Omar Slim White

After the break, friend of the blog Omar “slim” White gives his unique perspective on friendship.

Ask yourself this, would the person you call your friend betray you for 1 billion dollars?

Many of us will label people as friends because we make money with them. Or because we laugh with them. Or because we party with them. These people should only be labeled as acquaintances, which are those who only served a particular purpose in your life.

The word friend should only be applied to those who view you as they view themselves. Meaning if you're "down" then they're "down". If you're "up" then they're "up". Anything done for you on their behalf is based solely on the love shared within that connection.

Always remember it has nothing to do with ulterior motives, so if your friend makes a kind gesture of any sort then it is never based on deception.

This type of bonding with another spiritual being is powerful.

As you begin to establish a connection with that person you may notice both of y'all "coincidentally" walking out the house with the same colored clothing. Or even calling each other at the same time. If someone is talking bad about you then your friend will get defensive as if they're the one being talked about.

Your friend can also sense when something is troubling you.

My brothers and sisters, these signs and many more provide the possibilities of when this type of bond is shared.

Friendship is a deep connection you share with that person which is different then romanticism.

Many people misconstrue the two because, technically, once you have sex with your friend then actually you're married. What we call marriage is just a simplified way of explaining that deeper bond shared with another person.

If you have someone in your life that fits this criteria of what a friend truly represents, then tag them and let them know you recognize their value.

Matthew 7:15-20: Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them.

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    • whitty hutton

      this..."once you have sex with your friend then actually you’re married." :huh:

    • KDub

      As you begin to establish a connection with that person you may notice both of y’all “coincidentally” walking out the house with the same colored clothing. Or even calling each other at the same time. If someone is talking bad about you then your friend will get defensive as if they’re the one being talked about.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Where is @Aroff? :2dance:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Many people misconstrue the two because, technically, once you have sex with your friend then actually you’re married.
      _____________________

      wait, what? so where all my rangs at :waiting:

      me and Claudia need answers! :rules:

    • *Kah* Namaste! Peace! Blessing! One Love!

      :sigh:

    • luVn_liFe…

      lawd . .

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      This is groundbreaking- riveting even :)

    • KDub

      once you have sex with your friend then actually you’re married.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Once you tangle vortexes yall MARRIED? I mean... *trails off*

      :wail: I dont want to be married.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      :)
      (San smile)

    • SummerBaby

      Friendship is a deep connection you share with that person which is different then romanticism
      ----------------------
      :yes:

    • Candy Cane

      :rolleyes: He so thought provoking! So deep and intellectual :rolleyes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      We goin to hail :eek:
      Errbody is Ah Poligamist then :bounce: <---polar vortexing on different ducks :kona:

    • Time to Waste

      So it is time to ween 'em out, I see :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      wait, what? so where all my rangs at :waiting:
      ==========
      Does it only count if I reach the big O? What if we used a barrier? Real questions that need real answers.

    • Time to Waste

      me and Claudia need answers! :rules:
      ------------
      :ghost:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      The word friend should only be applied to those who view you as they view themselves. Meaning if you’re “down” then they’re “down”. If you’re “up” then they’re “up”. Anything done for you on their behalf is based solely on the love shared within that connection.
      _____________________

      :clap: I agree. for instance, my friend would have told me to get a bigger shirt. :)

    • SummerBaby

      Ask yourself this, would the person you call your friend betray you for 1 billion dollars?
      ---------------------
      I got family that would probably betray me for a 1 billion dollars :shrug:

    • Candy Cane

      He does rather have a point. I do believe you intertwine souls with whoever you lay with. U always carry that person with you rather you know it or nah. But I don't want to hear this coming from him. Let Iyanla or Oprah tell it to me.

    • KiMi0414

      :clap: I agree. for instance, my friend would have told me to get a bigger shirt. :)
      _________________________________

      :ghost:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      He does rather have a point. I do believe you intertwine souls with whoever you lay with. U always carry that person with you rather you know it or nah.
      ==========
      :cosign: The idea of soul-ties, acquaintances, kindred spirits, etc. is nothing new.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      I got family that would probably betray me for a 1 billion dollars :shrug:

      ---
      For a billion dollars who need friends???

