Gregg and NeNe Leakes

NeNe Leakes's social media followers are calling for Bravo to fire her after she wrote a series of despicable social media messages to her husband, Gregg Leakes, calling him "mean, grouchy" and "evil" amid his cancer battle.

It all started on Instagram.com on Thursday night, when Gregg posted an inspirational message to men on "Brothers Day."

He quoted Mark Linton, saying:

"A real man is the kind of man that when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says Oh Crap, he's up! Brother, life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat u right. Forgive the ones who don't just because you can."

NeNe Leakes
 
In since-deleted social media posts, NeNe lashed out at her cancer-stricken husband for not following his own advice.

"Well u need to do everything you posted! Practice what you preach. You need to pray for yourself! This mean, grouchy, evil stuff u pulling these days are NOT cool."

She added:

"I would just think if I have or had cancer, I would see life so differently! Not be mean, grouchy and evil for no real reason! But that’s me. Pray for me."

NeNe Leakes

One of NeNe's angry followers leaped into her comments with both feet, slamming the aging Real Housewives of Atlanta star for being insensitive and self-centered in the face of her husband's battle with stage 3 prostate cancer.

An unrepentant NeNe replied:

"Chileeee shut up! Gregg has done so much s--t! It didn't just start! While u commenting saying s--t to me, ask him what has he done! Oh and by the way, Gregg isn't bed stricken and needing daily help! You got it twisted."

The comments from her followers continued to rage throughout the night with NeNe offering no apologies.

NeNe Leakes

The reality TV Diva, who turns 51 in December, got emotional when discussing her husband's cancer diagnosis on an episode of Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen earlier this month.

"The day that they told us that Gregg has cancer, my life changed in that moment. Being a care taker's very hard. It's just been very difficult," NeNe said at the time. "I feel like that day I lost my husband, because he’s not with me, we don't do the things that we normally do together. We're not even in the same bedroom."

The couple met when Gregg rescued the single mom from a strip club where the former stripper, real name Linnethia Monique Johnson, danced for money to support her son, Bryson Bryant.

They tied the knot in 1997 and divorced in 2011 to prevent the IRS and other creditors from taking everything they owned.

Gregg and NeNe remained together, living in the same rented mansion in Duluth, Georgia with her son Bryson and their son Brentt.

The couple "reunited" and announced their engagement in 2013. Bravo filmed their wedding ceremony for a spinoff titled I Dream of NeNe: The Wedding that premiered on September 17, 2013.

  • HIS4EVA

    I am not surprised by this at all! Its all about NENE! She said she aint the nurturing type.

  • LYRICS

    *the aging Real Housewives of Atlanta star*

    HAHAHAHAHA!! HOHOHOHOHO!!! HEHEHEHEHEHE!!! Oh Nene! We get it, you're a "reality t.v. star" so you feel the need to share all. Fine, but there's no need to publicly try to humiliate your husband (or wife). He da*m well may be the devil, but in his "time of sickness", anything other than words of support and/or love will be frowned up. We know she doesn't care, but I'm sure the family is already going through enough, keep it classy Nene......

  • hottlanta

    Rented mansion. So much shade I need a umbrella. I am laughing how she thought the show was about her and if she left the show will fail. Well is stood well without her. She was salty when Kandi show got higher ratings then her's. Folks filled up her head with BS as if she was all of that.

  • Vonn

    Happy Shady Friday!!! Hope everyone has a great weekend. That summary of Greg & NeNe's love story is hilarious.

  • Torae

    I can’t stand Nene. When I see her cry about Gregg I never see any tears. It’s like a soap opera cry. I don’t think she likes the attention Gregg gets because she’s a narcissist and she wants it to be all about her and her horse face, loud mouth and blonde lace wigs...

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    She’s just sticking around waiting for Old Greg to kick the bucket so she can lap up that life insurance policy! Ca-Ching! ??? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/aa538a8d530a6716f48c9b925ede3ec4139d437dc4c9c7485a908ed58d490241.jpg

  • WutizstillHERE!

    When you live with, date or marry a narcissist, the moment the focus is no longer mainly on them, it becomes a struggle..

  • Pamela

    Nene ain't 51, who you trying to fool.
    Stay well Gregg.

