I done tald yall bishes she aint goin no where til IM good and damn ready :nono: Or until i find something even more ratchet :lol:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      @ DYMOND :eek:

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      bubblicious says:

      @GELLY

      Oh. What you want to say about Micheal? Keep it cute.

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      Iheart says:

      Hello Bubblicious :coffee:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      u just want that old thing back..
      ___________________________________

      Guilty. :( Girl you know I, I, I love you. No matter what chu do.

      *drops down on knees*

      :(

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      iWhip says:

      :hahaha: CTFU & HIS & OTB imaginary rivalry :duel:

      sup HIS
      Dymond
      Dimpz
      Gelly
      Luvn
      Angie
      HubbaBubbs
      San
      Iheart
      & ANTYbody else i missed, happy friday! :party:
      :listen: <—Solange is our DJ

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      prynsexxx says:

      @luvn

      Did you see the “letter” :obama: “wrote” to TX about their seccession from the United States? TOO FUNNY! :rofl:

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      Dymond says:

      hey Harlem :love: <— lust

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      MissHarlem says:

      NINI I just cant get into ANYTHING Frank Ocean. I wont knock his shine or talent but his music is not for my ears and his face is not for my retina so :shrug:

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      DoNotDeleteMe says:

      Francis “Deep Throat” Ocean has a purrty boy toy! :cheer:

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      Honycoatd says:

      Babydoll,

      I think have a Vista computer here that is my childrens jumpstart gaming computer and I refuse to upgrade it.

      Aceswild,

      And to add too the support licensing for Windows XP is not up until 2014 and Microsoft is not really trying to help home users unless they are going to pocket up with this new OS.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      I saw him in concert in ATL last month and he was BANGING!
      _______________________________

      :cuss: OOOOO I won some tickets to the House of Blues to see him and didnt go. FML.

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      Ace says:

      Honycoatd says:

      Aceswild,

      I think company’s are making a big mistake with upgrading so soon. Windows 8 got so many faults alrdy and is like a Hybrid OS like Window ME and Vista was. I told our Company we should wait until the next OS release to upgrade and by then we will have more compatibility. It is also not wise especially if you work for a large corporation like I do. Windows 8 is nothing like Windows 7 and training a mass production team is not cheap.
      ————————————————————————

      Yeah that’s why we are gonna pay for 8 and downgrade to 7…7 seems to be the “new” XP…8 is more of a radical change…that our users arnt gonna have the patience to deal with in a office setting. and again even our software providers arnt gonna be going to 8 until the first Service Pack drops so that’s also dictating our move to 7 …but XP is dying and we gotta go somewhere…and buying 8 and downgrading makes it easy to move to 8 if and when when decide to do so…even just for R&D

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      MissHarlem says:

      DYMOND hello hun :hug:

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      iWhip says:

      luVn_liFe… says:

      @SandraRose
      Your heart pumps Maple syrup @toure. Everyone knows that except you.. and your long-suffering wife.

      :dead:

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      Iheart says:

      Fay Fay :yahoo: !! I’ll be ordering more whip soon!! Maaannn look here, i so over this natural TWA stage. :mad: I had made me an appt yesterday to go back to the creamy crack but i cancelled at the last minute :lol:

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      Dymond says:

      why I get lala eyes luv’n?

      iWhip :yahoo: hello sexy

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      Bad Influence says:

      @Naija, *i get so weak in the knees..i can hardly speak* :love:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      @ Prynn I did NOT,but judging by Yo font i need too.
      @ fay how’s the headache? Can Solange Rock the House?

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      bubblicious says:

      @iHEART

      Enjoying your cuppa up there?