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      U always carry that person with you rather you know it or nah.
      ____________________

      even if you don't remember their name? :think:

      a little vinegar will clear them right on out :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      DUBB
      Whet is THEE OH Cajun for that meal?? :pizza:
      I have a serving of tkywangs/butterbeans in the freezer nahhh.
      Shyte I can only cook that on the weekend.
      ION got a crock pot :-|

    • SummerBaby

      He does rather have a point. I do believe you intertwine souls with whoever you lay with. U always carry that person with you rather you know it or nah.
      ------------------------
      :cosign:

    • Candy Cane

      Shyt I got family I'd betray for a billion dollars. Who gon check me?

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      I aint gonna read all that...somebody give me a short version of Slim the love doctor documentary please :kona:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      I got family that would probably betray me for a 1 billion dollars :shrug:
      ___________________

      for a billion dollars they had better. we can make up later and split the proceeds.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :lol:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Im expected to be betrayed for a billion dollars are u kidding me???

    • Candy Cane

      UF
      Subconciously (sp) we do. It may be why you still have dreams about folks you fawked years ago. That's why sex was intended for married people. But aint nobody got time for that.

    • luVn_liFe…

      this iz tew "fill a sofa kill" 4 me :kona:
      BBL

    • FuturedocDonte

      once you have sex with your friend then actually you’re married.
      -------
      :huh: sooooo he was married to vivica or nah? :shrug:

    • inter_loop

      He makes sense.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I looked into "cutting" soul-ties. Then I read that you have to get rid of all the stuff that the person has ever given to you :huh: Nah, I'm good.

    • FuturedocDonte

      I'm going back in the trenches on this one :kona:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      a little vinegar will clear them right on out :tea:

      by User Friendly on Jan 21, 2015 at 10:29 am
      _____

      :rofl:

      I haven't even read this post. His posts are always super long. But from what I see they do say in the book that once you lay with a person you are married. Sooooooo ion. :rofl:

    • stevetheque

      This cornball and his relationship advice!!

    • KDub

      No occasion. We greedy. :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      He makes sense.
      ==========
      :crying1: I'm not sure why I found this SEW funny.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I looked into “cutting” soul-ties. Then I read that you have to get rid of all the stuff that the person has ever given to you :huh: Nah, I’m good.

      by Buttercup on Jan 21, 2015 at 10:34 am
      ____

      But Butter how can you give back soul intertwinage? How??????

    • whitty hutton

      User Friendly says:

      U always carry that person with you rather you know it or nah.
      ____________________

      even if you don’t remember their name? :think:

      a little vinegar will clear them right on out :tea:

      ...................

      so true! :ashamed:

    • Time to Waste

      :rofl:

      I cannot :wail:

      32

    • SummerBaby

      I looked into “cutting” soul-ties. Then I read that you have to get rid of all the stuff that the person has ever given to you :huh: Nah, I’m good.
      ---------------------
      I never knew you had to get rid of the stuff. It kinda makes sense. I hate to wear any clothing & even jewelry an Ex bought for me once it's over. My friends said I was crazy so every once in awhile I force myself to pull out a piece but I still hate it :shrug:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      But Butter how can you give back soul intertwinage? How??????
      _________________________

      alum. they sell it in the ethnic section at CVS :kona:

    • http://youtu.be/Ov5oWPXPwKI Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      Morning y'all. *yawn* I'm beat. This kid wanted to be up at 3am holding baby conversation. Anyway,let me read what oh so deep had to say.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      A friend would have wrang out them wigs that was on the back of your bathroom door with a purified shower head too but they didn't and you and Viv broke up cause of it :shrugs: folks petty

