Ray Rice’s Wife and Columbus Short Respond to Rice’s Termination On Instagram

Ray Rice and Janay Palmer

Ray Rice's long-suffering wife Janay Palmer responded to his termination from the Baltimore Ravens in typical battered woman fashion -- by blaming others for his downfall.

Palmer, 26, posted a message on her private Instagram account on Monday, just hours after Rice's contract was terminated.

Palmer blamed the media and the concerned public for sensationalizing what her then-fiancee did to her in an elevator at Revel Casino in Atlantic City in February.

"To take something away from the man I love that he has worked his ass off for all his life just to gain ratings is horrific," Palmer wrote.

TMZ released video footage on Monday showing Ray Rice knocking out Palmer with one punch. He then callously dragged her out of the elevator and dropped her on the floor like a bag of trash.

"No one knows the pain that the media & unwanted [opinions] has caused my family," Palmer wrote. "To make us relive a moment in our lives that we regret every day is a horrible thing."

Meanwhile, world renowned wife beater Columbus Short also commented on NFL star Ray Rice's termination from the Baltimore Ravens on Instagram.com. And though Short's message was positive and uplifting, his followers dragged him unmercifully. Short lost his plum role on ABC's Scandal TV show starring Kerry Washington as a D.C. "fixer" who makes the president's problems go away.

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Thanks to @Worldwidewaddie for the Columbus Short tip.

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    • http://instagram.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

      she tired of y'all

    • luVn_liFe…

      Meanwhile, world renowned wife beater Columbus Short
      ~~~~~~~~~~
      :lol:

    • Chocolate

      :huh: sooo....... nvrmd :waves: morning roses

    • Kanyade

      Lord, be a mercy.

    • lovezoe

      I guffawed whwn I saw Columbus post :stop:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      and if he would have ended your life that day then what :shrugs: You know I don't usually care what folks do in their personal lives... but when I can see with my own eyes you getting knocked clean the fawk out and you think it's okay.... Fawk you, Fawk ya man ....you're both pieces of shyt :tea:

    • lovezoe

      She's a victim. Money ain't the sole reason she staying. She's a victim. There are chicks getting stomped in the projects. This lady called in Lonnie Hunter show and called her a gold digger. Smh.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOmOOG-eHMg VDot

      And though Short’s message was positive and uplifting, his followers dragged him unmercifully.

      _________________

      :rofl: No chill :fistbump: Folks out here :pray: people got short memories :nono:

    • OutsidetheBox

      Oh boy.. you know there is a funny thing about learning from you mistakes.. and appropriate punishments.

      Why ridicule Columbus. That's exactly what the fukk you learn in anger mgmnt and DV classes. I swear my peepah :facepalm:

    • essenze

      I'm going to hold my mule on Short's dumb azz. He needs to keep his mouth shut.

    • jennifer

      If she like i LOVE it smh #carryon

    • Hearts~n~Kisses

      Meanwhile, world renowned wife beater Columbus Short
      ~~~~~~~~~~

      :rofl:

    • Hearts~n~Kisses

      Meanwhile, world renowned wife beater Columbus Short
      ~~~~~~~~~~

      :rofl:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      He is a bytch nigga point blank ... and you my dear is a YAMP!!!! :tea: Chile I am done with this here shyt ..... cause guess what :tea: everybody can be replaced

    • essenze

      I believe that saying shyt on a media platform so soon after is not helping the situation. Its one thing to have to go through tough times but its another to have to go through it publicly. I always tell my cousin, give me the money but you can keep the fame

    • http://thegameonbetblog.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Columbus is trying to help his own case. He's been volunteering a lot lately as well.

      Mrs. Rice is going to try to use her post to stop her next beat down, but it ain't gone work.

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      What SHE doesn't understand is: a) MOST of the people going hard on this issue are going in on the ISSUE of domestic violence and not HER specific, basic, abused a$$ b) That if she likes getting her a$$ thrashed - we LOVE it.

      Where are the women in abused relationships who WANT "support"? Fukk a trick who wants to stand by the abuser.

