Akon Thiam

Syndicated radio host Rickey Smiley took calls from listeners who weighed in on singer/songwriter Akon's controversial comments on monogamous relationships.

In a recent interview, the 40-year-old Senegalese singer, who is reportedly married to multiple women, said monogamy is not only "stupid"; it's "impossible."

"I don't know no one woman that can satisfy every man's one need. It's impossible. Just like there's no man that can satisfy a woman's every need," said Akon. He added: "Women just aren't built to breed like that or... mate with more than one partner. Women aren't built that way, men are."

Of course Akon is correct. Since the beginning of time man has evolved by mating with multiple women to ensure the survival of future generations.

Polygamy, the practice of marrying more than partner, is mentioned numerous times in the Bible. Religious leaders had multiple wives and concubines in the Old Testament. Polygamy is still practiced in many parts of the world where women outnumber men, such as Africa and the middle east.

A divorce rate of 80 percent in America is further evidence that monogamy is an exercise in futility and goes against Nature.

One way or another, married men will find a way to creep with other women (or other men). It's in their Nature.

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Thanks to loyal reader MisTaken for the tip!

  • Anna

    :waves: @ everyone. Sandra has been preaching this to us for yrs. No news here. :lol:

  • Roc

    The Bible was written by man :coffee:

  • nybrn2

    Folk that don't believe in monogamy should remain single...

  • lovezoe

    Here we go. :peace:

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    I gave this tip to SR :yahoo: in the comments for The Harts. No need to shout me out Auntie. I don't need the validation :tea:

  • FuturedocDonte

    Isn't polygamy a crime in ALL states except Utah :thinking:

  • lovezoe

    It's important to read and learn the Bible. Non believers lve to add and take away from the Good News. Same thing happened with Adam and Eve

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    Same thing happened with Adam and Eve
    ________________________
    :preach:

  • MsB2u

    akon have a dam seat somewhere
    :rolleyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgpRw9tiuM bnatural

    Heard this on the Breakfast Club this morning......

    I'm not looking to Akon for any advice about anything :coffee:

  • Pretty Brown Eyes

    Awww daggone I logged in on the wrong post. I am not here for any of this......anyway good murnin!

  • lexdiamonz

    men I get it you want EXTRA PUZZY ... what i don't get is WHY it is good for men to have multiple women but NOT VICE VERSA....

    :coffee:

    AND did TARA slap the DOGSHYT out of Amina last night or was it just me ... DUDE they fighting over PETER GUNZ... let that sink in for a minute PETER GUNZ!!!!!

    :rofl:

  • gypsyeyes

    WHY SHOULDN'T HE BELIEVE IN POLYGOMY WHEN HIS [Comment edited]

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    Bnat: I flirted with listening to the Breakfast Club a few weeks back because Rickey can get lame, TJMS doesn’t play the music I like and Steve H just doesn’t do it for me outside of the Strawberry Letter. I was good with listening to them until somebody here :eek: prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying :nono: Every since then I have no listened. I know no one is perfect and heck I used to listen to Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?

  • MsB2u

    I’m not looking to Akon for any advice about anything :coffee:
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    :cosign:

  • deedeegirl

    If I read that correctly, he is saying that Women cannot be monogamous and that men can. I agree with his theory except that it's usually the men who have the issue.

  • lexdiamonz

    [Comment edited] NICCAS kill me with an overbite, gap, dirty fingernails, stank breath, etc and a damn LOUIS VUITTON BELTS and Louboutin sneakers... SMH

    :kona:

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    AND did TARA slap the DOGSHYT out of Amina last night or was it just me … DUDE they fighting over PETER GUNZ… let that sink in for a minute PETER GUNZ!!!!!
    _______________________
    I think it had more to do with the fact that Teethmina met her WITH Peter, was all in her face and acted like she was just an artist but was :hump: him. Of course she should be mad at Peter but I think she was justified with being PIST @Teethmina because on a human respect level she was dead wrong. And Teethmina stood up like she was bad. :stop: SHE WASN’T REEAADDDYYY

