The Real co-host Jeannie Mai and Freddy Harteis, who hosts The Hollywood Hunter, are back on the market. A rep for Mai, 38, confirmed to People.com that Mai and Harteis are divorcing after 10 years of marriage.

Mai and Harteis have no children. They are shown during happier times in this photo dated November 14, 2015.

The TV personality was open about her marriage woes on the set. In one TV segment in 2014, Mai told co-stars Loni Love, Adrienne Houghton and Tamera Mowry-Housley that she and her husband disagreed about having children.

Mai teared up as she recalled telling her husband she was not interesting in having children.

“You know how much I love Freddy, my husband. He’s my life. And before we got married, I was very clear about the fact that I probably would not have kids, just because I’ve never felt that. And now, getting older, he definitely seems like he wants kids, and he actually came out and said that he wants children."

Mai, pictured far right with her co-hosts, was adamant that she didn't want children -- even to save her marriage.

“I guess it’s just really hard because I can’t just have a child for another person, and you don’t have a child to save your marriage, but we are in love, and we are enjoying life, and he’s my Freddy, and I’m his Jeannie, and we don’t have any other problems except that, which, you never know what could happen in the future."

She added. “So right now we are clinging to each other, and we’re waiting for God to kind of tell us what that means, and it’s kind of weird to go to sleep every single night holding on to that person you love so much, not knowing where it’s gonna go."

In another segment on the show, Mai, 2nd from right, discussed keeping the spark alive despite Harteis' busy traveling schedule.

“We trust each other through and through, and we communicate really well, and I think another thing that really helps is just some good, old-fashioned phone sex,” she said, laughing. “Real talk."

Photos by Imeh Akpanudosen/Getty Images, WENN.com

  • Blak

    Why marry a man if you don't want to have his child and he wants to have them? Sounds very selfish to me...you can't change his mind. It was doomed from the beginning

  • Shawty

    If it was established up front, I don't see what the problem is.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    things happen ... a lot of break ups across the board ... it is what it is... grow and try your hardest to press forward

  • Lady_Elle

    Somebody changed their mind. As we age we sometimes feel diff about stuff.

  • Wreckognize Game

    I haven't watched the show since Tamar left but didn't care for Jeannie. I'm certainly not surprised because back then she talked about how she loved dating black men in the past and would say things about other men that my man would checked me for. Besides she always said her husband would be away "hunting" for long periods of time. Don't like to see people get divorced and hope they find happiness

  • You Could Never

    Sounds like they should have never gotten married. She was honest. He thought he could deal. Decided he couldn’t. Sad for them.

  • IamAllnatural

    This would’ve never worked if they disagree about having children. I don’t understand why they tried to force this marriage & waste each other’s time. The best thing is for them to divorce & find someone with the same values.
    I stopped watching this show during their 1st season. Mai is so annoying & she talks too much.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    This sounds selfish... I think he was hoping she would change her mind. But if I were her, I wouldn't risk true love over not wanting children. Ijs folks out here have ulterior motives and getting back into the dating game in 2017 aint really what she want.

  • Shawty

    Okay you right...he did, but she didn't. He cant be mad. Get a surrogate. Adopt...it's kids that need loving homes out here that they can help out.

  • Ajavee

    I guess initially they both were okay with not having children and he apparently wanted them and she did not. Things like this happen.

  • Coy little wink

    Perspectives change. I really think marriage is best for child rearing...I mean it can work otherwise but I think that's what it was designed for...my opinion so please don't trip ?

  • leapyearpisces

    Hey Jenie. I just had to say you called it. At the beginning of the year you said this will be the year of reveals and karmic retribution (something to that effect). You nailed this one. I think I mentioned you on another thread last week. I just want to know what is causing all these celebs to have these mental breaks. First Kanye, now Tyrese, Neigh-Neigh, and now Hazel. Hazel KNEW that those comments were not going to fly. She started out as publicist in the industry SO SHE KNEW there was going to be backlash. Just like Neigh-Neigh KNEW (well maybe not Neigh-Neigh because she thinks she can say whatever), but she should have known you can't go around telling folk you hope they get raped, and think all is well with the world. It's like people are literally losing their minds. Folks are UNRAVELING at the seams.

  • xenaD

    She longs for bbc lol... ?? why did I just say that ? anyway been watching this show n she probably got tired of not being able to ride black D in peace! But na. I feel no way about their marriage ending that sh was arranged

  • IAmLegend

    It's also not wise to have children just because her husband wants them. That's no different from women having children to try and make their men stay with them. A child won't make a man stay. And even if she did give him a child, he could still end up leaving at some point and she'll be single with a kid she resents. They should both stay true to who they are and go their separate ways.

  • leapyearpisces

    Sure is not, like if that is my HUSBAND, I would give it to him, but that is ME, and I am not saying everyone has to think like me, but I would make that compromise. I have a co-worker, for YEARS she and her husband decided they were not going to have any children. They were ADAMANT about not having kids and they been married for over ten years, and been "together" even longer. Why her baby due in February (she is 40), she said the pregnancy wasn't "planned", but she said both her and her husband agreed no one is aborting a baby in a marriage where they are both well-established and can more than afford a baby-that would be selfish, and she seems excited. I for years VOWED to never have kids, and I would not know what I would do without the twins even though most days I want to wrap my son up in a blanket and drop him off to the fire station (LOL), my point is there has been MANY of a woman that said they DO NOT WANT KIDS, but something happens to MOST of us, once that little bean starts growing inside you. So I am like you, I would not risk a man WHO TRULY loves me over not wanting children. I would give him at least one whether I have it, surrogate, or adoption like you mentioned. But then again, I am a "hopeless romantic", and that shat has gotten me in more trouble than what it's worth most of the time, so I don't think anybody should be listening to me. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Well Tami Roman(whom I met and wasn't the best experience) is desperately trying to get and stay pregnant to keep her boyfriend. That sounds like too much stress to try to get pregnant and don't really want a baby.

  • sunni_daze

    She's expressed mutiple times on the show that she didn't want kids.

  • Lovely1

    I think it's pretty selfish, unless it's for medical reasons. Wow. I couldn't imagine.

  • Coco

    She told him from the start. Not everybody is built the same. We got people out here having kids, hurting them, abandoning them or killing them.... at least she honest with herself not have them.

  • http://olskoolblackflix.com Insane Taco Juice

    She's really lost her mind because of her health (one heart attack and habitual smoker...not to mention, her mom passed away from cancer not long ago).