  • iWasteTime

    I don't watch the show or know much about her.
    I do know you're not going to be rude, loud and yelly at me, regularly, as I take care of you, during your convalescence.
    #FOH

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    Couldn't she have just gotten up and went into the other room and told him that? Ugghh

  • free

    she trying to keep her peach but she's walking a very fine line. i never cap on someone who is a caretaker, they have those moments of frustration and anger. i'm sure they're both in on the drama though. it's for ratings.

  • SpiceGirl

    What comes around, surly goes right back around......Watch out for that chick we call KARMA!

  • ClaireHuxtable
  • tintin

    In all honesty though, I've seen some ppl when they are sick, they can become mean messed up ppl . Just for the hell of it they will start calling you names, disrespecting you and talking and treating you like crap for no reason. Greg is probably putting Nene through it even though she is trying to help him. I think Greg is jealous Nene has gained so much and she became so big under his dime. He probably jealous and throws in her face how he got her out the strip club.

    However i do think she's ready for him to drop dead. She wants the insurance and her freedom back.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    He better hold onto he railing while he's walking down the stairs...

  • Victorious82

    Caregiver burnout is real. Don’t know if that’s the case here. Also sick folks can be mean especially if they are seniors. That said, she needs to not put this all on social media. It’s not the world’s business. She just opened herself up for judgement and criticism.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Brentt and Bryson betta be glad they made it to adulthood. Nene don't look like a "pack a lunch & bake cookies" kinda mom.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    People get sick of being sick.

  • HIS4EVA

    AGREED.

  • HIS4EVA

    lol

  • HIS4EVA

    girl yess!

  • HIS4EVA

    stawp!

  • dru and neil

    She is really vile for this, just a shameless, attention seeking, unsophisticated piece of overgrown garbage. By the way, it is okay for someone stricken with cancer to be upset for whatever reason, just thank God you’re not walking in their shoes.

  • xenaD

    That’s what I was thinking

  • dru and neil

    I really wouldn’t be shocked if she was even a little bit jealous of him right now. She’s pretty twisted.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    As medical professional this is normal behavior for someone who is sick and or facing death. Some family members we are caregivers don’t know how to handle that change in a person HOWEVER as a WIFE Nene took a vow through sickness and through health through sickness didn’t just mean oh they sick stay with them it means you gone go through IT. Nene is coming off as a selfish spoiled brat her camera screamed Meme as in me, me, me she was speaking behind to what she lost I lost my husband we don’t do the things we used too umm DUH!! Would you want to hang out and party and travel or do what ever when you’re facing an uncertain death not sure if you will live or die and your feeling sick every day! She really need to stop and this didn’t start until then show aired damn her

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    ????????

  • Victorious82

    I think Greg enabled her self centered behavior over the years. It’s hard for her to adjust.

  • dru and neil

    People are on here talking about caregiver burnout and how tough it is, but how much “care” do we think Nene Leakes is giving? I can’t really see her that hands on in his day to day care. I stopped watching the show this season, but that woman didn’t have a nurturing or even considerate bone in her body and I hope Greg doesn’t leave her with a dime, give whatever you got to your children.

  • the chosen one

    Ne Ne needs to fix that d!c* on her face.

  • HIS4EVA

    yea he would probably get more kindness from a live in nurse

  • brooklyn23

    Don't know her personally or the situation. Don't judge her because she's in the inside of the pic and only she knows what's really going on. This wickedness she addresses probably was way before he even got sick. And you would think when a person is vulnerable/sick that they will chill out behave themselves etc they dont.

  • dru and neil

    Why make it public? Why not tell your friends?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I'll be glad when Nene's 15 minutes of fame are up.

  • Society Has Changed

    I have been caring for my elder parents for 10 years on top of working full time and taking classes here and there. My dad has ALS and my mom been sickly since I was born. My dad gets grumpy, depressed, and wishes his life would just end. My mom now has dementia and cusses me out, accuses me of everything under the sun, set my kitchen sink on fire in a rage and so fourth... I hear it all and get it all! What I do???? Wake up everyday with a smile and keep it pushing because I know my parents are not in their right mind due their condition!!!! GROW UP NENE AND GET SOME UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT A CARETAKER DEALS WITH AND HOW YOU CANNOT BE CONSUMED WITH EVERYTHING YOU GET THROWN AT YOU !! It’s not for the faint at heart so, take a timeout!!!!