  • FuturedocDonte

    I was good with listening to them until somebody here prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying Every since then I have no listened. I know no one is perfect and heck I used to listen to Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?
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    Yea I didn't like that lil mama interview either :nono: He's a bully. He don't pull that mess when them "thug rappers" come in there

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    deedeegirl says:

    If I read that correctly, he is saying that Women cannot be monogamous and that men can.
    ___________________

    Read it again. He is saying women aren't built to multiply with many partners, but men are. Which is why many husbands have children that their wives don't know about. :coffee:

  • lexdiamonz

    does amina have false teeth or what??? my thing with dudes is WHY do they mess around with chicks that look alike..minus the TEETH amina and tara could be "kin" LOL

  • GellySammich

    he is saying that Women cannot be monogamous and that men can
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    The other way around. He's saying women aren't meant to breed in the same manner that men are. We can't get pregnant AGAIN when we're pregnant (currently). Men, however, can continue to sow seed even while one of his women is pregnant. What he's saying makes sense biologically. Just doesn't match up with our newer (in the grand scheme of world history) views on relationships. :shrug: Some people are in relationships for more practical reasons and feelings don't necessarily hold much weight.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    Yea I didn’t like that lil mama interview either :nono: He’s a bully. He don’t pull that mess when them “thug rappers” come in there
    ______________________
    Right. When GROWN men come on there he is :tape: about all the stuff he says normally. He intentionally says things to people who are less intimidating or not as popular. Screw that. I would get in his :buttshake: because you should get respect if you give it. He was intentionally being cruel to her. I mean slide a joke or two in there and leave it alone. He kept calling her ugly, manly and a loser that nobody cares about but only mocks for jumping on stage. I wanted her to say yea but you make a living talking about people like ME so what does that make you? Not on my level even :tea:

  • http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2013/10/15/endia_beal_can_i_touch_it_explores_gender_race_and_gene :buttshake: Pop that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle! :buttshake: Shake that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle!

    So when does hit the floor come back on?? I am ready to see some more Kyle :popcorn:

  • http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2013/10/15/endia_beal_can_i_touch_it_explores_gender_race_and_gene :buttshake: Pop that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle! :buttshake: Shake that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle!

    Oh so that's why someone is agreeing with someone.... :think:

  • lexdiamonz

    Sandra Rose says:

    Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?

    oops ..... my bad

    :kona:

    he still got that gas pump at his house from the show MTV cribs??? ask him can a bish get a fill-up thanks auntie!!!

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    Hey Gelly :shock: I have hope that more people will show up today if you are here :lol:

  • http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2013/10/15/endia_beal_can_i_touch_it_explores_gender_race_and_gene :buttshake: Pop that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle! :buttshake: Shake that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle!

    The other way around. He’s saying women aren’t meant to breed in the same manner that men are. We can’t get pregnant AGAIN when we’re pregnant (currently). Men, however, can continue to sow seed even while one of his women is pregnant. What he’s saying makes sense biologically. Just doesn’t match up with our newer (in the grand scheme of world history) views on relationships. :shrug: Some people are in relationships for more practical reasons and feelings don’t necessarily hold much weight
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    :cosign:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    GellySammich says:

    The other way around. He’s saying women aren’t meant to breed in the same manner that men are. We can’t get pregnant AGAIN when we’re pregnant (currently). Men, however, can continue to sow seed even while one of his women is pregnant.
    __________________

    Exactly. As women we tend to think too much. The answers we seek are all there if we pay attention. We are born with reproductive organs, therefore we are born to breed. Men can breed with multiple women throughout the year. Pregnant women can not (unless she has an abortion or miscarriage).

  • gypsyeyes

    Oh is that where the cosigning comes in?