    • OutsidetheBox

      :heart: I HATE HATE HATE your fukking gravi cotdamn I do :hahaha: :hide:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      These folks and ALL THIS MONEY and they can't even think to buy a good PR guy/gal... THIS is what they get :tea:

    • https://www.facebook.com/#!/video.php?v=815979665099262 User Friendly

      Columbus Short should be dragged just for using the word "unexceptable" instead of unacceptable.

      fool ass.

    • https://m.soundcloud.com/bernadette-giacomazzo/momma-dee-i-deserve?utm_source=soundcloud&utm_cam <—MisTaken: My shoulders too big to box with God. GET.INTO.IT :eek:

      Bifurcating :thinking: Let me say what WEBMD say this condition is :typing:

    • Chocolate

      he'll work again, fugg a black woman life to those green dollars, they just waiting on us to die down, like every other situation we march, protest, scream about, nothing new from us to them. :coffee: but for her to just chill like aint nothing happen and your lifeless body on that floor, hunny you need to be glad that those almight hands came by and waved over you, "WAKE UP MY DEAR" CAUSE HE COULD HAVE SAID :casket:

      SLEEP ON :smh:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      OutsidetheBox says:

      Oh boy.. you know there is a funny thing about learning from you mistakes.. and appropriate punishments.
      Why ridicule Columbus. That’s exactly what the fukk you learn in anger mgmnt and DV classes. I swear my peepah :facepalm:

      .................

      EXACTLY!!! That's like somebody telling me I can't talk to girls about not being teen moms because I was one. You learn from experience.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Where are the women in abused relationships who WANT “support”? Fukk a trick who wants to stand by the abuser.

      :yes: :tea:
      =============
      ION have time to talk to this chick or Keke down the street, BECAUSE THEY WON'T HEAR ME :no:

      But I will say keep it behind closed doors. LOSERS!

    • Locapoca

      Carrington says:
      What SHE doesn’t understand is: a) MOST of the people going hard on this issue are going in on the ISSUE of domestic violence and not HER specific, basic, abused a$$ b) That if she likes getting her a$$ thrashed – we LOVE it.

      Where are the women in abused relationships who WANT “support”? Fukk a trick who wants to stand by the abuser.
      ^^^^^^^
      :applause: There are ALOT of resources out there for women (and men) who are being abused. But somehow all of those resources go to the Boonquishas and Delanishas of the world who keep going back to their baby daddys and boyfriends after they repeatedly stomp a Mississippi mud hole in their azz. Im over it. If you want to defend your abuser while the world is trying to defend you so be it.

    • OutsidetheBox

      but for her to just chill like aint nothing happen and your lifeless body on that floor, hunny you need to be glad that those almight hands came by and waved over you, “WAKE UP MY DEAR” CAUSE HE COULD HAVE SAID :casket:

      SLEEP ON :smh:
      _____________

      Like, :shrug: she should have been dead. My folks facing a murder charge today, this minute, for a lighter punch issued to another man.

    • https://www.facebook.com/#!/video.php?v=815979665099262 User Friendly

      I know Rihanna is somewhere like :kona:

    • OutsidetheBox

      :hahaha: :tape:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      So she said the media is doing this for ratings!? Miss really?! No. This did not make me turn on t m z, ESPN, or any football game. People are disgusted and angry at YOUR husband and the NFL for his beating YOU and knocking you out. Smh.

    • Wasting time

      Columbus Short should be dragged just for using the word “unexceptable” instead of unacceptable.

      ----------------------------
      :fistbump: I stopped reading right there!
      The way my brain is set up . . .

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      Harrison should just hush....messed up that goodT job all because he won't even do half-way right.

    • Honycoatd

      Good Morning Beautiful People :hug:

    • https://www.facebook.com/#!/video.php?v=815979665099262 User Friendly

      I stopped reading right there!
      The way my brain is set up . . .
      _________________________

      posting up like he stomping with the big dawgs like Carrington. tuh! he needs his ass bifurcated! :cuss:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOmOOG-eHMg VDot

      My folks facing a murder charge today, this minute, for a lighter punch issued to another man.

