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Normally I ignore all communications from readers regarding that other lesbun blogger who has been so disrespectful to me in the past. But in the new year I have decided to forgive my enemies and instead I will show them love and understanding.

Yesterday, a loyal reader sent this photo of Necole that was sufficiently alarming enough to rate a response from me. She does look sick -- and not in a good way. Like she might be anorexic -- or lonely and depressed.

Necole, if you need any help kicking your habit, you have my number.

Loyal reader Simone writes:

Hi Sandra,

I know you and Necole B*** had beef in the past but I was wondering if you saw the pictures from her alter ego shoot? Sandra she looks like a 12 year old boy on crack. I think she needs an intervention. Maybe you should post this picture in the hopes that she sees it and checks herself into rehab.


To add this pic sent in by loyal reader Stacy. It's supposedly Necole dressed up as Rihanna on the cover of her platinum CD 'Rated R'. I don't think celebrity photographer Derek Blanks likes Necole very much.

The NY Post wrote a scathing piece today slamming burlesque singer Beyonce for performing a private 1-hour concert for the son of Muslim Libyan terrorist, Moammar Khadafy.

This is more evidence that celebrities will do anything for money and fame.

Beyonce performed for an hour on New Year's Eve at a party thrown by terror-backing Libyan dictator Moammar Khadafy's son, Hannibal, who has a long record of violence against women.

Some vacationers on the island were aghast. DJ Sam Young tweeted: "Jigga [Jay-Z], Beyonce & Usher were @ Nikki Beach performing for Khadafy family, WTF?" Read More...

Apparently, Khadafy's son Hannibal beat his wife to a pulp inside their hotel room over the Christmas holidays. The wife suffered a broken nose, among other injuries, and had to be hospitalized.

The criticism is so damaging that Beyonce's camp at first denied that Beyonce received a $2 million fee to perform. Then they denied that Beyonce even performed. But music magnate Russell Simmons already tweeted the pics from the concert and confirmed that she was there performing. It remains to be seen how this one will play out.

Thanks to loyal reader Gina for the tip!

We know that R&B singer Usher was in St. Barths with his lady love Grace Miguel (who moved into his Atlanta mansion last year). So why is he holding hands with a man? We're going to give Ush the benefit of the doubt and say that's his bodyguard.

Rapper Drake was spotted out & about in Miami over the holiday weekend. We see at least one thing he got for Christmas. That Hermes belt retails for about $350. By the way, did you know that Drake got a jump down pregnant and she either aborted the baby or lost it? Notice I wrote "jump down" and not jump off. Anyway, that's the rumor that's going around the industry. I'll post her pic as soon as I gather a little more intel.


A couple of loyal readers emailed me to ask what death by "natural causes" means. In the last three weeks we've read about two high profile deaths attributed to natural causes: actress Brittany Murphy and heiress Casey Johnson, who was found dead in LA yesterday morning.

Death by natural causes simply means the deceased had a preexisting condition (disease, long term illness, etc.) that caused the death. Natural causes also applies if the coroner can't find a cause of death and there is no evidence of foul play or homicide.

Hospitals are known to cover up medical negligence cases by attributing a patient's death to natural causes. The patient's death is by natural causes, therefore, there is usually no autopsy performed. It's left up to the patient's family to demand an autopsy if there is any hint that negligence was involved.

In Brittany Murphy's case, she was diagnosed with type 2 (non-insulin dependent) diabetes and was reportedly very sick (nausea and vomiting) for days before she collapsed and died of cardiac arrest. It's very likely that her cardiac arrest was brought on by severe dehydration from vomiting.

Remember that rush you felt the first time you saw the movie trailer for The Matrix? Well, get ready. The laughs start about 11 seconds into this trailer for the movie 'Hit Girl' coming to a theater near you this Spring. Your kids will never be the same after watching this movie.


I keep forgetting that sistas are into down low men now as long as they don't drag their trades home with them or embarrass her in front by eyeballing her male friends in her presence. These are desperate times we're living in, what with so many successful single black women and so few available straight black men.

Model Keston Carter is ESSENCE magazine's "Eye candy of the week." I'm sure ESSENCE mag is well aware of the rumors and the fact that KK is, or was, Terrell Carter's eye candy. But they are trying to sell magazines. And since he plays his role very well...

I'll let my loyal reader tell it:

LOL!!! YESSSS speaking of gay, look who is this week's Essence Eye Candy Of The week....

Now I know for FACT that brotha is on the DL and nooobody can tell me otherwise I know the BOY he use to "talk" to. He may be hiding it now that he is out more in the industry but Sandra he's gay and is NOT interested in any women. He uses them to sell his calendars. But the boy he use to talk to told me Keston will be appearing in Letoya Luckett's new video. And is really trying hard to put those "gay rumors" to rest. I'll keep you posted we may have another Terrell Carter scandal on our hands.

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Police are looking into whether the death of a Hollywood Socialite was caused by natural causes, suicide or a homicide. Casey Johnson, heiress to the Johnson & Johnson fortune, was found dead early yesterday morning in L.A. Police say Johnson had been dead for several days. She was 30.

Johnson was recently engaged to bisexual reality TV personality Tila Tequila. According to who spoke with Tequila earlier today:

She says they were fighting last week and that Casey stayed at Tila's house on the 28th. Tila tried contacting Casey on the 29th because Casey had left her dogs behind. Tila says Casey's phone has been shut off since the 29th and she was not able to make contact. Read More...

Johnson was arrested in November for grand theft. The victim was a former girlfriend. Johnson's father is Woody Johnson -- owner of the New York Jets.

Photo: Wireimage/Getty

Whatever happened to the days when bloggers exercised our freedom to express our opinions, and celebrities (or in this case, pseudo-celebrities) would just ignore us and go on about their business?

Don't they understand that when they respond to us bloggers they only magnify the situation and make it bigger than what it is?

Here's what singer Keri Hilson tweeted on her Twitter page just a few hours ago:

Now that message doesn't jibe with the photo does it? "Not 1 oz of negativity"? "Keep it positive"? That photo doesn't look very positive does it? This is a classic case of a celebrity who thinks her fans are dumb and blind. Maybe where Keri is from, the middle finger is a symbol of peace, love and respect.

Why is anyone surprised that Ludacris has a girlfriend? We already know he's not gay. Lawd knows he's one of the few heterosexual men in all of Hip Hop. It's common knowledge that Luda broke up with his baby mama Christine eons ago. By the way, in case you forgot, Christine is an Atlanta based attorney, who stacks her own paper thank you very much.

I bet I know her. It's so hard to tell the difference between these Atlanta chicks. They all look alike. No originality whatsoever. But doesn't Luda's girlfriend look clean and wholesome like he found her in a library or in a grocery store aisle?


Alert readers emailed me to say that Antonia "Toya" Carter was displeased with my earlier post about her boy toy, rapper Memphitz. Toya took to her Twitter page to say:


Now, I just know Toya isn't calling me a liar when there was a room full of people who heard exactly what her daughter said? In fact, my home girl was also in the room and she heard every word. Neither of us could understand why a grown man would want to push a small child's face in? Especially when the accidental knock down was clearly unintentional on the boy's part.

It seems to me that Toya is being overly sensitive about my post because I implied that her boyfriend was less than a man for wanting to fight a little kid. I suppose she felt the need to go there and defend his manhood especially after reading the part where I wrote: "I just can't see James Hardy on school grounds trying to push a little kid's face in."

Or maybe Toya was feeling some kind of way because my loyal reader wrote in to say that Memphitz was stepping out on her already?