Halle Berry and son Maceo

Actress Halle Berry opened up about her disappointment at having three failed marriages. The normally private Oscar winner was a guest keynote speaker at the 2017 City Summit and Gala at the USC Tower in Los Angeles on Saturday.

The 50-year-old star opened up about her failed marriages to ex-baseball player David Justice, singer Eric Benet and her 3rd ex-husband, French actor Olivier Martinez, with whom she shares three-year old son Maceo Martinez.

The mother-of-2 explained that she bought into the typical American fantasy of a knight in shining armor ready to sweep her off her feet.

"I have learned to deal with three failed marriages, which has not been easy, especially when there's children involved,” she said. "(As) women, we go into marriage thinking it’s going to last forever and that this is our prince on a shiny horse. That's what fairytales taught me as a kid... and I’m kind of anti-fairytales today.”

She added: "But we go in there with that hope, so when it falls apart it feels like a huge failure and a huge disappointment. I’ve often felt guilty and responsible. I’ve suffered a lot of pain and anguish.

Halle learned that with maturity comes wisdom that Dopamine relationships are doomed to failure.

"In every one of those situations, as hard - and sometimes embarrassing - as it was, I learned so much about myself. All of those relationships were necessary for me. We all come here with lessons that we have to learn and those relationships provided me with lessons that got me to where I am right now. For that, I’m grateful. But it has been hard. It’s been a difficult part of my life.”

The actress said she is focusing on her children, and teaching them valuable life lessons.

"Being mom is my most important job and I now know that everything I do, everything I say and everything I offer them is really important,” Halle explained. “I say lots of things, but I think what’s more important is that my children watch what I do.”

She continued: “I’m more mindful of how I live my life and what they see me do. If I want them to be kind, I have to show them kindness. If I want them to be curious, I have to show them my own curiosity. If I want them to be smart, I have to show that I’m continuing to learn every day."

Halle also has an eight-year-old daughter, Nahla, with former underwear model Gabriel Aubry.

Click here to learn more about Dopamine relationships and how to avoid them.

Photos by Michael Wright/WENN.com | X17agency.com

  • Sucker Free

    She didn't explain why u lying Auntie? Leave Halle alone...where is the Flynn post so we can GO ALL IN

    Besides...what's understood needs no explanation...u born alone u die alone get it in while u can hunni...

  • Realtalk2

    So Sandra, this is headline news?? This is groundbreaking?? With everything that is going on in the world, I can't believe you're talking Hallie's relationship status and a Jackson nephew that we already forgot!! 2 words: Michael Flynn.....????

  • KDub

    They turning on him.. The Repubs. This is current Breaking news. Im so damn gleeful.

    The Senate's second-ranking Republican and other GOP senators are calling for an investigation into connections between President Donald Trump and Russia, and want former National Security Adviser Michael Flynn to testify.

  • Realtalk2

    Thank you???

  • hottlanta

    Chronically single. I guess Steve Harvey is chronically married. Only thing about that is that women give Harvey the luxury and a pass to go from woman to woman to say he is experimenting whereas Halle will be called a "ho" and they will say she can't keep a man. but will not say Steve can't keep a woman.

  • KDub

    Great minds. Bc I just posted this

  • Realtalk2

    Yesssssss

  • A-way29

    I'm sure a lot of people can relate. It can be tough finding Mrs./Mr. right. The relationship game is so backwards now and days. It's not what it used to be.

    In other news, I want that Michael Flynn post too.... (hops on bandwagon)

  • Realtalk2

    Exactly!!!!!

  • Realtalk2

    That's what's up!!! I'm waiting too...

  • A-way29

    I'm sure it'll be here soon...just wait on it lol

  • Carolina Blue

    I had no idea she was on a different world.

  • Carolina Blue

    The empire is crumbling like we all figured it would. Hmmm?

  • hottlanta

    Did you see those photos over the weekend where he had the dignitary on one side of the room and a wedding on the other. How ghetto was that. His wife was looking like WTF. Then they had everybody around the table looking at the cellphones talking trying to see what was going on. I thought when a dignitary comes to town they SUPPOSED to stay at the White House in D.C., not in Florida. They had folks coming by, taking pictures, giving high-fives the whole 9 yards. Yet they were making a stink about Hillary emails and national security. Yep this is what folks voted for.

  • Lovezoe

    What you think he did? ????https://instagram.com/p/BQf6OoxDMJj/

  • Lovezoe

    One episode. Ron was juggling 3 women

  • Realtalk2

    ??

  • MistaO

    Waaaa waaaa boo hoo, cry me a river. Between all them men there is but one common denominator... It ain't that hard to figure out.

  • KDub

    And head of Sercret Service..Clancy said fukk your administration too this morning? is this true? Only place I see it is CNN. Think he is pist over the private security detail of Trump. Know there was friction last month. Which was heavily denied. Ohhh WEEEE this is getting good. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3fccad6a5e193478d974a65332a2e75cdc4f2abb398198c4816489fd33d5f3fc.jpg

  • Phillybruh

    Speaking of mixed babies, I need to see this Janet/Wissam Combo..lol

  • Carolina Blue

    Right. I saw that episode this morning.

  • Lovezoe

    Only downside we will get Pence. Dump is a saint compared to him.

  • Realtalk2

    Get outta here! It's going down!!

  • Lovezoe

    Oh cause of VDay.

  • Realtalk2

    True

  • goat

    Halle,
    I've been trying to get you to see the light. Come'on home baby girl, Come'on home.

    Love,
    Tha GOAT

  • Phillybruh

    Somewhere Hillary is having a good belly laugh, I mean like rolling all over the living room floor kinda laugh...lol

  • Vonn

    So Halle doesn't know that fairytales are make believe? She was good & grown when she married the first time, it took her three more failures to realize that fairytales are BS? And she had boyfriends in between marriages

  • Carolina Blue

    Games, she didnt play them.

  • goat

    Just sloppy.

  • Carolina Blue

    Correct.

  • nicelyput32

    I'll take "cheated for the 9th time" Alex. ??

  • Carolina Blue

    I wouldve had to whoop her ass though?

  • bhavana

    She's a nut job.

  • KDub

    They dont have to stay at the White House. Bush had dignitaries stay at Camp David and the Ranch before.

    British PM Tony Blair, Prince Mohammed bin Zayed al Nahyan from UAE. King Abdullah of Saudi Arabia. Vicente Fox of Mexico.
    Im sure they didnt talk about a threat from North Korea during their visit tho. THAT is the issue with the current clown.

  • Lovezoe

    But I'm violent.

  • Lovezoe

    She's a good friend I bet. Keep blades under her tongue.

  • Me 215

    Are you married Sandra?

  • Missy

    But why is she holding his big cutie pie arse tho?

  • Evilpeoplearetheweakest

    Lol. Are you joking?

  • imright

    paps

  • imright

    ??????

  • KDub

    Think they would make quick work of him too. Rex Tillerson. he third in charge. Let me go look at him. Rex for President!