    Secondly, Tami is closer to 50 than 40. I heard a long time ago that she was nice but this was back in the Real World 2 days.

  • Junkanoo

    It's not unheard of some people don't want kids it doesn't mean their bad people they may understand how much time ,work and energy raising kids take. Many neglect their marriage for the sake of the kids and can grow apart ,at least she knew her own mind.

  • Coco

    She told the story of their engagement on the real, she said she had to think about it.... it seems like she had issues from the start.

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    I mean she never lied about not wanting kids & I don’t see her changing her mind.Its her preference & if Freddie knew that before maybe he thought she’ll change her mind but life goes on.

  • Coco

    On this blog one minute Kesha koir is being dragged for abandoning her kids, the next Jeannie is being called selfish for not wanting any. Lol.
    Not every woman is meant to be a mother, shout out to Jeannie for recognizing it, and not bringing children in this world when she's obviously not interested in raising them or loving them the way they deserve.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    I'm not saying she should concede to having children for him, I said that I would not risk true love over it... I'm in a similar predicament, my man of 4yrs wants kids right now, and I don't know if I want them at all, bc I'm selfishly focused on my career right now. But I wouldn't throw my relationship away because of it...

  • Ajavee

    That' s why we have to do what is best for you. You can't satisfy everyone and you will not be able too.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    I appreciate you for sharing! And I do believe God has plans for us that we don't even have for ourselves... I would compromise, once you find true love, nothing else matters. And when I say true love I mean evenly yolked where it's not about money or anything superficial and there is a mutual respect, there's nothing like it!

  • Bonita

    There's been many relationships that were blissful prior to having kids and destroyed once children entered the picture. Children are either going to bring you close together as a couple or they're going to tear you apart. It's a big risk to take. I personally feel she should stick to her guns if that still isn't what she wants. I believe that when you both enter the relationship and establish your position on important matters as such during the get-to-know process, one person doesn't get to put demands on their partner just because they've had a change of mind. That's a recipe for disaster if one does fold just to appease their mate.

  • Liah

    She never lied about wanting children ...All women dont want kids...I respect her for knowing this...Its just a sad situation....She was honest from the beginning he changed....I wish them both well

  • Liah

    I agree

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This is what happens when you get married because... feelings.

  • Amy

    I could tell though. I just knew her marriage wasn't all the way 100 like something was up.

  • Liah

    Why its a choice...Look @ all of the children that are suffering out here because of abuse...Not being wanted or birthed for the wrong reason

    Everyone is entitled to make the choice of being a parent...

    No child deserves to be here if theyre not wanted..

  • Bonita

    I chuckled when I read your parentheses. I can only imagine. LOL

  • Bashi22

    But 10yrs tho then divorce

  • Bashi22

    She love Common so she and Angela Rye Can be sister wives. Angela will have the children

  • Tammie Reed

    I didn't want kids either early on but I finally gave in and had 2. My husband wanted 4 kids but after two c-sections, I was done and glad I got my tubes tied. Having kids is extremely hard work and they tear your body apart! Men think its so damn easy and if they could do it, there would hardly be any population lol.

  • Tammie Reed

    People always think that they can change somebody when we show them who we are early on but for some odd reason, they don't listen or it goes in one ear and out the other!

    I was adamant about NOT wanting a house full of kids, my hubby thought he could change my mind but I had a trick after my son, I got my tubes tied! He was mad but he found out real quick I was so serious! Kids are cute but they are expensive and the older they get...shid!

  • 2telldatruth

    I hate to say this but I would probably check and make sure she was genetically born a female.

  • Tink Tink

    ...but she doesn't want kids...not that she can't have them.

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    How did u get your tubes tied after one kid tho? I thought hospitals don’t do that.My friend tried to get hers done after my nephew & they told her it’s against policy.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I wondered about that myself.

  • KcoolMuziq

    I know Jeannie LOVE her some black men especially rappers(Like her co-host Adriane). I was surprised when she revealed she was married to a white one. I can only imagine whose next for her.

  • leapyearpisces

    Yes that REAL unconditional love that FEW rarely experience in romantic relationships.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You can say that again. If people knew how rare "unconditional love" is they would stop wasting time looking for it and just procreate.

  • leapyearpisces

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. That is so true. World be so de-populated you could hear somebody poot from China.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She's pushing 40. Her future prospects are bleak.

  • Jasmine keana

    I don't think she's a woman like she's 38 and by know she would know if she couldn't conceive she would know her option she's just flat out saying no like she hidding something and she is scaredd he will find out idk something is up .

  • Platoon

    That’s a tranny to the max!

    Hollyweird

  • bhavana

    I totally disagree. Parenthood is difficult and if someone knows they're not up for that task they shouldn't be having kids.

  • Fly By Day and Night

    Why “she” look like the tortilla from sausage party?

  • Marlika

    I'm not surprised by this. She was always putting their personal business on the show. He wanted kids and she didn't. She even said they were in therapy about it. She also mad it see, like her career came before her marriage.

    I wish people would learn everything isn't everyone business.

    Adrian's annoying home wrecking ass is next! ??

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Yall trippin!!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    They never are.

  • NicoleZee

    When you're DATING, you should have the important conversation about having children. If one person wants kids and the other doesn't, then why keep seeing each other??? And if one person is unsure and the other person still doesn't want children, then why keep seeing each other??? It's obvious that Jeannie has never really wanted children, so they never should have gotten married to begin with. Sad. However, I guess times do change. I never thought I could have children so I just figured I never would. Wrong! I shockingly got pregnant and that's when I knew I wanted and loved my baby! God is good all the time......and all the time God is good :)!!!

  • eBay

    When they 1st got married they both didn't want children. Freddy has only recently changed his mind.

  • NicoleZee

    After one C-section and almost dying, I'm definitely not up for having anymore and probably can't anyway. However, people remind me how selfish I;m being by allowing my son to be an only child. He just turned 2. I'm not the baby factory!!! And when you're doing it on your own like me, I certainly do not want to make a habit of having kids by deadbeat losers. No thanks!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Yup, she ISSA fool...well maybe not..... This is why my kids are 10 years apart because I thought I was DONE. However, I got married and sorta kinda wanted another ONE down the line, but my husband kept harassing me early on because I had just turned 30 when we got engage and I really wanted to do more before I had more children......but I loved him and I wanted a girl so God gifted me a girl and she and my son are the lights of my life I don't regret for once second having children. Yes, It has changed my life completely and I've had to make a lot of sacrificies and don't have near the coin she has. I wonder if they talked about adoption or just even becoming foster parents for a beat so that she could see what motherhood is about. I don't judge her for her decision however, I hope she doesn't regret it.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    You're not serious.