  • Yardgirl

    If ever there was a time where someone can get a pass (from ME) for being grouchy is when facing life threatening illness and possible death. FU Nene you are hateful AF!!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Exactly. He's in the same house as you, so talk to him in person, not on social media.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    MOst people have nurses to come in and assist and I’m sure they did! Now for some family members who can’t afford it they can get burned out EMOTIONALLY so if they can’t afford a nurse full or part time whenever they really need a break they get respite care this person will just fill in for family members for a few hours so they can have time to themselves. Nene changed AFTER the first and second season once that money rolled in her aura and spirit changed she is not the same woman!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Matriarch in my extended family just got diagnosed with cancer on Monday and she just told her children this morning. Literally 2 hours ago. Prayers for anyone going through this fight. Caregivers too. I can attest its pretty awful. My mom is a 2 time breast cancer survivor and my dad was a survivor of kidney cancer and prostate cancer.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I agree he sure did!! And now she is acting out like a spoiled child she is used to him being the adult and caregiver and cater to her she not used to having to reverse roles

  • Yardgirl

    God bless you!! I have tears in my eyes because I cannot even imagine what you face daily. You parents are lucky to have you in their lives. I hope you have the occasional help to take care of yourself. **ehug**

  • FukkFolks2018

    God bless you.

  • Fire & Ice

    Prayers and healing for your family ?

  • Yardgirl

    Blessings to you and your family. My mom survived uterine and my dad bladder cancer. I walk every year hoping to see a cure in this lifetime. Sending prayers!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Which is why I think this is for the show! And it’s sickening if so because notice all the reality ppl start publicly falling out and talking about stuff that was filmed six months ago I’m sick of this mess! Nene did an interview where she spoke about considering leaving Gregg now that the show is on they rehashing this stuff? Chile cheese!

  • Yoni7

    Prayers!

  • Society Has Changed

    Thank you! I have two brothers who don’t have time, so it’s all on me. My 25 year old son helps the best he can, and I have no other family in the area. I just thank God for his strength, for FMLA and keep it pushing. Throughout it all, I still have a smile, sense of humor, and all of my hair with a few gray hairs?. Life’s too short to sulk in misery... I have been given a job to do!!! Thanks again!

  • SpillyNillie

    Throw her away...

  • dru and neil

    Yes, Nene really is proof of money being the root of all evil. Maybe she should just hire full time professional help for Greg if she’s so tired, and feel blessed to be able to do so. Also, good luck trying to drum up sympathy when using Greg’s illness for attention again after this little tantrum...she really just revealed herself. She could have milked this until he dies and probably for months after the funeral, but folks are going to remember this.

  • dru and neil

    She could have yelled it down a hall easy...

  • SpillyNillie

    I was thinking that people respond differently to being told that they are dying...she makes me absolutely sick! Exactly why I had not an ounce of sympathy for her ass when she was going through that rape comment scandal...

  • Yoni7

    My supervisor is one narsty bish. She and I had words real bad one day. A BIG blowup. Bish was real disrespectful bringing my family into the argument. It got personal. I raised up on the bish and everything. She told me to leave for the day. She later texted me hours after I had left work and not really (IMO) "apologized". Too late, bish. My black girl powers had already been activated.

    Exactly ONE MONTH LATER to the date of our argument..........she found out AT WORK that she had it. They had to do emergency surgery two days later. She was out for nine weeks.

    Came back. She STILL got that same spirit on her. Said all this to say......some folks are mean and grouchy because the disease is causing DIS-EASE in the body and mind. I pray for healing for EVERYONE that is fighting this fight.

  • Sdot33

    I never though Silk I mean Nene loved Greg. Even back in Gentlemen's club, he saved her from the pole. It was admiration not love. now it's more she's use to him. He know her in and out. Even now I dont see love just convenience. I just hope she stay there by his side.

  • Yoni7

    I would just think if I have or had cancer, I would see life so differently! Not be mean, grouchy and evil for no real reason!

    _________________________

    .......to piggyback off my last comment. I TOTALLY AGREE WITH HER HERE. Now all that other stuff she said.....I pray she never has to personally fight the fight.

  • Carrington

    While it was very tacky and insensitive to post something like that in a public forum, I get where she's coming from if that's her experience. Had she had this very same conversation with him, privately, in the very same tone it would've simply been a conversation between a husband and wife.
    The fact that she put it out on social media is what changed the narrative and tone of her gripe with HER husband because she opened it up to the opinions and input of people who have NO idea what goes on in her house, or what has GONE on in her house.
    Only Nene and Gregg know what their marriage is like outside of the RHOA cameras so, I'm going to give her a pass for her personal feelings, but take that point away for how she went about it...