  • Carolina Blue

    The car cant defend its self.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    you gotta stop falling in love with the idea of love and forever. that shit is work even for the most seasoned couples, and love aint enough to endure when things get tough

  • Carolina Blue

    Lol my kind of lady.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    A visit from safelite will fix that. He'll be able to go out with his other chick tonight.

  • stav

    Common sense is not common, maybe she should just focus on her kids minus a man.

  • MistaO

    Oh please.

  • Ms.Caramel

    The reason she has 3 failed marriages is because men ain't shyt these days. Period!

  • KDub

    Halle is the tragic mulatto. Im not here for her. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and admit something is perhaps wrong with you and not everyone else. I hate HATE HATE how she was able to villify these men and folks and media fell for it. This heffa stole SOMEONE career. We STILL dont know who beat the hearing out of her head. But we CAN point to when speculation started folks stars started to fade. Over her.

  • Carolina Blue

    *itself

  • KDub

    *Halle.

  • 2brefrank

    Good for Halle. She's still so beautiful and her son looks like his dad.
    We all should live and learn and no one decides how long it takes us to 'get it' but us. As long as we're alive, it's never too late to wise up.

  • Missy

    Ook.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    yall aint shit either

  • Jay

    Her failed relationship with her father is the reason. Fathers teach there daughters how to relate to men.

  • Phillybruh

    Pardon?

  • Full Monty

    Exactly it is never too late and that boy look just like his daddy!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    Verizon done finally caved. EVERYBODY GETS UNLIMITED FOR $45

  • jussaying

    truth

  • jussaying

    lolol. as all their commercials about us using less than 5gbs air.

  • Buttercup

    Marriage isn't for everyone. The sooner folks realize this, the easier life will become.

  • Rayne

    I agree.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I'm waiting for the caveats to be released on this new unlimited plan. I've been with Verizon for a long time so I know there's some trickery in there.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    done let sprint and tmobile bully them into customer satisfaction lol

  • KDub

    And T-mobile followed suit!!!!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    i think you still gotta pay for the unlimited talk/text, so the bill gone be about $80 before tax and fees

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I get tired of getting asked about it. What if I just want to settle in my long term relationship and be happy. Why do I need to legally marry someone. Am I not worthy as a woman because I'm not married?

  • Carolina Blue

    You better believe it. Theyre our top customer and they have spent billions with us...so yeah.

  • Buttercup

    She took the steering wheel too. That's my kind of petty. I would've just stopped there. Lets see how far that will get you, and I'm sure buying a new one will set you back a pretty penny.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Those taxes and fees are a disaster.

  • Vonn

    Now we need these cable/satellite companies to be reasonable.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Chronically? Chile this woman aint sick she just single

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I like their service but it has never come cheap.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    the only downside with them is that the don't have any built in phone subsidies.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I saw that and was like who uses less than 5GBs..........must not have polled anybody in the 20's and below, as well as some 30's and above!!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    better than a $180 cell phone plan tho

  • KDub

    Im trying to not get married again. Bf got the nerve to keep tryna bring it up. I truly just dont want to be bothered in that manner. I mean to each. But it didnt make my life. It created for me personally, a few real live complications. And before folks start etc this is ME. MY exp.

  • 2brefrank

    Welp!!! I'm a woman and I can say. It's not all the men's fault. My single girlfriends are a hot smoking mess. Like get yourself together and respect yourself! My brother is a good man and can't find a self respecting woman to save his life!

  • Carolina Blue

    It never will. Theyre a solid company though. When they come in and do an audit, they dont play at all.

  • Missy

    & u can say that sh*t again.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    You were right..........whole troll!! Once I saw "y'all n*ggas"...I am officially never engaging that one again...not even if I am bored!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    i been cut the cord but to stream w/ more than one person in the house that internet still gone run about $75.

  • hottlanta

    People have tired to make the comparisons but it is not the same thing. This is his OWN PRIVATE MEMBERSHIP club where they were having a wedding on one side. There were no weddings at Camp David nor at the ranch. They were ALONE.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And before folks start etc this is ME.

    Two words: FUKK and THEM!

  • Carolina Blue

    It never disappoints. NEVER!

  • Django the God

    I never thought she was all that my pops was always into Pam Grier and Mary J Blige.

  • Missy

    O yea, does Kimbella get on anyone elses nerves? No? Just me? Ok den.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Her answer should have been and should always be: CAUSE I WANT TO BE!!
    The End!

  • Buttercup

    Chiiiiiile, I got TSO, SEW, SO tired of folks inquiring about Cockblocker and I. It was mainly his family. Eventually, I pointed out how those inquiring were unhappily married and that probably could've been avoided if they didn't succumb to the pressures of being married. If I decide to get back with him, I'm taking the Ashley and Will approach. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3d4d88ef720814c86a69a6fa961b2f4cdb7eeeacfc72ba8ab0125897bca21d52.gif

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    As long as there are representatives she's not the first nor last to part , I do however believe she's turched a bit.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Yeah, but she was spot on at the table---even if she never on with her on situation

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    SMR:Halle Berry Explains Why She’s Chronically Single

    Because she's a nutcase with daddy issues.

  • KDub

    Same with me and ex hus. It was HIS fam. Not mine.

  • leapyearpisces

    You ain't lying because TimeWarner / Spectrum bout to make me do something strange for some change. LOLOLOL. Don't make any sense, and my friend she keep telling me to get the amazon firestick and she would come over and unlock it and do the thing with Kodi, or whatever but I am like I still am going to need some local / regular tv because folks say sometimes the connection or whatever can act up at times. I don't know. I just know I am tired of paying 175.00 a month for internet and cable and I only have two cable boxes one for the living room and one for my room. That is ridiculous.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Chile!!! I get a kee kee, cause I get to practice my self restraint lessons on it!! Truly tests how long I can go before I spazz out! CTHU

    But that n*ggas stuff......nope that ends it for me

  • Vonn

    I really hate big business that takes advantage of the "little man." I can respect a business needing to turn a profit, but these bastards take full advantage of folks.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    im not a woman basher, but i have dated a few who resented me for not being a mess. its weird as hell

  • KDub

    That was my point. Its not like anyone couldnt have overheard them tambout North Korea at that location. That is the issue. Security

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    CTHU...wel dayum!!

  • Carolina Blue

    Hmm nah not with that one. That thing will try its best to get under your skin even when you try to be friendly with it. Im good on it.

  • KDub

    I came in here and gave her kudos last night. She was like HE is yall issue. Yandy was HOT. Bish you need this dose of reality too. AND his mama Ms. Judy. All of yall needed Kimbella to say that.

  • hottlanta

    Some men can't even relate to themselves. It is not fair to blame the father for a relationships because ALL relationships can break up it doesn't matter if your father is in your life your not. MY father was never in my life and I have yet to blame him for something another man done to me or what I allowed to tolerate in a relationship. It is called maturing. I know a lot of women have what society label as good fathers but have sorry men in their lives.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Exactly. I have a friend right now that succumbed to the pressures and is suffering. Fawk that. I'll be chronically single for that.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Yandy was heated lol

  • Missy

    Yea...but she just annoys me. Her & those NY accents of all his baby mamas.

