Odd Future singer/songwriter Frank Ocean made a powerful statement of courage and when he came flying out of the closet earlier this week. The 24-year-old music producer — who is responsible for Beyonce’s hit song “I Miss You” — wrote a long, poignant letter on his Tumblr page describing his unrequited love for another man.
Some industry insiders believe Frank Ocean was struggling with his affections for fellow producer Kanye West. It’s worth noting that the industry has rallied together with unflinching support for Ocean, but Kanye, who is Ocean’s mentor, is surprisingly quiet.
“I Miss You” off Beyonce’s fourth studio album, 4 (released June 24 2011) was written by Frank Ocean and Shea Taylor (they reportedly added Bey’s songwriting credit later).
The lyrics in “I Miss You” are eerily similar to the touching words in Ocean’s letter. (I took the liberty of highlighting the similarities for you.)
One line in particular — “It hurt my pride to tell you how I feel” — sounds identical to what Ocean wrote in his letter.
“I sat there and told my friend how I felt. I wept as the words left my mouth. I grieved for them, knowing I could never take them back… He patted my back. He said kind things. He did his best, but he wouldn’t admit the same…
Do you think Ocean wrote “I Miss You” for Kanye?
Read the lyrics after the break.
*”I Miss You” written by Frank Ocean
[audio:03 I Miss You.mp3]*(bold emphasis mine)
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I thought that things like this get better with time
But I still need you, why is that?
You’re the only image in my mind
So I still see you… around
[Chorus]
I miss you like everyday
Wanna be with you, but you’re away
Said I miss you, missing you insane
But if I got with you, could it feel the same?
Words don’t ever seem to come out right
But I still mean them, why is that?
It hurt my pride to tell you how I feel
But I still need to, why is that?
[Repeat Chorus]
It don’t matter who you are
It is so simple, a feeling
But it’s everything
No matter who you love
It is so simple, a feeling
But it’s everything
[Repeat Chorus]
It don’t matter who you are
It is so simple, a feeling
But it’s everything
No matter who you love
It is so simple, a feeling
But it’s everything
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C’mon Sandra, it’s too hot for all this speculation
Not again Luvn
Sometimes if you don’t have anything good to say, it’s best not to say anything.
Ye ain’t gay Sandra. Let it go.
I dont know but that is like my fav off her album d-_-b
I LOVE this song
I never thought Kanye was gay
Ye ain’t gay Sandra.
hmph!
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really
NO.
#LetItGo
MsDivaRo says:
Not again Luvn
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Sandra, you not about to ruin this song for me.
And
*pulls out bandages, witch hazel, iodine, peroxide, and a stitch kit to tend to the beaten horse thats near death in the room*
And the saga continues…….
Kanya is a butt pirate
and I see he has tons fooled
My opinion though 
EricaWil216 says:
C’mon Sandra, it’s too hot for all this speculation
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Me likey your headphones Jenny
luVn_liFe… says:
MsDivaRo says:
Not again Luvn
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I got NOTHING
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Me either…cause I don’t give a rats arse about this here!
Angiegirl says:
*pulls out bandages, witch hazel, iodine, peroxide, and a stitch kit to tend to the beaten horse thats near death in the room*
Where they at
yallcrazy says:
EricaWil216 says:
C’mon Sandra, it’s too hot for all this speculation
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Me likey your headphones Jenny #ihopetheyareheadphones
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BTW, Afternoon errrrrrrybody!
WHEN THE HELL ARE WE GOING TO HEAR JOSEPHLINE SING OR RAP IN LOVE AND HIP SHITZZZZZZ CAUSE THE WAY IT TALKS I CANT SEE IT!!
MsDivaRo and Angiegirl
MsDivaRo says:
luVn_liFe… says:
MsDivaRo says:
Not again Luvn
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I got NOTHING
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Me either…cause I don’t give a rats arse about this here!
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Hmmp I care more about a rat’s azz than who’s zoomin’ who
Angiegirl says:
*pulls out bandages, witch hazel, iodine, peroxide, and a stitch kit to tend to the beaten horse thats near death in the room*
^^^^^^
so my pop put me on to this witchhazel for the 1st time like a month ago. it’s amazing.
@Yall, im on the way. Tape off the perimeter for me please and thanks!
@jenie (Comment #16)

YALL Hmmp I care more about a rat’s azz than who’s zoomin’ who
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NASIR!

