Tyrese Gibson and Rev. Run Offer Relationship Advice in New Book
RUN DMC’s Joseph “Rev Run” Simmons, 48, and R&B singer Tyrese Gibson, 34, wrote a book together titled Manology: Secrets of Your Man’s Mind Revealed.
The book which hit shelves Tuesday (Feb. 5) explores love and life and offers “struggling” women friendly advice on understanding the games your men play.
The press release describes Manology as “a guide to regaining your relationship confidence and weeding out the cheaters, MANipulators, and pimps from the good men.” If that sounds familiar, it’s because Tyrese and Rev. Run used comedian and radio host Steve Harvey’s best seller, Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man, as inspiration.
“Our prayer is that women that are hurting and disillusioned are able to find beauty in self,” write singer-turned-actor Tyrese Gibson and Rev. Run.
Tyrese and the good reverend were seen exiting the Pix11 Morning News studios in New York Wednesday, where they talked about their book. Tyrese is also on the hot seat for criticizing President Obama and Oprah Winfrey for ignoring the plights of black people (but I’ll save that discussion for another blog post).
Tyrese and Rev. Run’s relationship advice often conflicts, as in the single dad’s suggestion that women “live it up” and have sex on the first date if the “vibe and the chemistry is right.” Rev. Run, a married father of 6, takes a more conservative approach to sex on the first date: “I believe a woman should definitely keep herself in a position of mystery and mystique… if you want keep the dude,” Simmons said in an interview with USA Today.
You can purchase Manology by clicking here.
Photo: Derek Storm / Splash News
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Per Twitter, Tyrese is the male equivalent to Fantasia, in terms of you know….um, book sense. So I will chalk this up as a book by Rev Run and an unknown writer that let Tyrese take the credit of his work. Dude sure can hold a tune tho.
Who ain’t giving relationship advice these days?
These hoes know who they wanna phuck mayne.
@CHAN
Tyrese is the male equivalent to Fantasia, in terms of you know….um, book sense.
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I think Fantasia would be “in-salted” at that comparison.
LORD LORD LORD…Tyrese! Fine azz!
OH O.K
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Who ain’t giving relationship advice these days?
These hoes know who they wanna phuck mayne.
^^^ Thank you MAN!! Kim & em shole do kno who they gonna phluck and how much they charging for the puss b4 they ever meet dude.
Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man, as inspiration.
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^^^ Which was garbage by the way
if you ask me… All that crap in that book was common sense. My sister brought me that book and I was not impressed. Don’t get me wrong, it was truth, but did we really need a damn book for what he was saying. Then the sad part about, most of the women I know who loved that book, still in the same relationship situation 
@ Man
She just can’t when for loosing can she?
I remember when I saw a tweet from Tyrese that stated the following:
Dear Pandora, I don’t know you, but everyone tells me you always play my music. Thanks!!!
Shouldn’t the pre-requisite to penning a ‘self-help’ book be not needing the ‘help’ your peddling?? who tf told TyTy ol single azz he was qualified to give advice.
Books: I gotta make it to Heaven for going thru Hell available at amazon, kindle and barnesandnoble…… #shamlessplug
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Who ain’t giving relationship advice these days?
________________
It’s like I tell my female friends (but they don’t want to listen), men know what they are put on earth to do – and they are doing it whether you like it or not.
I tell you what tho, I will listen to them before I listen to that damn Steve Harvey…
iAmChan says:
Per Twitter, Tyrese is the male equivalent to Fantasia, in terms of you know….um, book sense. So I will chalk this up as a book by Rev Run and an unknown writer that let Tyrese take the credit of his work. Dude sure can hold a tune tho.
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does Rev Run have on a mink shawl???
if you wanna sit at barnes and noble and skim through it cool…if you want to spend your money and peruse cool, but if you take the chit they said to heart then I’m just gonna
I remember when I saw a tweet from Tyrese that stated the following:
Dear Pandora, I don’t know you, but everyone tells me you always play my music. Thanks!!!
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Wow
@ iscream…..book written by and plot please. The title sums up my life.
Naija
you betta say that ish 
Tyrese and Rev. Run’s relationship advice often conflicts, as in the single dad’s suggestion that women “live it up” and have sex on the first date if the “vibe and the chemistry is right.”
Sooooo this is the advice Tyrese is given
this nucca maybe he should just stick with acting/singing and modeling wif his shirt off now that’s something i can get wif
I just love how it’s always books for women to get their chit together like these nigguhs don’t be on their “ain’t chit” steez
@ Sandra, is Tyrese a friend of the blog…or uhhh…..off limits from slander? I ask now, cuz if I continue, I may be on the Aint Shyt List pretty soon.
Ummmm Jody, sit cho azz down somewhere
Sweet-tea says:
LORD LORD LORD…Tyrese! Fine azz!
_________________
The finest ones are the most messed up ones. Take this advice from your auntie: avoid the fine ones.
Since we giving out books, I am reading a book called Proof of Heaven and its really interesting
if I can finish the damn book. Ugh when I finish this class I will though 
Miany says:
Shouldn’t the pre-requisite to penning a ‘self-help’ book be not needing the ‘help’ your peddling?? who tf told TyTy ol single azz he was qualified to give advice.
Exactly
Sandra Rose says:
Sweet-tea says:
LORD LORD LORD…Tyrese! Fine azz!