  • GellySammich

    :lol: I'm not here Taken *waves hands in front of face all mystical* Just had a quick opinion. :kona:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    GellySammich says:

    "Just doesn’t match up with *WOMEN's newer (in the grand scheme of world history) views on relationships."
    _________________

    I fixed that for you, hun. :)

  • http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2013/10/15/endia_beal_can_i_touch_it_explores_gender_race_and_gene :buttshake: Pop that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle! :buttshake: Shake that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle!

    lexdiamonz says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?

    oops ….. my bad

    :kona:

    he still got that gas pump at his house from the show MTV cribs??? ask him can a bish get a fill-up thanks auntie!!!
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    Oh Word? What city he live in? Because if it's Atlanta I might need to make an unscheduled stop when I leave here next week... and take an extra gas can...or two... I'll even pay him for it.. $0.97/gal :lol:

  • http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2013/10/15/endia_beal_can_i_touch_it_explores_gender_race_and_gene :buttshake: Pop that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle! :buttshake: Shake that Razzle Dazzle Dazzle!

    gypsyeyes says:

    Oh is that where the cosigning comes in?
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    You and EYE are HERE >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< *Rasheeda hand gesture*

  • FuturedocDonte

    Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?
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    Nope... When I read this >> Of course Akon is correct<<< I knew what time it was :yes:

  • GellySammich

    our newer... woman's newer... ain't I a woman? *unzips pants* :grill:

  • http://twitter.com/SayItaIntSoJoe8 Atypical

    Akon has like four wives..Of course he thinks monogamy is stupid...

  • lexdiamonz

    EVERYONE knows we make the CHOICE to be monogamous... IF people agree to have open relationships or multiple partners that is fine and dandy BUT for dudes to be creeping and lying to bishes THAT is the problem... because really MOST side-chicks KNOW the dude has a woman it is the chick at home playing wifey, cooking and cleaning and playing house who is STUPID...come on where there is smoke there is usually fire... like on LHHNY... TARA he had a BABY on you and you took him back she was with that cat 13 YEARS!!! and he didn't put a ring on it... BUT he put a ring on vampira in less than a year green card or not ish was FOUL... but that is what she get for playing wifey and not WIFE!!!!! also if a man can take care of multiple women and THE WOMEN are fine with that more power to them my thing is WHY women be tripping over dudes who are NOT doing anything for them ... I know PLENTY or Africans who have MULTIPLE women and the women are ALL friends, all taken care of .. DON'T have to work, are not on welfare... now I have YET to see this work with AFRICAN AMERICAN women and men... I would LOVE to have a sister wife ... hell then I can take a couple days off from sucking dyck and puzzy popping LOL

  • Caramel Rain

    Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?
    *************
    :cloud:

  • MSVALLDAY

    I can't get mad at this man he comes from a different culture and this is what they practice. I think men and women can be monogamous if they want to. It's a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again. You have to remind yourself that you are in a relationship and what cheating would do to that relationship and then count the cost.

  • gypsyeyes

    SO I JUST HEARD ON THE RYAN CAMERON MORNING SHOW THAT PEBBLES WILL BE ON WENDY WILLIAMS WHERE THE RUMOR WILL BE ADDRESSED ABOUT CHILI SLEEPING WITH LA REID AND THAT IS HOW HE GOT THEM AWAY FROM HER...

  • Jdore

    Morning roses! :hi:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    nybrn2 says:

    Folk that don’t believe in monogamy should remain single…
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    :thankyou: the end

    Morning everyone !!!!!!!

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    gypsyeyes says:

    SO I JUST HEARD ON THE RYAN CAMERON MORNING SHOW THAT PEBBLES WILL BE ON WENDY WILLIAMS WHERE THE RUMOR WILL BE ADDRESSED ABOUT CHILI SLEEPING WITH LA REID AND THAT IS HOW HE GOT THEM AWAY FROM HER…
    _________________

    and that is how he got them away from her :thinking:

  • gypsyeyes

    JDORE-WHERE DID YOU GET THAT AGE ENHANCED PICTURE OF TERRIO...OOOOH KILLEM!

  • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

    What is there to disagree with in his statements?
    :shrugs:

  • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

    @SANDRA
    Man, Sandra must be BALLIN these days with all these new "friends" she got!

    Don't forget the people that got you there Sandra, don't forget where you came from....
    :coffee:

  • GellySammich

    It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
    ________________
    Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn't come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves.

  • PERFECTO

    Are we talking about humans or animals....people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid.

  • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

    I hate to say this but he has a valid point! :tea:

  • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

    @GELLY
    "It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
    ________________
    Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn’t come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves."
    ____________

    :yes:

    And then we wonder why so many people walk around mad and stressed and flippin out and chit.

  • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

    @PERFECTO
    "Are we talking about humans or animals….people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid."
    _____________

    :huh:

    Humans are animals tho....

  • Caramel Rain

    Akon is Senegalese sooo his views on monogamy are culturally based. I think it is possible for a man to be with one woman. I dont think that a man at 21 is ready to settle down and be monogamous but with age comes maturity and when one is truly committed to their partner and their faith, they can, in fact, be with one woman.. but that's $0.02

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    What is there to disagree with in his statements?
    _____________________
    Hey either you agree with it or you don't... either way everyone has a choice. You can either put up with this lifestyle and accept it(which can't say a word about this ninja stick his dyck in other females or males ) for that matter, or you can say hell no :stop: I'll pass .... just that simple

  • Ty

    Yeah, yeah hold deez Akon :rolleyes:

    Morning Roses & Thorns :wave:

    Gyps, Jenie, Doc, Razzle, Taken, Gelly, Zoe :happy:

    Kenya and the Half Stepper :coffee:

  • http://santanasantana.wix.com/artist San ah make ya dance

    All this is Bullshyt :tea:

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    I’m not here Taken *waves hands in front of face all mystical* Just had a quick opinion
    ________________________
    :lol: Come back *clicks heels together*
    #Gyp :dead: about Terio age progression. He ain't even missing and he got a milk carton gravie

  • Caramel Rain

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @PERFECTO
    “Are we talking about humans or animals….people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid.”
    _____________

    Humans are animals tho….

    **************

    If you believe in theory of evolution.. :tea:
    kingdom animalia.

  • Ty

    I was good with listening to them until somebody here :eek: prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying
    __________
    Say what nah :rofl:

  • Smonae

    Good Morning Sandy :waves:
    Jenie :hugs:
    TY
    San
    Anna
    LoveZoe
    Taken
    MsB
    NY
    Jdore
    Gypsy
    MsVall
    Caramel
    Deedee
    Gelly
    Any one I missed :hi:
    Donte
    Razz
    Bnatural
    Lex
    Atypical
    Man aka Boris twin :hugs:

  • PERFECTO

    "One man can't please one women"? (Oocho voice) Child please! Don't call yourself a man then!

  • MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba

    Hey either you agree with it or you don’t… either way everyone has a choice.
    _____________________
    :cosign: <my co-sign :lol:
    You have to work at ANYTHING you do. Heck I have to make a decision to go to work and get up in the morning. That doesn't come naturally :rofl:

  • Jdore

    gypsyeyes says:

    JDORE-WHERE DID YOU GET THAT AGE ENHANCED PICTURE OF TERRIO…OOOOH KILLEM!
    ~~~~~~~
    LOL! From my frat in his "say something nice" post

  • Caramel Rain

    nybrn2 says:

    Folk that don’t believe in monogamy should remain single…

    *************
    That I agree with. It's not fair to lead someone on or have them thinking you are committed to them when you're not..

