Shad Moss

Shad Moss

We can add Joie Chavis' name to the list of bitter baby mamas (like Kevin Hart's ex-wife, Torrei Hart) who have trouble letting go of the past.

Chavis is the ex-girlfriend of BET 106 & Park host Shad "Bow Wow" Moss. The mother-of-one took to her now-deleted Twitter account to put Bow Wow on blast for being a deadbeat dad.

Joie wrote a series of tweets accusing Bow wow of ignoring their toddler daughter, Shai Moss, while he was on the west coast with his fiancée, Erica Mena.

"I don't normally speak out and could care less about his personal life," she wrote. "But I will not allow him to keep dragging my name through the mud!"

Chavis says Moss has been "in and out of LA for damn [near] a month" and hasn't seen their daughter at all. She accused Moss of ignoring his daughter's calls and FaceTime sessions.

But Moss posted a photo of himself on Instagram with Shai last week, along with a note expressing his frustration over not seeing his daughter.

Shad Moss

"Maaan words cant describe how much i miss you i just want to see you... Hug you... Things will get better. I miss you shai shai... I just dropped a tear on this one," he wrote.

"Let him tell it 'I won't let him see her' .. GTFOH," Chavis wrote on Twitter.

Chavis added: "It's clear what's a priority in his life and it's not my daughter."

But it was all good last Thanksgiving when Chavis (pictured above with Bow Wow) thought there was a chance they would get back together.

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    • MisUnderstood

      Awww Joie isn't feeling joieful since Chad got engaged huh? She one of the women who says you can screw em but not marry em? I call that a moshanda.

    • thriftStoreJungle

      cute kid. she'll be taller than her pops in no time. twitter rants won't make a man do what you want, joie.

    • MisUnderstood

      Fantasia 1st baby daddy suing for custody & child support of 13yr old Zion. He said so what I ain't do nothing for her all her life. I need that money now :popcorn:

    • lovezoe

      Looking like Mimi. I wish folks would keep they baby mama/daddy drama off the net.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      Niggas crying on sosha media bout not seeing they chirren falls on my blind eyes and deaf ears if they haven't filed them papers for visitation.

      You was in court for child support Shad, where was yo lawyer filing custody papers :tea: FOH with that IG sympathy :eyeroll:

    • CocoKhaleesi

      In turs over the word "Sosha" and how much my phone hated me for trying to type it... And is that a filter on that pic up top or is Lil missy sportin some lip stank?

    • sassyshe

      First she was never a girlfriend she was a side piece that out 3 weeks of shine when Angela found out. Dude demanded a dna test cause he said you was a slore. Joi mad cause she couldnt incite enough drama for Mona and her scenes if she got any on lhhh was reduced to d level friend so shes hoping with some hype mona can add her a few scenes. Its really sad how these chicks be publicizing their kids on social media for 2 secs of fame

    • sassyshe

      @misunderstood fantasia baby daddy is what your grandma would call a sorry arse negro. The court clerk should've laughed at him while he was filing that petition while giving him :sideeye: :huh:

    • sassyshe

      But it was all good last Thanksgiving when Chavis (pictured above with Bow Wow) thought there was a chance they would get back together.
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      It was all good up until the 2nd week of September when he was posting pics of him taking the kid to her first day of school and both him and Joi meeting her teachers

    • http://www.facebook.com/juanhustle JuanHustle

      At this point, I'm just glad he doesn't play in the NFL cause all these domesticated issues in pro sports making more highlights than the actual games played. Sheesh.

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      P.O.P!!!! Pimp Squad (shaky voice) Maaamma I love you!!!!
      <--- go to minute 1:17 of the link and start there. Let that thang ride out until the end for some laughs. You are welcome :kona:
      :bye: night

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

      So EJ having weight loss surgery?