  • Carolina Blue

    Stay away from those types.

  • Buttercup

    Unlimited phone plans aren't new. That's all that was offered when smartphones were first introduced into the market. I can see Verizon phasing out discounting new phones with a contract like AT&T did in order to recoup lost revenue.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Judy was like you not gonna put that on my son.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    You have to do what works for YOUR LIFE. This isn't for someone else. It's for you.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    especially in areas where they have no competition. the prices could be more reasonable but as you stated they take even more advantage.

  • Missy

    New Post.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Only reason I got DirectTV is because they give you unlimited when you are with AT&T and since the grands have tablets on my bill and them fruits of my womb are on my plan too (they pay their portion, though).......unlimited is with the $60 Direct bill is the best way to go. Plus all devices get DirectTV with no data usage, so it benefits us all.

  • Buttercup

    ?? I use an average of 3GBs per month. I'm not sure how I don't use more than that, but I don't.

  • hottlanta

    Your brother could be a good man to you because he is your brother but could be a total azz-hole in a relationship but yet you blame the women because they ain't dealing with his mess. Kudos to the single women who ain't settling for your brother and want better.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I am now and until the end of time. I try to give folks the benefit and make my own decision, but I should follow the crowd on some of them.

  • 2brefrank

    Yep I know exactly what you mean. Friends have told me a dude "think he's perfect" or "stuck up" I'm like...Welp! Let him help you upgrade. I love my friends but geesh! Get it together girls! First note: close your legs, a lot of woman are using their sexuality doing that. Maybe if you close yours for a few months you'll stand out. LOL let me stop before ppl come for me. I don't feel like it today but it's the truth.

  • hottlanta

    Dump ain't tweeted nothing about this at all. I wonder why.

  • A-way29

    I dated this fine ebony sister a few years back. I decided to court her instead of rushing things and just laying up. I wanted something serious. Fast forward, my gentleman-esque behavior caused her to find the exit door.

    This is after I met her fam and spent a small amount on her b-day - after close to 2 months of dating.

    It was the weirdest experience...it's easy to fool around out in these streets...but, ill pass on all that nonsense...let's talk, ask questions, go for a walk..have dinner..

    the bedroom activities are for married people.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    These aren't the unlimited plans of old. These are new limited unlimited plans. For the most part VZW has already started the phase out of discounting phones (they may actually be done now). They have payment plans now.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    think about it like this. You use about 30 to 50 gigs at home a month. so if you're doing upwards of 10 outside the house, you should put the phone down.

  • Buttercup
  • DroneRivers

    Girls are groomed to be brides and boys are not groomed to be grooms. That's a big part of it in a nutshell. Society (read=men) placed these "norms" where the guy is scared to commit and gets high fives for being a slut and girls are supposed to save themselves for the aforementioned sluts.

  • SummerBaby

    Wait who? Do I need ti keep scrolling?

  • SpiceGirl

    that is ridiculous....high way robbery

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Depends on your plan. Some people don't have $180 plans. Even though I still pay more I still have an old unlimited plan. My friend has an even older one where she pays less than $80 a month.

  • Vonn

    Bust that firestick wide open. Lol. I'm getting one myself.

  • 2brefrank

    That's so terrible but thanks for confirming!!!! I be telling my single girlfriends...dudes want wife material they can get a loose woman literally anywhere...they come a dime a dozen!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    She ain't got to.......it was his from the moment his penis dipped in all of them.....with crossover.

    I am glad I am honest with mine about shyt. One was playing a young lady.......had me hot!! Cussed his azz out..If you don't want to see your momma and sister go through the dumbshyt, I better not ever hear about you doing it!! His father: He is just being a man.

    Nignog, how you know......You are only one by default and your penis!! Don't no real man act like that!! FOH

  • CrunchyBlack1

    I meant if you have extra lines or a high gig single plan. oh and i bet she still go an iphone 4 huh??? lmaooo

  • SpiceGirl

    yeah and they treat their NEW folks way better then folks who have been costumers for years....

  • Carolina Blue

    Right. Im the same way so i understand. I peep game and move around it/them.

  • KDub

    THIS!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Luv Pitties

    The issue I have with AT&T is they offer the unlimited data only if you sign up with Directv or Uverse TV. My complex doesn't allow dishes and they mandate you pay $30 Time Warner cable in the rent, so that defeats the purpose to get Uverse TV.

    I asked what if I got Uverse internet instead they told me I am SOL. It seems like when you choose a higher GB data plan the data burns faster. I am thinking of leaving them in October when my time is up.

    My bill for one phone is $287/mth.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Going through a divorce and family is trying to talk him into staying in it. I was like Bruh, your family doesn't have to live in your misery for you.

  • SummerBaby

    I always thought chronically single was someone that never has a man. She's had several.....just don't keep em.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Scromes in the last post. Discussion on Flynn and he came in with "Y'all n*ggas crazy"....wait what?

    We don't even do that..might get a nignog, ninjas, negroes, etc.....but a full out n*gga. Naw, I ain't with that!!

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Families stay trying to load you down with their dead weight.

  • SummerBaby

    Ok thanks! I missed that.

  • 2brefrank

    Nope there are actually a small pool of good men left and just as much as a small pool of good women. I know a good man when I see him...HOUSE, good job, loves the Lord, his problem is...he's not trying to sleep with every woman he sees. And women these days don't like that. The roles are reversing.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    if spectrum was smart they'd follow suit and merge with tmobile or buy out cricket

  • Carolina Blue

    Thats why im with straight talk they AT&T towers or verizon towers without the extra money.

  • leapyearpisces

    I am probably at the end of the month. It's ridiculous. It's a legal, financial rape.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Folks that use their phone for work, which is a lot of people, are lucky if they do. And a lot of companies are only compensating half or none of that.

    Unless you have the ability to connect to Internet, you are more than likely going to go over.

  • Carolina Blue

    BINGO!

  • Buttercup

    I was literally cornered by his aunt and her bestie (has known Cockblocker all his life). I tried to be nicely let the topic go by answering questions like, "We're good." "We've discussed it and are on the same page." The last poke was when his aunt brought up "the other little girl that used to come around" and the advice she gave her. I had to let her know that she should put the energy she's giving my relationship into her marriage. She got married knowing her husband didn't want more kids but convinced him otherwise. Fine. After they had their first together, he wanted a vasectomy, but she wouldn't sign off on it and popped up pregnant a couple of months later. Her husband went to Vegas and couldn't even enjoy himself, because he's so stressed at home worrying about how he's going to take care of 4 kids. The man spent most of his time there crying in his hotel room. Not to mention the fact that SHE (aunt) isn't happy either. She would divorce her husband, but she can't afford to live the lifestyle she desires without him. Yep, then I invited for her to meddle more.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    i missed out on a decent complex who had kickback deals with time warner. i dont play them one choice games when im spending over $900 on rent.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Probably not the only reason, but that's probably a big part of it. She said she witnessed her father physically abusing her mom many times. Most kids who grow up seeing that stuff end up being damaged a lot more than they realize, and the after-effects end up spilling over into their romantic relationships when they grow up.

  • DroneRivers

    Yep, he's retiring and giving 45 a chance to pick his own Director. Watch his pick will end in scandal, too.

  • Luv Pitties

    Another offspring from a long line of racists.

  • fresnostateofmind

    Thanks Cliff Notes

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I. Love. You. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    its true and you know it

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I thought it was because most successful or powerful women only want the kid, not the man.

  • hottlanta

    Betta say it. I remember my mom taking me into the kitchen to show me how to cook for my husband. I took my girls into the kitchen to show them how to cook for themselves. We suppose to save ourselves while they whore around and then we absorb all of his whore spirits in our bodies like a sponge and be GRATEFUL to be with him. No ma am. Don't want a bunch of whore ghosts talking me when he is talking to me. Women rate their womanhood by keeping me out of their bed while men rate their manhood by how many women they can get into their bed.

  • A-way29

    I've been single since 2012. The last person I dated was in 2014. It's whack because I'm a relationship type of guy. Sleeping around has never been my style.. I hear too many stories that make me not even want to talk to anyone. It's like having a side-piece is a requirement now and days...and just too messy...I'll just keeping taking it one day at a time. There has to be a virtuous woman out there.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    No she doesn't. She has an S7. If you buy your own phone you can keep your old plan. Again, we both have unlimited UNTHROTTLED data. This plan has the possibility of being throttled once you hit 22GB.

  • Buttercup

    I don't start mess, Sis, but you know I'll finish it with the quickness.

  • hottlanta

    No one keeps anybody slave days are over. We even set our kids free.

  • A-way29

    maybe it's her.

    How've you been?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Ha! I know. That story goes on the agenda next lunch.

  • Luv Pitties

    My rent is $900+ and if I sign up with Uverse then I will have 2 cable bills. Aside from that I really like it I can pull up to my door and it's really quiet aside from the shooting last month.

  • Leigh Burton

    If Halle wasn't so rich and famous, then maybe she would find true love.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And depends on how many lines. I have 9 lines on my plan: 5 phones, 2 tablets, Samsung watch and an iPad, plus insurance on all lines. When we do the break out, my portion is about 230 (as I pay for my phone, insurance, tablets and iPad)...with the kids paying between 70-90 (depending on if they have an accessory or not) a month. With unlimited data, text, etc and the insurance on all the devices, it still seems like a lot, but it is worth it.

  • SummerBaby

    I use less than 5 per month. I usually use about 3.5GB per month. My girls on the other hand use much more.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    i used to try and wait it out, but now i go full court press early so i can weed them out within 2-3 months.

  • KDub

    Bloop

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    All of them do!! All of them!

  • Luv Pitties

    She tripped me out after that hit and said "I'm still pretty."

  • Buttercup

    I use my phone for work. The only way I can think of going over is if I'm constantly streaming and not on Wifi.

  • Carolina Blue

    Right. Im a woman and i can tell you some of these females are far more worse than any triffling man ive ever known....smh

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I understand. I live in a row, so I am able to get dish and the Digital Life security is also bundled into my plan.

  • SpiceGirl

    damn shame....im like looking at tv and they offer their NEW folks this and that..but yet...charging me an arm a leg and a toe nail...smh

  • CrunchyBlack1

    people seem to only like people with vices or some sort of personality deficiency. Its like they feel judged when they have nothing to remind them that you're just as damaged. they cant be themselves around you for some odd reason or another.

  • nick c

    girls are groomed to be brides? Joke must be on me, no woman is worth marrying these days everyone is in it for themselves, every girl is easily in the 25 plus range in experience so are men but men arnt trying to commit thus the paradox.

  • DroneRivers

    Yep! And some people hop from one relationship to another (J-Lo) out of fear of being alone. But if you don't enjoy your own company, how the hell you expect someone else to enjoy it?

  • 2brefrank

    Awwww MAN!!!! Keep hope alive!!!!! I'm going to pray for you my brotha!!!! How old are you?

  • hottlanta

    When a woman says she is not having sex to a man she is using her sexuality as well to get a man. Sexuality is not physical. If men don't like whores they need to stop creating them.

  • SummerBaby

    Threaten to cancel or ask to speak with someone in the retention department & they will often help you out.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Yeah, if you are never on wifi that data can go up! Even with unlimited, we still connect to wifi when it is available....cause at a certain amount of usage, it will slow down. But when you deal with young folks......steaming is a sure thing to happen

  • Carolina Blue

    I hate that throttle mess.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    i see what you mean. i was talking to this older lady and stopped after 3 week. I was confused as to how i could converse her under the table and she was ok with that. I had to let that go. she was not about to bring me down into her mediocrity

  • Psychic Lulu

    Love her .

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Definitely this!! I always throw the "I have been with you for x amount of years and I am also a DirectTV and Digital Life subscriber" They whole tune change, charges get reversed, credits given, etc.

  • A-way29

    lol, all good. 30.

  • Carolina Blue

    ?? i know thats right!!! Youll find you a keeper one day.

  • SummerBaby

    No woman is worth marrying? ?

  • Carolina Blue

    Lol...

  • SummerBaby

    I'm good! How you been?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Dated the wrong kind of women. Not all men are bad and not all women are bad, folks don't know how to NOT bring baggage and old hurt to new relationships.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Just said this

  • Libra80sBaby

    Dear Halle,

    You have been divorced from 3 DIFFERENT men, but they have all divorced the SAME woman. It's YOU, Boo. Be Blessed.

  • Buttercup

    I have stories regarding that topic for days. We'll definitely add it.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Phone bills are too high.

  • 2brefrank

    Nah. I legit was a virgin when I met my husband and dated heavily but because of my relationship with God I seen it fit to wait for marriage after seeing the other way around not work for so many people. I was too scared of diseases and babies so I didn't do it. He liked that, he wifed me up quick, and we've been married for over 11 years and when he walks down the street with me no one can say they hit that. Men don't create whores, they don't have that power as it isn't their bodies. Some dudes literally don't want to sleep with you first. Your private parts may not always work in the future...you may be old and not feeling like it no more. something else HAS to be the reason why you are with who you're with and leading with sex isn't it. But most women I talk too are not trying to hear that.

  • nick c

    I use to get unlimited for 40 now im up to 60 for worst service....and DSL is no longer on the market.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    my longest wast 4 years, but careers and location changes made that impossible to maintain. So i;'m hopeful ill find something again.

  • Carolina Blue

    Yeah. If youre looking for a aint shit person then look in the mirror because im not it.

  • 2brefrank

    So true!

  • Quitedeliteful

    Halle has had three marriages. Big Deal. Instead of just dating she marries the mofos. Many rich and beautiful women marry several times throughout their lifetimes. You rarely hear this topic come up when it's the man with multiple marriages. Ain't nuthing wrong with Halle -- she's just a little crazy, that's all.

  • Carolina Blue

    Yes that can definitely be a problem. Im sure youll find another woman worthy of your time.

  • KDub

    REALLY? Lord. WE are fukked! I didnt know much about Rex. UGH. So frustrating.

  • 2brefrank

    Well said.

  • Yoni

    Halle's head looking like she done rummaged through some of my old work wigs.

  • nick c

    blame it on men lol get of here

  • Browneyes

    she could be attracted to the same type of man. almost like typecasting

  • SummerBaby

    ? some kids won't leave & if they do they keep coming back. Lawd hold me. ??

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOLLOL!!!!! I betcha that wig cost a grip too!!!

  • Carolina Blue

    ????

  • Carolina Blue

    ????

  • Yoni

    Right. And she coulda gave me the money and I would have gotten her about 12 of'em for the same price AND LOOK. lol

  • SpiceGirl

    may have to do that.....I remember when I was FIRST with tmobile...my bill was 40 bucks...now I pay 110.00 a month. Offering their new folks something like unlimited for 40 dollars....I just smh

  • KDub

    http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/david-justice-slams-ex-wife-halle-berry-twitter-rant-article-1.2421671
    So its something wrong with every single MAN she marries/reproduces with? I find that hard to believe. They find it hard to believe too. Some of the ex's pure united a lil against her when her and Olivier broke up.

  • 2brefrank

    Aww you're still young which is a good thing. It is all good..You know the Lord so he's gonna hook u up real nice ;)

  • Renee26

    Good for her! A woman that knows her worth...first husband beat her up so bad that she has hearing problems ( but society says stay), Second husband was not interested in having a family among other things and they couldn't get along (but society says stay) third husband had a bad temper and controlling behavior (see husband #1...but still society says stay). I don't care what people may think...I would NOT stay in an abusive marriage or one that I'm not happy in.

  • SummerBaby

    Wesley Snipes did that beating to her. 1st husband was David Justice 2nd hubby Eric Benet he cheated on her & she mad him go to rehab for sex addiction.

  • KDub

    Why they are able to move on and re-marry without instance after her then? Manuela and Eric. David Justice and his wife been together like 16 years. IDK. Maybe the same type. I just dont know.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    only thing i bring into a new relations is better perception, fined tuned intuition, and realistic expectations.

  • KDub

    Then why not say it was him and let the whole WORLD think its Christopher Williams then? That still makes me mad as FIRE

  • CrunchyBlack1

    22 gigs is a lot, that rivals home wifi use. is that your main source for internet use?

  • SummerBaby

    Girl, I don't know. ????? It messed his career up & everything. I used to crush hard on Christopher Williams back in the day.

  • Renee26

    I stand corrected...the story was that it was the baseball player....still once you go through an abusive relationship you tend to be weary and pay more attention to the warning signs (last husbands behavior)

  • Renee26

    That's Beyonce's Drunk in Love wig lol

  • CrunchyBlack1

    for $900+ only shooting better be from fireworks on July 4 lol

  • Renee26

    Also when the women are yt it's perfectly ok as well but here we have a cute petite black woman so she's destined to be thrown under the bus

  • KDub

    Story was it was either Wesley Snipes, Christopher Williams, David Justice, Meshach, Shadrach, a billy goat. And she goes right on through life good with fact ALL of their reputations are tarnished bc she refuses to set the record straight on which one it really was

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    When a woman says she is not having sex to a man she is using her sexuality as well to get a man.
    =====
    Not really. Some women decide for spiritual/religious reasons to wait till they get married.

  • A-way29

    thats cool. I'm taking it easy.
    battling a cold at the moment.
    Job hunt going well?

  • KDub

    Second husband was not interested in having a family among other things and they couldn't get along (but society says stay)
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Society may say stay but you had to make him out to be a sex addict in retaliation? that is what she did to Eric Benet. I still call BS.
    This the same thing Paula doing to Robin. Bc he dont want you, you villify him in return. That is BS to me personally.

  • SummerBaby

    I absolutely agree that an abusive relationship can & should make you a little leery.

  • SummerBaby

    Not a dayum billy goat. ???

  • Quitedeliteful

    There's probably nothing wrong with the guys at all. The media seems to have sympathy with her and are willing to vilify the guys when the relationship goes south.

  • Renee26

    Bingo!

  • SummerBaby

    She was dead wrong for painting him like that. I'm sure that was some mess her publicist came up with & she went along to save her iimage of being every man's fantasy woman.

  • Yoni

    Naw, Bey's one wig that Blu cut the bangs too short on.

  • free

    maceo looks just like his paw.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Nobody called Elizabeth Taylor out of her name -- and she married, what, like nine times?!!?

  • KDub

    I read her white ass MOTHER came up with it.

  • SummerBaby

    Ge well! I'm actually enjoying the time off so I job hunt when I feel like it. ? #JudgeAway

  • free

    #dead

  • Renee26

    Her voice is irritating but I think she's beautiful and sexy even with that extra weight....I'd join her and Jew ELLLz (as she says it) for a good time....not that they'd have me lol

  • SummerBaby

    Really! I didn't know that. Enough said.

  • free

    "a bad negro"

  • A-way29

    thank, sis. And, please with the judging lol. R&R is good.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Co-Sign..it seems like everytime her relationship falls apart her PR person comes out with something to make her husband(s) look bad. Halle knew what she was getting into with all of them. I wish she would just say she has horrible taste in men and borderline control issues smh. Once you come to grip with reality about yourself then the right person will come along....

  • Renee26

    Yeah, I try to teach my son to be upfront and honest with people. Let the other person decide if they can deal with the truth. But I know he will play with many hearts because he's a manipulative Gemini

  • Renee26

    All this!!

  • Zizzle

    Do your stories match up... with a White princess in place of the knight in shining armor, of course?

  • KDub

    I said this below. I think she has painted herself as the victim so much she now TRULY feels like the victim when often times these men are NOT bad. Im sure she HAS been beat. But not by all of em. I refuse to believe that.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    "No woman is worth marrying these days"....Chile I want to agree but with me being single in my 30's my soul and livelihood is saying I must disagree lol

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I use more than 22GBs at home. I use about 12 - 18gigs on my phone.

  • Renee26

    Lol maybe she lives in one of the expensive states

  • CrunchyBlack1

    18 gigs??? you must be a business (wo)man

  • CrunchyBlack1

    oh so she live in the dmv huh? lol

  • LuLu

    Who hurt you?

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I'm important.

  • Renee26

    Not trying to be funny but I SERIOUSLY doubt that him not giving up the D is the reason why he is single.

  • Renee26

    Well it sounds like you chose to pursue the wrong type of woman. Did you approach and pursue them based on their looks or did you take the time to engage with their personality before dating them?

  • Lovezoe

    which side have you been on?

  • CrunchyBlack1

    kewl beans...i aint all that, so its 1 gig for me lol

  • 2brefrank

    It's so true. In relationships in general people don't like to see someone doing better than them in any capacity. If you are on their level or below they are just fine. But if your life is better than theirs...in their eyes mind you...you never said this...you are automatically judgmental and you think you're better than them. Quite sad but it's the way of the world nowadays because the world is in an identity crisis. If you are thriving and doing good in this crisis, surely, something must be wrong with you! (sarcasm)

  • Renee26

    LMAO...blame it on the baby

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Wasn't talking about you....was talking about the women you meeting and folks in general.

    I believe that just about every person is born with a good inner being and that life, people, etc create those "ain't shyt" individuals. And although we all deal with things that can jade us and create those characteristics, most of us choose to not go that route, while others take all that hurt, pain, rejection and impose it on otherwise good folks, cause another "ain't shyt" person wouldn't be around or care enough tolerate or allow it to bother them.

    So, when keep encountering those kinds of folks, it is time to do some self evaluation to see why we are attracted to them and they are attracted to us. I am constantly doing this when I see a recurring theme in the people I meet.

    I'll send you my bill for that session. LOL

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Love it!!!

  • TheRider

    Eric Benet did an interview several years ago and said that Halle made him say he was a sex addict and go to therapy to save their marriage. He said he didn't have a problem, but kinda eluded to that HALLE is the problem.

  • Scromes1212

    Cause she bat ish crazy lol end of story.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Too high, have to sit there an run a analysis on how to best get more bang for your buck.

    This has been working for us, since I added them last year....so Imma keep it until it stops working.

    Although I know they think they slick....know Mom phone ain't never going to be off, so we safe!! CTHU

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And there you have it!! Ain't nothing like a self imposed "alone time" to get your mind right

  • CrunchyBlack1

    that last part! i was talking about this to a friend yesterday. People resent you for persevering, hell even getting through tough times unscathed. quite the times where in

  • Renee26

    Cali, NY, Chicago, Florida, DMV somewhere with ridiculous cost of living

  • Renee26

    Ok her ZaZa Gabore, and countless others

  • 2brefrank

    Fair enough to say. But in all actually woman are coming up to him and talking nasty and when he meets them sending his suggestive pictures. He's super attractive so I get it. he's picky. I was the same way. It's just taking him longer. But at any rate. No one is perfect and sometimes it's just not the time yet.
    I've been out with him at a Chipotle I think it was...went to the restroom and someone came up to him slipped him her number and said call me asap. Her chest might as well been OUT the shirt. lol Now, of course I'm not his girl I'm his sister but! she didn't know that. She eyed him the entire time we were there. this is what we're dealing with in this day and age.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    you're funny lol i have had to re-evaluate why i was attracting a certain type of woman. I thought it was the vibes i was putting out, but i had to realize there are female "vampires" that are addicted to men who have their ish together, and they get a high from giving them strife. especially if the sex is A1, cuz they have a go to when you're fed up outside the bedroom.

  • Renee26

    If it is all lies then yes I agree that it's BS. Because I don't know any of them personally I can't say that they are lying or telling the truth. All I can say is it's more than likely not an easy decision to end a marriage regardless of the cause(s). Eric may be a sex addict; possibly his new wife can handle it or is more open minded to the things he likes. In Paula's case the child reported the abuse and the authorities got involved so they both will have to deal with it until the case gets closed. They're stars but they can still go through the same type of hectic ordeals as regular citizens do.

  • Renee26

    Lol

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Child....the youngest posed the Hypothetical question to me. I ran all the required analysis and possibilities and told him...NOT A DAMN CHANCE with the exception of his place catching fire and none of his siblings taking him in. I am the Last Resort!! CTHU

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Chile that hurt is deep!!

  • Ajavee

    Wow;-(. You have some people that just like dysfunction not everyone does though.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    So you gonna through Ole Billy Da Goat in this mess, Huhn? He like Sheeet weren't me!! CTHU

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    That's why her azz started dating less famous folks.......trying to control them and they still ain't having it!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And if you getting beaten by all of the men you with.....WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO ATTRACT AND BE WITH THAT KIND OF PERSON? She got enough money to sit on somebody couch for years and get fixed.

  • Renee26

    I wish she would just say she has horrible taste in men and borderline control issues smh.

    THIS is can believe. Poor taste in men grouped with trust issues that can lead to controlling behavior.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    That is why I added this: and they are attracted to us
    Because there are folks who look for the "nice guy or girl", simply because they know those types tend to be nurturers and will tolerate more then people who are like them. Yup, I dealt with an emotional vampire.....sucked the life out of every person they were with and always was left by the people eventually.

    And there are those so unhappy with life and self, their main goal is to see who they can break.

    It still goes back to you, though, as we always see the signs with people.....and chose to proceed even when we know we shouldn't.

    As you see my comments are inclusive, by the use of "we".

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    That is why I added this: and they are attracted to us
    Because there are folks who look for the "nice guy or girl", simply because they know those types tend to be nurturers and will tolerate more then people who are like them. Yup, I dealt with an emotional vampire.....sucked the life out of every person they were with and always was left by the people eventually.

    And there are those so unhappy with life and self, their main goal is to see who they can break.

    It still goes back to you, though, as we always see the signs with people.....and chose to proceed even when we know we shouldn't.

    As you see my comments are inclusive, by the use of "we".

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I dont understand why she just cant be honest. I admit it all the time since I started dating I've had horrible taste in men. My loved ones say I like a pet project type of dude who has mommy issues. Once I realized my pattern I stay away from those type of men regardless of how much I want to gravitate to them. Its a learning process but its worth it....

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I dont understand why she just cant be honest. I admit it all the time since I started dating I've had horrible taste in men. My loved ones say I like a pet project type of dude who has mommy issues. Once I realized my pattern I stay away from those type of men regardless of how much I want to gravitate to them. Its a learning process but its worth it....

  • CrunchyBlack1

    i see that and i never understood how someone could enjoy living a dysfunctional life

  • CrunchyBlack1

    i see that and i never understood how someone could enjoy living a dysfunctional life

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Amen!!! I always leave folks better off than I find them. Finally got sick of the "pet projects"....but it was my own fault...after a certain period of time, we see the mess and know it ain't worth it, but done invested time so we hang around.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Amen!!! I always leave folks better off than I find them. Finally got sick of the "pet projects"....but it was my own fault...after a certain period of time, we see the mess and know it ain't worth it, but done invested time so we hang around.

  • hottlanta

    Married women get STD's and outside babies just like single women do. Getting married doesn't stop you from getting those things not having sex will. Go to the CDC and look at the stats my dear. How many women went to bed with your husband before you got married since you can count the number of men you have. Can you tell us that and be sure that the numbers are correct. Can you also tell us that you know for sure he hasn't had anyone but you since the wedding. He married you because he was bad in bed and you had nothing to compare him to say he was the worst you ever had and leave.

  • Renee26

    I agree wholeheartedly! It took me 4 bad relationships to realize that I was dating the same type of man (thugs) just in a different body. I actually had to take time to myself to reflect on what I liked and didn't like in a relationship. After that I refuse to give a thug type of guy the time of day. Maybe she is going to take this time to herself; since she said she's going to focus on her children.

  • Yoni

    Always. LOL

  • hottlanta

    Is Camille a fool for staying with Bill for over 50 years and dealing with this mess in her golden years. I rather be chronically lonely than staying with someone going through this chronically mess.

  • Liah

    Cause she coo coo for coco puffs...Lets just keep in real here!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    Right again, i was talking to this woman who was going through a divorce. she had personality like a mofo in the beginning, and she knew that i liked funny women. so she sort of played on that and not even a month later she couldn't keep up the act and became such a bore. Always talking about negative shit and i started to notice my demeanor and enery sort of change and it was draining me. Thank God i was blessed with great intuition and i ended it after a month. Now just think if i had sex with her, i'd be in hell with a woman who only had good looks and sex to offer.

  • ?Queen_ CleoJones ?

    Hall ain't fooling nobody, the bytch bat shyt crazy. But she got what she wanted out of the relationships her children. Go on girl!

  • ?Queen_ CleoJones ?

    My sentiment exactly! Lmao

  • Michelle

    This was a bunch of b@llshit. She can't keep a man because she's a b@@@@ and plays games. Like the one she played allowing Oliver Martinez to beat down her daughter's father in the driveway of her home as she watched from the window laughing. Since she's so concerned about what her children see, let's hope that haven't seen mommy be the true b@@@h that she is. I pray that little Nahla ends up nothing like her mother.

  • ?Queen_ CleoJones ?

    There's a misconception of who it actually was that beat the brakes off of Hall, but it wasn't David. According to the grapevine it was Wesley with whom she was dating a year or two before she was married to David. That stigma was just on David as being the abuser, & it basically killed his career.

  • Judas & GOD

    not everyone is lucky in love

  • Li

    ^^ This. I hope she finds someone she can just live with for a long time.

  • 2brefrank

    Get better not bitter...You'll be ok. Have a great one hun

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Phone bills are higher than some car payments. I struggle with that. I pay it but damn give me a break.

  • Emerald Jones

    me too. i think she deserves true happiness and love

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Neither. I'm not that type of girl. I almost had to whoop a trick once but that's it. I'm not violent.

  • Smith Jane

    I remember like 15-20 years ago (maybe around the time her marriage to Eric Benet) there was some lifetime profile done on her and she remarked how her mother always said she was a bum magnet lol. Every time she has a failed relationship I think about that comment, as well as the men she married and/or had children with. All bums/losers/abusive or a combination of all 3.

  • Emerald Jones

    lol. you think she crazy fareel??? why though?

  • Smith Jane

    I doubt it. Plenty of beautiful regular, non-famous folks, have trouble with finding the right partner. Sometimes you need to reflect on your choices and patterns - which sounds like Halle has - & try to strive towards making better decisions.

  • 2brefrank

    Well, true! If you aren't showing the substance you have outside of sex. Why wife you? I'm already getting all you're showing me that you have. You can get sex that's not the problem. Men's problem is finding someone with substance, who is fun and has great sex. All of this comes as a part of the package....unfortunately people are not being schooled appropriately, they are letting their favorite celeb teach them what to do. We know where that leads.

  • Smith Jane

    Can a man really create a whore? If she was willing to be a whore for him chances are her whoredom had existed long before him.

  • Emerald Jones

    Well said!!! A lot of times though society wants you to stay if there are children involved. They want you try and make the family work, but a baby or children can't force a relationship to work. Sometimes, its just better to let it go and find someone that truly loves you and that you can be happy with.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    when you meet the woman that has it all, but you crave her personality more, its a wrap. she's mine. a dude like me will do anything within the realms of common/moral sense to keep her.

  • Smith Jane

    People have to stop believing in "love" period. It's a very fickle emotion and very few people are capable of the act. Marriage is a contract - first and foremost - longevity is determined by whatever stipulations you agree to when you sign that certificate. To sign your life away to one partner under the guise of "love" is delusional. Hell you can love someone today and hate their guts tomorrow. There is not a person on the planet that will withstand poverty, disease, sickness, infidelity, or abuse for "love". That's what "love" has come to mean in this society. To "love unconditionally" means to withstand every possible condition (be it good, bad, ugly, AND disrespectful) for a few moments of happiness that come in spurts. It's no wonder why more and more people are opting out of it. It's illogical and delusional - plus it's basically indentured servitude for the partner that makes the most money - or the male. We need to call it what it is - a contract. That says I'll stay with you but under x, y, & z conditions. If you don't hold up your end of this agreement then you forfeit your right to child support, alimoney, or half of what was acquired during the marriage. Folks would honestly be surprised at how many marriages would thrive if they removed the "love" factor.

  • 2brefrank

    Good and I'm proud! You will find her...and update me when you do!

  • Cie Be

    No, her first husband, David Justice, wasn't the one who beat her. It actually was her then boyfriend Wesley Snipes that caused loss of hearing in one of her ears when he hit her...But - yeah, Hallie Berry, has some other issues going on inside her...3 marriages don't point to all of them being the problem..You Hallie may be the problem. I still like Hallie, even though she may be a tad bit cray, cray! lol.

  • KarmaBackAround

    lmao my brother said her box box is garbage rofl ...poor halle!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    marriage is basically a contractual agreement based on finances. it gave susy homemaker a cushion to fall back on, in case her hubby was caught sleeping with the assistant or the neighbors wife. Basically as you stated an agreement to enter indentured servitude in exchange for financial security.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    Will do!!

  • Ms. EJ

    It's a shame that many people, particularly women automatically blame a woman for the demise of a relationship; especially, when it comes to Halle Berry. It's the same with Brad and Angelina. No one, bashes his character nor calls him out his name. David Justice in an article stated how he constantly compared Halle to his mother down to even cooking skills and it was in a very negative manner. He also did in fact, cheat on Halle per his own admission stating it was due to her inexperience with sex. Eric Bennet was/is a grown man; no one put a gun to his head to say he was a sex addict; yet, there are loads of women in this comment section coddling him as if he couldn't make his own decisions. Normally, that's an indication of guilt and to go that extreme to win back the one they hurt, but she's the supposed crazy one. Unfreaking, believable.

  • Ms. EJ

    It's a shame that many people, particularly women automatically blame a woman for the demise of a relationship; especially, when it comes to Halle Berry. It's the same with Brad and Angelina. No one, bashes his character nor calls him out his name. David Justice in an article stated how he constantly compared Halle to his mother down to even cooking skills and it was in a very negative manner. He also did in fact, cheat on Halle per his own admission stating it was due to her inexperience with sex. Eric Bennet was/is a grown man; no one put a gun to his head to say he was a sex addict; yet, there are loads of women in this comment section coddling him as if he couldn't make his own decisions. Normally, that's an indication of guilt and to go that extreme to win back the one they hurt, but she's the supposed crazy one. Unfreaking, believable.

  • 2brefrank

    Okayyy!!! Lol

  • Erin Blockabitch

    It's always easiest to blame the woman for the failure of a relationship. Ignore the cheating males with violent tendencies, all who have used her for a come up. Nothing is wrong with them. It's all her fault.

  • Renee26

    Exactly...whatever her reasoning was she chose to walk away...and that's ok. It's her life and I can see that living under the public eye is hard for her (and others)...maybe her silence about WHO did the abusing was based on her wanting some privacy and not wanting to publicly talk about her relationships. It seems like that silence ruined the public opinion of her.

  • Mel

    She is beautiful but I think she is a handful maybe controlling who knows. She need to loosen up get on her knees and suck some dick?

  • Lolalao

    Eric married her for his career.

  • stanhope

    She produces GORGEOUS children and she is gorgeous herself. Somebody needs to produce a tv show with Halle, Vanessa Williams and Diahann Carroll as a bunch of rich Black yella bytches. ?

  • stanhope

    SPEAK my sister and it is mostly black (small "b") women running her down. Halle's sin, if there is one, is that she picked the wrong men and every woman has done that at least once. The good news is that her children are gorgeous, she identifies as Black and her children as well, she has a great house in Malibu and she be fine....haters gonna hate all of the way to the aid check. Oh and she's conservative with her coins so she will still have some at the end of the day.

  • stanhope

    Your brother is a g a f. He wouldn't know a woman's box if it came wrapped in christmas paper. As for poor,,,,invite us to your house in malibu and the back seat of a chevrolet malibu doesn't count...back to your corner and make some coins bent over the hood of said malibu.

  • http://www.Samanthagwrites.com Samantha G.

    Honestly, I didn't read any of that up top, sorry. I was too in love with that baby in her arms. My goodness he's adorable!! Use a different photo next time lol

  • hottlanta

    I am a realist. Not having sex before marriage has never stopped anyone from getting divorced. Ask Juanita Bynum. Went through all of those horny lonely nights, paid all of that money for a wedding to a man that knocked her down in the parking lot to be, horny and lonely again. I am a realist. If all I am is offering a man my vagina I might as well put it in a jar, give it to him and walk away. I admire prostitute at least they are honest.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Whattt?! Your comment makes no sense hun..re think it and get back to me...poor halle didn't mean shyt about her income wtf are u talkin about..and u coming for my brother like u had her box before.. N
    O?? so stfu! O and chevy Malibu's are for broke folks like you, we go BIG over here...broke ass!

  • Ms. EJ

    Yep, I noticed its mainly other black women. I swear it seems that sistahood is becoming almost extinct. It's bad enough that a large portion of society bashes black women from our looks, to supposedly not being worthy of marriage, talked down by a good number of our own men and now we have to have something wrong with us if a relationship doesn't work out. It's just so odd to read women coming down on a woman solely; yet, dissolving the men of any responsibility. We will never be able to succeed as people, because we're the first ones to clown and dehumanize each other.

  • Ms. EJ

    Right!!!!

  • Emerald Jones

    Not all Gemini's are manipulative. I'm not a Gemini, but I know some and they are not manipulative.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Is she saying she acted like a princess throughout her failed relationships?

  • Emerald Jones

    SOOOOO TRUE!!!!!

  • Emerald Jones

    I agree. I wonder what would have happened if she had of stayed with any of the men she married. What do you think? Sometimes when you force it for the kids it can work?!?!

  • dontgetblocked

    She's a basket case.

  • Jay

    Sorry to hear about your father not showing love but every experience is different and everyone is different. You never know what a person went through unless you where there. What goes on behind closed doors would probably shock you and change your prospective if you could see every ones life. Your father teaches you how you should be treated by a man and also teaches you to show love and understand men. If you don't get those lessons when your young its extremely hard to be a well centered female.

  • Jay

    Well said and understood.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    ^^^ I agree with all of this. Love is a social construct. It doesn't exist in nature. It's a total fallacy. A figment of our imagination. It is rooted in fairy tales and fantasy and driven by brain chemicals that fade over time. That's why over 60% of marriages fail.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    "We need to call it what it is - a sex contract."
    ----------------

    I fixed it for you. ?

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    She's chronically single because she's bat-sht crazy.

  • Tasha Mac

    She's been married 3 times so what that doesn't decide what her character or kind of person she is.

  • A D N

    Somewhat true statement because I wouldn't want my decisions to be sized up on my total character. However, in all honesty, it shows 2 things...I try to commit and unafraid of the challenge like marriage....or....I am incapable of making good decisions.

  • A D N

    Wait...one husband complains about her sex...another sought sex elsewhere...although an addict...and another divorce too. Hmmm...However, two are all in a great relationship or marriages now.

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Fairy-tales are for kids, and women need to stop believing in it. The reality is, you might be single for the rest of your life, so have a love affair with yourself, because even the guys long in the tooth, are dogs! Halle Berry's kids are beautiful.

  • A D N

    Nah, at some point we have to look at our decisions and choices in order to not make the same "3" mistakes. Somewhere, we have to look at self in order to learn from our choices and weigh the pros and cons. If I am the bad in the choice...I have to face it and grow from it...not hide and deny. That's what she is saying. She sees her mistakes, and nothing is wrong with facing up to where she went wrong in order to correct it.

  • A D N

    What ticks me off is when a single minded and action married person lives the life of riley in a marriage, while the other stays with the person for the sake of marriage and while seeking happiness from food, medication, alcohol, or screaming at the kids because they have to take their anger off on someone. Can't scream at him/her because of the fear of being without the person who is causing so much harm.

  • WiserWords2

    The head of the Secret Service suddenly resigned yesterday. I guess trying to control a 70 year old man child was just too much for him to bear.

  • Solstice

    And a toenail tho ??

  • Giantstepp

    Very curious to me that one of the most beautiful and successful women on the planet has had the problems (seemingly) that she has had in relationships. Sure, we all go thru up's and downs in relationships, but you'd think that a lot of men would be willing to deal with more than the average because of who she is.

    I can't call it.

  • Tynamight

    I've heard that.

  • 888

    Wow some of you are so harsh and seem to know the exact recipe for a healthy long lasting relationship...I personally feel that everyone men and women have a little "crazy" in them or "issues" so why get down on her. My experiences has led me to know that men are just as emotional and f'ed up as women. Ive seen men that couldnt even order food in a drive thru cause they were so distraught about the days events and please dont say that its just the guys I know. Everybody has those moments or period in life were we just cant get it together and some take longer than others to snap out of it and some never do. So why all the negativity towards her? I mean sure its possible she's all those things they say, but at least she realizes that it damaged her and she is trying to move in a different direction. To me we are all just "trying" at this life thing. Period. I pray everyday sometimes multiple times "God, guard my mind and guard my heart." To all the life judges out there check yourself there is not one answer to living except God.

  • S. Williams

    sistahood is not extinct. it's just easier for the black women on here to judge rather than acknowledge that Halle represents some of their own family, friends, or themselves. they're embarrassed so they lash out at women like Halle who is unashamed and telling her truth. if you know you will be there for your friend or your sister, even while saying I told you so, how difficult is it to stand by someone in Halle's shoes? the internet is causing some of yall to disconnect emotionally knowing damn well as soon as you log off this is actually your reality

  • S. Williams

    nor queen Baby Phat, Kimora Lee

  • S. Williams

    nor queen Baby Phat, Kimora Lee

  • freelancepimp .

    Just like Mariah. And she can keep on blaming David Justice or whomever just Mariah keeps blaming Nick.

  • dan

    dont't forget the white guys.

  • Keepin’IT100

    They boy looks Asian