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d-_-b d-_-b
You are sooo fcking random. And loud. *turns off your caps lock*
You’re welcome.
MsDivaRo says:
luVn_liFe… says:
MsDivaRo says:
Not again Luvn
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I got NOTHING
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Me either…cause I don’t give a rats arse about this here
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I never heard of Frank Ocean, until these posts.
@Boogie, girl Im from the deep south we use Witch hazel and Vaseline like the Greek use Windex (i.e. My Big Fat Greek Wedding)
@Yall, why you got me singing Who’s zooming who, now?
*taking off said perimeter*
#followsinstructions 
Witch Hazel can cure a sty in your eye within 1 day
#nopainnogain
i think he wrote it for Beyawnce… speaking to Kanye, hoping to get to Jay Z. Which would then bring him closer to Menphis Bleek
MsAnG <–get it?
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Awwwww, my BF spells it that exact same way!
We is friends now!

*37 taping
gbellab That lady Tee??
Angiegirl says:
MsAnG <–get it?
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Awwwww, my BF spells it that exact same way!
We is friends now!


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gbellab
#stillconfused 
IF HE WERE GAY THEN OLE BOY WOULD NOT BE GOING ON AND ON ABOUT BEING REJECTED AND WRITING SONGS ABOUT THAT VERSUS SCORNED EX LOVER
PEOPLE KNOW THEY STAY REACHING
RIP Teena Marie
On a starry winter night in Portugal
Where the ocean kissed the southern shore
There a dream I never thought would come to pass
Came and went like time spent through and hourglass
You made love to me like fire and rain
Ooh, you know you’ve got to be a hurricane
Killing me with kisses, oh, so subtly
You make love forever, baby
You make love forever
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
You’ve got to say you love me too
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
I’m gonna give it all to you
OMG Sandra, please stop it. I do think they’d be hot together though. Kanye, dump Kim and date him.
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese
Harbor nights, we made love till the morning star
Then you crooned a song to me on your guitar
Was it so familiar calling soft my name (Teena)
Sunlight dancing slowly through loves window panes
And you made love to me like sugar and spice
Hush my broken heart, this must be paradise
Killing me with kisses, oh, so tenderly
You make love forever, baby
You make love forever
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
You’ve got to say you love me too
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
I’m gonna give it all to you
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese
Amore Portuguese
Say you love me, baby
Amore Portuguese
Say you love me, baby
Yo quiero a la ser amor
A feeling too hard to ignore
Say amore Portuguese
You’ve got to say you love me
Good grief Sandra! You sure can
No, he wrote it for Beyonce that’s why its on her album. Let’s stop being messy. The song is beautiful and beautifully sung.
Let’s not act like he is the first same sex lover to write love songs. If we were to decipher every song ever written by same sex lovers we’d be here all week.
How many people have walked down the aisle to a Luther Vandross song? And we all know…. Yeah. #TeamLuther ALL DAY!
My Lady Tee song is HAPPY w/Rick James !!! Now that there makes me stand in fron of a mirror on a stool w/Brush like im Performing!!
You knew that you felt good to me, oh, baby, oh
From the first kiss to the last I’m trembling
You made love to me like no other man
And if you please I’d like to go back there again
Killing me with kisses, oh, so tenderly
You make love like, wee
You make love forever
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
You’ve got to say you love me too
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
I’m gonna give it all to you
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese love
Won’t you say it to me, say it to me, say you love me, baby
Portuguese love
Amore, amore Portuguese
Aye, say you love me (Portuguese love)
Amore, amore Portuguese
Aye, baby, aye, aye Portuguese love
Amore, amore Portuguese
Say, say, baby, aye, aye, hey, hey (Portuguese love)
Portuguese amore, amore Portuguese
Say, say, say aye, say aye, aye, aye, hee
Portuguese love
Portuguese love
Portuguese love
Portuguese love
Portuguese love
Portuguese love
Portuguese love
Love me
Say you love me
Love, love me (I love you)
Portuguese amore
Say you love me, say, say
Say you love me, baby
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Real Music
See all them words? One Song. Real music. Real singing
Angiegirl says:
@Boogie, girl Im from the deep south we use Witch hazel and Vaseline like the Greek use Windex (i.e. My Big Fat Greek Wedding)
^^^^^^^
pappy’s from alabam so he shlda put me on in the 80s
didnt even need the “i.e.”
WE HERE *does the fingerthing from my eyes to yours . love that movie.
<<– me & aidan from sex and the city
@Angiegirl witch hazel and apple cidar vinegar, could not live w/o them!
TUUUDAY IS DRRRAAGIN!!
**SLIDES DOWN WALL** WHYYYYYYYYY!?
Luther NEVER would have addressed his public/fans
#TeamWoooWooWooWoooWoooooo
Honestly I am glad Sandra is bringing awareness to this DL lifestyle
open folks eyes u know
When Bey sings this part
“It don’t matter who you are
It is so simple, a feeling
But it’s everything”
Ba-by she meant that ish. Let me put that album on now. By far her best album.
In the Key of Mimi before dem babies:
You look in my eyes
And I get emotional inside
I know it’s crazy
But you still can touch my heart
And after all this time
You’d think that I
I wouldn’t feel the same
But time melts into nothing
And nothing’s changed
[Chorus]
I still believe
Someday you and me
Will find ourselves in love again
I had a dream
Someday you and me
Will find ourselves in love again
Each day of my life
I’m filled with all the joy I could find
You know that I
I’m not the desperate type
If there’s one spark of hope
Left in my grasp
I’ll hold it with both hands
It’s worth the risk of burning
To have a second chance
No, no, no, no, no, no I need you baby
I still believe that we can be together
If we believe that true love never has to end
Then we must know that we will love again.
*picks Laker before she gets robbed or some ish*
Chamone, it’s too hawt for allofdat yo!
good morning :2dance:
iscream says:
When Bey sings this part
“It don’t matter who you are
It is so simple, a feeling
But it’s everything”
Ba-by she meant that ish. Let me put that album on now. By far her best album.
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Never heard it….
He wrote that for Mariah to get to Kanye
U know, since we reaching and shyt

