NeNe Leakes to ‘In Touch’: Why I’m Marrying My Husband Again

NeNe Leakes and greg getting married again

NeNe Leakes met her husband Greg at her place of work, a seedy strip club. Exotic dancers are more proficient at controlling their emotions to avoid the temptations of falling for every man who tosses a dollar their way. That explains why, when real love does come along, their unions tend to withstand the test of time.

Married for 14 years, the Leakes are ready to renew their vows again, In Touch Weekly reports exclusively.

“This time around, we’ll work together as a team more,” NeNe told In Touch.

From In Touch Weekly:

Although the reality star and mother of two (she and Gregg have 14-year-old son, Brentt together) has plenty of on-camera diva tendencies, she assures In Touch she won’t be a bridezilla before her “big fantasy wedding,” set for this summer in Atlanta! “I want the wedding planner to take over and make all the decisions,” NeNe confides in the new issue of In Touch, adding, “The most important thing about this wedding is the fact that Gregg and I have a second chance.”

And as they plan their second marriage, Nene, 45, and Gregg, a 58-year-old real estate investor, are well aware of the problems that sabotaged their first.

“When I started living my dream, things changed,” NeNe says about her rise to fame, which took her from stay-at-home mom to reality TV to prime-time roles on Glee and The New Normal. “I started making more money than him. He’d say, ‘You don’t need me anymore,’ but I did. I really did.”

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    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      They look like something off that Oz the great and powerful movie with all those colors :tea:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      :rofl: @ Jenie

    • BigSisterGorgeousOne

      Renew their vows???? I thought they completely divorced :thinking:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Jenie I agree. Her outfit would have looked better if her shirt was a flat/matte texture/fabric.

    • MoniquetheGeek

      In other words, Gregg took care of that financial issue and now it won't affect NeNe's pocketbook. Once they get "remarried," they can continue to live the life they never really got rid of.

    • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

      That explains why, when real love does come along, their unions tend to withstand the test of time.

      ________

      So marry a stripper... :think:

    • Pickachu Tran

      FROM DOWNSTAIRS:

      Pickachu Tran says:

      KyCakes says:

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Pickachu Tran says:

      TWO LOCAL OPENLY GAY MALES HAVE PETITIONED THE BISHOP AT THEIR CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL TO ATTEND THE PROM AS A COUPLE THEY BULLYING THE CHURCH FOLKS LEFT AND RIGHT NAW-WE NOT ONLY WANT YOUR BLESSING, GOD, & RELIGION, BUT WE’RE GOING TO MAKE YOU ARSE ACKNOWLEDGE US BY SIGNING FOR IT TOO OR WE’LL SUE YOU ARSES
      ________________________
      what da fukk more do they want. Its a catholic school, a religious institution that bases their guidelines off the HOLY BIBLE GO to private school if yo azz wanna be acknowledged.
      ______________________

      Actually Catholic schools are private schools, and they can do what the fugg they want in regards to their beliefs, if ya don’t like it find u another school. This shat is getting out of hand ugh
      ——————————————————————–
      Look, I have nothing against gay folk…do what you do, in whichever body orifice you choose to do it in…

      But the fact that you can no longer sell your Daughter for three goats and a cow, means we’ve already re-defined marriage…

      ______________________________
      the majority of FOLKS (cuz polls lie) believe marriage is between a man & a woman I DONT CARE WHAT KINDA OF BULL THE MEDIA TRIES TO FORCE FEED YOU. We say our VOWS under GOD its sacred. Man was made for a woman and woman was made for a man thats why we were taken from man’s RIB to be his partner in LIFE. WE reproduce together to populate the earth.

      maybe im just one of the few that takes this marriage thing VERY seriously :shrugs:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5xki4ZPzUg @NikkeMinxx

      Why is her knee a true right angle?

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      It looks like she got little girl easter church shoes on in the first picture :lol:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Razzle :thinking: Ion know what it is bout Nene she wanna be classy but still comes across as hood and country looking :no:

    • FuturedocDonte

      That explains why, when real love does come along, their unions tend to withstand the test of time.
      ------
      :clap: Gregg for hanging in their even knowing ur wife was with that football player :coffee:

    • Str8tUpMenace

      MoniquetheGeek says:

      In other words, Gregg took care of that financial issue and now it won’t affect NeNe’s pocketbook. Once they get “remarried,” they can continue to live the life they never really got rid of.
      __________________

      Exactly!!! :yes:

    • Genia

      Im rooting for them

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Pickachu :fistbump: :clap: agreed.