  • SpillyNillie

    But honestly, she doesn't know what she would do. I think she would still be the same shady ass NeNe or maybe worse. I've been around a number of people with cancer. Some remain the same, some get softer and more pleasant, and some become bitter and mean.

  • Tlowe89

    My grandmother passed from cancer. She was naturally mean, grouchy and evil.... maybe on a 6 scale. When she was diagnosed with cancer and doing radiation treatment it went up to a 19 on a scale of 1-10. I think it’s because your so tired, scared, in pain and weak from the medication, therapy, lack of eating that you can be grouchy mean and evil. But your going through a lot mentally, emotionally, and physically

  • Nik

    I know how you feel. Prayers going up. ?

  • stav

    Too darn old to be airing out what goes on in their private lives, and home on social media!

  • Nik

    Marriage is supposed to be sacred. Spats should not be public knowledge. That is not love in action.

  • Renee26

    Pot meet Kettle ?

  • Nik

    She said during an interview that she is not your typical caretaking wife. When she gets up in the morning her goal is to hustle, so not surprised by this admission.

  • Vonn

    YUP!! ?

  • Yardgirl

    Life’s too short to sulk in misery... I have been given a job to do
    *****************************************
    I have goosebumps, I love those words!! You are so right and this is how I too choose to live my life. I hope your brothers see the light and step up and help because every little bit helps.

  • Yoni7

    Right. She doesn't, hence why I said I pray she never has to fight the fight. I still agree with her on that statement though. You would think that if someone who is KNOWN to be shady, grouchy, mean or what have you, would see life differently after being given a second chance.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Nene is mean, grouchy and ev1l and she's not even sick! Jealous & conniving too!

  • Renee26

    Good theory...nobody would have guessed they were having issues based off of his post...she took it there

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Gone Gurl!! You're a gem!
    Your parents may not be able to express it, but really appreciate the life you're giving them.
    Hold on to your Joyful spirit!

  • Rayne

    When ppl are sick they act like all of the above and look right on over it and keep it moving. I’m still gon be there getting on your nerves until you are better. Now when you get well enough then I’m gonna tell you bout yourself. I’m not fussing at no sick person tho. Feelings aside.

  • Yoni7

    Great is your reward. Almighty bless you.

  • Yoni7

    GIRL!!!!

  • Yoni7

    Probably did.......DAILY!

  • Jackie Byrd

    Thank you so much for sharing this sure helps others to understand.

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    And never turn his back on her. Check the floors to make sure it’s no hidden “slippery spots “, and make sure he don’t fall asleep first at night lol

  • Jackie Byrd

    Unless you have been a caretaker you have no idea how they deal with their situation. Nor do you know what happened before the person got ill. Not taking anyone's side but just saying it's an awfully sad life experience to fall into.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Nene is showing her true colors.

  • SpillyNillie

    I agree, you would hope that they would embrace life differently.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Nene...the man is sick and he is not you. He's probably in pain from chemo and other things...yes you will be grouchy and depressed and upset and irritable because this sickness takes a toll on you and the chemo makes it no better. The surgeries and being poked on would make anyone grumpy...I was depressed when I had cancer. I was so tired of the surgeries and the appointments that would lead to devastation. But my last fight with that monster did change my outlook on the world and my life. And I haven't looked back since. I Thank God for that.

  • TMW

    Sick people are mean and grouchy - FACTS! And caregivers (usually spouses) are expected to be martyrs, tamp down their feelings and become something under their shoe, just because they are sick and going through - with no awareness what they are putting people through. And a lot of times, the caregiver becomes sick and will sometimes die before the sick person they have been taking care of. There is a reason why November is National Caregiver Month.

    NeNe has a right to her feelings. People shouldn’t tell her she’s wrong to feel the way she does. Putting it on social media and not expecting somebody to come for her however...not smart.

  • Indies beauty

    It's hard to be a care taker and maybe she is sharing her feelings because of the front they have to put on. My step brother died in Oct of 2014 from sickle cell and my step dad passed away January 2015 from stomach cancer. It was hard on everyone especially my mom since they were separated when he was diagnosed.

    Although they were not together she went over there almost every day to cook, clean and do the laundry. She also took him to his kemo appointments. I can say Claude was always true to himself and annoyed the hell out of her lol. I'm sure she felt a way similar to Nene but she never voiced her feelings.