#teamLutha

And hellz yeah, #Yeam’YeandOcean
@MsDivaRo
Yeah SHE Gots me Humming THAT SONG Too… Going to YouTube to Listen Though
Why is OTb beating an anteater?
d-_-b <–I got on some headphones
I’m actually suprised that Sandra mentioned Beyonce in the post without actually throwing Shade at Beyonce
A dawn of a new era?
pappy’s from alabam so he shlda put me on in the 80s
didnt even need the “i.e.” WE HERE *does the fingerthing from my eyes to yours . love that movie. <<– me & aidan from sex and the city
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Whath u mean he donth eat-a no meat-a?
Ess okay, ah make lamb!
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yallcrazy says:
Why is OTb beating an anteater?
d-_-b <–I got on some headphones
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@yallcrazy @luVn_liFe
I love the very beginning of Portugese Love when she starts off sangin’
On a starry winter night in Portugaaaaaaaaaaaaal
My Fave though is Casanova Brown.. we’ve all experienced one.
OHHH Honey
WHAT “Time-Zone” are You in BABY
HAPPY FRIDAY Everybody !!!
Nope he wrote that for Jay’s long lost son on that Caribbean island over there….continuing with the reaching
HHHF (no clues)
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OTB, that’s what my post #56 “hashtag” (pound sign to me
) was supposed to be 
d-_-b I THOUGHT IT WAS SOME HOOP EARINGS
^^THEM ESSPENSIVE DRE KIND TOO!
ELove says:
@MsDivaRo
Yeah SHE Gots me Humming THAT SONG Too… Going to YouTube to Listen Though
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Elove, that was the shat from Aretha!
Sandra u need to post his performance of teh song from one of his concerts, i tear up every time
and unless he met Kanye 5 years ago, its not him
but i think alot of people wanna know who this bastard is who broke his heart
What ya’ll talkn about
I think he wrote it for the guy down the street
Yall…you got me singing 80’s shat now! Pink Cadillac done popped in my head.
dabunique says:
Sandra u need to post his performance of teh song from one of his concerts, i tear up every time
and unless he met Kanye 5 years ago, its not him
but i think alot of people wanna know who this bastard is who broke his heart
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I don’t….got enough of those stories of my own
iscream says:
When Bey sings this part
“It don’t matter who you are
It is so simple, a feeling
But it’s everything”
Ba-by she meant that ish. Let me put that album on now. By far her best album.
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YES I love me Bey I MISS YOU
…but can we move on pass this Frank Ocean thang? I must admit that I never heard about him until Sandra brought him up.
LOST IN THE SAUCE
d-_-b <–I got on some headphones
Hey Elove
*hands dabunique a tissue*
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!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
d-_-b I THOUGHT IT WAS SOME HOOP EARINGS
^^THEM ESSPENSIVE DRE KIND TOO!
YEPPP
<<MISSING JMO HATEZ BEING LOST IN THE SAUCE ALL BY MY SELF
Chi-town peeps, how is rib-fest? I plan to attend this weekend. Should I bring my bullet-proof vest? <—-serious question tho
If i hear that his coming out is beautiful one more time, imma be sick. I hate all this bandwagon ish.
@MsDiva
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:poopcorn: #becauseIguessmyfontisclearHmmmp
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We never really started, because we don’t care
#dontevenknowifheisbilloceansonorwhat
#shattaintmyfault 
Happy Friday to you too @YallCrazy
I WAAANA BE A BILLIONAIRE SOOO FUKN BAADDD..
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yallcrazy says:
*hands dabunique a tissue*
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!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
d-_-b I THOUGHT IT WAS SOME HOOP EARINGS
^^THEM ESSPENSIVE DRE KIND TOO!
YEPPP
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hoop earings
dabunique says:
Sandra u need to post his performance of teh song from one of his concerts, i tear up every time
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Frank performed this song beautifully.
already been established. he wrote it for fantasia. bey stole it.
@Walking
Regarding “Bullet-Proof” Vests… EITHER THAT or Having Jet Li “Bullet Dodging ABILITY” or DON’T EVEN BOTHER COMING (YUP…)
OHHH Honey
I must admit that I never heard about him until Sandra brought him up.
For shame. He is uber talented.
Well ribfest is in a good are, but still be safe
#dontevenknowifheisbilloceansonorwhat
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Carribean Queen ~ his one hit wonder was the jam though with his funny looking self
*area
Hey ELove
@Yall and Diva Who’s zooming who was the song!
JENNI *-__-* <BLING BLING!
Carribean Queen
<–lighter up
:2dance:
chile please
but i DID just listen to the song for the 1st time. i like it
but i miss u!
missing u insane
but if i got witchu
would it be feel same??
#ICanRelate
Ms.DivaRo…
Love Zone was funking,NO??
<_< *falls over laughing*
@Boogie (Comment #97)