    • Tt

      Too much photoshop on her leg. Looks like a KFC drumstick

    • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

      @FUTURE
      "That explains why, when real love does come along, their unions tend to withstand the test of time.
      ——
      Gregg for hanging in their even knowing ur wife was with that football player "
      __________

      :rofl:

      That nigga was flat broke for a sec. He in real estate so you know how that was when the economy tanked.

      Then again, I don't think he got a lot of options.

    • MissTaken

      Yay Nene and Greg
      :offtopic: from downstairs
      I can’t wait till Saturday gets here so I can be done with this fast and consume meat, liquor and sweets. I can smell and taste it already YAS HUNTY!!!! I don't even know where to start :eatme:

    • Mr.BluPhi

      In that 1997 pic...Nene looks like Miss Potato Head.

    • coco creamy

      Aweeee happy Black Love :yahoo:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :blink: Her does look like an arrow pointing lol .... Damn she photoshopped these pics :no:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Razzle Ion know what it is bout Nene she wanna be classy but still comes across as hood and country looking
      -----------
      Well that's always going to be big country. At least she tries to be classy unlike most folk on that show whose come and gone :lol:

    • Pickachu Tran

      wish NeNe would go back to the black hair...
      Anyway Im happy for them and I dont blame Greg I would re-marry her azz too cuz where he going at his age :lol: That nig is chillin living the damn life while his wife make the millions...

      dont blame ole Greg

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Tt says:

      Too much photoshop on her leg. Looks like a KFC drumstick
      _________________________

      :hahaha:

    • Mr.BluPhi

      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      It looks like she got little girl easter church shoes on in the first picture
      ______________________________________________________________________

      Looks like one of those shoes the majorettes be wearing.

    • Just Looking

      :waves: @Genia :happy: Long Time

      I'm rooting for them too. :yes: :love: how Gregg just let's her talk, but then he says like three words and she stops.

      Kordell, should have got some advice from Gregg :kona:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      :listen:

      You got that I dont wanna
      that I dont wanna do nothin
      You got that I dont wanna
      that I dont wanna go nowhere

      :whistle:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Mr.BluPhi says:

      In that 1997 pic…Nene looks like Miss Potato Head
      _____________________

      all I pictured was that toy and saw Potato head's nose :ghost: :casket:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Mr.BluPhi says:

      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      It looks like she got little girl easter church shoes on in the first picture
      ______________________________________________________________________

      Looks like one of those shoes the majorettes be wearing.

      --------------
      :ghost:

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      What's up yall. I'm fresh from a hospital bed, but I am back at it!!!

      I don't get the worlds obsession with NeNe..never will either.

    • MissTaken

      @FUTURE
      “That explains why, when real love does come along, their unions tend to withstand the test of time.
      ——
      Gregg for hanging in their even knowing ur wife was with that football player ”
      __________
      :oops: I thought this said good job for hanging in there Greg even though Nene built like a football player. I was like dang at least she human and ain't built like an appliance :kona:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Chan what happened to you :thinking: hope all is well :D

    • Cuban Princess

      Mr.BluPhi says:

      In that 1997 pic…Nene looks like Miss Potato Head.
      ------------------------------

      :hahaha: she does! :rofl:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Jenie-- All the live a** scenes from Toy Story 1-3 involving the potato heads just flashed through my head

      "YOU UNCULTURED SWINE!"

      :lol:

    • Pointhim Out-Stewart

      Marriage is a business. It has so little to do with love. We love many people and keep them in our lives, but your spouse, when something goes wrong, you want out of the marriage. How many people not "love" their job and just tolerate it? Once it becomes too much and you're over it, you leave. Same with marriage.

    • Just Looking

      Matter of fact, her profile reminds me of Dwight Eubanks...

      I miss him "Dreadful Indeed"
      But I'm still rooting :yes:

    • Pickachu Tran

      Just Looking says:

      @Genia Long Time

      I’m rooting for them too. how Gregg just let’s her talk, but then he says like three words and she stops.