  • Blak

    The man is on his death bed and he has to put up with that big mouth rhinoceros / elephant horse of a wife/beard. I hope he has revised his will and leaves her with his bills and $1

  • KcoolMuziq

    #TEAMGREGLEAKES

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Nene has no real storyline this season except through him. So when the sickness gets boring she may off him to become the first Real Widows of Atlanta.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    For real. And does ever watch airings of her own show, to see how evil and mean she can be to her co-stars? smh

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile doesn't he have a right to be mad ???? Nene you are not the one with Cancer ...... smh where is the empathy Nene ...... oh ... you Narc azz to busy worried bout self ....... these two ..... smh ... He know what he married as for her .......FOH !!!!!!! Your Narc azz is no victim here ...... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/164ad7cc338a739f7fc2d94294a2ffb67b75ae66872436dbe732bfb54ee4ae16.gif

  • Soon2BWife

    This the pic her and Tamar took to their plastic surgeon, MUA, hair stylist and dentist: https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c80814eef085ecf16159566808fb9cdde00e241f170c351dfd4d1c19b3b2cbac.jpg

  • ATL White Guy

    Wait...a month or so ago she was lamenting her life changed as she was now a caretaker, and was tired of it. Now, last night she says he's not bed-stricken and not needing daily help. Has his condition changed that much, or is she just a whiny, self-centered person??

  • thatgirlmel83

    My pray to this woman and her husband as I know these times are trying to the soul of any man (human). I refuse to condemn Nene for her actions for this is probably a woman at her wits end crying out for help but don't know how to go through the proper channels to get the help she so desperately needs. Often times those in the care of others are expected to put up a front for the world when their love one's are ill but sometime even the strongest warrior falls with his/her cross. Get up Nene you had a moment in lapse in judgement which is very well understood by those who have walked in your shoes or those who are just naturally compassionate to both parties involve in such circumstances and without having experience what you are going through (they do exist). You got this! dust yourself off

    My hope is one day we can all come to a natural understanding that...one is disease because one is dyspeptic not one is dyspeptic because one his disease. Hopefully her revelation will awaken those to see the psychosomatic correlation so that health is arrived at speedily. My heart goes out to both of them, I hope they find the peace that their hearts seeks. Blessings

  • Shira Harding-James

    I can definitely understand how challenging it can be to go through something like this.
    However, don’t air it all out on social media and go to God and your husband with the issues you may have.
    Because when the smoke clears and everything is back wonderful in your relationship, people with remember this lack of impulse decision you have made!
    Just saying.......

  • Sid

    My father passed away from the same thing Mr.Greg is going through. It’s almost like deja vu seeing Mr.Greg lose weight and sitting down and talking with the doctors. They had to perform the same surgery on the very same day he was diagnosed same as Mr.Greg. My father was doing fine after the surgery and was getting treatment but that sob came back with a vengeance and went to his liver and colon. He fought for 2 years. Mrs.Nene has to Realize he is mean because he doesn’t want anyone babying him and my father was the same way. Let him be mean because it’s giving him the will to keep fighting. But I don’t think social media is a good place to air it. Sorry for the long post woah Chile I had a moment

  • Lisa

    I’m sorry to hear of your your father’s passing. Stay strong & have a good day????

  • Passion

    Why would they take this stuff on social media, Gregg is dealing with a lot of physical and emotional feelings right now. No it’s not easy being sick or caring for some that is sick, deal with your feelings in another way not on social media! NeNe is evil, mean and nasty and it has nothing to do with cancer or any other illness it’s just who she is!!

  • Coy little wink

    Her name stripper name was Silk ?

  • Passion

    That loud mouth probably did but her nastiness is why she took to social media!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Sorry for your loss.

  • Candance

    People dont know what its like taking care of someone going through sickness. Everything changes. He may be a different person and she is having a hard time. People post things on the internet but its still THEIR relationship, we dont know how Greg really acts we only see him looking sick and weak on TV, he could be a monster behind closed doors. **Speaking from Experience**

  • Candance

    I agree with you, its hard for the caregiver. People dont understand. They think you are supposed to be the smiling happy wife all the time when in reality you are just as miserable! Life changes and sometimes its is hard to deal. She will figure it out, like you said she had a moment of lapse in judgement.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Yep these here very comments that she posted and deleted will be reposted when she gets to carrying on about how she loves him

  • Candance

    I agree, my husband had a stroke 2 years ago and we are still going through the motions. Daily I get praise on how strong Ive been but in reality Ive been living in Hell!