_________________
The finest ones are the most messed up ones. Take this advice from your auntie: avoid the fine ones.
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Lawd aint that the truth
I say preach that good word Sandra
NaijaGal says:
I just love how it’s always books for women to get their chit together like these nigguhs don’t be on their “ain’t chit” steez
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@imchan
Author Iesha Womack if you go to amazon you can find it with the reviews (all four star).
libra80sbaby says:
Ummmm Jody, sit cho azz down somewhere
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I just read this in ole girl voice
NaijaGal says:
I just love how it’s always books for women to get their chit together like these nigguhs don’t be on their “ain’t chit” steez
^^^DUHHHH don’t you know we (women) are responsible for ALL that is wrong in this world??? When a man neglects his responsibilities as a father? Blame the woman who got pregnant. When a man kills? Blame the mom (a woman) who raised him wrong….EVERYTHING is a woman’s fault….If a woman uses the word misogynistic to describe this mind set, they don’t change or improve theire mind set they just say… it’s her fault cuz a woman invented that word as well.
Tyrese should just sang the song like they tell him too, just as much as Rev Run should be doing some Hail Marys or “blessing” somebody JUST AS MUCH as Steve Harvey should be telling the jokes.
That being said, I can’t wait to got to New Orleans for Madi Gras! Owwwww!
Good luck to them. Relationship books are not a genre I’m interested in so no thanks.
but Naija they don’t give enough chits to read a book about getting right
women keep givin the goods to fools so fools will continue to be who they are
did Run write this book while soaking in his tub? Was black lipped Tyrese in the bathroom with him? i have more questions but fugg this book tho..
why does Tiny and Toboggan look like that in that pic downstairs?
@ NaijaGal
I think that men are quicker to embrace their inner “aint chit” before a woman is…
*Disclaimer*
NOT ALL WOMEN, and this is just the opinion of a man that confronted his inner aint chit at an early age.
IDK get that money they way you see fit. No relationship advice book is for me. Hell I dont even do mags that has sex advice Cosmo etc that for me stopped when I wasnt a teen anymore. Cant say chicks dont need it bc there are some dumb ahem less informed people who do need to read about common sense bc after all it aint so common.
Tyrese ain’t married
ain got nothing to learn from him. He tryna get on my level
*IDC
I love Rev Run
@MIANY
“When a man neglects his responsibilities as a father? Blame the woman who got pregnant. ”
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That is a woman’s fault tho.
donte
iscream
i guess i will speak to Sandra again!!!
Bad!
That is a woman’s fault tho.
_____________________________
#liestoldonsandrarose
And that Nigga just stopped saying VALENTIMES DAY!
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MIANY
“When a man neglects his responsibilities as a father? Blame the woman who got pregnant. ”
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That is a woman’s fault tho.
^^ I know.
@SANDRA
“Who ain’t giving relationship advice these days?
________________
It’s like I tell my female friends (but they don’t want to listen), men know what they are put on earth to do – and they are doing it whether you like it or not.”
_________________
So you puttin out a book Sandra? Chit, might as well. I think you and I could put one out.
“Men, They Goin Do What They Do, ACCEPT IT.”
Chit would sell billions.
if the penis wasn’t such a well crafted muscle I’d probably go ahead and be lesbian but with only a feminine lesbian cause the butches be tripping too
hello WOMAN
JUST AS MUCH as Steve Harvey should be telling the jokes.
Steve came to J’ville some years back he was so unfunny. He was like why yall ain’t laughing these jokes funny *crickets*
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Tyrese just mad girls thought he was ugly and wouldn’t give him any before he got put on…he needs to seek counseling and let that bitterness go
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MIANY
“When a man neglects his responsibilities as a father? Blame the woman who got pregnant. ”
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That is a woman’s fault tho.
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I agree. We the ones picking these azzholes that we already know are azzholes when we let them raw dog. Like the prison guard. I’m in that category right with her minus the convict.
Gellyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
is that that nigga @Man
@NAIJA
“if the penis wasn’t such a well crafted muscle I’d probably go ahead and be lesbian but with only a feminine lesbian cause the butches be tripping too”
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Lol. You can always switch back tho.
The only guidance book you will ever need is The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. These relationship books won’t help nun if your life ain’t in order.
I’ll take the word of someone who openly acknowledges that they’re a fukked up person before writing like they’re perfect.
Hey ya’ll….I feel a little relief. I talked to my mama and she is in good spirits…thanks again for your prayers and uplifting words….Now who gone make me laugh by telling me what crazinest I’ve missed?
I just read this on my FB:
Two hours into my first day of work as a WalMart greeter, an ugly woman came in with her two kids.
Hearing her swear at them, I said, “Good morning, welcome to WalMart. Nice kids, are they twins?”
The mom answered, “Hell no, they ain’t twins. The oldest one’s 9, and the other one’s 7. Why would you think they’re twins? Are you blind or stupid?”
I replied, “I’m not blind or stupid. I just couldn’t believe someone slept with you twice. Have a good day, and thank you for shopping at WalMart.”
My supervisor said I probably wasn’t cut out for this line of work.
@BIRD
““When a man neglects his responsibilities as a father? Blame the woman who got pregnant. ”
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That is a woman’s fault tho.
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I agree. We the ones picking these azzholes that we already know are azzholes when we let them raw dog. Like the prison guard. I’m in that category right with her minus the convict.”