  • Jdore

    :waves: Smonae

  • Brownskin Cutie (Carrington’s E-boo)

    Good morning yall!!! :hi: :tape: on this topic

  • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

    @JENIE
    "What is there to disagree with in his statements?
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    Hey either you agree with it or you don’t… either way everyone has a choice. You can either put up with this lifestyle and accept it(which can’t say a word about this ninja stick his dyck in other females or males ) for that matter, or you can say hell no I’ll pass …. just that simple

    _____________

    Yeah, you don't have to "participate" or "be involved" with him. But the facts of what he is saying is true, which is what I mean by saying there isn't anything to "disagree" with.

    You can choose not to like those facts but there is no counter argument against them.

  • http://santanasantana.wix.com/artist San ah make ya dance

    :wave: Morning Smonae

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @GELLY
    “It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
    ________________
    Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn’t come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves.”
    ____________
    :yes:
    And then we wonder why so many people walk around mad and stressed and flippin out and chit.
    _______________________

    I don't know what the hell ya'll talm bout, but I ain't sharing no damn dyck :nono: I don't give a damn what anyone says, and if I have to stay single because of this notion than so be it :tea: and folks wonder why disease is at an all time high !!!!!!! Loose dycks running round here too and fro !!!!! Just because you can do it, don't make it right .... wtf ...... so a man doesn't have to have self control over his peen !! Nah :nono:

  • lovezoe

    Are Sandra's friends her friends? :coffee:

  • Caramel Rain

    :hi: Smonae

    Ty, :tea: Look what the cat dragged in :tea:

  • Smonae

    Akon and his multiple wives are entitled to their beliefs :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgpRw9tiuM bnatural

    MisTaken :cell: The Black Mamba says:

    Bnat: I flirted with listening to the Breakfast Club a few weeks back because Rickey can get lame, TJMS doesn’t play the music I like and Steve H just doesn’t do it for me outside of the Strawberry Letter. I was good with listening to them until somebody here :eek: prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying :nono: Every since then I have no listened. I know no one is perfect and heck I used to listen to Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?
    -----

    Charlemagne attacked her for NO reason at all...it was after the whole thing at the VMA's...her jumping on stage...I think that it was a few months after that....

    It was DEAD wrong but that's kind of what he is known for...he's definitely a jerk...but it's funny other times. I forgot all about Rickey Smiley since the Breakfast Club has taken over in VA.

  • http://santanasantana.wix.com/artist San ah make ya dance

    Loose dycks running round here too and fro !!!!! Just because you can do it, don’t make it right …. wtf …… so a man doesn’t have to have self control over his peen !! Nah :nono:
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    Say that shyt again and anytime someone make something sound good and logical, ppl jump on it :no:

  • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    I think it had more to do with the fact that Teethmina met her WITH Peter, was all in her face and acted like she was just an artist but was :hump: him. Of course she should be mad at Peter but I think she was justified with being PIST @Teethmina because on a human respect level she was dead wrong. And Teethmina stood up like she was bad. :stop: SHE WASN’T REEAADDDYYY
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    All of this! So all of that Amina was talking about she did not know, bytch you knew. You just did not care. :tea: Good luck to you though, because between you and your husband Peter...together yall have love and hip hop, dirty feet, and less than half a damn career....and will forever be know as two triflent ass hoe ass dusty ass dingy ass people.

  • Shellz

    Even tho, i do not think i can engage in a polyamorous relationship. i do agree with AKON. Besides he is financially set to care for his wives more than adequately
    GM lovebugs

  • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    Good Morning everyone!! Hey Sandra!!! How are yall!

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @JENIE
    “What is there to disagree with in his statements?
    _____________________
    Hey either you agree with it or you don’t… either way everyone has a choice. You can either put up with this lifestyle and accept it(which can’t say a word about this ninja stick his dyck in other females or males ) for that matter, or you can say hell no I’ll pass …. just that simple
    _____________
    Yeah, you don’t have to “participate” or “be involved” with him. But the facts of what he is saying is true, which is what I mean by saying there isn’t anything to “disagree” with.
    You can choose not to like those facts but there is no counter argument against them.
    ___________________

    Hey here's a fact, a dyck can fit inside of a man's butthole and he can get extreme pleasure that way :tea: now do I think its right :nono: but you as a man (heterosexual) say nah I am not going to stick my peen in a bung hole :tea: my point is , just cause it can be done, and even a fact don't mean its right in my book :nono:

  • Smonae

    Good luck to you though, because between you and your husband Peter…together yall have love and hip hop, dirty feet, and less than half a damn career….and will forever be know as two triflent ass hoe ass dusty ass dingy ass people.