OutsidetheBox says:
I must admit that I never heard about him until Sandra brought him up.
For shame. He is uber talented.
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really? I need to step up then
@ELove….Well damn!
Carribean Queen
WHO THE ARTIST #WANTSIN
BoogieNites says:
already been established. he wrote it for fantasia. bey stole it
I’m glad Bey stole it then
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Really?
yallcrazy says:
Carribean Queen <–lighter up
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!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
JENNI *-__-* <BLING BLING!
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OHoney says:
Happy Friday to you too @YallCrazy

DING DING DING
WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
Carribean Queen WHO THE ARTIST #WANTSIN
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Lakes, Billy Ocean
I’m glad that Frank feels okay to be himself. Other that that, I have no damns to give this whole thing.
Folks thinks this is gonna throw the closet door open on the industry…I wouldn’t hold my breath.
jenie — sike. nah.
@Natasha
@Yall
I’m going to listen to “The Love Zone” Baby (YUP…)
but i miss u!
missing u insane
but if i got witchu
would it be feel same??
#ICanRelate
Oh Fay
<–chuckling my ass off
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!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
JENNI *-__-* <BLING BLING!

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honestly he prob wrote it for a round’ the way dude. prob someone from OFWGKTA… his crew.. I picture the guy, skinny, tattoos, nut hugging jeans, and a bird chest. Although it would be GRAND if indeed it was Kanye
Yah…do you listen to Odd Future? I hate those lil punks
but thats his clique of sorts.
Have you ever heard “Novacane”? He used to (ghost) write for John Legend as well.
now i’m listening on repeat
d-_-b
YALL!
LMAOOOO!!!!
@ Jenie….I SWEAR I just texted Shaun that I could maybe like I Miss You if someone else were singing it!
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Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
now i’m listening on repeat d-_-b
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You’ve Got 2 Live & Learn in The Love Zone
@BDaddy 
some kinda way imma blame OTB for this moment
He used to (ghost) write for John Legend as well.
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REALLY?!
tell me more.
DIMPZ guhl stfu!!
@MzDimp really Bey did a good job
Even though I think the beesh is got dayum overkill! 
DIMPZ
Or was that a hi and bye?!
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but *lowevers voice* she thought they were some round-the-way-girl hoop earring at first 
Fay, Jenny came up with them sharB headphones. Laker even said they look esspensive
@OTB SAID: Have you ever heard “Novacane”? He used to (ghost) write for John Legend as well.
AND WE Already KNOW What John Legend was to Kanye Though (YUP…)
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
some kinda way imma blame OTB for this moment
*making it legit*
Mmm Hmmm, she really is something else, isn’t she?
@ Jenie…It was aiight, I wasn’t loving it though.
I’d also like to add that i’m mad as hell at my co-workers for driving me to listen to Bey scream and yodel to drown their asses out.
You wrong for texting Shaun that.
Has anybody seen FeFe
I blame it on a model broad with the hollywood smile
Oww, stripper booty and rack like wow
Brain like berkeley
Met her at Coachella, I went to see Jigga
She went to see z-trip
Perfect
I took a seat on the ice cold lawn
She handed me a ice blue bong, whatever
She said she wanna be dentist really badly
She’s in school paying, for tuition doing porn in the valley
At least ya working
But girl i can’t feel my face
What are we smoking anyway
She said don’t let the high go to waste But can you taste, a little taste a..
Novacane Baby, Baby
IS he bisexual or was he lying about being impressed by her “rack”
Yall aint never here for Bey but always leaving with more of her. Hrm
she thought they were some round-the-way-girl hoop earring at first