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      LHHNY:
      Not sure if I talked about this or not yesterday cause I was in and out but I had to log into my pc for this one :wtf: is Chrissy trying to trap a married nig with a family into a baby with her obese for a pin up back UP stand in BURLESQUE (shout out again to my old Soror Priyanka) model for Marilyn Monroe ..screw that Norma Rae byke in 1947 body but still want to wear cat suits face thinking?????????? You really went off birth control for that??? And he said he might not NEVER get a divorce?? FIRST OF ALL let’s be honest. You prolly need to be off birth control for about 6-8 months just to let them egg uncongeal in order for them to start moving. You thought you was about to make a baby in 3 weeks??? :ha:
      And you can slowly see Mendeces starting to show the old him with Yandy. First he was like FOH here with you art naked pictures and now he calling her friend a lame on the low… :rofl: He is ready to call and Yand a bird …
      Who else.. Oh Cyn ad Rich… Funny everybody stay dissing him but they end up working with him :tea: Oh and I followed Cyn on IG. On accident. Nicki Minaj posted a video on her. She (Cyn) is obsessed with Nicki. Like makes daily videos of herself rapping to Nicki :no: and she stans for Bey….. But she had a boob reduction recently. Looks good. But clearly she is an actress and wanna be singer. She played Mena

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      Let all ye who gives a $hit what "Slimm" thinks every two weeks, say I...

      Silence has it. Say one, say we all... So, it is written in the matter of, "No funks given with regard to Omar's weekly advice when we're here for the mess.

      *insert gavel bang riiiight HERE --->

    • Candy Cane

      :offtopic:

      Does anybody in here watch RHOBH. I want Brandy to get put off the show. She cant shake her bitter trailer trash mid western behavior. How do you throw a drink on ASHLEY FUAWKING ABBOUTT? The lady is a freaking legend. How do you sit with Babyface and tell him his wife needs a bigger ring. How do you sit around Babyface and talk about finger banging.:wtf: She has no chill and she's bringing down the value of that show. Asking Lisa ON CAMERA, do you want me to eat your pucci? :facepalm: So people will do anything for a check.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      User Friendly says:

      But Butter how can you give back soul intertwinage? How??????
      _________________________
      alum. they sell it in the ethnic section at CVS :kona:
      January 21, 2015 at 10:39 am
      ______

      So now I'm wondering if I give back all my soul intertwinage will I become a virgin again???

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      But Butter how can you give back soul intertwinage? How??????
      ============
      I few sources that I read said that you're supposed to meditate and envision strings that attaches you to your former lover being cut away. I was like, "Cool, I can handle that. Let me read step 2." Then they started talking crazy. :lol:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Does anybody in here watch RHOBH
      _____

      What's this?

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Like makes daily videos of herself
      ___________________

      ppl who make videos of themselves posing. :wtf: what in the entire fugg is this about?

      so creepy.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRsEXGXLlYM&feature=fvsr ALBoy

      :tea:

    • http://youtu.be/Ov5oWPXPwKI Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      "Friends! How many of us have them. Friends! Ones you can depend on. Friends!"

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      I used to like Brandy, but I think she's really ignorant and out of control now.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I hate to wear any clothing & even jewelry an Ex bought for me once it’s over.
      ===========
      I'm happy that you're not as morally corrupt as I. I still put on jewelry and smile when I look at my account balance. It's a wonder that I held on to the money for this long, but I guess my days haven't gotten rainy enough yet.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Buttercup says:

      He makes sense.
      ==========
      :crying1: I’m not sure why I found this SEW funny.
      _______________________________

      I do, but I don't mess with friends of the blog.....especially friends that make thesis specifically for the blog...Im a good Rose :lock:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      alum. they sell it in the ethnic section at CVS :kona:
      ==========
      :casket:

    • Locapoca

      KiMi0414 says:

      I agree. for instance, my friend would have told me to get a bigger shirt
      ^^^^^^
      :rofl: I am going to hush. Last time we lit "friend of the blog" pictures up, Auntie came back like a thief in the night and changed ALL the pics me and the Roses were like :blink: & :kona:

    • SummerBaby

      I hate to wear any clothing & even jewelry an Ex bought for me once it’s over.
      ===========
      I’m happy that you’re not as morally corrupt as I. I still put on jewelry and smile when I look at my account balance. It’s a wonder that I held on to the money for this long, but I guess my days haven’t gotten rainy enough yet.
      --------------------
      I think it's more of a mental thing that I don't want to run into one of them & they see me wearing it & think that I haven't gotten anything newer :think:

    • Candy Cane

      Taken,
      Crissy got a hustle hard face. (shout out to the original Sassy) And her dude look like a broke down Ja Rule by the face. You can tell the way he talks to her she be getting Iked the fawk up by him. Dude beats her, then :hump: her and then goes back to his wife.