    Nakeya :rofl:

  • gypsyeyes

    If you are with someone that doesn't mind that you want or have the desire to be with more than just her than ok, but if you take that choice from me and stick your dickle in everything we have a problem. I understand that he is an FOB but he is no longer in his country so the rules don't apply here. That kind of shyt goes down in these here United Stated will get your DACK super glued to your thigh!!!

  • GellySammich

    :waves: Ty and Nae

  • Caramel Rain

    You have to remind yourself that you are in a relationship and what cheating would do to that relationship and then count the cost.
    ******
    I disagree. Just because someone is attractive, doesnt mean you're attracted to them. You hve to have very weak flesh to be tempted EVERY TIME you leave the house. If you have to constantly remind yourself that your married or with someone, then you need therapy. Seek help immediately.

    Either you're not happy with your partner or you have deep issues with your self esteem if you constantly seeking attention. Again, my .02.

  • Smonae

    :newpost: NorthWest

  • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

    @JENIE
    "And then we wonder why so many people walk around mad and stressed and flippin out and chit.
    _______________________

    I don’t know what the hell ya’ll talm bout, but I ain’t sharing no damn dyck I don’t give a damn what anyone says, and if I have to stay single because of this notion than so be it and folks wonder why disease is at an all time high !!!!!!! Loose dycks running round here too and fro !!!!! Just because you can do it, don’t make it right …. wtf …… so a man doesn’t have to have self control over his peen !! Nah
    _________________________

    Lol. No one's telling you to share peen. But you will anyway. Just like your man will share puzz. Most people are NEVER monogamous. That's just the truth.

    If you think these people that been married 50,000 years never cheated on each other, let me sell you this magical white milky lotion that heals all that ails you
    :jack:

  • lovezoe

    Bnat- what station Breakfast Club come on in VA now? 103?

  • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    Morning Smonae!! lol

  • Ty

    PERFECTO says:

    “One man can’t please one women”? (Oocho voice) Child please! Don’t call yourself a man then!
    __________
    :preach: Pleasure is both mental and physical, for me anyway. No matter how many ducks I have access to

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    San I am not sipping the koolaid :nono: ....
    chile this right here is organic chai tea >>>>> :tea:

    It's called what is morally correct, not stating facts to tickle a ninja fancy , to give him leeway to fawk off ..... I think not :tea:

  • http://thegameonbetblog.tumblr.com/ Bird

    I thought of you when I saw this story on TMZ yesterday. It's not true. We can all ho. We all see many people that are attractive to us. We don't have to screw all of them and humans have the ability to control their impulses if they want to. Some cultures decide that the men don't have to. Only the women have to. That's all that is. It's not biological. We rule the earth because we are the most intelligent species. Akon and men/cultures like him want to pretend we don't have the ability to control our actions which of course is not true.

  • http://santanasantana.wix.com/artist San ah make ya dance

    It’s called what is morally correct, not stating facts to tickle a ninja fancy , to give him leeway to fawk off ….. I think not :tea:
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    And I agree. You will get fed a lot of "facts" in this world

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
    ________________

    GellySammich says:

    Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn’t come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves.
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    Exactly. Monogamy is unnatural if it has to be reinforced through constant reminders, intimidation or threats. :no:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @SANDRA
    Man, Sandra must be BALLIN these days with all these new “friends” she got!