      ____________________________

      i noticed that too.. Greg has a way of shutting her azz up without doing much.. that could NEVER be Kordlena he was out to PROVE how STRAIGHT he was.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      That ninja Greg know exactly what he doing with NeNe :tea: and I don't buy his love for her. However I do believe Nene love his azz :tea:

    • Just Looking

      Chan - :hugs: Hope all is well, we don't like hospitals beds. Glad you back. :happy:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Marriage is a business. It has so little to do with love.
      ---------
      :rolleyes: Ok.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5xki4ZPzUg @NikkeMinxx

      Pointhim Out-Stewart
      ___________________________________________
      aaaannnd scene.

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Chan I hope you're ok!!! :hug: :kiss:

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      @ jeniefrumdabloc

      Was in a car accident Monday night. A 17 y/o rear ended my truck while I was at a red light, spun me around and threw us in a ditch. My back is all hurting n stuff.

      What pissed me off the most is that I had just got my truck out of the body shop Monday afternoon from the goose accident from about a week ago!

    • Nakeya_j

      Its a catholic school, a religious institution that bases their guidelines off the HOLY BIBLE
      ----
      It's just too much. You know good and damn well the CATHLOIC school is NOT even playing that.

    • MzTisch

      They are so cute to me on camera. Greg is a trip. I wish them the best. Marriage is hard enough the first time around. Ion really know doe........

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5xki4ZPzUg @NikkeMinxx

      :hug: @ Chan

    • Miany

      @Chan.. sorry to hear you were ill. Glad to hear you've been released. Stay healthy.

    • Nakeya_j

      What pissed me off the most is that I had just got my truck out of the body shop Monday afternoon from the goose accident from about a week ago!
      -----
      Well be glad that it's your truck that's jacked up and not you. I'm glad your ok. It's a blessing to be ok after that. However, trade that truck in (after you get it fixed) or buy a new car. That car you have now is the devil.

    • Pickachu Tran

      iAmChan says:

      What’s up yall. I’m fresh from a hospital bed, but I am back at it!!!

      ________________________

      :hugs: hey chan, what happened???

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Chan, Were they on the phone? Either texting and talking?

    • Just Looking

      @Achhoo Tran - The most she said to him, was when she said,

      "I stood by you when you have done me wrong as your wife but you want to make other people think that I have done you wrong. I have never done you wrong,"

      I use that when Mista don't take out the trash or pick up the clothes.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      Marriage is a business. It has so little to do with love.
      ———
      Ok.
      _______________________

      See this is why marriages are failing now :no: Don't marry me for what I have marry me for me and our potential to grow hunny. Marry me because ya love me and I love you. :shrugs: Have you together before you even pop the questions and same for myself .... ashid :tea:

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      Thanks yall. Now I got some of that good medicine that yt people rob their grandparents for! Im on the couch with my feet up and pillows everywhere!

    • Smokie

      That's great. So glad NeNe didn't dump him for some young sexy DL man who would have just used her for her money. She knows what's up.

    • FuturedocDonte

      Why her knee so pointy :thinking:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Chan glad your ok :hug:

    • Just Looking

      @Chan - Wow, that awful, glad you are okay. Vehichles can be repaired or replaced.

      Now down to business - Keep your docs, and phyiscal therapy appointments and don't settle for at least 24 months. :coffee:

    • Nakeya_j

      Thanks yall. Now I got some of that good medicine that yt people rob their grandparents for!
      -----
      So you still aint shyt? Oh ok. Your fine then. :hahaha:

    • luVn_liFe…

      I use that when Mista don’t take out the trash or pick up the clothes.
      :lol:

      JUSTlOOkiN :wave:
      U ready for the one two Step NAH!!

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      Marriage is a business. It has so little to do with love.
      ———
      Ok.
      _______________________

      See this is why marriages are failing now Don’t marry me for what I have marry me for me and our potential to grow hunny. Marry me because ya love me and I love you. Have you together before you even pop the questions and same for myself …. ashid
      ----------
      thank you Jenie. When you're in it for the wrong reasons YES IT IS A BUSINESS... but when you got your emotional sh*ts and matierial sh*ts together before hand you should have nothing to worry about. Folks can miss me with that IT'S JUST BUSINESS. :rolleyes:

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      Ion know what that lil yt boy was doing when he hit me, it was surreal. As I replay it in my head, I swear it goes in slow motion with a classical music background. Like I went def until the the truck stopped in the ditch. My friend got out first, then when I did, I fell....now he ain't got no insurance....