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All day. BUT, if a ninja marry you and don’t take care of his kids, that’s on him. That’s different.
Whats up
@ Milky
Your Name Here
Miss Harlem
Man
Miany
Gelly
Gagirl
Donte
Bad
Jenie
Bird
Luvin
Twerk
Sweet
Niaja
Ladie
Caramel #HeyBoo
Sandra
If I missed ya, I didn’t see ya font.
I like Rev. Run…Tyrese, not so much
Someone gave me Steve Harvey’s book and I read it but majority of the book was not applicable to me nor my situation. I don’t think these self help books are the answer. As a semi-single woman, I can confirm that not all men are measured by the same ruler and by holding ALL men to an unrealistic standard of what your relationship “should be” determined by the likes of Steve Harvey or Rev. Run and Tyrese, is a recipe for disaster. I guess it’s a good outline but def not a Bible and a lot of this should be innate but there is a lot of trickery going on these days
I can’t take relationship advice from no body that ain’t married…. Rev Run Ok… Tyrese
To clarify… IDGAF who she let jizz out in her. If a baby was created BOTH should take care of it. If EITHER ONE decides not to take care of it THAT PARENT is the one who aint issh! The mom may be a ‘sucker for love’, mom may be ‘naive’ mom may even be ‘dumb’ but…..MOM isn’t responsible for DAD’s sorryness!
@BAD INFLUENCE
@Luvn thank you ma
IAMCHAN
sir 
AND ONE OF MY COWORKERS IS MUSTY AS HEYULL
@ YOUR NAME HERE!
Funny stuff there. I wouldn’t last an hour as a Walmart greeter.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
All day. BUT, if a ninja marry you and don’t take care of his kids, that’s on him. That’s different.
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I ain’t talking about hubby. I’m talking about baby daddy #1 (Got 2 of em. Hey I said I was stupid as the next chick)
LadieLeo says:
JUST AS MUCH as Steve Harvey should be telling the jokes.
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Steve came to J’ville some years back he was so unfunny. He was like why yall ain’t laughing these jokes funny
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LOL.. why did I read that in his Steve Hightower voice
“these jokes is funny”
Hey Chan
Hey Chan!! How are you bae? Did you sleep well? I missd u boo!
The finest ones are the most messed up ones.
SN: I hate tyrese fine arse!!
^^^^^^^^^^
Preach Sandra!! I have accepted my fate that I’m gon b single for life. I refuse to put up with shenanigans from ANY man. I’m not built for that, but apparently woman are
So @ Caramel Cutie
I take it that my font is not as dark as the rest of these fine posters this morning. Good day ma’am
Wait this nig Rev Run got a church or sumthin?
@MIANY
“To clarify… IDGAF who she let jizz out in her. If a baby was created BOTH should take care of it. If EITHER ONE decides not to take care of it THAT PARENT is the one who aint issh! The mom may be a ‘sucker for love’, mom may be ‘naive’ mom may even be ‘dumb’ but…..MOM isn’t responsible for DAD’s sorryness!”
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Mom, and Mom alone decides to give birth. That’s on her and her alone.
She need to accept that responsibility and quit blaming someone else for HER decision.
Maybe that’s why Steve ‘retired from standup’….I always thought he was funny on the radio…. I don’t like how Rickey Smiley over laughs at every one of his own jokes.
@ Caramel Cutie lol, see, every time I send a sharp comment, you hit me right in the face with a post…sorry boo. I slept great.
LOL.. why did I read that in his Steve Hightower voice
“these jokes is funny”
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Kenya that’s part of his problem as an actor. He doesn’t have a “Steve Hightower voice” or any other voice that’s not his own. He plays Steve Harvey everywhere he goes.
@ Man, we really gonna do this today?
Wait this nig Rev Run got a church or sumthin?
====================
NO
‘Manology’
Chan
Divaaaa im tew happy u feel a lil better bew
@Man, u are something special
Steve funny is small portions but a whole show…..I was like man I’m glad Monique was funny cause I was gonna need my money back.
So I take it I ain’t missed shyt this morning….nobody got carmelized other than Chan? He and Kenya still going hard at it
*in*
@Man…ok, I get it. Since she didn’t scrape the baby outta her, it’s her fault…thanks for explaining.
82 Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MIANY
“To clarify… IDGAF who she let jizz out in her. If a baby was created BOTH should take care of it. If EITHER ONE decides not to take care of it THAT PARENT is the one who aint issh! The mom may be a ‘sucker for love’, mom may be ‘naive’ mom may even be ‘dumb’ but…..MOM isn’t responsible for DAD’s sorryness!”
_______________
Mom, and Mom alone decides to give birth. That’s on her and her alone.
She need to accept that responsibility and quit blaming someone else for HER decision.
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I keep forgetting, women get pregnant by themselves. Silly me.
*waits for it*
way’min… que?
nebbamind..
oh & heyyyy yaw!
<—whip balm for Tyrese
*sigh* ermahgawd.. just..why
Miany says:
To clarify… IDGAF who she let jizz out in her. If a baby was created BOTH should take care of it. If EITHER ONE decides not to take care of it THAT PARENT is the one who aint issh! The mom may be a ‘sucker for love’, mom may be ‘naive’ mom may even be ‘dumb’ but…..MOM isn’t responsible for DAD’s sorryness!