    • http://youtu.be/a8dHpVXioLA #TEAMTHIS Smack that bootay :shakebutt: puppylove

      We can add Joie Chavis‘ name to the list of bitter baby mamas (like Kevin Hart‘s ex-wife, Torrei Hart) who have trouble letting go of the past
      ________________
      So @Sandra are you saying that Joie should also hang her head in shame since she was also d dumped by a midget

    • MisUnderstood

      @Days EJ had it done in Aug. He already lost some weight. Y'all think he was :nun: before, y'all ain't seen nothing

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      EJ had it done in Aug. He already lost some weight. Y’all think he was :nun: before, y’all ain’t seen nothing
      ------------
      So what your saying is that he still looks the same? Oh OK. Got ya.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Morning luvlies :wave:

      There's always Two sides to every story :tea: she may be pisst AWF w/Shad's BS
      not bitter.
      OR Maybe she is... Nonetheless :yahoo: IT's Almost FRIDAY!!!!!

    • A.J.

      Good Morning Sandra!!

      Luvn
      Nakeya
      Misunderstood
      Puppylove
      Datsmdub
      Taken
      Juan
      Sassy
      Coco
      Missy J
      Lovezoe
      Thrift

      :waves:

    • aRoTh

      @Take

      I seen THAT yesterday and DIED! You hear me? You know that's a chick, right? :ghost:

    • felinelurker

      Mornin Luvn, AJ

      Mornin Roses! :nino:

    • felinelurker

      aRoTh says:

      @Take

      I seen THAT yesterday and DIED! You hear me? You know that’s a chick, right?
      **************************************

      But when she said I'm a female, tho...

    • lovezoe

      Black Ish wasn't as funny last night. Still will support.

    • A.J.

      Morning felinelurk!!

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      < ---- Piiimmmmp Squad POP!!! :trophy: MAAAMMMAA I LOOOVE YOU. p o p.
      #freedonnagodall :tea:

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      @Roth I knew it was a girl when she turned around to the camera and was like “EYE AM LEGALLY BLINE :blink: HOW THEY TRYING TO SAY I DROVE THE GETAWAY CAR :steer: She had a Musiq Soulchile EYE :ghost:
      Then the lifestyle dude looking like a burnt up Lebron James talking about *sucks teeth* I told that nucc--- I did NOT stab anybody you not finna sit up here and disrespectful….. (Looks off in the distance) MAMA COME DOWN TO COUNTY TO BAIL ME OUT!!!!! (looks back at camera) thank you for your time :winky:
      I asked for a post on this :pray: There are so mannie issues: confused gender, single parents, narcissism, mixed up vortex boxes.
      The list goes on and on :rules: the possibilities are endless for discussion :pray:

    • aRoTh

      **************************************

      But when she said I’m a female, tho…

      ___________________

      She turned pussy REAL QUICK didn't s/he? :rofl:

    • felinelurker

      @take,
      but wouldn't confused gender and mixed up vortex boxes be of the same issue? :thinking:

    • felinelurker

      She turned pussy REAL QUICK didn’t s/he?
      *****************************
      chile, yes!

    • aRoTh

      @Take

      He was like "Yeah I was durr....I put tha thang in dere. No I won't dere. I told the lady to look. I admit to using the credit...oops I mean debit card. I admit to dat. But I wasn't dere. I got out the passenger seat and Carma (I assume he means Carmen) was drivin'." :smack:

    • A.J.

      HOW THEY TRYING TO SAY I DROVE THE GETAWAY CAR :steer: She had a Musiq Soulchile EYE :ghost:
      _________
      :dead: hilarious Pimp Squad P-O-P I'll be out!! :lol:

    • Wasting time

      Good Morning Roses :waves:

      Taken
      Keya
      AJ
      Feline

      :yawn: Iz Tired

    • A.J.

      Wasting :woot:

    • lovezoe

      :waves: morning

    • aRoTh

      On topic:

      Shad's lil girl done grew UP QUICK! And him and baby mama look real cute together.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      Joie, the best thing you can do is live your like it's golden. #unbothered
      Hey y'all :waves:

    • Wasting time

      Black Ish wasn’t as funny last night. Still will support.
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      You didn't think so!
      I laughed more last night than last week.
      I had to hit back a few times because I was laughing over the joke

    • felinelurker

      :waves:
      wasting & zoe!

      I'm tired to wasting. Mister wouldn't let me sleep :hump: :ashamed: :yawn:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I’m tired to wasting. Mister wouldn’t let me sleep
      ==========
      Your mannish behind :rolleyes: Yeah, I'm salty :lol:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3VwtDfGajQ&feature=player_embedded VDot

      I'm only at the 2:36 of Taken's link. What in the fugg is going on?! I'm so confused. We got a bull dyke, a church sissy, and two slow thugs. :bite: Who else they gon introduce?! :blink: I'm wore out already :phew:

    • felinelurker

      :hahaha:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3VwtDfGajQ&feature=player_embedded VDot

      The church sissy leaned down to that mic to make sure yall heard him say "I ain't stab NOBODY!!" :nono:

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      @take,
      but wouldn’t confused gender and mixed up vortex boxes be of the same issue?
      _____________________
      Getcho tail outta here :chase: messing up my post before it even happen. I ain’t never gone be a loyal reader :wails:
      @Arother :crying1: I just choked on an alma (mean almond but I am talking like Mr. Goodall) reading that. He thought he was so cute smoking his Virginia Slim. He was like :huh: no I did not stab anybody but I saw the whole thing. Then how they both gone say they both Goodalls but they don’t know eachother? Then the bulldagger was like I AM KNOT A GOODALL :blink: I am a Marshall, God bless the dead :pray: my daddy was a MARSHALL…. MY mama a white by marriage. Then she was like P O P FREE DONNA GODALL. The reporter was like (in the white reporter when she talked to Richard Sherman) I thought you said you weren’t a Goodall :eek: Bulldagger was like :blink: I’m not! PIMP SQUAD! I’ll be back in the streets

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3VwtDfGajQ&feature=player_embedded VDot

      Was he smoking a square while in cuffs? :rofl:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Morning and shyt :yawn:

    • Wasting time

      I just know what the POOLease Said :lol:

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      Vdot KEEP WATCHING :eek: it only gets better :rofl: :hahaha:
      Only this could make me change Mama Dee

    • Wasting time

      The church sissy
      ---------------
      He almost dropped the N word!!

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3VwtDfGajQ&feature=player_embedded VDot

      How you hollaring out Pimp Squad for Life with that Gabby lip quiver? :rofl: Taken where did you find this sh!t? :hahaha:

    • Wasting time

      The church sissy
      —————

      :rofl: I'm Through!!!

    • lovezoe

      I’m tired to wasting. Mister wouldn’t let me sleep
      ----------
      #clutchespearls

    • Wasting time

      The church sissy
      —————

      :ghost: Momma come to the County and see what is going on :bye:
      I cannot!!

    • felinelurker

      @ 2:26, what in the Lebron James, Tyrese, R. Kelly hell? :blink:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3VwtDfGajQ&feature=player_embedded VDot

      My drug case...my assault case....I ain't no robbing type of person :no:

      These police were just letting them give interviews. :smoke: squares

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      I heard the mix on the Rickey Smiley show. They put the P O P hold it down.. mama I love you… and I am legally bline on a mix and I was in the car like this :steer: :crying1: and I had not even seen the video. So last night I remembered it and went on sosha media. NUCCA :ghost: I found the full video and not the clip off twitter and IG :dead: It was O.V. I been spreading this like Niko spread crabs. EVERYBODY GOT TO SEE THIS

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3VwtDfGajQ&feature=player_embedded VDot

      I don't know what I just watched :eek: Leave it to the bull dyke and the church sissy to give 5 minute monologues. I know the 2 slow thugs were over in the other car watching like :facepalm: why did we bring them along?! We all going down :smack: But they slow and they didn't know any better :shrug:

    • lovezoe

      Told y'all Steve Harvey a coon:

      Paula Deen is in the midst of trying to claw her way back to relevancy over a year after she was exposed as the butter-soaked racist we all probably assumed she was. Steve Harvey and his mustache have a television show to host, advertising dollars to worry about and not a whole hell of a lot of concern for the validity of the "help" and "advice" they dispense. Truly, a partnership between these two is a match made in hypocritical heaven.

      Steve Harvey operates a mentorship program for young, fatherless young men in cities around America and this year he has invited Paula Deen to teach culinary skills to some of the boys.

      A look through the photos on the camp's website reveals that most, if not all, of the campers are black. I know what you're thinking, but it makes perfect sense that the best way to mentor black boys is to put them under the tutelage of a racist white lady: if you're trying to be an asshole, duh.

      Honestly, I can't even blame Paula Deen too much for this one. After being booted off of the Food Network, girlfriend has got a website to run and the rest of her dignity to shill. Gaudy jewelry, false eyelashes and Mariah Carey's retoucher don't come cheap, y'all. I completely understand her decision to participate in this farce. How can anyone still call her a racist if she's willing to teach black boys how to deep fry that which should never be deep fried? Would a racist do that? (Unfortunately for Deen, the answer is yes, a racist with ulterior motives would absolutely do that.)

      Besides, Deen doesn't even have to exert much effort. Steve Harvey and his campers will be flying down to Savannah for the cooking lessons because kitchens and food and butter exist nowhere else.

      The majority of the blame here is placed squarely on one Steve Harvey, of the shitty and unasked for advice-giving Harveys. But really, we can't expect much better from the man who brought us the bound roll of used toilet paper that was Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man.

      As Yesha Callahan at The Root points out, aren't there plenty of black chefs Harvey could have hired instead of a notorious and largely unapologetic racist. If nothing else, wouldn't it be more impactful for all these young black men to be mentored by another black man—perhaps even someone who grew up under similar circumstances? Hell, Harvey couldn't have at least hired some white chef who hasn't made their black and white employees use separate bathrooms?

      For his part, Steve Harvey has already said that he gives absolutely no fs what The Bloggers think about his decision. [THANKS FOR THE SHOUTOUT, STEVE.] No, I don't expect better from either of them and yes, I understand that money is most likely the guiding motivator behind this ridiculousness, but I refuse to sit around and act like there is nothing wrong with this.

      The real winner here is Paula Deen, who gets another chance to repair her image and will be one step closer to her dream of hosting a dinner party serviced entirely by black men.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3VwtDfGajQ&feature=player_embedded VDot

      When did this happen? Slow thug got braids AND a muscle G Unit shirt :blinK: Had to be about 2000 :yes:

    • Wasting time

      That was great. I'm over here :crying:
      Heshe was giving shout outs and chit! :rofl:

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      I told ya’ll he up there looking like Lebron 4th cousin removed with the red head band. Somebody call OTB and tell her we got a way in for her if she don’t mind friending a church sissy :hahaha:
      When he sucked his teeth and said I TOLD THAT NUCC-- :rolleyes: I about lost it. He probably be the type to cut somebody to the core with his reads cause he angry and bitter about his life but be like :winky: heeeey girl look at you! you cute! You lost weight????? Then she walk off he be like :wtf: is that bad made bish wearing? She look like she woke up like shi---- not this!!!!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      V
      Take
      Time
      Lurk
      Jenie
      Butters

    • Wasting time

      Missy :hi:
      Don so fine in your gravi!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      wouldn’t it be more impactful for all these young black men to be mentored by another black man—perhaps even someone who grew up under similar circumstances?

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      G. Garvin :tea:

    • felinelurker

      :waves: missy

    • lovezoe

      G. Garvin
      ------
      Or Roble

    • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      Missy :happy: Waste, A.J., Zoe Pound
      I saw those G Unit shirts too and was like :no: And then the cop car looked like it was off In The Heat of the Night cause it looked box shaped. But I feel like it was recent

      OAN I just turned my blue tooth off to listen to the church sissy saw nucc--- I did not STAB NOBODY because I couldn’t hear the audio and I forgot I had the radio streaming. Why School Boy Q “Studio” blast LOUD AS EL :earphones: I’m just sitting here in the studio trying to get to you bae… But the song so f’n dope it’s hard for me not to blaze…. To tell the truth I wish it was you I was blazing…
      :facepalm: I am at my desk shaking

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      G. Garvin
      ________________

      his voice annoys the pure dee hell out of me :rolleyes:

      does he have some type of sinus infection? ugh!

    • lovezoe

      :newpost:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      Now I have to boycott Family Fued :cry: He's very entertaining on that show.