      Mendisease's mannerisms are so girly to me. I don't think he's in love with Yandy like she thinks he is. She seems like the man in the relationship to me. Im not so sure they will even make it to the alter.

      I'm a Rich Dollars fan. Sue me. I think he has good intentions for the most part. Erica Mena ole sexy self, but she needs some chill sometimes. That vein in her forehead be looking like its finna explode.

      Peter is pure entertainment to me. I love douche bags... :rofl:

    • Time to Waste

      “Cool, I can handle that. Let me read step 2.” Then they started talking crazy. :lol:
      --------------------
      This tickled me!
      You battin a 1000 on Today!

    • http://youtu.be/Ov5oWPXPwKI Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      @Carrington!!!! What's up with Mr.Joey!?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      Does anybody in here watch RHOBH.
      ===========
      I watched a marathon this weekend when I decided to be lazy. I have no words for Brandy.

    • whitty hutton

      @ Candy Cane

      i watch on and off, but i saw some of the episode(s) you're talmbout. u said it right...brandy is trailer trash. heck, some might say she even gives trailer trash a bad name. she does stupid sh!t to get a response then plays the victim role when folks call her on it. i wish Ashley/Eileen woulda bashed the empty glass in her face...the unmitigated gall i tell ya.

      Ken (Lisa's husband) wants nothing to do with her anymore. she only wants back "in" with them so she can set them up some kinda way, and he knows it. she ain't sad for a second that the friendship with lisa/ken is over.

    • sassyshe

      Many people misconstrue the two because, technically, once you have sex with your friend then actually you’re married
      -------------------------------------------------------------
      :think: guess I have been married a few times

    • Candy Cane

      Hair,
      Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

      Carrington,
      Brandy needs meds and AA. She low key an alky...

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      LHHNY:
      Not sure if I talked about this or not yesterday cause I was in and out but I had to log into my pc for this one :wtf: is Chrissy trying to trap a married nig with a family into a baby with her obese for a pin up back UP stand in BURLESQUE (shout out again to my old Soror Priyanka) model for Marilyn Monroe ..screw that Norma Rae byke in 1947 body but still want to wear cat suits face thinking?????????? You really went off birth control for that??? And he said he might not NEVER get a divorce?? FIRST OF ALL let’s be honest. You prolly need to be off birth control for about 6-8 months just to let them egg uncongeal in order for them to start moving. You thought you was about to make a baby in 3 weeks??? :ha:
      And you can slowly see Mendeces starting to show the old him with Yandy. First he was like FOH here with you art naked pictures and now he calling her friend a lame on the low… :rofl: He is ready to call and Yand a bird …
      Who else.. Oh Cyn ad Rich… Funny everybody stay dissing him but they end up working with him :tea: Oh and I followed Cyn on IG. On accident. Nicki Minaj posted a video on her. She (Cyn) is obsessed with Nicki. Like makes daily videos of herself rapping to Nicki :no: and she stans for Bey….. But she had a boob reduction recently. Looks good. But clearly she is an actress and wanna be singer. She played Mena

      ---
      Chrissy is the ugliest light skinned woman I have seen in a while. I mean from the way she way her hair and her clothes boo u a size 20 tops FOH

    • FuturedocDonte

      I've lost track of all the shows the season. I don't even turn the TV on when I get off :shrug:
      Can't with Peter and his herum :no:
      Mobwives got old after 2 episodes :no:
      Real Housewives/husbands makes my skin itch
      American Horror Story makes me hear stuff in my house :eek:

      Empire will be on tonight though :yahoo: I hope my boo Porsha has some lines :love:

    • sassyshe

      SummerBaby says:

      I hate to wear any clothing & even jewelry an Ex bought for me once it’s over.
      ===========
      I’m happy that you’re not as morally corrupt as I. I still put on jewelry and smile when I look at my account balance. It’s a wonder that I held on to the money for this long, but I guess my days haven’t gotten rainy enough yet.
      ——————–
      I think it’s more of a mental thing that I don’t want to run into one of them & they see me wearing it & think that I haven’t gotten anything newer :think:
      ----------------------------------------------------------
      Bump that I proudly wear my gifts and I don't care who thinks what - current or ex. I like to look at my items and be like well at least time wasn't wasted look what I got to show for it. That's why I was pissed when my old engagement ring got stolen - I was like see I cant even say look what I got for putting up with his dumb arse for 5 years

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      I hate to wear any clothing & even jewelry an Ex bought for me once it’s over.
      --------
      I don't worry about sheyit like that. I have photo albums that are about my LIFE, and just because you're not in it, doesn't mean that you WEREN'T at some point.

      That's like getting rid of prom pics because you broke up.

      Buy me a diamond, when your a$$ is gone - it's still a f@cking diamond!

    • Candy Cane

      @Whitty
      I think she, Lisa, and Ken had relations with each other. Its something really weird with them and her asking to eat Lisa's vortex was REALLY weird. Ion joke with my friends like that. They might mess around and be like yeah come on. :eatme: :rofl:

      Brandy always flirting with somebody's husband. She always putting people on blast to embarrass them. she reminds me of my cousin I just cut off. Always attention seeking. :facepalm:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Peter is pure entertainment to me. I love douche bags
      _____________________

      so he's the Joe Budden of the show?

    • sassyshe

      Vanna is the root of all evil says:

      LHHNY:
      Not sure if I talked about this or not yesterday cause I was in and out but I had to log into my pc for this one :wtf: is Chrissy trying to trap a married nig with a family into a baby with her obese for a pin up back UP stand in BURLESQUE (shout out again to my old Soror Priyanka) model for Marilyn Monroe ..screw that Norma Rae byke in 1947 body but still want to wear cat suits face thinking?????????? You really went off birth control for that??? And he said he might not NEVER get a divorce?? FIRST OF ALL let’s be honest. You prolly need to be off birth control for about 6-8 months just to let them egg uncongeal in order for them to start moving. You thought you was about to make a baby in 3 weeks??? :ha:
      And you can slowly see Mendeces starting to show the old him with Yandy. First he was like FOH here with you art naked pictures and now he calling her friend a lame on the low… :rofl: He is ready to call and Yand a bird …
      Who else.. Oh Cyn ad Rich… Funny everybody stay dissing him but they end up working with him :tea: Oh and I followed Cyn on IG. On accident. Nicki Minaj posted a video on her. She (Cyn) is obsessed with Nicki. Like makes daily videos of herself rapping to Nicki :no: and she stans for Bey….. But she had a boob reduction recently. Looks good. But clearly she is an actress and wanna be singer. She played Mena


      Chrissy is the ugliest light skinned woman I have seen in a while. I mean from the way she way her hair and her clothes boo u a size 20 tops FOH
      --------------------------------------------------------------
      Crissy needs to sit her old delusional arse somewhere and stop thinking shes hot ish and while shes at it get some of that back fat taken off. Hate to see a woman with her back exposed and all that back fat, ewww

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Chrissy is the ugliest light skinned woman I have seen in a while
      _______________________

      uglier than Hazel E????? :shocked:

    • sassyshe

      Carrington says:

      I hate to wear any clothing & even jewelry an Ex bought for me once it’s over.
      ——–
      I don’t worry about sheyit like that. I have photo albums that are about my LIFE, and just because you’re not in it, doesn’t mean that you WEREN’T at some point.

      That’s like getting rid of prom pics because you broke up.

      Buy me a diamond, when your a$$ is gone – it’s still a f@cking diamond!
      --------------------------------------------------------
      :cosign: you can always remake it into something new

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      What’s up with Mr.Joey!?
      ==========
      I live for a good Joey story :popcorn:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Bump that I proudly wear my gifts and I don’t care who thinks what – current or ex. I like to look at my items and be like well at least time wasn’t wasted look what I got to show for it
      ~~~~~~~~~~
      :fistbump: YES MaaM! jewelry box on fleek! :hahaha:

    • sassyshe

      Buttercup says:

      Does anybody in here watch RHOBH.
      ===========
      I watched a marathon this weekend when I decided to be lazy. I have no words for Brandy
      -------------------------------------------------------------------
      That's my show. I need Yolanda to go somewhere, love Lisa Rinna and Lisa Vanderpump but Kyle is my boo :love:

    • Candy Cane

      Doc
      American Horror Story could have been better this season. But I guess nothing will compare to the Coven. That was the BEST season ever. But this season is based off real life too. A lot of those characters on the show really exsisted. Jessica Lang aint coming back no more though. I wonder if Angela Bassett is gonna becaome the star now. She should. Her acting as Madam Laveau was everything. :nun:

    • Locapoca

      Crissy needs to sit her old delusional arse somewhere and stop thinking shes hot ish and while shes at it get some of that back fat taken off. Hate to see a woman with her back exposed and all that back fat, ewww

      ^^^^^^
      :facepalm: I saw this at happy hour yesterday the rollage was so severe that they were overlapping the sexy cut outs of the dress. I looked at my girl and said. Im ready for the fashion rapture to come so they can take this backless shyt with them. Ive seen it done wrong sooo much. :no:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Chrissy is the ugliest light skinned woman I have seen in a while. I mean from the way she way her hair and her clothes boo u a size 20 tops FOH

      by Vanna is the root of all evil on Jan 21, 2015 at 10:51 am
      _______
      Light skin???? I thought she was an alabaster? Your joking, right :blink:

    • luVn_liFe…

      BUTTER, SUMMER,UF,WASTING. . .
      When ya'll throw stuff out :wave: I'll take it :hahaha:
      lemme KNOW so I can send a labe
      :thankyou: In ADVANCE!
      :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      This tickled me!
      You battin a 1000 on Today!
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      Our internal software is moving at a snails pace, so I have time to be my ratchet witty self.

    • SummerBaby

      I don’t worry about sheyit like that. I have photo albums that are about my LIFE, and just because you’re not in it, doesn’t mean that you WEREN’T at some point.
      That’s like getting rid of prom pics because you broke up.
      Buy me a diamond, when your a$$ is gone – it’s still a f@cking diamond!
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      :lol: True! I appreciate y'all giving me a different outlook on it :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRsEXGXLlYM&feature=fvsr ALBoy

      What we talking bout? :tea:

    • sassyshe

      Oh Cyn ad Rich… Funny everybody stay dissing him but they end up working with him :tea: Oh and I followed Cyn on IG. On accident. Nicki Minaj posted a video on her. She (Cyn) is obsessed with Nicki. Like makes daily videos of herself rapping to Nicki :no: and she stans for Bey….. But she had a boob reduction recently. Looks good. But clearly she is an actress and wanna be singer. She played Mena
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      Cyn and Erica had a business relationship. Cyn gets put on and Erica looks like a poor wounded dog needing love. Hey it worked, Erica landed Bow Wow and reshaping herself into the next housewife and people actually calls Cyn by her name now. Though I prefer Erica's nickname for her that Dykman broad

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      :applause: Real deep, Bruh!

      Puddle, even....... :coffee:

    • KiMi0414

      :offtopic: I keep seeing all these commercials for tax services. BUT ya'll know if you make $60,000 or less you can get your taxes done for the FREE. Don't let these companies scam you out of your refund money. :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Puddle, even
      :dead:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      uglier than Hazel E????? :shocked:

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      Who that?? Let me google :pc:

    • sassyshe

      Locapoca says:

      Crissy needs to sit her old delusional arse somewhere and stop thinking shes hot ish and while shes at it get some of that back fat taken off. Hate to see a woman with her back exposed and all that back fat, ewww

      ^^^^^^
      :facepalm: I saw this at happy hour yesterday the rollage was so severe that they were overlapping the sexy cut outs of the dress. I looked at my girl and said. Im ready for the fashion rapture to come so they can take this backless shyt with them. Ive seen it done wrong sooo much
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      Look halters and tubes are cute but when that first roll is hanging over the top of the top its time to wear only straps or bras that cover it up until you get it worked out or have the fat sucked out

    • Candy Cane

      UF
      Peter is like Stevie J but 10 times worst. Dude is a the duchiest duche bag Ive seen on earth. Like I think he might be slow too. Ion think he knows how he comes off.

      Sassyshe
      Yolonda is one of the baddest bitches on the show. Shes married to a legend, both her daughters are super models, her house is to DIE for. Lisa be low key throwing shade at Yolonda cause she jealous of Yolonda's happiness IMO

    • sassyshe

      KiMi0414 says:

      :offtopic: I keep seeing all these commercials for tax services. BUT ya’ll know if you make $60,000 or less you can get your taxes done for the FREE. Don’t let these companies scam you out of your refund money
      ---------------------------------------------------------------
      But you don't want to do some dumb ish and have the IRS flag and audit you. Find a good tax person and stick with them

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      I'll give y'all the Joey story on the new post.

      FYI: I wear my wedding ring on the opposite hand periodically.

      Your a $$ may be gone... And this former token of our love is now just a really nice diamond ring on my right hand.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      When ya’ll throw stuff out :wave: I’ll take it :hahaha:
      lemme KNOW so I can send a labe
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      :hahaha: Girl, I don't get rid of stuff just because things end. My favorite pair of diamond studs were purchased by someone about 8 years ago. I make sure I keep them clean and shined just in case I run into my ex-boo :winky:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Light skin???? I thought she was an alabaster? Your joking, right :blink:

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      Let's put her as a mixed woman still ugly :hide:

    • sassyshe

      Candy
      Granted she is pretty but I think she puts herself on their superior ledge over others and then pretend to be humble.

    • KiMi0414

      sassyshe says:

      KiMi0414 says:
      :offtopic: I keep seeing all these commercials for tax services. BUT ya’ll know if you make $60,000 or less you can get your taxes done for the FREE. Don’t let these companies scam you out of your refund money
      —————————————————————
      But you don’t want to do some dumb ish and have the IRS flag and audit you. Find a good tax person and stick with them
      ______________________
      Go to the IRS website. You can get done from reputable companies like Turbo Tax, Jackson Hewitt, and H&R Block. Its mandated by law. So its legit.

    • whitty hutton

      @ Candy Cane,

      yeah, they def had a threesome or lisa gave the ok for brandy to "please" ken...which u kno didn't take much time or effort. but ken said that puss ain't worth the headache. IF she ever gets another chance with them, best believe she's gonna have documentary evidence of the encounter(s) and try to extort them. brandy is treacherous and batshyt crazy so i don't put nothing past her. but you see she don't mess with kyle and kim anymore. Mauricio will make her @$$ "disappear".

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Peter is like Stevie J but 10 times worst. Dude is a the duchiest duche bag Ive seen on earth. Like I think he might be slow too. Ion think he knows how he comes off

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      Stevie j is actually cute and I think he is talented. I would screw stevie j I think he may be good in bed..

    • Candy Cane

      Ion think Chrissy is black. She just a wigger. She looks like she been rode dry and hung wet. And I don't know why she acting like she 25, bitch is at least 43. :whistle: Its wriiten all over her face, she don't have to say a word....

    • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Sees You! :eek:

      Lawd... and i started to not login today :ghost:

    • Candy Cane

      Sassyshe
      You have to remember she's not American. She's dutch. They have different values and standards. She has certain heir about her that I like.

    • luVn_liFe…

      I don’t get rid of stuff just because things end. My favorite pair of diamond studs were purchased by someone about 8 years ago
      ~~~~
      OH... BUT STILL BUTTER JUST.In.Case. *fyi* I need some new studs. . . wanna trade? :hahaha:

    • SummerBaby

      I’ll give y’all the Joey story on the new post.
      FYI: I wear my wedding ring on the opposite hand periodically.
      Your a $$ may be gone… And this former token of our love is now just a really nice diamond ring on my right hand.
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      I should be grateful because I have a homegirl they has never gotten jewelry from a man :eek:

    • whitty hutton

      I got Yolonda and Lisa at a tie for richest/baddest bish on RHOBH. they are my faves, then kyle and crazy kim. lisa rinna is gonna be the ish starter and Eileen may not come back for another season after brandy threw that wine in her face...she not bout that life.

    • Candy Cane

      Whitty
      Maurico is one sexy ass man. Good Lawd. But you right, he aint gonn play with Brandy about his family. She'll end up in the desert somewhere with her head chopped off messing with him.

      And :hurl: to the thought of fauking Ken. Ewww I think he be letting them dogs :lick: of him. Lisa too.

    • luVn_liFe…

      I wear my wedding ring on the opposite hand periodically.
      Your a $$ may be gone… And this former token of our love is now just a really nice diamond ring on my right hand.
      ~~~~
      MY MIL has a bad ass engagement ring beautiful clear diamond. She won't wear it "she isn't married anymore"
      I told her Make it a right hand rang!! :blink:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I need some new studs. . . wanna trade? :hahaha:
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      :thinking: Whatchu got? :lol:

    • KDub

      <<< still wear my wedding set on my opposite hand from time to time too. Cause its hot, its MINE, and its HOT. For the most part it lives in a box in my top drawer along with my original engagement ring. But yeah. I sport it every now and again. :coffee:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Buttercup says: I need some new studs. . . wanna trade? :hahaha:
      ============
      :thinking: Whatchu got? :lol:
      ~~~~~~~
      :dead:

      fr fr though!

    • Candy Cane

      Ion think Eileen will come back. shes too classy for the drama that Brandy brings. I couldn't believe she throw a drink in that woman face like that.

    • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Sees You! :eek:

      Many of us will label people as friends because we make money with them. Or because we laugh with them. Or because we party with them. These people should only be labeled as acquaintances,
      __________________________________

      um, yeah, this aint really all that unique or new to most of us :shrug: but I'm glad the Uni-verse has now revealed it to the brother and he's spreading his, er, message... so, when is the book coming out? :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I should be grateful because I have a homegirl they has never gotten jewelry from a man :eek:
      ============
      What the what?! Please tell me she's not one of those appetizer chicks. Honey Dip and I went out with a group of folks. He was treating everyone and asked what they wanted for their appetizers. Two of them were like, "We get to order an appetizer? We only get those on special occasions like birthdays." I felt halfway ashamed for asking for a dessert menu later in the evening.

    • KDub

      Stevie j is actually cute and I think he is talented. I would screw stevie j I think he may be good in bed..
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Stevie from what I seen, got a hammer.

      :kona:

    • Candy Cane

      Stevie J could get it on some late night creep type situation.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I told her Make it a right hand rang!! :blink:
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      :preach:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :newpost: :newpost: DRVING WHILE Eating UPDATE

    • SummerBaby

      I should be grateful because I have a homegirl they has never gotten jewelry from a man :eek:
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      What the what?! Please tell me she’s not one of those appetizer chicks. Honey Dip and I went out with a group of folks. He was treating everyone and asked what they wanted for their appetizers. Two of them were like, “We get to order an appetizer? We only get those on special occasions like birthdays.” I felt halfway ashamed for asking for a dessert menu later in the evening.
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      Nah she's not an appetizer chick, but I honestly don't know why. One of her her baby fathers was making big money in that life & she still didn't get any jewelry :shrug:

    • sassyshe

      Candy Cane says:

      Ion think Eileen will come back. shes too classy for the drama that Brandy brings. I couldn’t believe she throw a drink in that woman face like that.
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      Brandy is the Kenya of BH; shes miserable and lonely and have no job outside of the show so therefore she has to do what is needed to secure her spot every season. I never felt bad for Lisa when Brandy turned on her because she dismissed Kyle for the raggedy bytch that's when I had to agree that Brandy was their hired sucker. Mauricio been told Brandy hes not playing with his fam, shoot there is no prenup. But I cant wait till Brandy turns on Yolanda cause you know that's next. I am also :mad: Andy wants to bring back the witch