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We gone have to agree to disagree on this here point. WE destroy our men by not expecting anything from them from birth and giving them the drawers when they don’t deserve for us to spit on them if they azz was on fire. Then we got the nerve to get mad when the nigra turn out to be the deadbeat he been showing us he was from day one. Me, I own my idiotic choices and keep it moving.
don’t like how Rickey Smiley over laughs at every one of his own jokes.
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He’s funny but he tells the same jokes. I just watched his comedy special the other day. It was the same church jokes…I go to church I know all them people too. We all got em in our church tell a new joke!
Dont be fooled men are just as bad if not worse than fine men with they no self-esteem arses. They be the first ones to cheat. Overweight ones as well #experiencespeaking
FAY!
listen here, im bout 2 order my Whip…how long do i have 2 wait to get it? 
WOMAN?!! Clearly thats not the way to greet me *sigh*
CHAN, GELLY
NAIJA
divvvaaaa
@Chan, I do that to keep you on ya toes! I was seeing you bae.. I gotta keep ya interested
All is well my dear
*falls* I knew it was coming!
“Ugly” men*
Harlem I spoke to you 97 posts ago!
I’m always down for a battle of the sexes, BUT in this case, the only way that a woman can make the decision to give birth or not ON THEIR OWN, is if they walk themselves to a sperm bank, choose specimen 39 to have impregnate her and go from there. Other than that, she aint skeeting in herself.
FAYLA
hey hun
Hey FAY!
Gelly, we STAY >here< *finger 2 eye gesture thingy*
GELLY
I know Im multitasking and was like Gelly spoke a min ago
Mom, and Mom alone decides to give birth. That’s on her and her alone.
She need to accept that responsibility and quit blaming someone else for HER decision.
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I actually agree with that.. **Don’t nobody hit me** I feel bad for “one night stands” or random hook ups that end up in pregnancy and clearly neither party intended for this to happen. Why should his life be changed completely b/c u decide to keep it? If a woman is promiscuous, there are ways to protect yourself from unwanted/unintended pregnancies that will save you alot of heartache down the road.
Woman if u dnt get yo ass over here
@Bird: I agree with you. Yes it takes two but when you choose the wrong mate, just be ready to deal with those consequences..Men don’t get off scott free either but if we demanded more from the get, we wouldn’t be left in such ****ty situations/circumstances sometimes. If we only realized the power we hold from within…
We wouldn’t be left with that stupid puta bytch fukkin off inmates raw. Ole nasty ass daddy issue having ass slore. They should leave her in the prison since she got so many fukkin prollems (shout out to A$AP Rocky) and let her be the prison pusscee. Take the kid from her too.
HIS
well being that i’m damn near whipping erryday 
it shouldn’t take but a lil over a week.
AND for my SR whippasnappas (exclusive here 1st
) i’m starting the testing my hold serum in the next few weeks, who wants to be a tester? 
@Chan, what kinda business thug
ur gravi is tickling me…is that an office pahtay?
@Bird…I feel you, I get what you’re saying. I have friends in that situation and yes, they knew dude wasn’t gonna be shiii from day one. So yes the woman has a lot of the blame but…Does that make it right for him to not be shii?? Honestly….The men in my family ARE expected to be shii and they bet not be caught being a dead beat dad so, I can’t give out free passes. I don’t think WE should give out free passes because if we do, we’re part of the problem. We are setting low expectations.
Gelly & Harlem!!
hey sweetcakes how’s life on today??
Bad Influence says:
Chan
Divaaaa im tew happy u feel a lil better bew
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Thank you hunni….I was just worried about my mama!!!!
FayMrsWhipfinityIfYewNassy
says:
HIS well being that i’m damn near whipping erryday it shouldn’t take but a lil over a week.
AND for my SR whippasnappas (exclusive here 1st ) i’m starting the testing my hold serum in the next few weeks, who wants to be a tester?
me me me
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yep Gellie, that is true..
Gigiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
hello my brown beauty 
@ Fay Where is the love?
Bad Influence says:
*sigh* ermahgawd.. just..why
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err time I see ermahgawd
FAYLLAAAA expound on the serum but of course I will test
newmom87 says:
Dont be fooled men are just as bad if not worse than fine men with they no self-esteem arses. They be the first ones to cheat. Overweight ones as well #experiencespeaking
^^^yup..think u doing something by giving an ugly dude a chance?? child boo…Like I said…Trifiling comes in all ages, shapes, genders, races, etc.
BAAAAADDD DARLING!!
A bish done had two nosebleeds today
One getting some chocolate cake too 
What is really going on? I don’t read “relationship” books nor do I take dating advice from these so-called “relationship gurus.” Trust and believe it is not hard out there for Black women to find a man. The problem is that Black males have been brainwashed by the media into thinking that their lives will drastically improve if they date, marry, and/or proliferate outside of the Black race. Rev. Couch Potato (because he sure is not into running or jogging) and Mr. Latina Skirt Chaser Gibson need to find a real job. If you want an overweight pseudo preacher or a pseudo-celeb whose heyday is behind him (who in the world would try to form a group with Tank or Genuine (Genuine put on a “show” at my cousin’s hole in the wall for 3k…
). Just go away! 
@ Bad Influence
Lol @ business thug…..I go to the office with my pistol in my briefcase, never know when you gotta strong arm a nugga!
Naw, but that was a “Mixer” for the grown folks on New Years weekend. 25 n up to weed out the babies.