  • NicoleZee

    Oh, I thought he was iffy and I thought she was definite about not wanting them. Damn, that is sad, I guess your mind can change. But something tells me that it seems like even though he said no at first, deep down inside he kind of wanted a child but didn't voice his feelings since she didn't want any. Sad.

  • eBay

    That's the vibe I get from him too. They've talked about it a few times on the show and I've always thought he was on the fence about it and as they've gotten older he went more towards the side of wanting them.

  • Lady_Elle

    My doctor (male) told me... if men had to have babies there would be very few of them! lol

  • Tennessean

    On one picture they all seem to have a similar complexion...lol...on the follow up, loni and mai look absolutely opposites. Also, the food on their plates look nasty and unseasoned. But im sure its something that i CANNOT AND WILL NOT EAT.

  • NicoleZee

    It depends on the doctor from what people have told me. My brother got a vasectomy shortly after his first child, my niece, was born. He was 23 when he got it done. He was CERTAIN that he did not want anymore kids and did not want to become a statistic of another black man having a bunch of kids by different women, that's what he told my mom. Its your body, so if you want to get sterilized, I'm all for it! It's better because people need to quit having kids they don't want. I've only had one baby, my OB at the time told me that I need to have another and then get a hysterectomy due to other issues I have. Well, I haven't had another one yet, doubt I will :(.

  • eBay

    Neither of them wanted children at the beginning. They've talked about this several times when he's been on the show. His biological clock started ticking as he got older and he changed his mind.

  • Queen B

    What type of heterosexual/bio woman doesn't want kids ? This bish is a tranny

  • eBay

    I'm all woman and I don't want any.

  • eBay

    Neither does Oprah :-)

  • James Hudson

    A woman who does not give birth or want children isn't fully a complete woman.

  • NicoleZee

    Sad. It's heartbreaking because there are people that want kids and they might be with someone they love dearly that either doesn't want children or can't have them. When you've had fertility issues like I've had, dating gets problematic because you usually end up dating a guy that wants kids and then you have to let him know that you might not be able to give him a child. It sucks completely. But at the end of the day, I count my blessings. God blessed me with one miracle baby, so if that's all I ever have, then I will be eternally grateful because he didn't have to bless me!!!! (Playing the church music in my head and doing my praise dance!)

  • eBay

    Thanks for your opinion. :-)

  • Ms.Vanilla

    She's a dang liar about her marriage being so perfect. If he wants kids and she doesn't, there is tension, moments without talking, etc... It's not what she's saying.

  • SuggaB

    Mmmmmm?

  • Ms.Vanilla

    I agree with you on that. In my opinion, nature almost forces a woman to want kids. It's like when a woman is truly in love she wants to have his baby. It's natural.

  • eBay

    "When a woman is truly in love she wants to have his baby"

    How do you explain women who use artificial inseminiation, if this is so "natural"?

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Explain please. Do you mean she is artificially inseminated with her partners sperm? Or she goes to a bank?

  • eBay

    You can use either to fit your narrative if you like. You are the one who indicated that love makes someone want to have a baby.

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Well in that case why go to a bank if you do not want a baby. Sometimes a woman's body can't get pregnant but it doesn't stop the need to want one.

  • eBay

    Well, why would you say "love" is the "natural" generator of baby wanting ?

  • NicoleZee

    Some people, women AND men, just don't want kids. I say be honest with yourself and if you have no desire to have them or are done having kids, get sterilized!!! I get sick of stories each week about people abandoning or killing their kids when they never should've had any to begin with. I guess most people are afraid of tubal ligations or vasectomies or they don't fully know about the procedures.

  • ladycam81

    I myself have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. And while I love him to death, I AM NOT HAVING CHILDREN. That's final. If he cannot accept that, then eventually we will have to go our separate ways. If I were to have a child just to make him happy, I would be so miserable and end up resenting my boyfriend AND the baby. It's just not a smart idea.

  • Ms.Vanilla

    That was my example. There are other factors as well. Such as a woman wanting to be a mother. etc.

  • eBay

    The irony is, most doctors won't do those procedures until you've had at least one child. :-(

  • eBay

    So, you were incorrect in your statement regarding love, then? Because if a woman's going to a bank, she doesn't have a partner, so she's not in love with anyone, and therefore has other reasons for wanting to be a mom.

    And if you were wrong about that, you might possibly be wrong about other things, like why other women have chosen NOT to be mothers, for reasons other than be "un-natural"?

  • Ms.Vanilla

    If you read my statement carefully. I never said a woman wants to be in love to have a baby. I said " LIKE when a woman is in love. It was an example.

  • eBay

    I copied your statement earlier. You said exactly:

    "When a woman is truly in love she wants to have his baby"

  • Ms.Vanilla

    You left off the word "like"... I'm done with this convo. I agree to disagree with you. Good day.

  • eBay

    Lol

  • NicoleZee

    Having a surprise baby can backfire if that's not what both people want. I was dating a guy and we thought I couldn't get pregnant so we were having all kinds of fun and enjoying our sex life, we were monogamous of course. Well, surprise! Those dumb doctors were wrong about telling me I wouldn't be able to conceive. I delivered a healthy baby boy 2 years ago. His father bailed as most of them do and never returned. Had I known I could get pregnant, I definitely would not have had a child with him. However, my son is here now, he's growing and healthy and I am thankful to God above for blessing me with my little miracle. I never knew I could love someone this much or that I wanted to be a "mum", as they say in the UK :). Yes, he is very hardheaded and parenting is not easy, but I'm a mum now and I wouldn't trade it for the world :).

  • eBay

    Congrats on your baby! It makes me sad there are people that neglect/abuse kids pop them out like candy when there are those like you who truly deserve them! Even though I made the choice long ago not to have biological kids, I always said if my clock started ticking I would adopt or foster for that reason.

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    I’m sorry to hear that but it’s always adoption if your stable in life boo

  • NicoleZee

    Don't have any, just my advice. I just think differently. If a person is focused on their career or their career keeps them extremely busy, in MY opinion they are better off being single and childless. I say that because no human being wants to be neglected, even children. I dated a guy years ago and his career came first so I came last. And he wonders why he is still single even today! No woman wants to be put last and if that guy I spoke of has a child that he so desperately wants, someone else will be doing all of the work, so what is the point of having relationships and children if you are never around or not fully invested??? It doesn't make the least bit of sense if you ask me, but to each their very own. Good luck to you.