  • Renee Bee

    Stay strong, Candace. Praying extra patience and endurance for you. ?

  • Lady_Elle

    She likely is going thru a tough time with someone that is ill...
    Nene you took it to social media??? WTF?
    Ugh!!!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    i remember getting rid of one my gfs because she said nene was a positive example for black women. Lol

  • Solstice

    I am so very sorry! Blessings and comfort for you and yours. I am sure it wasn’t easy. ???

  • Jennifer

    Echoes

  • Connie

    How petty....lol

  • Passion

    Yeah, people don’t understand that!
    I’ve had 7 major surgeries, spent months in the hospital, and weeks in ICU! I’ve also took care of Family and friends throughout my life and sometimes it took a toll but I never forgot how to have compassion, care and concern for others!

  • CookieMobster
  • Malai

    Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry for your father’s passing :(

    People really have to try and empathize with the ill person.. they are suffering and scared. Why it’s so hard to understand that, I don’t know.

  • Solstice

    I am so grateful you beat it!! ?? Praise Him!! ????

  • Gail

    Sounds to me like she is establishing her case for leaving Gregg, so she has to put it on social media to lay down her motive to leave in 3, 2, 1. The last thing she wants is having to take care of an ill old man when she is trying to live her fake life.

  • Maxx

    My husband died of cancer in 2011 & I understand everyone is wondering how can you feel that way about someone who may be possibly dying, but it is hard ya'll as you are also going through this with them. But I never would have taken my frustrations and voiced them to him or anyone else for that matter & still haven't. She wrong. You married for better or worse lady...get it together & shut up

  • Maxx

    I feel ya. I also went through this with my husband. It was HARD.

  • thatgirlmel83

    It can be trying trust I understand...my prays to you also.

    When things feel heavy remember those times when things was great with you both and hold that vision as often as you can it will spark hope in you that will make you feel like a overcomer....whatever it is you're going through before you know it you will not succumb to your passions but feel empowered and overflow with laughter. Often time these events in our lives can make us forget who we truly are. It happens...Blessings to you also and don't forget to take time out for yourself.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Social Media isn't the best place, but no one has the power to tell Nene how to feel and act towards HER husband. No one knows whats going on when cameras arent rolling and this might even be a marketing scheme to boost ratings so im not buying it, HAPPY FRIDAY!

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Wooord, imagine your husband was caught cheating and then was diagnosed with cancer... I'd be talking shht too. That really happened to my ex bestie, her dad cheated on her mom, then caught prostate cancer and they both clowned him every chance they got because of it....

  • Ghost

    My father died from renal cancer 3 years ago. However he felt..I dealt with it. Some days he was mad, some days mean, some days happy. It was a rollcoaster ride for 6 months. He was facing death so whatever and however he wanted anything was fine with me! I would give anything for him to be here with me...I miss him :(

  • bemetoo

    Anything to get them ratings up...

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I'm sorry for your loss. ?

  • bemetoo

    Ion don’t like this Kentucky fried moose

  • JENNYJONES1

    HMMM I GUESS NENE IS GETTING A TASTE OF HER OWN MEDICINE FROM HOW SHE HAS TREATED OTHERS ESP THE OTHER HOUSEWIVES WHEN SHE THOUGHT SHE WAS GOING TO BE A BIG HOLLYWOOD STAR AND DIDN'T NEED RHOA BUT HAD TO COME CRAWLING BACK WHEN SHE WAS DUMPED BY HOLLYWOOD. LOL!!!!!........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • leapyearpisces

    Sorry for your loss.

    As far as Neigh-Neigh, it's NO SECRET that people that are battling cancer go through mood swings - IT IS, WHAT IT IS!!!! and she will DEAL! I have NO SYMPATHY for this bully, because it's not even because Gregor is being grouchy, he probably does not have the STRENGTH to kiss her toxic ass, and say "yes, dear", so she feels he is being grouchy. SMH. I do not care what ANYONE says, that Nene, has been and WILL ALWAUS be a mean, bully. I never liked her, she is an AWFUL person. Just MEAN because today i's Friday. Greg, I believe GOD will deliver you, and when he does, you better runy the FARTHEST your geriatric legs can take you, because the GAG IS....SHE is ACTUALLY the cancer.

  • Dahl

    I understand both sides. He’s sick and likely in pain, so he’s not going to always be pleasant. As the caregiver, she has to take all that on plus her children and her own life, thst can be frustrating. And be HONEST: people who are sick can be straight up a$$holes sometimes, feeling they can be because they’re sick. One thing I think, she should’ve laid him out in private and kept a united front in public...