@BAD INFLUENCE
I almost think you kinda missed a nigga.
I wish a fat nigga would play me…nope this is why some sort of standard is necessary..I would hate myself afterwards
I wonder how Faith and Charlie Baltimore felt when they realized that cock dead eye muthabytch Biggie was cheatin on em both? Like I would come close to killing myself
A B C D E F G MISSH is in this piece
YOUR NAME HERE! says:
I just read this on my FB:
Two hours into my first day of work as a WalMart greeter, an ugly woman came in with her two kids.
Hearing her swear at them, I said, “Good morning, welcome to WalMart. Nice kids, are they twins?”
The mom answered, “Hell no, they ain’t twins. The oldest one’s 9, and the other one’s 7. Why would you think they’re twins? Are you blind or stupid?”
I replied, “I’m not blind or stupid. I just couldn’t believe someone slept with you twice. Have a good day, and thank you for shopping at WalMart.”
My supervisor said I probably wasn’t cut out for this line of work.
I died
too funny i don’t blame her i wouldda said some slick shiat like that too
Thank you! @miany I could slap my old self for having that mindset lol
@ Gigi26, I would think that fat dudes would be too insecure to cheat on a pretty thang like faith. Biggie was a real life MythBuster
*sigh* ermahgawd.. just..why <—THIS!!!!
SToooooooooop
Chan,
the luv seems to have carmelized like so many onions
_________________
Harlem
it’s of course all natural not a gel, but has gel-like properties. like smoothing down edges, really good for setting curls, braids, twists, etc, strengthens hair, adds shine. made from flaxseeds, aloe, honey, vit e, & tea tree oil
so that’s
Diva
Gelly
Harlem
The problem is that Black males have been brainwashed by the media into thinking that their lives will drastically improve if they date, marry, and/or proliferate outside of the Black race.
with yo crazy self 
you ain’t lying here…
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You know DO NOT…this about the first time I say
@MIANY
“ok, I get it. Since she didn’t scrape the baby outta her, it’s her fault…thanks for explaining.”
_______________
Your welcome. But she also could stopped herself from receiving it or took the 15 or so birth control methods available to her too.
But yeah, now you getting it.
Hey Chan
*sighs*
So Tyrese STILL hasn’t found a way to just be fine as hell and stfu huh??? ehh well, they can take this book, Keith Sweat’s book and Steve Harvey’s book and SHOVE it…I could go on an on about how WOMEN looking for love goes AGAINST the laws of nature but it ain’t even worth it…
Like I would come close to killing myself
~ ~ ~ ~
thats funny as haYle . . ButtuMH yeah DAT dudes cheat too.Ny Ex whom i Call CHEESEBALL Slim . . Ummh yeah
@ Fay
I was Whipped til you stood me up at the mall….TELL THAT!!! lol
@Chan
you thought Faith was PRETTY???
She was basic as hell to me…
@FAY . .
but i 
my WHIP!!!
ION rollerset or do much to my hurrr so I wont even waste ur time
iAmChan says:
@ Fay
I was Whipped til you stood me up at the mall….TELL THAT!!! lol
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not another lovers quarrel 
@LuVn, i cant help it…like, WHY??
@Chan, i undersatnd
@Man, i do miss yo ignant ass font bew
Fiance…woman o’ mines
come get it *bites lip*
ummm Miss Gigi, im not gonna tolerate ur shyt 2day hunty..
u cutting up rofl
@Donna…Ironically the reverand wrote a book aimed at women. Mind you ‘the good book’ touches on a man finding his woman.
I would think that fat dudes would be too insecure to cheat on a pretty thang like faith
my opinion of course 
===========================
faith ain’t that cute though
NAIJA :danaban: I liked that
FAYLA oh I am soooo in there try and not make me a tester and it will be your last font
Damn I gotta order more whip 
@DONNA
“you thought Faith was PRETTY???
She was basic as hell to me”
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Just talkin physically, she was out of Biggie’s league.
*
hmph
me too Fay! GIMME!!!!
@ Donna del Gatto
When I was a teen, Faith was sexy. I ain’t know any better!
Theres an ADT ad up top.
FayMrsWhipfinityIfYewNassy
says:
Chan,
the luv seems to have carmelized like so many onions
_________________
Harlem
it’s of course all natural not a gel, but has gel-like properties. like smoothing down edges, really good for setting curls, braids, twists, etc, strengthens hair, adds shine. made from flaxseeds, aloe, honey, vit e, & tea tree oil
so that’s
Diva
Gelly
Harlem
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going for a roller set this weekend
@donotdeleteme that is so true. My hubby talks about this all the time. Even tho his mom is high yella he agrees that young men are constantly being brainwashed to think light skin and exotic women are the best, most beautiful, marriage material etc..
@BAD INFLUENCE
”
“@Man, i do miss yo ignant ass font bew
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You want this
so bad… Stop denying yourself.
Miany says:
@Donna…Ironically the reverand wrote a book aimed at women. Mind you ‘the good book’ touches on a man finding his woman.
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EXACTLY….you get what I’m saying…a man is supposed to find his wife…not a woman scheming, plotting, researching, and driving herself crazy trying to find her husband…
*waitin for my gravi to change so FAY can see what she just got herself into*
Mind you ‘the good book’ touches on a man finding his woman
and Thank You…when a man findeth him a wife, he finds a good thing…Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh….but that’s only 4 lines and that’s not enough for a book 
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@ luVn_liFe…
I am so in the dark with this ADT business. Care to fill me in?
