Julia Hudson Got Her Groove Back

Sandra Rose November 7, 2008

Jennifer Hudson’s sister Julia is in love less than a week after burying her son, mother and brother.

Julia has bounced back with a new man — and this time he’s not a thug.

According to TMZ.com, Julia updated her private Myspace page with photos of her new man and, apparently, she has purged bad boy (and suspected murderer) William Balfour out of her life by removing his photos.

Her new man looks like a clean, wholesome, church-going brother who cares about her.

This should give hope to other women who are still stuck in dysfunctional relationships with no good ghetto trash who refuse to pull their pants up. There is still hope for you ladies!

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Mrsdawsondn

I was just wonderin how the family was faring since no one is really reporting on it anymore, I guess the media gets over things really quick.

I don’t know about this one Sandra, Seems too soon and you good for speculation. Maybe she was kickin it wit dude before all of this happened? I thought she was seperated from william balfour anyway?
http://myspace.com/ckarinwhite ckarinwhite

Some people grieve in different ways!..SMH…
Kymystry

Ok … Congrats ? … thats all i have to say about that.

no .. i lied ..

she can FUNCTION .. wow .. my Brother was killed almost 10 yrs ago .. and it STILL hurts .. and I couldn’t function for a good 6-8 months after .. I went to work .. and that was about it .. I wasn’t “KYM” …

wow .. people grieve differently … *shurgs*

wow
Anna

What does she think she will gain by this public display. I thought they put her myspace page on private.
goat76

Sympathy d ic k is a helluva drug…………

Just talkin s hi t………..Im on my muscle relaxers so ya’ll gonna have to excuse me….
http://MYSPACE.COM/ERIKAMAGALY hermosa

I understand people grieve differently. . .BUT, DAMN! She lost her mother, brother and son! This women is already dating like that? Okay, what if she was seeing him before the tragedy happened, she already posting pics of him on myspace? I don’t know anyone who would be able to function after someone murdered 3 of your family members and the murders haven’t even been solved yet.

Low self esteem doesn’t even began to cover this chick!
prynsexxx

Awwwwwww!

Were those first pictures taken at the funeral? Nice suit. I love that baby blue.
Mspeng

Didn’t her son and her mom and her brother just die…I know if my family died, a new man would be the LAST thing on my mind to be honest. Worse putting up his pics and smiling about the way he looks at you. I just don’t get it.
shhhh

Why did I just bust out laughing when I saw this?

Why does it seem like he wants to be anywhere but in those pictures with her?

Why does it seem like he’s only there for the limelight and future monies?

This is so sad and she don’t even know it. She needs to be trying to workout so she can stop looking like a humpback whale instead of getting a new piece of thang.
Kymystry

goat76 Says:

Sympathy d ic k is a helluva drug…………

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lawd .. goat .. she must overdosed or He got a KILO
msmika31

This is not right…I couldn’t even imagine what hole I would be in if I were in her shoes. But to each it’s own, I guess.
shunda

Wow… that is all I can say. I do not understand at all. God will handle that one
Terry .W

Something just aint right with Homegirl…She continues to embarass her sister and decesed family —-her son shot multiple times and her mum and brother just died and she is thinking about a new love?…
Terry .W

^^^deceased
Anna

Source TMZ:
Most bewildering is this: Under one picture Julia writes, “NOW THAT JASON’S GONE I’M THE PRETTIEST ONE,” an apparent reference to brother Jason, whose body was found shot to death along with their mother’s.

Other photos show her partying with friends.
Kymystry

Not trying to sound morbid … but DAYUM .. the bodies haven’t even started decomposing .. and she bent the fluck ova gettin some wood ? ? ?

she just pissed me off …
ELove

Whazup SR Peeps !!!