  • NicoleZee

    Spoken like a true individual that has common sense! I wish more people had your logic but they are afraid to really say that they do not want kids but have kids anyway. The f*ck??? Sick in the head people know they don't want kids but they have them and then abandon them or harm them. It's disgusting. I wish the government would step in and help with sterilization and make it worthwhile so that people who don't want children will not be able to have them. Maybe sterilization should be free or they should pay you to do it. Hell, I bet if they offered a couple of thousand to get sterilized, there would be a long line!!!

  • NicoleZee

    Point taken, But no one wants to procreate with a fool, we often just end up having kids that we want even if the guy is a deadbeat. Lose the guy, keep the child is what happens in most cases. Very sad.

  • NicoleZee

    Most people want their own children. Surrogacy and adoption are options, but they cost money and have side effects too. Most people want to at least try to have their own biological child, then they consider other options if they can't conceive naturally.

  • Malcom Flex

    That white man ain't into her.

  • Malcom Flex

    Many SMART WOMEN don't breed if they have no money or husband that's whats wrong with our people popping out bastards with no dad and no way of taking care of hem.

  • Malcom Flex

    Bullsh!t

  • Ruth

    Because the one that wants kids waits thinking they may change their mind. Its a heartbreaking thing to go through

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Well I havn't been given an ultimatum either so... we're good

  • NicoleZee

    Therein lies the problem. A person should be able to do what they want with their body, so if they don't want kids, then why can't they get sterilized to prevent them from having kids they don't want??? I don't know what the end all be all solution is, but something needs to be done about people having children they don't want. And if most people are not using condoms, or birth control is not strong enough, then there needs to be another method to prevent unwanted children. People are not going to stop having sex. Sad.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    The difference between the two is, I'm not completely opposed, I said I was unsure. But it's not something I'm planning on at the moment.

  • We Can Do This

    Lol. His eye's are saying HELP!

  • NicoleZee

    Sad. I guess people sometimes fall in love not thinking about the what ifs. In situations like this, people usually break up because there is no alternative if one person wants their own biological kids and the other person does not or can't have them.

  • We Can Do This

    I couldn't agree more.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    You want to know how crazy life is.... bet money Jeannie ends up pregnant by someone else!!

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Yoooooo I should have been logged off....

  • Erin

    just checked my vag I'm 100% woman and I 200% don't want children. And I can 300% tell you that a man on a gossip blog commenting about what makes a woman a woman has homosexual tendencies.

  • NicoleZee

    Thank you! It just breaks my heart hearing stories about kids being neglected, abandoned, or harmed. I could never do that to my son, he's innocent. I just don't even want to begin to understand the mind of a sick person that would throw away or harm a child. How can someone live day to day knowing someone else is raising their children or that they hurt their own baby??? Sick and very sad. Abandoned children often grow up with serious issues and sometimes they are very mean spirited because of what happened to them. I knew a guy whose parents threw him away, he was very damaged and resented anyone that had loving biological parents. It was very sad to see him like that, so filled with anger and bitterness. These sick people don't realize how much emotional damage they can really do to a child.

  • Karen

    That's an incorrect statement.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    At age 38? I doubt that.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks. I didn't breed. And I'm smart. ?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I didn't care for her because she talked too much about nothing. I was really done when she said something to the effect of she dated a lot of black guys but she wouldnt ever marry one. Then tried to clean it up. But just like you said always trying to ride a bbc. She got a lot of side eyes that day

  • KA

    Not really. I didn’t want kids and my husband wanted 3. As a compromise, I told him he had one time to shoot his shot. I have a beautiful daughter who is the absolute light and joy of my life - talk about when your heart lives outside your body! She also seems to be predisposed like her mama - she doesn’t want kids either.

    Most biological women can give birth, not all want to. And thst’s absolutely ok. I think it should a conscious decision, not one made based on dopamine levels.

  • KA

    And I can say most men are so insecure about who they are that they spread their seed far and wide - that’s why they have a bunch of baby mamas and unpaid child support.

    That would be a sexist generalization too. Stop.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    I think it's because people can change their minds. I didn't want kids once upon a time and now i have 3 because i changed my mind about wanting kids.

  • NicoleZee

    Adoption is good for some. But having one baby is a lot :)! I'm good with one for now, but when he gets a bit older I'll see where my heart leads. I keep wondering how my great grandparents managed with 17 children and no help accept from each other! Wow!

  • NicoleZee

    I'm sure you'll do what is best for yourself. Some men can't be trusted. Half the time they're telling you one thing, then you find out they've been hiding a wife and kids the whole entire time! Happens more often than you think. Sad.

  • bhavana

    You should say that NOT all women want kids. You're making it sound like all women don't want kids.

  • hottlanta

    Kudos to her for speaking her truth and not being caught up into the new baby/pink blue syndrome false narrative about a child. Glad she is looking at the pregnancy/can't sleep at night/doctor's appointments/schooling/ education and feeding that comes with having a baby. Glad she refused to bring a child into a loveless marriage. That is brave looking at the reality of where she is. That little child you holding gotta grow up/ takes a lot of responsibility and she doesn't want that responsibility. That is why a lot of women kill their kids because they fell into that you are selfish not wanting kids or fell for the blue/pink cuteness and when it really sinks it what it takes to take care of another human being they freak out. We women always say a woman has a right to her body but she takes ownership of her body and don't care what the public thinks she gets roasted. If she was popping out a baby every 36 weeks folks would be complaining about that. Glad she is sticking to her truth.

  • NicoleZee

    From a lot of your posts and the nice things people have said about you, it seems you would have made a great mum! But glad you stuck to what you truly wanted and did what was best for YOU :)!!!

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    No that’s very true.I always think it’s hard for all parties involved.You gotta deal with the kid attitude & not feeling wanted then the kids have to deal with why they weren’t wanted in the beginning.17 smh! GOD bless your grandparents.They had a lot of work to deal with.

  • NicoleZee

    Wow, three of them! You were nice and fertile! LOL! My mom thought I didn't want kids, but no, I thought I couldn't have them, so I was very nonchalant about not caring if I never had one. Then I got pregnant and my son is the best thing that has happened to me :). I'm also thankful my mom is in my life and in his. Thank God for grandparents, children really do need them. Don't know what I would do if I didn't have my mum to help look after my baby and keep him safe too!