@Man
I can agree with that…
Diva howz your naturals coming along?
@Fay..If you need any more testers I’d be willing to test for you.
@Man…You may be right. Thank you sir.
@DONNA
“So Tyrese STILL hasn’t found a way to just be fine as hell and stfu huh??? ehh well, they can take this book, Keith Sweat’s book and Steve Harvey’s book and SHOVE it…I could go on an on about how WOMEN looking for love goes AGAINST the laws of nature but it ain’t even worth it… ”
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Women buy the books. That’s the bottom line.
If they had a instruction book on how to love a woman nair ninja would buy that chit.
Just talkin physically, she was out of Biggie’s league.
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chit…flashes back to the I remember video…nah kid they fit
iAmChan says:I am so in the dark with this ADT business. Care to fill me in?
you dont see the ADT Ad up top? 
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luVn_liFe… says:
Theres an ADT ad up top.
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Does Kenya know this?
@NEW MOM
“My hubby talks about this all the time. Even tho his mom is high yella he agrees that young men are constantly being brainwashed to think light skin and exotic women are the best, most beautiful, marriage material etc..”
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So…I’m watching Death at a Funeral and my chest already hurts from coughing but this fool keeps talking to the plants and statues…Lordt!
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MIANY
“To clarify… IDGAF who she let jizz out in her. If a baby was created BOTH should take care of it. If EITHER ONE decides not to take care of it THAT PARENT is the one who aint issh! The mom may be a ‘sucker for love’, mom may be ‘naive’ mom may even be ‘dumb’ but…..MOM isn’t responsible for DAD’s sorryness!”
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Mom, and Mom alone decides to give birth. That’s on her and her alone.
She need to accept that responsibility and quit blaming someone else for HER decision.
Oh lawd this can’t be life
these are jokes NO?
Why is it always books for women on keeping and maintaining a man and weeding out the bad ones? Wjere are the books for the men on how to grow up and treat a woman and how not to run off and leave your children? no:
@ Man says
Women buy the books. That’s the bottom line.
If they had a instruction book on how to love a woman nair ninja would buy that chit.
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NOT a Nair. Yeen lying bout that. Ion need no help dammit.
Women buy the books. That’s the bottom line.
If they had a instruction book on how to love a woman nair ninja would buy that chit.
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real chit
@Man, well now ur just being ridiculous…what imma do with ur lil ass duck?
@NAIJA
“Just talkin physically, she was out of Biggie’s league.
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chit…flashes back to the I remember video…nah kid they fit
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Naw, no way! See, Faith was a hood and a lil busted but Biggie looked like a turd. A turd with Down Syndrome!
**R.I.P., you still my nigga B.I.G.!**
<—- Whip this head into shape!
NaijaGal says:
Just talkin physically, she was out of Biggie’s league.
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chit…flashes back to the I remember video…nah kid they fit
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The only thing I will agree with is that Faith was very photogenic…so she appeared good on film, but you could tell it was a whole lotta weave, makeup, and good lighting going on…and her body was ehhh….
DoNotDeleteMe says:
What is really going on? I don’t read “relationship” books nor do I take dating advice from these so-called “relationship gurus.” Trust and believe it is not hard out there for Black women to find a man. The problem is that Black males have been brainwashed by the media into thinking that their lives will drastically improve if they date, marry, and/or proliferate outside of the Black race. Rev. Couch Potato (because he sure is not into running or jogging) and Mr. Latina Skirt Chaser Gibson need to find a real job. If you want an overweight pseudo preacher or a pseudo-celeb whose heyday is behind him (who in the world would try to form a group with Tank or Genuine (Genuine put on a “show” at my cousin’s hole in the wall for 3k… ). Just go away!
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I LOL @ you b/c you be going HAM! I thought I was passionate about my ish… Personally I’ve never been passed over/up due to my skin tone so I cannot confirm or deny your light skin/dark skin/white skin theory. Ion really care what the masses are doing.
@NAIJA
“Women buy the books. That’s the bottom line.
If they had a instruction book on how to love a woman nair ninja would buy that chit.
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real chit ”
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I’m waitin on Mike Tyson and Chris Brown to write a collabo r/ship book.
@ luVn_liFe… I am as lost as two lil boys fugg…..nevermind.
I am trying to get the correlation between ADT and my e-boo.
@CHAN
“Women buy the books. That’s the bottom line.
If they had a instruction book on how to love a woman nair ninja would buy that chit.
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NOT a Nair. Yeen lying bout that. Ion need no help dammit.”
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As the eloquent Juicy J says:
“You can say no to ratchet puzzy, but Juicy J caint.”
A-phuckin-Men.
Gelly-your hair is beautiful! And face too!
CHAN your boo clld the cops bc her ADT sign was “stolen” wasting tax payers dollars at that. Your welcome
CARAMEL!!! Stop akinn like u dont see ur e-man here askin for the story bout the ADT sign.
I’m waitin on Mike Tyson and Chris Brown to write a collabo r/ship book.
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And the name of the book will be “think like a fist and not like a slap”
thanks YNH. but it’s so much of it
NaijaGal says:
I would think that fat dudes would be too insecure to cheat on a pretty thang like faith
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faith ain’t that cute though my opinion of course
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I posted a while back how this fat arse Bluto looking negro who messed with my head and my heart. I gave him credibilty and self-esteem. Should have left his arse in self-loathing mode!