I’ll pray for THIS Brutha…
For Her Knows NOT what is in store for Him
Mzsuave

lol @ goat…u’s a fool

I agree with another reader who stated maybe she was with him prior to the murders. Maybe she appears happy because NOW she has some kind of supporter, a backhand man, a real man??? Idk, whatever the case may be, I continue to pray for them. I got their obituary yesterday in a .pdf file. It looked really nice. Did yall see it?
Kymystry

I saw it MzSuave … and it was sad ..

sigh …
shannon04

Let’s see maybe she has known this guy for a long time, maybe they’ve always been friends or something who knows, but just because the myspace page says one thing does not mean we should believe it. (I know a few people with FAKE myspace pages)

With limelight, people will do crazy uncharacteristic things so maybe we should just fall back let these people grieve and stop spotlighting them.
whatdoesitmatter

WHAT!!??!! I would still be getting shoveled off the floor over my baby!!! Not huggin up with some dude, thug or not!!!
keely107

@Kym:

Not just her brother, her baby……………
shannon04

and btw I wasnt saying that HER page is fake (we know thats her page)but just saying that what we see isnt always what we should believe.
Kymystry

hey ELove(her) … sigh ..

anyway .. let me think of happier things ..like gettin my E-Grind on .. in the 500+ post Pres-Elec Obama
ELove

Come here Kymmy (Don’t get mad & upset)

Listening to :
Eternal := The Isley Brothers
Everlasting Love := Rufus featuring Chaka Khan
Love’s Train := Confunshun
So Amazing := Luther Vandross
Ease the Pain := Lisa Fisher

Calm your nerves My CoCo-Goddess
Kymystry

Awwwww sookie Nah .. THATS what I’m talkin ‘BOUT ! @ ELove(her)

.. cheesin like a mug ….
BayArea

This GIRL needs help. Sandra I believe you stated sometimes it is best (or nothing) wrong with being by yourself and I agree 100%.

Julia is crying out for attention and this is not the way to do it. It’s not right and it’s not OK!

@Shhh: Tell is like it t-i-is
SHANIASMOMMA

i saw the obituary …did he anyone proofread it before it was printed …they kept repeating through out the program
Mzsuave

@ Shaniasmomma…I noticed that too. Must of been the fam putting it together
shannon04

@Bayarea you are right she is crying out for attention and considering what they have been through, counseling should have already been started.
bklynchick

@Ms Suave

I haven’t seen it but I would like to. Is their anyway I can get it?

As far as Julia I always thought she was suspect. People grieve in different ways but when it comes to losing three people that you were so close to it would be hard for me to even be on myspace doing my thing with anyone. Sometimes God does things for you to take time to reflect over your life and get it together. I still continue to pray for this family cause it was truly a tragedy that happened.
Mzsuave

@ Kym & Elove…..oooooohweeeeee…yall an e-couple now….what else did I miss up in hea? lol
Mzsuave

@ bklyn…yes ma’am…what’s ur email, I’ll send it to you
goat76

@Mzsuave……..I missed you up in hea!!!!
http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

Y’all need to leave this poor retarded woman alone. Clearly, she is slow. It’s not like she’s some normal minded woman making crazy decisions. She’s mentally challenged and unless she gets on some kind of medication (and loses some of that WEIGHT) this is the best you can get.

I mean, really, look at that retarded smile and tell me she has even a half deck!
katgirl33

I think she been with dude…..maybe her relationship (secret that just got in the open when she found out her husband had a baby on the way w/somebody else) with him lit the rage for ol’ boy…

It’s gonna take them a while to get over what has happened….we don’t know how old them pictures are…..we really don’t know what her (or Jennifer’s) state is now….
Kymystry

please don’t put up your work email addy
I put up my GMAIL addy lawd hab murcy
Kymystry

I posted my email addy for folk who may have extra news papers .. WHY did some African dude email me and try to chat with me on gmail (u know i blocked him .. and now HE knows he’s blocked) … lawd .. SR is popular in AFRICA yall …

and CRACKIN DA HAIL UP @ Smokie ..
retarted smile … ha ha ha h aha ha
Mzsuave

hahahahahahahahhahaha…Africa? *on the flo’*

Goat-teezy…I missed ya too! I seen you been e-cheatin’ on me too…smh
Kymystry

Suave Gurl YEAH .. there is a chat (instant messg) feature on gmail .. so he tried to initate conversation .. i didn’t recognize the name so i asked who it was .. he said I am Simpson .. Simba .. simpleton .. somthing from Nambia .. anywhoo .. he said he liked my comments on SR and i said oh thanks and immediately BLOCKED him … lol
bloggergirlz

she is def a bit “touched”…i still wanna cut that fat hanging from her chin…she wants some attention so bad…i suggest she start going to the gym, change her eating habits, her choice in men and figure out what she wants to do w/ her life…

when i read (see below) i was look okayyy…direct shot at jennifer…although they resemble each other, there’s NO comparison whatsoever…