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Hope you're doing much better, Passion. Best wishes going forward!

  • ohdearme

    I wouldn't wish the role of caregiver on my worst enemy, my friend "thought" she could care for her mom during her bout with Alzheimers, she called me at 2am one morning screaming for me to come get her. She had raised her hand to hit her own mother because she was so fatigued and stressed out. I'm not going to bash NeNe for feeling helpless and at her wits end because I don't know how I would be. Perhaps she should leave social media alone to vent though, other than that we're all different and people saying how they were with their loved one and "I could never do that" don't live with this woman or know first hand what she's going through.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Thank you!!! And yes Praise Him!!!

  • ohdearme

    Venting how she feels can never be wrong, it's either vent or hold it in and have a nervous breakdown. We're all different for a reason.

  • ohdearme

    None of the other housewives have been ill with cancer, this is so off the mark it's sad. You took a life and death situation and minimized it to ego amongst cast mates. OHDEARME!!!!!

  • Mz. Nisha

    My father passed away from cancer in April of this year. In his last few months he would say mean and hurtful things. I kept reminding myself that he was fighting a battle much larger than my feelings. Nene is self absorbed, Greg's illness is only convenient when it brings her attention.

  • Hmmm~?

    I’ve noticed that people from his generation tend to act like this when they become ill. It’s very usual for people to turn bitter and hostile towards their loved ones when they are fighting for their lives. They’re scared, confused, and angry that they are sick and take it out on whoever’s around. It takes (a lot) of compassion, understanding, and patience. He definitely should not be treating his wife like that though.

  • And then there is that!

    People kill me always trying to push for someone to be fired. This is the most self righteous bunch of people I have ever saw. At the end of the day if she wants to tall crazy to her sick husband on social media that is their business. No one else's. Plus if she has no job I'm sure no one that supported her boycott is going to pay for Greg medical bills. So they all need to have several seats

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    I ABSOLUTELY agree. It is probably completely NORMAL for Nene to FEEL that WAY but as a CAREGIVER negative expressions or thoughts should only be from you to God's ear; most definitely not the UNIVERSE or SOCIAL MEDIA. Frequently ELDERLY and incapacitated people LOSE THEIR WILL to live because they don't want to "BE A BURDEN to ANYONE."

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    I am sorry for your loss. Peace and blessings.

  • Notatall

    Why do people support people like Nene and Tamar.....their personalities suck!

  • Gail

    Ummm, 'social' media, by definition means you are putting your business in the streets...and unless you OWN the media, you can't control how it is spun, nor how people respond. Ask Trump.

  • Anonymouse

    Smart move. She needs better role models.

  • hottlanta

    Well thé bible said in sickness n in health. They when they get sick u want out.

  • Applebootay

    Why is this a topic? Slow news day? I'll come back on Monday...Have a great weekend ROSES!

  • Reina1718

    All for TV she been tired of Gregg it jus looks good for her 2 b married... she been wanting 2 leave him for a while

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I believe it...at first last season she was all teary eyed and now when he talks about it to the girls she looks dismissive and rolls her eyes because he's getting attention...

  • A D N

    Because they identify with both ladies. Ask the people around you which celebrity they admire, and you will have your answer to who they are.

  • A D N

    Sorry for your loss.

  • A D N

    True. I think what rubbed people the wrong way is because she publicly bashed her husband who is battling cancer. Even if what she says is true regarding his mistreatment of her, the BEST recourse is to tell it to him directly and not a social platform. She may have tried to tell him many times to no avail and sometimes the best way to reach a person is to embarrass them especially if they portray themselves as level headed and motivational such as Gregg. I think in the heat of the moment in anger, in hurt, in misunderstanding and lack of adequate communication and expression of feelings, she vented.

  • A D N

    Sorry about your loss. Nene needs to read this and surround herself with people who really understands what she is going through and just be able to honestly admit her feelings so she doesn't explode on social media. There is a place and purpose for everything. Just to add, people who are being cared for needs to understand that the caregivers need a break from the situation and person because it is hard to be on call 24 hrs daily. It's exhausting, saddening, mentally and emotionally draining. And the caregiver has to understand the cared-for individual is in the worst position because they really don't want to leave the world or family. It's scary.