Don’t trust that fat b*stard over there…
Leaving his fat essence in the air…
That chunky, funky, overweight monkey…
Don’t trust that fat b*stard…OVER THERE!
#GLAD TO GET THAT OFF MY CHEST
I’m waitin on Mike Tyson and Chris Brown to write a collabo r/ship book.
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prologue by Chad Johnson…
GellySammich says:
Diva howz your naturals coming along?
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I haven’t relaxed………that’s a good thing…I’m going this weekend to get this gray covered up and get a rollerset….
@Gelly
<— has never been with a light skinned chick. Why? Ion emm know. Now I don't go by the skin tone theory really, but some of em don't really appeal to me. A sexy woman is a sexy woman, skin tone be damned.
Miany says:
CARAMEL!!! Stop akinn like u dont see ur e-man here askin for the story bout the ADT sign.
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Gelly u kewt ass bish!! love the mane suga
Harlem, WHO U SMOOCHING ON??? better be me
Ruh Roh…If he finds out about the ADT sign mess he is gonna take his e-love back.
Miany says:
CARAMEL!!! Stop akinn like u dont see ur e-man here askin for the story bout the ADT sign.
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Chan, bae, it’s nothing.. Please let it go. All is well.
*raised brows*
@Donna…Ironically the reverand wrote a book aimed at women. Mind you ‘the good book’ touches on a man finding his woman.
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I am dealing with a friend and her issue with not having a husband…she done went off on a trip to find her one and came back with nothing but fukk stories…I could do nothing but 
EXACTLY….you get what I’m saying…a man is supposed to find his wife…not a woman scheming, plotting, researching, and driving herself crazy trying to find her husband…
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AND THIS
I enjoy my singlehood..
@ MissHarlem
Nahh, yo……tell me that ain’t what happened. Y’all just playing right?
Don’t trust that fat b*stard over there…
Leaving his fat essence in the air…
That chunky, funky, overweight monkey…
Don’t trust that fat b*stard…OVER THERE!
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Donna del Gatto says:
@Gelly
nice hair bew!
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yessssssssssss ma’am…you are a doll baby too!
Action Jacksonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Don’t trust that fat b*stard over there…
<~~~ Jammin to this
Leaving his fat essence in the air…
That chunky, funky, overweight monkey…
Don’t trust that fat b*stard…OVER THERE!
DTowns Finest says:
Why is it always books for women on keeping and maintaining a man and weeding out the bad ones? Wjere are the books for the men on how to grow up and treat a woman and how not to run off and leave your children? no:
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This….is….not….funny… but y am I laughing:
@CHAN
“<— has never been with a light skinned chick. Why? Ion emm know. Now I don't go by the skin tone theory really, but some of em don't really appeal to me. A sexy woman is a sexy woman, skin tone be damned."
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All day. I ain't eva met a ninja turn down some fine hoe's puzzy cause she dark.
I think these ugly hoes be tellin themselves they can't get a ninja cause they dark when in fact they just ugly.
@ Caramel Cutie
And what do you have to say about said “ADT Sign Theft” allegations ma’am?
@Caramel Cutie:
Just keep me in your prayers!
Well Hello OTBizzle!!!
group
thanks guys
now… Fayla… can you also look into an automatic braiding machine
@man
I hear him talk to his lil brother and younger cousins telling them not to be caught up on white girls, Spanish girls, light skin, etc just because they look like what u see on tv. He just thinks men should look deeper and not automatically dismiss black women /brown girls.
Caramel Cutie says:
Miany says:
CARAMEL!!! Stop akinn like u dont see ur e-man here askin for the story bout the ADT sign.
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Chan, bae, it’s nothing.. Please let it go. All is well.
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Chan I even found the missing sign and had it as my gravi
lawd Jesus….that day was fuggin HILARIOUS!
Gelllaaay you’se a cute broad! Hide yourself from OB when she slides through
OB you’se mah nigga!
Not THIS discussion again! *slaps knee:
CHAN wish I could say we was joking but nah
FIANCE of course I said anywhere you like
YNH you font like you feel better is this true? if not then
OTB
sending good vibes your way
Friendly-ssssss
I see yall in here letting folks font their hearts out 
.. Whew chile..
I’m weak because i wanna know how one leaves a “fat essence” in the air
iAmChan says:
@ Caramel Cutie
And what do you have to say about said “ADT Sign Theft” allegations ma’am?
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Ask her to get you a copy of the police report
@GIGI…where tf did she go to find this man…chicks goin on trips to find ‘D’???? where dey do dat at? …lol…but, for real what did she expect to find on this trip?
newmom87 says:
@donotdeleteme that is so true. My hubby talks about this all the time. Even tho his mom is high yella he agrees that young men are constantly being brainwashed to think light skin and exotic women are the best, most beautiful, marriage material etc..
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So your husband believes this? Are you high yella? Is your relationship based on the your high yellowness? I think in real life, men are much deeper than this. #experience
MissH-My chest and back are sore from all the coughing but I’m about 75%.
Gelly!!
you are a beauty & i lubbs yo hurr! yeah u gone need that serum doe 
@NEWMOM
“I hear him talk to his lil brother and younger cousins telling them not to be caught up on white girls, Spanish girls, light skin, etc just because they look like what u see on tv. He just thinks men should look deeper and not automatically dismiss black women /brown girls.”