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*speaking telepathically to Cousin*
GAGIRL87 says:
Has anybody seen FeFe
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Fe-Fe don’t fuk with ya’ll no more
Yep @Cocoa This cat also writes for the Biebs. He in the money.
Yall dont remember when he got to fighting with C Breezy and his lil crew?
Translation needed for 143.
Sorry Shaun.
I thought it was funny that I just said it and they mentioned Fanny though.
Where did this bit about Bey stealing it come from? He said he played it for her, she cried and recorded it. His words. So how she stole it agaane?
OHoney says:
GAGIRL87 says:
Gurrllllll! Crazy! Right? 
Has anybody seen FeFe
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Fe-Fe don’t fuk with ya’ll no more
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Didjew get the Skype message too?
I think he is bi.
Cousin!
What YALL do to FeFe?
Ok, I gotta go, i’m SPOSED to be reading this week.
@OHONEY
Really? Hrm.
OutsidetheBox says:
Where did this bit about Bey stealing it come from? He said he played it for her, she cried and recorded it. His words. So how she stole it agaane?
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Now IONO, but I’mma just say that they were joshing and thangs, trying to get you all riled up
Whats so confusing about my font to yew lately woman?
Everybody here always tombout Bey aint chit..somebody throw out a song, and all of a sudden Bey can be a little shit IJS
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yallcrazy says:
Now, why is GA whooping the anteater? Damn thang ain’t done not nothing to yall….
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*speaking telepathically to Cousin*
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What I do?
Yall dont remember when he got to fighting with C Breezy and his lil crew?
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They was tryna give Frank the “fade.”
What happened with Fefe now?
Sup yall…
You know dayum well you ain’t on Skype
Maybe everybody’s off for the holidays
146 OHoney says:
GAGIRL87 says:
Has anybody seen FeFe
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Fe-Fe don’t fuk with ya’ll no more
@iscream I had that song on repeat yesterday *le sigh* I wish it were longer.
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OHoney says:
GAGIRL87 says:
Has anybody seen FeFe
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Fe-Fe don’t fuk with ya’ll no more
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Oh, I was joking in comment #146
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BB
I’mma say that in bed next time yall 
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“catch fade”
OutsidetheBox says:
I think he is bi.
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He is gay, whether he likes men AND/or women.
HOW BEY MAKE IT TO THE CONVO THO?
If you are sexually attracted to men and women you are bi, not gay. Or does that only apply to men and not women?
*Throws lemon seeds at Honey cause lemons hurt*
Whoever was talmbout some ribfest, had better check their references, because I just did & the one in the good part of town was last month and the other one isn’t this weekend
#thatisall
Esspalin @Cocoa.
So anyone with a sexual pref for both is just gay? Not Bi? No bis exist?
I need answers.
<—Listens to song 3rd time. Not getting any of that sentiment.
I must be serious desensitized. I'm sure my coworkers heard Best Thing I Never though. I BLASTED that shyt.
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
HOW BEY MAKE IT TO THE CONVO THO?
You know OTB is always doing the most

Cocoa, said to hell with the term “bi” if you gay, you gay!
I think, let’s see
@Cocoa (Comment #167)

brb
yallcrazy says:
Cocoa, said to hell with the term “bi” if you gay, you gay
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Pretty much. That’s just me though
I don’t get why folks so desperate to kick in closet doors for others. Sandra, just because you out and proud, dont mean other should be. It is EVERYONE’S responsibility to choose your partner/know your status/know your partner’s status/get tested regularly
Ok But umm Bey name at the top of the post
I do enjoy doing the most tho.
oh Frank
<–Loves Mystikal's verse in MOVE B8TCH!
#random
Sink full a dishes Pacing in the kitchen
Cocaine for breakfast, Yikes
Bed full of WOMEN
Flip on a tripod little red light on shooting,
I’m feeling like Stanley Kubrick
then he goes on to say Eff me good, Eff me LONG, Eff me numb
…..
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lovezoe says:
I don’t get why folks so desperate to kick in closet doors for others. Sandra, just because you out and proud, dont mean other should be. It is EVERYONE’S responsibility to choose your partner/know your status/know your partner’s status/get tested regularly
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Ive been working extra all week so I can buck early today..fore I go help with an
please…
A. Yellow hi-waist front zip scuba skirt, & black crop top (dont worry it aint nasty looking
)..IDK what shoes..
or
B. Short gold wrap front dress. Metallic gold, high shine shoes.
Pick one please. TIA.
OutsidetheBox says:
Where did this bit about Bey stealing it come from? He said he played it for her, she cried and recorded it. His words. So how she stole it agaane?
^^^^^^^^