“NOW THAT JASON’S GONE I’M THE PRETTIEST ONE,”
http://myspace.com/tamarlese Peachizz

Ya know when Sandra was speculating, being hard on Julia talking bout ole girl’s self esteem I was like WOW.. But after the death of your child,mama, and brother you talking bout “you love the way he look at you”.. GTFOH
starr

Something isn’t right with this gurl. So i’ll with no comment.
shunda

Ya’ll know in this Obama e-lect world ya’ll can’t have me laughin like this. This chick needs some meds for real
goat76

@Mzsuave………e-cheatin, not me……
BLACKBARBIE404

“NOW THAT JASON’S GONE I’M THE PRETTIEST ONE,”
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I HOPE THATS NOT TRUE! I REMEMBER THEY SAID HER PAGE WAS HACKED… BUT WITH PICS CHANGING/UPDATING… IT SEEMS THAT IT WASNT.

NOT COOL!
Dhoward1913

Can someone please tell her to stay the hell off MYspace? This is pitiful. I understand that she may need an outlet, but damn this is horrible. Is this really the time to be flaunting her new man? I couldn’t imagine losing a child and appearing this unmoved. I lost my cousin a year ago to this day and still tear up. Damn this only happened a few weeks ago. She needs to spend some time getting her self together.
MRSJONESK

LMAO @ Smokie!
She got a man because Jennifer got a man and he “put a ring on it” Whu uh oh!
brenden

Kymystry Says:

I posted my email addy for folk who may have extra news papers .. WHY did some African dude email me and try to chat with me on gmail (u know i blocked him .. and now HE knows he’s blocked) … lawd .. SR is popular in AFRICA yall …

My bad that was me. And fyi I never said I was from Africa! I simply implied that I wanted to be ur Mandingo warrior.heehee
aduvalprincess

I felt their pain, I too lost my mother and brother but not under those tragic circumstances. Everyone deals with death differently. I am happy that she has someone she is happy with. People can assume all they want, they want to see her crying, upset, and by herself..I guess that would be more “suitable” for the situation. For those that are saved, we know that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord and her family is doing better than all of us. So I am happy Julia is living her life, and I am pretty sure that she is still “grieving”, just let her deal with her own pain in her own way.
Shalala26

SOMETHING FISHY ABOUT THIS ONE YALL!!! FOREAL!!!!!!!!
Mzsuave

hahhahahaha…@ #49…..ut ohhh Kymy…
BLACKBARBIE404

@ aduvalprincess

IF SHE HAS THAT COMMENT UNDER THAT PICTURE, THEN I BEG TO DIFFER….

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@ Mzsuave

IM THINKING THE SAME THING!!! LOL
Kymystry

@ brenden .. dang .. i shoulda known .. lol @ mandingo .. lol
sexieblacc

I think that it’s unfair that all of her actions will be judged with a ‘side eye’ from now til whenever. At least she has something to smile about. Jennifer will move on and go on with her superstar life. Julia will go back to ‘no home’, ‘no son’ ‘no family to lean on’. So im glad she has something to smile about.
PAHairston

Good point, perhaps Julia is mentally challenged, just like a lot of young black folks in America. (Who kills people over shoes, designer coats, drug deals gone wrong, a wrong look?) My prayers go out to this family because Lord have mercy, if I’d found my mother and brother shot to death and a few days later my only child, I would indeed be mentally challenged for a long time with only Jesus as my salvation. Peace.
Liberty

Okay, she’s LIVING her life. Some people like to grieve in private. I know I do. For those of you who believe in the bible, I believe it was David who had a feast right after his child died.