    Don’t forget the people that got you there Sandra, don’t forget where you came from….
    __________________

    Akon has only laced my pockets one time. It's not what you think. :)

  • http://santanasantana.wix.com/artist San ah make ya dance

    Go ahead and share that :thumbsup: And say cheese! While you doing it :yes:

  • Ty

    SO I JUST HEARD ON THE RYAN CAMERON MORNING SHOW THAT PEBBLES WILL BE ON WENDY WILLIAMS WHERE THE RUMOR WILL BE ADDRESSED ABOUT CHILI SLEEPING WITH LA REID AND THAT IS HOW HE GOT THEM AWAY FROM HER…
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    Is she bringing TLC's contract :popcorn:

    Hey Smonae :hug:

  • GellySammich

    :lol: I haven't once said what can and can't be done. I know we are all capable of being with one partner. I said that his statement makes sense biologically. Whether it's for you or not :shrug:. Also know that most people that partake in this particular lifestyle (the right way... not just some old cheating shyt) aren't whores and banging whoever whenever they can. You know how you all have had multiple partners and dated many people... maybe been married a couple times?? Well, you're just as in danger of these scary diseases as those that do it all at the same time.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    MSVALLDAY says:

    It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again. You have to remind yourself that you are in a relationship...
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    And yet you don't have to remind yourself to breath or eat. :coffee:

  • http://www.caboki.com/index.html Man, I just don’t care™

    @SANDRA
    "Man, Sandra must be BALLIN these days with all these new “friends” she got!

    Don’t forget the people that got you there Sandra, don’t forget where you came from….
    __________________

    Akon has only laced my pockets one time. It’s not what you think.
    _____________________

    :rofl:

    "Make the money, don't let the money make you!"

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @PERFECTO
    "Are we talking about humans or animals….people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid."
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    Man, I just don’t care™ says:
    :huh:

    Humans are animals tho....
    ________________

    True. We have a more complicated thought process than animals, but we are still animals. And when we are stressed, we revert back to our original animalistic tendencies.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Bird says:

    We can all ho. We all see many people that are attractive to us. We don’t have to screw all of them and humans have the ability to control their impulses if they want to.
    __________________

    You're thinking from a female perspective. Men think differently because they are wired to have multiple random sexual encounters with women. Listen to Akon. He's trying to school you ladies. :yes:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    jeniefrumdabloc says:

    It’s called what is morally correct, not stating facts to tickle a ninja fancy , to give him leeway to fawk off ….. I think not
    ___________________

    He's a man. He's going to do it anyway whether you like it or not. Unless you're chained to him 24/7....

  • Beauty01020418

    Polygamy is human practice not God's intention he joined one man and one woman not several chicks to one man! People do what they want not always what is right!

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com So U Fancy Ha? Hehe Only U Think It

    Friend of the blog::: Great Akon take your azz back to Africa with that dumb ish you talking trying to brainwash women... That's why you 40 looking like you 62 because all them women done stressed and sucked the youth out you... And. FYI for your goofy azz while you out picking up more sister wives the ones you got sucking on the next man peen in the clothes your brought her and picking him up in the car you paying the note on because no woman in her right mind would be faithful to a man like you.. So you got bishes and the next man smashing yo bishes for free.. You ain't home to keep a watch of what's going to busy picking up more wives and more bills... And lets see will they stay around when the money goes..... Wake Up if you can discipline yourself to make millions of dollars you can put the same effort into loving one woman and not to mention the herpes and all the other std you can spread around... Always remember anything you can do women can do it better and you won't even know it!!!

  • pnutbuttanjelli

    I hate when people try and take excerpts from the Bible and try to twist it to make it fit their mold and way of thinking. Just because polygamy existed back then in Bible times doesn't make it right. God says that only One woman And One belong together. Period. Point. Blank. Anything other than that is a lie And the devil wanting u to think it's right. But that is all. *goes Back to lurking*

  • rockstar

    He's telling the truth! Since the dawn of time men from all cultures have had multiple wives. only within the last few centuries have they changed this tradition. They changed it mainly for political reasons and not for religious reasons.