jus a little jokeyjoke that got passed off somewhere along the comment line as truth. save the slander case !
HEAR I COME (HERE I GO…) Uhh OHHH… Don’t JUMP BYTCH MOVE!!!
OTB
i pick B
<—Don't know SHAT about fashion.
*shoulder bumps to Ludacris' Saturday*
@SIS
Go for gold.
OTB
B. Short gold wrap front dress. Metallic gold, high shine shoes.
Just thought i put in my #2cents
wld really be a libel case, but u catch my drift, i’m sure.
@ Shaun…I didn’t know Walgreens had those.
@ ELOVE…I LOVE that shyt! How are you sir?
Boogie, later im sure you will get it.
I saw the joke, and *fell over laughing*
… ultimate Bey haters picked it up like Gospel (which is what always happens when its a person you dont like..) and thats why I said something. 
@MzDimpZ
TRU, TRU
Doing FINE Baby (How YOUS BE…)
The gold wrap dress OTB with the cute shoes
Something about yellow and black is making me think about Bey last Halloween 
I like B too. Thanks gals!

finna go get me some Chik-fi-la…..see yall after lurnch
Can we talk about the fact that everyone is praising Frank Ocean for pursuing a man who was already in a relationship with a woman? Does he get a pass because he’s a gay celebrity, and gay celebrities are the poster children for tolerance?
But yesss I memba that BumbleBey. She was 100 months pregnant. You aint right.
They do @Kita. Mostly all the drug stores. Only like $50 bucks and you can purchase it with HSA/FSA funds.
Cocoabana says:
yallcrazy says:
Cocoa, said to hell with the term “bi” if you gay, you gay
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Pretty much. That’s just me though
^^^
(as it related to bi for menz)

i, and i think jenie
@Auntie,
nope. i vented on this yesterday & folk got their boxers in a bunch on this very blog. aint that right @Jenie?
OTB, it’s later. still dont get it
Oh Aunt Tea
I thought they were praising him for “coming out” in a male dominated overly testosteroned, homophobic really, field…
Ms Sandra @Fayla

Sandra Rose says:
Can we talk about the fact that everyone is praising Frank Ocean for pursuing a man who was already in a relationship with a woman? Does he get a pass because he’s a gay celebrity, and gay celebrities are the poster children for tolerance?
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Aren’t they praising him admitting who he really is? How is he any different than everyone else who pursues the committed? Wouldn’t that question be more appropriate had the man actually cheated on her with Frank?
This is probably my favorite song from 4.
Boogie was you here when I fonted certain ppl see certain things and start salivating?
Thats what happened when you threw out some “dirt” on Beyonce… folks went to making mud pies. Not really but in my mind they did.
/stanning
last i checked, auntie, ur roses barely praise anybody
I praise Beysus.