  • A D N

    Sorry Candance. Make sure you make time for yourself with guilt because there is NOTHING to be guilty for. You both need a break from each other. And continue to come on here to separate your mind for a moment from the situation. I send sincere healing thoughts to you and your husband.

  • Notatall

    You're probably right- all of this
    "know your worth", has made people think being loud and cocky is the definition of being confident and real. The world is just all backwards in general.

  • DroneRivers

    I was about 17 when I became the primary caregiver for both my grandmother AND great-grandmother. To date, it is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. It's not only draining physically, it takes an emotional toll as well because you fear losing this person you love and have to watch them suffer. I can understand feeling resentment, but Nene isn't doing herself any favors by lashing out at him publicly.

  • Indies beauty

    I understand.. ita a difficult scenario but sending positive vibes your way ?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Nene is a Ghetto witch???

  • Li-Wright

    We don't know what they're going through. If you're looking at death, you do get grouchy and mean. You're angry. So nene needs to leave the house and leave him alone, if she can't take his attitude. I don't know how I would react to someone who's going through death's call. I would probably be crying too much to care for them.

  • Sojourner’s Truth

    Greg got you off the pole. Be greatful.

  • Sandra Fletcher

    I agree with you Li-Wright. My husband passed away from cancer 2 years ago. Yes they do change Chemo or Radiation is not a fun thing to go thur or see your love one going thur it.
    She needs to just go to another part of the house, and chill, and be very THANKFUL he is still here with her.

  • Mrs. Joyce

    In her defense my late husband was very very very evil, men, grouchy, down right ugly to me. I understand exactly where she is coming from. While he had Cancer two of my late aunts had Cancer at the same time one was very sweet the other very mean. Sickness hits everyone differently. All three of the, succumbed in 2014.

  • Patricia

    feeling sick makes a lot of people grouchy and out of sorts. you dont feel like yourself! i hate when my husband is sick. he acts like hes dying with a head cold and carries on with so much complaining, ungrateful, grouchy, depressed. plus, men are the biggest babies. she should know this.
    she should find other means of coping and relaxing herself, not talking trash about her spouse in front of the whole world.

  • Patricia

    he should have stayed with his first wife. these men are going to learn about chasing these younger women. they aint doing all this old folks stuff with you!
    i know one example of a family friend who was married to a man 20 yrs older. it was good while it was good when they were younger and the money and good times were rolling, but, when he became a senior and needed assistance and surgeries etc, she was just waiting for a way out. when he got a little down in the dumps following a leg surgery and refused to take his meds, thats when she tossed him in hospice and he was dead within a week. we were like why didnt you just make him take his darn medicine???, but, i looked in her eyes and KNEW shes been tired of his behind and glad he was gone! people have to be very careful about marriage partners.

  • Patricia

    my grandma always talked like that.

  • the guest

    Between man and wife, not my business. Some disagreements are private, some are private but in public. She’s venting and they will move past it. I wish them a better and happy weekend.

  • Melissa Rice

    I have a couple issues with this. So she blasted him then when ppl called her out on it "its none of your business, ask him etc" you put it out there NeNe. I don't think she wants to be married. He's older and becoming an inconvenience to her. She hasn't missed an event or skipped a beat. Why air it out on social media? My husband has a sickle cell beta thalassemia trait and he has flare ups a few times a year. He's in pain and can't do ANYTHING. It's what I signed up for through sickness and health

  • Malai

    God bless you love.. reading stuff like this make me wish I had enough money to donate...I would certainly do that to help you and send you on a trip.. you seriously deserve it.. I hope the universe repays you well for being such a loving, committed daughter ??

  • Shannypoo1976

    She was wrong for airing this out publicly. However, I have a spouse that is sick with HBP and diabetes. He takes a lot of medicine, and sometimes he can be so ugly to me for no reason at all. It's a situation where you kind of have to take it and then listen to them apologize later, BUT how many times can you throw a rock and hide your hands??? When someone has your back, you can't keep treating them that way. Because usually that person has to put their own health and well being on the back burner.

  • Candance

    Thank you :)

  • Candance

    Thank you so very much!!!!

  • Candance

    Thank you, the support means a lot even when it comes from places you lease expect (internet love) I really appreciate it !

  • Candance

    Thank you, I often need to be reminded that I need to heal too that was the most traumatic experience Ive been through and I wasn't even the one who got sick. Its hard at time and realizing the person you married will never be the person you married again :( that's a hard pill to swallow especially when you are only in your 30s