      _________________

      I remember this story :(

    • Locapoca

      @ Nakeya- Delusional at it's finest. The NFL is not hurting for "Fight Night with Rice" Im sure the ratings did JUST fine Sunday for kick off and that was before the video of your TKO was released :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Good Morning Honycoatd :2dance:

    • https://m.soundcloud.com/bernadette-giacomazzo/momma-dee-i-deserve?utm_source=soundcloud&utm_cam <—MisTaken: My shoulders too big to box with God. GET.INTO.IT :eek:

      Well :tea: Columbus has the right to express himself. Hopefully he is moving in the right direction. I didn’t see his post. My minimize game in on a zillion taday. Janay has been with that man since high school? I think. Sadly even if there wasn’t any of the domestic violence she seems like she would still stay because she operates with the mindset I was here first and I am not going to let anybody else have my spot. I say that because she seems broken and lost as if all she knows is him. And that might be all she knows. Right now she doesn’t have the strength to leave. She might not ever have it. I know she has things to work on also but I don’t see them like Stevie and Jose. Both doing drugs and beating on one another. I think she might try to buck and fight back occasionally… but I am willing to bet 9/10 he always has the upper hand and controls everything.
      BUT what I do know is that the ONLY way they can ever make it would be if he changes. He wants to do better. I have to think that it is possible because if I didn’t then to me that is not believing that God can save and heal all things…… but I ain’t wasting my faith on Ray :no: I got other people to pray fo :kona:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      I want to call her a simple bish so bad, but I can't. She is a victim. And I hear y'all, its not easy to just walk away. But shyt, she mad at everyone else, but miss, we are mad because you could of lost your life! For nothing!!! You deserve better!!!! We value you, even if right now you can't.

    • Honycoatd

      On topic: People accept the love they believe they deserve!!!

      When she believe she deserves better... I hope she has a chance to leave.

    • GellySammich

      I understand those that's been through telling their story... but nigga you 2 weeks off a fresh beating yourself. You got to have some time in your sobriety before you can lead group therapy. Otherwise your sweaty ass sitting there jonesing like the rest of us.... or at least that's how it's perceived. :shrug: but ionno

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      33 :rofl:

    • OutsidetheBox

      EXACTLY!!! That’s like somebody telling me I can’t talk to girls about not being teen moms because I was one. You learn from experience.
      ______________

      :shrug: I'm so puzzled.

    • SOTHERNGRL

      I saw this last night on twitter. Of all the people that could TRY

    • SOTHERNGRL

      cont'd. to defend this fool Mr. Short you aint it. I dont know why my comment did this. :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      I truly feel bad for her... :yes:

      She doesn't see it yet :no:

    • https://www.facebook.com/#!/video.php?v=815979665099262 User Friendly

      got the club going up on a Tuesday :whistle:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      :shocked: Look at what the cat dragged in. Hey Hony :waves:

      How've you been?

    • Chocolate

      OutsidetheBox says:

      but for her to just chill like aint nothing happen and your lifeless body on that floor, hunny you need to be glad that those almight hands came by and waved over you, “WAKE UP MY DEAR” CAUSE HE COULD HAVE SAID

      SLEEP ON
      _____________

      Like, she should have been dead. My folks facing a murder charge today, this minute, for a lighter punch issued to another man.

      ___________________________________________________

      no I was saying she need to be thankful that he did'nt kill her, she doing the "save face" women i tell ya, I dont wish death on abused women :no:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOmOOG-eHMg VDot

      What I’m real curious to know is what the league is gonna do when the next case presents itself ’cause like i said, HE AINT THE ONLY ONE in the league with this problem. :tea:

      _____________________

      :cosign: He is NOT the only one. :no:

      Although they did blackball Chad Johnson's azz. Nigga sitting in Florida talking to dolphins on the regular and taking selfies. :lol:

    • essenze

      Lawd lol

    • Honycoatd

      Sometimes the best people to tell the stories are the ones that has been there and done that.

      We all will answer for what we do... I believe in forgiveness. It is up to her to decide.