My point is, life goes on and we all express hurt differently.
cocoa49

something doesn’t seem right….i know people grieve in many different ways, but her son was brutally murdered. it is bad enough when you lose your parents, but you child? she seems just to happy and relaxed. until i have walked in her shoes,in which i hope i never have to, i cannot understand her behavior.
Liberty

I just seen more pictures on another site and Jennifer Hudson was in the pictures smiling and joking too.

I think they were coming from the funeral because Jennifer and Julia had on black.

I guess that makes both sisters mentally challenged for choosing to enjoy their lives?
http://www.myspace.com/lorettadivine DivineBrown

People are being unreasonably judgemental!
ANGIE1975

Well she has finally changed her myspace page to private, I hope the caption about being the prettiest is not true, if she did put it she has to be touched in the head.
Everyone does grieve differently but damn that is cold.
Kymystry

Divine .. you know what sis .. you are RIGHT … I am officially checkin Myself …

Let her do her thang …

I apologize Julia Hudson .. do You boo …
pinky2083

I do feel bad for this chick because of what happened, but DAYUM she is one funny lookin broad!
SlimA

Y’all can’t be dating all up an thru the family. It’s called incest and I’m telling mamma and dem.
Deep Thoughts

Please Sandra you really believe this, lol. If he is with her your wrong, he’s not a decent guy he simply sees an opportunity for recognition. Who would or could love such a woman, not only because she is extremely obese but because she’s desperate and worthless. At her age she is a “lost cause” let’s focus on the impressionable minds of young gir.s. “Julia is done, stick a fork in her”
SlimA

@ Deep Thoughts “Julia is done, stick a fork in her”

ROFL
miamore73

myspace my ass!!! There is no way my child could be dead and I’d be on myspace uploading pictures. But like someone else said everyone grieves in their own way. My way would involve alot of sedatives.
shay1

Hey Fam – its Friday…..time to party because our Prez is Black!!

LOL – @ Deep Thoughts….

Hey Kym, I googled you this morning while I was in the salon..
Kymystry

I just googled me too .. I ain’t on there … well .. other than a few SR comments .. whooo hooo .. my REAL name ain’t on there … lol
Kymystry

Hey Shay !
mimi08

YOU PEOPLE KEEP MAKING EXCUSES FOR THIS PATHETIC FAT ASS COW! YOU SAY PEOPLE GRIEVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS, BUT THIS FAT BYTCH DON’T SEEM TO BE GRIEVING AT ALL! ALL UP ON MYSPACE WITH NEW PICTURES, SMILING FOR THE CAMERAS, ALL WHILE HER FAMILY WAS RECENTLY BRUTALLY MURDERED….SAY WHAT YALL WANT TO SAY, AND SOME OF YALL DANCING AROUND IT; THERE’S SOMETHING WRONG WITH JULIA! THIS IS NOT NORMAL, NOT ONE BIT.

THIS FAT BYTCH IS THE REASON HER FAMILY IS TURNING TO DUST IN THE GROUND RIGHT NOW, WHILE SHE’S ALL POSTED UP SMILING ON THE FUCCIN COMPUTER..FAT BYTCH LOOKIN LIKE A FAT ASS HALLOWEEN PUMPKIN WITH THE MISSING SCATTERED TEETH AND ALL! FAT TRAMP! IN CASE YOU CAN’T TELL, I DON’T LIKE THIS TRICK!
http://MYSPACE.COM/ERIKAMAGALY hermosa

sexieblacc Says:

I think that it’s unfair that all of her actions will be judged with a ’side eye’ from now til whenever. At least she has something to smile about. Jennifer will move on and go on with her superstar life. Julia will go back to ‘no home’, ‘no son’ ‘no family to lean on’. So im glad she has something to smile about
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know what, I never thought about it this way. You are so right. I’m no longer commenting on the Hudson family until they have closure!
shunda

Ok I had to look again. For everyone that has a myspace page look at the captions. That is not the way they come up on myspace. Someone may have done this other than Julia
kwallace577

i have nothing nice to say so i am going to officially shut the hail up on this post. my daddy would be so proud….
Liberty

mimi I want you to eat a donut or three so just maybe you can have some of that fat gleefulness and get rid of some of that bitterness. Either way, you’re gonna give yourself a heart attack.
Amulet

She lost her son, her mother, and her brother and she is happy with a new man? WOW

Either she is happy her ex is going to jail, or she is happy to have attention, this still is a WOW.

Now she is a star like Jennifer???

She is definitely mourning in a different way.
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

Oh this can’t be true so soon after the death of her SON, MOM and BROTHER possibly each murdered by her HUSBAND! I’d believe she was strung out on whack crack cocaine before I’d believe she has already moved on to a new man. STOP IT AUNTI SANDRA!
Negrito

This woman has some serious issues and is most likely more than just slightly retarded, so she can’t understand that this is a very odd behaviour. Anyway is that really herr man? How can any man find her to be attractive? She’s gross.
crystal

@Dhoward1913 Says: 100% correct.

Hey i just felt that it was a kidnapping that went wrong, and i felt this childs mother played a major part in it. People are saying drugs but i feel the adults fought to keep who ever from taking that little boy because the suspects knew that his aunt will pay. It did not goes as planned but whatever went down will come out one day. Grieving mother do not go on myspace updating profiles and as for her page being hacked who is she for someone to just upset certain things on a page. a real hacker would have changed her pass word to keep her from changing what any negative comments was said or posted. She is not getting the attention she thought she was going to get so now she is trying a new way. God forbid anything happens to my child i would have to be doped up and hospitalized in the mental ward.
crystal

but her who am i to judge?
crystal

sorry, meant to say hey who am i to judge?
pointhimout

oooh number 5 said muscle relaxers. that’s hot…and it just loosens everything right up…just how me likey.

i feel bad for this chick cuz for one, obviously, the whole family has been wiped out. secondly, because i think she’s a lost soul who’s just looking for love. i dont look at her as having great esteem, so the first person that shows her attention, it’s a wrap. i won’t say she’s not grieving all cuz she’s not fallin out in the middle of the street. i think with death, we all deal differently, but the older I get, I’m accepting that it’s inevitable and is going to happen. A violent death is always sad, but as been said before, we all grieve differently.

I do think she should get some type counseling and some ‘me time.’ she really should get herself together. she’s probably a great person and fun to be around, but of course all we’ve seen is the seemingly juvenile myspace page. i dont think that’s fair, but hey, like reality tv, when you put that out there, people are gonna run with it. I wish I were related to someone famous; and MY SIBLING??? i’d be the personal assistant or something. That would make me step my game up. Though it’s Jennifer with the fame, she’s an extension of that because clearly, what she does and don’t do affects jennifer too…
crystal

She i would agree that she is seeking some attention but she is getting the wrong kind of attention. If my immediate family was killed, i would not be updating a myspace profile but that is just me. Yes people grieve in different ways even had a friend who children were killed by their dad she was still in shock to the point where we were worried about her not breaking down but she did break down on the day of the wakes.

I am just questioning the way everything went down and the fact that i am sure this was a senseless murder. Like i mention about the Brooklyn’s palm Sunday killing where 10 people were and 8 of the victims were children. After the killing and when everyone was buried i read the father of the victims moved up stairs in to the same 2 family house. Oh hell NO. I would of moved the Fvck out if my entire family was murdered down stairs.
crystal

i would agree that she is seeking some attention but she is getting the wrong kind of attention. If my immediate family was killed, i would not be updating a myspace profile but that is just me. Yes people grieve in different ways even had a friend who children were killed by their dad she was still in shock to the point where we were worried about her not breaking down but she did break down on the day of the wakes.

I am just questioning the way everything went down and the fact that i am sure this was a senseless murder. Like i mention about the Brooklyn’s palm Sunday killing where 10 people were and 8 of the victims were children. After the killing and when everyone was buried i read the father of the victims moved up stairs in to the same 2 family house. Oh hell NO. I would of moved the Fvck out if my entire family was murdered down stairs.

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