  • Ms. P

    I was the same way. I was not going to have kids, and my sister was going to have kids. I ended up having two, and she ended up with none. She decided a one point she did not want any. I am so blessed I changed my mine. I don't know what I would do without them.

  • RachelW

    that's one big problem to have, best wishes to them both.

  • NicoleZee

    .......And they stayed married until death!!! I can't figure the relationship thing out yet!! LOL! I don't know how two people can co-exist for decade after decade. I mean, the same person day after day, how??? I would get bored or annoyed as I normally do after some time with the same person. But I get why women kill their husbands! LOL! I love being a mom and having a mini-me, but I don't think marriage is for me. I like having a peace of mind, nothing wrong with marriage though, but its not for everybody.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks! That was sweet of you. ?

  • Missy

    talk about when your heart lives outside your body!

    This??

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    It becomes a partnership after awhile.They know all your flaws so u don’t have to put up this front like your perfect.Ive been with my bf for 10yrs but of course at first I’m like “I can’t be in a relationship for to long”. I look up & 10yrs went past.Im guessing that’s what happened to your grandparents.And I agree, I get why people kill their spouse.Or maybe I’m watching to much of the ID channel lmao.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I see what you did there at the end. ?

  • James Hudson

    Obviously you were pressed by my post, I'll take the "homo" tendencies you know nothing about me but what I DO know about you based on your name calling is that you're a bitter, lonely, childless, depressed middle aged old maid with "scrambled eggs" that nobody wants, that's why you're on a blog instead of taking care of a man & bearing children ? thanks.

  • James Hudson

    You not feeling my statement?

  • KA

    Of course! I’ve learned so much about dopamine decisions :-)

  • Bashi22

    But you love the same sex which breed for you.

  • Tammie Reed

    I got my tubes tied after 2 kids, not one. Plus my Ob GYN back in Cleveland, Oh would have did it with one, he believed in women making their own decisions, loved Dr Erkins! Thats an ol wise tale too that you can't get your tubes tied after one kid! You just have to find a doctor who willing to do it. I had to sign a paper though. I signed the document right before my 2nd c- section right on the table while my husband watched from the bed side, it was my choice.

  • Tammie Reed

    Right its your choice and those who are telling you that, tell them to have one then, folks kill me like they are going to take care of all them damn babies smh! I believe in birth control/preventative methods though, I really do lol.

  • Bashi22

    These Rapper will get her she’s Asian light skin straight hair and slim

  • Tammie Reed

    Yes my ob gyn tied my tubes after 2 kids, while another girl I knew had a doctor that told her no they wouldn't. It all depends on the doctor and I did my research before picking mine. Me and my bestie had the same doctor, he has retired now.

  • Tammie Reed

    Ive seen that happen time and time again!

  • James Hudson

    NOT true Oprah did in fact have a baby... but it died. So she is a 100% real woman she at least experienced childbirth.

  • Tammie Reed

    I didn't want ANY kids and people look at me crazy because I have two but nope never was interested like Jeannie but then I got older and it happened but I waited so long to have them now they kicking my butt! I was 29 when I had my first daughter then 31 with my son. I regret waiting so long but I was having the time of my life being single, fancy and free lol.

  • Miss Thang

    I don't think I want my own kids. I LOVE being an aunt to my beautiful nieces and nephews, and I love kids in general. I volunteer as a guardian Ad Litem and I am studying to be a pediatric nurse. But I am not so sure birthing a child is in the plan for my lifetime. I suffer from episodes of depression and I don't want to expose a child to that.

  • Tammie Reed

    sure is

  • Miss Thang

    Oh honey. Stop.

  • Miss Thang

    I'm an only child. I don't feel deprived at all. I have cousins who are like siblings to me and a big extended family with many aunts and uncles who I am very close to. Siblings aren't your only family members. From what I've seen, they could turn out to be your worst enemies.

  • friendofblog

    Hold true to you! I'm a parent, love my babies but respect those who choose not to indulge.

  • MistaO

    Just another selfish bit ch....

  • xenaD

    ????

  • xenaD

    ??????

  • Miss Thang

    Selfish for knowing that she doesn't want to bring an unwanted child into this world? Suuuure...

  • xenaD

    Yep. They’ll do it with 1 kid if you are over 30!

  • eBay

    You misunderstood: I said Oprah does not WANT children, not that she never had any. Oprah has stated numerous times that she does not want children. That child was a product of rape. If she wanted to be a mother she would've had another child or adopted. You should read her bio, she goes into detail as to why she chose not to become a mother.

  • eBay

    I've been asking my doc to tie my tubes or something since I was 16, and I'm 35 now lol. If my clock ever starts ticking I will adopt or foster, but I don't think I will ever get the urge to be a mom.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I haven’t watched “The Real” since Tamar left, so I haven’t been keeping up with everyone. But I am really sorry to hear this...honestly

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    There’s women who are like that, I’m best friends with one.

  • Ajavee

    That part????

    I think it should a conscious decision, not one made based on dopamine levels.

  • Ajavee

    That statement is not true. Who are you to say that??

  • Ajavee

    Your entire post ???. A man commenting on a woman’s body is hella suspect.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    One could argue that him wanting kids is also selfish ????

  • Ajavee

    Lol true.

  • Queen B

    I understand that

  • hottlanta

    Man has 34 kids by 17 women. I guess he is unselfish as hell.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jY4LoCnp9zU

  • Queen B

    Im not talking about the ppl with poor finances and all that other bullshît im simply saying broke or not married or not i think its less of a woman to not wanna bear children unless u gotta damn good reason....women were made to birth babies

  • hottlanta

    That is so rude. How could you/

  • Solstice

    James. Please don't say that. Are you saying that women who are barren aren't "fully complete" women? What about those women who have lived long enough to know that being a mother isn't for them? They aren't "fully complete" women? ?And James, unless you're a woman yourself, how you possibly know when, how and if a woman is complete???
    Please engage me.…??

  • Queen B

    Exactly!!! Thats my point....hell when the dîck b so good i b thinking about having his babies lol ? Then reality hits me

  • Ajavee

    Yes at your entire post????

  • Queen B

    Thats crazy to me...its one thing not to have any but its a totally different ball game not to want ANY!!!

  • Queen B

    Why?

  • Ajavee

    I don’t want them either carefuel with your generalizations and labels Queen B.