      I would not want to be in a violent relationship. I know myself worth and what I deserve... certain things I do not compromise on.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Mrs. Rice turn this ish into Lemonade yo! :cheer:

      You may be have the bread winner now :eek: Too soon oh :kona:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOmOOG-eHMg VDot

      You got to have some time in your sobriety before you can lead group therapy.
      _________________

      :yes: You can sit in the audience with your hangover, but at least sober up before trying to lead.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      VDot says:

      Nan – Come up stairs. Bring your comment with you

      ___________________________

      yes ma'am.... :oops:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      And what drug is Columbus Short on now? :rofl: :rofl:

    • https://www.facebook.com/#!/video.php?v=815979665099262 User Friendly

      You got to have some time in your sobriety before you can lead group therapy.
      ___________________

      right! dude aint even earned his first keychain yet tryna talk cash shyt. awww shuddup, Colombo :rolleyes:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      Oh boy.. you know there is a funny thing about learning from you mistakes.. and appropriate punishments.
      Why ridicule Columbus. That’s exactly what the fukk you learn in anger mgmnt and DV classes. I swear my peepah
      *****************
      @OTB all of what you say is true. But I dont think people wanna hear chit out of Columbus mouff right now. There hasnt been enough time passed. You need to wait at least 2 months. Then maybe just maybe folks MAY want to hear words coming out your piehole but right now its too soon. Chit he aint even out of his own trouble yet.

    • essenze

      Off topic:

      Anybody watch LHHATL or ex wives of Atl last night? Steebie seem like he might be a battered husband.....

    • San ah make ya dance

      and if he would have ended your life that day then what :shrugs: You know I don’t usually care what folks do in their personal lives… but when I can see with my own eyes you getting knocked clean the fawk out and you think it’s okay…. Fawk you, Fawk ya man ….you’re both pieces of shyt :tea:
      ------------
      :hahaha:

    • deedeegirl

      A wife beater condemning the acts of another wife beater? That's irony. Rice and his battered wife may truly be screwed. The NFL does not owe him any more money. If he did not save and invest what he has already made, he may have woken up broke this morning. Sad. I don't think he should be suspended forever. He did something terrible but maybe he can turn the situation around and improve himself. If they let Vick back in......

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      *talking with food in mouth* SHoulda left her downstairs :kona:

    • Honycoatd

      My forever teacher... How are you principal? And our brain surgeon...?

      Hi butter chocolate cup... how are you and little butter ball?

    • Blanche Devereaux

      Question yall? Would call feel the same way if he was caught on camera abusing her verbally/emotionally?

    • Locapoca

      D Dot Says

      He is NOT the only one.

      Although they did blackball Chad Johnson’s azz. Nigga sitting in Florida talking to dolphins on the regular and taking selfies.
      ^^^^^
      :dead: This is so true though! However Chad was a fame whore and it seemed like he became more focused on being on Basketball wives with Evelyn and their new show they had together. I think he got addicted to the fame and it all went down hill from there. Meanwhile, Evelyn is laid up with her rich baseball player and their new baby like :happy:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      from downstairs:

      Carrington says:
      Even if they initially made an attempt to give him the benefit of the doubt and cover for him with the hope that this tape would never get out – the fact that it did created an entirely different set of public relations issues for the team and the league and at that point, Ray Rice became more trouble than he was worth.

      __________________________________

      :cosign:

      You cant convince me that Goddell didnt KNOW the full extent of Rice’s on-tape actions. However, i do believe that he had not SEEN the full tape because league counsel made sure he hadn’t SEEN it so that he could always SAY (even under oath) that he’d never SEEN it.

      I pray Janay finds the strength to do what’s best for her, and maybe, just maybe, this is a real arse wake-up call for Ray, and he’ll finally get some real help. What I’m real curious to know is what the league is gonna do when the next case presents itself ’cause like i said, HE AINT THE ONLY ONE in the league with this problem. :tea:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      Bye taken and dtts!! Taken for saying she can't waste her faith on Ray and taken for saying old girl gonna have a charlie brown lemonade stand to pay the bills.

      @taken I have told people I have zero spare prayers for them. My momma said I'm hateful.

    • Just Looking

      Thought she was going to saying I felt like I got knocked out all over again.