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So basically get with an ugly woman cause she’s nice like he did?
No, I get it. Seriously. I just think the whole “light skin is being marketed/promoted” stuff is bullchit.
OTB What up!
Gyps!
Gigi I’ve already assigned myself to somebody’s list. She gon notice me one day
Chan!
i aint stand u up, i went to the wrong theater 
Caramel Cutie says:
Mom, and Mom alone decides to give birth. That’s on her and her alone.
She need to accept that responsibility and quit blaming someone else for HER decision.
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I actually agree with that.. **Don’t nobody hit me** I feel bad for “one night stands” or random hook ups that end up in pregnancy and clearly neither party intended for this to happen. Why should his life be changed completely b/c u decide to keep it? If a woman is promiscuous, there are ways to protect yourself from unwanted/unintended pregnancies that will save you alot of heartache down the road.
Really ok so it’s okay for the woman’s life to be changed in an instance Lawd WHYyyyy
the man has no responsiblity in this at all because they don’t make protection for men or what???? very curious to know the reason 
go on i’ll wait
My sister just told me she’s going to purchase this book…
I am disowning her ass.
so Fay aint see my raised hand yo?
GELLY you are cute
Bad Influence says:
I’m weak because i wanna know how one leaves a “fat essence” in the air
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Kinda like how some folks leave a shytty mist…you ever go in the restroom and see two folks walk out of two of the stalls but one of them may appear to have left more of an “essence” behind than the other? Don’t act like it’s just me…..
Hey @Bad!
Hide yourself from OB when she slides through
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*shy wave* hi OTBey
I WISH a bish WOULD bite MY sammich up in here.
a nigga got Jesus sized balls..
ooooh who Gelly tryna bag
tell me. im good at keep secrets…just a one word hint shall do 
DoNotDeleteMe–yes! I will do.. send
up for ya! LOL
I’m weak because i wanna know how one leaves a “fat essence” in the air
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I lost all kinds of soda to the keyboard
@GELLY
Please confirm you over 18.
Yall coming upstairs or do I have to read through all these comments to catch up
Gellie! You’re so pretty
thank you Harlem
oops keeping*
im sheepy
where fo is Milky at?
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@GELLY
Please confirm you over 18.
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Please confirm that u are over 3ft
Man I’ll be 30 in March. old.as.chit. *sigh*
@ Fay
I swea I said the silver screen, which was rite cross the street from my job, cross the parkin lot actually…but we was beefing on going to see Django (which was a good movie)
I was so distraught that I moved!
@GIGI…where tf did she go to find this man…chicks goin on trips to find ‘D’???? where dey do dat at? …lol…but, for real what did she expect to find on this trip?
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She went to the motherland…Nigeria and said she was gonna find her hubby…I told her ass go about it different, just have a good time and let shyt just happen, but nooooooooooooooo she wanna go there and waste good outfits on these trashbag ass negroes…I said you came back with anything good she says nah they not serious. Well you fukkin em without em doing anything then yeah you ain’t coming back with nothing.
Caramel Cutie says:
Gellie! You’re so pretty
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Now this ^^^^^^^^^^ we can agree on
Fayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
I was reading that one.. 0_0
Miss Congeniality@ Bad
YNH good to hear so by weeks end you will be 100
GellySammich says:
Man I’ll be 30 in March. old.as.chit. *sigh*
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I guess my azz is ancient…you bet not laugh
@man since when did brown skin = ugly? Proved my point as to how u think.
@caramel I have brown skin. Our daughter is light skin. That exactly what my hubby talks about tho , many men are not much deeper not all but many young ones.
*not laughing@ Diva*
MissHarlem says:
YNH good to hear so by weeks end you will be 100
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Harlem hey bew…..did yo see Dallas monday night…that JR Ewing is that ninja…..Cliff Barnes still don’t stand a chance with JR in the mix……. love it….
GellySammich says:
*not laughing@ Diva*
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*raises hand with the arthritis to throw my bengay at chu*
Diva get upstairs
@NEW MOM
“@man since when did brown skin = ugly? Proved my point as to how u think. ”
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It proves that you are looking for something that isn’t there. If you read my comment, wehre did I say brown skin = ugly?
SMH. These low self esteem people getting out of hand.
iAmChan wha up boo!
I hear ya Auntie San!
@man I’m in good spirits and not taking anything u say serious or coming at you like ‘that’ I’ve been a fan of your comments since being a lurker since maybe 2010.
U said “So basically get with an ugly woman cause she’s nice like he did?” And I’m brown skin. So that’s how it read/sounded. I am going to slowly walk away from this discussion lol
@NEW MOM
“I’m in good spirits and not taking anything u say serious or coming at you like ‘that’ I’ve been a fan of your comments since being a lurker since maybe 2010.
U said “So basically get with an ugly woman cause she’s nice like he did?” And I’m brown skin. So that’s how it read/sounded. I am going to slowly walk away from this discussion lol”
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And how I know what color you are? Even if I did, it doesnt’ matter because after that I said:
“No, I get it. Seriously. I just think the whole “light skin is being marketed/promoted” stuff is bullchit.”
You proved MY point since I made no mention of dark skin being ugly or even knowing your skin tone but u automatically thought that’s what it meant. smh.