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    So true whatever reason she doesn’t have the desire to have kids and that’s ok. He can move forward to someone that wants kids and she can be with someone of the same kind frame. Society places this stigma that marriage and kids is the norm but some people just don’t feel that way

  • eBay

    You should read her bio. She talks a great deal about why. There a lots of women who don't want kids, but don't speak about it because they get attacked, as evident in this thread. We all have different reasons why, but we do exist. :-)

  • eBay

    I have a ton of reasons that I'm not going into here, but basically I've never had the urge or seen the point. If my biological clock does start ticking I will adopt or foster because I don't see the point in creating more life there's so many needing good homes already here, but I feel like my life is complete now without kids. I have nieces and nephews to spoil and send back home when I'm done lol.

  • eBay

    So what about the women that physically can't have kids? What were they "made" for?

  • T3

    I am a biological heterosexual woman and I don't wany any.

  • Kimberly King

    My thoughts exactly.

  • Kimberly King

    I'll be 30 in 2019 and as I get older, I'm starting to realize that I may not have any. One of my great friends is 35 and she doesn't want any. IDK why it's hard for women to understand that motherhood is NOT for everyone.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    They can't have kids due to medical reasons. That doesn't take away from the fact that females are put here to procreate.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I don't think kids had anything to do with her divorce. It's obvious he cheated on her.

  • eBay

    Wow.

  • eBay

    Who's divorce? Jeannie's? I didn't say that it did.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I was just making an observation.

  • Coy little wink

    Because she's Asian? I read a recent statistic a 45 year old black woman has a 50% chance of getting married...

  • NicoleZee

    I appreciated your honest post. You can still be a great parent with depression, I've lived with it for over 20 years. I have a 2 year old son. I think having a baby helped ease my depression a bit, not cure it, but having a child made me better. He gives me another reason to keep living. He has a wonderful pediatrician, nurses, and resident doctors that I can talk to about anything. The hospital where he goes makes sure that parents are also mentally/physically capable of caring for their children. There are plenty of resources available to parents no matter what type of help they may need. I have good doctors (my neurologist is a God send) and my mother is very supportive in helping me raise my son. After almost dying in childbirth and then almost dying in a near fatal car accident last year where I totaled a car, God has obviously kept me alive for a reason, I have a little boy to raise into a fine gentleman. Giving up will never be an option for me :). I wake up every morning not wanting a perfect life, that will never happen, but thankful that God has kept me here because He didn't have to!!!

  • NicoleZee

    I can understand your point but think for a moment about all the women that have had children only to neglect, abandon, or kill them. Why they do that I have no clue, either mental illness, mental retardation, or just plain crazy. So some women don't even want kids but yet they lay down several times and get pregnant and just don't care. I think if a woman or man knows that they don't want kids, they need to hold true to that and not have any and get sterilized so they won't make a bunch of kids they know damn well they don't want!

    My mom's friend's stepdaughter is mentally ill. She has had about 8 or 9 babies that all have gone into foster care. This woman continues to have children that she cannot and will not care for. Her family adopted one baby, the rest are scattered in foster homes. All she had to do was get sterilized, but no one can force her, she just keeps popping out babies for other people to care for while she does drugs and won't get help or take medication for her mental illness. Sick and sad.

  • NicoleZee

    A lot of women have said that and then they end up with babies! Time will tell. Plenty of people with children told me not to burden myself with any and I didn't even think I could. But when you end up with a surprise pregnancy, your mind and thoughts may change. Or some women end up meeting the right guy and they want to have children with him. I can't speak for other women, but I'm glad I had my son. God doesn't bless people for no reason, so why wouldn't I give myself the opportunity to be a good mom or give my son the opportunity to have a life??? I did what was best for me and you'll do what is best for you. But God has a funny way of derailing our "plans" sometimes!!!

  • just saying

    That's me

  • Pamela

    Now you're tripping.

  • Pamela

    Solstice, "barren"?. Really?
    Let's refrain from using 18th century terms to describe women that are unable to have children.

  • Pamela

    Please stop.

  • Pamela

    Ohh, she'll find one, another white man or Black brother. They seem to prefer Asian women.

  • suganspice68

    Now,Jeannies's husband will probably meet another woman who may have his child.

  • suganspice68

    Lol

  • NicoleZee

    True. I have a younger brother and we are not close. I also think about things like that when wondering if my son will ever have a sibling. I guess everyone is different. Even if you have other family members, doesn't mean you want to be close with them. I have a lot of family members that are full of shit so I stay away, ain't got time for anymore toxic people in my life. I hope my son will make friends along the way or he may be introverted like me and keep to himself. Either way, he's a happy child and he's healthy, so I'm thankful. I'm sure he will be just fine :).

  • NicoleZee

    You did exactly what my mom did after she gave birth to my brother. She knew she only wanted two kids, so they tied her tubes right after her C-section while she was still in the hospital. I asked her why she didn't make my dad get a vasectomy while they were still married. She said she was only concerned about her body, not his! I just personally think that when two people are together, especially married, that BOTH people should get sterilized if they are done having children, unless the other person plans on making babies with someone else! LOL! Why does the woman always have to make decisions about birth control and not the man??? Glad you did what was best for you!

  • NicoleZee

    Tell that to a lady I met that had six kids! She said that all of the fathers were involved in the lives of her children and did what they could to support them financially. Then she told me that I should definitely have 3 or 4 more! I looked at her like she belonged on another planet. She said she had no plans to tie her tubes. SMDH! I didn't say anything, she is blessed with fertility. However, I'm not sure if a single woman with what seems like limited financial resources should be having that many children by different men. But, her body her decision.

  • Solstice

    I meant no harm in the phrase. I initially was thinking biblical when I made my comment. I personally was thinking of women in the Bible when I was responding. I don't know what the PC term is. I do apologize, as I my intention was not to offend anyone ?

  • samuel severino

    She look like she BEEN looking for a reason to get her some BBC.

    Prolly already started. Usually when women get a divorce there is someone else already in the picture.

    And on Hip Hop Squares she be looking at the other panelists like she ready to do some shopping. ???

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    yep .... God is showing folks the truth ... That's all it is.. Narcissist .... These self serving folks.... Bout to have an epic downfall ... If you are a self serving person your done.... Done.... That's what you see and it will be their own doing... Get your popcorn ready ... And remember to always show love... Remember God is watching along with a crew solid angels chile ... Don't matter if folks believe or not.... At this point ...divine intervention ... Folks that don't wanna cut the shyt will get mowed down... It want be stopped either .. So get ready.... Folks been crying for healing... Welp .... Girl I have told many.. But many didn't believe ... Oh well ... The joke will be on them.... Keep your vibration high.... Not low....