      :kona:

    • Wasting time

      Nigga sitting in Florida talking to dolphins on the regular and taking selfies.
      ---------------------------
      :rofl:
      I follow his dumb azz too!
      He for real into them dolphins though :hahaha:

    • Honycoatd

      You guys spare no wrath.

    • OutsidetheBox

      no I was saying she need to be thankful that he did’nt kill her, she doing the “save face” women i tell ya, I dont wish death on abused women :no:
      ______

      I am not wishing death on her. Statistically she should have been dead. Full stop. :smack: A blow to the head like that. That's what I meant and all I meant.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      <---will not lose an ounce of sleep of this soon-to-be former millionaire :no: Nope, not the way my brain's set up...

      THIS is all about money, and IMB no one Employee should have the power to bring a company down. So get rid of him :shrug:
      They should have given him more time off, OR just bought the damn tape. :no:

    • https://m.soundcloud.com/bernadette-giacomazzo/momma-dee-i-deserve?utm_source=soundcloud&utm_cam <—MisTaken: My shoulders too big to box with God. GET.INTO.IT :eek:

      I personally :eek: Me speaking for myself :huh: Like to get advice or input from people who have actually faced obstacles or been through something. People that act all rosy and like they have never had a problem scare me. You not of God :evil: Now that doesn’t mean walk around with your butt on yo shoulders swing at air like Cuba Gooding. But I mean act like you are perfect or cannot relate to anything that someone is going through. Always saying you blessed and highly favored as an answer to everything. HOE STAWP IT.
      I don’t ask for martial advice hardly ever but if I receive it or do inquire I ask someone who has been in it longer that me because 9/10 they have experienced something that I haven’t. I even listen to divorced people because they can tell me what not to do :lol: Shoot my mama be knowing! For all the :rolleyes: people give Steve Harvey I can and will say on some things he is right when it comes to telling you about a man. If a man respects and loves you then he does treat you a certain way. As a “reformed” dog he can speak on THAT one lil point.

    • Who Dat

      My last comment downstairs was dont save huh she not ready to be saved. Not that she cant be. She doesnt want to be YET. God bless her. Hopefully she will change her mind before its too late. My uncle (my dad youngest brother) been beating his wife AYS my whole entire life. I aint talking like they get into it :mad: + :mad: No. He has a bad day at work, go home and wear her azz out. :whip: She can leave today if she want to. My last cousin left home 15 years ago. My sister was like auntie get in this car and lets go back to NC, the last time we was down there. She all like who gonna cook for your uncle? :shrug: Heffa let his azz choke on his spit tonight. And HE my BLOOD.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      They didnt blackball Andre Rison after he beat up Left Eye...

    • Honycoatd

      These behaviours are not sudden actions... They are learnt behaviours that have manifested to the stages they are at now.

      These things come from childhood... probably in the womb for some.

      We all are not built the same or with the same materials. Be thankful for what you have and the lessons you have learnt. Its either harder or easiier for the next.

    • Locapoca

      :newpost:

    • GellySammich

      Sooooo fighting dogs and knocking a woman out (with no sign of remorse at that) are similar to you? :thinking: You white?

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOmOOG-eHMg VDot

      He for real into them dolphins though :hahaha:

      _________________________

      I think it's really orcas, but nigga is serious about that sea life. Daily trips looking :eek: :rofl:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      :offtopic: because I can't anymore... So I needed some. furniture moved to make room for the crib and all that. I asked my brother and my cousin to come do it. My cousin asked to be paid. Now mind you, I watched his crying ass kids for free and do all other types of shyt for him. And if I could move it myself I would. Y'all think I'm petty for not wanting to pay him? And mean for saying he ain't shyt?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

      She :mad: she done went on a lied for this man and he still lost his job and millions

    • OutsidetheBox

      @OTB all of what you say is true. But I dont think people wanna hear chit out of Columbus mouff right now. There hasnt been enough time passed. You need to wait at least 2 months. Then maybe just maybe folks MAY want to hear words coming out your piehole but right now its too soon. Chit he aint even out of his own trouble yet.
      ________

      :shrug: I disagree. For me its never too soon or too late.

    • Just Looking

      Someone in the "front office: of the NFL saw this tape. if the power that be said look we don't want to know.