    • Nakeya_j

      See this is why marriages are failing now Don’t marry me for what I have marry me for me and our potential to grow hunny. Marry me because ya love me and I love you. Have you together before you even pop the questions and same for myself …. ashid
      ———-
      thank you Jenie. When you’re in it for the wrong reasons YES IT IS A BUSINESS… but when you got your emotional sh*ts and matierial sh*ts together before hand you should have nothing to worry about. Folks can miss me with that IT’S JUST BUSINESS.
      -----
      :cosign:

    • Pointhim Out-Stewart

      I used to think it had to do with love too when I was younger. And then your mind matures and you look at the person you're with and realize they're not on ur level. The beauty of being in America is most folks are free to live as they choose. I would marry for convenience, status, or grow a partnership. But marrying cuz I can't breathe without you or cuz you complete me, uh yeah, save that for romance novels. It's the real world out here.

    • Pickachu Tran

      @ jeniefrumdabloc

      Was in a car accident Monday night. A 17 y/o rear ended my truck while I was at a red light, spun me around and threw us in a ditch. My back is all hurting n stuff.

      What pissed me off the most is that I had just got my truck out of the body shop Monday afternoon from the goose accident from about a week ago!
      ________________________

      :no: Glad to read you are doing OK. make sure u sue his/her parents.

    • Just Looking

      :waves: @Luvn - Yep, I be cutting up at night...I pratice in my bedroom in new heels. Watch out now! :smile:

    • Mr.BluPhi

      So what happened to that dude that was buying her shoes and chit....

    • FuturedocDonte

      Chan, Were they on the phone? Either texting and talking?
      -----
      Had to be :mad: That shat be pissing me off

    • http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

      Good for them gotta keep black love going

    • Miany

      Marriage is a business. It has so little to do with love.
      ^^ I agree that marriage should be approached as a business. I disagree about the little to do with love. You may love someone but, the decision to marry them should be made objectively. Folk use too many emotions and not enough logic when dealing with love. We typically know what is wrong with the mate before we marry 'em but, we still marry em cuz of the emotional attachment.

    • BigSisterGorgeousOne

      @Chan are you in the Atlanta area? Let me know if you have any leftovers and need help discarding them ;)
      Oh yea glad to hear that you are ok :oops:

    • Just Looking

      Marriage is not a business, but as my father says, come to the table with something, beside good looks. Looks fades and bank accounts grow.

      That's what daddy said :shrug:

    • JD

      Mr.BluPhi says:

      In that 1997 pic…Nene looks like Miss Potato Head.

      ************************************
      I died from this comment. LMAO

    • MissTaken

      Chan :hi: Glad you are ok. I would e-hug but I am married and that's cheating. Now if I thought marriage was a business :coffee: I guess I would e-hoe

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Mr.BluPhi says:

      So what happened to that dude that was buying her shoes and chit….
      ----------
      Gregg worked his way back in I guess. I dont think she still does business with him though.

    • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

      Marriage is a business. It has so little to do with love.
      ____________

      Yup, always has been.

    • Unshakable

      @Nikke - It's the epitome of perpendicular, no? Straight 90 degrees.... :rofl:

      @Pickachu - regarding the gay movement, I agree with you. I take marriage seriously too and it is a sacred union. Do what you want...... #jmo. :hug:

    • Nakeya_j

      Marriage is not a business, but as my father says, come to the table with something, beside good looks
      ----
      Your daddy is right.

    • Unshakable

      @Man and the rose he copyrighted from - Do you believe some people actually marry for love? :think:

    • Pointhim Out-Stewart

      @61 I wouldn't say wrong reasons, but I see your point of what works for you. You have to meet me at my minimum, toe to toe. Idc what you had or loss or when you were at your best. I have certain standards that a lot of people won't meet. Someone I'm feeling may have standards that I won't meet or I'm not at their level. For that reason, it stops there.

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      Quick legal question for the resident smarty pants, if there are any.....won't most lawyers that take cases from the hurt person not charge until you win the case? Cuz see, I am a gym rat, and this here couch and no weight bench or pull up bar....I suffering physical and emotional distress here. I demand compensation.

    • Who Dat

      Why the fugg Linnethia have on them pilgrim shoes at her first 1997 wedding to the Oompah Loompah?

    • Smonae

      Just Looking says:

      Marriage is not a business, but as my father says, come to the table with something, beside good looks. Looks fades and bank accounts grow.

      That’s what daddy said :cosign:

      Daddy rt, he sounds like my dad

    • Nakeya_j

      You may love someone but, the decision to marry them should be made objectively.
      -----
      If we are not getting married for love adn that we want to grow with each other, and all of that, then don't marry me. I don't want to hear that objectively crap. JMO. I look at a job that way. And yes, marrage is work, but I don't want to be looked at as a job.

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      @ MissTaken

      I like the way you intertwined the convos in that post. I would like an e-hug too, but being that some turns of events make me respect another's marriage much more, I will NOT partake in cheating. lol

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Nah son. If the person is just an average person got just as much as you do or slightly less then what? they respect you, take care of you and all of the above... You should never solely think of marrying for assets because it could in turn be for the worst.. either your well being or his/hers.

    • Mr.BluPhi

      Miany says:

      Marriage is a business. It has so little to do with love.
      ^^ I agree that marriage should be approached as a business. I disagree about the little to do with love. You may love someone but, the decision to marry them should be made objectively. Folk use too many emotions and not enough logic when dealing with love. We typically know what is wrong with the mate before we marry ‘em but, we still marry em cuz of the emotional attachment.
      ______________________________________________________________

      ^^^^^ THIS

    • Miany

      Nakeya_j says:
      See this is why marriages are failing now Don’t marry me for what I have marry me for me and our potential to grow hunny. Marry me because ya love me and I love you. Have you together before you even pop the questions and same for myself …. ashid
      ———-
      thank you Jenie. When you’re in it for the wrong reasons YES IT IS A BUSINESS… but when you got your emotional sh*ts and matierial sh*ts together before hand you should have nothing to worry about. Folks can miss me with that IT’S JUST BUSINESS.
      ^^ I agree. It should never be just a business. Love should be involved but folk gotta approach it with less emotions. Gotta learn each other. If you KNOW the person you are with, you can pretty much tell they're around for more than just what you can offer em.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Just Looking says:
      :lol: Yep, I be cutting up at night…I pratice in my bedroom in new heels. Watch out now!
      IM SOOO HAPPY UR WELL!!!1 :happy:
      :kiss:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Who Dat says:

      Why the fugg Linnethia have on them pilgrim shoes at her first 1997 wedding to the Oompah Loompah?
      ----------
      Them is her old easter shoes.

    • Pointhim Out-Stewart

      @77 Too many people marry under the pretense of love or dopamine, as SR likes to harp. Sure, some of them who married for love have survived it all and are ok....either that or they're just settling because hell, "I'm tired." We can grow to love each other. Sure, we should be somewhat attracted to each other, but I'm thinking us as a team outweighs some of the other things.

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      I don't think that marriage is a business until kids get involved. It's cheaper to keep her is what I have been told. Before that, marriage is all emotional. Love this, love that, blah blah blah.

    • Miany

      iAmChan says:
      Quick legal question for the resident smarty pants, if there are any…..won’t most lawyers that take cases from the hurt person not charge until you win the case? Cuz see, I am a gym rat, and this here couch and no weight bench or pull up bar….I suffering physical and emotional distress here. I demand compensation.
      ^^ They will typically take your case without you paying a retainer. They will take the pay from your settlement.

    • Just Looking

      @Chan - Most attorneys will take case at no fee, but will take greater compensation on the back end. Was the person charged at the scene? Is your liscence up to date, and registration up to date? Will you loose a signifacant amount of income, will this accident impede your future earnings?

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      MMMK.

      I'm in here dancing to Good Time by Owl City and that call me maybe girl.

      thats a cute little song

      "we dont eebin have to try it's always a guuud tiime!"

    • Mr.BluPhi

      You can love, be happy, and grow old with someone without marrying them. When signing a marriage contract (or license as they call it) you have to go into a little business minded. JMO

    • Nakeya_j

      We can grow to love each other.
      ----
      Nope. I am not going to marry someone and think to myself, oh well I can grow to love him. So what if you don't? I need to love you before I say I do.

    • Unshakable

      @Miany and Nakeya,

      I agree......common sense can't be thrown out the window when it comes to love. This is the person you share your ugly with......for the rest of your life. And this is the person you will have to take care of and vice versa. It's not something to be taken lightly. :yes:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Unshakable says:

      @Man and the rose he copyrighted from – Do you believe some people actually marry for love
      ------------------
      I do, and I did.

    • Just Looking

      so if it's a business then ya'll don't mind signing a pre-nup?

    • RAE23

      Pointhim Out-Stewart says:

      I used to think it had to do with love too when I was younger. And then your mind matures and you look at the person you’re with and realize they’re not on ur level. The beauty of being in America is most folks are free to live as they choose. I would marry for convenience, status, or grow a partnership. But marrying cuz I can’t breathe without you or cuz you complete me, uh yeah, save that for romance novels. It’s the real world out here.

      <<<<<<<<<<

      Your rationale does not sound mature but BITTER AND BROKEN! Marriage can be a beautiful thing and it definitely works better if YOU COMPLETE EACH OTHER!!! I :PRAY: that you find that kind of love at some point in your life. IT CAN TAKE A LIFETIME!!!

    • Nakeya_j

      And this is the person you will have to take care of and vice versa. It’s not something to be taken lightly.
      ----
      Exactly. When I get older and I get sick who would I really want with me? The person who is still learning to love me, or the person who already loves me and my faults? Come on now.

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      @ Just Looking

      All my papers are g2g. I'm losing money from all of the photo shoots that I have to cancel, plus I gotta get my truck fixed AGAIN!! I just pray that my equipment isn't damaged.

    • RAE23

      :rofl: That :-p: is supposed to be :pray: :hahahha:

    • Nakeya_j

      so if it’s a business then ya’ll don’t mind signing a pre-nup?
      ----
      Waiting for this answer.....

    • ninamosley

      Wonder if there will be a pre-nup?

    • RAE23

      :-p I AM GOING TO GET THESE EMOTICONS RIGHT ONE DAY!! :hahaha:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Nakeya_j says:

      We can grow to love each other.
      —-
      Nope. I am not going to marry someone and think to myself, oh well I can grow to love him. So what if you don’t? I need to love you before I say I do.
      ----------------
      Right cause what if you eventually realize that person x who you didn't choose because they were'nt as financially set as the person you married and your feelings for them are more real than your spouse... then what? you gonna be looking stupid still married waiting for them to die and hoping the other never marries, file for divorce, or commit adultry.

    • Miany

      Nakeya_j says:
      If we are not getting married for love adn that we want to grow with each other, and all of that, then don’t marry me. I don’t want to hear that objectively crap. JMO. I look at a job that way. And yes, marrage is work, but I don’t want to be looked at as a job.
      ^^ No, that's not what I'm saying.... I am not saying you only marry someone who can benefit you financially. I am saying when dealing with business you weigh your options and make decisions based on the best interest of your business. When deciding to marry a person you should objectively review the personality of your potential spouse and make your decision based on the best interest of your future. Not just..I love him soo much but, I love him. I know no matter what, he wont abandon our family or me. I know he won't cheat and if he does cheat, I know it won't bother me, etc....some folk (mostly women) get married just cuz they are in love. Meanwhile they know the man cheating, has a short temper, etc..

    • Just Looking

      Pointhim Out-Stewart says:

      I used to think it had to do with love too when I was younger. And then your mind matures and you look at the person you’re with and realize they’re not on ur level. The beauty of being in America is most folks are free to live as they choose. I would marry for convenience, status, or grow a partnership. But marrying cuz I can’t breathe without you or cuz you complete me, uh yeah, save that for romance novels. It’s the real world out here.
      __________
      Kordell go have several \_ \_ Get out here....

    • Just Looking

      Pointhim Out-Stewart says:

      I used to think it had to do with love too when I was younger. And then your mind matures and you look at the person you’re with and realize they’re not on ur level. The beauty of being in America is most folks are free to live as they choose. I would marry for convenience, status, or grow a partnership. But marrying cuz I can’t breathe without you or cuz you complete me, uh yeah, save that for romance novels. It’s the real world out here.
      __________
      Kordell go have several \_ \_ Get out here....

    • libra80sbaby

      This is a prime example of how finances force the hand on a lot of decisions. They NEVER broke up. Greg was having financial issues and since they were married NeNe's money could be taken. They divorced on paper only. Once he got his chit cleared up, they gettin married in. NeNe used to be a skripper, that bish know how to hustle. Smart move. :coffee:

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Just Looking says:

      so if it’s a business then ya’ll don’t mind signing a pre-nup?
      ----------
      So long as it's a FAIR one. Not everybody is a Pilar. :lol:

    • Pickachu Tran

      iAmChan says:

      Quick legal question for the resident smarty pants, if there are any…..won’t most lawyers that take cases from the hurt person not charge until you win the case? Cuz see, I am a gym rat, and this here couch and no weight bench or pull up bar….I suffering physical and emotional distress here. I demand compensation.
      ____________________________

      I was in a real bad head on collision with a motorcycle a few years back when a car side swiped a motorcyle into our lane he was going 50mph, THE CAR FLED THE SCENE... GOTTA NICE SETTLEMENT FROM IT... Our lawyer(which is our resident family lawyer) didn't charge us until we won, it was an easy case to win. They will make sure u go to the doctor and do your physical therapy and probably make you talk to a counsler to show how tramatized and depressed you are :yes:

    • Unshakable

      @RazzleDazzle - that is beautiful! Good for you!

      @Nakeya - You are exactly right! What happens when/if you get a mastectomy? Or you have to wear adult incontinence pads? Who will love you then? Or when you get dementia? Girl, I'm like you....love me for me.....flaws and all. :hug:

    • Nakeya_j

      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      Nakeya_j says:

      We can grow to love each other.
      —-
      Nope. I am not going to marry someone and think to myself, oh well I can grow to love him. So what if you don’t? I need to love you before I say I do.
      —————-
      Right cause what if you eventually realize that person x who you didn’t choose because they were’nt as financially set as the person you married and your feelings for them are more real than your spouse… then what? you gonna be looking stupid still married waiting for them to die and hoping the other never marries, file for divorce, or commit adultry.
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      We are :cheers: on this!

    • Just Looking

      @Chan - Your attorney or it goes to court, the judge will look at pre-booked shoots or you may have to prove how many shoots you did last time this year....

      FYI - Not attorney, just been hit a couple of time.

      Also my sista was in a really bad accident and had to have 3 surgeries on her ankle. She settled 4 years later, she never told me the amount but paid cash for her two bedroom condo.

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Gollall in mah chain gollall in mah rang gollall in my wash don bahlee meh juh wash don bahlee meh juh wash

      :listen:

    • Nakeya_j

      Miany says:

      Nakeya_j says:
      If we are not getting married for love adn that we want to grow with each other, and all of that, then don’t marry me. I don’t want to hear that objectively crap. JMO. I look at a job that way. And yes, marrage is work, but I don’t want to be looked at as a job.
      ^^ No, that’s not what I’m saying…. I am not saying you only marry someone who can benefit you financially. I am saying when dealing with business you weigh your options and make decisions based on the best interest of your business. When deciding to marry a person you should objectively review the personality of your potential spouse and make your decision based on the best interest of your future. Not just..I love him soo much but, I love him. I know no matter what, he wont abandon our family or me. I know he won’t cheat and if he does cheat, I know it won’t bother me, etc….some folk (mostly women) get married just cuz they are in love. Meanwhile they know the man cheating, has a short temper, etc..
      ----
      Ohh I see. Ok that I agree with that. I thought you were only talking about the money/property stuff like that. I got you now. :hug:

    • http://srchronicles.wordpress.com/ iAmChan

      @ Pickachu Tran

      Thanks for the info. Glad that you are okay!! I am currently searching for representation.....Imma make sure I do the do with this victim thing too. They messed up my summer time goal, lol.

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhE0g3zMP70P40YOsR Bedazzled His Razzle

      Unshakable says:

      @RazzleDazzle – that is beautiful! Good for you!
      ----------
      Thank you. I may be young but I've lived. The other relationships I was in were all toxic to me emotionally. The person I married knows me and I know him and though we know it can be hard we can always turn around and laugh.

    • Miany

      Just Looking says:
      so if it’s a business then ya’ll don’t mind signing a pre-nup?
      ^ I don't think it is all business. I do not believe in divorce. I personally think that as long as there isn't extreme betrayal/life or death situation, etc. I will not divorce. BUT... I will protect myself in the event of a divorce (my mate may not feel as strongly about marriage as I do). I am ALL for a FAIR pre-nup. I believe in knowing what I will leave with. If he is a millionaire and I am broke, I don't want to take half of his money. I just want something fair enough to get on my feet financially. I am willing to sign a specific pre-nup that will protect both sides.

    • MissTaken

      I like the way you intertwined the convos
      by iAmChan on Mar 28, 2013 at 1:28 pm
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      :lol: Well you know you should not judge me by my e font I am actually very intelligent and well read :hi: Slim

    • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

      Love her outfit fab!