  • Pamela

    I know you meant no disrespect.
    I don't know the PC term to use either, but we could just say "women that are unable to conceive". That sounds more humane abd empathic.
    Have a great weekend.

  • R in NYC

    I didn't want kids but I had two. Now I can't imagine my life without them. God tells us to be fruitful and multiply for a reason.
    Your kids take care of you in your twilight years. So all the childless people need to consider that. Who will be there for you later on in your life?

  • E Jai

    Girl please.....people have kids all the time and they no where to be found in they old age, neglectful and/or abusive. People shouldn't have kids to have someone to take care of them in old age. And most people have kids because they were screwing, engaging in their own personal pleasure and end up pregnant ( in other words they weren't particularly trying to get pregnant but were really just getting their freak on).

  • Bashi22

    lol ? but she’s a lesbian by choice sorry she was born like that let be stick to the narrative

  • Solstice

    I agree with you. I see how that may come across crude. I made an edit ? Thank you lady ? You have a great weekend as well!

  • JillFLY

    I said the same thing!

  • kennedy campbell

    well she did say that was a problem.

  • kennedy campbell

    lol what? i have plenty of older str8 female friends that don't want to spend their money on kids..too busy out buying expensive cars and clothing and hair...who's to say they won't at some point..but it's not unbelievable ...i have an aunt thats been married for 30 years now..i stopped counting the abortions they had... i mean they are well off and partly b/c of no children..now..who is to say when they are super elderly she won't have regrets..i know i wants some to help take care of me when i'm old..but i'll be there for my aunt and uncles

  • CaramelDrop

    How's your nephew? You use to mention him, haven't seen a mention in years....

  • Miss Thang

    Eww I can't think of a more selfish reason to have kids than just to have someone take care of me when I'm elderly.

  • Lady M

    Usually when women get a divocrce..... it's because someone else is in the picture???? Women get divorced because their husbands have entire households outside their own (like Wendy Williams' husband), because their husbands are abusive, or just plain inattentive, or their husband is treating them like a sidekick (like TI does to Tiny). Most of us who watch "The Real" saw this coming when she kept crying about not wanting kids. Her husband now wants kids although he didn't at first. I think they may be divorcing to free him up in order to pursue the family that he wants

  • Lady M

    So what happen to Tamar's talk show that she was supposed to have with Steve Harvey?

  • Lady M

    She said it was a problem though. Did you read?

  • Lady M

    Lawd you sound so silly. I've been trying to resist it but........ I couldn't. What are you like 18? 20?

  • Lady M

    I think Oprah wants kids but not the responsibility of them day to day which is what her African School for girls is about. She calls them her kids.

  • Lady M

    So.... are men who don't have kids not men too? Asking for a friend. And men who have kids that they don't actively/physically take care of. What are they? Asking for me.

  • Lady M

    And Scene. This comment here for the win. LMHO!!!!

  • Lady M

    They had the discussion. He agreed to not wanting any as well, but then changed his mind later on down the line. She however didn't change her mind.

  • Lady M

    I watch the show religiously and never heard her mention that she makes more money than him and he can't handle it. EVER!!! Both of them have careers and she never said her career came before her marriage. In fact it is he who travels all over the place for his career so he is often away from home. This is a challenge if he wants kids because he will then need to stay home to take care of the child/children. Will he be able to do that or is he expecting her to do it?

  • Lady M

    Adrienne don't like no black men - she likes light skinned or white overweight men. Rob Kardashian, Lenny and now Israel. Even her man crushes are often old ugly white men who can be her dad. I don't know what you are talking about.

  • Lady M

    Umm 29 and 31 is not old to have a child. That's normal age. I could see if you were 39 and 41 when you had them.

  • Lady M

    I thought about that too. But part of her problem may be that he is often absent due to whatever type of work he does. He seems to travel a lot which means the child rearing is going to fall solely on her. She may be open to it if she is with a guy who is at home more.

    I think she settled for Freddy though.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Adrienne was a certain rapper that shall remain nameless “side piece” for over a decade...

  • James Hudson

    To the first question men who don't have kids are not 100% men the Bible tells men to be fruitful & multiply, a man MUST secure the family bloodline, to the second question all men want to be involved in their kids lives but it's usually a bitter, vindictive ex that prevents this.

  • HeartOfGold

    I actually went to HS with Freddy. He was a good guy back then. I hope he finds what he is looking for.

  • ?Royalty?

    You have a point, but I have 7 siblings and the good majority of them ain't ish and don't take care of our parents. I do and I know that's what God commands me to do - but having children doesn't guarantee they will take care of you in your twilight years. It just doesnt.

  • Queen B

    No bîtch im 31 it was joke chill out this at Oprah's book club

  • Queen B

    Wow getting pregnant and having abortions bc they prefer to keep spending money on themselves is very reckless and irresponsible smh those are old fools

  • SweetTEE

    She was like a sister wife for Fabolous. Google it. And plenty other rappers in the 3lw/ cheetah girl days.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    It’s called free will. This is not the 40’s 50’s and 60’s anymore ladies. We have choices...we can make decisions regarding our careers, how we dress, etc but most importantly our own bodies. We no longer have to be uneducated homeworkers!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I was just thinking the same. I want my children to have their own life and families. Not taking care of me

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I am glad she was clear-minded and unselfish and realized that bringing a child into the world to save her marriage and end of being a bitter, neglectful and resentful mother.

  • Kayke

    I see ladyboy

  • hottlanta

    Kids don't suppose to come with a job description to take care of us in our old age. You suppose to take care of yourself. That ain't a child that is a slave. Let's revert back to the picture of the child slave on the floor.

  • YellowSauce

    people discuss things like this before marriage ..unfortunately they are called deal breakers ... she told him she didn't want kids but he secretly held out hope that she would change her mind ... this is actually a pet peeve of mine .. you are clear and someone else has an ulterior motive but she thought she was being respected ... men are actually more serious about their deal breakers ... if the roles were reversed they might actually already be divorced .. love is love .... I hope they work it out but this is definitely a form of disrespect and I hope she is aware ...

  • Malcom Flex

    Bull crap. I'm sick of poor azzes having kids they can't afford. Hoods are full of angry poor fatherless boys thugging and shiz. FOH with that mess.

  • Malcom Flex

    PREACH

  • Lady M

    You're not funny though, you just sound silly.

  • Lady M

    Your last statement is a lie. There are many deadbeat dads that abandon their wives and kids, or just their kids (if not married) after breaking up with the mother or after a one night stand. Some live blocks away and can visit their kids every day and choose not to visit them or take care of them. But you knew that already.

  • gail jones

    Thank ya. And whose to say your children will give a damn enough to take care of your shitty butt?

  • Queen B

    I have a serious career therefore i dont like to always talk serious on blogs....i need a balance ijs

  • Ling

    Give us clues. Who is this misterious rapper?

  • hottlanta

    I know really. You want to marry a man to take care of you. You want to have kids to take care of you. When are you gonna take care of yourself. Sounds like a bloodsucker who sucks the life out of people and makes it all about you and the hell with everybody else. Glad you ain't my mom.

  • MistaO

    I agree. That's why you see so many lonely, bitter, faking happiness females today! Enjoy the beds you've all made!! ?

  • MistaO

    I'm friends with a doctor and she told me that many of the females having trouble getting pregnant or who say they don't want children are in that position because they had multiple abortions.

    She said they can't conceive or carry babies due to the damage caused by the procedure(s). Then later on they never tell their husbands (if lucky enough to be married) that they just don't want children. Where the real reason is they can't!

  • MistaO

    And how about the 17, 17 broads scre wing tge same idiot MULTIPLE TIMES having MULTIPLE kids?!?!

  • morenYAHdelsur

    That’s really messed up!

  • Ajavee

    Exactly. You see some elderly people in homes with no one to visit not even their families?.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Welp I saw that coming...

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    ????

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Ha no guarantee those kids will take care of you...such a piss poor decision to have kids.

  • lala

    i thought that was just a myth. sometimes it's not even that they have had abortions. sometimes it's hormones, bad luck etc, fibroids, etc. sometimes they have been using those birth control pills that will put your hormones all out of wack. i have never and will never use those. a friend of mine used plan b for a long time because her bf didnt like condoms and wanted to knock her up. sis ended up with an ectopic pregnancy that would have cost her her life had she not aborted it.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I have had multiple abortions and have repented and been forgiven. I am blessed to be carry my third child (six

  • Shanese

    Lol when it was bring your husbands to work day on the show and he did an impression of her it was so sad. ‘No Freddy not now. Maybe in six weeks. I’ll see you the next month’ and Jeannie does talk about how her and Freddy would go even a month without each other because she is occupied. He basically said they don’t have sex regularly too. I haven’t watched the show since Tamar days since she was still on the show when this happened. All the husbands impressions were funny or cute but it went downhill when it got to Jeannie’s turn

  • Shanese

    I have a cousin who doesn’t want kids. She doesn’t mind other people’s kids but she doesn’t want one of her own. Our family gave up convincing her a long time ago. Some women out there really do not have the maternal instinct and prefer a childless marriage. Jeannie and my cousin being one of them

  • Shanese

    Well said!

  • Shanese

    Jeannie’s husband probably didn’t want kids before they got married because she did say she made it clear prior to their marriage. Now he’s a little older and had probably done most of the things he wanted to do that’s probably a factor that changed and he realized he did want to be a Dad, but too late because he already went into a marriage with Jeannie where they must’ve agreed that it’s a no go

  • Shanese

    Either he thought he could change her mind or he was on the same boat prior and changed his own mind later on and realized he did want kids

  • Shanese

    And it’s sad because the children themselves are innocent to what they were born into. It’s the parents fault because planned or unplanned, they did the deed and a baby came as a result, with no choice either

  • Shanese

    What happened when you met her?

  • Shanese

    ????????

  • MzApple

    my co worker is about to be married, she has been with dude since middle school and she is adamant about the fact that she doesn't want kids . she rather have her pets she said

  • Queen B

    Hold on ?? Lets talk about how's she's been with her fiancé since middle school...we'll address the babies next lol so she's only had one penis her whole life? ?

  • Starsky Willows

    Its okay not have kids, just don't end being the lady in her 40's that's mad at all the moms and wives because she was in limbo for the past 20 years and father time has crept up.

  • http://www.Samanthagwrites.com Samantha G.

    Well 2018 is his year to get that baby he’s been wanting. Watch he knock up some random 20-something and we hear about it before the summertime. How you clearly want two different lives but leave it to chance to work out what inevitably should have been... you two not being together?? ????? I don’t get it.

  • http://www.Samanthagwrites.com Samantha G.

    That sounds true to me. Taking birth control for too long can also be an issue.

  • MzApple

    Yep, from what she has told us

  • MistaO

    Plan B aint a damn tic tac. Some ho es just too dumb.

  • Queen B

    Lies!!!! Lol jk but very hard to believe

  • Faux Gibbler

    I'm waiting for her to come out the closet and say she is gay.
    On another note- anyone notice how she and Adrianne both trying to be the alpha male on The Real?

  • Faux Gibbler

    Imagine if you would have had them kids- they wouldn't have a good life. People quick to say adoption but ppl
    dont realize ppl adopt and become foster parents for "status" I know first hand.

    It's your body. Your choice. I will never look down on a woman who gets an abortion because I know it's a gut wrenching descion.

    Don't let the thoughts of your abortions haunt you- you have to be able to take care of yourself before you can take care of another human.

  • Kimberly King

    Life's too short to be mad at someone who was "blessed" with pesky kids.

  • softness1

    I applaud her..I know way too many terrible mothers who had kids for the sake of their marriage etc.. They bring kids into the world and are shitty to them.. She recognizes she's not fit to be a mother.. Her husband knew this when they got married..
    My older cousin never wanted kids.. She said she's too vain and didn't want to give up her travels and things that she couldn't do if she had kids.. Well she's in her 40s with no kids and is happy...
    Meanwhile my niece has 2 kids that my sister is raising because she's a horrible mother.. She had the kids for her baby father.. It's terrible..

  • softness1

    Should she have kids and be neglectful and absent from them.. She don't want kids.. It's better to know before you have the kids than after.. We all know a few bad mothers and always wonder why they even had kids.. Well maybe she already knows she'll be a bad mother..

  • softness1

    My cousin!!! She has money and likes traveling and being able to be spontaneous.. She feels like kids will stop her and she'll resent them.. She will tell anyone that she's too vain to have kids.. Shit there are a few women in my family who are terrible mothers.. My sister is currently raising her grandchildren cuz my niece can't be bothered with her children... it happens