OTB, ohhhhhhhhhhh, i been post-hopping. i see this now. guess who’s ‘in the know’ ?
this girl.
@ ELove…How I be would take a bottle of patron and a padded wall to get through.
@ Shaun…Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh do you have to prick yourself? I’m sure you do but, ion like needles.
<—Not a ppl person. Don't praise anybody.
:wave: <—a O for yew!
Sandra can you provide a
pls
Sup ROSES
I be back when there is something new to discuss
Yes, you have to prick your finger. I have a very high pain tolerance and needles dont bother me at all but you do have to use your finger. The worse spot imo.
I like Dimpz, she remains consistent in her dislike for Beyonce and not in haterish way lol
@ Shaun…Me too but, ION like needles.
NOw I don’t feel bad for saying how great Dwayne is in one breath then turning around and talking about his implants or some shyt.
@ Cocoa….I don’t dislike her, I just don’t “get” what a lot of ppl do about her. There are times when I FEEL her and time when i’m like, she need to stop this shyt.
NOw I don’t feel bad for saying how great Dwayne is in one breath then turning around and talking about his implants or some shyt.
What implants? Not “THE ROCK” right??
Dimpz,
Cocoa now you see why I love my Dimpz.
Its never straight hate with her. She analyzes. She thinks Bey is basic and doggoneit thats all to it.
#respecKitIcantcheckit 
See
I keep telling you there is nothing to get tho. She just a girl doing her thang, doing what she love with no apologies, no abandon. Thats what I love. 
I think Beyonce is basic too. Where’s my gotdamn love?
Wait is the implants the rock rock or in his chest muscles? #questionsthatneedanswers
she need to stop this shyt
Hilar.
Does your top lip curl?
I get like that.
I feel the same way about you, Yso
Fayla says:
nope. i vented on this yesterday & folk got their boxers in a bunch on this very blog.
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I’m sorry that I missed the conversation yesterday. Let’s put this into perspective: a man pursues another man who is already involved with a woman. But, because the man is a celebrity he gets a pass.
OutsidetheBox says:
I thought they were praising him for “coming out” in a male dominated overly testosteroned, homophobic really, field…
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I’m not bashing him for coming out. I’m saying let’s hold him to the same standards that we hold a Fantasia or Alicia Keys.
@ Bibi: why do we bash Alicia Keys and Fantasia for breaking up a woman’s home, but we don’t bash Frank?
BoogieNites says:
last i checked, auntie, ur roses barely praise anybody
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I’m referring to the praise being heaped on him by the media and people in general, not my readers.
Let’s put this into perspective: a man pursues another man who is already involved with a woman. .
Who pursued whom tho?!
Let me go re-read that love letter? (I just want an excuse to reread it because it was so beautiful)
*rings the Let’s Bash Him bell*
Go Roses!
Vdot, can you bring the letter back in the room?
Who’s home did he wreck?
I see.
Did he actually “wreck” the home? I thought the dude was like nah son..? Obviously I need to re-read.
Sandra Rose says:
@ Bibi: why do we bash Alicia Keys and Fantasia for breaking up a woman’s home, but we don’t bash Frank?
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Because they were actually successful at their homewrecking. Frank was not. Had the object of his affection actually responded to his advances we’d be having a different conversation.
ummm who talmbout the Rock got implants?
yallcrazy says:
RIP Teena Marie
On a starry winter night in Portugal
Where the ocean kissed the southern shore
There a dream I never thought would come to pass
Came and went like time spent through and hourglass
You made love to me like fire and rain
Ooh, you know you’ve got to be a hurricane
Killing me with kisses, oh, so subtly
You make love forever, baby
You make love forever
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
You’ve got to say you love me too
I ain’t gonna let you go that easy
I’m gonna give it all to you
OMG…….Its so random you through one of my favs into the mix out of know where…Theres a reason Im drawn to you

Im just a little bitty particle of hurt and sorrow baybae…I bet you cant name that tune without using google
Whoever you are. Wherever you are… I’m starting to think we’re a lot alike. Human beings spinning on blackness. All wanting to be seen, touched, heard, paid attention to. My loved ones are everything to me here. In the last year or 3 I’ve screamed at my creator, screamed at clouds in the sky, for some explanation. Mercy maybe. For peace of mind to rain like manna somehow. 4 summers ago, I met somebody. I was 19 years old. He was too. We spent that summer, and the summer after, together. Everyday almost. And on the days we were together, time would glide. Most of the day I’d see him, and his smile. I’d hear his conversation and his silence…until it was time to sleep. Sleep I would often share with him. By the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant. It was hopeless. There was no escaping, no negotiating with the feeling. No choice. It was my first love. It would change my life. Back then my mind would wander to the women I had been with, the ones I cared for and thought I was in love with. I reminisced about the sentimental songs I enjoyed when I was a teenager. The ones I played when I experienced a girlfriend too quickly. Imagine being thrown from a plane. I wasn’t in a plane though. I was in a Nissan Maxima, the same car I packed up with bags and drove to Los Angeles in. I sat there and told my friend how I felt. I wept as the words left my mouth. I grieved for then. Knowing I could never take them back for myself. He patted my back. He said kind things. He did his best, but he wouldn’t admit the same. He had to go back inside soon. It was late and his girlfriend was waiting for him upstairs. He wouldn’t tell the truth about his feelings for me for another 3 years. I felt like I’d only imagined reciprocity for years. Now imagine being thrown from a cliff. No, I wasn’t on a cliff. I was still in my car telling myself it was gonna be find and to take deep breaths. I took the breaths and carried on. I kept up a peculiar friendship with him because I couldn’t imagine keeping up my life without him. I struggled to master myself and my emotions. I wasn’t always successful.
The dance went on. I kept the rhythm for several summers after. It’s winter now. I’m typing this on a plane back to Los Angeles from New Orleans. I flew home for another marred Christmas. I have a windowseat. It’s December 27, 2011. By now I’ve written two albums. This being the second. I wrote to keep myself busy and sane. I wanted to create worlds that were rosier than mine. I tried to channel overwhelming emotions. I’m surprise at how far all of it has taken me. Before writing this I’d told some people my story. I’m sure these people kept me alive, kept me safe. Sincerely, these are the folks I wanna thank from the floor of my heart. Everyone of you knows who you are. Great humans, probably angels. I don’t know what happens now. And that’s alrite. I don’t have any secrets I need kept anymore. There’s probably some small shit still, but you know what I mean. I was never alone, as much as it felt like it. As much as I still do sometimes. I never was. I don’t think I ever could be. Thanks. To my first love, I’m grateful for you. Grateful that even thought it wasn’t what I hoped for and even thought it was never enough, it was. Some things never are. And we were. I won’t forget you. I won’t forget the summer. I’ll remember who I was when I met you. I’ll remember who you were and how we’ve both changed and stayed the same. I’ve never had more respect for life and living than I have right now. Maybe it takes a near death experience to feel alive. Thanks. To my mother. You raised me strong. I know I’m only brave because you were first. So thank you. All of you. For everything good. I feel like a free man. If I listen closely, I can hear the sky falling too.
– Frank
See auntie we are deffinitely on the same page
Good topic
U gotta b married to hava home to wreck. I learned on here dat u can’t even cheat if yooz not hitched ! #themoreuknow
4 summers ago, I met somebody. I was 19 years old. He was too
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How old is Kanye?
Sandra, comparing Frank to Alicia and Fanny is apple and oranges. You post all the time about true love developing over time and thats what he had with his friend. He seemed like he needed that confirmation that the feeling was mutual, you can’t help who you love and timing might not be perfect…now if he was out and open, it would be a different story, but this was his first love…
Ty says:
Good topic
^^Hey cutie,,,Really? Its tired to me,,,But to each his own,,,So hows things workin out for you? I read on face book that the extensive kegel routine the docs put you on is finally starting to work. Who would have thought all those years of you thinking you were this highly sexual person who squirted during sex was really just a woman suffering from extreme incontinence

I’m just waiting for the next big news story in hip hop b/c I’m on Frank Ocean/gay/coming out letter overload. Just not that exciting or newsworthy, imo
I BET you’re wrong Fattie!
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Vdot *going back to read letter*
I need a RECAP on this letter. Can somebody cut and paste only the good parts or something.
<–ain't reading all that!
Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo says:
Ty says:
Good topic
^^Hey cutie,,,Really? Its tired to me,,,But to each his own,,,So hows things workin out for you? I read on face book that the extensive kegel routine the docs put you on is finally starting to work. Who would have thought all those years of you thinking you were this highly sexual person who squirted during sex was really just a woman suffering from extreme incontinence
I still have my pelvic floor
Turn around so I can braid your back hair :hehehehe: Where is my Independence gift cheap azz? I dont want a gift card from Free Yourself Bail Bonds either 
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Oh hell naw BrenBren
#twonandnem
I need a RECAP on this letter. Can somebody cut and paste only the good parts or something.
<–ain't reading all that! .
yallcrazy says:
gonna read all of that?!
I need a RECAP on this letter. Can somebody cut and paste only the good parts or something.
<–ain't reading all that!
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he met a guy when he was 19 and the dude was the same age. They spent a lot of time together and he ended up falling in love, and told ol boy how he felt, but the guy couldnt say the same. But he kept him in his life, because he couldnt love life without him…. i think i got it
Thank you LaFace because
#enoughisenough 
Lemme go scan this ish
I dont want a gift card from Free Yourself Bail Bonds either
Im happy for Frank
I guess Im a bit more liberal than some of yall. Reading deep into his coming out party is not in the cards for me. I wish him well. I know it wont happen in my life time, but maybe one day us Negroes can be like some of the other races. They support eachother, help one another, hand businesses down to their family members…Working in an area with a large population of Armenians has opened up my eyes to so many things. All those stores in the area are ran by family. Family who passed it down or on from one to another. Black folks would rather see the sh*t burn down than pass it on to some one else. Dont nobody do nothing for me…Dont nobody support me…Well bish, why dont you be the first. IJS…Excuse my rambling….
Ramble your ass and see what I fonted you in 256 (there’s an Oreo there) #thatalwaysworks
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I read it
BUT, what’s this mean:
“He wouldn’t tell the truth about his feelings for me for another 3 years”
“He wouldn’t tell the truth about his feelings for me for another 3 years”
Tell us what he said son!
The dude couldnt say I love you back,,,Thats all I see in that,,,Ive had women say I love you,,,I thought it was too soon—My response…THANK YOU
But yeah I think Frank is saying it took dude 3yrs to express his true feelings 