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Windows 8 is nothing like Windows 7 and training a mass production team is not cheap.
      ___________________________________________

      And a real headache when they ass can barely handle like Windows 2000 :eek:

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      @ Hony….My kids have Vista on their’s Jordan makes Terrorist face at me everytime I tell him he has to use it because i’m on mine. :ashamed:

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      Angiegirl says:

      Hey fay-fay!!! :danban:

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      iWhip says:

      the awkward moment when you have the munchies but dont wanna brang yo high down by eating? yeah that :smoke:

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      Iheart says:

      251 OutsidetheBox says:

      I saw him in concert in ATL last month and he was BANGING!
      _______________________________

      OOOOO I won some tickets to the House of Blues to see him and didnt
      ________________

      You missed a good show guhl! :yes: I was amazed that he has such a diverse following. When we got there and i saw some of the people, i just knew it had to be more than one show going on, :lol:

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      Choco-latte,

      Darn it that is my ex bff to a T and we had been friendly for 15 yrs but a womanizer he is and it makes me sick when I pop my head out the bubble he gets me in.
      _________________________
      :grin: The way I had to come to terms with it is I realized he is a POWER STRONG FORCE – he has an authorative spirit without abusing his authority and ppl male and female are magneted to him – He’s successful and very talented – but perhaps he is JUST TO MUCH MAN for just one woman place or thing feel me? He’s like an Egnima to me perhaps that is one you are dealing with also

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      Ace says:

      *makes a reminder to call dimpz at 7PM cst*

      to fuss at her for not takin no meds..

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      @ IHeart….I think i’m gonna go back to that creamy stuff next year. :(

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      Ty says:

      @Hony.. I see LOL I had no idea it was three mixtapes though :blink:

      Where is Creamy :think:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      :newpost:
      Celeb Pics :newpost:

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      GellySammich says:

      bubblicious says:

      @GELLY

      Oh. What you want to say about Micheal? Keep it cute.
      _________________
      Cute? :love: We can keep it B-E-A-yootiful. But dang I ain’t really have nothing to say cuz I didn’t expect that to work *scrambling to find something* I wore his hat once? That’s all I got :spent:

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      *Makes mental note to take the FIRST damned pill*

      :D

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      Ace says:

      I wouldnt give Vista to the little Somalian kids on those $100 Laptops with the cranks…

      **** was/is the devil….

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      Iheart says:

      @Dimpz, I won’t judge you either :nono: Cause this natural struggle is very real and aint nobody got time fa DAT :cuss:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      @Dymond for your :gossip: to #233 :)

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      Diva says:

      What ya’ll heffas talking bout now?

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      iWhip says:

      Iheart says:

      Fay Fay :yahoo: !! I’ll be ordering more whip soon!! Maaannn look here, i so over this natural TWA stage. :mad: I had made me an appt yesterday to go back to the creamy crack but i cancelled at the last minute :lol:

      :dance: <—hair wholly ghost dance
      girl u gone be out that stage foe u know it complaining bout all the hair u gotta do! :hug:

      i's proud a yew lil mama, eem tho i hatechu foe yo gravi :yes:

      Luvn :love: u r THEE sweetest. it's much better now, thank you!!

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      I started getting visuals of two dudes and had to flip to tom joyner
      ____________________________________

      Ok; I’ll bite with you and @HarlemShaker…bias/prejudice much? :thinking:

      Luther Vandross evoke these feelings for you… or because he didnt admit it maybe (homo state, I mean), he passes?

      Frank doesnt bother me in the least..I dont see him doing the butt or nuffin… and he’s bi..does that not matter? I mean you could choose to see a woman, no?

      SN: Not BEING SNARKY. Pure convo/thought process interest.

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      Bad Influence says:

      Dymond says:

      @HIS girl i showed You love and tole you about how impotent you was when U wasa getting Dressed fo work

      schemin’ ass thirsty broads i tell ya…

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      :waves: @ FAY and HIS :hugs: @ Dimpz

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      GellySammich says:

      snarky *Beavis laugh*

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Can Solange Rock the House?
      ___________________________

      :eek: :yes:

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      Ace says:

      going to do some actual work be back in a few

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      Honycoatd says:

      Aceswild,

      I missed the downgrading to 7 part. That is wise. We are basically doing the same thing.

      Babydoll,

      I don’t blame him. Tell Aceswild to have build J a new upgraded computer so he can be on the new stuff while you’re on yours.

      (Guys normally have parts laying around plus he does live close to you (I think)).

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      That part @263. But I grab something..then fire up agane. :ashamed:

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      Bad Influence says:

      hey HONY :waves:

      Choc, u still in heat yo? :hahaha:

      FAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY :woohoo:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      schemin’ ass thirsty broads i tell ya…

      :dead:

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      Dymond says:

      @ luv’n oh :rofl:

      Chocooooooooo I got my first birchbox coming…you still fool with them?

      :koolaid3: fully hydrated

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      Bad Influence says:

      Jackson :love: i cant fight it no moreeeeeeeeeeeeeee. i miss ya hunty. come awn back home :hug:

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      MissHarlem says:

      OTB no not because he is gay bc Luther is still my fav and I know he had cashmere walls :lol: something about Frank before the coming out I cant get with. Wont ever be negative about his talent bc its there and evident.

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      Diva says:

      So nobody see my font asking what ya’ll talmbout :cuss: I ain’t having it this afternoon YALL HEAR MEH!!!!! *screaming*

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      Bad Influence says:

      @287 *looks at my phone* girl u lust is cute…too bad (for u) im where she wants to be :yes:

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      @DYMOND
      :lol: No I did it for a whole year and I have boxes of samples I need to use up but I do love their products so KUDOS

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      @Diva :newpost: thats what we Talkin bout!
      @Dymond JuW Hydrated Nah? :D

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      Bad Influence says:

      Diva :hug: *hands u a box of wine* #classy :D

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      @Diva
      We didn’t respond cuz there is always several topics going on #USUAL :wink:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      Post updated with video of Frank Ocean taking Willy to the GQ Awards as his date. Watch as Pretty Willy waits patiently while Frank is interviewed.

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      Honycoatd says:

      Choco-latte,

      That is him. I was a young teenager when we met and he was about to turn 26 and I tell you back then we was discovering things and to see him now makes me cry is pride. I accepted that he loves me but I am truly a reflection of him and he does not have the patience like I have had for 15 years.

      Plus he is on I want dark babies chit and that annoys me when we get use to get into why we can’t move forward. So f- him.

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      Diva says:

      Bad Influence says:

      Diva *hands u a box of wine* #classy

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Don’t be tryna get on my good side gal….you called me a fossil butt yestaday evening :rofl: *grabs box of wine*

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      Diva says:

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      @Diva
      We didn’t respond cuz there is always several topics going on #USUAL

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Now I know that but somebody could have gave me one of the topics at least! Whats the matter fo ya’ll? :cry:

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      Dymond says:

      you’re welcome Sandra :coffee:

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      Diva says:

      *storms outta this post and goes upstairs*

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      Honycoatd says:

      Baddie Flu,

      Choco heatism seems to have died.

      Did Carrington tell us why he was such a gentleman?

      I did not go back to check what happened after I went to children’s practice.

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      Dymond says:

      Hey Hony and Diva :waves:

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      Honycoatd says:

      A fossil butt? :rofl: That Baddie I tell you she got a mouth on her.

      “Dust to dust and ashes to ashes…” if that was the case for the true fossil butts.

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      Honycoatd says:

      Dy-mond Princess but not Trina,

      How are you hun? How is pole exercising going? Gosh, have not seen you in months :kiss: :hug:

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      Someone updated this picture of Frank looking like a pervert smurf :rofl: :rofl:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      :love: :hump: <—makeup. Your back? OUT.. :hug:

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      Honycoatd says:

      OTB so you still browse fish markets?

      I was catching your clue up top.

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      Sandra Rose says:

      Post updated with photo of Frank Ocean giving Willy Carter that “look” on the red carpet at the GQ Awards. Willy was Frank’s date.

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      Choco heatism seems to have died.
      _______________________
      :lol: After what I went thru this morning I won’t ever scream about being in heat this morning I swear for GAWD that was unconsensual rape :crying: That’s why my nerves are bad :rofl: :rofl: Its not funny but I really went thru something a bit traumatizing #SILVERBACK on the LOOSE

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      Ace says:

      Honycoatd says:

      Aceswild,

      I missed the downgrading to 7 part. That is wise. We are basically doing the same thing.

      Babydoll,

      I don’t blame him. Tell Aceswild to have build J a new upgraded computer so he can be on the new stuff while you’re on yours.

      (Guys normally have parts laying around plus he does live close to you (I think)).
      ————————————————————————

      720mi Door to Door…

      but whose counting… :kona:

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      Also I don’t know who was talking about catfish but I watched it last night and it’s a bit interesting

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      Sandra Rose says:

      @ Dymond: I had to scroll up to see what your were referring to. :lol:

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