      The NFL IS A BILLION Dollar company that operates behind the scenes. They go into action when they need to.

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      . So make an example out of him while putting her further in danger? That is a good idea?
      -----------
      Yeah I was thinking that but.....

    • https://www.facebook.com/#!/video.php?v=815979665099262 User Friendly

      I asked my brother and my cousin to come do it
      ___________________________

      You know what everybody's first question is, right?

    • Honycoatd

      You should pay him Nakeya.

      Just because when you did it for him and you didnt ask for pay, doesnt mean he can't ask for payment.

      Now you know dont ask him to do crap.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Blanche Devereaux says:

      Question yall? Would call feel the same way if he was caught on camera abusing her verbally/emotionally?

      :hug: Hey! I can't stand that or the physical abuse :nono:

      This jackass is a loser and folks CHOOSE (for whatever reasons) to stick around....

      EYE got a WHOLE nother take on the NFL, NBA, MLB, and how they keep us controlled but this ain't the time :lol:
      =======
      Honycoatd, All is well! :D
      ---
      Nakeya, I was moreso thinking that she could become a spokeperson etc, but :no: not until she can see what she's looking at :shrug:

    • https://www.facebook.com/#!/video.php?v=815979665099262 User Friendly

      but no, I wouldnt pay them nig nogs a dam thing even if I hadnt babysat. thats exactly what family is for. I would make them a plate to eat and fix them a big glass of good juice with ice in it and tell them thank you.

      thats all tho, I wouldnt pay family to BE family. fugg outta here.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      Question yall? Would call feel the same way if he was caught on camera abusing her verbally/emotionally?
      ================
      :yes: I don't do well with any type of abuse. When people start raising their voices or talking crazy, I immediately shut down. *Insert blank stare here*

    • OutsidetheBox

      Pay family to move furniture? :confused:

      My neighbor down the street eight houses and farms over will move that chit for free. :shrug: I guess these the same kind of ppl who don't save those who don't wanna be saved tho. :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      :warning: MsTake!

      I JUST finished sewing up your 3 size XXXL souvenir t-shirts.

      I made em into one shirt, so it should fit now :D

      You gone be sharB :grill:
      #you'rewelcomeitonlytook11hours :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      @Hony, we're well. I bet your little ones are growing like weeds.

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      @user I was thinking that but I guess I was wrong. My brother did not ask for anything though. Smh.

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      Blanche Devereaux says:

      Question yall? Would call feel the same way if he was caught on camera abusing her verbally/emotionally?
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      I have to be honest and say, "no".... not that one is better than the other, but I would feel like it's "easier", at least I'd like to THINK that it's easier, to pull yourself up and walk away from someone SPEAKING to you disrespectfully than it is to walk away from someone beating you into submission.

      Maybe my thought process is based upon the fact that I don't deal with disrespect well. The way you approach me makes all the difference in the world. I've been told that I "scare" people when I get angry, but until someone video tapes me, I'll take it that they're "overreacting" to my stern, in no uncertain terms.

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      and you should make them read Aint I a Woman by Sojourner Truth too or at least explain the jist of it to them. treat a woman like a woman. I think a lot of times ppl forget that a "strong black woman" is a woman. you are 8 months pregnant, they should be falling over to ask you if you need help. you shouldnt even have to ask.

      I go crazy if my daughter has to ask my son for something. as soon as he get something he is SUPPOSED to ask her if she wants or needs any too.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOmOOG-eHMg VDot

      I wouldnt pay family to BE family. fugg outta here.

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      :no: I lived in another city and have cousins come up to help me move before. Didn't ask for a thang. Just made sure food and beer was around :yes:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      @OTB that's how I feel. Your family. I see y'all damn near daily. Pay you to do what!? Sigh.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOmOOG-eHMg VDot

      but until someone video tapes me

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      I got a mean camera phone :yes:

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      @user you are so right. Clearly I can not do it. So I'm asking for help. Smh. Its a trip. But I guess now I knowwho not to ask . Its a shame.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Nakeya, get a couple of your girls AND SOME SHEETS! :oldman:

      You can move furniture around if you catch the sheets up on the edges(kinda get it under a little), and then just pull the sheets.

      I've moved alot of ish around :eek:

    • PERFECTO

      This takes folks away from the MIKE BROWN situation!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      :offtopic: because I can’t anymore… So I needed some. furniture moved to make room for the crib and all that. I asked my brother and my cousin to come do it. My cousin asked to be paid. Now mind you, I watched his crying ass kids for free and do all other types of shyt for him. And if I could move it myself I would. Y’all think I’m petty for not wanting to pay him? And mean for saying he ain’t shyt?
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      :no: That's what family does. I'm sure he comes to your house, fix a plate, and chill on the couch when he gets ready. I make mental notes of things like this. As Mama Butter would say, "Okay, I gotcho number." The next time he needs a sitter, I would need some greenbacks.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      If you want to defend your abuser while the world is trying to defend you so be it.
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      but maybe she's doing exactly that because "the world" don't have to go home to/with him :no: as someone (Sassy?) said previously on another topic, it may be "learned behavior" :shrug: I don't know how long these two have been together, but over time an abuser not only becomes more physically aggressive, but also (and is some cases, firstly) begins to psychologically tear down their victim. maybe he's convinced her that it's her fault that he's in this predicament :shrug: if so, she, in true victim mode, has to find a way to pass the blame, and let's face it, she's not gonna blame him, so who does she blame? "yall" interfered ... "yall" got him in trouble... "yall" ruining OUR life... it's sad, but right now, maybe she sees that as her only option.

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      @butter the next time he needs anything that's not an emergency the answer is no. Period.

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      @ddts my soon to be husband said he is gonna do it. But while he was at work I figured let me get the ball rolling and be productive. Smdh. And it was only one thing. Ugh

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      as soon as he get something he is SUPPOSED to ask her if she wants or needs any too.
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      :love: You're teaching him to be such a gentleman.

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      ok then I'll ask, why Juliana's deddy cant do it? :waiting:

      dont make me have to ride out to Philly and curse some ppl out. :steer: Im in the mood for cheesesteak too.

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      Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

      @ddts my soon to be husband said he is gonna do it. But while he was at work I figured let me get the ball rolling and be productive. Smdh. And it was only one thing. Ugh
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      oh ok. I was about to say!

      they bet not be messing with the blog baby like that. shooot, we riled up today anyway. :rules:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      He asked for pay to move one thing? Boy bye!!!!

    • Just Looking

      Abusers don't start out that way. They are extremely nice "typically" they go in hard.

      In this case....

      They treat you well in the beginning (in your fugged up mind, you focus on the good and say I can love them through this)

      In this case....
      Separated from immediate family
      Paid her way through college
      Bought her nice whip, clothes, jewelry, trips...
      They had a baby before they were married (then your survival mode kicks in) one thinks they need to stay for baby.....

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      @user he has been putting everything together. My soon to be is very helpful. But I just don't like waiting for shyt all the time. And he does a lot so I was trying to help.

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      You’re teaching him to be such a gentleman.
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      trying to but he's not really into it :rofl:

      one time he had an entemann's cake. yes, a whole cake and didnt want to give her any. I took the whole shyt and threw it out the window. :tea:

      I kept hearing her say, "can I have piece?". went to see what was going on and went HAM. I lost it. you dont have your family out here begging from no dam body. dont even teach her to get comfortable with begging. chile, dont get me started. I was hot tho. :phew:

      we supposed to be a team.

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      Buttercup says:

      He asked for pay to move one thing? Boy bye!!!!
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      :rofl: like he a crackhead. Keya is your cousin smoking that stuff? :snort:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      They didnt blackball Andre Rison after he beat up Left Eye…
      ((((((((((((((((((
      @Blanche she set the man MANSION on fire; but :stop: Hole up did she burn the house down before or after the azz beating because if she burned it down after then I understand. :tea:

    • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

      He done knocked the hell outta her so much she can't think straight! Lawd these youngens will learn one day! Now what will he do? When the money dries up cause he can't find NO job and black-balled from every damn thing, he gon get real mad then! She betta run for cover po baby! Couldn't be me! Smh! :tea: